Family: Question: Has anyone worked in a jail or prison kitchen with imates?

Question: Has anyone worked in a jail or prison kitchen with imates?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 02:14 PM PDT

I was hired as a Supervisor in a kitchen at a local jail i was trying to get a job description?

Question: Is my sister a lesbian ?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 02:04 PM PDT

My sister is 14 she loves almost anything or everything. Right now she's obsessed with Gilligans Island again she loves it a few years ago when it was showing reruns on tv now she's starting to watch it and like it again. She said she really loves Ginger not just love but obsessed. It's like she has a crush on her. Every time something happens to Ginger she gets upset or whenever she cries she cries as well. She was watching her favorite episodes last night one was they were all kidnapped by some guy who took them to his castle on the other side of the island at first she thought it was funny but when they were all on there except Ginger she got worried she thought he was doing something bad to her. She never mention anything about being gay or a lesbian but she sure is acting like it. Does it sound like she's a lesbian ?

Question: I feel so lonely and depressed :(?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 01:49 PM PDT

i feel that nobody loves me nobody has hugged me or told me they love me since a year not even my parents i have lost a lot of weight don't feel like eating or doing anything i have also stopped crying i have nobody to talk to and severe trust issues since people make fun of me since im a weirdo all my parents do is yell at me and no one seems to care what should i do to feel better and get back on track?

Question: Easiest way to make money at the age of 15?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 01:43 PM PDT

Okay so I want to make some money so I can buy a GoPro camera by October 13 for this vacation I am going to from October 15-October 20. I want to help my parents out because they are already having so much they have to pay for already and I don't want to make them buy me a GoPro but I will be really sad if I don't get one for this once in a lifetime opportunity. Any suggestions on any ways I can make money at the age of 15. I know a lot of you are going to say "Just get a job" but the thing is that I am only 15 so I can't drive on my own yet and both my parents have jobs and really busy schedules and I wouldn't be able to always have a ride to and from work plus I don't have a workers permit. I just want to know if there are any ways I could make money WITHOUT selling anyone else's belongings and having my parents buy one for me.

Question: Should I feel bad for refusing to help my sister pay off the bailiffs?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 01:17 PM PDT

This person I have very little respect for because, she's a ******* rude disrespectful leech. She owes money to other people and me and she still borrows more and more money, and is incredibly rude to those who bail her out. If there was a competition for anyone who knows how to ***** their way out of a favor, she will win first prize every time. So why do I feel bad for not baling her out even though she over stepped the mark with me with her vicious tongue? And this is not the first time. I bailed her out early this year because she got into debt and she's having my brother pay me back for the mess she got in. Can you believe that? She won't even take a job in retail to pay any of us back and pay down her loans. She's been looking for a job that won't come her way and she won't go back into retail. She's got experience, she was great at it and she has glowing references from previous employers. She says its beneath her to go back though. Its her fault she's in this mess and is struggling to pay her debts. So why do I feel bad? I shouldn't feel bad, but I do. All I know is I will feel worse for helping her out sooner or later. @ Billy: It was some kind of loan and there was a letter saying she needs to cough £900 or there will take legal action and send bailiffs round. She came to me and I paid off the company... well, I sent her money so she can pay them off.

Question: What Is My Great Uncle's Step Daughter To Me?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:42 PM PDT

Okay My Dad's Uncle Who Is Known As My Great Uncle Of Course Has a Step Daughter That's The Same Age As Me But I Would Like To Know What She Is To Me

Question: Did my dad abuse me if he put his arm around my neck which then chokes me?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:35 PM PDT

Basically I got into an argument with my parents over something I hadn't even done and had been put the blame on, they thought I was being rude denying it and thought i should've owned up, it escalated to my dad at the bottom of the stairs man handling me getting me to get up which I replied with my hands up showing him I wasn't doing anything back ' I'll go up by myself I don't need to you try and force me' anyway so he tried to man handle me upstairs and I got away and walked to my room as told but tbf I punched through my door in anger... which yeh was dumb but I did still at that point feel taken advantage of. Then they came in and started grabbing me by my throat and saying things that I can't remember. So eventually my dad slammed my head into the wall next to my bed and I fell onto it then he put his arms round my neck choking me. My mum stormed out and he took his hands off me and we both stood up and I shouted ' don't ever put your hands on my throat again' and he threw me back onto the bed and shouted in my ear whilst his arms were wrapped round my neck again' what are you gonna do about it' and obviously because I'd been shouting I choked and started gasping for air. He had me like this for around 3 seconds struggling until he let go of me a

