be it straight, gay, trans-gendered, polyamorous or incestuous, people are still people and the beautiful love they share is precious and must be forever cherished.

This has been going on 8 yrs. He is very angry, egoistic. He likes to invite people home and hang out with friends, chatting on phone with friends and have no respect for females. He pays the bills, sits looking at screens and dropping me at grocery is the only one thing we do together. Cooking for his guests is what i have done mostly. A m 37 with a 5 year old daughter cleaning, cooking, attending to kid 24/7, planning for guests, doing parttime jobs when available, settling everything around the house and not expecting anything since he is having polio problem on his leg. Yet, all i get is negatives and eyerolling if I spend on myself. Sometimes I have guests over guests & all i get is "u spoiled the party" after breaking my back for all of them. I am having health issues and some days I try to take bedrest which he dont allow. He either shoves me out of bed or shout until I finallly pick myself up and cook. I have to even drop my daughter at school with all pain. He is very attentive, caring & understanding for his parents, relatives and ignores our daughter if his friends are there. My dad warned him decently but the only response is "I stopped talking to ur dad & i will continue my attitude to you." Nothing helps...Am feeling depressed, dnt know what to do. His parents & siblings are posessive & attention seeking which doesnt help the situation. Instead they make use of my situation and financially exploits him. He says I can leave if I cant put up.

She died in a car crash. May she rest in peace. I want to go to her funeral, but some of her family member might not want to see me there.

which is better? the bottom part of her face (on the left) or the top part of her (on the right). ..and can you please explain why? tks PLEASE BE HONEST ..and will choose a best answer. tks.

Whenever I walk around naked in front of my husband, he will have a blank stare on his face. No erection or anything. We will still have sex everything now and then, but a naked woman will not faze him one bit. He will continue to watch TV like nothing happened. I'm not fat and ugly, but I'm not a super model either. Does this happen to other men?

Married for 6 years separated for one year, I moved out last Oct due to communication problems my wife sending inappropriate pictures to another guy, just 2 months after I moved back in left the house because she was a jealous control freak to the point that If I go to the gym she will flip out because she thinks that I go to the gym to looks for ladies that by the way it's totally not true, I being working out since I was 15 and now I am in my 40's, since then I came to her house twice because she had an emergency with her oldest son and this past weekend when she was having trouble fixing her yard, the same day I offered to come by and grill some dinner, no response so I text back saying maybe it's better for me to stay at my place because as always I end up inviting myself over and over. Sunday I sent her a text after she asked something about the house and I just confronted her I asked if this is the way things are going to work? Me perusing all the time trying to work things out and being shot down in the doghouse for 3 months at the time it's a trend and her terms are pretty much like this (we will talk only when she feels ok to do so), and I will not be welcome until she said so, she done this several times maybe 7 times and I cant take this any more I don't want to wait 2 or 3 months until she is not pissed off any more. Do I need to file for divorce and finish this or wait another month until she is willing to talk? What would you do? Please be honest

If your spouse cheated, would you divorce right away? Is there hope they can change?

He has been confiding in his family/friends about arguments we have. Within a few hours of an argument he calls anybody available to ask who was wrong and seeks "advice" when it just sounds like he is venting his issues to them instead of really trying to get help. This creates even more fights between us because ive asked him many times to stop saying everything that goes on between us because they are making it uncomfortable for me. Now I do not see these people anymore and its been almost a year and his family is telling him what they think about me and what I need to change about my negative, manipulative and abusive behavior because I prefer privacy. They take it as me keeping them away from him which has not happened I have just taken myself out of the equation and stopped trying with them. Im still with him and trying to work things out but lately its just been ultimatums and saying that his family is important to him where I have to patch it up with them and apologize for offending/alienating them. If I don't do this then he will tire and leave because I am not acting like a wife. It has created a drift he believes my avoiding them has meant I don't love him or care enough and my wanting privacy translates in their eyes as me hiding everything and trying to keep him on a leash because hes ALWAYS told them everything about his life, relationships etc and me requesting privacy has made him unhappy and changed him for the worst. even though he still continues to do it..

I say true. So many bad men out there. Don't trust him too much.

He even practically have to encounter them(wife's exes) in daily life n they gives a mocking smile to him n stay honoured with their wives as they does'nt have to feel insecure of him as he was not their's wife's ex. So how can he get through all this n the thoughts that she(wife) might have settled with him for provider lifestyle as her exes were better from many angles compared to him exept financially.

