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- Question: I said yes to this party but I never really wanted to go, any great excuse ideas?
- Question: I am homeschooled and my friend wants me to go to homecoming should I go?
- Question: Lost in life?
- Question: How do I find happiness?
- Question: Does This Sound Like An Excuse?
- Question: My roommate talks on the phone all day and it is annoying me, would it be rude to ask her to stop?
- Question: Why is it so hard To keep friends these days?
- Question: I need help finding an old friend whose last name I don't know and who I last saw in the 2nd grade.?
- Question: Should I go to my best friends birthday party on October 14 ?
- Question: How can i make friends?
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- Question: Im 13 and I want a dirt bike. my friend has one and he lives right by me. I live in a suburban area. They say i cant get one bc area. Help!?
- Question: My best friend fought with me about me lying but it was the first time I've ever lied? People lie to her all the time and she doesn't react?
- Question: Trouble talking to others?
- Question: Ever had a hard time speaking up to make friends?
- Question: Why does my best friend fight with me when I lie about stupid things? When she doesn't even do that with her other friends?
- Question: Is this normal for men?
- Question: Why do really attractive people usually hang out with other really attractive people and ugly people hang out with other ugly people?
- Question: How can I get red of a "friend" ?
- Question: How do you avoid probing questions without making it obvious ?
- Question: I'm a guy, a freshman, and I'm struggling making guy friends. Any helpful advice?
- Question: My friend cousin is really handsome and for some reason i have an urge to get to know him?........?
- Question: Why are so many of my friends older than me?
- Question: I'm having trouble socializing with people? How do you deal with someone that has ignored you?
- Question: My Bestfriend won t is ignoring me or something?
- Question: Is this enough to change roommate?
- Question: Social anxiety making me lose friends :(?
- Question: How to choose who to live with after death my parent?
- Question: How do I get people to stop coming to me with their problems?!?
- Question: My best friend is talking to someone she doesn t know online (Kik)?
- Question: Does my friend know I'm into her and does she get off on it?
- Question: Am I bisexual? And is there anything wrong with being bisexual?
- Question: Should I stop avoiding him?
- Question: Why is she obsessed with me if she hates me?
- Question: Did she commit suicide? What do I do? Pls help!!! Pls!!!?
- Question: I messed up. What will happen?
- Question: I feel like a total and utter loser.?
- Question: How can I bring more people into my life?
- Question: Why is that when your agree on a hundred things with your friends but the moment you seriously diagree and argue on one things you don't...?
- Question: I have 0 true friends what can i do?
- Question: My friend for 5 years called me yesterday saying she needs my help. So, I left my home and traveled 1 hour to her house.?
- Question: Help please!!?
- Question: I already said yes to this party but now I don't want to go so any great excuses on not going to a party?
- Question: I wonder why?
- Question: Help! What does "I'm trying to figure you out mean"?
- Question: My cousin is humiliating me how should I handle this the right way without ruining our relationship?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?
- Question: I'm angry a guy I slept with talked to our mutual friend?
- Question: Please help, I need a second opinion ?
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- Question: Is it right I chose not be involved with someone missing work and doing cocaine?
- Question: Is it lame for me to get drunk by myself?
- Question: Does This Sound Like An Excuse?
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- Question: My best friend won't talk to me?
- Question: What would you do if your friends wife/husband Didnt like you would u stop being their friend because of him/her?
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- Question: My friend made an Instagram account talking about all school drama. Is that considered cyberbullying or any troublemaking action ?
- Question: Let's talk about fake friends I'm 19 and in college and unfortunately had this experience what did you guys do when this happened?
