Ok I know this isn't really a question I'm just here to vent my mom and both have been narcissistic, though my mom has gotten better my brother hasn't they both don't know I think like that because I don't mention the word, but me and my mom were talking about him the other day I told her I put up with him because I have to when I move I won't talk to him, she said no you put up with him because he's your brother I ignored her because I didn't want to start an argument, but what is she going to do if I do cut him off completely when I leave? Force me to talk to him? I can cut her off with no problem to, they both caused me to be depressed since I was a kid took me years to realize this they had me fooled for awhile, if I had a car I'd be out already living in it but I'm saving for one. Has anyone gone through similar on here?

I don't know what is wrong with my grandma's breath but it smells like shît! I can't stand it when she gives me a kiss after she's visited cos I can smell her shîtty breath more and it makes me bork and feel sick I keep telling my mum and dad to tell her they agree it smells shîtty but still won't tell her! What can I doooo?

It's been 11 months since I left the house with my mom. My father was really abusive to mother. He would insult her and ask her to do everything and also blame her for everything. He would also insult me. Anyways, he keeps sending me text messages saying that he can't take it anymore and that his chest hurts. I don't believe him at all because I know he's manipulating me. When me and my mom had depression when we lived with him, he would laugh at us because he thought that we were faking it. We were depressed because we were going through domestic violence at home. Seeing domestic violence at home all these years caused me to have social anxiety. He wants me to feel bad for him because he's "depressed" but when I was depressed he didn't care about me. What do I do? My mom says that I shouldn't send him text messages anymore but he's the one sending the messages. He wants to see me but I'm honestly scared of him because he might have a gun. I'm 19, so I can decide when I want to see him. He's done so many bad things to my mom. My mom's family sees him as a crazy person that needs help. I remember when my uncle(my mom's brother) helped him fix the walls from one of the rooms. The next day, my father calls my uncle and gets mad at him for no reason. Later, my uncle goes to our house and talks to my mom and tells her that's there's something wrong with my dad. My father would take advantage of my mom's family. They helped him, then later he would get mad at them for no reason.

I'm 19, a freshman in college. She's been very emotionally and physically abusive my entire live. She stoped the physical stuff when she got arrested for attempting to choke me when I was 14. My whole life we've been two completely different people. She's materialist and cares so much about how she looks to others. She would call me names growing up which is why I'm very self conscious. At the end of the day I try to move past it and keep a smile on my face and try to be th best I can be. I'm working and going to school. I don't make enough money to move out yet. Today we got into a huge fight because she kept saying my boyfriend who I've been wit for years is going to leave me for a skinny girl and that I'm so fat and everyone says that I'm a fat pig and I'm ugly. Idk how to go about this. She doesn't ever listen to me when I try to tell her how I feel. It's depressing. Any chance I get to leave the house, I do. And she'll call me names for that too. I'm the youngest child and she wants to always have that control over me I guess. Idk what to do. Also I just wanna say I'm not even fat or obese. I'm not bones I'm curvy and my thighs have always been bigger because I'm Spanish I weigh around 180 but I have it in places that I'm comfortable with and everyone always tells me I have a nice body including my boyfriend. BUT my mom really gets into my head about this. She's my mother so it hurts. When I was 10 I used to cut myself because she was so mean

So in school today this girl was collecting a paper that we were doing in class and I was about to finish the last part of the paper and she just said to me "You need to hurry up or you should just give up on writing." We still had time left in class it's not like class was almost over! Why can't I just finish my work?? She's always so rude to me and the worst part is that she sits behind me in class!

yeah i saw how this girl from my class met her sister after school and at first they hugged each other which i guess is normal for some people but even that seems a weird thing to do in public. but then she gave her sister a kiss! yes, really. at least it was on the cheek and not on her lips but still... why would you kiss your sibling?? it was so awkward to see that and if they already kiss in public i dont even want to know what sick things they might be doing when they are at home... disgusting. they are both like 16-17 and at that age its not normal at all to kiss your siblings... what do you think?

