I'm in high school. I don't really have any real or close friends but there's two girls I know who are kind of like my friends but idk. Whenever I hang out with them I just feel like a tag along. They don't pay attention to me. But I hate being alone. People notice and point it out. Everyone already has their own friends and groups so when I try to become friends with someone they always have another friend they'd rather be with. So should I just be a tag along or loner? I need help

I'm a recent college freshman living in a single suite (2 other people are in my suite and they each have singles). I'm not close friends with them but they hang out a lot. I kind of just say hi and bye. I think it's mostly a personality thing that's keeping me from being open. They are very extroverted and party while I don't (so different interests). I like having that separation between school friends and going home I guess but recently my high school friend has been saying I should hang out with them more. Thanks in advance.

I am 16 years old, my mother and father are heading to mexico for see how their cousins and siblings. I have plans to hang out with my friends, but I have to take care of my 12, 8, and 4 year old brothers, but the problem is I HAVE PLANS with my friends! I told my parents if our uncle or aunt can come over to watch them. My parents said no and to cancel all my friends plans. How can I convince them that I have no time to babysit? They'll be gone for 1 week. They leave tonight. I'd rather go to my friend's birthday party on Sunday, rather than staying home. Also my 4 year old brother needs help toilet training, I don't want to do that crap then have fun! Can't I have my 12 year old brother take care of them? It's 6 hours, and I'll pay him 40 dollars.

This is something fairly new that I've only been doing for 2 or 3 years at the most, and I didn't think too much of it until I started college this year. I'll give a little background of how this started, and I'm going to be very straightforward with you guys not to leave anything out. From the moment I was born I've had great parents, but I never had friends, until now. I'm 18 years old, in my first year of college, and my daydreaming started from loneliness. I don't have a single friend my age to talk to, nobody, zilch. I don't know why but for some reason I was never able to make and keep friends without something happening. Making friends for me is by far the hardest thing to do and accomplish (let alone if we keep a permanent friendship). My days pass with just me and my phone, in my bathroom, daydreaming. And I hate it. I have social and separation anxiety, so the thought of going out with some friends without my parents terrifies me. My parents were the only friends I've ever known. And now, with this daydreaming problem, it's seriously becoming a distraction from college. I'm not able to do college work, I don't even want to do it. I daydream in the bathroom in front of the mirror listening to music, imagining myself with good friends and a boyfriend and having a great time with them, when in reality it's just me in the bathroom. I don't know how to stop this. I'm just yearning for someone to talk to me, someone outside my family, please help me... And when I do socialize with someone, and if I really enjoyed talking to that person, I then daydream about them and fantasize about them in a romantic way (if it's a guy). I'm just really depressed in real life I don't know what to do, but this is getting out of control I don't know how to stop it...I'm just extremely lonely....

I can't have any friends because people who don't like me tell other people not to be friends with me. People would come up to me and talk to me and wanting to be my friend but somebody would tell them "don't talk to her", or "nobody likes her" there was this new girl at school today and we became friends quick but someone told her not to be friends with me for no apparent reason. I have had some take my friends away from me and turn them against me. I can't make any friends because everyone is telling everyone not to be my friend

My friend basically got on instagram and hes not talking to me because he thought I stole his wallet. what should I do?

My in laws give way too much unsolicited advice. Then a times feel offended when I or my wife and I don't follow what they say. They are extremely kind people but they often give advise about things they know little to nothing about it. They also don't seem to get that my wife and I have different preferences than them. I've tried to exclude as much information from them but they tend to pry. This honestly causes me to become annoyed and resent them because I don't like people makIng decisions for me.What's the best way to handle this without causing a riff or being rude?

I'm friends with someone who has been my friend for a very long time, but they aren't a very 'good' friend, they're controlling and act like an awful person, and I've tried to distance myself, which never worked. How do I 'let go' of all the good times we've had?

