Family: Question: Please help!?

Question: Please help!?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 02:03 PM PDT

Please help! I visit my mom because I live with my grandparents, (I have since birth) and I'm 13 now. I went there one day and it was my brother, my step dad, and I sitting In the living room. He told me to lay my head on his lap and I thought it was like a fatherly move to watch movies together. But apparently not because he slipped his hand under my shirt. I was like Uhm okay what's happening ?? He kept inching slower and slower until he was in my bra and he felt my area. I raised up because I was like hold on this is NOT okay.. And I went in the bathroom with my phone, then went to my cousins next door right after. He said he thought I was my mom because she lays there with him like that but I simply cannot understand how a grown man mistakes a 13 year old girl as his own wife? Then today I was playing a game and he layed beside me and tried to make another move. I don't know what to do because if I tell my grandparents he could go to jail and my mom would lose her house and maybe even the kids.. I'm really scared

Question: How am I wrong for saying no!?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:50 PM PDT

I have a friend saying I'm being a heartless b!÷€h. I have a 8 week old premie. The father called, and ask if he can take him out for ice cream. I said no babies can't have ice cream. Than he said let me taken him out to dinner. I said no! You can't take a baby out to eat. They can't eat adult food. My friend said I should allowed him to take him out dinner and get ice cream. By saying no to that I'm a byhx. I did say he can stop by the house but he didn't want that. How am I wrong?

Question: My parents took my phone away??

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:47 PM PDT

Im 15 and this summer my friend asked me to go to a concert and I was gonna pay with my own money that I made from babysitting but my mom wouldnt let me go so my friend and I made this plan so I could go but then my mom found out right before, she still let me go but the next day she took my phone and then my dad hid it. My mom says that im never getting it back but how do I convince them to give it to me? I cant talk to them about it because I have a terrible relationship with my parents so they have to give it to me willingly. School starts in 2 weeks and I dont think they will let me hang out with anyone the rest of summwr. I really do regret what I did and I feel super guilty about it. I actualy found my really old phone and Ihave been using that but they have no clue and it doesnt have a sim so I can only use apps and internet. How do I get my phone back and have them let me go out again?

Question: I need some ideas for my stepdads birthday card!!!?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:20 PM PDT

Its my stepdads birthday soon and I need some ideas of what to write in his card.... He has been like a real dad to me for 4 years. It is only a short time but it s unbelievable how much he has done for me in that time! I some times call him dad, thats how much i love him! Thank you guysss:))

Question: How is adulthood REALLY?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:11 PM PDT

I am starting high school and trying to change myself and getting good grades, so i can get a good job good income and all that, blah blah blah, but be honest i dont see a point, because based on how my parents life is, it looks terrible no offense, all they do it go to work and go to work and shop for groceries , and take care of me, doesnt seem much like a life, besides like a 7 day vacation vs like 300 days of work, is this really what it is? Work, kids, retire, die? I don't want this at all.

Question: Help ughh i hate ppl where i live?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:10 PM PDT

Ok so i will be now 17 yrs old and i was at the market with my dad and i said something whatt one man said and then one man said to me yea i knkw u are in those years puberty ahhh in front of everyone i was shocked in front of my dad what he knowss???? Ewwww disgusting Sorry for my english

Question: This whole summer so far I've been home taking care of my sick father. Is it normal to feel mad about being the only one whose caring?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 01:04 PM PDT

At times I feel like my family has taken advantage of me. I'm off for the summers due to my job (I teach) and my mother and brother get to go out and work. I haven't had much of a social life because I feel guilty stepping out and leaving my dad alone. I'm counted on for everything- being on top of his medication, exercising, preparing foods, making sure he's in a good mood... literally everything. I'm getting annoyed that my mom or brother haven't taken off any days to help me out. I need to prepare for this upcoming school year. I haven't done anything due to my crazy stress and anxiety. Now I'm so worried when September rolls around when I'll be teaching and attending graduate school. I feel so drained due to stress but I can't give up on my dad by putting him in a nursing home or hospice. It's not what I want to do. HELP!

Question: My six year old molested?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:47 PM PDT

My daughter lives with me(her mom), and my mother (her grandmother). She visits her father every other Saturday, and comes home on Sunday. My ex(her father) has his two other daughters(8&9yrs old) that same weekend. He lives with his girlfriend. She recently described a touch and name calling game and said she was mad at her sisters, didn't want to go to her dad's house. She went from saying her sister's and cousin poked each other's clothed parts, all body parts even including butt/genital. Then she talked to her grandma, whom then said my daughter was claiming they were trying to put fingers in her butt. Then I talked to my daughter more, and asked if Daddy touched her, and she said yes, but she had said no when I first asked her. Her story has changed. Im worried her Grandmother or I may have confused or even coerced her to change her story. My mother (her grandmother) also hates my ex, and never wanted my daughter to visit him, so I'm worried that she may be manipulating the situation a little. I ask her why she's so upset to go and she also says it's because she is homesick, misses mommy and grandma. What do you think?