So we live in a area where it gets flooded easily. We are most likely going to get hit pretty hard by hurricane Irma. I have a 10 month old baby a 10-year-old girl and a 14-year-old son. I currently live with my husband and his parents. This weekend when the hurricane supposed to hit is the weekend that we have my husband two daughters (4-6). The girls mom lives in a fairly safe neighborhood. Am I wrong for getting upset that she still want to send us the girls? I know that everyone it s not like me. I personally would like my kids with me because I feel they are the safest. I get a little bit upset as well because if we need to get evacuated I has to be dealing with five kids instead of just 3. I know my oldest can help but it s still a lot of responsibility when I feel that their mom should stay with them. Am I wrong?

Yes im in an open marriage, my wife and i love on another enough to know that one person cant satisfy all needs so we decided to start having sex with other people (and each other) Anyways, my wife has a new boy toy and he is really gouging her vag. She's been pretty loose lately and i don't even know where to begin on how to address it. She obviously doesn't have a problem with it but its to the point i don't feel anything when im with her. Any advice?

For example two atheists go to a justice of the peace thinking they are then married but there is no spiritual covenant there because they do not believe in God and it was not a religioius ceremony. They are not fortified by the holy spirit. One year later the atheists divorce because one of the atheists committed adultery on the other. It's because God never considered them married, they were committing fornication the entire time.

Hi! I have a question to y all. I have been with my husband for almost 10 years now and I always got along great with both of his parents. Last year his dad met a woman and three months later married her. His behavior started to become a bit weird after that. He s never interested in seeing his granddaughter (our daughter) anymore: he never calls or asks about her. When we bring her over, he mostly ignores her. He gives all of the attention to the grandchildren of his new wife. While I understand that he wants them to feel included and welcomed, it doesn t mean he should not be involved with his own grandchild. I am really baffled by it. Past weekend, he had his new wife s family over his house; her son flied from a different state to spend a weekend in Texas. He asked that we take both days (Sat and Sun) to come hang out with them; he made sure we cleared our schedules for this months ahead of time. When we showed up, again he paid little attention to our daughter while showering his wife s grandchildren with tons of affection. He played for three hours with his wife s grandchildren ion the pool while my husband sat right next to him holding our daughter. Later into the day, he topped his weird behavior by calling my brother-in-law s girlfriend his "favorite daughter-in-law" while I was standing right there in front of the entire family. What should I do if this bizarre behavior continues? I m shocked because we always got along.

I have been getting her into running which she enjoys. I guess it is what it is, but want to help. Anything I can do ?

I ve only been married a year and sex with my husband has gone from daily (the first month) to MAYBE 3 times a month. It s been a rocky first year but we re now doing really well financially and emotionally. our communication is great now. we re genuinely great friends. But sex has stopped. Before marriage he was Casanova. almost daily. and he d last for hours, multiple goes. I couldn t keep up! But now.. I m just a glorified roommate. Sex is forced and lasts a total of 5mins. I ve asked if he s having an affair (offered to have an open relationship if he wanted), or gay or just not attracted to me.. talking about it makes him very uncomfortable and the only response I get is "I m tired, I work hard and want to just sleep" or "I don t know why I m not interested in sex. .. maybe it s my diet or I need to start exercising again." He s 25yo, His job is physically demanding, he eats like crap but has no interest to change, I let him nap/sleep to his hearts content and all in all. nothing changes. I can accept that he s not romantic, that I don t get love letters or flowers or cute gestures bc he s a wonderful fun guy. He supports me and provides for me and I m the luckiest girl alive. but what do you do when your new husband has no passion for you? when the sight of you doesn t arouse him or interest him enough to act upon it? Should I give up? Accept that this is my life now? Find an alternative way of filling that need?

Basically, my wife farts during sex. Mainly doggy, i can see that thing open up and BANG right in the face (she says she cant help it) also her feet stink. Help please?

because she went vegan? I'm a man who eats meat, and that's how I feel about it. I'm single and straight, but never been married.

