There's a person from my school who keeps coming by my house and asking for my dad. It happened like once or twice during the summer, and happened over the weekend as well, but it also twice today. I know my dad doesn't know him and he doesn't even know me, so he doesn't have a valid reason to be down here. Also when I say no (which today he was home, but I still said he wasn't) he says okay and leaves, but sometimes he just stands in the driveway with his bike until I tell him he's not gonna be here for a while. I'm confused. I really am. I don't even talk to him in school, he's not even in my class. Also I'm 13, and he's like, a highschooler (my school had elementary, middle, and highschool students there in different sections of the school. Small building, though, not many people, only like 100 or less) so...yeah...) I'm definitely thinking about telling a teacher even though they can't do much, if anything at all, but it would be nice to get if off my chest and maybe get some answers. But I'm just really confused and need some answers, because I can't wait till tomorrow for a complete answer. I'm just really confused and uncomfortable. Any answers?

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someting so then i move to back of tha buus after he starts mocking my movements but i dont wana b eman to the little kid so i sill do the head nod too him and then i move 2the wayback f the buus and theres this girl she 34ish and sh tellng me about thisfish toy thingis sh loves andsh says do ya want ths onne i say i like the purpleOne better shesays thats my favorit thn sh says she had a kid at age 11 and she says i am 17 yrs old and she tels me the age of her kids and then sh haz this scary demmon mask thingy and says sh looks like a wollf and then i say sh carryin ga bible so hw can she be a demmon she says shs in ths demon club and shes tha only one thats a christian but then i say i m an Atheist and she says me toAnd thenshe says shes a Satanist i say u cand be bofththat is contradictory sh says yes i cann am a GemniThn sh gives me her two toys and says "Give this to yor girlfrien or sometin andthn she saysBye Kid and sh also told me wher she livees and she says come by me houss if u hav any troubble I can t read it all ok ll try to tell you th storyin a condensd waay okay

My boyfriend's father hit our car 2 weeks ago. He waited 2 days to tell us even though we all interacted in those 2 days and we live with him. My father gave us this car and we had it less than a week before he hit it. Im annoyed because it seems as if he has been ducking us since the accident and since we are expecting a baby in a couple of weeks it seems as if he's waiting for her birth to distract us from asking when he's going to get it fixed. Its a sensitive subject because we live with him rent free and I don't want him to use this as an excuse to not get it fixed or to god forbid kick us out. Am I being unreasonable?

My mom let the light bill get up to 1600 dollars she asked me if I could put the lights in my name so she can get a fresh start and if I don't do it she threatens to kick me out am I wrong for not putting the lights in my name because I don't trust she will pay it and I don't want to ruin my credit but I also don't wanna get kicked out please help

I have an older friend and we are very close. I'm 25 and she's 60. We are special friends, although she lives far so we interact on the phone or media. I know this is stupid and petty but I noticed something and I'm wondering why.. We are very supportive of each other, and loving/caring. She will post selfies and I will always comment saying how pretty she is just to be nice. She will of the same for me but RARELY, mostly she will only like it but later on the phone she will give me loads of compliments. Why doesn't she comment also like I do for her? Or I will send her snail mail (as something to kind of make her day a little bit) and she will text me saying thank you and how much she loved it although she never send me letters back? I'm not staying she has to do any of this but it's just something I noticed

Ever since I was little I have felt very safe around my uncle. Over the weekend I had visited him and asked him if he would cuddle with me. He said "I'm not really the cuddling type of guy, but I'll hug you." We hugged and we shared one of the best moments of my entire life. So my question is: Next time I see him should I ask him to cuddle with me again? And in what way? Please give me long answers so I know exactly how to go through this. Thanks!

My ex partner and I had a very calm and civilised separation. He has a good job and rents a nice house. Our 7 yr old daughter stays from Friday evening to Sunday morning. Last October my ex rang to say he was letting me know that his sister was after leaving her husband and would be living with my ex for a few weeks. I didn't mind because she was my daughter's aunt, and even though we had issues before when she accidentally hurt my daughter when babysitting, I wouldn't want her or her 4 year old son homeless. This arrangement kept going on and she's still staying there. She's trying to get a council house and claims social welfare even though she minds kids and works with horses off the books. She has however become more and more overbearing towards my daughter, she has scolded her, sent her to her to her room and told her she can ignore rules agreed on by both my ex and myself. My ex says he's not there when any of this happens so he can't say anything just because my daughter and myself have said so! He believes his sister over his little girl. She has come home to me with bruises and a black eye from where her 4 year old son has lost his temper and lashed out at her but my ex says he's only a little boy. I work at the weekend, otherwise I would just stop her going over until my ex sorts this out . I'm at my wits and don't want to start getting solicitors involved because we had an amicable situation until they moved in. Help?

