(hypothetical situation) If someone was found to be cheating and their wife.found a stash of condoms, and wished to inject hot sauce into each of them, how would she do it? Like what would she use ?

I was talking to a friend of mine (who i kind of have a crush on....) who is a year away from becoming a surgeon. He was expressing to me how sometimes he fears that a girl may try to get with him because she is a gold-digger due to his career path. I told him it should be obvious if a girl is a gold digger or not. He asked me what signs would show a girl is or is not one.... It was actually a bit hard to answer. I said that she has a good job herself and that she can supply for herself, but he contradicted everything I said, saying he would still make more money than majority of the girls and could still be a gold-digger despite their own very good income. True, but cocky. Anyway, What do you think?! What are some specific signs that show a girl is and that a girl is not a gold-digger? How can a girl subtly but clearly show a guy she wants him outside of his monetary successes?

Okay so, like, I'm single and probably not gonna get married for... a while, lol. I'm a huge fan of ABBA, and I was just wondering, out of curiosity, how I could actually get them to play at my wedding. You know, assuming I have the money for that.

I've had sex with 40-50 women. I was raised to not have sex until marriage and that women that had sex before marriage are whores. I'm pretty addicted to porn and strips too. I just feel like I'm a really bad person. My family doesn't talk to me and I feel really unloved because of it. I also feel bad for using, lying and cheating on so many women I just hope they can forgive me one day.

I've known my husband for 9 years, been with him for 5, and we tied the knot in March of this year. We initially had a long distance relationship and a year into it we had many arguments and we took like a week break. I ended up having sex with someone. It keeps surfing my mind and I feel guilt over it. Any genuine advice?

My husband has said that he doesn't want to have a baby, as he and his ex-wife had multiple miscarriages which he said caused them to divorce. I never could take the birth control pill, but I did eventually use another type of birth control. However, I found out that I was pregnant. My husband is upset because he says that I didn't respect his wishes enough to be responsible and he thinks I got pregnant on purpose because I wanted a baby so badly. He's being irrational; he told me to end the pregnancy on first, and then he told me that he would sue me for custody. He kicked me out and he said that he wanted a seperation because I got pregnant on purpose; I wasn't trying to get pregnant but now that I am, I can't get rid of the baby. He's looking into his legal rights regarding the baby. Is it possible that he can get a court order for me to have an abortion or that he can sue me for custody?

For example after work the guys say come on lets grab a beer-only now my wife says I will need to call for permission,she claims I must hand my pay check to her,she said I will do all the chores as in up keep of the home..Bottom line she told me if I do not agree to her terms she will walk out the door and I will never see her again. Has anybody did this ? Do I stay or do go ?

He has really good friends that have spouses or girlfriends and I don t know if I want someone that close to home or if we should choose a couple that we don t know taking the risk of STDs. My husband and I both hate condoms. We would just go to a lifestyle club but we don t really know where too look for one.. PLEASE HELP.

Okay so my wife and I have been fighting a whole lot. I began to realize it was all my fault. And I feel like our marriage won't get any better. It took me a while for me to realize how much I really love her, but I don't think she'll forgive me. Maybe she'd prefer it if I was better off dead.

im 31 male with 2 kids and im raising a 3rd from her prior relationship we have been together almost 10 yrs married for 7 i do not want get fixed i want to have kids still she insisted she is done. she says im being selfish and do not love her because i don't wanna do it i feel im to young to make this decision. i have agreed to use ever method of birth control available for men that is available. what should i do she still wants me to get fixed. need help ty

What do you guys think? Is this right? I'm not saying that my wife can't go her family at all. But is this uncalled for? She goes to her family's for weeks at a time literally sometimes a month sometimes a little less. I always invite her family on some trips. Sometimes go out to eat (I pay the bill shall I tell you), but yet they treat me like I'm not good enough because we don't have extra spending money. I bought a house for mine and my wife's future, always made sure she was fed, clothes l, women's hygiene products. Paid for her hair to get done so she can feel beautiful when she goes to her family's. Her family (all girls except her dad) always go on trips that are "girls only" I mean I understand girls night but it's to a point that they say that to get her alone. I even offered to pay my own way including driving myself and paying for my own hotel. Her family's trying to talk her into taking a break with me. It's so sad.. my wife just listens and doesn't say anything when I'm right there while there saying that even did it on my birthday.. My wife is very rude to my family and doesn't want nothing to do with them. Even called my 10 year sister stupid. What should I do? Should I just keep it like this or should I go? It's like I'm married to a child..

