In an alleged marital rape a wife has filed through the state in Australia against her husband She stated her husband slapped on her naked buttocks for 40-45 minutes n between 10-10:30 pm and she reported to her doctor after nearly eighteen hours and her doc said she cannot comment on any kind of injuries or bruises as there was no physical examination conducted; I want to understand how true is this story?

My wife recorded some stuff about 9/11 on Monday we been watching them all week. It makes her sad she does love the movie Flight 93 which we've been watching all week. She was doing some research on it it said there were at least 10 pregnant women who were killed on 9/11. She's 6 months pregnant with our son also because of 9/11 she's scared to death of air planes. I told her I wouldn't let her on a plane unless she wanted to. She feels a little bit sad. How can I help her feel better ?

My boyfriend of 5 years is throwing hints about marriage. I can feel that he's proposing soon, my only issue is how his financial choices will affect our family once we get married and have children. We've talked about buying a house as soon as we marry and because this is something we've wanted to do the plan has been to save, which I'm still doing but he isn't because he's been supporting his parent's , sister and 3 nephews for a year and a half. His father has severe arthritis so he can't work and his mother who is the care taker only makes enough for the mortgage so my boyfriend pays the bills in their household as we'll as his half of the bills in our house. His sister is a single mother of three and she lives at home with his parents she doesn't work and she has put her son's into a private school that my boyfriend pays the tuition for every month as we'll as her carnote , insurance and gives her money weekly that she never makes last she just comes running back asking for more and he gives it to her! If i honestly had to guess I'd say he probably spends 5000 dollars a month on them and that's including everything. I also just want to say that i am not complaining in any way i admire how much he cares about his family and i also didn't have a issue with it until recently when his sister lost her job 7 months ago and still fails to get a new one and contribute. I know that we aren't married but i want to know if it's my place to say something? Advise please! (We're 25)

I feel our sex life has gone down hill since moving out of state. Im not sure what to do been together for 17 years. We got in argument about it he said who the he ll would want to have sex with a fat *****. I m beginning to believe what he said was true

i was in her cell phone and i know it was wrong to be in an adults phone but this guys name caught my attention so i looked through conversation and it looked like an old friend that's she's known for years. then i saw thy were talking dirty and talking about have sex and loving each other and all this freakyness. he says he's always had low for my mom and would like to knock her up. i think it is disrespecting my dad and right now he is in dr taking are of business for family. they always fight and he doesn't really contribute to the house hold but i still don't think that's a reason to cheat . it hurts me because i'm the child and i don't know what to do

My ex husband calls to speak to me and his kids frequently while I was on vacation with my kids and husband. Weird thing is ex husband isn't exactly the best father and sees his kids maybe once a week if gay while back home. Husband says he's trying to causes problem because he never shows much interest in his kids otherwise. Is my husband over reacting?

No i am no feminist or whatever I am very traditional so I want his last name. But I am just sad that ill be changing my name. I have had it for 25 years. how will i get over this?

CW=Coworker SP=Spouse (Punctuation/Capitalization etc done exact same) Ex.1 around noon on a Sat. SP: sent another coworkers info CW: I'm surprised you know how to send contacts like that SP: WOW CW: lol same day just later that night SP: Stop by at __. I'll buy you a drink CW: Me or Aaron? SP: YOU CW: I'll see SP: ____is here. EX.2 morning CW: I shoulda stayed at your building until after the meeting CW: I'm coming back SP: Sweet Same day after work several texts about work and other coworker and how bored CW is at her new location CW: You should just come sit up there (new location) with me :) Ex.3 CW: I can't believe you!! SP: What CW: I saw u here CW: U didn't say hi SP: sorry, busy getting mad at people etc etc (work issues) 2 hrs. later CW: you should come to the store with me next texts were about our daughters accident (that happened during that time) Ex. 4 several texts related to work and the upcoming 4 day weekend SP: What's out there? camping CW: yea SP: Have a good time CW: I could get attacked by a bear SP: they have a bear safety video CW: I should watch it :) Ex.5 CW: Are you coming to the "function" tomorrow? SP: Are you inviting me CW: lol yep CW: starts at 11 SP: for sure Ex.6 CW: Idk why, but you have a calming effect on me Ex.7 Sat late morning CW: you should come get your truck washed at the ____ car wash SP: I forgot about that 2 hrs. later SP: Damn now I owe you money CW: 3 laughing with tears emojis I've been dealing with this for a year now, these are just the surface. Look at my question from last year. I just want to know if I'm over reacting or not. I want second opinions,when your spouse changes towards you, you're going to snoop. He's never text other women like this before. This is new and out of character for him.

Should married couples have the privacy of their own phone and not allow their spouse to see their phone or once you're married you give up most of your privacy like my parents did?

