Family: Question: Is it inappropriate for a man to do a stroking gesture in front of his girlfriend while advising her son that he needs to find a girlfriend?

Question: Is it inappropriate for a man to do a stroking gesture in front of his girlfriend while advising her son that he needs to find a girlfriend?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 02:14 PM PDT

I am 25 years old, and my mom's boyfriend seems to lack class. He asked me if I have a girlfriend, and when I told him I don't, he said that I should meet somebody and that, in his words "You can't just be doing THIS every day" (which he said while making a stroking gesture at his crotch area, AND in front of my mother). Also, he always tries to grab every opportunity to express how much he loves her to me. However, the last time I did that was VERY inappropriate. This incident started when my mother mentioned something she heard on the news about a neighborhood fondler that's loose on the streets. Her boyfriend said to me (in front of her), "I would kill any man that tried to touch your mother's titty!" I seriously cringed, as well as when he did that stroking gesture I mentioned. Am I in the wrong here?

Question: How can I help a child - 5 years old boys - my nephew ?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 01:59 PM PDT

I might sound crazy but I somehow feel he is unhappy in his own family. Having father who is most of a day at work and mother who stays at home with his younger brother. This younger one is three years now and was the reason they put the older boy in nursery when he was just two years old. Since that time he has seen his younger brother staying at home with mum while he must leave home every morning even when crying. The younger one is cuter, happier and spontaneous and his mum does not hide that she likes him more than the older. She even put her older (but still very young) son slightly down with ironical comments to his personality. The boy is shy, would do anything to get the same attention as his younger brother just he is not so brave or confident (for obvious reason that his parents do not want to see) I cant stand that. I dor not see them very often - ussually we gather as a big family and I am so angry that for sure I wont be able to say it tactful an I might worsen the kid position in his own family. Recently they have moved and he has to change the kindergarden - and again his younger brother stays at home with that mother ... How could I help him - they live one hour drive from my place.

Question: Why do republikkklans want to kill babies with bad healthcare?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 01:23 PM PDT

Question: I can't live like this?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 12:26 PM PDT

I'm a 16 year old girl living in a bubble. My parents are extremely strict and need some advice on what to do. Never have I been allowed to attend a sleep over, rarely was I allowed to leave my house thus my friends abandoned me. I'm not a problematic kid, I get amazing grades, I'm supposed to be graduating as a junior. As a result my parents have refused to sign my early graduation papers if I don't agree to going to the local community college instead of osu. I have my drivers license but aren't allowed farther than 5 miles from home or else I would be in serious trouble (parents use find my iPhone to locate me). I gave up entirely on friends, sports and activities. I felt to jealous of the other kids and deleted my social media. What should I do I feel like I'm suffocating.

Question: My half sister wants to get in touch?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 11:49 AM PDT

My biological father left my mother when I was 5. As far as I'm concerned, he's not my father. After he got married in Germany or something. Now, his daughter, found me somehow on facebook and sends me messages. To be honest, I don't know this girl and 've never seen her before. She's my sister by name only. So should I respond to her? Or just leave it be? Ps: sorry for my english.

Question: My birthday is in Saturday, 2 days from now, and my parents are openly dismissing it?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 10:56 AM PDT

Please read. So I've been very humble about the whole thing birthday thing which is only 2 days away, not asking for presents or making plans or demands and stuff. For my parents Im showing them this 'I'm like whatever you want to do I'm fine with it attitude.' Only my grandpa called my dad to ask for plans and after that dad texted me that grandpa wants to know the plans for your birthday. And I replied him with an funny text of 'when a my birthday?' But now dad was talking to me about plans for this weekend and he was like we can go meet a relative who came back from abroad on Saturday(my birthday) and later go to grandpa's house to discuss them moving into another house. And then on Sunday take them for house viewing. I don't understand what the hell they are doing. They are occasionally very rude to me for their own private reasons and moods but why are they being so openly insensitive about me when I go running on each of their birthdays and make them happen and give them gifts. Plus, I don't even have friends at the moment who I can be close with.

