What do you do when you're to exhausted to explain anymore? I'm dissatisfied but rlly love him. I don't think he understands how seriously upset I am and have been. I want things to change. I'm fading fast. I have articulately expressed my emotions and desires for years. I don't know what to do anymore. Please help

I have recently come to some very challenging thoughts. My husband and I started dating on my 17th birthday. We grew up on the same street in a very small town. He was always so handsome. we were both troubled kids doing a drugs and crazy things. We had a very passionate crazy love like nothing I had ever had before. I had been in many flings and had 2 serious relationships prior to my husband . I know that seems ridiculous considering we were 17 when we got together but it was the same for him he had had 2 serious girlfriends, they were sleeping together and in love/puppy love. I really believe we had the real thing. we were married at 19. Now I'm almost 22 and things have gotten hard. To add to the pressure I'm 2 months pregnant.i'm starting to think we don't truly love each other. I know my man rlly believes he loves me but I don't think his actions and the words always line up .I've begun to think I fell in love with an idea .How romantic to get married at 19 to your highschool sweetheart .I have realized it's far from perfect and so is my husband .lt's not that he's a bad man, maybe half of the problem is that he still so young and maybe not a man yet and now I'm expecting even more from him as a father .There are so many things I don't like about him and I'm wondering if I was just caught up What do I do don't want to have a failed. How do I love my husband again the way I used to? How do I fix this and save our marriage ? I don't want to be dissatisfied anymore

There are so many things I don't like about my husband. I know that I love him but I have begun to think I love an idea of him, not who he really is therefore I am always disappointed. I have lost my fuel for pleasing him and seeking to show him love in all sorts of ways. I'm just spent ya know. He doesn't seam to get it. Please help me

I am convinced my husband and I don't love each other anymore. I am pregnant with our first child. I'm so exhausted mentally and emotionally I am spent. I think my husband has no clue how screwed up we are. He thinks I am delusional and that he loves me very much. I know he genuinely thinks he does but his actions and words don't show it....I don't know what to do. I don't want to divorce but I don't want to compromise myself or my child from not having the love we need and the care that comes from someone who wants to take care of us. Please help

For example, middle class and upper class Can they get marry?

is it because conservative men are better with finances? they are more stable? they have more desire to move up in their career? they don't resort to degenerate behavior like drugs and over-consumption of alcohol? i noticed that women tend to prefer liberal men when they are younger because liberal men are usually less stable, younger, and like to live life without worrying about finances. they are also more likely to experience with drugs which makes it more appealing and exciting for young naive women to go for liberal men? but when women mature they want to settle, have a baby so they go for a conservative man? it makes logical sense. all the young families i see, the man is usually more conservative and clean cut. while all the young liberal guys who are single or in a relationship look like young kids experimenting with things without worrying about the realities of life

I added an update below to explain more. I need advice please! I don't want to stoop to his level, but I know something is up and there is no way I can prove it. It's a game of he/said-she/said. And he's never, ever been like this or acted this way. I feel like I didn't know him the past 4 days. I can't comprehend a text/call for 1 minute a day is too much to ask. He and I have constant communication regularly. Always text. That's why this was so different. I was amazed by his lack of communication. That's what bothers me the most. His behavior is like night and day. And the trip wasn't business-oriented. While it was with work, it was a "reward" trip of sorts, for being the top salesguy. So, it was all entertainment, which makes his lack of communication seem even more daunting to me.

I am now married, I don't want to be. I don't love her. She means well and is a good person but I just wanted to be married. I don't feel right leaving her for another woman because that seems like adultery and in a lot of ways is. I am married for the past two hours and already planning my exit (divorce). What do I do? I am going back out to party and act like I am happy but I am not, I just did the stupidest thing by marrying her. My Dad is an alcoholic and he is drunk and wrecking the reception. Her father didn't show up (he also is an alcoholic) and so she is being a miserable ***** (my wife). How do I annul what I just did? Should we have sex tonight?

even though she claims it was "fine?"

I turned into an alcoholic after I became involved with my husband. I was a very active person but all he wanted to do was drink and smoke and hang out at home. Eventually, that was all I did. When I started having blackouts everything changed. He became distance and judgemental. It has gotten to a point that every time he does something that I don't like he blames it on my alcoholism and never takes blame. Everything in his eyes its my fault. There is nothing I can say to him, except when I am drunk but then he grabs on to that and never deals with anything.

She's very dark skinned. She has those dread hairstyles. She's not very pretty but my son likes her, like he loves her. I tell him mixed children are usually confused individuals. He says that he wants to marry her and is against my words. He's 34. She's 27 with two full black children already. He's chosen "low hanging fruit". There are single white women without children he could marry. Why did he like her? He's grown up around only whites and at least he could chose an Asian. The kids would be white. My son is willing to have mixed black kids. Where did I go wrong as a mother? My family thinks I'm racist. I don't hate blacks, I just want my children with white people. People who have the same culture as them. My son is also a Pediatrician and those children like him. I can't believe he would marry someone black. He grew up around white people. I wonder why he would choose a woman with two bastard children from thugs. I cant imagine them having mixed kids.