Question: Need help trying to tell my mom I'm leaving the country?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:38 PM PDT

Basically im an 18 year old girl who has a boyfriend living in America (i live in canada ) My mom and whole family knows about him to a certain extent and I've even let my little siblings skype him a few times here and there. Basically I wanna go see him in America for 3 days so we can bond and explore and it can be a new opportunity. I love him and we've been together for a year now I think its time we see one another. So I wanted to go on a Friday and then come back Monday and I've been thinking of what to say because I wanted to book my flight the last week of this month which is August. I'm already showing her that I'm mature enoygh because I'm going to work and I've already traveled alone to england and jamaica in the past but that was when I was smaller and going to a relatives place.

Question: My baby is crying for my breast but I am driving a long ride and my dad is in the hospital so I can't stop read more?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:31 PM PDT

Should my best friend who is 3 months pregnant breastfeed my daughter? She won't stop crying. She is 12 months old and my friend is 18 years old

Question: Does my cousin hate me.?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:27 PM PDT

When I went to visit I asked if he wanted to hang out and he said no, when I asked if he wanted to go to the beach he said "I despise the beach" Yet all last week he went on a beach holiday (I wasn't invited on the holiday) with the rest of our cousins. Why would my cousin go on holiday with the rest of the family yet leave me to walk around alone. I visited him BEFORE he and the rest of my relatives went on their family holiday.

Question: What do I do with my dad? He's the worst?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:25 PM PDT

Hi So my dad is an alcoholic (Reason why my mom divorced him). He is a liar. A big liar. And also a loser. He literally does nothing at all. He has been sitting at home for 3 years and lies about not being able to find a job. He tells me ''He's not going to do work he doesn't want to''. But he tells my sisters he's too old and can't find a job. He lied to my mom about quitting smoking so he could buy a new Mercedes with their savings. So they bought one (before they divorced of course) and nope. He didn't even quit smoking for a day. I'm living with him now because it's closest to college. I'm moving out in 3 months because I can't live with this pig. I tell my sisters I never want to see him again because he's bringing me down. My sisters reply with ''Well he's your dad blah blah''. This idiot literally drinks 3 LITERS of beer a day. It disgust me. He sits all day on the balcony hoping he sees someone outside so he can blame Syrian refugees or whatever muslim for no reason and chat about other stupid ****. What disgusts me most is that he lies for sympathy. He wants people to pity him (Trust me I know this). He lies hoping people say, oh my goodness your life must be so hard. He actually flamed me for not paying him more money :') because he's living with very little. I want him to pass away so I don't have explaining to do when I marry in the future. Isn't that shameful? To say that you don't want to introduce your dad because his drunk *** is going to ruin any meeting.

Question: Should I buy a bikini behind my parents back?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:15 PM PDT

My parents are super conservative and they think like bikinis are disgusting and the evil spawn of the earth and way too revealing and over their dead bodies is wear one. So I wear one pieces but now I'm 14 and all my friends wear bikinis and they're so cute and comfortable and I was wondering if I should just buy one behind their back with my friends and wear it when they're not around? I mean I roll my shorts up when they're not around and I can't wear spaghetti straps without a cardigan so I take the cardigans off. I feel kind of bad but not really and idk. Should i?

Question: Help... My mom is obsessed with my appearance?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:09 PM PDT

I'm 13, and my mom is a regular mom. She makes me snacks and stuff, she's there for me, all that. Except, she's freakishly obsessed with how I look. I get in the car, she asks, "why aren't you wearing mascara? why didn't you curl your lashes? Put on some lipstick, did you put on pimple cream? Your acne will take over your face, you'll be ugly!!!!" In front of my family and my friends, she comments on my clothes and my makeup and it's so embarrassing! Please help!!