Question: How do I get over my sister having a baby with my husband?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 10:12 AM PDT

My sister is pregnant by my husband. I'm so distraught. I tried for years to get pregnant with no luck and doctors gave me no hope. Initially I thought my husband and I could work it out and maybe their was a silver lining and we would have a baby, even if we had shared custody. But my husband without warning got a lawyer and even had me put out of our home. I've talked to 3 different lawyers and the way everything is I get nothing. Not a single thing. I don't even care about that though I'm just so upset by the whole situation. I'm trying to find a job but I haven't worked in so long and don't have a degree it's so hard. I'm having to live with my parents now and the worst part is they're so excited about having a grandchild. They admit my sister was in the wrong but think I should forgive and move on! Now my little sister is living with MY husband in our home, driving a new car MY husband bought her and about to have his baby that I've always wanted. My mom's bday was last weekend and I had to leave and go sit in the park and cry for hours because she and my husband were coming over for her party. Now there having a baby shower here in a month. My family doesnt understand or care. They talk about the damn baby non stop. How do I get over this?

Question: Should I be worried about what my sister is doing?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 09:35 AM PDT

I am not sure how I should feel about what my 16 year old sister Ann is doing. I am her 20 year old brother. I really like her and I am VERY protective of her. She has developed into a very beautiful woman. She is mature far beyond her age. She knows how guys think probably from being around me and my brothers. When my buddies come over to my house to hang out, they just love it when she talks and jokes around with them. I also know how guys think and I have told them repeatedly she is not flirting with them. She is just an outgoing and fun loving person that is totally at ease with guys. She wants to be their buddy, not their girlfriend. Can guys my age accept her as a friend and buddy and not as a potential girlfriend. Please tell me what you think.

Question: Ricky stole my linemans pliers although I can't prove it my dad refuses to spank him how to get mu linemans pliers back?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 09:34 AM PDT

Question: Does my family not like me because I'm a manwhore?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 09:01 AM PDT

Question: What should I do about my daughter? Please help.?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 08:53 AM PDT

About 6 years ago my daughter got strung out on drugs. Meth. The young man she was with introduced her to that drug. The state stepped in and I ended up with her child for about 2 years. My grandson had meth in his system. It was a horrible experience. Come to find out this guy she was with had her prostituting for drugs. I was in the hospital for a week and they robbed my house and was cooking meth in my bathroom. Well, I find out that she s seeing this guy again. She has him around her children. I asked her about it, because when he s staying at her house she doesn t communicate with anyone. I was just concerned and asked her and she flew off the handle. I pay her to clean my house, but because those two have robbed me in the past I told her that my house isn t that dirty and that I d call her when I need her. I was nice and tried not to make it obvious. She now has me blocked and blocked me from my grandson s phone as well. What should I do about this?😢 Should I let it go? She s the type that gets violent with words when she s upset. I don t need it. Any advice would be appreciated.

Question: Would you still spank your 17 year old daughter?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 07:08 AM PDT

Question: My parents hate me. What do i do?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 06:56 AM PDT

Both my parents told me i lost them and i dont know what to do anymore. My mom doesnt want to pick me up from school, or anything. She told me "i dont have a daughter" and avoids me all together. I dont even see my dad alot so he doesnt even talk to me. My siblings dont talk to me either, mainly because im the oldest and i dont see them alot too . At school i dont have many friends because i dont socialize alot. This is getting long but i dont know what to do. When i try talking to them, they ignore me. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks

Question: If my parents had never met would I still exist and be born to a different mother or father?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 06:26 AM PDT

Question: This is going to sound stupid but is it possible to have minor trauma or like anxiety about my parents divorce?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 05:46 AM PDT