| Question: I said yes to this party but I never really wanted to go, any great excuse ideas? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:33 PM PDT Now the reasons I don't want to go to a party are simple so I'll list them 1-I'm a part of a group at school who's at the borderline betweeen the vaping, weed smoking, beer chugging group and the nerdy group and frankly when I go to the party I will feel uncomfortable because I hate everything that relates to those things I mean if you smoke weed I don't care smoke anything you want but I really don't like being around anybody when they are doing it. 2-I am the quiet background guy in my group and to be honest high school parties are not a thing I really like that's mostly the reason I don't get invited because they know I would be sitting on their couch on their phone. I don't want to spend a party on the coach I mean that's just boring to do for 3 hours So your probably thinking "Oh just be honest and say no" I can't do that because of this reason And that's the why question which comes after the no, what am I supposed to say to this girl that I don't want to go to this party because I'm an antisocial teen who hates drinking. It's embarrassing and if you don't understand your probably not a 16 year old teen So please just give me some help on some excuses I'm no good so that's why I'm asking the people of yahoo I don't want to go and when you give me these excuses don't give me one which could contradict me in the future E.g. Oh my granny died but the months later comes and I accidentally say that she's still alive, also something that doesn't make me sound rude |
| Question: I am homeschooled and my friend wants me to go to homecoming should I go? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:27 PM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:25 PM PDT I am so lost and I'm so tired. I am only a sophmore in highschool and I should not be feeling this way. I can't describe my problems because it's hard to. I feel so lost and confused and sad because I feel like I don't fit in. And I know it's stupid to be sad about this crap and that there are worse things in life and that others have it worse trust me I know all of that but I just can't help but feel sad because I am not outgoing or funny and I try to be all that and I am kind and I'm nice and I listen to others but I feel like no one has the time to listen to me. I want to do something with my life I wanna be someone but right now I feel so sad because I feel like my friends are finding new friends better than I am and I only go to one persons house and people at school Talk about me sometimes like I'm a horrible person and I hate highschool I rarely talk crap about people I do because it's hard not to in highschool I don't know what to do I want to just be myself but it's hard it's really really hard. |
| Question: How do I find happiness? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 04:47 PM PDT I'm 15 years old and I know that I'm young but I've been going through depression for the past few months. it doesn't go away, it started early 2017. the beginning of this year was great, I was dating a girl who I was really into.. but she left me, I still had my best friends with me so I kept them close but not close enough I guess... they're not really my friends anymore, they hardly ever talk to me. I don't know, I've just gone through a lot this year. I've also had suicidal thoughts and I almost killed myself a few weeks ago but someone talked me out of it, but after that they didn't bother to talk to me ever since. I just really wanna be happy again. I hate being depressed, I wanna find love, I wanna find new friends, I want my old life back. I dwell on the past a lot too since it was better back then than it is now... anyone know how I could find happiness again? I don't know how. |
| Question: Does This Sound Like An Excuse? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 04:09 PM PDT Well Me and My Friend Made Plans To Go To The Movies Today But it didn't work Out Because apparently she had to work in the morning til the afternoon and then I asked my friend if she wanted to meet up still she had told me that she was gonna meet up with me then the last minute she told me she can't, this is my issue this isn't the first time she does this to me every time we try and plan something she does this almost every time we plan to hang out and it makes me upset with my friend and the only reason why I think she is lying because she said the same exact thing to me she told me today. I need some advice Does anyone think she is lying and making excuses not to hang out ? please help I really need advice |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 04:07 PM PDT she doesnt talk when im sleeping but literally now she talks all day on the phone and i cant focus on my hw or hear songs or videos.. its not that shes yelling or screaming or laughing but her voice is just so loud and deep and scratchy its annoying me.. |
| Question: Why is it so hard To keep friends these days? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 03:36 PM PDT Like I'm a good person but like ppl just start rumors about me and most of my friendships only last a few months then the ppl cut me off |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 03:19 PM PDT So, it's a doozy. A few details: We both lived in the same city of about 250,000 people until 2008, when I moved out with my family. The school we went to went till 8th grade, and I know with a fair degree with certainty that she went to one of two high schools in that city. She's my age, a senior now. I don't know her last name. She was Colombian, so, I might be able to eliminate people with incongruous names, like, say, Christiansen or some other obviously not-Colombian name. Can anybody help me? Not to get weird, but she was kinda my first kiss, and I really want to find out, kinda, what happened to her. I moved out because my mother got a good-paying job in academia, but our school district was fairly poor, and her parents were immigrants, and I think she might even have been a DACA kid, so...I'm a little worried. This is a weird request, I know, but I figured I might as well ask. |