Do men enjoy sex more with their mistress because the sex is raw, wild, far more exciting and sexually satisfying, OR do men enjoy sex more with their wife because the sex is far more intimate, special, and meaningful with someone he loves and shares so much history with (and a home, children, memories, etc) Obviously sex is sex, so I'm sure you're thinking "both!" but the question is not WHICH he enjoys, but which he enjoys MORE?

At one point he was so angry that he took off in his car while she was strapping her son in in said car and he was in the drivers seat. This caused her to stumble and fall. She was pregnant with our child (that ended up not being hurt by the incident). They have two children together and she wants to forgive everything that has happened (death threats to me by him). She left him because he abused meth and became violent, although he never actually struck her. I refuse to allow him at our house for the exchange of the children. Am I wrong for refusing to allow him near us and in our lives?

My in-laws had insisted on my husband and I getting married under the separation of property regime. I was against it as I had to leave my job and country in order to live with him after the wedding. I thought it wasn't fair at the time and still do. This has been the cause of many fights between us. I felt betrayed by him as he threatened to break up with me unless we got married the way his parents wanted. I agreed in the end because I did not want to lose him. I signed the marriage contract a few months before the wedding ceremony. I felt that what was supposed to be a special time for me was ruined by my inlaws. Im afraid I can never forgive them. What would you have done?

My husband and I have been married for 3 years now, and I don't know what it is, but it's like he's just stopped "trying" all together. Before we got married, he would tell me how beautiful I was, now I can go over the top dressed up and he doesn't say anything at all. Our work schedules often conflict with one another and when he has time to see me and hour or so before I go to work, when he gets off work, he opts to go to the gym with his friends for an hour and a half rather than to spend time with me before I go. When we do have a full day together, he doesn't really speak to me about anything, he just plays video games, watches YouTube videos about video games or goes outside and works on some new gadget he will have bought for yard work. My friend wanted to go out for her birthday and he told me "if you want to make me mad, that's how you're gonna do it". Yet, he can all the time be out with his. I've lost the majority of my friends because I always give them an excuse as to why I can't hang out, because either he gets mad or I set aside my free time to spend with him. How can a man be pissed at the thought of you being out with friends and another man talking to you, yet not even having the will to compliment you when you dress up, or do anything to try to keep you. I asked him why he doesn't try to be romantic anymore, he told me "I don't know how". I ask him why he doesn't speak to me anymore, he tells me "I don't know what to talk about".

Ok so I am going to be straight up honest here, after filing for divorce last Friday I feel like I am going to die! Without a joke, I know I did the right thing because the marriage was toxic, my question is why the pain? Why do I want to go back to her and hung her and keep her? Instead of being happy, because it is over and I know it will never work because our values are not similar. Why the anxiety is so horrible, to be honest I can barely hold myself from crying at work. Can anyone please tell me why and what to do?

my husband got majority custody but I get my kids every other weekend with supervised minder--such as my Mom. Husband got the kids beucause I developed a drug habit, of course I would turn to drugs as bad as my husband treated me. and his new lady friend isn't that pretty, she tells bad stories about me to my kids but my kids think she is so cool beucase she has money and she buys them things. the reason I went on drugs is because of my husband..doesn't that mean anything??

My husband is currently working a contract position and has been for the past 2 years. He thought it would go permanent and the company even created a position for him to stay. Once he applied they pulled the rug from under and took the position off the table. He's still with the company but they told him his assignment would end at the end of the year so he's put his resume back out there and has lined up a few interviews. One for today. He informed the job that he was taking a half a day off today to go interview which they approved. He told me last night he was going to go in an hour early today to make up the time he is going to miss and then go in an hour early each day this week so he'll still get his 40 hours in. This morning I sent him an email asking if he went in early and his reply was, "didn't I say I was going in early, so why did you ask?" He has this thing where he feels that I don't need to ask him certain things. He said that he told me last night he was going in early so there was no need to ask him the next day if he went in early. Was I wrong to ask? I left for work today before him and when I left he was still getting ready for work. I left a little before 6 and he said he was going in at 7. Why shouldn't I ask?