My parents had a really messed up divorce, my father cheated on my mother and then basically left us to start a family with the woman he cheated with, I was around 11 or 12 when it happened and he didn't leave immediately he talked to me and my siblings on the phone for the first year after if happened (I'm pretty sure my mother made him) but then slowly stopped answering, we live with my mother and I'm 18 now, my siblings don't seem to be bothered by it much they just seem to hate/not care about him anymore but I for some reason am extremely bother by it still, I can very rarely talk about him/the situation without crying or getting anxiety and it's the same for when other people talk about it like my mother or family members I still get a little emotional and have to leave or not pay attention, even thinking about it for a while will make me upset or topics related to it, I just get really anxious and feel like crying, why am I like this but not my siblings or am I just really sensitive/emotional, it's annoying tbh My bother is now 21 and my sister 17 I've talked to them about it and they've told me they don't care about it they're more mad than anything

Question: My dad is 57, he is incredibly lazy and never had to work hard in his life, he takes a nap every day, and I am disgusted. Help?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 05:33 AM PDT

My 80 yr old grandpa, a family friend, my brother, and myself help my granddad fix up the house that my dad is trying to sell. We work when it is 90 degrees outside while my dad takes a nap. My dad has no disabilities or illnesses. He takes advantage of my grandpa and he would rather take a nap than help his daughter change a tire. He takes naps every day while my grandpa sometimes doesn't get the chance and grandpa has a pacemaker. Is it wrong for me to be angry at my dad?

Question: Is it wrong for me to hate my cousins when....?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 05:04 AM PDT

So my cousins are living with us till December and they are being extremely difficult and disrespectful. For the whole summer I was happy and peaceful because we usually have a quite home until they came. They complain about everything they kicked me out of my own basement, called me annoying for basically telling them that this is my house, said that I m still a child even tho i m 18 and where all in the same age range, smokes in the backyard which make the entire house smells constantly tells me that you need a man, also tries to hit on my friends. I tried to solve the problem by telling my mother and she just laughs it off and tells me that oh there just family and i don t know what to do

Question: My aunt pulled me aside to tell me how bad my Mom is. Did I need to agree with her to be polite?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 04:46 AM PDT

It was awkward as my Mom has been distant from her family too much lately but I didn't want to bad mouth her to her sister. My brother died 3 years ago of a drug overdose and my mother has been having a hard time with it. Her sister, my aunt, was sympathetic at first but now mad that my mother isn't paying attention to her.

Question: My Mom gets pleasure in using me to get my Dad and step-mother back by brainwashing me against them. How do I get her to realize this?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 04:41 AM PDT

How can I get her to realize she does this. For example, any vague suspicion she has about my father she makes a fact. Thus she lies about him. She tells me he is incapable of loving me because he loves no one but himself. She says if he loved my siblings and I then he would have treated our mother with respect and held down a job. When my brother acts up she says "your turning into your father" and she seldom lets us see him. I am an adult now so can go on my own but only could twice a year before I was out of high school. She now accuses me of picking him over her. All this causes great anxiety to a people pleaser like me. How do I get her to realize what she is doing? I am 22 and male.

Question: How do I know if my step-mother is a narcissist (read below)?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 04:37 AM PDT

My step-mother has two kids of her own. One is amazing in her eyes and one can never do anything right in her eyes. Both are daughters. She also has a son who lives with his Dad and he is okay but just forgotten by her. She brags when she does good deeds (not to an extreme) and you are either in or out in her eyes and nothing in the middle. Some days she loves my Dad and other days she is livid with him and even contemplated divorcing him at one point. When she is mad at someone she sucks everyone else into it and tries to get us to hate that person (including her daughter). I notice when someone is not paying attention to her then she really turns on the person. The daughter she resents is the one who doesn't praise her and even as a kid would talk back to her (normal kid behavior). The one she loves is the one who on Mother's Day wrote a 4 paragraph poem to her on Facebook. That adult child she spoils silly (though she is a nice adult child). The other one she has very little to do with and when she does reach out a big deal is made of how she reached out. My step-mother can be very nice but only if it is reciprocated. Among her siblings she is estranged from one who doesn't hate who she hates and close to another one who gives her attention. She (my step-Mom) was always the favorite of 3 daughters by her mother and was a baby when her father died so got extra attention. So would she be considered a narcissist?