I really want a car. Not having one makes me feel depressed. I cry every day after work when I have to walk home. A few weeks ago my mom said that she was buying me a car for my birthday and that she doesn't want me to spend my money on that . but now she never talks about it at all! Never brings it up!...I'm wondering if I should Trust her and not buy a car and enjoy all of my pay checks each week ? Or should I save up and prepare to buy my own car for my birthday in case if she doesnt? Help? I learned that you can't depend on anyone for anything it's always good to have a backup plan even though she promised me..help?

They wish everybody else in my family a happy birthday and I always wish my cousins, aunts, and uncles etc a happy birthday but they have never wished me a happy birthday ever.

Why would someone react like that to a funny remark?

Spent the weekend with some 'country' relatives. They are so boring. They just sit on the couch, eat unhealthy food and their walls are covered with Bible sayings and antecdotes about being Southern and being polite. I was disgusted. What makes people want to live like this?

Well he heard Ron Weasley say it in the Harry Potter movies and now he won't stop imitating him. He never insults anybody with it, just says it when he's frustrated or thinks something is stupid. Should I stop him?

I am a guy in high school. My step mom Lisa is just 5 years older than I am. Dad married a much younger woman. She is also VERY beautiful and has a great figure. I guess dad just likes beautiful women. Lisa is a great step mom and I really like her. She will sometimes tell me "I am going skinny dipping in the pool". "Don't watch me out the window". Every guy reading this knows what I did when she does this. Something will come up and I have to take care of it. I think the next time she goes skinny dipping, I will ask her if I can join her. Don't you think it is important that a mother know her son is well hung just like his dad?

My mom had to go to a business meeting out of state. She tried to get reservations at a hotel and the hotels were all full because a convention was in town. My ex husband Sam lives in the town and mom always liked Sam when we were married. In what I thought was a bold move, mom called Sam and ask him if she could stay with him for one night. He readily agreed. He met her at the airport, took her to his condo and then to a nice restaurant for dinner. He then took her to her meeting the next morning. When she got home she told me all this and how nice Sam was too her. I asked her if there was anything else I should know about her visit with Sam. She said jokingly (I think) you will have to wait 9 months to find out. OH MY GOD. That is the KINKIEST THING EVER. Should a mother even jokingly tell her daughter something like that?

I'm almost 14 and my (single) mom passed away in June. It has been difficult, but I've had a lot of emotional help and I am doing reasonably well. But I need to make a decision of where to live, and it is really difficult. My dad and I have next to no relationship. He left when I was 2 and we have barely had any contact since. He is offering to take me, but I think it would be really awkward, he's never really been in my life, he is remarried with kids of his own, and he hardly sounds excited about me now, more like he is "willing" because it is the right thing to do. The other option is my aunt, who is married to a wonderful man and has 2 daughters I am very close with. She loves me, wants to adopt me, wants to make me part of the family. And I want that too. But she has also been very clear that if I want to live here, that means her treating me the same as she does them, and her discipline does include spankings......only as a last resort, not common, but they do happen, and she isn't willing to negotiate. And right or wrong she is steadfast on this, and my age does not change her opinion. I've never really been spanked (like maybe once when I was little), I'm a total wimp about pain, and this really scares me. I'm a good kid and rarely in trouble, but I'm not crazy enough to think I'll NEVER get in trouble, especially because she is fairly strict (reasonable, but strict). So it really scares me. But so does living with a "father" I don't really know.... Advice???

So me and my dad don't have a close good relationship. For years my dad treated me difference , when i went to his house evey other weekend he wouldn't give me attention or do things with me. My dad has never been there for me. He doesn't care how i feel. My dad, his wife and me for got into a huge fight a few weeks ago, my dad's wife is so dramatic she is blaming me for not wanting to go over to my dad's house anymore and she blocked me from phone message, si the next day I deleted her off Facebook and she got mad. My dad texted me and blaming me for all of the drama between us, when all I want is my dad's love and attention. My dad always takes his wife's side and never listens how i feel. I feel like he doesn't love and care about me.

I'm an 18 year old who is the child of a 78 year old and a 70 year old. Why did my parents wait until they were 52 and 60 to have a child? Do they just not want any children or grandchildren? Do they care at all to be in my life? That hurts and I will live with that for the rest of my life knowing I won't spend as much time with them as other kids will with theirs. I'm glad I disowned them. I ran away from home, I recently got a new job as a newspaper delivery boy and I'm working on getting my Associate's Degree from College. They still try to contact me, I do not answer them and act as if they don't exist.