Question: What would you name this C themed family?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:07 PM PDT

Surname: Coppage, Collins, Coliander, Cress Dad -- fn: Cameron mn: Cooper, Caleb, Christopher, Cole Mom -- fn: Cynthia mn: Corrie, Cailyn, Cheyenne, Celeste Daughter -- fn: Chloe mn: Cora, Cadence, Chanel, Chelsie Daughter -- fn: Callie mn: Colette, Christyn, Cassandra, Celina Twin Daughter -- fn: Claire mn: Cosette, Carley, Coryn, Carla Twin Daughter -- fn: Caroline mn: Camille, Cleo, Candace, Colleen Son -- fn: Camden mn: Charles, Cody, Colby, Chad Son -- fn: Colin mn: Conner, Chet, Conrad, Chance Twin Son -- fn: Carter mn: Cohen, Cade, Campbell, Caden Twin Son -- fn: Carson mn: Chase, Colton, Corbin, Channing Daughter -- fn: Catheryn mn: Casey, Cassidy, Caryn, Carmen Daughter -- fn: Catelyn mn: Cathleen, Courtney, Ciara, Cher Son -- fn: Croix mn: Christian, Cash, Cal, Cannon Son -- fn: Chandler mn: Creed, Carlisle, Caven, Chesney . Cameron Cole Coppage + Cynthia Corrie Coppage Chloe Cadence Coppage Callie Colette Coppage *Claire Carley Coppage *Caroline Candace Coppage Camden Charles Coppage Colin Conner Coppage *Carter Cohen Coppage *Carson Chase Coppage Catheryn Casey Coppage Catelyn Ciara Coppage Croix Christian Coppage Chandler Caven Coppage

Question: I'm Done With My Boring Family. Help?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 12:03 PM PDT

Hi! I'm a 15 year-old guy, and my entire family tree is so boring. We never do anything, and when we do it's a bunch of little kid crap. Most of the kids in my family are a lot younger than me, so I guess it would make sense. But I shouldn't be forced to take part in a dumb thing just to make a bunch of little brats happy. Nobody stood around pretending to have fun when I was a little kid and tried to stand out. In fact, a couple of my older cousins and even some of my uncles bullied me for it. Why should I do the something nice for the new brats? The only things I've done this Summer was staying at my home alone and playing video games, and spending time with my family (on once a week occasion). I'm not a family man, I have to have excitement in my life to function properly. I can't hang out with my friends, because they all go on vacation and other cool things. At the beginning of the Summer, my friends were planning a day at a lake with jet skis and all that. My parents said I couldn't go, and my girlfriend ditched me for a guy she met at the party. I hate my family! Is there any way to fake my death, or another thing to ditch my family?

Question: How do you cope with a family of jerks?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:54 AM PDT

Since I was young Ive never felt any support from my mother or brother. They have always mocked me, felt very competitive, been critical of me, and just have been jerks. My mother even though she raised me was pretty much neglectful when my father left. She found a new boyfriend and forgot she had kids and would leave the state for weeks at a time while we were teenagers to be with her boyfriend (who was a lot younger than her). My mother has always tried to control me as an adult yet is never emotionally supportive and will and mouth me behind my back. She bad mouths everyone behind their backs, even her close friends and thinks its funny to mock people in order to be the center of attention. My brother is also not the nicest guy but is worse when he's around my mother. I recently got a really good job after graduating form college and am moving an hour away from them. How do I deal with them when they try to be involved in my life?

Question: Should I tell my parents about my brother's purchase?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:51 AM PDT

I'm 22 and live on my own in another state. My older brother who is 24 lives with my parents. He graduated college last year and has been having a lot of trouble finding a job. My family is pretty well-off, and my parents are huge about financial discipline. This has been something my brother has struggled with and it causes some stress in the family. Our parents gave us a loan to get our first car when we turned 18. My brother chose a very expensive and nice car and still owes them over $10k. He decided to go to the University of Alabama (out of state) and has a large student loan payment. My parents have really been trying to help him get his finances in order so he can attempt to pay his student loans. My brother said he didn't have enough money to pay back the car, and apparently they aren't really expected him to pay it. When he graduated he spent all of his graduation money getting a $2000 AR-15. Needless to say my parents were rather upset, but they forgave him. Recently, he had about $1200 in his savings, and instead of using it on his student loans, bought a $900 handgun. He bragged about his purchase to me, but then said "Oh, can you do me a favor and not tell Mom and Dad about this." I had a really good chat with him about trying to work on paying back my parents, but he said he will not return the gun. Should I warn my parents about his purchase? I fear he will not have enough money to pay his student loans, and will force them to pay it for him.