Now the reasons I don't want to go to a party are simple so I'll list them 1-I'm a part of a group at school who's at the borderline betweeen the vaping, weed smoking, beer chugging group and the nerdy group and frankly when I go to the party I will feel uncomfortable because I hate everything that relates to those things I mean if you smoke weed I don't care smoke anything you want but I really don't like being around anybody when they are doing it. 2-I am the quiet background guy in my group and to be honest high school parties are not a thing I really like that's mostly the reason I don't get invited because they know I would be sitting on their couch on their phone. I don't want to spend a party on the coach I mean that's just boring to do for 3 hours So your probably thinking "Oh just be honest and say no" I can't do that because of this reason And that's the why question which comes after the no, what am I supposed to say to this girl that I don't want to go to this party because I'm an antisocial teen who hates drinking. It's embarrassing and if you don't understand your probably not a 16 year old teen So please just give me some help on some excuses I'm no good so that's why I'm asking the people of yahoo I don't want to go and when you give me these excuses don't give me one which could contradict me in the future E.g. Oh my granny died but the months later comes and I accidentally say that she's still alive, also something that doesn't make me sound rude

So i have this one friend that has been my friend since 4th grade (im in 10th grade now) She and I used to hang out so much and and sit next to each other everyday. Now, everything is different. She is trying to be more ''cool '' and she is hanging out with other people. She seems to be having more fun with them than with me. She laughs more often with them and whenever the teacher wants us to form groups, she goes with them and not with me like we always used to. She starts ditching me and my other friend for them. And whenever she's with us, she spends most of the time in her phone. I feel left out. I do not know what to do. I know i have my other friend to rely on, but we don't have any classes together. What should I do?

So I m new to this school and on my first day I met this amazing girl who soon became my best friend. We would hang out all the time, text constantly and just have fun. It s been like 6 months and she is hanging out with a new friend. They aren t even in the same class and we are, but that changes nothing. All of a sudden I feel alone. Everytime I approach her about it she gets all defensive and ends up making me look bad or selfish so I don t say anything anymore. We don t really hang out anymore unless I ask and when we do hang out it s because her other friend is busy and she needs a backup. When we hang out she is constantly texting her other friend and won t stop talking about her. I love her so much and feel amazing when she DOES talk to me but when she doesn t it hurts. We also had a picture of each other as our phone wallpapers to show our connection and how much we love each other but I realized yesterday she had changed it and that hurt. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this situation? It would mean so much and help me out a lot. Thank you

I'm a fourteen (almost 15) year old girl. My mom died like 6 months ago and it seems like everyone has forgotten about her except me. I can't. They all moved on and aren't really bothered by it. I get upset over everything that reminds me of her. I cry like all the time and because of this I've lost my friends and my dad and I aren't close so I don't have anyone. I don't have siblings so I can't talk to them either. I also don't have a school counselor to talk to. I cry and I just want to be hugged and i can't get that. I don't have anyone. Who should I go to? Pr if I shouldn't go talk to anyone, what should I do? Thank you.

I had applied for a job and passed the pre-employment hiring process but turn the job down for another job .did they put me now as no rehire? The job i turned down

I m from a private school and had many friends the problem is I live an hour away and am losing them because it our first times in high school. I m all alone and have no friends plz how do I get friends with anxiety and depression

I fell in love with my best friend, we were friends for over 6 years (at that time), she was the first girl fall in love with, so it was hard for me to tell her how I felt, + I didn't want to ruin our friendship, so after 6 years of hiding my feelings, I told her how I felt (she was leaving school the next year, she moved to a different country), I always knew she didn't feel the same, I know I don't look good, I was fine with it, but anyway, when I told her, she never replied, she ignored me, I literally haven't heard her voice or even seen her since that day, another 6 years have passed, I kept apologizing her but she never answered my messages,12 years, literally for 12 years not a single day has passed without me thinking about her, I have these moments where I feel slightly better and think I can finally move on but I just end up missing her even more, I feel empty, like there's a huge hole in my heart, I feel like my life has no meaning to it. I know that most of you are gonna tell me to move on, talk to other girls and do different kinds of stuff. But none of that works, i've tried moving on numerous times but I just can't. Also i'm not even someone girls would find hot or attractive or whatever, i've been bullied about the way I look before, and she used to stand up to me when that happened. But now she's gone, and I have no idea if she hates me or not, I have no idea if she still remembers me or not. I've always known that I never had a chance, but not telling her was eating me alive, and ever since that happened i've always thought I made a mistake when I did, because I lost my friend. I really don't know what to do anymore, I feel worthless, I just keep thinking about what have I done for her to ignore me like that, I can't even find enough words to describe how I feel right now

