All of my first cousins are about 5-10 years older than me. I am 16. Most of them are married with kids now. They all like 500-600 miles away, and I have only seen them a limited number of times, I saw them yesterday for the first time in years, but didn't talk much. They are pretty much adults except for one who is 21. I remember when they were teenagers and I was just old enough to remember stuff doing things when we visited, like we all went to this massive amusement park as a family, prank calling, making plans to go to that amusement park, etc. I was only 6 or 8 years old. I barely remember it, but I long for those memories. It has been bugging me for a long time. I really miss those times, and am really sad and depressed that they are gone forever. How do I get over this?

el papa de mi hija y yo estamos separados hace 2 anios nuestra hija tiene 3 en ese tiempo intentamos arreglarnos unas 2 veces y no funciono porque el nunca cambio , es muy mujeriego y poco carinoso , so lo deje , hace 9 meses me mude de estado y el se quedo solo en el otro lugar siempre dijo k no me perdonaria k hubiera hecho eso y pues lo hize por mi bien y por el de mi hija el cuando estaba conmigo era buen padre pero desde k nos separamos no lo es tengo un periodo de 7 meses k no hablo con el pork me aleje pork no vi interes de el por la nina me desilucione y deje de hablarle pues ahora esta preso algo raro pork no era persona violenta ni delincuente pero empezo en malas juntillas y lo metieron preso por 5 meses ( no fue tan grave ) la cosa es k le envio una carta a su hermano diciendole k me buscara y que por favor yo que le enviara cartas k keria saber de mi y la nina y como mencione antes tenemos 7 meses sin hablar deberia escrivirle y decirle k la nina esta bien ? siempre he sonado con un solo padre de mis hijos y el no fue mala persona solo era muy mujeriego pero k hagooo ???????

Recently since my co worker I was really close to died, I've become really close with her sister. We have bonded over the loss and often tell each other stories of her, fun times we had and share old pictures. I'm just wondering but why does she randomly message me old stories of her? Or dreams she had of her sister (my co worker)? I don't have a problem with it at all, I'm just wondering because I never seemed to understand why she chooses to tell me

Ok so about two and and a half year I had a crush on this guy, when I first started at this school. And it was a really long one. It turned out that I liked him, because he was the first one to talk and greeted him and actually toke an interest in me. I ended up getting a crush on him, since I didn't really had any friends and no one really talked to me, so he kinda made me feel welcome and accepted. I never confessed, so I didn't get to know whenever he liked me or not, though he friendly teased me a lot. Eventually my feelings for him disappeared and I slightly feel cold towards. Though he did accept and welcome me, he isn't exactly the best guy, especially not for me. He sometimes speak blunt with a sharp tongue, and doesn't care if it hurts anyones feelings, he sometimes is respectless to the teachers and disrupts the class, he slanders other people a lot. So he is kinda a two sided person. Even though I'm over him and doesn't care for him at all, we hardly talk to each other today. I sometimes have dreams about him, about us being romantically interested in each other. It can varies whenever I have those dreams, but they don't seem to dissapear. What is this?

I'm friendly with my ex, and at first I wanted to get back with him, but he's 33 this year, & we broke up because he says his life is a mess. he could get promoted easily but doesn't want it. He rents a flat where he was taking the wifi from upstairs. He didn't pay his phone bill, so bought a new sim. He says he never really likes anyone (women), & his friend who he sees everyday is a 40 or 50 year old guy that can't get out of bed. He seems to have no drive, or save money & I don't know if he's depressed. He doesn't see his family & his mum died young. He said I made him happy when we met, but he didn't make any real effort & our relationship got boring. He would hold hands with me everywhere & sometimes he used to sigh when we hugged & say "what am I gonna do with you?". I was always staying at his & he met my friends, but not my family. Felt too nervous that my dad would judge him. He had an operation on his leg a few days ago & I know there was no one there (he's put me as next of kin at his work) - but obviously now we're not together. I care for him like a friend, but why does he want to waste his life? He also grew distant for over a week about a month into our relationship & said he has no motivation.