Question: My uncle (Mom's brother) was mean to me as a kid. Is it normal I am still scared of him when I see him?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 04:36 AM PDT

He now is mean to his grandkids when they visit. Nothing physically abusive, just verbal. One grandkid he was so mean to that he told the father of the 2 year old to get the grandson to shut up

Question: My sister is a narcissist. Is it okay if I don't like her?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 04:35 AM PDT

Question: Is it okay to make your 16 year old daughter stand in a corner for 8 hours straight after she skipped school?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 02:48 AM PDT

Question: My big brother hit me with a baseball bat what are the charges?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 02:00 AM PDT

Question: Whats the best way to keep our money from my brother?

Posted: 20 Sep 2017 01:21 AM PDT

Ide rather not tell how old he is but he steals money from us like its nothing! He does have a job but my mom has to take all of his pay money or he will spend it all in 3 days then steal more from us because we didnt buy it when he asked for it. ( Its mainly cigars and i dont know where he gets this if you dont give it to me then ill take it attitude because my parents never gave him anything just because he asked for it. Infact the opposite theyd take his stuff for being bad.) the purse in my moms car he waits untill she falls asleep to take her keys and raids it, the money i had in one of those voice activated diaries he just grabbs a screwdriver and the moneys his, the money my little brother hides in books/behind dressers and under the carpet once he finds out he has money hell wake up at 3-4 am to go around the house like a crazy maniac. He steals from us then complains that we cant afford anything. Its like he thinks we make so much money that taking it shouldnt do anything and that we get cheap things just because. Is there any other way to keep his dirty dumb hands off of our money or is it hopeless as long as hes living with us?

Question: What would you do if your step sister or brother trys to make love with you?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 11:22 PM PDT

Question: My mom made a rude comment about my wife's obesity?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 11:20 PM PDT

My mom recently came over for a family gathering and saw my wife for the first time in a while. My wife is very obese and has put on a lot of weight in the past year. she's about 515 lbs and struggles to walk (but she can waddle a few feet without my help). At this family event she was seated on the couch and greeted our guests from the couch. It's clear to anyone who sees her how heavy she is and clear that she can't get up. We all ate a nice barbecue meal together and had a good time. I put together plates of food and brought them to my wife. Afterward my mom decided to make a comment to me saying something along the lines of "you sure keep her well-fed" in a rude tone and within earshot of my wife. Should I not invite my mom to these events next time? My wife was upset and I had to reassure her that she's beautiful. My mom doesn't get that she's being rude and thinks we're overreacting. Who's right?

Question: Is my brother or dad abusive?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 09:43 PM PDT

My brother has always told me to shut up, and anytime I would sing he'd tell me I sound bad and shouldn't sing. He's called me stupid and lazy. He always makes fun of me and calls me names. Most recently he's started calling me cringe lord master. He says everything that comes out of my mouth is cringe and that I'm annoying and a baby. He's thrown those little popper firework things at me while I was just quietly sitting in my room. A little while later my brother came back in and pretended throw another popper at me and thought it was hilarious that I flinched. I've asked my dad if I could get locks on my doors before but every time he becomes suspicious of why I want them. He asked if it's because my brother doesn't knock, and if so then he'd talk to him. But it's annoying because it's not just because my brother will just barge into my room, my dad will too. My dad seems to think of himself as completely perfect and one time when we were having an argument he sent me into a panic attack and when I told him he asked why because he didn't raise his voice, even though he was shouting at me and slammed his hand in the bathroom door while I was in there trying to calm down. My dad has called me a ***** before but when my sister said that's abuse my dad said: "you're right in sorry." I'm sorry if you don't know how to answer this or think it's stupid but I need some sort of reassurance that this is ether normal or abuse or whatever, I'm only 15 and have no clue how to tell.