I am taking psychology this year in dual enrollment class, which is where you take college classes in high school. This is online so people from all over are in it. I have a few people from my high school in there, and my teacher in school logs onto our account sometimes (no idea why). Our first assignment was an introduction to test if we could follow directions. I introduced myself on the forum, and got a couple replies from students who go to my same high school. Well, it turns out one of the students taking this class goes to the school I moved from to the school I'm at now. I knew her pretty well, but we're not friends anymore. She saw my introduction and must have recognized who I was, because she commented, "Are you the same (Name) I went to school with at (School Name)?" and some other stuff. Problem, her comment revealed VERY sensitive information. Just take my word for it. Then I made the mistake of replying and saying I wasn't the same person and have lived where I live now my whole life. I only got here three years ago, so everyone knows that's a lie. But I can't say that I am the same person because then I get problems for the info she revealed. Please how do I delete her reply? I tried to delete hers and mine but I can't. Then I tried deleting the assignment and reposting it, but it won't let me delete anything. I HAVE to stop it from becoming a problem. This is very serious. I need to delete that reply of hers before anyone sees it. Can someone please help me?

Now the reasons I don't want to go to a party are simple so I'll list them 1-I'm a part of a group at school who's at the borderline betweeen the vaping, weed smoking, beer chugging group and the nerdy group and frankly when I go to the party I will feel uncomfortable because I hate everything that relates to those things I mean if you smoke weed I don't care smoke anything you want but I really don't like being around anybody when they are doing it. 2-I am the quiet background guy in my group and to be honest high school parties are not a thing I really like that's mostly the reason I don't get invited because they know I would be sitting on their couch on their phone. I don't want to spend a party on the coach I mean that's just boring to do for 3 hours So your probably thinking "Oh just be honest and say no" I can't do that because of this reason And that's the why question which comes after the no, what am I supposed to say to this girl that I don't want to go to this party because I'm an antisocial teen who hates drinking. It's embarrassing and if you don't understand your probably not a 16 year old teen So please just give me some help on some excuses I'm no good so that's why I'm asking the people of yahoo I don't want to go and when you give me these excuses don't give me one which could contradict me in the future E.g. Oh my granny died but the months later comes and I accidentally say that she's still alive, also something that doesn't make me sound rude

So my best friend and I got into an argument about him daring his friend to ask my friend out because the guy liked her but was scared of rejection. I overeacted he explained and then said he gave up and said he was staying away from us (me and my friend) so I said you wanna be like that fine I hate you too (I not an attention seeker) and said he didn't hate me....I then told him why I overreacted because I was very sad and needed to talk to someone so he said "I'm here take a shot and "come on I'm here" which showed he cared even though I upset him (he says I didn't) but why might this be? I not looking for love answers were 11 years olds (6 grade boy and girl) btw well of course I over reacted but

My friend told me if my crush was interested in me him and I would be Facebook friends but it doesn't bother me we are not Facebook friends. She wish he would treat me better because we are not Facebook friends. I don't understand why she cares if him and I are Facebook friends. He accepted her Facebook request knowing we are friends (I told her to sent him an add on Facebook) when I told her he accepted it because he's interested in being friends with my friends she disagreed with it and came up the stupidest reason why he accepted it. I don't understand why she told me if he was interested in me he would add me to Facebook but when he accepted hers, she came up a different reason why he did (she made it up) and kept arguing with me with the same thing. She made drama over it. It was ridiculous. How would you feel about her? Would you think she sent you mix signals?

I know this is wrong and I've been worried- I think I love this new teacher at my school. He's like around 19 or 20, a pe teacher. He's amazing. When I'm around him I get this feeling like I haven't ever felt before, it's so odd. I know thousands of girls like their teachers. But is it wrong? Will I grow out of it?:(

A friend Linda who works in the same large office building as I do ask if I could drive her home as her car would not start. At her home, we were met by her daughter Cindy who I had met previously. Linda ask me to stay for a dinner she would cook for me. As Linda was cooking dinner Cindy ask me if I would help her with her homework which I did. After we finished her homework, Cindy ask me if I thought her mom was cute. I told the truth, her mom was cute. Then Cindy ask me if there were guys that would want to date her mom. I told her with her mom's great beauty, yes there were lots of guys that would want to date her. That is as far as I wanted to take this conversation. However Cindy wanted to go farther. She said she wanted a dad and asked me to encourage her mom to start dating. I told her this was a conversation she should be having with her mom not me. Even though I was her mom's friend, the subject of her mom dating is none of my business. Cindy told me she would be the happiest girl in the world to call me dad. Would I ask her mom for a date? I told her that her mom was 10 years older than I was and probably would want to date someone her age. I again urged Cindy to talk to her mom about this. Mothers (and others) did I handle this situation correctly and should I tell Linda about this conversation.

