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- Question: Someone hep?
- Question: Is it ok to hook up a bike rack to the trunk of my 2014 Volkswagen Beetle or will it damage the trunk or window?
- Question: Is it time to drop him as a friend?
- Question: What do i do with my socially awkward weird "best friend"???
- Question: Hurricane is headed towards me?
- Question: What exactly do they want from this guy and why are they head over heels for him?
- Question: I spent a total of 4 hours of my time today walking around campus, trying to find my classes, and asking people for help?
- Question: My friend's lock screen is Whitney Houston?
- Question: I think I'm nice and friendly, yet I can't seem to make friends. Advice?
- Question: How can I truly move on from a fizzled out friendship? Please help, I'm in high school and I need tips to move on- read details please!?
- Question: How to deal with constant negativity and negative people?
- Question: WHAT DO I DO?!?!?
- Question: Why did she get mad when I was trying to be helpful?
- Question: My past destroyed my friendship?
- Question: Friend's odd behavior....?
- Question: Guys, what would you like as a birthday present?
- Question: How do I make friends in high school?
- Question: I have no friends at my new school?
- Question: My Best friend is turning me into a social isolater? And I hate his guts now.?
- Question: Will I ever find a true friend?
- Question: Why is she being like that to me?
- Question: How to fit in high school?
- Question: He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy?
- Question: How to get your songs out there?
- Question: What should i do? How should i think?
- Question: Any reason why every woman i meet is like this?
- Question: My friends don't like me?
- Question: How to get rid of a clingy reputation and make new friends?
- Question: A friend posted pictures of me in the 1990's with my ex BF embracing. CAN I FIND PICTURES MY FRIEND SHARED TO ME quickly?
- Question: Everyone at school is calling me a slut?
- Question: I feel like I'll never find a non-romantic friend for life. Is that bad? Read and give opinion.?
- Question: Problem with my friends. Help please. I dont know how to handle that situation.?
- Question: Is Specific Colorfulness Color Bright Highness of the one they put that in South India Andhara Pradesh What is it mainly?
- Question: Private numbers and fake accounts.. I'm so confused?
- Question: Okay to cancel a friend trip? Help.?
- Question: How is Kevin Devine connected to the band Brand New? Is he just a friend who has jammed with them occassionally?
- Question: Has this been invented yet?
- Question: How can I get my friend to reverse the curse?
- Question: People just stop liking me?
- Question: How do you carry on a conversation without it being awkward?
- Question: I'm different, and a lot of times I'm proud of that, but there are moments when I'm really not...?
- Question: My buddy got a friend who really wants to have sex with him but she's mentally retarded so how can he do it with out anybody knowing?
- Question: How do you carry on a conversation with someone without it being awkward?
- Question: Why is my female friend jealous when I talk about girls?
- Question: I did something horrible please help!?!? Advice??
- Question: How do you make friends in highschool?
- Question: How to speak clearly?
- Question: Do you spend the night at a friend's house? do you invite of them over?
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 05:34 PM PDT Everyone hates me. I get in trouble for everything I do. I just wanna kill myself bcz my life sucks. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 05:23 PM PDT The beetle's trunk takes up basically the entire back of the car (hatchback) and it's very arched, not like regular cars and has a large window. I want to travel with one bike but I don't want it inside the car or on top of it. So I was considering a bike rack that sits and secures on and around the trunk. Not sure how safe it is, or if there's weight limits or what. It's a basic 2014 beetle. Any ideas? |
| Question: Is it time to drop him as a friend? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 05:23 PM PDT I've been friends with this guy since 8th grade and our entire friendship has been absolutely ridiculous. He started go like me in HS, and when I rejected him he got mad and didn't talk to me for several months. He asked me out again, and when I rejected him a second time he proceeded to start rumors about me and basically told everyone that I led him on and was trying to break up 2 of my friends. It was absolutely insane, but I ended up forgiving him regardless. Things went okay for a while but he always starts doing this stuff again. He's always so negative and suffers from depression, but he refuses to get help for it for fear of "appearing weak". All through high school, and now college, he would get super depressed and start acting out against those of us that did nothing but try to help him. Even now that our group of friends all go to school in different states, he is still doing this. He's been having some personal problems lately and we've been trying to be there for him as much as we can. I decided to check in on him earlier since I haven't heard from him in a few weeks, and almost immediately he started complaining about his problems(that he causes himself) and blaming people. I don't want to get too into the conversation, but I was just trying to help him, and the conversation ultimately ended in him calling me and our friends ignorant. I feel like it's time to just distance myself because hes so emotionally draining and all he does is bring the rest of us down. |