Question: How to stop my parents from being so controlling?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:34 PM PDT

My parents are extremely over protective. I'm 17 years old, senior year and I havent been allowed to hang out with a friend (not even once) since I was 15. My dad thinks I'm gonna do hard drugs even if I'm just asking to see a movie. They want to drive me everywhere and if i go shopping with them I need to be with them the entire time. I literally have no freedom unless I'm at school what should I do? Lying doesn't get me anywhere so I gave up on that

Question: Girls would you be pissed off?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:26 PM PDT

My crush is mad because she caught me flirting with a girl I know online. The thing about my crush is that we are not official yet/gone on one single date yet? so why get mad? anyways it's been a week since we last talked. I have txt her three times all this week and she has read em all /ignored em all. should i txt her again one last time Or wait for her to txt me/find me????... I mean would you also be pissed if a guy did this to you?????

Question: My niece who is 30 does not include my step daughter who is 26 in her broadcast text messages.?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:12 PM PDT

My niece who is 30 yrs. old does not include my step daughter who is 26 yrs. old in her broadcast text messages. For example she is having a baby and has been texting the progress including pictures to my whole family and does not include my step daughter. Should I say something to my niece?

Question: Should I stop teasing my sister if it makes her feel bad?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 11:59 AM PDT

Question: My younger sister's boyfriend slapped me several times and made me cry for being racist. I am afraid he will not respect me now?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 11:26 AM PDT

I'm 18, and in the same high school as my sister, though she is two years younger than me. There's a boy in my class who's Nicaraguan. He's athletic and good looking, but well, he's Nicaraguan, so hardly a catch.. But to my dismay, my sister fell for him and they started dating. She brings him home a lot, too, and our parents love him, but I keep feeling he's trying to be the man of the house and take my place. A few days ago, he, my sister and me were alone at our house, and my sister made dinner. I was, I admit, particularly rude to him a couple of times, and even my sister told me to behave, which made me angrier. And when he said to my sister that the food was a little bland, I snapped and said, "Well your family in Nicaragua would beg for this, so be grateful." At that, he got up and walked to where I was sitting, and slapped me across my face so hard I spat out what I was chewing. He then grabbed me by the hair to make me look at him and just started slapping my face repeatedly. I started to cry and begged him to stop, but he kept on slapping my face. After about a dozen slaps, he grabbed my collar and locked me in my room in my OWN HOUSE! As soon as my mother came, I told her and showed her the red marks on my face, but she sided with my sister, who said to me 'If you don't want to be b*tch slapped, don't be a b*tch.' Now I'm afraid this boy doesn't respect me, and every time I see him I feel humiliated. How can I get my sister to leave him for my sake?

Question: How can i convince my parents to take me to Rally Rally Land?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 10:47 AM PDT

I really want to go to rally rally land but my stupid parents are being cheap and boring. Should i cry until they let me? I am so bored!!!

Question: My mom says I'm the reason my dad left the family. How do I make up to her and how do I make up to my dad though I don't know anymore?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 10:27 AM PDT

Question: Road trip at 17?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 10:24 AM PDT

I'm 17 y/o girl and a senior in high school. I want to take a trip with my friends (all girls, two are 16 and the other is 18) to an event 2.5 hours away in the next state over. We plan to leave Friday after school and come home mid-day Sunday. We'll be staying at a Best Western for the 2 nights we are gone. Their parents all said yes, but I have yet to ask mine. My mom was very strict, but over the years she has been more lenient. She doesn't reenforce a curfew, but also won't let me sleep over at friend's houses even after knowing them for 12+ years and being friends with their moms. She said no to my brother when he wanted to go on a trip at my age, but my brother and I are very different. He did drugs and drank at my age and he wouldn't come home some days. I always tell her where I am going and what time I plan to be home. I call when I'm going to be home late even though I don't have to. I've never been in a car accident and have been driving since I was 15 (permit) and have driven at least 2 hours everyday since I got my license (because school is 1 hour away from me). I do duel credit at a community college and I do weekly volunteering and have already obtained over 150 hours for the year. I help her at the family business for free. I'm even paying for the trip with my own money. She'll also be out of the country for 2/3 days of the trip with her friends on vacation. With all this info, would you let me go? Why or why not? And how do I convince my mom? Thanks!

