I'm in college. There's one person in my writing class who I had one conversation with, and I really enjoyed it. Most of the time I sit pretty far away from this person, but the seat next to them is always open. My real question is, should I take the seat next to them? I don't want to creep them out, make it seem like I'm desperate for a friend, and clinging on to them after one conversation.

Okay so this girl that I can't stand anymore is giving me a headache. She used to be a very nice person until she showed her true colors. She is bossy, manipulating, rude and criticizes everyone. Especially me. She always wants things her way. She is brutally honest but gives good advice. She took advantage of me and always ask how much money I will be bringing. She always criticizes me since I have a disability (autism) and always thinks I get mad when she jokes a with me. She says I'm weird and I need to act normal. Anyways last week, she was criticizing me for being slow and has called me dumb and insulted me. I lost my patients with her and yelled at her! She got scared and called me out that I don't talk to her like that and she cussed me out BIG TIME. She told me I am an HUGE asshole to her and bring my f*cking autistc *** over her and stop being stupid!! I got super angry that I threw her phone. She called me out for breaking her iPhone 7. Her mom got angry for me and said I need to pay $300 and get her a new phone. I don't have that kind of money. I told her I don't know if I can but my friend hissed at me four days ago and said, "Well figure it out! You broke my phone and you said you were going to pay. Take responsibility! Whatever I gotta go. Going to bed." My aunt was brutally honest with me after I told her and she said it's my fault that her phone is broken and I'm an adult and she will NOT talk to me like a five year old. She doesn't sugarcoat things. Even my own dad said that I through the phone and its my own damn fault and my friend is right. He said dont expect hin to help me and I need to do it myself. Even my friends said the same thing and its my fault for letting myself get manipulated, too nice and making her the bad friend. I'm not the bad friend, SHE IS! That's not what I wanted to hear. They were suppose to be on my side! I can't believe she wanted me to pay $300. I told my guy friend what happened but he said to me that she is shocked that she would ever think she wants $300 from me and just wanted me to pay $100 a month to pay off and I need to stop acting like a big fat baby and be an adult and do my responsibilities. She treats me like ****. Sorry this is too long.

Most of my former friends and I have an unspoken rule: we don't like each other. The other select few, I absolutely admire, but they only tolerate me, and don't like me in the slightest. My dilemma? I can't stop being the puppy dog who follows them all around. I've known them for years, and I can't figure how to achieve social change. It's my senior year, and I only have three classes. I'd just like to focus on myself. My internship isn't so active right now, college apps and scholarships taken care of, and I'm not allowed to work. I'm in band, and practice often. I don't have a plethora of things to distract me. What do I do? What do I say to these toxic people, to rid them from my life?

I have a friend who I have known for a long time. But he moved out of the country for two years. He moved back this year but all of my current friends dislike him. They dislike my friend to the point where they won't hang out with me if he's around. What should I do?

I think a friend from work thinks that I am being beaten, and he always comments.. I have a sh!tty family, and a bad living situation, but I am NOT being beaten, and I don't know how to convince him? Anytime I have an injury, wound, bruise, etc. he comments on it. He will bring it up 1-3 times that day, and not just in private between the two of us. He will also do it in front of other coworkers, or even in the break room in front of EVERYONE in the small room.. He will say "who is hitting you" and similar things, and when I try and tell him that no one (at least not in the recent years we've worked together) is hitting me. He will pester me about what happened and then always come back to "someone is hitting you" loudly in front of, or near, other people. It makes me uncomfortable. I get that he is trying to be helpful/supportive/protective/inquisitive? but it makes me uncomfortable. Help? Advice? I don't know what kind of "abused puppy vibe" I give off, because people at BOTH my jobs do this.. Not even when there is something visible. Like, I have been approached by someone who (in front of others, and then one on one) took me aside and even told me how he was concerned and that if I EVER needed help or anything that I can come to him and he is here for me. (Also, I am in my 20's and all the people that do this are "parent age" 20-35 years older than me - don't know if that helps?)