Question: I have killed a rat,Will his/her family will come after me?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:40 AM PDT

He entered my flat from a window, I ran after him and he went to the kitchen,I closed the door and went out of the kitchen and wore my boots and got a stick and entered the kitchen.I KICKED HIS LITTLE AS S and killed him,then buy him in a bag and throw him out of my home. I don't know , should I be worried that his family will take revenge of me ? I'm closing all the windows and doors now. put him *

Question: MY LITTLE BROTHER DRUNK BLEACH AND HE IS LITERALLY PURPLE AND IM HOME ALONE WHAT DO I DO?! HELP I'M SCARED AND TRYING TO CALM HIM DOWN!����?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:33 AM PDT

Question: My sister is starting to get over protective and i hate it I would much rather have a brother to do that but not my sister I don't like it!!?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:29 AM PDT

Question: My daughter wants to marry a waiter ?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:21 AM PDT

My daughter is still in college, she's 19 years old, she has been seeing this guy who's 21 years old, he's waiter in a restaurant she used to go to with her friends, and out of the blue he became her boyfriend, I'm against this from the very beginning, Because of many reasons, they're both too young to get married and to know anything about life, they're immature children, they still don't know what they want, he's a waiter, she's a student, How are they going to live ? Are they going to beg for money or something ? Where are they going to live ? They can't even buy a house, I talked to my daughter about this, I told her there's no way i'm going to accept this, and I told her i know what's best for her, cause she's my daughter, she thinks i'm doing this cause I hate her ? she's my daughter i only want what's best for her, and I know more cause i'm just older... she told me she'll do whatever she wants and she won't wait for my approval ? I need advices ? what to do ?

Question: Why might one blame their whole family for an uncle having molested them?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:21 AM PDT

My mother does this and the uncle who abused her died 15 years ago and seldom saw us.

Question: No one believes me!?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:12 AM PDT

My sister keeps saying hurtful things to me in a sly way. And no one believes me! I know I'm not crazy, she says 'man' under her breath to me, gives me weird looks. My parents think she's innocent. I know she's not but she acts so nice to me in front of them and sometimes to me even but I know she's being fake. I'm a popular girl and I think she's jealous. What can I do?

Question: I just find out my 18 year old sister is hiding alcohol in her closet. What should I do?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:09 AM PDT

I share a closet with my sister but not a room. I was getting cloths. I looked on the fall because most of my sisters clothe are on the floor. I found three empty bottles of alcohol. And one bottle with wine. I took a small sip. It was alcohol. I feel sick. I am not going not going to tell my parents because shes going to college. I did take a photo with my Polaroid camera. Should I tell her I know?

Question: Was this weird for a relative to do?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 11:07 AM PDT

We were at a restaurant and before we started eating and during she waned to take pictures of everyone. She was like "let's see those braces. " to me and I guess because I smile close mouth it isn't good enough. I was eating and you know that food gets stuck in them but anyway why would she do that and is it wrong to get incredibly annoyed by people who want to take photos while eating? She then tries to laugh at me because I probably had food in my braces (I was fccking eating ). She refused to let me smile close mouthed. What drug could she be on?

Question: Is it possible to get Polio from bad watermelon?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:53 AM PDT

My mother and grandmother always tell us that my grandpa had polio as a child because he ate bad watermelon at a party. He grew out of it, but I can t ask him myself because he left when my mother was very young. Is it possible? Thank you.

Question: Why is my dad so spiteful?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:36 AM PDT

So, my parents divorced years ago and now they re both remarried. It was a messy break up with lots of drama. My dad cheated on my mum. He doesn t pay child maintenance for me and I m the one who always makes the effort to see or speak to him. It s even a struggle for him to come and pick me up. He s spiteful towards my mum even though she s been a saint and acts like she was the bad one in the relationship. I don t understand why?

Question: I've called out a family member on her issues and now everyone has turned against me and is sweeping her issues under the rug?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:27 AM PDT

Before this the boyfriend and her brother would always complain to me about her but when I state what her issue is they don't believe me.

Question: Is my mom being disrespectful?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 10:16 AM PDT

She wanted me to smile in a picture while I was eating (I have braces) and wants me to show teeth. She is so weird. She then gets her feelings hurt when I tell her that it is rude to take pictures of people while they are eating, especially people like me.

