Either way, someone's losing a trailer. That said, hope all them good folks in FLA are ok!

I was virgin when i got married and I'm married for four years now and I don't enjoy having sex at all although my husband is trying to make it fun and prepare me before doing it but ny feelings isn't changing! Whats wrong with me and what should i do??

I don t like sex !

My husband left me about six months ago for a woman at his work. Our divorce has just recently been finalized. He is supposed to have visitation with them every weekend, but he hasn't bothered to do anything with them. I keep trying to organize stuff, but he always claims he has other plans. And, I'm supposed to have parent teacher conferences with the kids' teachers soon, and I asked him if he would come, but he said no, that he doesn't think he should be involved. He's completely distancing himself from us, and it's hard enough for me, I can't imagine how much harder it is for the kids. My oldest is already starting to act up at school, and she's never acted up before. I don't even know what to do; this divorce has been so hard; I'm so heartbroken, and I have no idea how to help my kids, and I wish he would stop distancing himself from us. What should I do?

Well i'm into watching my wife get ******. I'm a badass!

I know he had deep feelings for her. But it went wrong bc he lead her on and then she turned the tables and crushed him. They fell out for a while, got back cool and she tried to get back with him. He turned her down because he'd started seeing me. But they still talked for a few months after that until they fell out again.    So after a couple of years of no communication between them, they ran into each other recently. I found out that they've been talking for hours almost every day for the past couple of months. He initiates the calls and texts bc he works at a zoo and has a lot of time to talk while working. On several days they clocked 5 hours of talking. He said that it's friendly and they always got each other's sense of humor but she is aware that he is with me.  I have an ex and never talk to him because I'm over him and could care less about our past. So this concerns because even if I tell him to stop this, he might do it but will he be longing to talk to her in his heart? Help!!

My boyfriend is leaving for a work trip for a few days tomorrow. Until today, he still hadn t told me his itenerary at all. He s only told me the city he s going to. He s gone on trips before and has always told me all the details at least a few days before he leaves. Today, I asked him what time his flights were and after he made it seem like I had been interrogating him. I really was just asking him simple questions. Now, he s mad at me because he feels interrogated. I m mad because I really don t like feeling like I have to dig for information, especially when this has never been an issue before. Now, what do I do? I don t want to fight, but I don t like how he s handled this.

Would you be less hurt if your spouse had an affair with someone who looks like you? He or she could easily be mistaken for a relative of yours.

What do I do my wife is controlling but she has some mental health issues not constantly but they flare up and when it does I get back and blue. I refuse to hit her but anything I say makes it worse and she just runs to her family and they yell at me so please help me what do I do btw the other girl is in Canada I'm in southern Indiana

I'm looking for a story I came across a while ago. It's about an older man whose lover meets him when his wife's away. There were descriptions about them meeting in his kitchen, how his lover took one of his wife's freshly made treats, dirty dishes & there was a followup story I vaguely remember where the lover and husband briefly meet in the park with his toddler/baby in tow and end up at his place to hookup; and this time, he gives her some jewelry he notes his wife won't notice missing.

and no, she doesn't have kids herself.

Asalamaualeykum I am a muslim girl 28 years old... and I have been wanting to get married ever since i entered college because of this one mexican dude i liked from my class but God took him out of my life and i can't find him anywhere and besides i saw his wedding photo on myspace so i believe he is married by now and i really wanted him to convert to islam so we could get married but seems like that's not going to happen... the thing is i was just 18 then when i began to like him... and now i am 28 and i am still not married to anyone... and i just recently saw an islamic nasheed video which perhaps looks a bit like him... but the main thing is i am still not married yet and i am getting older do you think i will ever even get married... i mean my little brother got married before me...! i mean i got a proposal at age 18 from someone but i liked the mexican dude so i rejected him and then 2nd semester of college came and i had this other dude after me but now he is gone too out of my life and during the time i was with the second guy i looked at the mexican dude's myspace and he was married! Can somebody please help me thank you Jazakallah khair!

He has a steady job BUT he's horrible with money and I caught him for the first time, stealing money from my purse. I asked him why he did it and at first he denied trying to steal but he later confessed that he was going to take a few dollars for gas . Should I call off wedding?

I have just recently got married and taken my husbands last name. I have gone to the SSA and changed my name with them and awaiting my card in the mail. I have also done the same at the dmv. I also need to do this on my passport as soon as possible, do i have to wait until i physically receive my new SSC in the mail or can i just use my marriage certificate?

