Family: Question: My heart is feeling sad and bad My Dad died when I was younger what do I do about it?

Question: My heart is feeling sad and bad My Dad died when I was younger what do I do about it?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:50 PM PDT

Question: I am completely lost?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:34 PM PDT

Question: No one in my family is in the Christmas mood yet. How do I get them into the mood for Christmas now that Labor Day is almost over?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:31 PM PDT

Christmas is here

Question: My parents don't buy me any presents?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 12:51 PM PDT

im 13 and parents haven't given me any Christmas or birthday presents in four years they always buy something for my sister or give her money and my parents call me spoiled because im always asking for something but im only doing that because they haven't given me something in 4 years also today my sister got a new $600 phone and $400 and she's only fifteen and when i ask my dad if he coukd buy me a phone he says till im 18 and the phone im using right now is my sister's old phone that is cracked i never cracked a phone and they still buy her one instead of me all they do in my birthday is tell me happy birthday and act like it's a normal day and this makes me sad.

Question: Overprotective parents?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 12:33 PM PDT

So my parents are kinda overprotective. Everytime me or my sister got invited to do soemthing, we werent allowed to go. I have actually never been allowed to go to someone elses house. Im also not allowed to go outside of the house without supervision, not even on the porch, and i feel so excluded when all of my friends are out at the mall having fun without me cause im not allowed to go. They said they didnt allow us outside cause they always hear stories of kids getting abducted, and they wont allow us to go on our driveway or on the sidewalk alone without supervision. We asked to go on the porch to just look and feel the frehs air, but my dad said we couldnt cause he was busy and my mom was sleeping so we had no one to supervise us. Keep in mind im a teenager so over the weekend, i cant really do anything except do homework, draw and sleep. I dont really do anything at home, or outside so yeah, how do i find stuff to do?

Question: Feeling alone?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 11:48 AM PDT

Im 17 years old and since I was a kid I ve always felt empty. My brother is always out of the house with friends. My mom works around the house and cooks(I always help her out when she lets me help her). My dad works all day and is currently facing health problems, and my mom won t let me go with her to the hospital because she s afraid of me getting infected or something. So since I was a kid I haven t really been able to get out of the house(we live in the country side and my mom is afraid something will happen). This is a pretty corrupt country I live in btw. I ve been feeling isolated for as long as I can remember. Playing video games all day, studying during school time and that s pretty much it. I asked my parents for a dog and I would have full responsibility for him/her, but my mom says that she can t take care of him/her even though I said I would have full responsibility(I researched alot and know exactly what to do, I think she means during school time?). I m a christian but I m not really feeling god lately. My family is christian but barely go to church like once a year. I want to go to church but there s no near church and no one can take me. I used to be a fat kid, I lost the weight during 9th grade, now I gained some fat back and am sitting at "skinny fat". And theres no near gym :/. I m just tired and alone. I m sick of it. I just want to spread love to someone or something. I need help. Will life get better?

Question: Does it sound like this child's mother favors her brother over her?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 11:14 AM PDT

I know a 13 year old girl who thinks her mom likes her 11 year old brother better. They are a poor family with only one parent. Her brother is always preferred when spending one-on-one time with, but she is ignored. For example, a loaf of bread can be all they have. Their mom gives her brother more food. She also tends to give him more attention when she has time, and is always comparing her to him. Her mom tells her that her future won't be brighter than the childhood she has now, and talks about how her brother always does best at everything. If SHE achieves something (good grades, helped with chores, made something to keep them warm), her parent still ignores her and doesn't give the attention her sibling would receive. I am concerned that this may be harmful to her because she thinks that her mom doesn't love her. Her brother is always known as the greatest, "better" child. She is constantly pressured to be just like him.