We took in a family member who is 16. Now that the "honeymoon" phase is over, she is less responsive to our requests. She puts off her chores (literally only has to keep her bedroom/bathroom clean & do the dishes). Her attitude seems to vary day by day but when we address her attitude when it is inappropriate ,she retreats to her room to ignore the situation. She has broken a couple of rules we have for the house as well. It hasnt gotten to the point where we need to take away her phone or her door off the hinges yet. Im trying to stop it from getting to that point.

My step dad will jokingly slap my butt to joke around, sometimes in public and people just stare is that weird? i dont think it is, he's just playing around

My mom always makes me pick up after my brother. Instead of telling him to do it she makes me pick it up. Btw he is 21,and I'm 18. Her excuse is that he works and goes to school. I might not be able to do anything about it.

My dad always talks to me about my mom or my mom and his problems like what am I supposed to do with that information? I'm not a relationship counselor dad. Lol

15+ years ago my Dad worked in Istanbul for 6 months at a time for many years. He developed a love for the city and after finishing working for the company he has never returned, although wanting to. It's his 60th birthday this December so my brother and I have arranged for him and my Mum to go to Istanbul in June 2018, we plan to reveal this to them both on his birthday. My brother and I have told our parents we (my brother and I) are planning on going away in June. As we have dogs this will then prevent them from booking a holiday around that time. My problem now is that my Dad has recently become obsessed with wanting to go to Istanbul next year. He's asked my brother when he and I are planning on going away in June so he knows what dates to avoid. How do we stop him booking this holiday to Istanbul without telling him we've already got a trip to Istanbul arranged and paid for?

I have a friend who came from a wealthy family . Although she is rich , she would not brag about it .

My oldest brother is currently living at home while he goes to school for his teaching credential. It's been a while since he's lived at home, but I'm pretty sure he got more insufferable during the time he was gone. Right now, it's just me, him, and our parents, since my other older siblings are away at college...they used to gang up on our oldest brother if he started to get too bossy, but now it's just me! And my mom gave him all the fire he needs by saying that he's in charge after school when my mom and dad are still at work, and it's just me and him at home. He tries to dictate when I should be home from school, or else he'll threaten to tell our mom that I came home late or something. And whenever i do come home, he won't let me watch tv or go on the computer or anything until I do my homework...the other day, he even took my phone from me! And sometimes if I do finish my homework, he'll try to get me to do chores, chores that our mom didn't even give to me! Where does he get off bossing me around like this? What should I do?

I feel I know what's important to me and her but I suddenly have to take on the wants of middle-aged woman? I don't care if it's normal. I simply ask if it makes sense.

I thought I was doing everything right with my life by getting a degree and coming out of college with great grades so I can get a great job but that didn't work out. I learned that no matter how hard are smart I work manipulative people always have the advantage. I came out with a great attitude only to get paid Pennies on the dollar which was okay with me because it was the only work I could find until I learned construction to get better job. I've been struggling for 7 years now since I've been on a college renting rooms in living in mice infested houses as that is all I can afford with my salary. . I paid off my college debt though and this is why I have struggled for so many years. I've been beating up held at knifepoint my life threatened and thrown off a bike to where I needed shoulder surgery and leg surgery and I never collected disability but I get back up and keep trying only to get beat back down.

I'm 19 years old, and I just got my learners permit (please don't judge, I waited when I was good and ready) And I still need to call about drivers training to get into. We were celebrating my grandmothers birthday. During supper my brother (he's 25) started to nag at me in front of everyone about not calling yet. I told him I just got done a 6 day work week, and the only day I had off was Monday, which was a stat, and the next day I had off was a Sunday and again the place is closed. Plus they are usually closed before I can call because I'm at work. He said I could have called today because I was at home by 2, but I told him I was busy getting the birthday party set up. Then my dad pointed out that I only worked a 4 hour shift, and I said 5, and my brother started laughing at me, in front of everyone else at the table! I said I've been crazy busy, but my brother kept laughing at me and I honestly almost cried. I felt like an idiot in front of a bunch of people! I told my dad he really hurt my feelings and how I'm sick of everyone poking holes about my hours at work. He felt really bad and apologized and my parents offered to talk to my brother for me. I love my brother too death but he always has to bring up things about my life in front of a bunch of people and make me look like an idiot. I don't stick my nose in what he does, and I don't laugh in his face. I'm just scared to talk to him because when he gets mad he flat out ignores me for days-weeks. What do I do?