Question: Should I let my 21 year old daughter go to a pool party?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 09:33 PM PDT

I am not comfortable with it even though she is 21, she lives with me so I can take away the car keys and make sure she doesn't go

Question: Preteen Daughter Constantly Plays with Bellybutton?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:38 PM PDT

Okay. So, I ve noticed that my 12 year old daughter always has her hand up her shirt and playing with her button. I know as a toddler this isn t okay, as to not develop odd habits. But she s only just started to do this over the past couple of years. I haven t asked her about it yet, and I m sure it s not "unhealthy". But why could she be doing this? When I goggles "playing with belly button" I see lots of fetish related videos and images. If she s doing this because it is giving her some sort of... umm how do I say.... "feel good feeling, do I stop her?? I mean it seems harmless, but it s just all so odd to me! Sorry for such a weird question, but any input would help. Thanks (:

Question: Has a son ever spied or recorded on you during an intimate moment? What happened and how did you handle it?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:37 PM PDT

My sister frequently leaves her son with me when she travels for business. He is like a son to me, I treat him very well. A few days ago he stayed with me, and again today. Today, he forgot his cell phone. I was going to take it to his school, but before doing that, I flipped a bit through it, and realized that there were videos of me taken a few days ago with it. One is of me getting out of the shower, other is me nursing my baby. In both, I am nude. The one that I found most disturbing appears to have been taken from under my bedroom door, and shows me having sex with my husband. How should I handle this behavior? I know he is just a boy, but I am concerned my husband will find out and be mad.

Question: How to deal with my negative mom?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:23 PM PDT

I'm a 23 y/o woman and I recently moved back home a few weeks ago after living out of state for 2 years. My mom has always been angry/negative but it seems to be worse. She's angry ALL the time. Instead of putting her anger into an outlet she takes it out on me and my siblings. She takes a lot of low blows and calls us outside of our name way too much. Responding makes things worse and she's very sensitive. She yells or pouts when she doesn't have her way. It's very childish and annoying. I don't feel comfortable around her and all of my siblings feel the same. She makes the the house very awkward. I feel our relationship drifting apart and we were never really close. I wish I could be closer to her but I don't know how to start. She puts everyone in a really bad mood and she gets very upset when we avoid her. I just can't deal with it anymore. She's so bratty. She complains when she has to do anything aside from watching tv. I don't think she'll change but what steps can I take to stop letting her ruin my mood. I don't want to move so far away again bc I hate leaving my siblings.

Question: My dad wouldn't help me change my tire because he needed a nap but he doesn't work. Help?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:12 PM PDT

He is 49 and my mom is a professor at a local university. I am 17 and needed his help after school changing my tire because it was flat. My dad says "I would help but I gotta go take me a nap, get your grandpa to do it." My papa is 79 years old and is in great health but my dad takes a nap every day while my papa paints houses part time and doesn't get to always nap. My dad never helps me and he doesn't even know how to add oil in a car. I am a girl and I had to do it for him when I was 13. My parents my be getting divorced soon because my dad is so lazy. My mom works 2 jobs and I work part time at Zaxbys during the weekends (usually a double 10am to 11pm on Saturdays). I get a 90 minute break though. Why is my dad so lazy? My grandpa gives him $250 a week which is wrong in my opinion. My mom makes $88k a year.

Question: My sister is kicking me out?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:10 PM PDT

I'm getting kicked out tomorrow morning. She gets pissed off when she just see sitting and told me over text. She is just so god damn angry all the time. She wants me out. I can bring myself to talking to her. I'm gonna be homeless and she doesn't care

Question: My sis kicking me out tomorrow. She doesn't like me being here. I need to find a new place?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 08:06 PM PDT

My life been crazy. Only been here a month and she is crazy. I have to leave the house tomorrow by morning. I have like $900. I live in the Bay Area. Now to find a new place?