I am the only girl in my AP Physics class at school. The class has a lot of homework. A group of us students like to get together in the evening and do our home work. When we started this we would rotate whose house we went to do the homework. Now the guys want to come to my house to do the home work all the time. I thought that was probably because if we have a problem we can not solve, the guys ask my mom for help and she always has the answer or maybe because when our homework is done, mom give the guys homemade pie and ice cream, cake, or cookies. I was curious so I ask the guys why they always wanted to do our homework at my house. What they told me just blew me away. They said it was because my mom was so nice, so beautiful, so hot and so sexy they wanted to be around her. It is true mom is VERY BEAUTIFUL but she is not hot and sexy. She has a great figure but she NEVER shows any cleavage or wears tight sweaters. How should I feel about what these guys are thinking about my mom? Are all high school guys this way?

I'm a college freshman and I'm trying to make at least some friends by being nice. I did a lot of nice things for this one girl...tell her to take a really good professor who is super easy, showed her the way to a building, gave her a free book and in return she didn't even want to give me her book to borrow for less than an hour. And when I asked why she said she payed money for it. So what if she did?? What am I gonna do, steal it from her, piss on it? She is not nice and there are no normal people in college because if someone would do so many nice things for me I wouldn't care abt letting them borrow a book I payed for so they can take pics of it. Should I stop being nice to people? Every one is an asshole

I have a superior (very superior), who is really nice to me, he's maybe 42 and I am 22. He seems to pay close attention to my expression, and once seeing me sad he asked me why I was sad, and I told him that I am ok, but he insisted, and when I finally told him the matter, he tried to cheer me up and made jokes to make me laugh. Another day, he tried again to make me explain him why I was discouraged, and this intimidates me a little, because I am not used to talk about my personal life to my boss, but he seems to want me to do it. When he makes decisions that I do not like, even though I do not replicate, he always looks at my expression and if he sees me unhappy he tries to dissuade me and convince me that his decision was the best one. In addition, he often does me favors that are not in his responsibilities. And winks to me a lot. Sometimes he even caresses my hair. What do you think?

I told her "I just lost the most important thing to me. Everything I lived for and did is gone now. it was my computer my everything was on there now it's gone. what am I going to do?" and she said "are you kidding me? Computer should definitely NOT BE THE MOST IMPORTANT thing to you"

Hi, so I'm a freshman and I have no friends in high school. It doesn't help that I'm shy and quiet, the thing is, everyone already knows me as the shy girl so I guess I'm stuck with that title. I have a feeling that people would find it weird if I just suddenly started talking (which is hard for me to do in the first place). In the past, I would get a friend or a group and I'd slowly drift apart from them. Like I had these friends in my neighborhood and we were best friends but they got closer with each other while I got further apart and they're still friends currently. But high school is supposed to be about memories with friends and stuff, I'm scared to do clubs because most recommend having a group and I don't have one. Also, I know this is way in the future but I'm also scared that when I go to college I won't have a close friend to room with...Could you give me some advice on how to make friends?

My close friend tried to kill herself, she in now in icu on a ventilator and after 7 hours of surgery. I feel so angry at all my other friends in contrast to this friend bc she was such a good friend, such a nice person and I almost want to delete all old friends off Facebook

I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm 19, we're both girls.. she's become a very special friend, one you rarely come across. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything, we've cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. I just get a special feeling towards her.. months ago, she said I was special to her and a kindred spirit, she's a lady who doesn't express feelings or stuff much, so that meant a lot because I felt it too.. although it's been 8 months, she's said I'm special and valuable to her a couple times but never the kindred spirit part again.. do you think we are still kindreds or did it fade off?.. she hasn't mentioned it again that's why I'm wondering

So im 15 and my friend Chelsea is 16 and named Chelsea. We sit together at lunch everyday with another girl named Jaclyn. So one day Jaclyn and I walked with Chelsea to her class after lunch, and Jaclyn pointed out a guy and Chelsea told her to be quiet. I then found out this was because Chelsea had a crush on this dude. I realized he was in my 3rd period, and his name was Cole, and I told her I could talk to him for her, since I knew him. She said not too, but I couldnt help myself. I dont know why, but I could just feel that it would work out. The next day, today, I talked to him about it and he said he liked her too, and I said to talk to her. I went to lunch and she wasnt there yet. Usually, she sits on the same side as me, but she purposely sat on the opposite side, and said "I dont WANT to sit on the same side as you" So I said "What the f*ck why??" She said "You told Cole I like him, he talked to me and were gonna go out sometime, but regardless you didn't follow my directions. So please leave." I left and sat with some other friends but I feel bad about what happened. I tried texting her but she didn't respond. I have two questions Who was right here? What should I do?