So we came to an agreement I told her I would cut back on the drinking if she cut back on the junk food. She's about 100 pounds over weight at the moment so I said great idea, I have cut back dramatically and lately she's gone back to eating junk food 5 days a week. I only drink now when she wants to but the other day I decided since she's not holding up to her end of the deal that it would be okay that came home with a 6 pack after work. Well she flipped out and said "blah blah blah, you gonna go back to drinking all the time again" I tried to explain the deal we had but since she refuses to ever be wrong in an argument I had to feel like the bad person just so we didn't argue and apologize. I just want her to be healthy and take care of herself, i've held up to my end, I even work out 2-3 days a week now at the gym which i've not been to a gym in I can't even remember. Tired of feeling like the bad guy all the time, she never admits to being wrong and when she is she'll twist things around or bring up something I did a long time ago into an argument that has nothing to do with NOW. Feeling lost and depressed.

She left me for a 23 year old coworker. We are both 36 with 2 kids. I tried to work it our for 7 months and she didn't. Finally moved on with my life . Recent update : she lost her job, rent went up, bought a new car. ( I don't know where her mind is ) She has been asking me to attend family events with her . I agree because I get to be with our kids . Just feels weird . Never said she is sorry and just walks back in life if nothing ever happened. Why!

Me and my co worker are both married me and my husband have been having some issues and havent seen eye to eye in a while so were looking to separate. My co worker is also married and always tells me how cute I am and how he misses me and always leaves cute notes at my desk and will constantly message me at work or go to my desk to say hi or some form or small talk so I started to like him and kept asking him to lunch or to go out after work. And I gave him my number and he said it wouldn't be a good idea to talk outside of work so what's with all the mixed signals?

My husband had sex with a one night stand on 8\2. He never got off he says(he has a hard time getting off for some reason) a week later this chick called him and said shes pregnant to him. She says she is due april 15 2018. I know there is a slight chance of pre ***. But when I messaged her about a dna test threw his phone she said there would be no such thing. I just want this nightmare over. I have spoke with her husband who said he was unware of her going to the doctors. Whenever i google a date she should have got pregnant for that due date it is arpund 7\23. Do you think shes really pregnant. She also wont give him a dr name just keeps blowing up his phone calling call me im pregnant or rexting sayong the babys fine.

I'm a 20 year old, Muslim woman, who is confused about this whole marriage thing. To me marriage is a huge life altering event and responsibility, and will probably be one of the biggest life decision i will make, i don't want rush into it, and i want to be prepared mentally, and religiously. There's a guy who is asking about me he's known to be nice and kind and a very good practicing man, who is also an Orphan. The problem i have is that i just don't want to get married right now, I'm not ready for that and all it's responsibilities currently in my life, I need to really work on myself as a Muslim (i'm jacked up), and figure myself out forming my own opinions, rather than being influenced by someone, i'm also not ready to be raising kids, being the oldest girl and second oldest child of more than 5 siblings I need a break from children for a bit, and being married will only bring more into my life with a greater responsibility. I just need to be in a more stable state religiously, mentally, and financially (I don't want to be with someone just because i need financial support but more so that i see them as a life partner not a lifeline). So do you think it's fine to reject marriage proposals islamically, until I've fixed myself? After writing this all out, I see how stupid I sound and that i practically gave sound reasoning as to why I don't want to get married currently in my life and there is no sin in that islamically i'm not being celibate about it, i'm being smart. Contrary to many other Muslims in my personal situation or similar who decide to throw their Hidden baggage on an unsuspecting person leading to marital issues and failure and overall a bad foundation for anything that comes after. Thanks for reading?

We both love each other, and i feel like i love her unconditionally, but, neither of us are worried or had ever talked about feminism. Personally, I don't really like feminism. Does that make me a bad spouse? Is that going to affect our relationship?

Husband was 22 and Wife was 29? What would you assume about him and what would assume about her?

A married man and his mistress have been in a relationship for about 2 years. The mistress is single, or at least definitely not married, much younger than the married man, and foolishly in love with him. He loves her too but won't leave his family after all this time especially since he loves his wife too. The married man had been laid off from work and out of a job for an entire year. During this year the mistress paid for every hotel visit. She'd also pay for meals when they dined together but prior to losing his job, he paid for their meals. Married man now has a job again but now his youngest is starting college. Mistress likely doesn't have any big financial obligations but she makes less than what married man makes now that he's employed again. Who should be paying for the hotel now?