Question: How do I help my mother with picking out some more stylish clothing for her job?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:58 AM PDT

My mother needs some help with style... And with her being 42 years old and never being an outgoing type of woman but a stubborn one at that, she s dealing with some clothing issues. She s not plus size but she is a little wide and she doesn t feel confident in anything she wears. Its hard to get her to wear certain clothes that are accepted by our society and it s frustrating that she s dealing with bullies at 42 years of age just because she s not a style guru. Although my dad and I are trying to give her some ideas on what to wear... All she does is shoot down every idea that comes her way but continues to complain about her clothes. It s obviously not my place as her daughter to tell her that she s stubborn and picky but I want her to feel confident when she s working or just out and about. I m running out of ideas and I feel like giving up and letting her deal with this problem for the rest of her time. Thinking about that makes me upset so I m trying my hardest to help her. If anyone has any ideas on how to help her pick out some clothes that aren t eccentric but stylish and cute for someone her age, feel free to tell me!! And if anyone knows how I can approach on this issue also feel free to lend some advice! Thank you!

Question: My dad stalks my my mom, my brother and I?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:52 AM PDT

My parents recently separated and for a while now my father has turned into a complete psychopath. Unfortunately, I'm still required to see him through visitations. (I'm 14). Lately he's been stalking my house. He lives in the same neighborhood (I'm still living in the house I've lived in all my life but we're moving to a new house, fortunately within my same school boundaries), and he moved three blocks away from my current house. Everytime I'm with him in his car, he drives by my house and stares it down, trying to see the inside and outside. But that's not all. I also think he has a tracker on my phone AND my mom's phone. How is it that whenever I go outside walking with my friends, or by myself, I see his car driving my way immediately. And then he'll stop and start yelling at me for absolutely no reason. Not to mention the time where I had a half day of school and he didn't know, and I forgot to shut the garage door; he walked in and started snooping around and then I came downstairs and asked "what are you doing?" And he got all scared and came up with an excuse and walked out of the house. All this behavior hasn't stopped. My mom called the police a few weeks ago and they told her she needs to build a case or something, so he's going to have to go to court in a month or so; he'll be notified within a few days. But unfortunately I don't think even that will get his behavior to stop. What to do?

Question: Poll: These people are greedy selfish liars. They don't deserve this baby?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:52 AM PDT

Question: Dad and my half sister?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:26 AM PDT

So I wanted to post this when it was Father's Day but it wouldn't let me.. So my dad recently discovered that he has a other daughter who is 16 who lives in Mexico... My dad has had children before he met my mom but those other kids were boys and he has alwaya told me that I was his first girl and that I'm the most special but it kinda hurts me now that he discovered he has an older daughter... I'm only 15 and the other girl is 16 and it bothers me cause he was showing her off to everyone saying that's his beautiful first daughter and I have insecurity issues and she was beautiful and I just felt like trash.. On Father's Day I made him a card breakfast and told him I loved him and happy Father's Day and he just smiled and said thank you and the other girl just said "happy birthday daddy I love you so much I hope I get to see you" but she sent it in Spanish and we live in the usa so that's why she wants to see him and he showed the message off to everyone . It hurts me and I know I shouldn't feel jealousy but I've always been daddy's little princess and now he just cares more about my half sister... I didn't tell him anything cuz I'm not close to him even if we do talk we just don't have that bond were I tell him everything.. I'm more close to my mom.. I just don't know what to do ? Amy advice? Thank you I would really appreciate it

Question: How do I handle this situation with my mother's family, read below?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:16 AM PDT

Edit So my mother is in a fight with her family and has been since I was little and now I am in my 20's. She was molested by an uncle as a kid (her uncle was a horrible man) but she labels her whole family as bad because of it. She feels her mother didn't protect her enough. I feel her family is wonderful with the exception of this one uncle of hers. So often my mother's grudge drives them away from us and I am not able to be as close to the family as I'd like to be. They don't ask us to get together's as often and when they do my mother gives me grief for going and as a kid didn't let me. This weekend she is mad because I am going to one instead of going with her and my siblings and Dad to something on my Dad's side (I see my Dad's side often so stayed back for the event on my mother's side). I think my mother's siblings, while I am sure they love her, have come to not like her because she is so bitter. I will be asking a series of questions on this in the coming days but in general how do I handle this situation? I want to stay close and it is like my mother is so focused on her bitterness towards her family she is blind to the damage it does. The great-uncle who hurt her died when I was 10 so it has been over 15 years.

Question: My father is an alcoholic and today he is drunk, is my mother right that it is never my fault?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:16 AM PDT

Question: Does my cousin hate me?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:07 AM PDT

When I went to visit I asked if he wanted to hang out and he said no, when I asked if he wanted to go to the beach he said "I despise the beach" Yet all last week he went on a beach holiday (I wasn't invited on the holiday) with the rest of our cousins. Why would my cousin go on holiday with the rest of the family yet leave me to walk around alone. I visited BEFORE the family holiday. @Kim - ALL my cousins (with the exception of one) treat me this way.