Question: Why doesn't my mom listen to me about her abusive boyfriend?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 10:50 AM PDT

He is really controlling. He has to know where she is 24/7 and who she's talking to. If she goes out of the house, immediately he assumes she's cheating. She told me she wants to know how to make Whatsapp not say she's online because when she's on the phone there with her friends her boyfriend gets mad at her for talking to someone for "hours." She can't have guy friends at all or he freaks out. Whenever he gets drunk, which is every weekend, he starts yelling and calling her a cheater, worthless, all these names. Last week, he ended up taking off the closet door and breaking it in half while drunk. He is unstable, drinks everyday (Even if he doesn't get drunk everyday, he does drink beer quite often and whenever available, rum). He refuses to get help because he doesn't want to admit he's an alcoholic. He's threatened to hit my mom. I told my mom he is abusive, toxic and controlling and she yelled at me saying that he is her husband (they are NOT married) and that she loves him and it's her business. I am 18 but I'm still living with my mom until I move away to Europe next month. Last week my friends wanted to go out so I told my mom beforehand and she said okay, but then he decided to not let me go even though he is not my father and he does not pay rent or ANY utilities, and my mom told me that I shouldn't because if he leaves her because of me disobeying him she'll "never" forgive him. Then she said my friends could come over, and he kicked them out. Why is she like this? He tries to control me too whenever I go out. And whenever he's miserable, he wants EVERYONE to be miserable. I mean, my mom's like that, and my mom is abusive in her own ways (especially to me) in a way that she checks his phone when he is asleep or tells him he can't go somewhere, but he goes anyway. I am not justifying her actions nor his. I just wonder why she's like this and why he is too. They're control freaks and I can't wait to leave

Question: Any banks that will pay for something when I can re put the money later?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 10:02 AM PDT

trying to buy something keeps declining I will put money I use later on going to overdraft but my current bank keeps declining

Question: My mom keeps forcing me to go places?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:56 AM PDT

My mom is one of those active people, who forces my brothers to play sports 24/7, who drags me along to places I either don't care about or hate, and gets mad at us because we don't want to go see a park that we've been to 55 f*cking times. Now, I'm not unhealthy. I'm average and the rest of my family is. But I don't like going out to places I don't want to go. I don't enjoy "nature walks". I don't enjoy going to social places. I like being alone and a lot of the times nobody in my family cares about that. Now, I'm an animator who works regularly on projects that have due dates. And her dragging me with my little brothers to random places distracts me from important work I actually have to do.

Question: Ew! My dad got a *****...?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:22 AM PDT

I'm 13 and a girl and I went swimming with my dad. When we were in the showers, he said "ok let's go" and i noticed his.. um thing was sticking right out! Eww! Then we walked to the changing rooms and he was walking funny. It was still sticking out. Is that normal for men?? Was it because of me, cuz that is so weird, my dad must be gross..

Question: My dad thinks I'm insensitive and rude because I said my sister is a shy p*ssy. why? she really is?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 09:06 AM PDT

Question: The whole family is gathering today except my Mom and I. We are always the ones who miss out. How do I stop feeling so sad about it?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 08:27 AM PDT

We live over an hour a way and my Mom won't do the drive because her brother is an alcoholic and she is mad it him for this. I miss out because of it. I am so-so sad and this happens like once a month. I am 14 and can't drive for another 4 years.

Question: My aunt says she would like her daughter as much as her other kids if she behaved as good as them. Is it fair to favor kids like this?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 08:24 AM PDT

She loves them all. But likes the other two more then the one she loves but doesn't like as much as her sibs.

Question: I hate sharing rooms with my sister, what should i do?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 08:05 AM PDT

I'm a 14 year old girl that shares room with my twin sister. She's technically older than me but i like to say that i'm more mature. She always plays loud videos when i'm trying to read or concentrate. She has really bad hygiene habits and it's disgusting. The bathroom is always messed up and i have to clean it (she doesn't even flush sometimes). Sometimes i just want to be alone and i don't know what to do. Sometimes she can be nice to talk to and all, but i'd really rather not share a room with anyone in general. There are no vacant rooms in my house except the old maids room that's downstairs and it's really small.

Question: How do I get my sister to stop stealing from me?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 07:20 AM PDT

Question: Growing up how were you usually punished?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 06:47 AM PDT

Question: Do you hate your sister ? PLEASE READ?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 06:34 AM PDT

When i look into my sister eyes, i see SNAKE EYES. Her eyes look like how SNAKE EYES look. She is really cruel, does wrong things to people and doesnt care, wants everything her way and will manipulate and con her way to get what she wants, does some really scandless and dirty things to people, WILL HURT YOU. SHe has a bad heart in my opinion. Im just a chill guy, i dont want no drama. I chill joke with my friends, just keep it cool. But she is just drama, with an attitude. FEEL LIKE I SHOULD PUT HER @SS in her place cause she is pissing me OFF. WHat you guys think ?

