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- Question: My husband just got home. I noticed this on his ear! Does it look like lipstick to you? It wiped off?
- Question: Guy gift suggestions for 8 years of marriage. I want to get my hubby a different but not to expensive gift?
- Question: Does this mean he doesn't want to talk anymore?
- Question: My boss asked if I was a virgin. Should I tell his wife?
- Question: Children Or No Children?
- Question: Separation anxiety from daughter ?
- Question: Pregnant girlfriend (38) broke up with me (41). She said stay away forever and never contact her again. Pregnancy was planned. Is baby mine?
- Question: Is it ok for a man to stop for a beer after work often?
- Question: Is it cheaper to be married or single?
- Question: My husband cheated on me with the neighbor, should I leave?
- Question: Am I being too picky to refuse to date men who are separated but not divorced?
- Question: Dating my friend's sister in law's ex boyfriend. The sister in law is deceased. Do you think my friend is jealous of the situation?
- Question: Discussions With Spouse?
- Question: How kids can a man have in a lifetime with 7-wife s?
- Question: What are some crazy exciting things I can do with my wife late at night on the town to really spice things up?
- Question: Life is hard. Advice.?
- Question: How do I get her to let her guard down and open up again?
- Question: Anyone merriage problems. I do.I can't communicate with him.and i dont trust him. He says he loves me but he doesn't show it.?
- Question: Should inlaws help out?
- Question: Stay at home divorce help?
- Question: Stay at home moms divorced help?
- Question: Wife got very drunk in Vegas.?
- Question: Legality of leaving my wife and HER children.?
- Question: My husband doesn't trust me to do my own car maintenance, What can I do so he believes me?
- Question: Husband whines about every household task?
- Question: This girl who is hotter than my wife used to get bullied by my wife growing up. Am I a terrible husband?
- Question: Need some Marital Advice?
- Question: Shall a wife submit to her husband, especially if she's a housewife?
- Question: Do married women have a guy come over for sex as soon as hubby goes to work?
- Question: Why doesn't anyone want to be intimate with me?
- Question: Is marrying your friend as a joke a bad idea?
- Question: Home Alone?
- Question: I believe he married me for a green card and I'm devastated.?
- Question: How to forgive wife and move on?
- Question: My mom agreed to sign for me to get married in two years when I turn 16. Is this a good idea?
- Question: Why does he blame me?
- Question: My wife on Facebook?
- Question: Coping with a husband that works night shift?
- Question: Is it really different when you meet your husband/wife?
- Question: Husbands bday?
- Question: Why do people think having many wives over your life is wrong? In the end what matters is your happiness, happiness comes with the hot gals?
- Question: Husband and I fight too much how do I quit being the neighbourhood crazy lady?
- Question: What would you do if you suddenly resented your husband for triggering past emotional scars?
- Question: Is it wrong that my husband and I had sex at an open house?
- Question: Am I the only woman who wants her future husband to assert his dominance over her and remind her he is a real man?
- Question: What does it mean if someone said my husband treats me like a pig?
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| Posted: 29 Sep 2017 09:09 PM PDT Please only comment with "appropriate" not ratchet suggestions. |
| Question: Does this mean he doesn't want to talk anymore? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 08:20 PM PDT So me and this guy like each other, a lot. I sent him a message and he said "I don't want to talk rn. It's nothing about you I just don't want to talk." I said "ok. Good night" he said good night back. Does it mean he's done with me? It's been like this for a few days. The other day he blew up my phone saying "please I'm sorry" "(my name)?" And called twice just to apologize for being mean when I texted him |
| Question: My boss asked if I was a virgin. Should I tell his wife? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 07:59 PM PDT He showed me a porn video. It was my first day on the job. he seemed nice and hard working. but this was inappropriate. I feel bad because the wife is super young and sweet. |
| Question: Children Or No Children? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 07:36 PM PDT Does anyone one here ever go back and forth on whether or not you want children? I'm a 28 year old married female and my thoughts on it change every month it feels like. |
| Question: Separation anxiety from daughter ? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 07:20 PM PDT |
| Posted: 29 Sep 2017 07:11 PM PDT We ve had issues over the past 11 months of dating (she broke up with me on Valentine s Day. She said we re too different). After time off in Feb, we got back together. I went to counseling. We also got couples counseling. She still focuses on my past relationship issues and won t forgive me for things. She said she wanted to have my kids and marry me back in June. I asked her dad for permission to marry her. He gave me his blessing when I flew to Europe with her to meet her family. She began acting very different towards me around 10 weeks of pregnancy. She wanted a couple of "breaks" from our relationship. We didn t talk or see each other. Before, she was doing things like turning her cell phone upside down on the counter all the time, turning her phone away from me when she s texting, pushing my buttons and being really mean to me most of the time towards the end. She became a completely different person towards me. I thought it might be the pregnancy hormones causing her attitude change. I bought an engagement ring since we were talking about marriage before the baby was born, but we ve had arguments about trust (my mistrust of her due to her behavior changes) and she said take ring back. I did. I stopped by unexpectedly once at her new office (during "break" after she asked me to help her move furniture). She blew up at me for not letting her know before hand and I should have asked her first. I m suspicious. Should I be wondering now about if the baby is really mine? |