Giving my Daddy a gift, I'll be 20 soon so maybe for Christmas or on my actual bday.. I got a locket and had an idea of giving it to him with pics of me and him when I was a baby, but locket seemed weird for a man.. So I found pocket watches, one where you can engrave some words, I thought of putting "Love you Daddy, more than you know" or something like that. Another pocket watch has where you can insert a photo.. What would be more "touching" for a gift from daughter to father? Words from me now, or a picture of me and him when I was a baby..? I can't find a pocket watch with both options.. I should mention some "history", mom left dad and took me and sis with her when she left, when we were babies. He took like 15 years to even get over my mom and finally start dating again, he cries a lot now because he missed so much of our childhood.. Even tells me to come move in with him now, I don't have to pay anything, he just wants to spend time with us... So words or a photo?

After growing up in an emotionally and physically abusive home I'm finally in a very good college on a path to medical school. I'm a girl, 19, a sophomore. Despite all my success it all seems so meaningless. Everything is passing me by how do I make myself care about others! I'm a horrible selfish human being. I had lot's of "friends" in high school I was lucky. But I don't even miss them I never really cared about talking to them even back in high school. What's wrong with me why am I so uncaring? Everyone else my age is dating and having fun but I'm never romantically interested in anyone. I feel as if I'm missing something, the ability to love and care? Were my parents supposed to teach me that because all they ever did was destroy me. I remember the days I used to feel things. I would hide in my room and hide from my parents, I was terrified of their footsteps because they might barge into my room at any moment and start yelling or hitting. I had no lock after my dad broke it twice in a fit of rage. My mom would worked from home and would come upstairs to yell at least every 30 minutes. I used to cry when they yelled at me but after I would feel so tired.. I used to be afraid that they were coming to hit me or humiliate me. Towards the end of living with them I stopped crying when they yelled at me, or made fun of me. I stood their and took beatings and didn't even flinch. I didn't eat for days because my parents denied me food and I didn't even care. How do I feel again?

I had given birth to triplet boys after having another son before. And I wasn't satisfied with the family that I had, so I quickly gave them all up for adoption for a family to love them. I wanted daughters, not sons, so I disowned my boys. I told this story to a neighbor next door to my house, and she was furious with me. She just raged at me, the anger evident in her eyes and her voice, like she wanted to kill me. She said she was resentful of me because her and her husband couldn't have any children at all and called me ungrateful. What the hell is her problem?

My parents got divorced and I often find myself in the awkward situation where I m talking to one parent about the other and I don t know how to refer to the opposite parent. For example If I was talking to my mom about my dad should I say "my dad" or is it okay to continue to use "dad" or should I use his first name? Idk if anyone else has been in this situation but it s really awkward and hard sometimes because I m not sure what name I should use so I phrase my sentences awkwardly so I don t have to.

She (Katia) doesn't have an actual job, lived with her parents before (she's mid 40s) my dad got her a car and he claims she helps him with bills and his work, but when I go over she is always home doing nothing. My little brother and I both don't like her (trust me I had come at this from a very unbiased manner) and I feel like she drains him of his money. She does make him happy and she is friendly to my brother and I, but we both deep down feel like something is up. She is taking over his house (she's moved in) but took the position of filling his house with her **** and decorating it to her preference. I feel like my dad is too blind and kind to see she's "whipping" him, all though all of his friends and I know it to be true. I just don't like this situation at all.

I go to college and am currently living with my parents. I go to school full time and I work. I never eat at home, like NEVER. I always eat in my car on the way to work or school. I don't think its fair that my parents make a mess in the kitchen and then tell me to clean it up when I haven't contributed so much as a fork to the dishwasher. I do have a younger brother who is fully capable of doing the dishes as well. Should I have to do the dishes?