My name is August Smith (woman from New York City) and I used to be in love with my ex-boyfriend named Vincent Brown. We both went to University of California, Berkeley where we lived in a flat on campus, and stayed in the same dorm room together. Often now and again, we often had to deal with constant sexual harassment from our abuser who's a male named Jordan. He had major anger issues and impulse control problems that led to him trying to flirt with me and Vincent often whined about him being a pest to me. He said to me to my face that "August, why have a weak beta male like Vincent when you can sleep with me and have mind-gushing orgasms with a real manly Alpha male?" and at the time, I was stunned by his sexually suggestive comment. One night while Vinny and I were asleep, I was kidnapped by Jordan and he tied me up buck naked in his bed to his own dorm room. He's a loner outcast who happens to be a bully. When he played his sexual deviance games with me, I was scared and contemplated calling help and report him. But deep down, I didn't want to report him for fear he might kill me and molest me. He gave me a kiss on the lips, forced his thingy down my throat, and as he said, gave me some mind-blowing orgasms. I ultimately decided not to press charges against him because Vincent was indeed a weak man as I believed in what Jordan said to me was the truth. Eventually by the time we graduated from Berkeley, I broke up with Vincent as I chose to move on from him. Many years later, I was alone in my house back at New York, and somehow I cross paths with Jordan for the first time in a long time. By then he was mellow and calm enough to apologize to me for his sexual lewd comments. I told him it's okay and that he shouldn't have to worry about it. Then to his surprise, I gave him a kiss on the lips. We're now getting along better than in college. My former tormentor hasn't even tormented anyone since graduating from Berkeley, and he took anger management classes voluntarily. He and I decided to let bygones be bygones for all the turmoil in Berkeley. I can't report him because I chose not to report him, and my former tormentor has since sufficiently calmed down and relaxed some now. He and I surprisingly are in love with each other.

I have felt like shhhh ever since I became friends with this person, I have not been myself and want the old me back! This person made me feel very miserible, and it dwells in my mind even if we dont see eachother.

I've been invited to this part and frankly I don't want to go but I hate saying no which I'm working on but I really dont want to go I don't want to go and when you give me these excuses don't gl give me one which could contradict me in the future E.g. Oh my granny died but the months later comes and I accidentally say that she's still alive, also something that doesn't make me sound rude And I can't just say no

This is a genuine problem to me so no joke answers. I recently changed my first name because I hated it SO much, I felt uncomfortable to say it and just hated it, I don't even want to say it on here. So, I decided to change it and i thought I was moving schools anyway, so it would be a fresh start. But unforeseen circumstances occurred and I had to go back to my old school with my new name. Now, everyone there knows me as my old name and I don't know how I can tell them I've changed it because it would be a bit weird to ask them to suddenly call me by a different name. I know I need to tell them I've changed it and change it with the school, but it such an awkward situation. What's ur advice?

So the other day I decided to prank my friend. I didn't mean to take it so far but the dumb me did it. The prank was using a fake Instagram account and scaring her. Now the prank worked, until I decided to reveal myself as one of my other friends that she doesn't really know but has heard of her. I hate this other friend, and I have no clue why I did it. Then I made a group chat with all three of us (both of my accounts) and my friend's account. I started using my friend's account to swear and say the WORST things ever. The worst part is my friend and I were on FaceTime when it was happening. She wanted to go to bed early and this dumb thing scared her so much. She even was about to call the cops. I told my other friend about the prank and told her not to tell anyone bc I felt so bad the next day. But that didn't work bc she told my other friend that the whole time it was me. Everyone heard (because they told everyone) and now everyone thinks I'm a bully and I'm the meanest person ever. Please help. I have been sick since the day of the prank so I haven't gone to school yet. I don't know what will happen but my parents are forcing me to go to school tomorrow bc they know by now I'm just faking. What do I do please help me!