| Question: What do i do with my socially awkward weird "best friend"??? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 05:11 PM PDT Ok I have a bigggg problem. I met this girl in the 2nd grade and we became best friends. It s been a couple years and she s gotten totally weird. We haven t been in the same classes, so I met new people and got a new best friend. She still thinks I m best friends friends with her. EVERYONE hates her even the most popular girl at our school said she s strange! Her mom knows something is up with me and her but she s so oblivious to the fact that we aren t best friends anymore. My mom keeps getting mad at me because she thinks I m being mean to her ( which I m not) and I don t know what to do. Plzzzzzz help!!!!!!!!?!! |
| Question: Hurricane is headed towards me? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 05:10 PM PDT People keep saying to, "hunker down", I don't know what that means. We have food, water, gas... what exactly is hunker down? |
| Question: What exactly do they want from this guy and why are they head over heels for him? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 04:54 PM PDT A new guy in the neighbourhood had sex with someone's girlfriend in the neighbourhood. The girl tells a female in the neighbour and the news spreads amongst the females in the neighbourhood. Now everyone's girlfriend is having sex, or trying to have sex with the said guy. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 04:18 PM PDT Only to have them direct me to places that weren't the right area. I spent 2 hours in a building just asking everyone and everytime someone told me they would tell me they were new like me, or they would tell me the wrong places to go? I cried after because of how much time it took. And I felt like i wasn't at the right campus. |
| Question: My friend's lock screen is Whitney Houston? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 04:12 PM PDT Is this a sign that he's using drugs or something? |
| Question: I think I'm nice and friendly, yet I can't seem to make friends. Advice? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 03:59 PM PDT I'm in HS, and I still haven't had a good group of real friends. I just want a nice group of girls or guys who wanna hang out and just do fun things together. I talk to people and try my best, but for some reason it's never reciprocated. I don't know what to do, I can't think of anything I'm doing wrong? Please help. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 03:50 PM PDT I have been best friends with 2 people my whole life, but we haven't talked in probably two months. Nothing happened, we just kind of faded away and it's awkward. Except, the 2 of them still talk. We don't make eye contact in the halls or even say hi. I want to just make new friends rather than trying to save a broken friendship from the past, but I can't stop thinking about them. I cry and look at old photos. However, they treated me so poorly all this time. How can I move on from people who just don't care, because I know they aren't thinking about me. Please give advice on how to move on, thanks! |
| Question: How to deal with constant negativity and negative people? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 02:59 PM PDT So I just started my junior year, trying to be happy, but everyone around me is negative asf. I go to an advanced school for half my day and they pile on work. Last year was terrible for me, so I'm trying to make this year better. Most people that go to my nerd school are harming themselves to look good for college. As a result, all they do is whine about how tired they are and how much they wanna kill themselves. Unlike them, I'm taking care of myself and putting my own health above my grades. I'm trying to be positive but it's hard. I don't get that positivity in return. I don't think they should be joking about suicide. That's too serious of an issue. I'm tired of them being insensitive about it. I know if someone pointed a gun at their head, they'd beg for their life. Idk what goes on in their head but I don't think it's depression (sorry). When I was going through my phase, I didn't joke about wanting to die (suicide is more of a heavy subject for me since I did and will think about it again). I cried, then tried to make things better. Ik everyone handles this differently but it's not fair that they're bringing me down because they don't know how to take care of themself. Idk what to do.. these people are my friends. Is there anything I can do to try to make people happier? It's the first week and my teachers are giving me hw (that makes me really mad). They've got jobs (I don't cuz I don't want one) and they don't get enough sleep. I can't change that. |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 02:37 PM PDT My friends invited me out to watch a movie, I've been waiting to see since last year. However, they want to see it a week after its released. WHILE I WANT TO WATCH IT NOW! So I created plans with someone else. That someone else unknowingly invited my original friends. So in retaliation, my "friends" told everyone who was invited, not to show up. I was never one for drama. So when I knew things were getting out of hand, I mediated. I know how shady my actions were, so I apologized. I'm just apalled, that people are still in that childish mentality of sabotaging one's plan. Not that they succeeded. |