| Question: Is it ok for a man to stop for a beer after work often? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 05:11 PM PDT So my husband comes with liquor or beer breath 4 out of 7 days (that's minimu). He claims his coworker offered a beer or he just stopped by the store on his way home and drank one. On the weekend he drinks home with me but he already had opened a beer before getting home. I've told him multiple times to stop doing that because I don't want him to become an alcoholic. He always gets defensive. I really don't appreciate his comstant drinking outside the house. So I gave him an ultimatum. He says I'm ridiculous because how is he going to refuse a drink from his coworkers or boss. A side from the potential alcoholism there's also a trust issue where I feel that how am I supposed to really know that he just stopped for a drink or he is drinking with a female as he doesn't have a set pattern or schedule to get home. Am I wrong? |
| Question: Is it cheaper to be married or single? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 05:09 PM PDT If I make $67,000 a year, would it be better to marry someone with the same/higher income? We could always split the bills and technically I wouldn't be paying all the time. |
| Question: My husband cheated on me with the neighbor, should I leave? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 04:51 PM PDT I have been married for 17 years. About 2 years ago, my husband told me that he cheated with someone at work and promised that it would never happen again. I forgave him because of my religion. . About 2 days ago, someone handed me a letter that revealed that my husband cheated with the girl across the street and not with a coworker about 2 years ago. I felt embarrassed , hurt all over again. What is worst, he told the girl about my private life. I have 2 kids, one for my husband. He adopted my first child because I was raped and took care of her. My husband told the girl about my rape, which type of contraception I use, everything. they are not together anymore but she still lives across from my house. should I leave him, or sell the house and move? |
| Question: Am I being too picky to refuse to date men who are separated but not divorced? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 03:59 PM PDT I'm a woman in her early fifties but am lucky enough to look and feel ten years younger. As a consequence, I'm often asked out by men. I've been single for a few years since separating from my ex boyfriend, I've never been married or had children and would love to have a relationship. The problem is that most of the men who ask me out seem to be separated and not divorced nor do they intend doing so. They are generally genuinely separated as in living separately from spouse for several years, no longer have intimacy with them and only communicate due to shared children which at our age, are usually adults anyhow. They have various reasons for not divorcing but mostly it seems to relate to 'messed up inheritance' and division of shared property etc. However, I do not feel good going out with these guys. I always feel 'something is not settled, something is not over'. I really have a problem with it. Am I being ridiculous? I know some of my friends who do date these guys and seem happy to do so. |
| Posted: 29 Sep 2017 03:44 PM PDT I am divorced mother of 2, and I met my friend 7 years ago at work. My friend has 7 children, with only one by her husband. My friend, tries to fit in, usually at my expense. I have had several people tell me, she spreads my personal business, including to my abusive ex. I have kept my distance recently in the past year or so. I have loaned my friend money in the past, to fix her brake's, and eventually I told her to keep it, because I figured with her track record, she would never pay it back, and asked her for favors instead. When I left my husband, she went to the house to pack up, which was nice. When I went to the storage, personal items were missing, only to be found later in her house when I helped her move. She constantly asks to borrow money, even though she works, has a husband with SSI income, and unfortunately supports themselves in other methods. I don't understand if she's married why should she be coming to me, even though I turn her down. My friend has a reputation and I don't speak on that. She likes to take advantage of people and I see that, but she had been helpful at times to me. I didn't know, at first, I was dating her sister's ex, until I thought he looked familiar and I remembered saw him at my friend's wedding He comes from a well to do family who are business owners and large. My boyfriend has proposed to me, and we plan on getting married. My friend has been negative about this. Her sister in law was with him for 5 years. What do you think |
| Question: Discussions With Spouse? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 03:21 PM PDT What do you talk about when your spouse doesn't want to discuss money, school, moving or anything stressful for a little while? It's all we talk about and she has expressed that we need to take a break and talk about other things. But besides our kids, I have no idea what to discuss. We have been married for so long and it's important to me that we keep our conversations alive. Help? |