Long story short. My good buddy of mine has been dating/seeing this girl since high school. I've known both of them since then but really got close this past summer. I'll be upfront, my buddy treats her like crap-in my opinion he does not deserve her. In the past two months she has made flirty comments to me, always "touchy" with me when we go out, gives me compliments and somtimes shoots me a text asking how I'm doing. Recently her friend told me that she has said "I'm the nicest guy she has met". I'm starting to think she might like me? Not sure how to approach it but my buddy definitely notices. Any tips would be helpful.

I don't want to go and when you give me these excuses don't gl give me one which could contradict me in the future E.g. Oh my granny died but the months later comes and I accidentally say that she's still alive, also something that doesn't make me sound rude

My boyfriend would sit at a table for lunch at school with his good friend (male) and good friends friend (female, his ex). Once he was on his phone...

You have been friends with someone for more than 2 years & your friend as actually helped you come out of your comfort zone, has helped you become more extroverted & you go out more than ever before. You have done things that you never ever thought that you would ever do in your entire life. This friend has helped you change your life for the better & you're happy & thankful for him/her helping you….HOWEVER: Throughout most of the friendship: HE/SHE IS BOSSY- in general- to everyone. HE/SHE ALWAYS volunteers you to help give another friend a ride or to help them move without asking you first to see if that would be okay with you. Its as if you HAVE TO do it. HE/SHE leans on you for advice & to keep certain things in confidence, but will not do the same for you. HE/SHE calls/texts you & you're able to respond right away, but will not do the same for you. Could take hours for a reply to come back from him/her. Whenever a conversation starts- you ALWAYS ask "How are you?" Or with some other nice & proper greeting- but will NEVER ask YOU how you're doing or something like that. Has lied to other people about doing certain things that You're not aware of & the lie included you as if you were a part of it. But the truth is, is that you had nothing to do with it (EX: the lie was about he/she going to a concert with you- but he/she really went with someone else (that no one likes) & you didn't go & were not even invited) – & EXPECTS you to go along with the lie with him/her. I hope that makes sense. You have expressed your concerns to your friend, but they act as if they do not care & even changes the subject back to them. You're always defending their actions even though they are selfish & wrong & could be hurting other people (nothing illegal…just selfish). You don't really have to do EVERYTHING that this person wants to do & that person is aware of that…but cam sometimes use that against you. Its as if this person feel that you owe him/her for them helping you with your life. You have even bent over backwards to defend the friendship, that person & even to prove your loyalty even though you should n have to. How would you handle this person/situation? You do NOT want to lose their friendship- but you're so tired of the selfishness, the person volunteering you all the time to help out without asking to see if its okay with you, etc. Please HELP. Thank you! Sorry this is long

I was wondering if any one keeps in contact with other co workers, bosses, or friends on the job?

this guy blew me a kiss last night what does that mean just asking ...he was embarrassed afterwards

I just feel so confused and lost,

I had someone whom I was very close with for 12 years abandon me when I needed them. We were planning on moving in togather, and we were very close for a long time. I always took care of her, because she was emotionally fragile. At the end of our friendship it was me that was going through a hard time, and she started acting weird and didn't know how to comfort me. One day I woke up crying and she ignored me, I confronted her about it, and then I had to leave for an apt. From that point foreword she ignored me, and sent me a message saying we can no longer talk and be friends. After 6 months, I sent her a message really wanting her back in my life and she responded. We met up, had lunch but I didn't confront her more about my feelings. I was too concerned with getting her back, I let her walk all over me again. She made plans with me for the following day, then sent me a message saying that it was a mistake she only met up with me because she felt bad and she's done. This girl broke my heart. I gave up so many friendships because of her. I now have nobody. And to top it all off, I'm a questioning lesbian so for all this time I have dreams about her. Daily. Sorry this is long....my questions HOW to stop thinking about someone who abandoned you??? WHY Do I keep dreaming about her ??? Why does this hurt like it has just happened (been 1 year?)

I've invited a friend at my home but she's never been to the state I live in. Thing is my house is very average. I mean just conformable to sleep but not at all a dream house. Do you think she will judge ?or dislike it?