Question: How do I tell my annoying neighbors to turn it down a notch?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 09:07 AM PDT

Eversince they built their bloody pool, they can't shut the hell up. My window faces their backyard and I work from home, so I can't concentrate most of the time. I'm thinking if I confront them, we won't be able to be on good terms anymore. Not that I care, their father is a nasty piece of work anyway but I'm a pacifist and I hate confrontations. Help!

Question: Advice for dealing with in laws?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 08:54 AM PDT

We've been having boundary issues ever since our child was born. We make sure to see them once a week since we live in the same town. Sometimes we will see them more. There was a huge argument recently where my spouses' sister got in the middle of it. She keeps hounding us for alone time with our child (she herself is just out of high school). They want "unsupervised" time with my child. My spouses mother has called us insecure and belittled our parenting on numerous occasions and loves to talk over people. They are now not speaking to us. I don't want to completely sever contact with them for the sake of my spouse and child but I'm tired as is my spouse over being disrespected every week when we try to see them. We are working and going to school and have other things going on. Is there anything I can say or do to help with them or is this a lost cause? I agree with you. We have had dates twice a month since he was born and have always had them watch him so they could get in more time with him.

Question: Hi i have a problem i show my bf on the webcam some hot pics & my mom passworded the webcam how do i convince her to give me the password?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 08:29 AM PDT

Question: Why wont my mom get this through her head?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 08:00 AM PDT

Well I dont wear deodorant because my arm pits are sensitive to it, I thought a long time ago that we agreed that I can just wear baking soda she acts like that never even happened now when we go somewhere she askes if I put it on I always have to say yes I hate lying to her but have to we are going to the beach today she is bringing it with in case we go anywhere else now how do I say no without her being mad? She thinks its all about her I know she is just trying to do whats best for me but sometimes its not I washed my arm pits with soap and water and it works just as much as deodorant does. Please no rude comments.

Question: Is my nephew being uptight?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:53 AM PDT

My nephew is 27 and recently lost his job and had to move back home with his parents. Now still living at home he will clean his own bedroom, wash and iron his own clothes, buys his own groceries and even cook dinner while his parents are at work, and even goes as far to cook from scratch! I told his mother (my sister) to go easy on him and even do his washing for him or at least buy the groceries he cooks with. His mother just responded with "he won't allow it, he wants to do it for himself" Now my son is the same age (27) but lives away from home and I still give him money, buy his groceries and even take his laundry home and wash it for him, today I even went to his home and cleaned his bedroom. I think my nephew is uptight and easily stressed while my son is laid back. How can I make my nephew just relax and not feel like he has to do everything himself? I am his aunt btw. I mentioned my son because he is just so laid back, you just have to love how laid back he is. My nephew on the other hand is a paranoid mess because he won't let anyone do anything for him, I think he may have some disorder like Autism, Aspbergers or some other disorder that prevents him from being like my son.

Question: My brother and sister never comes to activities in the extended family, how do I get over feeling embarrassed I am related to her?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:50 AM PDT

My mother died so this is on my mother's side. I am the only one who goes and if it is a wedding or funeral my out of town brother sometimes comes. I am 27 and out on my own

Question: I'm forced to switch off the computer at 8 pm and i have internet addiction?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:34 AM PDT

my dad doesn't want me to use his computer all day and i'm 15 so i have to live with my crazy mother. what to do? :( i dont like it here but he won't leave me alone i have no friends ,no life he just won't let it go

Question: Parents think i get high, how to convince them I don't?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:34 AM PDT

I work at a golf course 8 hours a day and always come home sweaty and reeking of BO. My BO smells like weed and I always put on Deodorant too. I come home one day with bloodshot eyes, tired and reeking of BO. (I get bad allergies that cause my eyes to be red). I shower and basically 5 minutes later they come upstairs to tell me I'm grounded for a month for smoking weed. I have been tested for allergies and they know my reactions. They tested me and it came up negative, but they believed I somehow diluted the THC and still got grounded

Question: My cousin always wets the bed?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 07:25 AM PDT

This has just recently been happening. My cousin used to spend the night all the time and she wouldnt wet the bed. She span the night a few weeks ago and wet the bed. Then we were at my aunts spending the night and she wet the bed there. And then she span the night lastnight and wet the bed. I dont know if she does this at home, but should i ask my mom to talk to her mom? I dont know if she has a bladder issue or if shes just drinking too much liquids before bed. I dont want her to go to her friends house and do this, some of her friends are the prissy type. I dont want her to be made fun of

