It's beeen more than a year and she's using our address. She wants all her mail. What should we do! I said I will forward it all to the post office and she gives me a guilt trip saying that she will lose her insurance.

Hi so I'm 20 and I live with my mom still. I am pretty stuck in a situation and looking for advice or ideas on how I can change it. I don't have a car or job. I also don't go to college. My mom doesn't drive either so I can't ask her to drive me to work, nothing close by me either. It takes an hour to walk to the supermarket and they aren't even hiring. I have no friends to take me either. I don't know where to start I'd like to one day go to college but since we just moved I have to be a resident for 12 months before I can get financial aid. Me and my mom fight a lot I only leave the house maybe once a week and it's to the grocery store. That's 4 times per month I'm kinda getting depressed sitting in the house all day every day. Any tips? Thanks

I was in a relationship with one of my cousin's friend for a month. Throughout that 1 month my bf shared a lot of private things with me about his family issues and things he had not told anyone before. I shared something personal about my family as well since I felt like I could trust him (stupid me). However, the relationship didn't last, he broke up with me a month after we got together and now I feel guilty for sharing something so personal. I regret it bc it was about my dad smoking opium and I had shared it bc i was concerned for his health and needed to get it off my chest since my bf's father was doing the same thing. It's been almost 6 months we broke up and that's the only thing i regret about that relationship and can't forgive myself. I keep thinking what if he tells my cousin and word gets out. I'm not really close with my cousin and his family is the last to judge since they have issues of their own but i just never wanted to give anyone a chance to think negatively of my father and i feel like i betrayed him. Idk :/ how do I stop feeling so awful...? My cousin and I aren't that close but he is best friends with him so idk

I want to feel young again, I feel like this isn't me anymore. 18 is a very strange age. On flag day, I turned 18 years old. I feel too old, my back hurts, I have a beard, my brothers are from a different millennium (I'm from 1999, they are from 2000 and 2005), I watch the news every morning, I need a massage (Thankfully my youngest brother gives good ones), and I don't go to college because I'm doing demolition. It's not my brothers, It's my body. My neck hurts a lot, and so does my lower back. I went to the doctor and he says it's part of growing up, made me feel old. How do I stop the pain? You clearly haven't read what I wrote.

I just had my2nd baby with my fiancé and I have just been evaluating my surroundings and wanting to be more settled in my life and figure out where I want to be and live happy. Back home I have parents on drugs who have been for years and have no intentions to do better. My only source of reliable babysitting is daycare and that's only to go to work. My fiancé family moved 8 hours away and he insists that they are more reliable and good support if we move there I'm just scared to leave my family and something happens. Grandma is currently on radiation fighting cancer, and being so far away from my younger siblings while my parents are living how they love scares me to be so far. My fiancé wants to be with his brother to support him through school and of course closer to his family. My question is why do I feel so scared and guilty about thinking of moving away ? I'm ready for change and to try it out in another place before deciding where I want to buy my house but scared to leave and be so far away not that being here is making any difference with my family

I'm 15, I have to sleep with my mom because she keeps her pet birds in my room so I can't sleep there. She's always up late until 1:00 a.m and I just want to go to bed because I get so tired at school. I have to be at school at 7:20 and I don't want to have to rush to school everyday because I woke up late. I ask her if we could go to bed but she says she doesn't want to and she keeps the tv on and her iPad and phone and the light and noise bothers me and I am so sick of being to tired everyday.

My good friend Kendra is very reserved, we are extremely close friends but she doesn't show that much emotion although at times when she does I really appreciate it. I've been wanting to go visit my moms grave it is in the far other city that I just can't make it there. II can't drive and there is no bus leading there as it is such a small place. It's been upsetting me for year and I told her about it, she said "I would love to take you if I didn't have so many meetings this week" i'm in a lot because she doesn't say a lot. Why would she offere like that?