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I'm moving out for university, and I don't think I'll ever be going back. I just want to forget my past and become someone else. Any tips? Thanks x

Naturally always wanted one and there's an escort agency in my area that provides the service but I see the reviews and they're all sleazy old men desperately trying to bring back their glory days after a bitter divorce battle with the ex-wife. I'd use protection obviously and probably wouldn't even have sex sex but it's a fantasy I'd like to fulfil and it seems the easiest way. Worth it or not?

When I was around 9 years old I remember going to the pool often. The lifeguard looked to be in her early 20s and also taught in my school. She would always stare at me and smile. When I was alone she would come in the pool and ask if I need help (I would just float not really swim). She would grab my waist and teach me how to swim but each day her hands went further down til they got to my clìt and she would rub it and ask if it feels good. During class when everyone left she pulled me aside and talked to me about body parts then stuck her finger in my asss and said it was to help me learn and I'm special dont tell anyone they'll get jealous.

I had to ask this health question about my dad. My dad started getting sick at the end of last year. He claimed he had a kidney stone/infection and kept going to the bathroom and was in severe pain (this lasted about three weeks). I knew something was wrong. After he got over this, he started having a severe cough. His doctor gave him an inhaler for a while. He claimed he had a lung infection. For about six months, he claimed he couldn't eat without it coming back up. Six months has passed, and one night about three weeks ago, he came home vomiting up liquid for hours. The next day he went into the hospital because he couldn't eat or drink anything. They said he had an esophageal stricture that was widened partially. Also, he has kidney cancer that has not metastasized but he does have a tumor in one of his kidneys. He claims he is going to possibly need some lymph nodes removed as well. I am very worried about my dad's health. When he went into the hospital three weeks ago, I couldn't stop crying. I still can't eat or sleep because he still doesn't know when his surgery is. I am very upset.

I lied a week ago to my nurse about getting hurt because I wanted to go home for personal reasons. She knew I was lying and kept asking me to talk to her. I was pretty rude and angry towards her. I feel terrible cause all she was trying to do was make me feel better. She didn't bring it up today when I went in for paperwork, but I still feel bad. What should I say to her when I apologize?

my parents are very wealthy well they have enough to support me and give me life insurance trust funds for the rest of my life but they wont. There very mean and showing me tough love and that i have TO EARN EVERY cent MYSELF and they want me to have my own place and pay my own rent all on my own and they will not pay for college no car nothing. !! right now im struggling with anxiety, bipolar fatigue i also have Aspergers syndrome and autism its really hard to look for a new job to get better $

I am a 20 year old woman having an affair with a 34 year old married man. He has two kids with his wife and they are 8 and 10. I wanted to leave, But I was just so in love with this man! we have been together for almost two months and haven't had sex but we have kissed and made out! It is so different, it is just like we have a perfect connection and we just love each other's company. Of course, he wants to have sex with me but I am a virgin and not ready for that. When I ask him about his wife he tells me they have been having their ups and downs and never have time for each other. I ask why he just doesn't leave her and he tells me when their are kids involved, the process is harder. He says he never has to have sex with me he just doesn't want me to leave him. I am in love with this man but I know I can never fully have him to myself. I tell him that I will have to leave him soon if I don't see him taking any action and he begs me to stay with him. He even spends the night at my house! He tells me to forget about what everyone else thinks and to just focus on love. He does not hide anything from me and he treats me as if I am his queen. He wants to take me to the Carribeans to show his friends and family me. Should I not completely fall for this man until he makes a move to leave his wife for me? He tells me that everything is in process, but I am no fool. Please put yourself in my shoes. I think this man is a good person, but I don't want to trap myself in this at all..