Question: My sister gossips chronically. How do I be sure others don't tell her things about me that I don't want repeated by her?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 06:11 AM PDT

Question: I haven't seen my friend or family for nearly 14 months. How do I overcome it?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 06:10 AM PDT

Question: How do I convince people me running into my aunt's ex-husband was an accident and I was nice just to be polite?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:57 AM PDT

So my Mom's family has a united hatred for my aunt's ex-husband. Yesterday I ran into him somewhere purely by accident. It took me a minute to recognize him as I had not seen him in 7 years. I was nice to him and asked how he was. Then my cousin (his son) walked up and I was nice to both and socialized for about 30 minutes. My Mom was furious I'd spoken to the man and in her eyes it justifies what he did to her sister. We as a family resent his son for being so good to his Dad but I personally think the son has to as the son and don't resent him for it. The two daughters are more distant from him so favored by us. I should never have told my Mom but I did. She was furious I would speak to the man and said I should have walked away when he said hi and shown my cousin his father was bad. I feel that would just be mean and hurtful to my 14 year old cousin. So how do I convince people that this was truly just an accident (as indeed it was). I did not go seek the guy out. Fantom---I don't have anything against the relatives, my Mom is the one with the problem. And the ex-husband is not a relative anymore (he indeed was not a good husband).

Question: If your partner fathered a child but abandoned her because of resentment with mother, is it wrong to judge him for being a bad person?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:57 AM PDT

He claims he was manipulated & unhappy but made only a couple attempts to see his baby, but then stopped. I feared he would abandon me & it's happening, he's cutting me out but he blames me for not trusting him

Question: My aunt despises her own daughter. She seeks to destroy her daughter's reputation. How can I get our grandmother to correct her for this?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:51 AM PDT

I know our aunt is an adult and our grandmother elderly but our grandfather would be rolling in his grave at how his daughter treats her own child. She has several kids and this child is the scapegoat. She resents the daughter and has said things like "if you behaved better I would like you as much as your siblings" or "I love her but I hate who she has become" or her deep seated resentment towards her husband's sister for taking in the daughter. She has stated that her daughter is the worst child she has ever dealt with (now daughter is an adult) and she doesn't believe anything the child says (occasionally the daughter will lie). She coaches her other kids to hate this sibling and resents anyone in the family who does favors for this daughter. It is like mothers in divorce situations (like mine did) who alienate kids from their father yet here it is her own child she is doing it against. Weird part is my cousin (uncle's son) had all sorts of problems including was drug addicted and my aunt was very forgiving and reached out. When that cousin died of an overdose the aunt was sad and even got emotional at the funeral. So my question to all this is how would my Mom (her sister) or uncles get their mother to speak up to her daughter about the abuse she is committing? The child already has trust issues as she had a deadbeat father who took off. Now her mother has turned on her and her step-father doesn't have the balls to speak up. Any thoughts?

Question: My mom gives me a sexual vibe and its making me uncomfortable as I mature older.?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:49 AM PDT

I am not trolling. I just get an uncomfortable vibe now. She stares at my thing or my shorts with hufe eyes. And I am very uncomfortable around her with a shirt off. Shes bery jealous acting like I cant have a girlfriend and says I am just like my father. She keeps walking in on me when I am changing too angry about something yelling at me then stares. She said its nothing she has not seen before and I shoulf have control. Then she said I masterbate oit of guilt from our fights? Please help because I want to atay away. At the movies she ran her hand up my leg then got mad I yelled what are you doing after.

Question: Why does my sister always get upset when we tease her? One time she even started crying. Why, it's all meant in a funny way?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:36 AM PDT

Question: How do some people manage to get along with their siblings? I would kill my sister if it was legal, I hate her so much?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 05:16 AM PDT

Question: Is it normal to cry after my mom told me she never loved me?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 04:36 AM PDT

Question: My brother birthday is on Labor day?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 03:13 AM PDT

My brother birthday is on Monday. However, my mom and I DO NOT get along whatsoever and he stays with her. He's turning 19 and I'm 23. My mom is the reason I am on my own at this point. She's been a drug user for many years and the last time I was over there to visit, we got into an argument and haven't spoken since then -- which was one month ago. My mom is also very manipulative, so what's the best way to wish my brother a happy birthday without being in their presence?