A stranger finds themselves very sexually attracted to your wife. They offer you five million dollars to let them sleep with her for one night. How do you react? People, it's called a hypothetical question. I'm aware of the percentile regarding it ever happening. I was gauging whether money or boundaries meant more or less to some. *sigh* You can stop playing at having the intellectual upper hand here by pointing out captain obvious in the crowd now. My Thanks.

If a husband tells his wife she's old, fat, worthless and ugly in front of the kids and tells the kids they're mom is a worthless slut, would you consider this a normal relationship?

My hubby & I were good friends with his bosses family until I caught him one day trying To touch my butt & poke me in the side while drunk then tried to kiss my cheek. we also use to live in the same town so he said I would drive by his house twice a day or more when he's outside. When my family member lives in his block on a cultisack so I had to go out the one way I came in. I can prove To husband that my family member lives there but it don't matter now or to anyone & even told my hubby I stalked him & his brother to a family vacation (we were invited on) as well as the only bar in This small as town.nbut they posted pictures with us online (facebook)?? It makes no sense unless his boss got caught cheating on his wife of 35 years with me!!! I call touching an *** cheating!!! Hubby & I use to text from one phone until I saved up to get mine and it would confuse people a lot. I even messaged from our one phone asking for marriage advice before we broke up but we didn't so they used that against me as well. I thought I could ask him because he's been married for 35 years, wrong. Inlearned our lesson but I got in trouble because he could do no wrong and everything is my fault for being too pretty.I feel like they are using him to punish me and it's working. They are trying to get him fired as well because I got hit on?? I also know he cheated on his wife and had a secret baby. So would you give up your phone and tablet to have a marriage?

My husband but he has an obsession with everything being even and fair. It has annoyed me in the past but now that we have a child it s getting worse. If I ask him to help pick up he often tells me that he didn t make the mess so he shouldn t have to. Yet I clean his mess up without saying a word. I tell him this and we have a brief spat and then he apologizes and helps. Same with our daughter. He wakes up with her on the couple days I work and one day on the weekend. I will put her to bed and give him nights out with his friends and get up with her, but if I ever take an evening off he will tell me that it wouldn t be "fair" if he still has to get up with her. Again a brief spat or argument and he will apologize then do it. The obsession with being even goes to an extent that doesn t even make sense. If we are going easy on money and I make a random purchase he will have to make a random purchase for himself to be fair. We argue over this fairness obsession on a daily basis and it always ends with him saying he is sorry and that he is being stupid but then it starts again hours later or the next day. I don t ask him to do much for me, but I cringe knowing that the fairness conversation will come up again. I even just asked him to pick up his pants and he told me that because I didn t pick up something that he shouldn t have to. Is this a type of mental disorder? Again he is a really kind man and he loves me but if this doesn t stop I think I ll go mad.

We've been married for 4 years and have had sex plenty of times. We both enjoy it and even have it 3 times in one day sometimes. We do everything except anal sex. We both discussed it while we were dating that it didn't interest us. He even said that it was disgusting! So my question is this: Why would he while doing me doggy style with his thumb touch my bum hole? He didn't insert it or massage it. But he did place it on it 2 times before he came. I didn't say anything but it's different and I'm not used to that. Do you think this means he's teasing the idea of inserting a finger? Why would he do this? It seems gross to me. We didn't discuss it afterwards. I want to see if he does it a second time before bringing it up. Thanks

We've been married for 4 years and have had sex plenty of times. We both enjoy it and even have it 3 times in one day sometimes. We do everything except anal sex. We both discussed it while we were dating that it didn't interest us. He even said that it was disgusting! So my question is this: Why would he while doing me doggy style with his thumb touch my bum hole? He didn't insert it or massage it. But he did place it on it 2 times before he came. I didn't say anything but it's different and I'm not used to that. Do you think this means he's teasing the idea of inserting a finger? Why would he do this? It seems gross to me. We didn't discuss it afterwards. I want to see if he does it a second time before bringing it up. Thanks

If spouse is not having sex with me for a long time, plus i think he is cheating with some woman online caught him masturbating and he wouldn't let me see to what, then i found her picture in his phone. Im horny i have needs, i cant leave him. Not an option. I want to have really great sex i haven't in so long... 😢💔 feel like my heart is breaking because of him doing this. I'm un-wanted. Blah.....

"A building must have scraped against the car." How does one respond to that logic?

Don't get rude. And say stupid stuff.' I'm just asking about love. Love is worth dying for in a way. Like if an intruder enter the home would you say hey baby can you go check. Will you buy your wife a new house even if it kills you meaning you working extremely hard. If a person try to kill your spouse would you not save that love one. Or that spouse or girlfriend is about to get hit by a truck will you save that person? IS THIS PERSON WORTH DYING FOR,? If not than why marry that individual? Right. Or am I wrong?