| Question: Why did she get mad when I was trying to be helpful? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 02:21 PM PDT I overheard a bunch of classmates bad mouthing my former best friend. So I messaged her about it. She's always concerned about me so I tried to return the favor by trying to stick up for her and by telling her. Anyway I told her about my concerns and she immediately snapped at me saying that this has nothing to do with me. So I left the conversation but she kept on messaging me trying to find out who said it. I'm not a traitor so I told her that's all I could tell and I told her that it's none of my concern just like she said. Why did she get upset when I was trying to be helpful? |
| Question: My past destroyed my friendship? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 02:11 PM PDT My past is destroying my future, I had a really close friend since 2013 and our friendship was perfect. But I had a secret that I never told her, that when I was little I was molested several times by a family memeber. One day I was feeling sad and depressed, she asked me why I was feeling depressed. But I lied and gave her a lot excuses and lies. She eventually found out I was lying and told me SHE HATES WHEN PEOPLE LIE TO HER SPECIALLY FRIENDS. How was I supposed to tell her about my past!!!!! It's embarrassing and uncomfortable, we haven't talked in 4 months and I feel sad and alone without her. What am I supposed to do now?????? |
| Question: Friend's odd behavior....? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 02:01 PM PDT I've been friends with this guy about 4 months, but we've known each other over a year. We carpool to and from church together. This past Sunday, we were getting ready to leave. I was putting my seatbelt on and the plastic piece that rolls open his sunroof, fell off onto my side of the car by my feet. Without ANY hesitation, he reached down in between my legs and reached down to pick it up off the floor. I was in mid-sentence when this happened and I stopped talking for a second and we both didn't speak of the awkwardness. A couple days later, he messaged me out of the blue (he's never messaged me first) and said he heard about a book on the radio and thought I might like it. It was a religious book regarding people who think they're invisible, but aren't. I told him I was curious as to why he thought I'd like it, but he never replied. A day or two later, I had posted a status about feeling down and he commented with a smarta** comment to make me laugh/smile. Why is he acting so odd? And yes I do like him, but I'm not sure he knows that. |
| Question: Guys, what would you like as a birthday present? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 01:51 PM PDT My bf is turning 21 and i am really confused what to get him i was thinking about these -a watch -a play store gift card -a cap(king) -a braclet (he is a gym person i was thinking about a braclet with weight on it) -perfume -crossbag(he wears them every single day and needs a new one ) -a charger(he said he needed one) -power bank (always low battery) -a bear with open hands (like to hug ) written on it best friend (he is my best friend too) and i thaught it will be cute so what do you think are these all together a nice gift or will it look childish for a 21 year old I mean i thaught a lot about these and every present has a reason like they are not useless ones Tell me are they good it is my first time ever to give him any present i want it to be special tell me what would you like to get for your birthday i may add things or delete so i wamt your help which one is not a nice gift or so thank you all |
| Question: How do I make friends in high school? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 01:32 PM PDT I'm a junior. I started in the middle of the year last year and was unable to make good friends. The thing is almost EVERYONE is willing to be my friend but I have social anxiety. I already made some friends but my problem keeping them. I already found a table to sit with at lunch. When I walked up one of the girls were like "I was just talking about you! We want you to sit with us!" They're very nice but I stayed very quiet and felt awkward cause I had nothing to talk about and I don't want them to think I don't wanna be friends. Also 2 guys I like were talking to me as friends but I made the convo short. Talking to them wasn't fun cause I was more worried about what I was going to say next. I can't get confortable and I don't want to lose these friends. PLEASE HELP!💜 |
| Question: I have no friends at my new school? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 01:19 PM PDT My mom got a new job which required my family to move out of state. My sister is a sophomore and I'm a senior, so try to understand that the people I spent my first 3 years of HS with were people I'd known since 3rd grade. The friends I had there were people I'd known since middle school. Now, I know nothing about anyone in my graduating class. I feel like a freshman all over again, and out of place. Everyone already has their group of friends, and I don't think seniors would be looking for new ones. I've never been a cliquey person, or a someone who tries super hard to fit in. I've done my own thing for the most part, but this is a new school and different people. At lunch (the part I was most scared about) I've made some acquaintances, but I still sometimes sit by myself and feel awkward as heck. At the pep rally today I sat alone, and all the seniors were so hype and I also felt awkward here |