Question: My cousin is desperately in love with me and proposed to me and told me he'd kill himself if I said no. Help?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:24 AM PDT

He's just so creepy and crazy desperate for me and I've tried talking to him but he won't take no for an answer and threatened me that he'd kill himself if I don't say yes. There's no one in my family I can talk to without causing an immense fight in the whole family which I do not want to be the reason of. I don't know what to do

Question: I'm going to therapy but I feel like I am too damaged in order to heal. Is anyone irreversibly damaged that can't heal?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:18 AM PDT

Question: My friend kissed her sister on the cheek? Isnt that really weird?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 02:15 AM PDT

And no her sister isnt a little child, she's like 17

Question: Is it wrong for me to hate my cousins when....?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 01:26 AM PDT

So my cousins are living with us till December and they are being extremely difficult and disrespectful. For the whole summer I was happy and peaceful because we usually have a quite home until they came. They complain about everything they kicked me out of my own basement, called me annoying for basically telling them that this is my house, said that I m still a child even tho i m 18 and where all in the same age range, smokes in the backyard which make the entire house smells constantly tells me that you need a man, also tries to hit on my friends. I tried to solve the problem by telling my mother and she just laughs it off and tells me that oh there just family and i don t know what to do

Question: I am 30 and I live with my mum. Is this necessarily bad ?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 12:43 AM PDT

I mean, I earn money but I want to take care of my mum. She is a saint and I would like to help her. Moreover, she doesn't want me to leave her alone. I am her only child. But I when I watch tv shows like dr.phil, that say you have to move out at 18, it makes me uncomfortable and I feel ashamed.

Question: I am 21 year old from pakistan.Studying in first semester in eingineering.My family treats me like a dog and always find a way...?

Posted: 02 Sep 2017 12:14 AM PDT

to criticise me and rebuke me and give me mental torture.Their stupidity is beyond limit.They are ignorant assholes.I am fed up from them.They just want to keep me down and impose their ideas and wishes on me. What do I do ? I guess I should try to be independent and look for a job ?

Question: Why dos the anger rage out when my mom..?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 11:20 PM PDT

Today I got really upset with my mom. I don t know what it exactly is but she does things that are very upsetting. Today I was working on my computer, I went to the bathroom for 3 minutes and she turned off my computer because it s important to "conserve energy" and it deleted everything I was working on the entire day by shutting it down w/o saving it. I was so angry. Two weeks ago, she almost ran over the cat with her car because when she backs out of the driveway she does not use her rear view or side view mirror. She also has almost ran over children by doing so. I ask her why the hell she does these things and her answer is "I didn t know" or "I didn t see" or "it was on accident". It occurs as common sense and yet at the same time, I just get so angry. Why do these actions trigger such anger? What is it about her that I just can t stand? #Typo Why does the anger rage out when my mom..?

Question: My dad thinks I watch porn because he fount me on my laptop late at night in my room, when I was supposed to sleep. Won t believe me now?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:51 PM PDT

This is going to sound very nerdy or weird, but I was excited on finishing my html presentation for one of my Wattpad threads. I tried quickly closing the lid as I heard his footsteps but I was just too late. He probably thinks I m some kind of freak now that stays awake till 4 o clock, masturbating. What do I do? If it matters, I m a 16 year old female.

Question: Am I being over dramatic?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:43 PM PDT

Around 30 minutes ago, My 15 year old brother brought his friends over and idk whether I'm being over dramatic or not. I sleep on the couch for now because of not having a bed in my room. Theyre both just sleeping on the couch right now and I don't feel comfortable going to bed with them right there. He said they're only staying for a little bit and I know my mom will not like that either.

Question: Is it good to tell your child that you love them more than their siblings?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:35 PM PDT

Is it good to ask one child to spend more time with you (even if it's sitting next to you at a movie), give them more attention, and tell them that they're the favourite child? Their siblings won't know if they are not around as much.

