My son is four years old and his father and I have split up. He wasn't exposed to any fighting or negativity while we were together and since the split have been effective in co parenting and being neutral. But still all I can think about is my son's future. Will he grow up to resent me for splitting up? Will he have psychological problems? Am I destroying his chance at successful future relationships? I feel horrible becasue my son is my whole world and the last thing I want to do is hurt him in anyways..

My grandpa remarried is his wife's kids my step aunt/uncle?

not started divorce process yet. My question is it wrong too date while separated? I feel guilty about it. I want too date again and long for a relationship. Yes we do actually plan on divorcing. My husband told me filed the paperwork, but I found out today it wasn't never filed so I will do it myself. My estranged husband started dating soon after we separated. My family tells me I should start again. Although I do like some people. I feel like I am uncertain. I still really loved my estranged husband & trying too get over that. Do you get over someone fast when you start dating again? Although I do long for relationship and sexual desire again. I'm not sure if I want a relationship just for a rebound right now. Is this wrong? Is wrong too be a Christian woman & date while separated? Do rebound relationship grow into something more or ever work out? I recently starting flirting with other men again just small stuff. Do you need time too heal from the relationship while separated? How much time does a person need? I am just looking really for opinions and honest advice.

My girlfriend doesn't have kids. On the weekends she works but my son has soccer and baseball where my ex and I get together. Should she make more time for my sons events on the weekends even though she works a lot of hours on the weekends? She spend time with my son and I on her days off during the week and will take him to do stuff then but I feel she should make more effort to do more.

I have a supervisor who hates me and I tried to explain it to my husband but he always try to show me that I act wrong in which to me he takes the other person side. He doesn't want to admit he takes other people's side but It hurts. I feel to kill Myself because he always against me...I'm tired...I seem to be wrong all the time.

So we had been invited to a party and our friends were there and my husband picked their little girl up and started tickling her while she sat in his lap. He suddenly grew quiet and started using his phone and the girl started to wiggle and look uncomfortable and I thought she needed a diaper change and picked her up. When I did, I saw the hugest b*ner on him and he looked embarrassed so I just got mad and left. I haven't talked to him since and I think he's afraid of coming home because of it. Should I be concerned?

We were all hanging out together and I had an emergency at work so I left and he said he was about to leave too but then when I came back, she was sitting in the shower crying and she wouldn't let me touch her or get anywhere close to her for a couple of hours or so. I finally convinced her I wasn't going to harm her or anything and she showed me scratch marks all over her arms and thighs and her vagina seems hurt too...I took her to the hospital and they think she was raped but she looks very uncomfortable every time I bring it up. How do I approach this/her about it? How do I restrain myself from badly hurting my friend?

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Say you know a man in his 50s who has always presented himself as a genuine, fun, and family-oriented person. He's had his fair share of battles in life, but he is deeply rooted in his faith and belief in God (he's even an ordained minister!). But rooted even deeper than faith is his pride. He always seemed so respectful of others and seemed to care tremendously for his wife and two kids. He is the proud, loving father and husband. His wife has a heart of gold and his kids are typical teenagers but each have a good head on their shoulders. But then you find out that this man has been engaged in a deeply emotional and sexual affair for almost 2 years with a woman who is half his age, single, and very much in love with him. He ensures daily communication with her and sees her as often as he can. He is involved in an actual relationship with this woman, not just an affair. He cares for her very much but feels a moral and financial obligation to his wife and kids, therefore has no intentions of walking away from his family. He confides in you one day and tells you all this, and that he loves his wife but their sex drives have never been aligned, and he's fallen for this other woman. You feel bad for the wife because she is a good person and clueless to the affair. You feel bad for the young lover because she's genuinely in love with this man but totally wasting her time since he'll never leave his family for her. What do you think of a man like this?