We go to college together. Long story short we're just friends, but we were seeing where things went. I caught feelings months ago which has made everything harder for me. I genuinely like hanging out with him. We just hung out a couple weeks ago, everything was totally fine. Whenever we run into eachother on campus, everything is fine. After not talking for about a week (understandable because classes are stressful and time consuming), I decided to ask him what he was up to this weekend and asked if he wanted to watch a movie. I got completely ignored. We met in March and this has not happened once. I'm extremely confused and bummed out. I sent the text yesterday afternoon so it's been a while. We're college kids, we check our phones often, that's common knowledge. Just not sure what to think or do. I feel like he may have taken it the wrong way when I was just asking as a friend. I have a huge fear of things being awkward now if I see him around.

I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm 19, we're both girls.. she's become a very special friend, one you rarely come across. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything, we've cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. I just get a special feeling towards her.. months ago, she said I was special to her and a kindred spirit, she's a lady who doesn't express feelings or stuff much, so that meant a lot because I felt it too.. although it's been 8 months, she's said I'm special and valuable to her a couple times but never the kindred spirit part again.. do you think we are still kindreds or did it fade off?.. she hasn't mentioned it again that's why I'm wondering

So I was writing a essay about myself for school and my best friend read a a small paragraph I had wrote (I only wrote that much at the time) it talked about how old I was when I started to be closed off and not letting anyone in. She asked my story about how that happened but I said no I don't want to talk about it because of bad memories and I told her no one knows about it but me. So once I told her that she kept asking why I won't say jt and she said she thinks I don't trust her but that's not why I won't tell her. I can't think of a valid reason for her to understand why I don't want to say it, and why I don't want to let her in. Can you help me understand why she thinks I don't trust her? And why for some reason I can't let her in? Is it because I'm scared that she will do the same thing? Please help me out and thank you if you do.

He doesnt support anything that has to do with us or our kids.. idk how my husband even considers him "like a brother" ...he never even told us congrats on our marriage!.. if you ask me he is jealous.. my husband says sometimes guys are jealous if your wife or gf looks better then theirs or if your rs or marriage looks more happy then theirs. He sayd his gf looks smoked out & rough around the edges..me on the other hand im drug free... it shws because i still look 17 bit im 25..im 115..& i take good care of myself! ..plus im the youngest of everybody...they are in their 30s & his so called bestfriend is in his 40s ! Not going to say his "Brother" is jealous but i find it fishy how he is NEVER happy for us ...EVER! Did anybody ever mention it to their husbands or bfs that you suspect his friends or friend was jealous??

Let's just say that i'm going to ignore them back. But that's not i how i want to integrate with the people in college, I'm trying to make as much friends as possible, not there to make enemies. I'm trying to be as cool as possible with pretty much everyone. How would you handle this? Is there a way to make them regret this? without hostility?

I noticed that when i first got engaged...my longtime friend of 12 years was the ONLY person that didnt say congrats!.. & even when we finally got married!.... i also noticed that if i post pictures of family outings or just pictures of me & him she never likes it on fbook..even though im always showing love & support! Is it because she has a hard time getting guys?.. she havent been in a rs since 2011.. & my other friend she can be a little shady at times... she confuses me because she always say congrats or you guys are so cute or i want to be just like you...bit then will get mad & say im independent & your not or im self made but your not... & its because my husband NEVER lets our family go without or struggle... i live very comfortable.. but even though she says she dont need no man help she often have lights & water disconnected...cant keep a job & car note almost always behind etc...& oh she have a bf but he dont help & he cheats... i often feel she try to down me but deep dwn wish she had the type of support my husband provide for me...she would say i dont need no man then would later say i wish i had support! I dont like jealousy its hard to tell if she is jealous or is it the fact i dont want to accept that thats whats going on...people can congratulate you & still be jealous right?? .. & it sucks cause im always the one they both run to for rs advice..ALWAYS

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My friend wants me to steal from my mum . My mother is a math teacher . We have a math test coming up .... and my mum is the one that sets the paper , and she is going to mark it . My mum teach at my school , and she is our class form teacher . So .... basically , this friend of mine has no confident in the up coming math test . And she wants me to steal the answer sheet from my own mother ! Actually , she don't really like me , she said that the reason I can always score full marks , or be the top in level is because i ask my mum for help , since she is the teacher and setter for math paper . But that's not true .... I really didn't ask her for answers or even look at the math paper in advance . And my mum have higher expectation on me , as I am her daughter , the ' teacher's kid ' . She ask me to steal in order to prove that I didn't cheat in the up coming test .

Instead of being friends with my lifelong buddies I knew since I was born. My mom wants to make friends that are my age/higher. But I don't want to.

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