My dad is 57 and I m 17. He keeps threatening me with weapons like a piece of full round, baseball bat, etc. we have fist fought numerous times and I usually and the winner. He kicks me out the house or something like that where i don t know how long I m out. It can be hours to two months. Recently though he has been saying quote "I m going to blow your brains out" or "I m going to put a hole in the middle of your chest" I tell him to do it pussy (probably not good but if you knew him you would understand) but he keeps giving me a dirty look when I come from school. I ve went in his room and I see guns that are usually in the safe around t. I would contact police but he is a extremely good liar that or doesn t even answer the door. He drinks daily and I don t know if I can take the stress anymore. I can t even focus on homework without him power tripping about something. I want to beat him to a bloody pup about his hypocrisy saying I m not a man since I want to beat him up but he s been doing this my whole life. I control my anger but I m really on the brink. What should I do

I m trying to pick a career path (I m thinking Nursing). So C and my parents want me to go into Psychology, while A and B want me to go into Nursing. Now, the issue is that whenever A talks to me about schooling and what I should do, the rest of the family **** on her and say that she s influencing me too much and that I should think for myself. BUT, when they turn around and say the same things (e.g you should do this, you should do that), they get mad when I call them out on being hypocritical (even though A and B have the same opinion). Am I being a ***** or is my family biased against A?

She is really bad to me and a bad person. I am an adult but if I stop speaking to her then I lose the rest of the family.

She sleeps around and her parents think she should have gotten more help when her mother's younger brother abused her as a kid. It has been many years since the abuse and the offender went to jail and the family has had no contact since other then one or two funerals.

I'm in 8th grade. I'm in Algebra and Living Environment. I'm on honor roll. But she still treats me like I'm a horrible person. Just today : I went downstairs with my plate - I always eat in my room - and she tried to hand me this tray so I could wash the food she ate. Thing is, she makes me never want to leave my room because she ALWAYS tells me to do something when I do. I said "Why are you giving this to me." That is all I said. I didn't say I wouldn't take it. I didn't say I wouldn't wash it. I just said why are you giving this to me. She freaked out. She followed me to the sink and started yelling at me, and I just stood there, quietly waiting for her to finish so I could wash my dishes and go upstairs. She broke two plates by throwing them onto the counter, and made me go to my room so she could calm down. About 10 or so minutes later, she called me down, forcing me to wash all the dishes, clean the plates that she broke on purpose, vacuum them, and then vacuum the rug. All while yelling at me about how I can't do anything right. And SHE expects an apology. She's also always mocking my weight, yelling at me for it, like I'm disgusting, when she's way fatter. I think she might be bipolar.

I feel like I was a mistake, I feel the need to die, all my parents do is when I get just a SLIGHTY below average grade they start to yell at me "i wish we never had you" "your such a mess up" why the **** cant you be like your brothers" I wish I could kill myself any1 have advise??

Hi, I am 16, a guy. now before y'all critzie me, I do most of the work around the house. I take out the garbage, mow the lawn, pull weeds (if needed), and do the ice, etc. I am the only one doing that. my parents both work in the city so they don't really have time to work. I am the only one doing that. I know I can't make my parents do that because they let me live here and they pay the bills. I complained to my dad about this because whenever I ask my sister to do the stuff I do she says "no I can't sorry I have homework" that really pisses me off. I told my dad and he said "what are you trying to get at? go away I don't want to hear that". do you think its time for my sister to do the work I do? I don't really have any homework because my school is on block schedule (Monday its all classes and Tuesdays and Thursdays its 1,2,3,7 and Wednesday's and Friday's its 4,5,6). so we have a hour and a half of those classes on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. I am pissed off because again, I am the only one doing the chores. she always says "no I can't sorry I have homework" to get out of it.

I'm 18 and fell pregnant by my loser ex who I'm no longer with.. I asked a question here the other day about if I can still get a job while pregnant and it attracted so much hate.. I got called irresponsible, got told to get an abortion because I'm ruining my life, etc..