Question: I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 17 for about 6 more months, we have a baby on the way. Can his mom just not let him see me or the baby?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 10:08 AM PDT

She has been saying she doesn't want him over at my house because he "disrespects her" whenever he comes back, when she is always picking an argument. He won't be 18 for about 6 months. They live 40 minutes away I shouldn't have to use all of MY gas to make sure our son sees his father. Can she keep him from seeing me and his son? Is there anything I can do about it? And no, she's not a very reasonable person; she's immature. He only comes over because he has work a few minutes away from my house so we take him and we have baby appointments every Thursday which when we go we get coupons for their baby store and we get free stuff. Clothes, cribs, car seats, etc. She already lost her car because struggling with money. So I don't see why she won't let him come over A. To see me and our son. B. To get FREE baby stuff just from watching videos. And C. To work and get money FOR OUR SON . Can she really keep him from seeing me and our son ?. Please tell me I can do something about it .

Question: I cannot bring myself to punish my daughter?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 10:02 AM PDT

She's 5, I'm a single dad. Every time she does something wrong it goes down like this I get down to her level, tell her that I'm disappointed in what she did, then she gives this sad little look, asks if she's going to be in trouble, quick hug, quick sorry, and right before I'm about to punish, I trip at the finish line and tell her, " No, you're not in trouble this time, just don't do it again." Obviously not punishing bad behavior is not good, how do I pull the trigger? I just hate seeing that look on her face

Question: Parents Are Useless?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 09:14 AM PDT

I'm 15 trying to get rid of this overflowing bag of leftovers from last night's party. I ask my mom for suggestions and she beats around the bush never giving me suggestions. I, hopefully rightfully so, start to get annoyed. She just yells "Take out the ******* trash!" She tries to apologize, but she always has an excuse after. "I'm sorry, but-." "I'm sorry, but-." It's stuff like this that can possibly lead to me feeling like I shouldn't be nice to people, if this is the reaction I get from my own MOM if I ask polietly about something. What should I do? (And all this because I ask suggestions for how to get rid of a bag of trash, mind you...smh) This was a bag overflowing with crap, mind you. I do not mean to seem absolutely dumb by asking this question, but it just felt wrong when my mom beat around the bush and yells at me when I try to polietly get a real answer out of her.

Question: Would I be a bad parent?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 09:14 AM PDT

So right now My ccdf is cut off and im waiting for them to approve it all parents who have been through that know how long that process can take, anyways me and my childs father been going half and half on the bill which is 75 for each of us a week. He brought up to me that he doesnt get paid as much as me (which isn't much) and basically he volunteered that our son live with him until things get better. But my problem is that at his dads house he wont be doing anything positive and I could come some days but he lives on the other side of town from me I couldnt spend as much time with my son as I'd like to and that would eat me up. especially when I'm used to having him with me. would I be a bad parent if I just let him go? I have no idea how long the process would take.

Question: I feel like I caused my Dad to commit suicide because my Mom was leaving him to protect me and my sister. How do I manage this guilt?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 09:03 AM PDT

He was alcoholic and wouldn't get help. He had other problems he was masking with the alcohol. He killed himself when my Mom left him. I was nine at the time. To this day I blame myself despite therapy. I have the same issues he had except the alcoholism part but I get help, he didn't. I have managed to manage other issues like anxiety and some Bipolar but never been able to manage my guilt that I caused my Dad's suicide. How do I get over this or get rid of it? A part of me says it is silly for me to think but another part knows darn well it is my fault since my mother was leaving him to protect me and my sister. I was a hyperactive child so all the more at fault since my loud noise my mother feared was making him drink more and get verbally abusive with me at times of intoxication. Also to make it worse his family has had little relationship with us since his death whereas they are close to each other in the rest of his family. Thus, I must be blamed and not as good as my cousins whose parents didn't kill themselves. He has an alcoholic brother but that brother's kids were better so their mother didn't have to leave and he is alive and even got help and is sober I hear. How do I get over my guilt for causing my Dad's suicide in 2008?