Question: Dad thinks I stole money when I didn't?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:42 AM PDT

So my brother nick and I were at my dad's house for a couple of days. On the day I went back to my moms my dad called me and asked what nick and I had been doing all day at his house when he was out. I told him we were just watching tv. He said he thinks nick took 300 dollars from him. (He suspects nick over me because he thinks nick also took money a few years back but just let it slide) The next morning dad told nick he didn't want him there and so nick's mum picked him up and took him back to her place. (we have same dad different mothers) On Saturday I called nick and he said he did not take the money. He said dad planted a trap. I can't remember for sure but I think nick said dad put the money in an envelope in the lamp in dads room. Later, dad called me and asked if I had spoken to nick. I said that nick told me that dad put the money into an envelope and then into a lamp. Dad then said he never told nick it was in an envelope. Turns out it actually was in an envelope. Dad then called nick to confirm that nick never told me it was in an envelope. The thing is I can't remember for sure if nick did mention an envelope or if it was just a random manifestation in my memory, my dad might have even mentioned an envelope to me I don't know. It's a big coincidence. But it's too big of a coincidence for my dad and now he suspects me as well because I mentioned an envelope. What should I do? Sorry for such a long post. Thanks if you read all the way.

Question: My grandpa is sexist.?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:39 AM PDT

Ok so I love my grandpa with all my heart but he is really starting to bother me. My mother is on vacation, so I'm stuck in the house my grandpa and two brothers (18 & 27 y.o.). Firstly, we have a weekly rotation to do the dishes and my 18 y.o. Brother didn't want to do them so my grandpa just let it slide and then calls me downstairs to do them. I didn't because I feel like an 18 y.o. Shouldn't be babied and he needs to learn to take care of his responsibilities. My brothers and grandpa have this room where they put all of THEIR things (clothes,shoes) and somehow the room has ended up extremely filthy (like gag worth gross). So can anyone explain to me why my grandpa thinks it's remotely ok to tell me to clean up THEIR MESS. I don't want to touch your dirty clothes. I'm not picking up the trash you thought was ok to just throw on the ground. He lets my brothers slack off.. They're grown men and still act like children. But when it comes to me I don't have any room to Just be a teenager. I'm not a spoiled little brat, I know how to clean up behind myself, and take care of myself,unlike them. He also makes little comments about women only being good for cooking and cleaning. I don't know if he knew I was listening but it really bothers me. I am 16 btw.

Question: Just wondering why she chooses me to tell all this to?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:32 AM PDT

Recently since my co worker I was really close to died, I've become really close with her sister. We have bonded over the loss and often tell each other stories of her, fun times we had and share old pictures. I'm just wondering but why does she message me old stories of her? Or dreams she had of her sister (my co worker)? I don't have a problem with it at all, I'm just wondering because I never seemed to understand why she chooses to tell me. is that weird? To the people who were saying, NO isomer want to date her!!

Question: Older sister abuse?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:29 AM PDT

so me and my friend went into my older sisters roomand she found out and locked us in her closet and punched and kicked us... I'm a 15 yr old guys and shes 17 can I call the cops

Question: I'm going insane with no privacy... suggestions?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:27 AM PDT

So this is probably the epitome of a first-world problem, but I have absolutely no privacy unless I lock myself in the bathroom, and even that doesn't last very long. I share a room with my little sister (there's no way I can get my own room), but even when she's not there, my parents are constantly coming in without knocking. Every time I've asked them to knock, my father says, "This is my house, I can do what I want." At school, I'm never free to just realx, because I have work to finish all the time. I desperately need a moment ALONE, where I can just unwind away from everyone. Oh, and my mother has forbid me from spending time in the walk-in closet. Sorry for long post. Is there anything I can do? I'm 14 years old So this was more of an experimental question... recently a user posted that they walked in on their 15-year old daughter masturbating in her bedroom. All of the responses told the poster to give their daughter privacy and knock before entering. Yet when the roles are almost reversed, and it's a teenager who wants privacy, all of the responses are inconsiderate or unhelpful. Thank you nonetheless for your contributions.

Question: How to get revenge on my sister?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:21 AM PDT

So my older sister caught me gaming four hours after my curfew. My sister don't have curfew because our parents like her better and now, thanks to her, my 3DS is in moms purse, and I won't get it back for a while!