My brother molested me when I was about 10 years old and I don't think he knows I remember. My family had a falling out and we no longer talk to him bc he disowned us. Should I tell him I know?

My teacher was shocked when some articles mentioned that 11-12 year olds are watching 13 Reasons Why. She thought that they wouldn't even know about suicide and drugs. She said that she thought they were innocent and was into "playing dress up, race cars, dolls, and focusing on school". From what I see, barely any of them are doing those things anymore. I've read some news about tweens and even younger children committing suicide. A middle school in the US had a huge problem with drug use. Generally, the majority of them are more into "adult" things than kid things.

When I was younger about 10 my brother molested me. I don't know if he knows that I remember and I'm haunted my it everyday. My brother got engaged to a girl and my parents didn't really like her so he disowned my parents and they don't talk. My brother and I don't talk either and I'm dying inside because of what he did. And a little part of me wants him to pay for it but the other part tell me he's engaged and deserves to be happy. What should I do? And it's not like I can go to his house because I'm 16 and can't drive alone yet.

I m 7 months pregnant & he s in prison. He was sentenced to two years. I currently don t have anything. I m sleeping on a family members floor. I have two body suits so far. Would it be wrong of me to ask his family to help with expenses? Like a car seat and baby bed.

I know my boyfriend has a house and is able to support me. But my mom thinks that if I go off on my own then I will join a cult. I really think that I will be able to live a more happy life with my boyfriend who knows a lot about being healthy and has the money to support me. I am 18 years old and I am still not allowed to be treated like an adult. It's like all I ask for is to be with someone that I can spend my life with and be happy and get away from my mom. I mean like I am 18 years old which is a legal adult so I am old enough to decided this but my mom is keeping me all because she thinks I am going to join a cult. And my sister is someone I have to deal with and they are both as equally radical about everything but I think my sister might be worse. I have to deal with depression because of what I have to deal with. I just want to be with someone who I love and can support me and even when I am 18 I am being treated like a child and I can't decided anything. And to make things even worse I deal with Autism and my mom put guarding ship on me on me so I am not really considered an adult and still being controlled by my mom. I know my boyfriend enough to know that he is a nice and respectful person who has money to support. My mom she doesn't have so much money and doesn't even have a job and relies on my disability checks. And really it seems that everyone is on her side and they think she should have those disability checks on me even though that's mostly all she uses. This is a same sex relationship and we plan to marry once I move in with him. I really don't understand why all you people are hating on me when all I really want is to be loved in my life and I am not going to get that from my mom. I am just someone who wants to live with someone who actually can support me. I don't care if I will be treated like a child if I am letting them support me. What matters to me that I am not being yelled at on a constant basis. Why are you all saying that I shouldn't love someone and saying that my mom is right? Another thing is this is the United States I should have the right to be free and pursue happiness. So why do you think that my mom should have any right to take that away from me?

Its my 16th birthday and I finally have enough money to buy a used Xbox so I can play Need for Speed (2015) but I cant because my mom doesn t want me to. The way I usually buy stuff over the internet with my money is if she let s me use her laptop to order it through her PayPal. I of course pay her back every time. This is the one opportunity I can finally buy myself something that I always wished for and she isn t letting me. I asked her why and she said like EVERY time its hard for her to get me to do something but it isn t true, as I do the house chores when I m asked and I sometimes do extra. She calls me lazy the moment she sees me playing my GameCube when I literally just started playing. I don t know if there s any way I can convince her. My second option is to just buy a credit card at the store and add my money onto it, buthen again I can t get a little help from my mom? Anything will help, thanks

My mom has had sleeping issues since 3 years. She either wakes up in the middle of the night from the slightest sound or sleep 4 hours wake up on the next day. Me and my brother keep talking to her to go to a doctor but she strongly refuses the idea and finally when she asked a doctor to give her medical pills she then refused to take them. Me and my brother are so mad we keep asking her to take them so she could sleep normally. When i tried to talk to her in a different mood and told her you will die early like this she said in a not so serious tone that we are the reason she wants her life to end. I mean me and my brother cause problems to her but normal ones, like any other family i guess. My mom and dad have problems with each other, they are not divorced but they don't act like normal couples. they rarely talk and sometimes they slightly fight. My mom keeps saying that if it wasn't for us she would have left him. My dad is so kind but their marriage isn't working...She also has problems with her family. I know all of this might be irrelevant but maybe all of these things are making her nervous or something that she can't sleep well. Sleeping is so important for humans and i would really regret it if something happened to her because of her sleeping issues. Can someone please help me and tell me how i can convince her to take the pills? She keeps shutting me down and tell me ''It is my life, It is not your problem''.