Question: What do I do.?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:52 AM PDT

I'm 16 and I'm going to be 17 at the end of January. I can't stand living with my parents. I would go into detail but I want to keep this short. They exclude me out of things such as vacations and events, don't cook dinner everyday, take me to school late etc. They use me for chores and leave me with my bro. I live in California meaning that once you turn 16 you can leave home with or without permission. This summer I tried leaving and my grandma protested that I just HAD to tell my dad. (My mom couldn't care less about me) I tried getting the rest of my stuff (I'm a minimalist. I've gotten rid of a large amount of my possessions to make things easier when I jump from house to house) and all he did was freak out and embarrass himself. He knows how unhappy I am and refuses to take me to counseling because he knows if cps or cops or anyone finds out he'll be in trouble. My dad is also very ignorant about the law and most things. My mom wants me out but she won't tell my dad that because he's the man of the house and would leave her if she said it. I just don't get it. Should I just wait until I'm a junior next year when I'm 18. Because I'm close to just saying **** it.

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:37 AM PDT

Hi. I'm having lots of family problems right now and I'm so sick of it. I'm 14 and my mom is a straight alcoholic. All she wants to do it drink drink drink. This morning my dad went to work (6 am in the morning ) and he took all the car keys cause he doesn't want her to drive to the store to get drinks, but of course she walked almost 4 miles just to get drinks. I can't even go to school cause no one can drop me off or pick me up. I have 2 siblings, my brother doesn't come home because of this reason and because he has a warrant on him, and my sister lives 50 minutes away. I really want to leave. I really want my mom to get better but I don't know how to help. What do I do?

Question: Is it possible to completely forget your birthday?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:22 AM PDT

I feel so bad. It's been hectic and crazy this month, and we're (mostly me) are still trying to recover from hurricane Irma that swept through Florida. With the storm, the pregnancy (currently 33 weeks along), and still in the process of moving, I completely forgot was today is. The past week has been a blur. My daughter (who's almost 4) came in saying, "Mommy, it's tu Happy Birthday." I responded with "Ok, baby!" Even when she told me that she's going to Publix to get my cake, it didn't really click. I figured she just wanted cake, which she always does...lol. Then Hubby surprised me at work with a gorgeous bouquet. He seemed a little irritated that I was oblivious and confused. When my boss came in and asked me who's birthday it is, I told him apparently mine. Then he told about he forgot his birthday once. Is it possible to completely forget your birthday?

Question: Being the Loser of the Family?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:15 AM PDT

Hi. Do most families have one? I hold this unofficial title in my family. I'm a woman in my late 20s; while my cousins and others are moving up in their careers and actually enjoying their profession, getting married, having kids, buying homes, I don't have any of these. I can't afford to nor am I dating. I have a career but I don't like it and my lack of passion for it means I likely won't survive in this field very long. I know it seems like I'm exaggerating, but it's so hard to watch the disappointment in my parents' eyes when I see them. I've failed myself as well. I honestly feel like jumping off a bridge often and calling it a day. I guess I'm wondering if it's still possible to turn my life around in any way... thanks.

Question: My mother is so mean to me why?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:00 AM PDT

Back in 2012 I had to move in with my mother because she had a hernia in her rib cage and she almost died but now she's healthy and she's doing a lot better I notice that she say mean things to me like right in front of her boyfriend you're ugly and your fat nobody's not going to date you you're 33 years old you're still a virgin you have low self-esteem you are pathetic she calls me names when she get upset and angry when I don't give her money which I do give her money for rent but she wants more money and her boyfriend he don't pay rent he's just stay with us rent-free and he doesn't have a job I want to get out and live on my own but she keep saying you can't live on your own yet you have a learning disability and she put me down so bad right in front of him like why does she do this to me I fix her food I clean up her house I do everything for her and she knows I have anxiety and depression it's like she doesn't care sometimes I feel like I don't want to be here anymore I don't want to live because my own mother puts me down and I hate it so much and my family members they don't care they tell me get out live on your own and sometimes she tells me you look like a man

Question: How to explain dad's death to his widow?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 07:53 AM PDT

My dad had a heart attack during sex with two women in vegas. His wife really wants to know what happened to him and why he was in vegas. I don't wanna break her heart. She is kind of a sweet kid and a good mom to my little sister. But really fragile.I was the only one speaking to him before his death so it is falls on me. (I feel weird calling her my stepmom , cuz I am 40 and she is 20 something.) I have tried to explain before and after the wedding that he is a major horndog , but it didn't seem to register. They contacted me instead, I am his emergency contact. I am not a troll. I am not sure how to deal with this.