Question: Is this physical abuse?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 07:07 PM PDT

My mom came into my room furious and started criticizing me about what a useless daughter I am. That she should adopt a daughter that's more grateful than me. That I should be thrown out. She always does this, 1-3 times a week? Sometimes pulling my hair. I was used to it. She stomped over to me and started punching me. I put my arms above my head to protect myself. She kept doing it repeatedly before grabbing my hair and pulling it. She said she was gonna cut it all off. All I could do was tear up and say sorry. She left and I was terrified that she was actually gonna grab some scissors so I ran down the stairs and out the door. She tries to drive around to find me, but I hid. I stayed outside for at least 3 hours before going back home. There was nowhere else to go. I came back to my mom and dad sobbing. She begged me to forgive her (it wasn't like I could say no anyway). She said she would never hurt me and that I was frustrating to deal with and she didn't know what else to do. Despite this, she's overprotective, constantly wants to know my location, cleans up my room even when I ask her not to, snoops around. Basically treating me like a kid. I can never say no. I was always stuck in my room. I can't stop thinking about It. It keeps coming back to my mind and distracting me during class. My friend even pointed out that I flinched when she reached her hand towards me. I didn't recall that at all. what's your view on this and should I do something about it?

Question: So Im 15 but my mother treats me like a kid. I have all A's yet my mom takes my phone from me everyday directly when I come back from school?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 06:22 PM PDT

She once saw me talking to a girl on snapchat and got mad, telling me not to talk to girls. She always orders my around directly when I come back from schools to clean my bed and all my chores. What she basically does all day is boss me and my brother around. Seriously she always wastes my time when I usually have a test the next day and when I get lit 93 percent on it she gets mad at me.

Question: So Im 15 but my mother treats me like a kid. I have all A's yet my mom takes my phone from me everyday directly when I come back from school?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 06:16 PM PDT

Question: I feel like a loser?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:56 PM PDT

I went to a very small school, k-12 grade. It only had like 80 students. I don't know I've never had more then two friends, these two friends of mine are my best friends and we've all been best buddies our whole lives. I'm 24, turning 25 next month. My friends are also roughly the same age. We stuck together all through school and so far, adult life. I moved out and got sent back to my parents house three times, I live with my mum and grandma. I've been fired from all my jobs. I've moved out 3-4 times, each time lasting weeks or a matter of months then I'm right back at my parents house. I just moved back in with my mum and grandma yesterday because my landlord caught me stealing on camera. I stole cough syrup and benydrill. I was renting a single room hosted in a residence house. The landlord was not happy and told me I needed to be out in 24 hrs and that I'm lucky he didn't call the cops. He was a real d!ck about it. I just don't know what I want to do with my life. I have no sense of direction and I feel like a loser because I'm happy this way, just winging it but society tells me thats wrong. I've never had a girlfriend either. I'm 200lbs and 6'2".

Question: I found 30 bottles of liquor in my dadsfridge, shall I confront him about it?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:40 PM PDT

He is an alcoholic but he keeps telling me he quit drinking and now is starting a new life but recently I found 30 bottles of liquor in his fridge and I'm not sure how to confront him about this or even mention it? (MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCED)

Question: My dad is an alcoholic for a quite some time now. how can I help him?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:35 PM PDT

Question: My mom never lets me do anything?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:23 PM PDT

My mom acts like im a 12 year old and im 15, I know shes looking out for me but she says crazy things like im gonna get raped. I wanted to go to the mall with my friends she always have a stupid excuse of me not going like im gonna get kidnapped or raped. My friends mom was gonna be there with us. Then theres a artist I really love thats coming to my home town and she said no. I litterally got A's and B's, cleaned my room, cleaned the house and helped her with things and other stuff just to go! And her anser is no. She says im gonna get raped, every time I want to go somewhere. I know she's trying to keep me safe but she's being too sfae. She won't even let my 16 year old brother do anything! Is there a way to change her decision? (She says she has to meet the parent but shes always busy! And she cant even speak english!) Literally*

Question: Ladies mature question?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 05:05 PM PDT

3 years ago. I was 21 and I was dating a 18 year old. As we know teens tend to play many games. This specific girl was playing many games with me and on top of things she didn't want to have sex because she wasn't ready a virgin etc. We lasted 2 years but then broke up. I never saw her again and it's been 3 years since we last saw e/o. We bumped into e/o just 5 days ago and we exchanged numbers. We then text and she apologized and admitted how she would always have a soft spot for me in her heart and how she loved how I treated her. She then said she she needed time to grow etc. she wants to get back to dating me. My question is do you think she is still a virgin? she is 21/22 now and I'm 25.