e weren't dating exclusively but Lisa knows the other woman I've been seeing and she is crazy jealous whenever she sees pictures of us together. The last two days she's been trying to break up with me. On Sunday we went and had a nice walk on the lake, right after she told me she was done but I took her out and we spent the night. Later yesterday, she saw a picture on FB of me hanging out with Candy and she was really upset. They are both crazy! Candy is alot of fun, she's kind of ghetto but we have fun. I've also recently learned that Candy is sleeping with other men. Lisa, is more laid back but she goes crazy calling and sending texts when she knows I'm out with Candy. She seems really demanding and insecure sometimes. Lisa sent me one last text yesterday and said she's tired of being ignored and that she's leaving me alone. I called an hour later and my calls are going straight to voicemail. She has also deleted me off of facebook. I'm not ready to end things with Lisa. I think she's been turning her phone off and getting slower to respond. She called me last night and when I tried to call back calls were going straight to voicemail. She wouldn't respond to texts. I went to a party that I thought she'd be at last night and she wasn't there. I text her this morning and asked if she was ok. I called and she finally called back. I don't want to lose her but I can feel that she's trying to let go. How do I change that?

Okay him their both 12 im 12 too. So I was hearing like moans and groans I thought someone was in pain because I don't really know sex sounds that well I'm too young. I opened the door quickly and they were both watching people having sex!! The title of the website said pornhub idk what pornhub is but whatever. They weren't touching each other they were just sitting there but my brother was rubbing HIS PENIS but only through his pants. They looked at me and ran out the room I would tell my mom but she's never home shes a on call doctor and I don't wanna tell her over text or call her so what do I do?? Okay I searched up is porn bad for kids it was illegal to watch porn in our state if u were a minor do I call the police or something I'm really worried this will progress to something more like you know them having the you know what AND I DONT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN

My mom and her husband have been together about 7 years now, and I honestly never really liked the guy. I think he's lazy, simple-minded, and very manipulative. I've always been polite to him for my moms sake. Anyways, I got into a car accident a few days ago and had to borrow my moms car since I didn't have rental reimbursement. After a few days, I noticed my mom's brakes were wearing out and phoned my mom about it. She told me to come over her house so her husband can take a look at it, and when he takes a look, he says the brakes are fine and don't need to be changed since he changed it last year. I told him it def. needed to be changed, because I shouldn't have to press down hard to get it brake. He proceeded to argue with me, and told me to stfu, and to pay for it to get fixed if I'm so concerned. I got extremely pissed because no one has EVER disrespected me like that, and no one has EVER talked to me in such way even if there was a heated conversation. I just got up and left. The next day my mom calls and said her husband called a mechanic and it actually DOES need new brakes and attempted to apologize. I'm not accepting a non genuine apology, it didn't even come directly from him, he went through my mom. I told my mom I was completely done with her husband, no need to apologize. I'll continue to at least tolerate the guy, but nothing more than that. am I overreacting? I just can NOT tolerate that kind of disrespect, especially when I'm only looking out for MY mom.

To all the ex drug (coke, meth, ect.) addicts, how long did you do drugs for till you realized you needed to stop? What made you realize you had to stop? Is it hard? What made things easier to stop? What made things harder? The longer your story, the better. I just wanted to know to help a dear friend of mine... to see if theres hope... Sorry if my spelling/grammar is off. Its 4:30 am here. Tired.

Well I have a cousin, and he's only a few months older than me. But I remember when we were a little younger, he told me he liked me. But we were around the age of 7, so he probably didn't realize exactly what he was saying. But anyway, I can't stop thinking about him. Normally, I just think about how we hung out at the petting zoo and the fun times we had together. But he's my only male cousin. So I'm not sure if I would typically feel the same way about another male cousin. And I'm also an adolescent, and I'm not even sure what an actual "crush" is, anymore. So, I just really want answers. Because I mean, I've only had one dream where as we actually kissed. But other than that, it's normally just times we had together. And also, we have much of a "love hate" cousin relationship. And sometimes he'll sneak in my room and throw pillows at my butt while I'm sleeping. It's kinda weird. But anyway, is this a crush like I would have on another guy? Or is it that I just really love him as my cousin? And if you guys think it's a crush, is it wrong?