So I had a gf for about 5 years and broke up with her last year. I really liked her family and they liked me as well because we we're really close. My ex gf got a bf and they didn't like him and they miss me. But I won't get back with her because I lost my love for her and don't trust her. Her little sister texted me and FaceTimed me last week. I talked to her mom and dad and caught up about the last year. I have no bad intentions but do you think it's bad that I talk to her underage sister and her family?

If that person wronged you and you are confronting them

It's hard to explain the whole story but I'll try my best to explain. I have a two year old son and due any day with our second child. Now the father and I have broken up due to a lot of complications. He put his hands around my throats twice. And I filled out an order of protection against him so I can make sure he didn't take my son. Now I dropped the order of protection because I do want him there when I have our second baby. We have court for custody of our kids in the next week or so and I want to still work on things. But he has a condition. What he wants is for me to come clean to his family that he's never out his hands on me. And he'll consider working on us and letting back in the house and live with him again. Now I'm been so confused and lost. And I don't if I should believe him or not. Call me an idiot for even thinking about working it out or wanting to be with him. I don't care. I just need advice on this.

Where I work is being taken over by another company and they are eliminating the department I work in. This will be a disaster as jobs are very hard to find in this area. The new company told us they have openings in other departments but you have to have some very special training to get these jobs. I checked and this training is very expensive. Losing my job would be a disaster. I tried to borrow the money for the training from everyone I knew but no one would loan me money. I was down to the last name in my phone book, my ex husband. I finally got up the courage to call him. We had a friendly divorce but I had never asked him for money before. He said I will get back with you tomorrow. MUCH to my surprise he called back and said his current wife Joan would give me the training for FREE. I was in shock. Could this really be happenings? Joan did give me the training free and I got one of the new jobs that paid more than my last job and I had a great new boss. Joan was the nicest person EVER. I can not say enough good things about her. All my friends that I told about this said I was the luckiest person alive because usually the new wife wants nothing to do with the previous wife. She must be a saint to do what she did for me. I know I owe Joan big time. Please give me some thoughts on how I can repay her for the kindness she gave to me. Kind words are just not enough for this EXTREMELY NICE PERSON.

The affection-less years taking their toll as they do, with no drop in my drive, and a really slim good-looking pieceofass at work has basically agreed that we should hook up, for the fun of it. Make each other feel good, no strings. There'll be tons of oral and other activity, possibly no intercourse at all. So when we leave work at the same time, would my SUV at the park work best, or should we get a hotel room? (higher chance of bread crumbs). Her place prolly isn't best - she's foreign, lives with her family, and they have strict laws against such fornication.

I don't know how else to say what I feel for her except that I am madly in love with her. About seven months ago now, my best friend from junior high, Tom, introduced me to his then pregnant Fiancee. I was damned to forever love her the moment I looked at her. She was Czech, alabaster skin, supple lips, emerald eyes like the sea glistening in the sun, the brightest smile and an even brighter personality. When it looked at her, I could barely breath straight. It felt like this invisible fist grabbed my heart and squeezed it. I wanted her like I never wanted anything else in this world. To pledge my love to her and stand by her side forever. But she was his and I had to fight with myself mentally to tow that line. In the months following, there isn't a day that she doesn't invade my thoughts and not a time when I don't look for some excuse to try and see her or help her out. You see, Tom is a soldier, so he's deployed a lot and I look after her as a man around the house while he's away. Talking with her and laughing with her makes me happier than I've ever felt. I haven't said anything flirty or untoward with her, but the other day when I was over there painting the back porch, I stole some of her panties out the dirty clothes. I'm telling you... if heaven had a scent. The only words I could murmur as I took in her perfume was "I love you soo much". I need her, but I don't know if she feels something towards me or if it's worth hurting my friend. What do I do? You guys are wrong when you say that I just want for her body. Yes, I am sexually attracted to her, but its deeper than that. If I never ever had sex with her, or she was disfigured, I could love her no less. I would be fine with that just to know she was mine. This isn't lust, it's love. As for my friend, I truly am sorry if this hurts him, but this is an ailment of the heart which supersedes my friendship with him. I feel it is to her where my loyalties and my soul truly lie. As for her underwear, it's deeper than just some stimulant. I needed to skirt a connection of intimacy, so for just a moment, I could feel what he feels when he takes in all that she is. I know it is shameful to steal her undergarments from her, but by God, I make no apologies for wanting to be a bit closer to someone I love. I can only hope that my actions never find a way to diminish me in her most precious of eyes.