I'm 20 male student. My father passed away last summer, so all money for studying comes from my mother's salary. My 3 year-older sister is also a student and unemployed as well. We were about to go abroad this summer for 3 months and cover all our studies, but the guy who was supposed to find us a job and a place to stay, disappeared with our money. So, that screwed my life up. My mother is constantly talking about money and staying at home is a struggle. You can't really find a job for 3 months in my poor country. All you can do is work as a waiter in some of the coffee shops in the town center, which is 2km away from my home and I have no car, bike or bicycle while the temperature outside is 40 C, while the salary is poor. And I can't work during studies cause my schedule is all fu*ked up.. My sister has never worked in her entire life and all she does is get wasted in clubs and spend money, while I'm the one who stays at home and listens to my mother cause I have no friends to go out... I chose university hoping that I will meet some people out there and go abroad in the summer to earn some money... But none of that seems to be happening... I can't take this anymore I have my social life problems, love problems, my father died a year ago while my mother got herself a boyfriend and on top of that she wants me to make a miracle and solve all problems. All this s*it is killing me from inside, I feel like a guest in my home, I don't even ask about buying new stuff anymore or money for smth. I don't even wanna eat I just want to go somewhere far and never come back

my older sibling call me ugly for everything. Ill say things like I cant find my phone then they'll be like its because youre ugly or things that dont have to do with my looks. It is so annoying and its making me hate myself so mych.

My dad died in Iraq in March 2003. I was born in June 2003. Even if I never knew him things were fine until today. My mom gave me a letter he wrote me in case he didn't come back. He says he's sorry that he won't be there for me in life and to watch over my mom and my grandparents. he ends the letter with "I know you would have made me so proud son". I just can't stop crying. I don't want to go to school tomorrow,I don't want to do anything and I dont' want to go anywhere. I am 14,just 5 years younger than my dad when he died. I've been crying for hours in my room. I've done some research about the war my dad died in and some mean guys at school one day told me that he went there just for oil. It makes me cry becasue I wish he was here to tell them something.What should I do? I tried watching cartoons not to think about it but didn't work

So she heard that our grand mother went to the swimming certificate ceremony of our FIVE YEAR OLD cousin. And it bothers her so much because our grandmother didn t go to her swimming certificate ceremony when she was five... SERIOUSLY??

I'm 16. I set alarms for the morning for school but always snooze them. So my mom always has to wake up with me to wake me up. I get so annoyed that I always physically hit her, sometimes I end up hitting her too hard and its audible. This is a constant routine. And when I come home from school, I go straight to my room and attempt to do my homework, but mostly fail and end up doing it late before bed. When my mom peaks through the door to check in or tell me to go eat, or come in to tell me once again to go do something I was supposed to hours ago, I get annoyed and talk back in THE tone. I don't even turn to look at her most times. She has to constantly keep nagging me. And always, she barely yells, always accepts my appologies even when I don't mean them. She rarely shows TRUE anger. And I treat my grandfather with attitude also. It's rare that I visibly aknowledge him directly. I even yelled at him a few times for giving food to the dog. My family helps me out, loves me, and gives me stuff I don't even ask for. I'm not asking for any pity/reasurance from any1, only HONEST OPINION. Don't even think about "sugar coating". I want HONEST OPINION, even if you want to call me names and tell me I deserve to go to hell, go ahead and say whats on ur mind. Let the hate out, seriously, don't hesitate. I'll accept it. I just want the honest, brutal truth. I don't even care if u honestly say something nice, which I highly doupt any1 will. Just let it out. Even if you think I deserve to get beat up. Just say it.

My seven year old son told me the other day that he has officially decided to join the marine corps when he turns 18 and wants to "go be in a big bloody war and jack up the enemy". In order to start preparing for this war, he's decided that he can practice by ambushing anyone at any time, and proceed to see how quickly he can beat the living piss out of them. He's made it into a game and sets goals and targets for himself. The other day he jumped on top of a girl at his babysitters house when she wasn't looking and rubbed her face into the mulch to humiliate her. He even tried to fight my husband the other day, using "military strategy and guerilla warfare tactics" to dislocate his knee and tear his patellar tendon. Luckily his tactics failed but he was relentless in the process. We had to tie him up to stop him, as he says that he will fight until he's in the hospital if given the chance. How do I straighten this asshole of a soldier up? I understand that he's made an important life decision and needs to prepare for combat, but how can I make sure he does this in a controlled environment?