Question: My mother never enforced punishments when we were growing up. My sister is an entitled brat now. Is it impossible to correct (we're adults)?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 07:50 AM PDT

I am 31 and my sister 24. Our mother would say "your grounded" and then list the punishment if we complained. My sister is now a narcissistic bully. For example if our brother (aged 27) takes a photo at a family event she says "stop, your so annoying" like classmates in 5th grade. If my mother does the same she does the same. If my sister wants a new car she asks our Mom and if she (the sister) throws enough of a fit then our mother gets her one within a day. Our brother has Aspergers and she flips on anything he does that is deemed weird and bragged that she blocked him on Facebook. He is the one for example who takes the pictures at holidays. He can be obsessive but through no fault of his own and he self-mutilates whenever our rotten sister bullies him. So is it possible for our sister to grow up or by age 24 is it too late absent a miracle and should I just label her the bad one and avoid her when I can. This weekend she was bullying our brother for smelling when he got in the car yet he did not smell at all. Last Christmas he spent self mutilating over her bitchy comments.

Question: My sister keeps eating my food?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 07:12 AM PDT

I'm a vegetarian and recently I've cut out dairy. To help out my mom, I've started to cook every second day or so. The meals I make are vegan and fairly large portions so there's enough for me to eat the next day. The fridge and the cupboards are normally full, there are plenty of things to eat but recently my older sister keeps on eating my food instead of other leftovers or other food in the fridge, and she is fully aware of what I can and can't eat. It's just really inconsiderate but I know if I mention it to her she'll get cross with me. What do I do? If I cook less and have no leftovers, I still don't have anything to eat though or I'll need to cook more often which I don't have time for :/

Question: I really need relationship help!!?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 07:07 AM PDT

So, I met the woman of my dreams. We are going on 10 months now. I treat her like Gold and she treats me like Gold.. We are both 29 going on 30. I live on my own and have since I was 19. She still lives with her parents. Always has. To her admission she has a big phobia of always pleasing her parents. The leash was never quite cut. At 29 she was feeling guilty for spending nights at my place (she s not religious nor are her parents). She wants to move in but she s so hessistant because she doesn t want to make mom and dad mad. During the first few months of our relationship my mother was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. I had to spend a lot of time with her helping out as I am the only child. I couldn t make it to my girl friends Easter party at her parents because my mom was very sick. My girl was so understanding and loving. After a while I started going to family parties and her parents loved me. Hugs kisses the whole but. Once things got serious between us and she stayed over more...it hit the fan. All of a sudden her mother didn t believe that i was taking care of my mom. She didn t believe that I served in the military for 4 years. She didn t even believe that my dog had died recently. I was dumb founded. Her mom told my girl friend that she wants to see my mother s medical records and my military records. That s our private business. Why should someone who was nothing but polite and respectful have to show documentation to her parents?

Question: Isn't weird that I don't know when my Birthday is?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 06:41 AM PDT

I was born in a hippie commune 42 years ago. I don't know the exact date of my birthday, my Mother forgot and I don't have a birth certificate. She has a good idea of when I was born because her sister and co- lover of my father had a baby born on Marx' s birthday. My Mom and my Aunt said that O was born within days, maybe a week at most. Is there a way I can find out my exact birthday

Question: Diary Dilemma?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 06:17 AM PDT

So, I have a diary and I write in in it sometimes. I have a nosy mom and I am scared of her reading it. I m pretty sure she knows all the hiding places in the house except one place in a chair. What can I do to keep mom out of my diary? I also have a few nosy friends though. And in the school too

Question: Girls how mad would you be?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 06:15 AM PDT

My crush is mad because she caught me flirting with a girl I know online. The thing about my crush is that we are not official yet/gone on one single date yet? so why get mad? anyways it's been a week since we last talked. I txt her today and she read it/ignored it. should i txt her again one last time Or wait for her to txt me/find me????... I mean would you also be pissed if a guy did this to you if so 1-10 be honest scale?????

Question: What is ��?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:10 AM PDT

I told my cousin Leonard that our grandma was dead and he hung up the call and texted me 🐩. Wat does it mean?