| Question: Should I go to my best friends birthday party on October 14 ? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 03:04 PM PDT |
| Question: How can i make friends? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 03:01 PM PDT I have social anxiety. I dont know anyone. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:57 PM PDT I have to leave my country and go to a new country (Turkey) and i am thinking to continue my network marketing practice in Turkey just like i did here. But as i don't know Turkish, and i don't have any contacts or friends there, i wonder how should i do it? What is your advice? |
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| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:31 PM PDT I had a family matter that I had to lie about in order for me not to reveal things that would make my family upset. (Not defending myself in any way because I know lying was wrong and that there were other ways to go about this situation) But what's done is done... She reacted so aggressively to it and got super upset. But recently another good friend of ours had an even more elaborate lie and she just brushed it off. I just don't get why when other people do it she's cool with it. |
| Question: Trouble talking to others? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:20 PM PDT I have trouble making new friends and taking to other people and I don't think it's "anxiety" because just because you're scared to do something doesn't mean you all of sudden have an anxiety disorder. But I just want to make new friends and talk to others but I am not good at it, I try but I'm just awkward and all my friends make new friends in a second and I just can't do it, I don't know what to talk about and I stutter and I can't. I feel like people are always judging me and I have trouble looking at people in the eyes it's so hard. I have really no one I can talk to about this, because everytime I have tried to all my responses were to "just be yourself and try" which it's harder to be yourself when your in highschool and everyone judges you for every move you make. I am a kind person but not a social butterfly. Can someone please give me some tips? Please I'm tired of living my life in the background and I want to be social and have fun and do things and take risks but I'm just scared of the outcome. Please |
| Question: Ever had a hard time speaking up to make friends? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:12 PM PDT I've been struggling tomake friends since high school when I became a total loner after my only friend there started ignoring me sophoore year even when I tried to say hi to hwr face |
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| Question: Is this normal for men? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:04 PM PDT You see, I wanted to ask you about whether these kinds of gestures are casual touches without any kind of interest behind or not. I was leaning on the table, my hands on it, and beside me was a man I know, also leaning against the table. Suddenly, his fingers brushed slightly mine. It takes about ten seconds (or more) until he decides to put his hand away. Is it possible that he was distracted and did not perceive the touch? I noticed it instantly and I tensed a lot, but I did not immediately withdraw my hand because I wanted to see what he would do. On another occasion it was the same, but it was our arms that touched and remained together for a long time, and he did not move. What do you think? |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 01:45 PM PDT Just something I notice, most attractive people have attractive friends and most ugly people have ugly friends. And if someone that's ugly who has all ugly friends starts to become attractive, they start to change friend circles and ditch their ugly friend circle to more be friends with attractive people and vice versa. |
| Question: How can I get red of a "friend" ? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 01:13 PM PDT I've a friend but that friend is really lazy in a very painful way and barely doing anything. Unfortunately this started to affect me as well. I have noticed that when take a break from that friend I act better and work more. So I decided to get red of him but I don't know how? |
| Question: How do you avoid probing questions without making it obvious ? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 01:05 PM PDT HELP...I need some strategy against this its really annoying and I hate feeling like people know a lot about me, yet I know nothing about them ! I try so hard not to mind ppl's business...i wish they would do the same. If someone tells me their mom is sick...I don't ask about yet. Yet if I tell someone my mom is sick it is followed by 3 followup questions like What does she have How long has she been sick Etc.... And I KNOW it's strategy because these same ppl, never volunteer ANY info about themselves...and masterfully deflect any personal probes. I still don't know where, they live..how's their parents...if they're marred ...NOTHING. |
| Question: I'm a guy, a freshman, and I'm struggling making guy friends. Any helpful advice? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:57 PM PDT So like the question said, I'm a freshman guy and I don't have many guy friends. I have plenty of girl friends, who I do like, but I want guy friends. There are a couple of good options but they're more interested in getting drunk and high every weekend and I'm not too into that. There is another group of three or four guys who I think I'd work well with, but it's been awhile since I've even spoken to them but I'm still gonna try. If they don't work out then idk what else to do so some advice would be great, thanks. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:55 PM PDT so last night at my prom, one of my friends (were not close but we're in the same physics class and we talk a lot) and she brought her cousin as her +1 and as soon as i saw him my attention just diverted to him (i hope that doesn't sound weird) I even told my friend as i hugged her that her cousin is really good looking as he stood behind her but since he didn't know anyone he was on his phone... there would be times where we would just happen to look at eachother but nothing more than that (damn) and finally enough my friend and her cousin left.. i don't wanna ask people about him because that'd be weird (some of my friends know him/went to school w him) so i was wondering what i could do to at least have a conversation? lmao i don't know what i'm saying but you know... i hope i don't sound too crazy when i'm really not :) |