Bf had thyroid(papillary) cancer-common and very treatable- and had his thyroid gland removed and now his brother needs a kidney due to kidney failure from lupus. Bf wants to now donate his kidney. Would it be a risk marrying him? having healthy children?

He fought for me. He pursued me for 6months. We fell in love, hard. One year before me he walked away from a family as he was unhappy. He transformed with me in a year. As a person he's insecure & before me slept with hookers/married women. He wanted to marry me. Then his elderly Dad almost died. He became depressed/bipolar. He abandoned me & fled to his Dad. Said he's not the man for me. No matter how much I proved love, he said I made him suicidal & has cut me from his life. 5months later I'm still confused & in pain... is he mentally unwell or over me?

Both He comes from a good family, parents are both teachers

My sibling told me our dad is cheating on our mom. This is a fact, not just a suspicion. They are in their 60's and have not had a happy marriage. But 20 years ago when he was cheating with someone else (different than the one now) and we all found out (including my mom) there was a lot of chaos but they stayed together and the cheating ended with that person. I told my sibling that I don't think we should tell her because it seems he is not going to leave the marriage and she needs him. Recently she was diagnosed with a terminal illness and will need someone to take care of her in the next few years (we don't live near them). She also seems happy as things are now. Thought I would get some outside perspective.

my wife and I have been very happily married for five years. In that time she s gained a tremendous amount of weight, probably from her stay at home mom lifestyle, plenty of overeating/daily fast food, and having 3 beautiful kids. She is now somewhere between 540 and 570 lbs, probably in the higher end, and I am 450 lbs. All that weight has made it hard to stand and walk. For the past few months shes been very sedentary--in bed or on the couch (needs to be helped off both). Above all I care about her happiness and comfort, and it hurt to see her so out of breath from walking. so I brought a wide chair into the kitchen so she can cook seated, and a bariatric wheelchair for getting her into the car. We also eat family meals off the couch for her comfort. I think she's just as beautiful as when we met, and have always been encouraging when her self esteem was down, saying things like "more weight means more of you to love." We are happy and feel fine, and don't have a desire to lose weight. But our kids are worried and it is true that we're setting a bad example for them. (One of them is obese). When I'm not home, they bring their mom food. Im concerned about my wife's health, but I want her to be happy. The only rare times we've fought were when I tried to coax her into dieting. She's tried diets before and that's the only time I've seen her miserable. We did successfully switch to Diet Coke though. As a loving husband, should I let my wife be happy or push her to lose?

Because some people here on this board don't think so.

JMy husband and I met 10 years ago when he was 24 and I was 25, we fell in love and he soon converted to Reform Judaism. We have 2 sons together .My husband went to jail and was going to be transported to prison for receiving stolen property grand larceny and burglary he escaped jail and ended up in NYC where we met. My husband had a bicycle accident where he broke his right arm and left leg as well as getting a concussion. I was worried sick about him and took him home to recover. My husbands bike got mixed up because of police incompetency and fingerprints were run from it which told the police my husband was a fugitive what can we do for legal recourse?

I would like information on how to annul my barren marriage to a lying woman. I told her before I put a ring on her finger that I wanted her to be the mother of my children and she said she couldn't wait. So fast forward a year of trying to get pregnant and nothing to come of it. I tell her that I want us to go see specialist, but she wants to go to her appointments alone. I get suspicious and confront her why she doesn't want me to see what the doctor has to say. She breaks down crying saying that she already knew she can't have kids and she only led me to believe she could because she thought I wouldn't love her otherwise. I told her that I could never love a witch that entrapped me for her own greedy desire not to be rejected. I tell her that I want nothing more to do with her and I will break this marriage and find a good woman who can give me a legacy. She start crying and saying she sorry but I tell her it's over a year to late to be sorry for your actions. She even threaten to kill herself if I leave her. I tell her that I will not be coerced and I think it's pathetic that traps are the only way she can get someone to stay with her. Right now we're living apart. I want nothing more to do with this lying witch. I know not having sex with your spouse at anytime after you say I do is grounds for annulment, but what if your spouse has known knowledge of their ability to have children and lies about it? Would that not be entrapment and detrimental to the marriage? Yes, lala, and I deserve a MUCH BETTER woman who won't lie to me and trick me to serve her own ends. Perhaps if I was a woman with a license to do what I want and have everyone feel sorry for me, you might feel differently. Livinrawguy, I want to nurture my own bloodline, not somebody else castoff offspring.