Question: My Mom is pregnant for the 14th time. Should I call CPS?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 04:59 PM PDT

10 of her kids have been taken by CPS and two she gave up for adoption. I am one of the two she has raised. She has an addiction to getting pregnant. CPS takes the kids within a year. THIS WAS A JOKE

Question: My parents held me back from my loved ones growing up as a kid. How do I make up to the extended family for being 2nd rate due to my folks?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 04:56 PM PDT

They held me back because they were bitter and my Dad was trying to please my mother. Also there was a relative who was an alcoholic at one time and I was ADHD so embarrassed my Mom at times with my hyperactivity and people's reactions to it. I feel responsible and want to make up to my Mom's family (it was her side) now that she has died.

Question: My mother has a deranged narcissist in her family. How do I avoid being destroyed by this dysfunction?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 04:52 PM PDT

Question: I need help...i am currently staying with my aunty she is over 80 years old she might as well be my grandma?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 04:38 PM PDT

The reason I am staying with her is because I don't have a place to stay..my mom and dad live too far away from the college i am going to, it is cheaper for me to stay with my aunt...ever since I got here she has been criticizing me how I eat even how I sleep. I am just sick of her trying to control me like I am her child...i could literally be doing nothing and she would have a problem with it she and I have a very different way of living..she is a very close minded person and has a very one way of living...sometimes she gets me so mad I want to just cuss her out and give her a piece of my mind..at this point I don't care if she kicks me out from her house she is making me miserable and she talks about me to her friends or other family I hate that!!! I need to be free but I don't anywhere to go please I need some advice

Question: How do I tell my mum I'm pregnant?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 04:29 PM PDT

Hi. I'm 21 and I just found out I'm about 4 1/2 weeks pregnant. I still live at home with my mother as my boyfriend and I have been saving for a deposit for a house and I've got a year left of my course until I graduate. We both work - me part time at a supermarket and he works full time as an apprentice who will be fully qualified next year and part time at the supermarket also. My boyfriend (23) and I have decided we're going to keep it and I'm worrying myself sick about telling family - most importantly my mum before anyone else. When do I tell her? How do I bring it up? What do I say? Should I do it on my own or with him? She's going to be so disappointed in me and that kills me. I think she'll come around eventually because I'm her only child but I'm so worried she won't. If you have experiences of what happened when you told, I'd love to hear them. Or if you have any advice, I'd greatly appreciate it.

Question: Is it bad that I want my mom to leave?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 04:16 PM PDT

Everyday she picks a fight with me. She never sits down and talks with my like an adult, even though I beg her too. She always says that she doesn't love me. She always says that she hopes I fail in school. She's always calling me names, such as B**ch, Sl*t, etc, whenever I don't do anything for her or when I do something wrong. She has major problems with my dad and is always trying to get me involved and pick sides, and when I don't, she continues to call names and say she hates me. She's angry at my sister for crying and telling to get out of the bathroom when I locked myself in there after a fight with her. She was crying because she knew that I cut myself once after I fight with my mom. After I went to school, she was yelling at my sister on why she was crying, and after my sister explained, all she cared about was that my sister never cries for her when she locks herself in the bathroom because she was sad. She makes me depressed. But she is still my mother, and she wasn't always like this. She use to be kind and caring. She always threatens to leave. Is it bad that I want her to?