3 months ago when I was a high school senior this teacher gave me their # and agreed to "hang out" with me after school. Now I'm being coached and I realize what a fool I was. They bailed cause they were "tired" and replied to my text in the car, then had the audacity to smile and wave at me and I had the foolishness to do so and long story short they'd bail on me then turn around and smile in my face. But I take that as a learning experience, I'm over it but my coaching brought it up and I noticed red flags.

what's wrong with him? I WANT TO KILL HIM. but i don't want his family to suffer

I'm in university and I have a part-time job. I'm majoring in English, which isn't the best degree to get to find a job right after graduation. On top of that I'm graduating a year late. I got a job a few months ago and I'm saving up some money so I can move out one day (I still live at home). I feel really upset with where my life is right now. I still feel like I'm in my late teens, yet here I am at the big age of 21. I thought about technical writing as a possible career option, so it's not like I don't have any plans. But I get this feeling that I should already have my life together at this age but I don't.

My dad and mom had been married for over ten years when they got a divorce. He began dating a woman he worked with, and she got pregnant during the time of separation (before the official divorce). Therefore, they have a child together, and eventually got married. Now they have been together for a long time, but the woman he married does not like me or my sister, and despises my mother, even though it has been years. We did not do anything to her, but she says we don't like her and say horrible things about her. I have spoken with my dad about this many times, and he just says the same thing over and over again, that we have to be nice to her and that she feels that we attack her and do not like her. He also likes to mention that "she is his wife now and a part of the family and to treat her as such." He also says that if we don't like her we don't have to spend time with him or her. Now this has been going on for years, and I don't see an end to it. His son (my half brother) is the center of his life and he acts like he is his only child, and forgets about my sister and I, who he rarely sees, maybe every 5 months. Its sad to see him doing things with my half brother, and ignoring me like I don't exist. Every time I ask to spend time with him he says he has to work, but yet when I call him he is at home, and usually spending time with his new family. I am just not sure what to do or whether it is worth it to keep trying to make a relationship with him.

Hi I am a performer and I recently got a job offer for 7 months in Japan doing what I love but I'll only be 18 when/ if i take it and although it's what I'd love to do I am PETRIFIED and don't know whether to take the risk. I'm a very anxious person when I'm not performing and I'm currently moving on to do A levels next year- they're not what I'm interested in I just was doing them to be safe. I was not planning on uni because I don't feel I'm capable enough so if I don't even feel I could do that how could I move to Japan? I don't know what to think. I don't feel anywhere near mature enough but it is a dream job with amazing salary free travel etc. Do I just go for it?

So I go for lunch in this cafe lately this guy started talking to me he asked me a few times what was my name on another day something I wanted to order for lunch wasn't there he said give me your no and I'll let you know if it will be back I'm confused what does he mean help

I have the opportunity to attend a college in Texas state and live with my cool Aunt and Uncle. I currently live in New York. I have a boyfriend that I have been with forever, that I am truly in love with and this isn't just young love, I can see my future in him. I have two young sisters that are gonna need me growing up. I have two loving parents. I have my CLOSEST friends that I've growed up with, and have loved me and supported me and appreciated me and made me who I am. If I go, I will have to leave this all behind. My sisters and my boyfriend is what is killing me the most, I don't know what's the best decision for me. I need words of advice.

I recently had an ectopic pregnancy 5 weeks ago. I was 7 weeks one day pregnant. We weren't a couple it was a brief fling. The baby's father was away on holiday so I messaged him on Facebook telling him I was pregnant and I lost the baby due to an ectopic pregnancy he was in Argentina at the time. He lives outside town but will be back for college in a few weeks. He's never once asked how I was or asked anything about the baby apart from "are you still pregnant" and "have you any scans, certs or medical reports". I sent him the images from the hospital such as the IV line, my wrist band and a few other images. He wanted to meet me and travel to town to talk I declined because it was too soon after the surgery and he said "I'll give you 5 mins and say what you have to say" when he seen the pictures he changed it to an hour. I didn't have any scans at the time why would I? He then blocked me on Facebook on 2 of my accounts when I said I'll get him a scan of the baby he responded "I thought you had a miscarriage". I recently got pictures of the ultrasound and I am thinking of sending them to him via a friend on Facebook. Why shouldn't he see these images? He wasn't one but nice to me. Anyone any opinions as to whether it's a good idea or not? He'll be back in a few weeks time so we're bound to bump into each other. Also to just to add we used protection. I provided it to him that night and he maintained it "fell off". I didn't realise this until he finished.