| Question: How kids can a man have in a lifetime with 7-wife s? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 03:19 PM PDT |
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| Question: Life is hard. Advice.? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 02:01 PM PDT Hi I m a 33 yr old female. I ve been with my husband since we were in high school. We have no kids yet. We are married just through a religious ceremony not yet court so I m single on papers. I m struggling with my "husband not marrying me. I asked him many times and he keeps saying soon. Im also dealing with infertility issues. I have low AMH levels which when he decides to when he wants kids it can be too late. I feel like I have no control of my life. Tmi but he pulls out because he ismt ready for kids yet he knows my health issues. I feel like he hasn t accepted me or as if I m not good enough for him to permanently settle down with and I feel like it s too late to start over plus I don t think I m strong enough to do so. No one knows we aren t married though court. Everyone assumes we are married and just waiting until the right time to have kids. It hurts like hell. When ever I bring these things up we just end up fighting and I m the bad guy because I m lazy or I don t try to be a better wife etc. I have no friends that I m close enough to to talk to. I feel like I m not good enough. I wish I was strong enough to commit suicide but I could never. I can just cry. What would you do in my place? My husband other than these issues doesn t verbally or physically abuse me. Other than this we do get along. |
| Question: How do I get her to let her guard down and open up again? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 12:47 PM PDT My wife and I have dated for 5 years and married 1 year. She recently told me she cheated on me also that she is sorry and that she wants to try in work on it with me. But she s been extremely guarded to any advance of mine. Compliments, sexual advances, and any gesture I can give her to let her know I love her appreciate her. Things I haven t done in our relationship since the kids and stressful job. My question is how do I break that barrier and get her to respond to my compliments and advanced instead of ignore them and redirect them. |
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| Question: Should inlaws help out? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 10:56 AM PDT We got married 5 years ago ,i moved into my parents for 3 years bc we didnt have very good jobs . My parents bought groceries bc we couldnt afford alot yet his parents bought us nothing . We have better jobs now and are on our own but they never offer to help us ever. They help his brother and sister constantly . I feel like when we got married they think hey were off the hook now ,hes yours . In an emergency we called them all 7 times bc we were in their town and we find they were home and juat ignored our call, my parents had to drive 35 min to help us tow our car . Do your inlaws help out at all or am i just lucky ,they help his brother and sister out constantly |
| Question: Stay at home divorce help? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 10:19 AM PDT Hi I've been with my husband for 11 years married for 4 years we had a baby at 19 years old so I've been a stay at home mom for the last 10 years I've tried to look for jobs but no one will hire because of my lack of job experience I'm very unhappy in my marriage I want to ask for divorce but I'm so scared to be with no job or money etc....has anyone ever been through this and do you have any advice for me |
| Question: Stay at home moms divorced help? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 10:16 AM PDT |
| Question: Wife got very drunk in Vegas.? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 10:00 AM PDT My wife went to Vegas for a concert with her her sisters. I want to have fun and understand the fact that we all need our me time the isssues I have are as follow. First it was done in the middle of the week and was left with two kids to take to drop and pick up from school deal with their homework and it was short days in school due to parent teacher conference. She gave me very short notice so it really messed up my work. Still love my wife and wanted her to have Her fun. When she got back she was so sick from all the drinking she has done and was telling about this guy who was next to her in the concert but "he is gay". Did not like that at all I trust my wife but understand that alcohol lower per guard. I Know nothing happened but deep inside feel this unease I did not and will not say anything to her but I did not like the fact she over drank to the point she got sick. Is it normal to feel feel like this? |
| Question: Legality of leaving my wife and HER children.? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 09:51 AM PDT So my wife has children from a previous marriage(none are actually mine). We have been married for over 3 years and during that time she hasn't had any sort of income aside from me. Now she is telling me she is unhappy treating me like a slave and spends the money I make to excess to where I don't have $20 to even go out with family. We have already decided that we are getting a divorce, and I feel like the only reason she has allowed me to stay in the house is because I am her only source of income. She is wanting to take a vacation in a few weeks to her home state for a week(without me but she will be using the money I earned). I was debating on moving out and leaving her to figure out how to take care of her kids with out a job or a source of income. I know morally this may be wrong but I cant stand to live in this toxic environment any longer. My family and friends all say that I should leave and legally I am not bound to take care of her children. What is your thoughts on this. Would legally I run into issues leaving them with out any or much money since I am the one that earns it all? |