My best friend is a super smart, great student. In my school, we have advanced reading and English, which is combined into what they call language arts. It is apparently hard to get into that class, and I miraculously got in, even though I didn't put in that much effort last year. On the other hand, my bff put in a ton of effort and got good grades. She didn't get into Language Arts, and she was sitting at her desk looking like she was about to cry. She tried SO hard to get into that class, and she didn't get in... I was saying that I got in and she looked absolutely devastated. How can I make her feel better? I tried, and I can always make someone feel better! Nothing worked... She was almost crying, and she didn't even say bye to me when we normally walk out of school together... she loves school, but she's super sad now... PLEASE HELP SHE IS ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATED!!!!!! I NEED HER TO FEEL BETTER! ;( :O

and by friend crush I mean I really really really want to be good friends with this person but I m not romantically attracted to her. So I m on my high schools golf team along with three other girls and we all get along good. There s two sophomores (me and another girl), junior, and the girl in talking about, let s call her "A" is a senior. Ive been on the team since freshmen year so I ve known "A" for about a year now. Ive always thought of her as the coolest person I know. She super duper sweet, nice, outgoing, witty and also the funniest person I know. Now I m very quite and don t really talk that much and I also don t have a lot of friends. But I do talk a lot around people I m comfortable with like my family and my close friends. "A" also has a ton of friends and is always up on the trends and that girl in school that every girl wishes they were friends with. "A" is pretty good friends with another girl on the golf team and they re always talking about things that I can t relate to so most of the time I don t know what to say and I know she wants friends who she can laugh with but every time I talk to her it s just kinda casual and not anything to laugh about unless she *more in comments*

A girl that became my friend in the class, when she finishes the homework first and I ask her if she knows the answers to the questions then she says You can find it on on the book or online. But when I get my homework done, she wants to see the answers and I told her the answers are in the book or online. I told her she don't help me so why should I help her? she got mad at me. Am I wrong? I sit next to her in class and I regret that. What should I do now?

I have this pretty good friend. I am head over heels for him, not sure he knows I even have feelings for him. I've tried to sort of hide it. A couple days ago, he wrote me out of the blue (he's never written me first, mind you) with a book recommendation. He said he heard about it on the radio and thought I might like it and he gave a REALLY brief description of the book. I asked him if they mentioned the offer because I found several books with a similar title, but I'm not sure which it is. He read it, didn't reply and even posted on FB, but still didn't reply. A few hours later, I wrote him saying "you're terrible at replying :P " and said that if he could figure out who the book is by, I'll try to find a decently priced copy online. I said I was curious as to why he thinks I'd like it, though. He, again, read it and didn't reply, but he's posted on FB so I know he's been on. Why would he recommend something and then stop talking? lol *mentioned the author...sorry I wasn't thinking when I wrote this lol

So my best friend from high school has been my bff since freshman year of high school. Im a college freshman now, and we still keep in touch and call each other. I was reading a lot about what others say about their best friends from HS and they say that they dont really keep in touch with them anymore, which is sad bc i can t see myself NOT being friends with her. Im scared that when things get hectic during junior year of college or after, we won t be contacting each other anymore. so i guess my question is, did you stay close to ur high school bff in college? Do you think its possible for me to stay bffs with her?

I have 2 years of school left, and one of the things I want the most is just to have fun with friends and have classes together. In my school, there are 150 people per grade, each class has around 25 people. there are 9 periods per day. For the past three years, my two best friends and I have a flat out ZERO classes together. We even picked the same electives but still got ABSOLUTELY NO CLASSES together. how is this even possible? 27 classes total, and zero had my friends when there is more than a 1/3 chance for me to be in any given class with one of them. theoretically, we should have had about 3 classes together per year. the reality? zero. HOW

I lost my best friend, its kind of a long story, lets just say she will never be my FRIEND again and it was my fault. . She was like my sister, I can't even explain how much she meant to me. We were inseperable , all of our friends were jealous sometimes because of what a good relationship we had. Now its all over. And I feel like I have no one to talk too anymore. Whenever I see something I always think of telling her, but I cant. I feel like everyone has their own best friend and I'm just kind of alone. Everyone knows the situation I'm in, but in front of people I pretend I'm fine but even when I'm surrounded by people I feel lonely. When I'm alone I just feel sad. It's been 5 long months since we stopped being friends and I dont know what to do. The worst part is, even though we were bestfriends, I keep wondering if she ever misses me... I feel like im in hell, she blocked my Facebook and my phone. She knew my past and accepted me the way I am.....please help!?!?! This hurts !!!!!!