But this time he held my head and pressed on my jaws so hard that left me with misaligned jaws for two days and incredible pain on one side. And a blue patch on my back. The thing is that I was incredibly angry with the degrading comments he said about me in front of the family and a friend .so when they left I was yelling madly at him for degrading me in such a way . Then he did what he did .

I have many female friends. Some are married and some are single. Also some are engaged. For my married lady friends I sometimes think to myself "He probably enjoyed her a lot." For my engaged lady friends I think to myself "He is really going to enjoy her." Now do men marry just for the sex? I do have a beautiful lady friend that I like and I would really like her for sex but at the same time I like her because she is a nice person.

You might think he is in night duty but he is not and I am dead fed up with this guy. We have a 2year old and a 5 month old and this is his 3rd marriage. His job is a 9-5pm job and so is mine. I leave home at 6am and am back by 5pm to help with the kids and housework. I have a full time job and I pay more in expenses than he does including giving him money to help with the rent- and he earns more than I do but has child support from 2 previous marriages- am about done with his a*rse. His 2 older kids live with us and his 3rd live with his ex who has full custody. He is not home and it's going 2am And he has done this many times before and he expects me to call him--i will give him a reason to be a bachelor since he is acting as one- I am at home dealing with 2 young kids who keep waking up and I need to be out of the house at 6am- I can do ok by myself-He does zero housework and helping with the kids, he acts like he is doing me a favor. what y'all think?

Ill make it short. I let my ex wife live with me. She lost her apartment and didn t want kids to be without a home. Deal was, only 6months. It turned into 2 years. We argued faught a lot. One day she got angry over my phone. Woke me up to knife to my throat. I tried to take it away and gashed my hand pretty bad. I went to bathroom cleaned up and told her I needed to get checked. She dared me to walk out the bathroom and when I did she now has two knives. I was locked in bathroom for 1hour. I felt I had to call cops so when they came I told them everything ok. They forced me to tell them if not they ll speak to my kids and ask them questions. So I told them. They took her in and even though charges were dropped, the arrest is on her record. She says she can t expunge it and now she can t find a job. She blames me for everything nd I do feel bad. Should I have not told the cops anything and just left? Inputs please.

video tape before divorcing her because in anti male divorce court attorneys will encourage his wife to lie and say it was him abusing her and their children???

Married 40 yes old n live with another married man 41 yes old who was my class mates but I never knew abt him. We hv common online grp we all Frds keep in touch with tht grp. Mine n his thoughts matches so much tht I n him both felt we r replicas. We both live in diss countries. He was away from his wife n kid travelled to his hm country n tht day I said him want to spk to him n he was awake talking to me till 3:30 midnight we alsmir spoke 2:30 hrs but I was not satisfied.while saying gnt he said he loves me n asked me say it back. Felt good to hear but cldnt repeat it to him. So we did like this for 2 days( mine day time n his night) was very much in dilemma so next day he was traveling n sent him recorded msg saying tht I am not able to decide what to do as we both r married n hv kids as I was feeling I am in wrong path but hv feelings for him. After landing he said as u said this will not lead any where I know both hv kids now onwards will spk only in grp for week n time starts now later I texted him don t keep me away from him he blocked me.( prior to tht in one my vm I said him tht will keep away from one week then will think what to do if u want me continue u let me know) at first he said take hunger starlike from this social media for 2 days but he did block me) will sm logic I figured out tht he was online chatting with sm one. What I feel is I may be new prey to catch. I feel good to be with him but don t want to him treaty like an option.

Literally the one and only thing that you lazy fcks are asked to do is earn a living to take care of her and kids. You dont have to be hot, drive a bmw or rob a bank. You dont have to have sleepless nights over yowling hungry babies, and change their diapers thirty times or make four square meals everyday or do laundry and stuff. Just earn a steady paycheck and get back to a nice home environment and sit on the sofa. If you cant even do that then why should any woman stay with you?