| Question: My husband doesn't trust me to do my own car maintenance, What can I do so he believes me? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 09:42 AM PDT My husband and i have been married for 3 years. In the past (single) I have done a lot of my own car maintenance. I have changed: brake pads, oil changes, filter and hose, erg valve, alternator. Now my car needs to have the spark plugs changed 09 corolla(had 3 years) so nothing fancy. The parts would cost me $40 to change on my own,( i have the proper tools already)but $120 to have the mechanic change them out. I don't want to spend this. I would rather take 30 min out of my day and pay $40 for parts and do it myself and save the other $80. My husband doesn't want me to do it, stating i could mess up the engine and that we make enough now to pay someone else to do it. I have expressed my feelings to him but he still says no. At this point it is sad and pissing me off that he doesn't trust me enough to do this. What else can i say to him so he can trust me to do this simple task, or should i just change it without his knowing and inform him later? |
| Question: Husband whines about every household task? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 08:40 AM PDT and tries to get out of doing it by saying he's not good at or doesn't want to. (like I really do) We both work, full time.. i actualy work quite a bit more than full time in order to keep up with the expenses of our large family. (he has three kids from a previous relationship and i have 1). he doesn't work on the cars or repair things in the house (also says he doesn't know how to do that stuff) and we share the lawn. what sort of things should I say to him to get him to stop whining and do his share? he acts like he shouldn't have to because he doesn't "like" to. when i sure don't either! thales. his ex wife is very immature... has run off to other state several times to meet new men.. judge handed custody to us |
| Posted: 29 Sep 2017 07:09 AM PDT To find the girl who was a victim of my wife's bullying back in high school to now be hot? She is going to school for software engineering. My wife is a CNA and I am a mechanical engineer. My wife and I got married when she was 6 months pregnant. The hot girl is a virgin and is busy with school and she is a bartender at buffalo wild wings. My wife wears too much make up as well and always talks about how ugly the other girl is. |
| Question: Need some Marital Advice? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 06:37 AM PDT Hi my and my husband are 25 & 26 been married for 2 years. Things were going great up until 3 months ago. My husband got laid off from his job so it left me with the reponsibility of paying all the bills which wasn't a problem. I could afford everything except the "Car Payment" which was $300 a month. Fast forward to the present, my husband ended up getting his job back, things starting to look up but then our car got repossessed, so that leaves me not being able to get to work (my husband ride to work with his co-worker). So my job gives me some time off until I'm able to afford another car. Well today I talked to my grandma (she raised me) & she had nothing but negative things to say like "a person who gets they car repoed sounds like a person with no education & I'll be praying for you hoping you come to your senses because it seems like you've been going down hill since you been married" today is my birthday & that really bothered me & killed my spirit. I try to stay positive, I didn't even respond I just told her I would call her back later. I just need some positive advice, life has just been sending me curve balls. |
| Question: Shall a wife submit to her husband, especially if she's a housewife? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 06:29 AM PDT There is nothing wrong with a woman who submits to her man! that's my opinion...what's yours? |
| Question: Do married women have a guy come over for sex as soon as hubby goes to work? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 06:23 AM PDT |
| Question: Why doesn't anyone want to be intimate with me? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 06:21 AM PDT Peole have always voluntarily told me how "beautiful" I was. They would say things like "you're so pretty I can't believe you don't have a boyfriend". Yet nobody ever wanted me. People would always like my friend over me. 2 men I knew and liked wouldn't even kiss me but then I find out they slept with my friend who was extremely overweight. Why would he sleep with her but when alone with me wouldn't even try anything or make just leave? If I'm supposedly so pretty why am the only one that nobody wants? I know it's not only about looks but I'm smart, and fun. Now I'm married and my husband has no interest in me. And he was never really into me. Just a friend that I settled for. Even men I met online made excuses to leave or never called for a second date. It's really is discouraging. Recently my husband and I separated (and we had an agreement to be with other people) and I almost got a chance to be with a guy I knew from an old job who contacted me but then he even backed out saying he "couldn't go through with it". But I find out he slept with one of my friends and several other people. So why couldn't he get with me? One guy couldn't. even get hard around me when we made out. Neither could my husband barely in the last few years. My friend who is 300 lbs and not attractive gets men left and right. I just don't understand what is wrong with me. I'm not one to throw myself at someone and would rather have dated and not sleep with someone right away but no man want |