| Question: My Best friend is turning me into a social isolater? And I hate his guts now.? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 01:06 PM PDT Hi, so my best freind and I used to smoke weed a ton, him though, so much more than me, and I and the rest of my friend group know he has a problem. He is one of the reasons why I had to start taking depression meds in the first place. I hate his guts now, as all the dumb cringey stuff he does really bothers me, and he has no sence of morales what so ever. I wish i didnt have to be friends with him, but the only other person I would consider my best friend always hangs out with him. Now because of the bad experiences I have with him, I rarley to never hang out with friends, as I worry some of the stuff they do will bother me substantially, as it just reminds me of him. I am incredibly lonley now because of this too. |
| Question: Will I ever find a true friend? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 12:54 PM PDT I had 2 best friends since high school but we didn't mature out of that high school phase. I'm trying to be social but I have no one I trust to be there for me. I feel alone in college. I have acquaintances who are great to be around but I would never call them when I need help. I have no one to talk to but vent online anonymously. How do I find peace that I am alone? |
| Question: Why is she being like that to me? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 12:48 PM PDT I've been at a low place in my life and I'm just not doing too great.. I have a special friend, she and I have a special bond.. my friend has noticed and has checked up on me a lot lately because of how I've been, I cried to her on the phone the other day as I wasn't doing great at all. She's helped me through a lot of dark times.. on the phone she was there for me, helping me tak through stuff but she told me she's monitoring me and watching what I post and making sure I'm fine or not doing anything dumb. She even put me in check the other day (got after me) for considering something bad. She even told me if things got worse she'd call my mom.. She's super caring to me, we have a close bond for such different ages but why is she all over me? I'm 19 and she's 60, we're very close friends.. like I had said, she's very concerned. She said I was like her own kid (she has no kids) and how she didn't ever want to lose me. She even threatens to drive all the way over here (my college) and whip my butt. Why is she so worried? And why would she just call my mom? She even gave me her address if I needed anything (when I am around her town) to go by whenever I needed to.. |
| Question: How to fit in high school? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 12:00 PM PDT I've just started 9th grade and I am 14 ( I live in Europe), I am younger than everyone else in my school because I started school a year early. I am turning 15 this april while everyone is turning 16 in my class. I am still kind of stuck in childhood: I don't care about make up, boys or shopping. And every girl around me seems to be obssesed with that. I can't find anything to talk about with anyone, eventhough we all agreed not to split up into different groups, I just find myself standing silent and not being able to relate to anything. I have 18 classmates so in every lesson I have to sit alone, because... I can't befriend anyone. What do I do? I just find myself chatting to my friends I have outside of the school on my phone and everyone around me finds that quite rude. I don't want go stand in silence for the next 4 years. |
| Question: He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 11:50 AM PDT And I don't know what to do about it. I met a guy last semester at school and we clicked right away. We started hanging out and getting to know eachother. I never felt the connection I feel with him with anyone else. We have a lot in common - some things simple like our favorite foods or favorite movies. But some things that are a little deeper, like divorced parents and the reason behind the divorce, how it changed us, etc. Over the summer, we ended up drifting apart a little because we were an hour apart and both worked full time. We got back to school 2 weeks ago and ran into eachother and everything has been back to normal. It was like we never drifted. I enjoy spending time with him and really don't know what to do. When we went over our intentions in the very beginning, he told me that his last relationship was awful so he wasn't currently looking, but he wanted to see where things went with me. I respect that, so I do not want to rush him. It's just so clear when we're together how happy we make eachother and how much of a connection we have. His classes this semester are difficult and i know he's stressed about them, so I don't want to bother him. But I would like to start hanging out maybe once a week or so now that we're back at school. I don't know what to do? Also, side note, we've kissed, cuddled, hooked up, (no sex) over this period of time. But it's not your typical "fwb" or "booty call" type deal. I can promise you he's much more respectful than that. |