| Question: Why are so many of my friends older than me? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:55 PM PDT i m a 28 year old women, all my friends are men aged 40+!! i don t find it weird in a social sense but when it spills over into workplace dynamics i feel a little bit uncomfortable and embarrassed. what are some possible reasons behind this? thanks. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:50 PM PDT Let's just say that i'm going to ignore them back. But that's not i how i want to integrate with the people in college, I'm trying to make as much friends as possible, not there to make enemies. I'm trying to be as cool as possible with pretty much everyone. How would you handle this? Is there a way to make them regret this? without hostility? |
| Question: My Bestfriend won t is ignoring me or something? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 11:47 AM PDT Today is my birthday and Ive had about 20-30 people tell me happy birthday. Im really happy about it, but I m kinda wondering why my best friend didn t do the same? She even posted on Instagram a group photo, so she s awake and knows today is my birthday. Anyone know what happened? It has been pretty rocky a few days but we aren t in a fight. sorry for the grammar in the title... i didnt check it |
| Question: Is this enough to change roommate? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 11:41 AM PDT So again, my roommate started with loud music 4 weeks ago 24/7 even when it was time to sleep. It is not music now but ps4, he got it 2 weeks ago and since then he lays 24/7. I go to class at 9 am and get back to the room around 11 am and he is already playing, fine. I leave the room and come back until 11 pm ( I spend most of my time in the library), 11 pm and he playing all right I say I will give him 1 more hour meanwhile I am on the phone. Is 12 am and I go to bed, he lowers volume but keeps playing. Its a small college room so the screen light basically strikes my eyes and he is also laughing hard and speaking through his headset. he stops playing around 2 am every single day Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday and it is affecting my sleep because of it. He stoped playing at 4 am today because he was laughing hard and I told him " bro come on its 4 am ,,, fuckkkkk" he kept playing for 20 min and then turned it off. I move or not? your answers will be taken into serious consideration. Oh and also, he eats around 12 am in the room every day |
| Question: Social anxiety making me lose friends :(? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 11:41 AM PDT I m currently 17, and as I grow older my social anxiety seems to get worse... Last year and the year before I had about 3 friends in particular that are like any other guy around 15 years; immature, hanging out, etc. Sure we re kids and we weren t doing bad things, but we were having fun. But now, I rarely speak to them cause I m more self conscious, and any time I speak to them, especially if we re all in an Xbox party together, I get socially awkward and I don t say much cause I m afraid of being judged.. Does anybody have advice to increase my confident and get rid of this awkwardness? I m losing fun D: |
| Question: How to choose who to live with after death my parent? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 10:35 AM PDT I'm almost 14 and my (single) mom passed away in June. It has been difficult, but I've had a lot of emotional help and I am doing reasonably well. But I need to make a decision of where to live, and it is really difficult. My dad and I have next to no relationship. He left when I was 2 and we have barely had any contact since. He is offering to take me, but I think it would be really awkward, he's never really been in my life, he is remarried with kids of his own, and he hardly sounds excited about me now, more like he is "willing" because it is the right thing to do. The other option is my aunt, who is married to a wonderful man and has 2 daughters I am very close with. She loves me, wants to adopt me, wants to make me part of the family. And I want that too. But she has also been very clear that if I want to live here, that means her treating me the same as she does them, and her discipline does include spankings......only as a last resort, not common, but they do happen, and she isn't willing to negotiate. And right or wrong she is steadfast on this, and my age does not change her opinion. I've never really been spanked (like maybe once when I was little), I'm a total wimp about pain, and this really scares me. I'm a good kid and rarely in trouble, but I'm not crazy enough to think I'll NEVER get in trouble, especially because she is fairly strict (reasonable, but strict). So it really scares me. But so does living with a "father" I don't really know.... Advice?? My dad has legal custody but he is willing to let me decide and will sign whatever paper work I ask for |
| Question: How do I get people to stop coming to me with their problems?!? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 10:14 AM PDT I always get these whiners coming to me about their dumb problems and crying! All that matter are my problems, and I just want them to **** off and die. I go through a lot, I get stressed at work, my problems are worse than theirs. |