| Question: Is marrying your friend as a joke a bad idea? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 06:08 AM PDT I'm a gay male turning 18 next year. Yesterday my friend (girl) jokingly brought up getting married but we talked about it and we just think it'll be funny if we actually got married (legally) for like two years after we graduate. I mean we're not gonna live together or let alone live in the same country (I'm going to leave to a different country for uni) but I personally think it's just funny how when I'm seeing someone I can be like oh I'm still married or be like I'm a divorcee. All I'm asking what actually could go wrong. I know my friend won't be going to asking for alimony after our divorce. But we like actually thought about it and I don't think there will be any harm. |
| Posted: 29 Sep 2017 06:05 AM PDT Hi there! My husband is currently working abroad and won't be home until next year. At present, I am staying with relatives who were kind enough to let me in their home, but only for a few weeks. Me and my husband's house is an hour's plane ride away and I'm really anxious to live there alone, especially that we had been burglarized before. I am really confused. We have no kidsso I'm basically all by myself. Please help! |
| Question: I believe he married me for a green card and I'm devastated.? Posted: 29 Sep 2017 05:58 AM PDT I feel lost. His conditional green card came in the mail and two days later he left me and I have no idea where he went. He started really the most ridiculous fight and then refused to speak to me. I waited two months to file for divorce, hoping I was wrong and he would come home. He won't sign papers, but I plan to file anyway. All the lies he had are unfolding and I feel more and more lost. I can't even focus on anything else and cry randomly throughout the day. I've put on 15 pounds. I'm more concerned about getting my sanity back at this point, so I've started calling therapists to find an opening for counseling. Most days I don't have the energy to exercise, but I want to use this time to improve myself. Has anyone else been lied to by someone who you trusted completely. How did you overcome it? I can barely function some days. |
| Question: How to forgive wife and move on? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 11:50 PM PDT going to try and keep this as short as possible, July 2016 I was on a 2 week military leave and came home to find wife and guy friend talking about how horny and fertile she was on facebook, and other messages that said I cant belive your still so into me and that she said she loves him and that he is her bestfriend. we are currently still arguing about those messages. she wants me to get help and see a therapist because my ex basically was a huge whore and cheated on me with multiple guys and she thinks I have demons from that experience. I love her but I still don't trust her and I just don't feel the same about her after all this. whenever I bring it up she gets really upset and almost uncontrollably crying and said she is starting to get really depressed because I cant move on with it. I try my best to put it in the back of my mind but it still comes to my mind no matter how hard I try and I really am just stuck. a part of me wants to end the marriage, stay with her forever and grow old and a part of me is just so sick and tired of it all and just sick of thinking about it. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2017 11:43 PM PDT She says as long as I finish high school and go to collage I can get married at 16. |
| Question: Why does he blame me? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 11:15 PM PDT Every time I find out my husband is being unloyal like talking to girls on fb he tries to point the finger on me and try and say I'm un loyal bc I spoke to a guy over a year ago on and off for two weeks after my husband left me and my daughters. Remind you he always talked to girls online before I ever talked to anyone. I take care of my daughters and 8 months pregnant. He tells other girls they're beautiful except me and I'm always good to him. He ends up arguing with me so I leave but than blows me up days later. Than it's the same pattern. I just want to know why he blames me he apologizes when I see something but than turns into this blaming person when I had enough. |
| Question: My wife on Facebook? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 10:46 PM PDT I'm so miserable. My wife is on Facebook and adds guys and I have no idea who the *** they are. I am so fed up and she calls them " friends" and I pay rent pay bills and flight tickets. I would die for this woman and she has these fuking friends on FB. I am sick of it. Not only that she post Instagram pics and the guys follow her on there. It's like wtf is the point of marriage now. Random random ******* guys I've never met. This age is the age of whoredom seriously and I am no exception. |
| Question: Coping with a husband that works night shift? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 09:58 PM PDT My husband has been working night shift (7pm-7am) for almost 10 months now. I stay home with our two daughters. During the day if he works he sleeps until 4:30 and wakes up to spend time with us. On his days off he has a hard time staying up and is always upset saying his days/nights have been thrown off. So for the past 26+ weekends he has been going out to clubs every night he s off. Or he just drives around doing I don t know what and I m left at home to sleep or I m up worried and unable to sleep. I guess my question is.. is this odd behavior? Should I just continue to push through until he s able to switch back to days? Any suggestions on how to cope with this? |