| Question: How to get your songs out there? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 10:20 AM PDT I have very good lyrics, I tend to learn more for pop, and my music iss inspired by Lorde. Song sample: Title: Cliques Never was a group for me, never had a place to be, friends weren't a thing for me, cuz I never had them, maybe, didn't fit in, I was a new kind of different, an inconvenience to those surrounding, bet they could here my heart as they knew their place in line, knew their level of time, never thought twice that maybe, they, were, wrong You have the preps, the nerds, followers, and born-leaders, and then there's me somewhere in between, only talked to those in their clubs, always occupied by their own, I couldn't talk to no one. Except for you, you were there with me. We were free from the cliques that bind everyone but you and me. We were happy to be together, what a time to proclaim us friends forever. Please say whether or not u like the lyrics |
| Question: What should i do? How should i think? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 09:55 AM PDT I used to be bestfriends with this guy in childhood but now i hate the guy in every way. I hate everything about him. I haven't talked to him for a year but sadly my mom talks to his mom and they're friends. I hate this friendship of my mom, i just can't stand this. What do i do? |
| Question: Any reason why every woman i meet is like this? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 09:32 AM PDT The women that I encounter everyday has a truckload of friend and a truckload of followers. They tend to be liked by everybody. They tend to be obsessed with selfies. You try to hang with them, they'll accuse you of being 'different' and treat you like a subhuman them and their friends would. They really don't want to get to know anyone. They seem to not carry a normal conversation when you talk to them, You might walk up and talk to them and they will blank you. Sometimes they might walk up to you and speak to you like they've not seen you in ages. When they do talk to you they control the conversation and it is what they want to hear and what they want to ask, it sounds weird but they don't talk to you normally. |
| Question: My friends don't like me? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 08:53 AM PDT I keep showing them dank memes and now they ignore me |
| Question: How to get rid of a clingy reputation and make new friends? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 08:51 AM PDT I'm in 9th grade and a couple of years ago I made friends with a few people. I hung out with them until now but they've really started to annoy me and I've changed so we no longer have anything in common any more. but they were also part of a group of nerds separate to me and because I hung out with them I have this nerdy reputation which I can't shake! and I was never part of the nerdy group! how do I get rid of this reputation and reinvent my friendship group. there's lots of people in my classes who I want to make friends with but I just need to get rid of this reputation!!! all help appreciated, thanks! |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 08:31 AM PDT I didn't realize this was my professional profile and therefore, an inappropriate picture (I was about 19 or so). Unfortunately, I can't find the pictures in my profile to make Private. My friend that posted them share a lot of things together and I wonder... maybe there's a fast way to clean it up other than going back to summer. |
| Question: Everyone at school is calling me a slut? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 07:53 AM PDT Basically I've done things with this boy and everyone at my school knows and EVERYONE is calling me a slut. I don't know what to do it's really bringing me down. Every single day at school I'm talked about, called names, shamed in front of everyone, I just hate it it makes me so upset. What should I do? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 07:19 AM PDT Romance is a really intimate kind of friendship. It's also an alliance or partnership, which I can handle. However, a romance cannot SINGLY be a partnership such as roommates, a team of political activists or two missionaries selling their religious spiel. There has to be that friendship in some way. To me, friendship is about fun. You have to enjoy doing things together e.c. going to festivals, concerts, partying, sports events, comedy skits like SMOSH, doing weird experiments to film...at least 2 or more commonalities. It is impossible to guarantee even a lasting acquaintance. I do enjoy lots of things or would find them endlessly enjoyable to do with someone! Geocaching, many games even neat MENSA card one I bought, chemistry experiments, Rube-Goldberg machines, many kinds of puzzles, plus cooking- I've always to make kimchi even though it sounds really complicated and messy to make. Problem is I can only ever find people who share ONE of those interests at most. Friendship doesn't work if it is only one of those things even if you do other "business" things together such as study or share a political message. Worst of all, a romantic partner can get jealous of a friend cutting into your "availability". The same of their "romantic other". To me that's the difference between an acquaintance and a friend. A friend is always Maybe rich people can afford to go on ski trips or jetskiing at resorts...or invent a business around a new product. |