I'm 18, and live in Missouri while my girlfriend lives in CA. I'm planning on getting a part time job for a year while finishing my last year of high school so I would have enough money to saved up to move to CA.And I would live with my girlfriend while saving up for a trade school. But I was told that it is hard to find a job in CA let alone save up money with the higher Price of living CA has. I cant stand to be away from my girlfriend any longer but I don't know what to do. Please give me advice.

A little quick background, i graduated last year with a great degree but in my little town we have to take this very hard exam and pass it to be able to get into an interview. I took the exam last month and failed by 4 questions. I was do devastated it crushed me, Things are kind of tight financially (my husband is the only one working) and i am studying again for my exam but cannot take it until october. I have started saving recently and being very cheap on myself and i even returned the gifts i received on my birthday and now i have 500 dollars in savings so i call my husband and i happily tell him about my savings and we agree to meet somewhere to hang out, i was 1 min away from the meet up place when i got into an accident. The police didnt determine who was at fault but my husband says its mine based on where i was. Our detectable is 500 dollars :( i of course im paying that with my 4 month of savings and my husband is not speaking to me because he has to pay the increase in our insurance and says that our cars value has went down. I feel like i am the biggest failure ever! In one year i have accomplished nothing and made things worse financially for my husbands and i lost all my savings, i failed my exam and gained 20 pounds from being a stay at home mom and never really doing anything. Is it me or does life really hates me? I dont know what to do. I cant get a regular minimum wage job because i'll pay more for child care (i have no family in this town).

Be honest nobody gave a **** to visit me in the hospital. Nobody gave a **** to say thank you or reciprocate the love I give them. What do I get for telling people good morning and asking how they're doing I get told to eat *** kill myself and that I'm meaningless. What do I get nothing. Could you imagine there being family functions and your *** never gets invited cause **** you we don't give a **** about you your just a bastard. Society doesn't give a **** about me look at what they're doing to my people they're killing us and my race won't even accept cause I'm lightskinned **** that. **** my life. I'm fighting trying to take care of motherfuckers and those same nothing *** bitches want to come test me and say they gonna come kill me. **** it if I go on death row I'm killing myself and it'll be poetic justice. FML FML FML FML FML FML. I don't wanna play their games. Mgmt thinks I'm crazy. People offer me advice but I'm too passionate sorry execs but if you're not gonna help me than **** you. Right now I'm fighting for my life trying to lose the thought of suicide but it's not easy. I'm living better than others. These bitches that claimed to love me are dick riders **** em id rather die alone. I was born to die and we could lose two lives yours and mine I might inspire suicides but FML. Do u think I give a f bout myself when nobody has ever shown me love. My hearts been dead since the sperm hit the egg ufckers **** the ***** that saved my life from depression and suicide

One of my brother's had plans to do so. It's similar to living with family, also a little different. I just needed to open my mouth & say what I want.

We actually had a bit of conversation last week through whatsapp, and he said it's nice to kind of talk to me again. He was using smiley faces etc. I said yeah it is I guess, and he said yeah why not. He told me he was having an operation on his leg last Saturday, so I wished him good luck for it on the day,but I haven't asked how he is because I don't know what is right and wrong, since we're not going out. But could we be friends? A month before our conversation he text me saying he hopes I'm well, but we have only really properly spoken now. He's hardly ever online. We broke up because I don't think he's a relationship guy & he's 32 so I don't think that's going to change. He likes his own space and time and is used to being on his own. Not even that he's a womaniser or anything, he just is not that responsible or interested in commitment. He never cheated. Also I don't think he loves himself, so can never love anyone else fully. Should I have asked him how the op went?