Question: My sister bullies. She is 24 but acts like a 12 year old. When I am with her it hurts. How do I avoid having hurt feelings when around her?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:08 AM PDT

In order to see my folks I am stuck seeing her as she still lives with them (another reason she is like a 12 year old). She bullies them also. She is a classic adult bully so she picks on my weak spots to hurt me. I see her once or twice a month. Holidays are when she bullies the worst and she wrecked Christmas last year because of it.

Question: My mother likes to lie to me about her ex-husband, my Dad. How do I know which stories are her lies vs. the truth?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:07 AM PDT

Like she warns me that he likes me enough but does not love me whereas her Dad loves me like a son.

Question: Who do they care more about, their father or their mother?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 03:23 AM PDT

Question: My 7 year old daughter tells me not to throw my Bud light cans out the window while I am driving. Will cans really effect the environment?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 03:09 AM PDT

Question: Should I allow my son to have a relationship with his aunt?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:31 AM PDT

My sons aunt and I have a negative past. I met her brother when we were teenagers. She up until the point of my pregnancy looked for anyway to bully and belittle me to my bf, her family, friends, and people on social media. She has threatened me physically numerous times, and I was rushed out of the house once when her and her friends attempted to jump me. She is by far the worst bully and down right malicious person I've come across. I've done my best to remain cordial, and even invited her to the baby shower (even though I wasn't invited to hers a year prior). Recently though, I declined going to her sons birthday party (he cries hysterically every time he's around my son). She got snippy with me and became passive aggressive assuming I had an issue being around children that cry. Once I explained myself she understood and then asked to see my son to which I ignored and didn't reply. I have yet to say a single sentence to this women without her spinning it negatively. Which to me makes me feel like she still thinks of me in a negative way. Do I set all those hurtful memories aside and allow her to have a relationship with my son? Even though she doesn't respect me, and obviously still doesn't like me? I want my son to be loved and supported by anyone willing to give, but where do I draw a line so I can peace for myself? My boyfriend is very understanding as he was my shoulder to cry on through out it all, so he respects any decision on this that I choose to make.

Question: If my parents had never met would I still exist and be born to a different mother or father?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:29 AM PDT

Question: Ladies would you be angry?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 12:20 AM PDT

My crush is mad because she caught me flirting with a girl I know online. The thing about my crush is that we are not official yet/gone on one single date yet? so why get mad? anyways it's been a week since we last talked. I txt her today and she read it/ignored it. should i txt her again one last time Or wait for her to txt me/find me????... I mean would you also be pissed if a guy did this to you????? .....

Question: My sons father comes from a family of incest.His father and I are not related.I m scared now that my kid will have problems?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 11:58 PM PDT

Question: How do I deal with my father now that my mom is gone, and I'm older?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 11:53 PM PDT

I'm 22, my mom passed a year and a half ago. I always idealized my parents. We were all very close. My mom and I were best friends. Now I'm living with my father and in college. He's a high maintenance person to live with. He's very type A, works hard even when it's for no good reason or not in his best interest. (I'm not against working hard but I do so out of conviction. I don't like mundane things like he does.) He acts nice to everyone else, and is hilarious and social. When it's just me he's mostly cold, jerky, easily set off, analyzing my every move. He's got a new girlfriend and I've haven't barely said anything about it. Gives me great grief because they started dating only months after we put my dear sweet mother into the ground. She's got three kids and I'm an only child. I'm trying to focus on my future, college, my friends, the ladies, but it's hard when I don't have my warm mother to come home to. Instead I just get some weird jerk that used to be my hero.

Question: How many siblings do you have?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 11:43 PM PDT

I am curious about how many siblings people usually have, because I read somewhere that most couples only about like 2 or 3 kids. I come from a family of 5 kids, so I have 4 siblings (2 boys and 2 girls).

Question: Is anal and clitoral fingering sexual abuse if it's child on child (guy on girl) but it's unwanted?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 11:20 PM PDT

And humiliating

Question: How to skip school without getting caught by parents?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 11:11 PM PDT

Before you tell me to go to school, UNDERSTAND that I am a responsible student, I have good grades, and I just WANT a mental break off. However, my parents are strict and will not allow me to take a day off unless I am sick. Now, I am sick right now and I actually lost my voice over the weekend. But my parents told me I should be fine to return to school but I feel like I'm not. I feel stressed and what not. My parents are home until 11am so I don't know what to do?? The school doesn't call my parents in the morning to let them know. They call me. Do I hide in closets for hours?? Do I go and pretend I'm actually going to school and sneak back in? (The door makes a lot of noise so this is hella risky.) Don't yell at me and say I should go to school because I just want a mental day off for my mind.