Question: I told Mom the sex of the baby my cousin, her niece, is having. How do I make sure she doesn't tell the nieces parents (they want a surpise)?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 03:58 PM PDT

I don't want to be cast out of the extended family for sharing something I maybe shouldn't have. Also my Mom has a friend who runs her mouth who knows my Mom's brother (babies grandfather)

Question: Is it okay to talk back to your parents?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 03:58 PM PDT

My mom gets very angry when anyone talks back to her, and i feel that she is taking away my right of free speech inside the house. Recently, I defended myself from a baseless and offensive insult she threw at me, but she screamed even louder and accused me of talking back to her, slapping me a few times. I find this infuriating and hypocritical, as some of the reasons she yells at me involves listening to others too readily or not defending myself from insults outside of the house. I heard online that parents who don't let their kids talk back to them make their kids less likely to be able to stand up for themselves in public, which is a trait i possess and believe that it is caused by my overbearing mother. Even worse, whenever i try to explain something reasonably to her, she basically ignores me and tells me to stop telling her fake crap. Is there any way to get her this message through her dense and stubborn head without making her mad for "talking back" to her?

Question: How can i get my little sister to stop bugging me?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 03:38 PM PDT

-spanks me out in public when no one's looking. I always feel a sting after she hits -threatened me with a knife for talking to her friend. she got scissors instead. Her friend and i saw them but we didn't want to get hurt so we locked ourselves in my room and waited for her to calm down. Instead, she dragged the scissors across my door and started banging and kicking my door -went swimming together and had to change in the locker room, shower curtains were barriers. i tried changing only to hear her laughing loudly a few seconds later. I look back and see her peaking at me through a gap in the back, wouldn't stop laughing. I couldn't change when she kept peaking at me every few seconds. When she was done, she walked out and quickly pulled the shower curtain away so that she could see me struggle to change. mom was there the entire time standing right in front of curtains. all she did was tell me to hurry up and get changed, would not stop rushing me. And she knew what was going on. there was a slight,subtle curl of her lips. in pool, my little sister kept on touching my butt & boobs. knowing that i can't swim, she would splash me with water and use that opportunity to proceed to touch me -spits on me and my food, hits me with various objects ex: badminton rackets, throws rocks at me, scratches me, uses me to get herself out of trouble etc and shes only 7, im 7yrs older if i lay a finger on her she cries and i get in trouble and women in family say how bad i am to comfort her when there's no school and i want to sleep in, she wakes me up early in the morning, around 6-7 am (she gets like 9-10 hrs every day). she screams, laughs loudly or bangs on my door. its so annoying. all i want to do is get that extra sleep.

Question: I have horrible parents..?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 03:00 PM PDT

I told my mom I neck hurted today and she said "if you do devil things your neck hurts", because I didn't eat all my food today. I told her again and she ran away ignoring me. I ran after her and she pushed me and I fell to the ground, then said "Get away from me". Then I went to my dad and told him that my neck hurts, he ignored me too. Then my sister told both my parents, and they started taking care of her.

Question: Need advice on life?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 02:50 PM PDT

i just turned 18 but Im still stuck at school with low credits and no motivation. i just need help on how to find that motivation. also on planning on moving out and rent a place with someone, any advice on that? thank you have a great day.

Question: Im lost. So my mom died last month, a couple days after her birthday I might add. And my birthday was on the 12th of this month.?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 02:39 PM PDT

She turned 42 and I turned 22. Also I have a son who turned 1 on the 16th. My fiance is supportive, but he s dealing with alot as well. He couldn t find work so now he s working in another state. I only get to see him on Friday s and he leaves again Sunday s. So I stay home and take care of our son and my fiances dad who has dementia. On top of that also 3 dogs who can t be in the same area or they fight.. I cried every day for a week before my mother passed, she was the only one I hung out with or even talked to.. But when she was gone, well Its like my feelings have disappeared. I feel helpless, lost and overwhelmed constantly. I don t know what to do, I can t seem to get up and be normal. Feel normal. I don t even want to talk to anyone. I feel like I m a zombie coasting Thro life waiting for something else to go wrong. What can I do to help myself?

Question: Why does my sister always skip school when she has to do presentations or group projects? I can't see a reason behind that?

Posted: 19 Sep 2017 02:33 PM PDT

She might get in real trouble because of it one day... maybe she will get expelled