| Question: My best friend is talking to someone she doesn t know online (Kik)? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 09:29 AM PDT My best friend and I are both 15 (about to turn 16). I ve always been the more responsible and introverted one, while my friend is more carefree and adventurous. Recently, my friend has started talking to someone on Kik. The person she is talking to claims to be 16, female, and lives in New York (my friend and I live in Texas btw). My friend has recently come out to me as bi, and I fully support her, but I m worried that she s getting attached to this girl. She spends all of her time texting her (in class and staying up late into the night). From the conversations I have been shown, the girl seems to be real and telling the truth about herself, but you can never be sure with people on the internet. So here s my big question: What am I supposed to do? I know this relationship she is building is going to come crashing down, and I don t want her to get hurt. I m very close with her mom, and I ve thought about reaching out to her to let her know what s going on (it wouldn t be the first time I ve don t it). This has been going on for about a month, and from the beginning I have (quite nonchalantly) expressed my feelings about the situation to my friend. I would just like a second opinion, preferably from someone who has gone through/seen this before. Thank you in advance. |
| Question: Does my friend know I'm into her and does she get off on it? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 09:21 AM PDT She passed me and said hey the other day. My hand hit something and my phone dropped. From behind me, she said "look what I made you do" in a way as to suggest she made me nervous. Hollypaw: How in the world is this immature? Get over yourself. |
| Question: Am I bisexual? And is there anything wrong with being bisexual? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 09:15 AM PDT I'm a guy and I'm 18 and just started my first year of college. For a little over a year now I've been thinking that I'm bisexual. I like girls but I also think some guys are attractive too. Am I bisexual? Or just bi curious? And if I'm bisexual, is there anything wrong with it? Honest opinions but no rude comments please! Thank you. |
| Question: Should I stop avoiding him? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 08:06 AM PDT Hello I m 22 & my friend is 23. We were fooling around. We didn t have sex but he used his finger. Then he said "you're on your period?" I told him no and he said, "yes you are!" He turned on the light and blood was everywhere except on me(surprisingly). His clothes and hand was covered in blood. His bed had a HUGE blood stain. I was so embarrassed. His sheets were white and brand new. I offered to clean it and replace them but he insisted I just go take a shower. He removed all of the blood and the sheets. He was very nice about it and gave me a pair of his clothes to sleep in. I've been avoiding him and he thinks it's his fault. This happened in June. He did nothing wrong but I'm just embarrassed. I don't want to speak of that night or even remember it. What should I do? Just act like it never happened? |
| Question: Why is she obsessed with me if she hates me? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 08:05 AM PDT I have this former friend who I don't get along with because she betrayed me several years ago. Anyway I tried to forgive her and reach out to her when she was having a tough time. At first she accepted it but then blamed me for trying to help her so I broke off our friendship once again. Ever since I've just been ignoring her. She claims to dislike me but keeps on following my facebook posts and checking out all of my stories on Social media. I've also caught her staring at me during class and eavesdropping on one of my conversations. If she dislikes me so much like she says, why is she so obsessed with my life and what I do? :/ I confused. Does she want to be friends and is afraid to admit that? Or does she actually hate me but pretend to like me? I'm not sure what I should think and whether this girl that broke my trust, is worth it at all. |
| Question: Did she commit suicide? What do I do? Pls help!!! Pls!!!? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 07:53 AM PDT So there's a girl I went to college who may or may not killed herself. I was not really friends with her (just acquaintances). On Thursday night a friend of mine unexpectedly sent a message saying the other girl (lets call her Ann) had posted a long message on facebook announcing that she's committing suicide and bidding everyone farewell. I quickly went onto facebook and not only was there no such post, but her entire facebook profile had vanished. I don't know if my friend would make this up for some sick reason, because I know she basically hated Ann during college. They did not get along. But at the same time why do this? I could not try contact Ann myself as I've lost touch with her and don't have her details. Another friend mine told me on Friday morning (next day) that Ann's last seen time on Whatsapp was earlier that day at 07:00 AM on Friday . Apparently she's not answering her phone. My friend's conclusion is that Ann has not killed herself, as she clearly didn't do it on the day she supposedly announced it, and she's looking for attention. I was ready to accept this and keep it moving, but the idea of it is haunting me. Who's to say if she didn't kill herself that day, that she isn't still suicidal and won't possibly do it today or tomorrow? And that's if this Facebook post even happened. What is the responible thing to do here? Do I call the police? I have no means of contacting her family? I also don't want to frighten them if nothing's wrong. |
| Question: I messed up. What will happen? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 07:37 AM PDT (Long) So me and three other friends made an account on instagram where we can rant about stuff that's bothering us. Yesterday at school, one girl took her phone and went on her instagram and saw everything, screenshotted it and sent it to the people that we ranted about. Before you say anything about how I should've thought first and all that kind of stuff, I know I should've thought first, but it was private and only for the four of us, but I do realize I should've known there are ways people can find it. The people haven't said anything to anyone yet besides maybe a few kids. I did make things right with everyone except my two bullies (which I had a couple of posts about). I'm not sure if they'll go to a teacher about it or anything, but nothing we said was all that bad. Do you think if they do go to a teacher, they'll talk to our parents or something like that? We're in middle school so they aren't as strict as they would be in high school. None of us have gotten in trouble before either. Just whatever you do, don't lecture me about this because I already feel bad enough. Just to add, that girl shouldn't have taken my friends phone in the first place let alone send that to everyone, but I know I'm in the wrong here. |