I am going to make this short and sweet, married for 6 years move out last October move back in again back in June and only lasted 3 months, so no I haven't file for divorce, my wife wont talk to me only when she needs something or when she wants to see me or when she is having trouble with her 17 years old son, I was helping her last week and of course I stayed for a couple of days now she don't reply text messages at all, all I got today was be happy for me I am trying to change my life. WTF? how can you stay married to someone who doesn't communicate?? this happens all the time. why is this person like this? BTW never treat her badly or anything like that but I am about to send her to hell. Please give me your honest opinion. thank you

I'm 24. My mom married 'Steven' when I was 9. I changed my surname to his when they married. They had 2 sons after getting married. They don't know that he isn't my real dad. They think he is as they aren't that close to him either. They split up in 2013 and we moved to another house. But they're not divorced and he always calls to the house to see his sons. I still live at home as I'm saving for a deposit. My mom and I thought about changing our surnames back 2-3 yrs ago but we never got round to it cause she says she would want my brothers and us to all have the same surname. She wants to change their surname. Steven always treated me differently. He's been in my life since I was 3 but he's never referred to me as his kid. He's financially supported me but that's it. I always knew he wasn't my dad but I don't know my real dad. I've never spoken to my mum about him. Today my youngest brother was out with Steven and he came back home and told mom that Steven was talking to a man and he said "Is this your youngest child?" And he said yes and the man said how many kids do you have "he said just one more. I have 2 kids." My bro'just assumed it was cause I'm a lot older and I don't speak much to Steven. I say hello but that's it. I try and avoid him. It upset me. Why do I even have his surname? It's like a hold on me. What do you think? What would you do if you were me? Should I change my surname? I'm 24 so all of my documents and qualifications have my name on them. But surely what is the point in waiting to I get married because I might not get married for 10 years! Should I change to my moms maiden name or a new surname? He's done it in front of me before when someone asked my if I was his daughter he said no. It's just upsetting to be rejected.

I'm afraid of it. I have no problems with commitment or change. It's just something doesn't settle right in my soul about marriage. I have no clue what it is, but something just doesn't feel right. It's not about finding "the right guy." The idea of marriage itself doesn't feel right. I can't really describe it any other way. Maybe marriage just isn't right for me? Is it possible I tried to fit in so much that I forced the desires of others on myself? I don't have the desire to have kids. I'm not sure if I even have the desire to marry. Is it true that not everyone is right for marriage? Oops I just noticed that there was a typo. I'm NOT afraid of it. Oh my gosh I'm so sorry! I just now noticed that. I was wondering why a bunch of people were saying I was afraid when I said I wasn't. Haha sorry. I am NOT afraid of marriage. I just don't want it. Big difference.

Why did you chose a childless marriage? Do you have any regrets? or are you glad you made that choice?

We re just back from vacation in the Canary Islands where my wife sunbathed topless for the first time. Prior to the trip, she had always kept her top on in public but it was something she wanted to do and, as her husband, I had no issues and, I think, was fully supportive of he decision without creating any pressure for her to do it. Basically, whether she wears a top on holiday or not, I think she has a great body and I love her loads. It s fair to say that there were always other topless women around the pool at our apartment complex and on the beach as, as a result, she felt comfortable enough to spend more time topless than either of us probably expected. We also spent a good amount of time talking and drinking with other couples similar to us. However, since we arrived home, my wife has become terribly embarrassed by the number of photos we have with her breasts exposed and has said that no-one else should be shown them under any circumstances. She s also dreadfully worried that she allowed herself to be photographed by the other couples we socialised with around the pool. How can I reassure her that she is a beautiful women and these are just holiday snaps?

My wife was in the shower last night and got a text, i went to take her the phone and say a text from one of our employees (we own a gourmet candy shop) and it said something along the lines of "i'll give it a few licks" is she cheating?

any phrases/words?

Okay so my husband and I have been married for 6 years, we always lived with a roomate, mother in-law, and last year took in my teen 17 yr old brother. So last year my brother got into drugs, constantly going again the rules, when hubby was at work he would get aggressive with me. Well my husband and I almost got a divorce because of all the chaos and stress that we took in. Well we told my mother not again with him so finally after so many years we are living alone and enjoying each others company and mending issues. Well now my other 19 year old brother is begging me to move in, my dad is begging me also. He will need my help to help him get his life together. I am pregnant with my first baby and I am torn between everything. I love my brother and want to help but then there s this new life inside me and my husband and this new family were going to have. Is it wrong if I turn my brother down on coming to live with us?