My husband has connected on facebook with someone he used to work with many years ago. They never had a romantic relationship. It was just a friendship and took place long before I met him, Anyway since re-connecting with this person he has had almost daily contact,either on facebook or via text. It has been platonic since I have seen the messages. However he has never been one to actually facebook. He usually just plays games on there. It was always very ocassional that he would even peruse his news feed. Anyway he now comments or likes almost all of her posts and does not do this with anyone else. He reconnected with another woman on there too that he used to work with and does not comment on her posts. When I ask him about this he acts like I am crazy for thinking such a thing. He is a good liar and can turn any situation around. Should I be concerned?

How do you think that makes dark haired women feel?

So, if you've seen any of my previous questions you'll know that my mother in law has been very persistently bothering myself and my husband (even while at work over phone calls and texts) to have children. I just turned 24 years old and my husband is only a month behind me and he's still 23. We still have lots of living to do and at this time can not see children in our future, it's not our preference and we'd rather not - the older I get the more I actually don't want them ever. She has gotten to the point of calling when my husband is at work to argue with him, calling him and me selfish (not in a joking manner) and after being told we're not having kids over and over, she sent him a text message today saying if we had kids we could put them on our taxes... I'm NOT having a child to do that. She goes on and on about how she wants to be a grandma and we need to "get to it" calling US selfish. My husband gave her the same answer today when she called him at work to ask about kids again for the 3rd time this week and she got so mad she just said "whatever" and hung up. This woman is 50 yrs old, wont get a job or a hobby so all she has left to do is start drama and want a grandchild - which wouldn't be coming to her house anyway bc a lot of violence and drug use take place there with her other older son. How did you deal with things like this when you got married and people kept doing this? Or is this really considered crossing some serious boundaries?

N were hunk compared to him.

My girlfriend of over a year works 5 days a week. On her days off I ask her to pick my kids up from school and babysit them for the rest of the day so I can go to work and get things done, Sometimes she does it, other times she says she's busy. Shouldn't she be helping me out since she doesn't work that day if she wants to be serious about being a family with us one day?

All of my friends think a guy I dated is super hot, but after going out with him a few times he's not that fun of a person to be around and doesn't have a great personality (is very quiet, complains a lot, seems depressed, ocd to the max, when I make plans to do something fun he rarely pays(he's broke because of child support) so I have to pay for both of us unless its a cheap date or we dont go anywhere, he's always busy with his kids then complains if I don't cancel work to hang out with him the few times he's child free) My friends are always saying how hot he is and I think he's hot too but he's very standoffish and cold personality and once I got to know him he has a lot of issues with money, time, ocd, depression, etc. I feel weird about not going out with I'm anymore because my friends keep saying how hot he is and I dont want to bad mouth him and look bad, he's just not that fun to be around and I dont see a future with him, how do I handle this?

My wife says she is too good for the average job (has too high education, too great experience etc), she has no experience in our country and only worked in her home country. I tell her to just get a job, look for something else while working or start at the bottom and work her way up. She said she will divorce me and move back home, unless they offer her a CEO position. She refuses to listen, how do I get it through to her?

I am by no means afraid of commitment, change, or sex. I can maintain healthy relationships. I do, however, strongly distaste marriage. I'm not exactly sure why. Marriage did use to make me anxious, but I don't have those feelings anymore. The feelings of anxiety turned into more of a repulsion. It doesn't effect the rest of my life, though, so I see nothing wrong with it. Is it possible just have a strong distaste for marriage, but not fear it? Also, am I the only one who feels this way? Like I said, I'm fine with commitment. It's just marriage itself I don't like. I also should add I don't want kids in the first place. I have no motherly instinct.

I don t know what to do. I love my husband. But he does not use his brain. He is stressing me out. I am full time nursing student and all of this extra stuff is killing me. So first thing, (before I was a student) he crashed his car into another, his fault. Then a few months later he hit another car. Then he went and hit a cow in a field. And now he got a DUI and lied to me about his drinks! And his car is now gone and he is jail. I don t know how much I can handle. I know you should stick together in a marriage but this is getting ridiculous. And I am getting so stressed. Should I get a divorce? Should I try? I am just at my witts wind. Would love to hear some other opinions that are not personal to me. Thank you.

What should I do? I'm not forgiving her for this, I'm finished, it's not worth working on the marriage. I feel betrayed beyond belief. Help?

I'm really conflicted because my parents have been married for over 40 years and they still love each other. However times have changed and now women are becoming more independent and don't need a man anymore. There is less incentive for them to weather the storm and get through the tough times in marriage. They can just walk away or fall for someone else. That's why the initiate most divorces. I'm told how worthless are treated by family courts. I don't know anymore. I'm so lost and it's straining my relationship with my GF

Serious answer please.

Oh for heaven's sake, it's not for me!