| Question: I feel like a total and utter loser.? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 07:17 AM PDT I know there's a lot of questions on this but here's my take on it. I am 14 years old a sophmore in highschool and if you look at me my life is perfect, I have a loving family in a nice house, I have friends who love me and I am not the worst looking person ( I'm not trying to sound cocky or anything but I'm not super pretty either) and I'm basically all set. But the thing is everythingin my life is perfect right now but I still feel like a loser and I cry sometimes. My friends make new friends so easily and I can't. I can't do that because I have anxiety. All the boys like my friends, but no boys like me. I feel like a loser in class I feel like a loser near my friends because I can't talk to my friends about my problems because they don't care. I can't do things like wear bikinis or wear shorts or go to party's because I'm not allowed. I feel like a loser because everytime my friends or when my friends talk to others about something secretive about boys or something I'm left out and can't hear and when I ask them they never answer. I have no one to talk to and I feel like a loser because I am one. All my friends talk about is BOYS I am sick and tired of talking about boys because boys don't like me. And I'm just tired I'm just so tired. |
| Question: How can I bring more people into my life? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 06:59 AM PDT I'm 20 years old and I moved to a new city several months ago and I've never been lonelier in my life. I have a job, joined a gym and I have a couple of old friends around the area that I spend time with occasionally but usually its just me, myself and I. I barely have anyone to talk to, seeing as my parents have passed away and the rest of my family isn't close. I have drifted from most of my high school friends and I miss having people to spend time with. I don't know if its something I'm doing, but I never seem to be put on the path of new friends. There are a couple of girls my age at my job that have made it clear they already have their own groups to hang out with from school. I've even tried social media apps like bumble bff and meet ups, but bumble didn't really bring much and the meet ups were just of an older crowd mostly. Can someone tell me how to meet friends under my circumstances? I'm not going back into school until next year, and I don't want to spend the rest of the year all by myself like this. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 06:57 AM PDT become friends anymore? |
| Question: I have 0 true friends what can i do? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 06:11 AM PDT I have no friends and when I do they just use me. I have 2 friends who I can tell are using me. This guy is always asking me for favors and help on his work but when he doesn't need help he is rude to me. I remember passing by him and a friend of his and I heard him say "ew she's no friend of mine" to his other friend and slowly looked at me to see if I heard him. I just kept walking and acted like I didn't hear it. Then he saw me and asked me for some of my food and talking to me like we are best friends. I wanted to say no but didn't have the guts. I have another friend who laughs at me behind my back and comes to me when she is alone at lunch and her friends are absent. Her and her other friends talk about me and spread rumors then comes and try to have regular conversations with me. She doesn't like me hanging around her and her friends and tells me to go sit somewhere else away from them. All her friends liked me until SHE started making fun of me to them. When she is by herself she comes up to me all friendly and pretends to act nice. And weird thing she does she stares at me for long period of time before whispering something about me to her friends. I caught her right on time and Then they all bust out laughing and she would be the only one not laughing pretending to be innocent and avoided making eye contact with me. I'm not trying to be rude but she is not pretty at all herself. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:53 AM PDT When I got there, she wanted me to take her to the mechanic shop to drop her car off for repair. To my surprise the shop was 2-minutes' walk away from her home. Anyway, after doing so, she asked that I take her to 7 different stores. I did and then later she was hungry, so I took her to burger king and she gave me $10 to buy me and my husband lunch. I took the money and said, I am going to put it towards gas since we ate lunch before getting to her. She turns around and gave me another $10 for gas. Then later I dropped her home and she text me with some bullshit: "I went home and thought to myself, how could you charge me, and after all it's the last $10 I had to pay the mechanic. I don't need your friendship because you are not a good friend to me." My question is: should I respond to her text or ignore her? Please help as this is burning me in my skin to respond. Thank you so much for your time and the advice you will give. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:50 AM PDT Basically, let me put this short, it's a long story. I have this "close friend" (I've known her for about 3 years, but I've only been best friends with her for 2 years) who I recently just told I didn't want to be friends with anymore for multiple reasons. The thing is, my friend is super sensitive. Right after I told her why I didn't want to be best-friends with her anymore, she changed her statuses and everything to: "I don't know what I did wrong" and stuff like that. I feel kind of bad for her in a way, but the reasons why I didn't want to be friends with her anymore... Well, I've given her so many chances. I just don't feel comfortable around with her anymore and the things she did of which she is not aware of can't be forgiven. I just don't what to do... Why? She's going to cry, at school it's going to be super awkward with her (I have to sit next to her at lunch everyday, we're given permanent spots), because like I said, she's super sensitive... Hopefully you understood what I meant by this. I just need some advice, thanks. |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:36 AM PDT Now the reasons I don't want to go to a party are simple so I'll list them 1-I'm a part of a group at school who's at the borderline betweeen the vaping, weed smoking, beer chugging group and the nerdy group and frankly when I go to the party I will feel uncomfortable because I hate everything that relates to those things I mean if you smoke weed I don't care smoke anything you want but I really don't like being around anybody when they are doing it. 2-I am the quiet background guy in my group and to be honest high school parties are not a thing I really like that's mostly the reason I don't get invited because they know I would be sitting on their couch on their phone. I don't want to spend a party on the coach I mean that's just boring to do for 3 hours So your probably thinking "Oh just be honest and say no" I can't do that because of this reason And that's the why question which comes after the no, what am I supposed to say to this girl that I don't want to go to this party because I'm an antisocial teen who hates drinking. It's embarrassing and if you don't understand your probably not a 16 year old teen So please just give me some help on some excuses I'm no good so that's why I'm asking the people of yahoo I don't want to go and when you give me these excuses don't give me one which could contradict me in the future E.g. Oh my granny died but the months later comes and I accidentally say that she's still alive, also something that doesn't make me sound rude |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 05:34 AM PDT I m 29 year old guy and I have an good life I m married with 3 kids and for the most part I m happy until I think about the one childhood friend I had from the age 5 till I was like 17 then one day for no reason he just broke contact with me and every now and then I wonder why and I feel so hurt when ever he comes in town he never calls me he calls everyone else I know he didn t ever call me after my mom died when I tryed to reach out to him a few years ago he completely rejected me I don t have any real friends anymore jest my family I don t know why and maybe I ll never know why I jest had to vent I never told anyone this before. |
| Question: Help! What does "I'm trying to figure you out mean"? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 04:13 AM PDT Hi guys! So a few days ago my friend introduced me to her guy friend. My friend and I are 18 and he's 20. We all hung out and things were going pretty well, he said that I was a "pretty cool kit kat" I thought that was funny. But anyways after a while, we all went out to eat and so we were all talking about life and at some point I got really tired and layed my head on my friends shoulder. And I noticed that he was staring at me and I just ignored it, but he didn't look away. So I asked him straight up why he was doing that and then laughed and said that it was because he was trying to figure me out. No ones ever said that to me and I dont know if I should have taken this in a bad way or just a neutral way. Just curious to know what it means when someone says that. Thanks in advanced :) |
| Posted: 16 Sep 2017 03:48 AM PDT It was mainly about height. My cousin is whooping 7'3 and I am 6 inches shorter than him at 6'9. He calls me short lank because I'm thin. Another issue is I tower over people and so the attention is often on me. People at school call me sky scraper and my cousin bully me too who also goes to the same school as I am.. I am fed up what should I do? |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:50 AM PDT http://imgur.com/a/rNXmQ |
| Question: I'm angry a guy I slept with talked to our mutual friend? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 02:09 AM PDT A guy and I had a crazy fling. My friend works with him. On the Sunday after, they start talking about it together all day, and my friend says I encouraged him to skip work and stuff, and says I should pay him back for money he spent. She said to him I should have left the place, and then they started gossiping about my mom being pissed at me. It's just strange he took no accountability for it, and then she got super involved in it. It made it really uncomfortable for me, and I blame him. I hear about him skipping work again, and I got really infuriated and then my friend gossip to other friends about how I went insane on him. They both do cocaine and this is like a situation I want nothing to do with, so I defriended both of them. I cannot handle this and how she got so involved in it after. It's just stuff I don't want anything to do with it. I am right in this, am I not? Neither of them really had my back, it was sh*t talking and two people that do coke with one another. It is strange they talked on the phone for like two hours after, I felt like she might have had a crush on him |
| Question: Please help, I need a second opinion ? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:41 AM PDT I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm in my early 20s, we're both girls.. she's become a very special friend, one you rarely come across. Her name is Hazel. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything, we've cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. I just get a special feeling towards her.. months ago, she said I was special to her and a kindred spirit, she's a lady who doesn't express feelings or stuff much, so that meant a lot because I felt it too.. although it's been 8 months, she's said I'm special and valuable to her a couple times but never the kindred spirit part again.. do you think we are still kindreds or did it fade off?.. she hasn't mentioned it again |