I'm alone, my mother verbally abuses me everytime we are home together. im broke and can't buy my own apartment and I'm a first year college student. i can't stand living with mother anymore. she has caused me alot of mental distress all my life. she is violent and is constantly nagging about literally everything and spends her time calling me names when me and her are home together. she puts alot of pressure on me knowing i cant do much im not financially stable since she didn't want me to become independent when i should have. I'm alone, im sad and my heart hurts too much everyday. i hate the days i dont work and am home. i want to kill myself so bad but im afraid of going to hell. its not fair. i just want to get out of my situation. i didn't ask for this. ive always been an obedient daughter. i never rebelled against her but she still treats me like trash. i just want to go hang myself right now. i don't want to wake up tomorrow morning because i know she will be here. i didn't ask for this. what did i do so wrong. I'm desperate. i don't want tomorrow to happen

I've been having really bad anxiety and panic attacks. I saw a doctor today and they gave me some drugs and I'm scheduled to see a counselor tomorrow. The drugs don't start kicking in for a week. I know I can't take a full week off but, my parents are pressuring me to go to school tomorrow. They think once I go I'll automatically feel better. I started crying at McDonald's today. Don't get me wrong I actually like school alot. I just don't want to feel this way around my friends. I was told I don't have a choice. My mom said she'd drive me to make sure I went. All they tell me is to just relax and calm down. It makes me feel 10 times worse. Is it right for them to pressure/force me to go to school? I'm 16 btw When it gets really bad I just about faint. It's getting alot better but I'm so tired.

ok so i just turned 23 and im in my first year of college. after graduating highschool im still living with my mother. i work a part time job but it doesnt pay me enough to help me save up on anything the money just disapears so quickly. and the only jobs i can get is retail. i want to live by myself already but i cant afford it and my mother is putting more preassure on me about it cause all of a sudden she wants to get married with some dude and leave me and my brother on our ownand take the youngest two. if she was never so controlling on us in the first place maybe we would have became independent soon after highschool but she didnt want that until now. i dont want to drop out of college because of this and i wont. but i feel theres a chance of me becoming a homeless college student in the next four years. i dont know what ill do then but i wont stop attending college even if i do. does any one have recources that can help just in case??

I am 14 years old, no siblings and have been struggling with depression for a while now. living with my mother has effected my mental and social health in multiple Ways. Socially, making me clingy in relationships with friends and partners. My mother is the biggest hypocrite I know and I'm pretty sure she's a narcissist too. She always basically make fun of others saying that she looks better for 40 years old then they do or she says that men like her when for a fact they dont and think she's crazy. She stalks her past boyfriend too. Which they were together 7 or 8 years ago. She looks up his address and his Facebook page all the time and his wife's too. And she said she hoped their baby was ugly. When she gets mad she throws something near by at me or grabs my wrist, pulls my hair, slaps me you name it. She found cuts on my wrist one day and told me not to do it again and was nice the rest of the day...and then started being an *** again. my mother also always brings up what a shitty child life she had saying that she was made fun of because she was poor etc. The other day I was upset my friend did something to me and started crying...instead of comforting me she told me to toughen up and started yelling at me saying that my childhood is no where near bad as hers was. It kills me I have a mother that doesn't care. My mother also screams LOUDLY when shes mad and cusses at me repeatedly saying I am a ******* ***** or she hates me and even once said she wished I was never born.

I hate living with my mom. On all her days off she spend them at a new guys house, she's been leaving me home alone on and off since I was 12 I'm now 16. She brings guys she meets on the internet to our home, she sleeps with almost every guy she brings home even if she doesn't know them. The only reason I still live with her is because I have my own room and the house is an average size. I don't want to live with my dad. I don't like my stepmom or stepbrother. My dad is kind of strict about... everything. I do online school so it's hard to focus with my one year brother screaming. It's only a one and a half bedroom apartment. I like being alone and I can't do that living with 3 people in a small apartment but I can't take living with my mom. I can't get a job yet since I'm so behind on my school work but I just hate being here. Advice?

