I'm not a Christian anymore. I'm tired of being told what I can and can't do like a 12 year old. I just want to sleep in, eat a big breakfast, mow the lawn, and drink a Bloody Mary or two on Sunday.

Im aware this is the wrong category, but I'm not getting any answers elsewhere. Are there any guys who DONT watch porn while in a relationship? Is there such thing? And are there any guys who dont get aroused by porn anymore because of how they feel about their girlfriend? If this is you, can you please list your age?

My friend offered me unsolicited advice about my relationship, which caused me to start thinking. Aside from everything, my boyfriend is a kind and loving person, he's just been stressed out from work. My boyfriend became angry with me after he found out that I let his ex-wife take their daughter home. So, he began screaming at me, throwing things against the wall, and basically calling me an idiot. This was the first time I witnessed this type of behavior from him, so I froze. He began to shake me a little because I wasn't answering his questions. After I told him to stop, he did and walked away. He immediately apologized once he realized that he hadn't updated me on the custody situation. Although I don't like his response, I understand why he was angry. Just looking for other outlooks on the situation as this is my first serious boyfriend.

Last night my boyfriends mom sent me a very passive aggressive text message. First off my boyfriend has a seven year old son. We spend time with his son and we have all done stuff together, and I've even taken his son places alone. His son is a handful and sometimes I do just want time with just me and my boyfriend. Well prior to that text message I've even been gone for two weeks on vacation! I get a text message from his mom basically saying "I think it's time for me to say something. My son needs to be more envolved with his son. It seems like he spends all his free time with you and that his child is not included. He is the only parent in his life right now so it's very important. I know you say he isn't your responsibility but as an adult my son needs to make him his first. You have to decide if your going to step up to the plate and do what's right or not. Stop being an obstacle between my son and his kid." Normally me and his mom are like bestfriends and she thinks I'm super good for her son. I honestly don't want to be like a mom to his child I'm dating him. I get his son has to be in the equation but not all the time. I know a bunch of families who arnt with there kids 24/7 and they go out on dates and do things almost every week without there kids. His mom being envolved is gonna be a huge issue. We planed on taking vacations and that ment taking them without little rugrets running around. Now I know his mom would freak. So the question is do I stay or do I go

He loves football, he's the star-quarterback at our high school. He also plays safety and punter. He pretty much lives, breathes, sleeps, and speaks football. Every time he's on his phone... football, every single video he watches... football, if he's not home... he's probably playing football. I want to get him something meaningful and not something that he'll just put on his shelf and forget about (like he already has a bunch of stuff). He has a broncos keychain, that's our family's favorite team. Any suggestions?

She looks better than me but tries to copy everything I do. She also tries to copy my boyfriend.

I was talking to a guy for about three months and today I found out he is married (thanks to Instagram) he does not know that I know yet. But why did he choose to talk to me in the first place? We weren't talking days or weeks we talked for MONTHS.... I'm having a very difficult time understanding. His wife should be everything to him and satisfy his needs so why did he bother with me?!

my mom gets hit by her boyfriend in front of me and my brother beats me and she kicks them out, calls the cops and then forgives both of them within a day and they come back and when i tell her its not right she makes it seems like im wrong and i have no control over anything in my life

I met my boyfriend at work. He had a girlfriend. (I know very bad) he came off flirtatious to me, I got flirtatious back. he told me he liked me. I said This isn't ok, so I stopped. I went out with someone else and he broke up with her for me. (This also worries me that it'll happen to me) we moved across the country for a while, we were happy. We move back and I told him Not to be flirtatious and give off the wrong impression. he agreed to be professional (he's a manager) Hes js there to work.. One day an email said "hey b." (His name doesn't Have a b, so it has to be babe) "wanna hang out today?"And was his employee. I thought, Is he doing the same thing? it's not terrible if someone wants to hang but why lie. His job doesn't allow him to be friends with employees outside of work. I asked him about it he said Idk why she Sent that I'm just professional. Isomeone who works there told me they were really close. Iasked him about it and he denied "but if I gave that impression that's my fault, I'm not going to talk to those people anymore just going to talk to his about work from now on. (Which is hard to believe bc he said that in the beginning too) now I am stuck. We love each other and I'm feeling insecure. If he really did like that girl. And comparing myself.once someone lies its hard to Feel secure. I want to trust him but also him be truthful to me. And for him not give off wrong impressions.I'm so confused on how to trust him again. And feel good about myself again

In short, my girlfriend of two years comes from a notably abusive household. I just enlisted in the military and I'll be gone in June of 2018. I'm 17, my girlfriend is 16, met in school. Her house is absolutely terrible. Parents obviously do not love her, they have her siblings physically hurt her and when she stands up for herself she is screamed at and grounded. The only members of her family who treat her with human-decency are her grandparents on the father's side. She has been afraid to discuss anything with her therapist. She wants to leave her home more than anything, but she doesn't want to be sent off somewhere random. If she talks to her therapist and DCF takes her (which we are certain would happen) would she be given the option to live with her grandparents until she is 18? Or would she be sent somewhere else? And if so, would she have communication with me? We have been planning to buy a house once I am out of the service for good, and we do not want to be completely separated for two years, god-forbid she doesn't have access to a phone, etcetera. My parents agreed to take her in at 18, but what would happen in the meantime?

I just had 3 strippers walk into my Carl's Jr to order (I could tell they were because they mentioned practicing dancing outside of work and weren't the kind of people who would get a career dancing). One of them said they knew some facts about redheads but realized that I was 16 and didn't tell me. I'm wondering what she was going to say.

The neighbor on the left, the husband talks to me but the wife hardly ever or not at all talks to me. They have two small kids. The neighbor on the right has two small kids too and they are friendlier. They invited our next door neighbors but not us. I am single and don't have a family but is that a reason to not invite me?

Like say for instance I couldn't naturally shoot a basketball, but after I shoot so many times, then I can shoot and make 10 NBA 3,s consistently from different spots and make 50% halve courts etc, then if I had a son would he most likely have a fair % of my built up talent as a gift without ever touching a basketball?