| Question: How do you make friends? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:31 AM PDT I'm 12 and have anxiety around people and I have depression. how do you make friends I have one online and another that we're fighting. I try to make them and they go away after a few days stop talking to me. I try to be nice and talk about things. Idk what's wrong |
| Question: Is it right I chose not be involved with someone missing work and doing cocaine? Posted: 16 Sep 2017 12:13 AM PDT I hung out with a guy for 3 days in a row. He was missing work because he hung out with me and did cocaine. On Sunday, he starts freaking out. He starts talking to our mutual friend about it the whole day. My friend says I encouraged him, and I take that really, really seriously. I cannot handle being in trouble and cannot handle someone doing this. I freaked out on him and went psycho, then she goes and tells our mutual friend I went insane and texted someone at work a bunch. He chose to hookup with me. If she was a good friend, she would understand I was worried and would not say I encouraged it. Neither of them had my back. I cannot handle being anywhere near this situation, and want to distance myself as much as I can. I want to get a good job and don't want people gossiping behind my back. I feel like I am showing respect to myself by not being anywhere near this situation? I went crazy on him but I have no respect for him. I have no respect for a friend that doesn't understand where I am coming from. |
| Question: Is it lame for me to get drunk by myself? Posted: 15 Sep 2017 11:33 PM PDT I'm 18 and never drank. I want to get drunk for the first time but I only have online friends. I see people my age getting drunk with their friends but I would have to do it alone. Is that lame or is it normal |
| Question: Does This Sound Like An Excuse? Posted: 15 Sep 2017 11:31 PM PDT Well Me and My Friend Made Plans To Go To The Movies Today But it didn't work Out Because apparently she had to work in the morning til the afternoon and then I asked my friend if she wanted to meet up still she had told me that she was gonna meet up with me then the last minute she told me she can't, this is my issue this isn't the first time she does this to me every time we try and plan something she does this almost every time we plan to hang out and it makes me upset with my friend and the only reason why I think she is lying because she said the same exact thing to me she told me today. I need some advice Does anyone think she is lying and making excuses not to hang out ? |
| Question: Is it bad that I value myself before anyone else? Posted: 15 Sep 2017 11:11 PM PDT Ive started to notice this When I was in 9th grade I really needed money for stuff I wanted but I was too young to get a job. Me and 2 business partners worked together selling drugs, and as soon as I reached the amount I needed, I turned both of them in and they got arrested. I dont know what happened after that. It wasnt becuase I didnt like them, it was because I was scared of getting caught and I needed someone to blame Another time I was shoplifting with some friends at the mall, and I manipulated all of them into doing the shoplifting for me, so I wouldnt have to get my hands dirty. I love my friends and I would never want them in jail, but I come before them. We never got caught for that one. Another time two of my friends wanted to fight another girl because she was talking sh!t about them. I told them that there was probably a better way to solve this. Then they told me that she was talking sh!t about me and too I completely got on board with it. I could tell more but you get the point. Does this make me a bad person? |
| Question: My best friend won't talk to me? Posted: 15 Sep 2017 10:53 PM PDT My best friend and I don't have classes together, but we text and call each other a bit everyday. We're in high school btw. So suddenly she stopped responding to my texts and leaves me on read. It's been a week, and she's been hanging out with other people. We don't really see each other at school, but I thought texting was enough. Does she not want to be friends anymore? I've given her space. She's been all over social media, but she isn't talking to me. |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2017 10:07 PM PDT My friends wife does not like me and I thought about bringing the key to their apartment and cutting all ties with him to keep down the drama. I m not sure what to do he s been my friend for 9 years now before he met her but the same time. What should I do? |
| Question: Why do some people leave others on read in texting? Posted: 15 Sep 2017 09:00 PM PDT I had someone text me and when i answered,they left me on opened?was i boring? Did they not know what to say ?2 of my friends always leave me on opened too!why? |
| Posted: 15 Sep 2017 08:51 PM PDT He doesn't like them for reasons I understand, they grew weed in cali & brought it back to the town I live in & were known as the dealers of the town. Back in hs, their house was the house to go to to party & do drugs, so their parents got a bad rep, and so did some of the kids even though they were super popular. Anyway, my boyfriend used to hang w them in hs but has since disassociated himself w them once they started doing all the super illegal stuff. Anyway, one of the kids is getting married this Saturday & I was invited bc I'm friends w them (not super close bc we don't live in the same town anymore) and I really want to go... But my boyfriend doesn't think its a good idea to be associated w them because of their bad rep, and he's afraid there will be drugs @ the wedding and he doesn't want me to do them (I have a past w drugs so it freaks him out). So, my question is what do I do? I want to respect my bf's feelings bc I've been in his shoes- not wanting him to hang w who I thought were shady people who were no good for him. But I also don't want to be told what to do, and I feel like it'll be messed up if I don't go bc I've known this family since I was literally a baby. He isn't doing this to control me, in fact this is the first time my bf has ever done anything like this... so I just don't know. Should I go and disregard how he feels & him be pissed at me, or do I stay and resent him? |
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