This is my first year of highschool and it's my third day. I haven't made ANY friends at all. There's a few nice people who talk to me for a few seconds, but then they go back to talking with friends. Everyone already has their friends already, and I'm just the awkward kid who came from a different middle school. I'm a total introvert and have anxiety, so high school has been terrible so far. All of my other friends have already made new friends. How do I make some friends? What do I chat about? I already know that I should join some clubs and etc., so please give me other tips besides that.

My very best friends since forever hate to party. They don't drink or have an interest in going to any high school parties with me. When I talk about wanting to go they seem to judge me and make me feel like I'm less than them for wanting to live up my youth. its almost to a point where I'd rather not tell them I'm going and hope they don't find out because I think it's tearing our group apart. What should I do?

How to make friends.. They're all cooler than me, and talk a lot about songs and stuff, which I NEVER listen to! Wtf do I talk about? I feel like I have nothing to contribute to the conversation...

So I'm kind of quiet and a observer. My co workers are complete opposite they are really blunt people. I'm just getting to know them. There's the one co worker who has her days where she wants to be nice and the next day she's a Evil witch and bullies me , the next minute miss bi-polar is telling me her personal life she went as far as saying she was a stripper and also how she sucks d and how one time she got an STD. I don't really care that she reveals all that I'm so chill and laid back I don't judge people. But honestly sometimes I wonder why she tells me all this personal information that's stuff you keep to your damn self. Why could this be ?

I'm always the third wheel when it's more then just one other person with me even if it's friends or family I get ignored, when it's one other person it's fine though I don't have friends anymore because that's one of the reason I have my best child hood friend but she's in a different state, I stop talking to people when they treat me like that because they would hate it if I did it to them I know cause I have a few times they actually said something about it. It just makes me feel so insecure and makes me wonder what's so better about the other person then me? Not that I'm better then them I know I'm not but it hurts. Some wondered why I stopped talking to them after they treat me like that multiple times I still didn't talk to them they'd probably do it again.

girls are such whores, they start having sex almost the minute they hit puberty. they have no trouble finding a partner in high school 'cause there's always a dude waiting to do them the honors. but guys have a much harder time finding a sex partner in high school. chicks are so picky, they only go for the tall athletes. most dudes don't fit the bill and get left out. it's usually just two or three dudes in the school the chicks go for, and there banging every chick in the school, while the other dudes are left high and dry.

Meaning do you actually care about or what happens to your best friends? What's the difference in feelings between a strong friendship and romantic love? Is the difference only sex? Physical atttaction? What's really the difference?

I am a freshman in high school (girl). I'm not into all of the drama; i just have a small little nice friend group that i always hang out with. Well, this year there is a girl that has been trying to hang out with us. First, she invited herself to spend the night at my house. I didn't really know the deal with her because I didnt know her, but she was sooo annoying at my house. She was very greedy; she had my parents pay for every activity she asked to do (it costed about $150 for every activity she wanted to do). Now, she is VERY clingy and she texts and calls me at least ten times every day. She's getting on mine and my friends' nerves so bad, but I don't want to just exterminate her completely because that would be mean. The thing is though, her and her mother have been mean to my other friend before (I'm not going to get into that) but she hasn't personally done anything mean to me so I can't do anything about that. But, my friends and i do not always want to hang out with this clingy, annoying, greedy person. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Thanks!

and people respected people they have now since sweept under the rug. I just wished they followed through, learned to help everybody not just people passing The Steam tests, instead of scapegoating me. They are just so lost in their own egos to care what others are going though or being considerate of others.