Question: Can I really die from a broken heart.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:23 PM PDT

Firstly, I'm not writing this for anyone to feel sorry for me. I'm not seeking attention, just help.. I grew up in an a environment of yelling and screaming, my dad was so mean to my mom I can't even think about it. I remember holding my hands over my ears to muffle out the all of the yelling that occurred at nightime all through my childhood. I would hear my mom yelling please stay all of the time, I never knew why she wanted him to stay so bad. Well, he finally left our house when I was 15, he left and it felt so good to come home to a peaceful home. The yelling effected my grades at school, my friendships and my personality. I'm 19 now and still don't miss him in my life at all. Anyway, I was on a website on omegele (a website where you can video chat with strangers), I was on for about 10 minutes than I saw a girl, something inside of my mind knew she was going to make an impact on my life. I was a sophmore in HS and she was a freshman. I added her on Skype and we literally talked for 14 hours all through the night. During winter break I remember talking to her from morning until nightime, it felt so good to say I love you to someone. She lived 4 states away and her parents found out we were talking and didn't like it for some reason, so we always kept it private. I'm running out of room.. so here's what happened. This late July she was suppose to move here and go to my college with me. She randomly blocked me on all social media. It's been over a month.

Question: How do I deal with sibling rivalry?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 10:21 PM PDT

My 15 year old describes my 9 year old as "annoying". She accused me of believing what her younger brother said over what she said at least twice. When they were younger (especially back when my daughter was in elementary school), my daughter would constantly tell my son that she did not like him. She'd slam the door in his face and he's start crying. She eventually grew out of it as she reached her teen years. My youngest child purposely bothers his sister, and snoops around her. He may want to get a reaction by tattling on her as well. He makes his sister very angry and frustrated, while my daughter will make him cry.

Question: I got into a verbal fight with my father?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 09:42 PM PDT

I asked my dad if we were doing anything fun yesterday and he said no. So than he said "Btw akido starts Friday." (Akido is this thing that I really do not enjoy and he forces me to do it) so then I said "I can t do it on Friday s, i have to work remember?" Thats when he got angry and said "Well tough!" I said "Mom and I already agreed to go on Wednesdays to aikido!" he said "You can t work on Fridays anymore!" "It s my restaurant and its my rules!" i got super angry and said "It s not even yours its aunties!" "She owns it, she works full time at it & Im not skipping my job to go to some dumb thing I don t even enjoy!" He screamed "Your going on Friday s to akido end of conversation!" I got so angry and this came out of my mouth and I never meant it to. "shut up and stop acting like a baby!" I stormed into my room. he got so mad he shouted "Don t you dare talk like that to me!" "You dare to, i will slap you in the face!" I then said "You wouldn t!" "That is chid abuse and you could go to jail for abusing your own daughter!" He than said "I would!" "Call the f***king police if you want I don t care!" I gave up, ran into my closet and cried until my pillowcase was soaked and my contacts fell out. my mom started lecturing me about how I should have never said that. I tried telling her about him threatning to abuse me but she didnt care. She thinks that telling your father to shut up is worse than your father threatning to slap you. Im scared and sad and do not know what to do

Question: Is it normal or bad that I am not really close with my cousins or sister?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:20 PM PDT

Like I am 27, but I really get along with my friends and wife. But the rest of my family doesn't "Understand me"

Question: The people in my family keep burping at the dinner table. Is this acceptable?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:19 PM PDT

Mind You, my family are not westerners they were refugees from Southeast Asia....30 years ago. The people that keep burping at the dinner table are my grandfather uncle Bob. He just sits there and casually let's put a large burp. I've said something about it before and my grandfather just kept doing it then looking at me and laughing about it!! It's my grandparents house

Question: I'm 15 and I live with my brother and today he called me an ungrateful brat and I want to show him thst I'm not. How do I do this?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 08:03 PM PDT

Question: Why didn't get on the golf team?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:42 PM PDT

Hi so the other day I tried out for the golf team. It was a point system so it was like boggy was 1 point par was 2 points etc. we went to two courses and I got 8 points in total for two very hard cources. My couch was making cuts and wanted to talk to us all privately. He said for me that he wanted to cut me because I won't stay on the team as long as the seventh grader that he replaced me with( it means I'm staying in high school for 2 other years because I'm a tenth grader while he has 5). He also brought up some tournament rules, but I didn't understand why he brought that up . I also talked to a few friends who got on the team, I had more then double their points yet I still didn't get on. My parents are pissed and are going down to my school in a few days to complain why I didn't get on the team. I'm asking this question to you guys that maybe you guys have an idea of why I didn't because this makes 0 sense to me.