Question: My step mother wants to get my 6 year old step sister breast implants and plastic surgery. What should I do?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:16 AM PDT

She's one of those crazy pageant moms and has already made appointments with surgeons. She wants to make her look "sophisticated" and "mature" in an upcoming pageant. I'm 23 and am somewhat concerned. Can she legally do this and should I sit back or do something and if I should, what should I do? I tried telling her to reconsider and she told me that she's the mother, I'm not, and she knows what's best. She then continued by saying my step sister wants the surgery and that I would make a terrible mother and that I shouldn't have kids...it all turned into big verbal fight. She called me ugly and said I'm just jealous because I'm ugly and want surgery (I don't) and she said I should get I t because according to her I'm ugly and will never get aman with the way I look. She has also told me to mind my own business oraccordingto her "payback would be a *****".

Question: My sons girlfriend is having a seizure while breast pumping should I remove it from her and pull her bra up or keep it on her breasts?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 06:08 AM PDT

Question: I can't stand my mother?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:58 AM PDT

She's a loving mother that strives to give me and my brother the best she can, but that's just about it. I can't complain of her being alcoholic or abusive or sth, and I try to avoid conflicts as much as I'm able to, but I always find myself crying out of nowhere or being seriously nervous or having mental breakdowns without any actual reason until I realise it's all her fault. She is passive aggressive most of the time, can start yelling for no reason, and I always feel like she's never there for me, never supports my decisions, is always against them, which makes me feel guilty and sad all the time. I just turned 16 and I find myself more emotionally unstable every year since I was in elementary school, having nervous breakdowns because of every little mistake, socially anxious and awkward. Sometimes I can't even stand myself anymore. There is no way we can ever agree on anything if we are together for an hour or more. I feel tired of this. I'm actually crying right now, she has come to apologise because she insulted me, and I even manage to feel sorry for her at the same time, I don't want to be mad but I can't help it, I can't calm myself anymore. I don't know who I can talk to.

Question: My little Sister swore and i dont know if i should tell my mum just in case she does it again. She said the "d" word (boys parts) she is 5?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:55 AM PDT

Help my little sister swore what should i do? She is 5 and i dont know if i should tell my mum

Question: How can I cope with sexual urges when I'm single and living with my mother?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:51 AM PDT

I am a female in my early twenties and recently moved back in with mother after getting laid off from my job a few months ago. I'm hoping to move out soon, but for the time being, I have to share a bedroom with my mother because she lives in a studio apartment. My mother doesn't work, therefore she's always home, so I don't have the privacy to masturbate, watch porn, or bring a partner over for sex to relieve my sexual urges. My mother is a Fundamentalist Christian and very strict, so shr always asks where I'm going and puts her foot down if I ask to spend the night somewhere. I have an abnormally high sex drive for a woman (it's probably higher than that of most men) and I am getting very sexually frustrated. Any tips on how to deal with this until I move out?

Question: How do I handle this situation with my mother's family, read below?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:47 AM PDT

So my mother is in a fight with her family and has been since I was little and now I am in my 20's. She was molested by an uncle as a kid (her uncle was a horrible man) but she labels her whole family as bad because of it. She feels her mother didn't protect her enough. I feel her family is wonderful with the exception of this one uncle of hers. So often my mother's grudge drives them away from us and I am not able to be as close to the family as I'd like to be. They don't ask us to get together's as often and when they do my mother gives me grief for going and as a kid didn't let me. This weekend she is mad because I am going to one instead of going with her and my siblings and Dad to something on my Dad's side (I see my Dad's side often so stayed back for the event on my mother's side). I think my mother's siblings, while I am sure they love her, have come to not like her because she is so bitter. I will be asking a series of questions on this in the coming days but in general how do I handle this situation? I want to stay close and it is like my mother is so focused on her bitterness towards her family she is blind to the damage it does. The great-uncle who hurt her died when I was 10 so it has been over 15 years.

Question: My Dad is a workaholic and my mother made him this way, where does he go for rehab for this?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:40 AM PDT

I have heard of drug-alcohol rehab but not workaholic rehab Like today he is skipping a family event to work in a yard for my mother who is away for a funeral in her extended family. Yesterday he did extra work painting.

Question: My older sister has no responsibility at all! What do i need to do with her.?

Posted: 07 Aug 2016 05:10 AM PDT

She's 30 years old. Had a good job and earn a lot of money for her life like to buy a stuff etc. She's act like our families are richer but no we didn't rich much. we need to save a money or not spend it on something on things that we don't really need. For me i'm a student and try to help my family on take care very things of my own but my sister never ever help something and come back after work at late night and go hang out on weekend. That's really annoying me. i've tried to tell her like in this age u need to know your own responsibility but she just said no. Damn! What should i do with my sister??