| Question: Problem with my friends. Help please. I dont know how to handle that situation.? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 07:02 AM PDT We were a company of 7girls.One of them(lets call her A)had a boyfriend but they broke up.Two of the other girls(B andC) continued hanging out with him and his friends a lot.There have been some unfortunate situations and our company split off.Only me and an other girl stay i contact with A.When B and C goes out with the boys I feel really unwanted.I talked to them and they told me that I am wrong.Due to there behavior I never stopped having that feeling.Every Friday we were going to a bar.I start flirting with a guy(D) there and after that we never went there again.They were telling me yes we will go and when we were ready to go that they are tired.After a couple of months Ι met randomly D we talked and we kissed(just a soft kiss).Immediately B came and told me that we had to go so I told him goodbye him and I went with her.The next day she told me that he is a friend of A's exboyfriend and I should stay away from him because he will take advantage of me.A's ex boyfriend came to me and told me that D is the worst that could happen to me and I should stay away from him.He told me that he is an a****e.I have heard that A's ex boyfriend now hangs out more with D and he seems like he really likes him. I haven't talked to D again.I tried to text him but he never responded.I really love my friends and I cant even imagine that they could do something bad for me but all that sounds strange to me.I really don't know how to handle that situation. Am I exaggerated ? |
| Posted: 08 Sep 2017 05:46 AM PDT Is it South India Andhara Pradesh or South India Tamil Nadu? |
| Question: Private numbers and fake accounts.. I'm so confused? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 04:22 AM PDT my ex and I cut all communication after 3 years together. but he still calls me on private and trys to friend me on fake accounts. I know it's him because I have no friends anymore and like to stay home with my son. why is he being so immature? if he wants to talk or whatever why doesn't he just do it the normal way? |
| Question: Okay to cancel a friend trip? Help.? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 03:49 AM PDT A few months ago I volunteered to go on a 24 hour drive time road trip with a best friend who I don't get a lot of time with. We also invited another friend along who will fly back with me. I've been excited until now that it's closer and I have a lot on my plate. I'm going back to a different job an hour away full time that week while working overtime, trying to move into my first home all while affording my mortgage and bills which is all new for me. I am overwhelmed and worried that I am stretching myself to thin with trying to move, work crazy hours, and with learning a new budget and affording my new home. I would feel horrible cancelling on friends. While I'm sure they would understand, I don't want to miss out on quality time or have them upset with me. I've been tempted to suck it up and try to have the fun but I have to be considerate of my fiancé and our budget (saving for wedding this year too!). What should I do? |
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| Question: Has this been invented yet? Posted: 08 Sep 2017 12:25 AM PDT I want to barbeque, but i live in an apartment thats all roofed off, so barbequing is not allowed. Im trying to think of a way i can attatch a long cylinder tube to vent the smoke out the side of my patio. Any ideas? |
| Question: How can I get my friend to reverse the curse? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 10:54 PM PDT Ok I'm Jamaican and the girl that used to be my friend is Haitian and she was dating a Dominican boy. Behind her back we been seeing each other and when she found out she put a curse on the both of us. He was legit in a horrible accident, and me I been feeling my insides burning and itching in pain and I'm going crazy because I'm seeing scary things and she's been ******* with my dreams.. I kept telling her I'm sorry but anytime we apologise to her the curses get worst. What should I do? |
| Question: People just stop liking me? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 09:42 PM PDT I will meet people and they will be super nice and we will get along... Then after a while, I notice they stop being so nice and start making fun of me or being sarcastic with me... Or just start acting weird/cold towards me... I don't know why? |
| Question: How do you carry on a conversation without it being awkward? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 08:22 PM PDT I'm in highschool. I started my first day today. It's like I've completely forgotten how to make friends! I try to talk with someone but I don't know what to say next to keep it going. It just ends in both of us not talking to eachother and it gets awkward. You know how when you meet someone for the very first time, there's some sense of formality and politeness. With your close friends, you blab on and on and it doesn't matter what weird stuff you say. You make fun of eachother, your not afraid to say anything. But of course you can't show your weird side too soon so you can only act nice and friendly with the new person. I've forgotten how you actually become close to eachother and I wonder where in the friendship you get to the point of being very comfortable with eachother. Advice? |