Question: My aunt despises one of her own adult children. Is this halfway common for a Mom to despise one of her children?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:35 PM PDT

Question: My aunt lives with us?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:26 PM PDT

shes going through divorce etc and her kid/cousin as well living with were in total 6 people if you add them two. I don't like her being around cause well I find it awkward to go eat/etc. she has nowhere else to go and she can't afford stay anywhere else. she doesn't even have enough for the lawyer that my uncles/aunt have to donate her money to pay for it shes going through divorce etc and her kid/cousin as well living with were in total 6 people if you add them two. I don't like her being around cause well I find it awkward to go eat/etc. she has nowhere else to go and she can't afford stay anywhere else. she doesn't even have enough for the lawyer that my uncles/aunt have to donate her money to pay for it. I don't seem like her cause all she does is complain/boss people and only thinks her way. most uneducated people who get married young

Question: What do you make of this?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:17 PM PDT

my mother just got into a heated argument with my father. she came upstairs to talk to me about how he's wrong (he is wrong, stuff like this has been going on for years) and when she left i told her ,"don't step on my robe" because she was about to step on it. she got really angry and said that was a nasty thing to say and that she thinks i need medication ??????? what the ****

Question: Shopping Advice?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 07:08 PM PDT

I'm a teen girl and I hate shopping but as much as I hate to admit it there are some things I really need. My mom is frustrated with taking me shopping because it is stressful for both of us and I rarely find anything. How do ask her to take me and make it easier on both of us?

Question: I have a complicated situation please don't judge, read the details below but I'm dating my step sister?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 06:48 PM PDT

My mom died when I was 5 my oldest brother died when I was 7, my older brother died when I was 11. My dad got remarried when I was 8 and my stepmom brought her daughter from a previous marriage. I'm 19 and my stepsister is 18 we kind of started flirting and we are now dating. I really care about her and she and I have been dating for about 2 months. We made out drunkenly at a New Year's Eve party and things died down for a while but then in June I had a car accident and our parents were on vacation and she had to pick me up from the hospital and watch me since I had a broken elbow and ankle and concussion. We flirted and she held me since I wasn't feeling well and we agreed we had mutual feelings for eachother. Also is this a sin? My step sister isreallya firm follower of Reform Judaism.

Question: My mother just flew in without notice, and she's staying 2 weeks?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 06:40 PM PDT

My mom just finished 2 weeks of spending my dad's money in Las Vegas. Today, she simply flies in, and comes to my house without even a courtesy call. I have so much work to do, and she expects me to be with her all times she's here. My mother loves to spend, and ahe loves having breakfast, lunch, and dinner in only the most expensive of restaurants. I don't have the time or money to do everything she expects from me. What can I do?

Question: How do I get my sister back?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 05:39 PM PDT

She stole my card and spent the rest of my money that was on it. What do I do? I'm so pissed, comment something good but not very messy bc I hate cleaning. Thanks, and go crazy (I was planning to save up that money for vacation.) Okay, I guess I should tell you how much was on it. It was a debit card, and there was $79 bucks on it. It may not seem like a lot, but I'm only 14 and she's 16.

Question: Should I get college counseling for my suicide thoughts ?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 04:58 PM PDT

Ive been depressed my whole life and Im 19 now. Im the oldest of my siblings and receive a lot of pressure from my parents. My mother controls me a lot to the point where now I don't have an opinion about most things cause I am unable to form one. I work parttime and go to school part time.My parents however think I go to school full time cause my mom wanted me to but I can't afford it,she won't help me pay cause she thinks Im on a scholarship.My dad is the opposite,he doesn't care much about us but he is also under my mothers control so he does everything she says but he has told me multiple times if it were up to him we would out of the house at 18 and his biggest regret is having kids.He works full time and my mother is unemployed.My dad is cold hearted and my mom is a lier who just tells you what you want to hear, I am both.They tell me what a failure I am so I try my best when I fail in something to hide it.I dont like asking them for help. I am overweight and have been for 10 years , I never been in a relationship, I only have one close friiend . I get major social anxiety and have pretended to be on phone calls or busy to avoid conversation. My favorite subject is philosophy. My IQ is 134 but my gpa is 2.1. I give up real easy. I don't think Im mentally strong enough to keep living. I haven't suffered much but I been planning my suicide since I was 8. I don't get what the big deal is , the world is overpopulated anyways.

Question: Why is my adult sister still a quiet girl? she's too old to be shy?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 04:08 PM PDT

Question: Why did my sister cry when I hugged her?

Posted: 01 Sep 2017 03:43 PM PDT