I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm 19, she's become a special friend of mine, one you rarely come across. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences, especially for me being so young. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything and everything, we'v e cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other get through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. She even threatens to drive all the way over here (my college) and whip my butt. That she'd be monitoring me/my media posts etc.. to make sure I don't do anything stupid.. Why is she so worried and always concerned with me ?is it weird that we are such good friends for our age differences ?

I have homework from every class, I have to stay with my dad (we both hate each other) because my mom has to leave for work at 5 am tomorrow, my crush asked my friend out and she said YES, after I get off of yahoo answers I have to do my homework and my dad won't let me have my electronics in my room I can only use them downstairs. Oh what else? I'm on my damn period and my dad won't let me walk to the rite aid down the street for some tampons so I have to survive on one maxi pad and toilet paper, I have three reports to write, my Spanish said is anyone doesn't memorizing and recite a whole long conversation in Spanish we would all have detention, and I want chocolate but my dad is a health freak so he DOESN'T HAVE ANY!

I m a terrible aunt for saying this I know. I don t want to feel this way, but I just can t stand her. She s 12, and I m a firm believer that she has undiagnosed Conduct disorder. She got kicked out of church twice, suspended from school and told her sister she was going to kill her. Every time she s around it makes her day to make people angry or annoyed. She s disrespectful and I just can t stand to be around her anymore. I try to ask why she acts like she says "cause you re ugly and I like to annoy you :)" or she will tell her mom "your slow and Ima punch you" WTF is wrong with this child??? If this were my kid I would ve smacked her into last week awhile ago.

So there's this flat piece of cardboard that has like 10 little golden sparkles on it, and I was about to throw it away and my mom took it from me and said "NO I want that!" And I said "why? It's cardboard." And she likes "it might be useful someday" how is cardboard useful??? She also saves old grocery recites because she makes money off of them.

My mom is obsessed with her boyfriend and he treats her like sh*!. She is always complaining to us that he badgers her because my brother always eats his food he does not like him one bit. He wants him to leave and this is driving everyone nuts. He accuses everyone else. She yells and curses at everyone else. Is there any suggestions as how to handle this? I have tried to explain this to other members we have tried to confront him but he just wants to stay there using her and she just allows it. My other brother also brings in food but he has eaten his food and so he doesnt even respect him either. I have mentioned to him that she refuses to cook for anyone else other than her boyfriend. This is unfair though because when I cook I try my best for everyone. But when I do he just eats my food too and doesn t leave me anything and I have a child to feed. Any suggestions? Yeah, and everytime he yells at her she then turns to me like you havent fed your child havent you to which i say you havent either and your boyfriend ate his food She never shuts up though the next day she will say did you feed your child and I will tell her as a matter of fact we went out to eat, we eat at my job when we spend time together and my brother is always buying him food too because he knows she will hardly cook for anyone, it is rather expensive for him.

My cousin from Italy that I never met but my nonna was very close with when they were in they're 20's......now my cousin doesn't speak to my nonna anymore my cousin lives in Italy I never met her and she has a son and daughter. Now I been taking to my cousin and she wants to set me up with him but he's my 4th cousin BUT he's a complete stranger to me I do not know him, never met him, and we never spoke. They live in Italy but within a year when I visit that's when she wants to set me up with him......what should I do? I mean 4th cousin is very far

i am a 14 year old girl

Me, my mom, and my sister are moving across the country and I don't want to leave my dad. I love him so much and I just can't think about moving away from him without crying. We have already signed the papers so I can't stay with him. I'm gonna be back for fall break to stay with him in a couple of weeks but for me that's a long time. What should I do?

My mother is always off with me, only thinks about what she wants, does not buy me anything, argues with me all time and thinks nothing of it, and she has high expectations of me... threatens chuck me out when i stick up for myself against her... i just do not understand the vendetta? She is boring and sticks to a day in day out routine rather than being different