I met my boyfriend at work. He had a girlfriend. (I know very bad) he came off flirtatious to me, I got flirtatious back. he told me he liked me. I said This isn't ok, so I stopped. I went out with someone else and he broke up with her for me. (This also worries me that it'll happen to me) we moved across the country for a while, we were happy. We move back and I told him Not to be flirtatious and give off the wrong impression. he agreed to be professional (he's a manager) Hes js there to work.. One day an email said "hey b." (His name doesn't Have a b, so it has to be babe) "wanna hang out today?"And was his employee. I thought, Is he doing the same thing? it's not terrible if someone wants to hang but why lie. His job doesn't allow him to be friends with employees outside of work. I asked him about it he said Idk why she Sent that I'm just professional. Isomeone who works there told me they were really close. Iasked him about it and he denied "but if I gave that impression that's my fault, I'm not going to talk to those people anymore just going to talk to his about work from now on. (Which is hard to believe bc he said that in the beginning too) now I am stuck. We love each other and I'm feeling insecure. If he really did like that girl. And comparing myself.once someone lies its hard to Feel secure. I want to trust him but also him be truthful to me. And for him not give off wrong impressions.I'm so confused on how to trust him again. And feel good about myself again

I bern married 3 years now with a person who has a child from a previous relationship. They text day and night and it is hard to believe it is about they're son at 4 am. So I confronted her via text on a few occasions just regular texts I never threatened her or anything and I text her bf about just today and told him about what is going on. My husband went to drop his son off and he said that she told him she will get me arrested for msg her or her bf once more. She says I am crazy etc. My husband was mad bc I told her bf. He stated he wouldn't defend me if I got arrested or anything happen. That I have alot of people even on his side that dislike me etc. What to do....

My husband nearly hates everyone. He hates his siblings, his parents and his own son! He only loves and cares about me (his wife) and his grandfather.

Im in my late 30's and tried to find a woman to marry. I dated alot and still manage a few dates. I know whats it like to live with a woman at home, coping with her insecurities and pushing things forward - its alot of work and i dont see anyone worth it. I do enjoy myself and my freedom alone and at home - except on holidays when everyone is busy etc. I also spoke to a some married woman and heard their side of the story - its sick to think that a guys wife thinks that way of him and is flirting with other guys behind his back. Women are certainly clingy and need constant reassurance. Not to mention paranoid and extremely jealous ( suspicious ) of other women. They know how slutty their female colleagues are.. From the guys point of view it seems that many stick to marriage cause of the kids. Many even envy me for being single. So is marriage still worth it ?

BF had thyroid cancer(papillary) and had his thyroid removed and now wants to donate kidney to brother who has renal failure from lupus. Would it be a risk marrying him??

I REALLY want to be a parent someday. I also would like to get married, but not as much as I want to be a parent. I know if I had children, I would love them more than my spouse. I have a feeling that if I started dating, I would be entirely focused on having children rather than our relationship together. I would want to rush into having children immediately after we get married. I don't think it would be a healthy relationship at all. What should I do about this? I really, really do want to be a parent.

Back story : He is a volunteer lifeguard, needs a new pair of jeans and was vegan for 3 days.

We've been having a rough patch, and it's been one thing after another. He thinks i dont show him care. In the beginning of our marriage, the pastor of my home church got divorced and our church split. It was very devastating for me because i have been there my whole life, and i was closer to my church family than my actual family. Well, the splitting of my church hurt me to my core and even though I got married, I had a hard time trusting people including my husband. It's been a little over 2 years now, and I have found a new church home within the last 3 months. It's been very healing, but now my husband is upset because of my past actions. Ive lied to him (not something serious like cheating but still), I've pushed him away because he made me mad, I've tried to hurt him because i was upset that he didnt fix my problems (i felt he didnt listen but he said he did), and I've felt out of love and resentful toward him. He asks me if i love him, and I said i didnt know. I don't want things to end, but i dont know if things will get better. Ive been thinking that im not a good wife For HIM, and he may find someone else to get along with his family and friends. I don't know what to make of my feelings. He wants answers, but I cant find the words

I don't want to get into too much detail, I just need to get it off my chest. So here's kind of the story.... My husband works six days a week. Not because we need the money, but because he enjoys it. What kind of selfish man would choose work over time with his wife? We have one life and he wants to waste it at a desk. Anyway, I was getting my license renewed at the DMV and met this young guy. We hit it off immediately. And he doesn't even have a job so I know money is meaningless to him. Talk about a breath of fresh air! I've decided to see him In secret until we find a place in the city to rent. I feel bad that I'm using my husband's money for this, but then I remember it's just paper. My husband says he'll die for.me and our two kids, and can't even take two days off to take me shopping. I'm just over it all. Sorry for ranting l. Surely there are other ladies out there who understand

ill put my wife stench inside my girl friends clam ...then I wait to see who wins.

My wife has frigidity problems and I have been loyal for 12 years (married time) there is a chick whos sweet and would like to have an affair with me , should I go for her?

Say my wife doesn't want kids but I do. Is it wrong to refuse to have relations with her if she takes birth control?

I don t really care that he watches porn but for some reason it bothers me that he ll save the names of porn stars he likes the most. Should I be bothered by this?

about a year and half ago, when we seperated, I discovered she sold herself online for a silver watch. we're back together now. I can't stop thinking about how she was enjoyed and ravaged by another man. in my religion, we forgive people. i know it is the past, but it is hard t know that your own wife did this. should I just tell her about it.

I choose to be a stay at home mom because it's what I love to do and my husband is wealthy and can support us on one income. Yet my friends all think I'm being oppressed and going against modern feminism or some crap and talk crap behind my back about me and say they think my husband is abusive for not letting me work. I don't even want a job, all of my friends hate their jobs, yet they act like I'm the one who's oppressed? I don't get it

I know that many people will disagree, but i believe that a real marriage and real sex are only real between a man and a woman, it's because we are different, we complete each other by our feelings and emotions, also sexually we were made to fit each other on all aspects...etc Like i said before, i respect homosexual people, it's because they are human beings and they were born like this, but when it comes to which is the right path, for sure they aren't!...that's my opinion, what's yours?

My stepson has been a real terror and has made threats on my life and is slandering my name to everyone(teachers, his friends parents even to the ladies at our leasing office) hoping to get me in trouble for one of his made up stories. My Husband knows our son has behavior and mental disorders. My Husband leaves me to deal with his child without any support from him. I told my Husband today I'm at wits end, I'm so stressed and sometimes feel I should leave, that I'm so unhappy all the time and don't feel like my "happy" self. He tells me I should do what's best for my own protection. Why would someone who supposedly loves you say that to you? Shouldn't encouragement be key? He said he loves me and did not mean I should leave, but I took it as that. Part of me feels like I'm just being used and after today I should leave. Am I wrong for feeling that way? am I over reacting to his statement?

Where instead of just telling me how he feels he will treat me like crap, example: instead of just saying "I'm feeling bad will you cuddle with me" he will scream at me and bite my head off over every little thing I say or do and treat me like crap for a couple days to where I fear him and dont even want to be around him then tell me it's my fault he's mad at me cause I don't show him enough affection....why would I want to show him affection after how he treated me, how should I handle this?

He commented on one that he thinks she gorgeous and the other girl on a couple of pictures told her he liked her smile am I overreacting?