I don't know how else to say what I feel for her except that I am madly in love with her. About seven months ago now, my best friend from junior high, Tom, introduced me to his then pregnant Fiancee. I was damned to forever love her the moment I looked at her. She was Czech, alabaster skin, supple lips, emerald eyes like the sea glistening in the sun, the brightest smile and an even brighter personality. When it looked at her, I could barely breath straight. It felt like this invisible fist grabbed my heart and squeezed it. I wanted her like I never wanted anything else in this world. To pledge my love to her and stand by her side forever. But she was his and I had to fight with myself mentally to tow that line. In the months following, there isn't a day that she doesn't invade my thoughts and not a time when I don't look for some excuse to try and see her or help her out. You see, Tom is a soldier, so he's deployed a lot and I look after her as a man around the house while he's away. Talking with her and laughing with her makes me happier than I've ever felt. I haven't said anything flirty or untoward with her, but the other day when I was over there painting the back porch, I stole some of her panties out the dirty clothes. I'm telling you... if heaven had a scent. The only words I could murmur as I took in her perfume was "I love you soo much". I need her, but I don't know if she feels something towards me or if it's worth hurting my friend. What do I do?

If bother of their parents are still alive and well and working are children form a previous marriage your financial responsibility as an equal? My ex husband and I have children together and my ex husband has since gotten a new job he never reported his new income as of three years ago. My husband helps with my kids financially but things are tight. My husband has some money in his savings that can be used for the kids school, clothes, activities,other expenses etc but should I take my ex to have his child support increased? My ex has a good job he has never reported that income but sometimes gives me a little extra money here (50-70 dollars) and there to make up for it if I ask him. What should I do?

My daughter is 14 and really loves Stephen king and the movies based on his books. I've let her watch Carrie, The Shinning, and the miniseries for IT and none of those scared her. She's recently been begging for me to take her to see IT in theaters but I don't know if I should. How scary and violent is it? She's pretty mature for her age when it comes to horror but I'm still worried this might be too much for her. How bad is it?

my husband is great doctor but lousy husband. not 1, not 3 but 6 kids I had with this man , so what does he decide to do? he is having an ongoing affair with a nurse at hospital. where does that leave me?

Is it for extra welfare or to mock God's institution of marriage?

Hi. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 12 years now. i met him when i was eighteen and he was twenty four were six years apart. things have never been rosey from the beginning we started a new life by moving down south so he could be closer to his family. the first impression was important so i tried to be as polite and helpful around the property but i felt my presence was not welcomed. we lived in a trailer and went to their house to bathe his step-mother would complain she often found things to nitpick at. once when she had social gathering to drink i was secluded things became worse from there and they drove us off their property, of course their son's abusive behavior towards me didn't help. we went back north where the abuse continued until i had him arrested which his family didn't like. i started a new relationship which lasted briefly due to him cheating. when he was released we reconnected with hopes things would change i told him about the affair while he was incarcerated he forgave me and we went on with our lives. we moved from state to state never satisfied we been through alot homelessness, jobless, finding food out of the dumpster that grocery stores that just threw away still frozen. the fighting and arguing how many times we broke up or he'd been arrested on his doing but i stood by him despite that. his relationship with his family was distanced i held grudge against them and thus kept him away. things said over social media about me. whenever he went to visit his family they would try to convince him of ending the relationship with me meanwhile things were hitting rock bottom. he would ***** and complain about everything i do, criticize my cooking and cleaning call me worthless tell me the world would be better off without me. i been called terrible names spit in my face, belittled in front of everyone. my family warned me but i didn't listen so eventually gave up trying. then one day tried of the physical emotional and verbal abuse i started hitting him back in self defense i started being emotionally abusive whever he was extremely mean i did the same. there was times after he hit me he mocked my crying and showed no emotion so i called him a narcissist. i withheld sex and whenever he begged i screamed at him and thretened to break his jaw. i held a grudge because four years ago we fell on hard times and was about to be homeless he turned to a friend down south where we lived he offered him a job and place but when he told his family he automatically want us to live down there even though it was a diffrent part. they told him i was not welcome around or allowed on their property so i force him to disown them. he did. he didn't see or talk to them for five years but i gave him and let him have a relationship he went to visit in May, and told me they looked at him like why are you still with her? so i told him he can talk to them but no more visiting. we been trying to fix things the abuse stopped after i hit him and left a noticeable mark. deep down i know we love each other despite saying we don't. should we go to couple's counseling to save our relationship? Thanks sorry about my grammar and spelling i meant 4-5 years ago his family didn't want us moving back down there despite knowing we was going to be homeless and his friend was giving us an opportunity a job for my boyfriend a place to live but we didn't go. we didn't go because they told him i was not welcome or allowed on their property so i forced him to disown them for five years until i decided to give them a second chance. while they were disowned i was called selfish by his family members too among other things i rather him not talk to them but conscience was guilty. he always had a good relationship with his father he is the only son even hearing the cats in the cradle made me feel bad deep down. there is no repairing the damage with his family i will never like them and they will never like me.

A stranger finds themselves very sexually attracted to your wife. They offer you five million dollars to let them sleep with her for one night. How do you react? People, it's called a hypothetical question. I'm aware of the percentile regarding it ever happening. I was gauging whether money or boundaries meant more or less to some. *sigh* You can stop playing at having the intellectual upper hand here by pointing out captain obvious in the crowd now. My Thanks.