| Question: Is it really different when you meet your husband/wife? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 09:26 PM PDT I'm having a hard time re. my love life, I've had long-term relationships but nothing I felt could last into decades or where I felt ready to have children, my long-term relationships felt more like routine than love. Right now I'm finding it hard to meet guys at all, those I am meeting are either users or creepy stalkers. When you meet 'the one' is it really as different as it's made out to be? |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2017 08:26 PM PDT Its my husbands birthday. We just noved and have been strapped for cash. I saved all the money I could to make it special...I rushed to the store after work, and bought him a ps4 game, since he only has like one. He opened the gift and told me he doesnt like that game, and why would I even think he'd like that? ( it was lego harry potter...he loves harry potter btw) It really hurt my feelings. He never even opened the case and daid to return it. Idk if I should return it and buy him something else? Or how to even respond. I told him it hurt me... |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2017 12:03 PM PDT The playboy guy is exactly how I wanna end up. 91 year old and sleeping on the **** of a 31 year old model |
| Question: Husband and I fight too much how do I quit being the neighbourhood crazy lady? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 10:48 AM PDT yell too much because he won't stop badgering me and he scares me. I get along with everyone else great. I drink too much at night after he goes to bed because I need to be calm and the wine mellows me out.I try to ignore his behavior but he constantly argues and harasses me about doing things the best way. I want to leave so bad. He follows me everywhere I go .He compares everything I do to his dead mom. If I watch anything on tv he doesn't like or go , or go out with other people there is hell to pay when I come home. I am sick to death of it. He tries and controls everything do and never gives me any space. I have tried to get a job, but everyone talks about our fighting and blames me. I have enough money to get a junky car and that is about it. Also he told everyone I was in a mental hospital Valentine's day weekend because of all this crap and my grandma and two my friends died. Which was totally embarrassing. He didn't use to be this bad until he got promoted at work. I am currently in counseling which is helping a little. He doesn't like counseling. I hate to be a bag lady that lives in her car, though. Peace and quiet might be nice. |
| Posted: 28 Sep 2017 10:20 AM PDT I grew up upper-middle class, but my childhood was emotionally abusive. Mom did everything she could to crush my self esteem. She's very jealous, even though she's very beautiful. I guess I was thin, cute, friendly, but I never felt attractive no matter what anyone told me. Lots of guys chased me from high school on, and mom's cruelty increased as the attention increased. I hated men's attention and would turn into a ***** to fend off advances (I thought men were pigs wanting to use me before finding a girl they actually liked). So when hubby took things very slow with me, I was so relieved. We were both virgins (me 29, him 35). I had gained 60lbs a few years before from depression, and that made me think, he's a gentleman and doesn't judge women just on looks. We've been together 5 years now, and I recently learned he used to frequent strip clubs and get lap dances, and that he only picked out the "hot" ones. (He didn't blurt this out, a comment he made led to a lengthy conversation about misogyny). This triggered so much insecurity from my past, I don't know how to deal. Now all I can think of is him enjoying getting gyrated on by random naked girls for money (pretty much being a pig) and imagine them WAY more attractive than me, and how could my husband possibly be happy with me after that. I cry almost every day now, and I've begun to resent my husband for his past, which I know is wrong, because my issues aren't his fault, but it still stirs up horrible feelings. |
| Question: Is it wrong that my husband and I had sex at an open house? Posted: 28 Sep 2017 09:00 AM PDT We were looking at this nice ranch last week. We asked if we could see the bedroom. Then we asked for some alone time so we could discuss if we wanted to buy the house or not. So after the door was shut he started rubbing on my legs. I told him no this is not the time or the place and then before we knew it we were having sex in their bed! I heard somebody in the hallway say, "what is that wet clapping sound?" I just am glad that we didn't get caught. But I want to know if this is morally wrong or not. |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2017 07:55 PM PDT With all the ***** sissy feminine queer "males" out here, I want my futute husband to command me to have sex with him or just take me at his own will, regardless of my opinion or whatever I am doing at thr time. I wanna be a stay at home wife and mother flr my husband and for him to always remind me I'm the weaker vessel in mind body and emotion which is all true. |
| Question: What does it mean if someone said my husband treats me like a pig? Posted: 27 Sep 2017 06:13 PM PDT Someone said that because my husband dresses me in sexy clothes all the time and we have sex several times per day |
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