Question: My dad's clothes embarrass me?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 10:54 PM PDT

For my dad's job, he wears a suit every single day. I'm talking, like...suit and tie and dress shoes. When he picks me up from school, he usually has a few errands to run and I have to go with him. He never changes out of his work clothes before running errands, so he's always walking around places like the grocery store in a full suit and tie and it's so embarrassing. We live in a fairly small town, so people probably recognize him around town as "the guy who wears the suit" and think he's insane. He always sticks out in a crowd because everyone else around us always wears casual clothes. Once, he took me to the mall and some guy asked him, "are you wearing that suit just to look superior..? Because you don't, but you look stupid." Would you be embarrassed too, or am I just overreacting? I'm a teenage girl so maybe that explains it lol, but still. I feel like people don't know he's wearing the suit for his job and just think he's wearing it for fun....that's why I'm embarrassed

Question: Is the family home still your home when you're married?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 10:35 PM PDT

My sister has been married for years and now has her own family and apartment. She comes over to th family home and still treats it like she lives there Helps herself to food, takes things without asking. Is it still her homr?

Question: Ladies would you be pissed?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 10:23 PM PDT

My crush is mad because she caught me flirting with a girl I know online. The thing about my crush is that we are not official yet/gone on one single date yet? so why get mad? anyways it's been a week since we last talked. I txt her today and she read it/ignored it. should i txt her again one last time Or wait for her to txt me/find me????... I mean would you also be pissed if a guy did this to you?????

Question: Why do sisters copy everything you do?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:33 PM PDT

I dress a certain way next thing you know my sister dresses the same, I curl my hair one day then my sister decides to do the same, I play a certain game on my phone next thing you know my sister is playing the exact game the next day, in my social media I always have the numbers 570 in my username and she puts that In her username too and the list could go on. It's not like I even feel like she's looking up to me, just plain annoying.

Question: Does it mean we're not that close anymore?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:29 PM PDT

I have a good friend who I'm very close to. She's 50 and I'm in my early 20s, we're both girls.. she's become a very special friend, one you rarely come across. Her name is Hazel. We get a long so well for our age difference, we have so many similar life experiences. We talk all the time, over the phone mostly because we live far. She will help me through my life problems and I will help her, she's so supporting and caring, consdering she's a blunt and reserved person. We can talk about anything, we've cried to each other on the phone and have helped each other through tough times. I'm completely comfortable with her and I assume she is too as we have shared so many important private things with each other. She's a great friend and mentor to me. She helped me when I reached a low point in my life, I was at a bad point the other day.. she called me and got after me for considering something stupid. She said how special I was to her and that she would be heart broken if anything ever happened to me. We were on the phone for 3 hours that afternoon. I just get a special feeling towards her.. months ago, she said I was special to her and a kindred spirit, she's a lady who doesn't express feelings or stuff much, so that meant a lot because I felt it too.. although it's been 8 months, she's said I'm special and valuable to her a couple times but never the kindred spirit part again.. do you think we are still kindreds or did it fade off?.. she hasn't mentioned it again

Question: Are sam and frodo in love?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:26 PM PDT

my dad showed me lord of the rings for the first time today and i think they are and so does my dad but my brother doesn't think they are but are they

Question: I want nothing to do with my family because I hate this team and it's city and that's where me and my family is from what should I do?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:25 PM PDT

Question: Should I listen to my parents? Or do what I want to do?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:17 PM PDT

My mom expects me to focus on school and to later find a bf/husband that has a job and a good career. I'm in college. I have liked this guy at my high school, he's like one or two years younger and he likes me. I like him too. He asked me out and I would love to go out with him. Hes so handsome and nice. The thing is that he got out of highschool, but he only works and doesn't go to school. He said that he's not sure about school right now.

Question: Are mother and daughter piercings a good idea?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:16 PM PDT

I was thinking we should get nipple piercings together, will be a special bond. Very unique and no one will see them but us of course (I'm now divorced and I don't allow her boyfriends). What do you think? Bonding?

Question: My 8 year old son made his very first table. He cut down the tree and everything. I am proud but how do I tell him with out sounding queer?

Posted: 18 Sep 2017 09:02 PM PDT