| Posted: 07 Sep 2017 07:04 PM PDT I have had a fake eye since I was a toddler because of cancer. I live a relatively normal life, and I have lots of people who find me attractive and I have lots of friends-guy and girl. People occasionally treat me differently because of it, and I'm really self-conscious of that. I didn't use to be, but something happened that made me overly conscious of it. Now, I feel like I don't want to grow up and force my kids to have a weird mom that has a fake eye that they're super embarrassed about. I worry that no guy will ever really be able to stay with me because of my eye. It's a great eye that looks super realistic and doesn't cross, which I credit to the man who made it. He's excellent. But.. even if people can't tell that I have it right away, it just feels so lifeless to me. My depth perception isn't always the best so I'm a bit clumsy. I just wish I was normal sometimes. I don't know what to do or think. Sorry to offend you if you have a fake eye, this is just how I personally feel about myself. You probably rock it and make it work ;) Power to all the monoculars |
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| Question: How do you carry on a conversation with someone without it being awkward? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 06:22 PM PDT I'm in highschool. I started my first day today. It's like I've completely forgotten how to make friends! I try to talk with someone but I don't know what to say next to keep it going. It just ends in both of us not talking to eachother and it gets awkward. You know how when you meet someone for the very first time, there's some sense of formality and politeness. With your close friends, you blab on and on and it doesn't matter what weird stuff you say. You make fun of eachother, your not afraid to say anything. But of course you can't show your weird side too soon so you can only act nice and friendly with the new person. I've forgotten how you actually become close to eachother and I wonder where in the friendship you get to the point of being very comfortable with eachother. Advice? |
| Question: Why is my female friend jealous when I talk about girls? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 06:11 PM PDT I have a female friend who has a boyfriend, but she told me she is not happy with him. we hangout a lot and more than anyone else in her life i spend time with her. I asked her once if she wants something more than friendship and she started crying and finally said just friend. and I took it as an answer. but now days when I talk about any girl, she starts asking like, who is that girl, is she pretty? tell me more! why is she insisting on asking me these questions? why is she jealous when she told me she wants only friendship? should I try her again later? |
| Question: I did something horrible please help!?!? Advice?? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 06:09 PM PDT So I used to have this friend named Ally and Ally and I were rlly good friends. But last year she wasn't doing rlly good because she had really bad grades and was about to fail out. she failed out and now does homeschooling. She's been really mean to me sometimes before the summer, but this summer she blocked me from her social media. And whenever I tried to text her she would ignore me. But 2 weeks ago, I finally started talking to her. We got close like old times and she unblocked me form everywhere and told me ab her mental health. (She has anxiety). She didn't really go into detail, she just said she had anxiety for a long time thats it. (We were texting in class) so after class my friend asked me what i was doing. i said i was texting ally and she said "oh how is she? she hasn't talked to me in forever" (me, ally, and my friend i was talking to, mary, used to be best friends like a little group, so she was at the same level of close friendship with both of us). I then told mary "she's not feeling too good right now" and thats ALL i said Mary then told me, oh yeah she told me a little bit about it in the summer lemme text her and see if its ok". ally then texted me the next day and said "did you tell mary right?" and i said "no i didn't tell her anything, i just said you weren't feeling good" and then she started to get really mad at me (mary already knew about this because ally told her herself). And i said I was sorry a million times & then she ignored me & blocked me |
| Question: How do you make friends in highschool? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 06:08 PM PDT I know people say that with time, you eventually make friends. It's not that I don't believe it because that's how I made my friends in middle school. However, in middle school, you are stuck in one class with the same people everyday and often work together so it is ten times easier to get to know your classmates. But in highschool, you are constantly moving around. Bringing back what I said before, people said it takes time. Yes, very true but I need specifics. Friends don't just magically pop up with time. How did you meet your friends in highschool? Can you give me any advice besides being presentable and nice to the people around you? How would you ask someone if you could sit together at lunch? What if they already have their own friends to sit with? How can you actually make someone WANT to talk to you and walk with you in the hallways and WANT to sit with you at lunch? Tell me your highschool experience |
| Question: How to speak clearly? Posted: 07 Sep 2017 06:07 PM PDT I don't have a lisp its just that I don't speak clearly and sometimes people can't understand what I'm saying and it just makes me feel embarrassed. When I hear my voice I get even more unsecured. |
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