I'm a senior this year at my university (2nd year here though), and I decided to go with a dorm again since I cannot afford renting an apartment. Anyways, last year I also had a roommate and it did not go well and she eventually moved out after the first semester to her sorority she joined. So spring semester I had the room all to myself and I loved it. Now I initially wanted to get a single, but apparently I could buy a double off as a single so I was stuck with a double. Now, I really just can't deal with a roommate. She intrudes me space, constantly talking to me, her boyfriend has spent the night and I'm trying to be nice and quiet but this is really annoying me. She's two years younger too, so our classes/schedules are way off and different. What do I do? I feel so unhappy with my living situation I haven't seen any of my friends because I don't want them to see me so unhappy. I'm just unhappy.

My (ex) friend and I got into a fight last year and now every time I see her she keeps staring at me. She stares at me all the time, my other friends notice it too. She moved lunch tables (she used to sit on the other side of the cafeteria) just to sit at the lunch table next to me (so now we basically sit back to back). Last year during the fight (which btw she started by saying that she didn't want to be my friend anymore, and then apologized acted and sad she wanted to be my friend again the next day) I made it clear that I don't won't to be her friend anymore but she doesn't seem to get the memo. I forgave her but I still don't want to be her friend. We are in high school. Help?

I'm a guy and she's like a sister to me, but I'm not sure what to buy her..

So.. I had this best friend for about 3 years. We were really close and did a lot together. She seemed to really care about me and all that but about 5 months ago we stopped being friends bc I got mad at her (she like told a secret and twisted it around and made me sound like the bad guy) and about a couple weeks later I asked her if we were good and she told me it s best for us to just not be friends. Still to this day I keep having dreams where we become friends again and then waking up sad because we aren t. I keep thinking about the situation in my spare time and it s tearing me up and like on top of that I already have depression and this just makes it worse ig. I just wish me and her were friends again. It sucks seeing someone you used to be so close with, and walking right by them like yall never met.. why am i still sad over this.

im serious ive been in this high school 2 days and so far the two people who approached me and tried to be friends have told me about their kinks before the days end. and i dont mean like "i like to be tied up!" i mean WEIRD ****. LIKE WEIRD WEIRD. do teenagers just... do that with eachother i really dont understand? like i get locker room talk but this is some seriously strange ****. for reference both kids have been girls too. theyre not even into me that way this was just casual discussion for them. i dont even care if one of them stumbles across this ones creepy and the other makes me cringe to hell and back im just too polite to give them **** about it up front

My friend and I had decided to go to a theme park for my birthday but we ended up not going because he didn't have enough money to pay for us both. His friend was supposed to get him tickets at half priced but he never did ..So I asked him would he still want to go If I paid and he said "it's up to me" but I said it was up to him as well because I don't want to go alone

I've been bestfriends with this girl since kindergarten we went to different school 2-5th grade but 6-10th grade we've been going to the same school, eating lunch together, hanging out alot, sometimes things are good but most of the time she makes me feel so stupid and I get so angry inside. Even her parents will say she bosses me around and is mean to me. She is so controlling and I don't know what to do, she's one of my only good friends, in getting tired of being belittled, I've tried telling her this but it never changes. My sister said just stop being friends with her but its not that simple.

When i'm with my friend she is super nice and everything, its just when she talks sometimes it sounds like she might be nervous or something. I don't know if its just the way she talks, or if she is actually just a little nervous sometimes, or if she is faking it and just doesn't totally want to be with me and isn't exactly hiding it. She gives me all these really nice passionate hugs and stuff though which makes me think not. She really seems to enjoy being with me and I love her its just idk if its mixed signals with the way she says somethings, she acts like she likes it though :D Just any thoughts opinions would be great!

I've been at a low place in my life and I'm just not doing too great.. I have a special friend, she and I have a special bond.. my friend has noticed and has checked up on me a lot lately because of how I've been, I cried to her on the phone the other day as I wasn't doing great at all. She's helped me through a lot of dark times.. on the phone she was there for me, helping me tak through stuff but she told me she's monitoring me and watching what I post and making sure I'm fine or not doing anything dumb. She even put me in check the other day (got after me) for considering something bad. She even told me if things got worse she'd call my mom.. She's super caring to me but we have a close bond for such different ages but why is she all over me? I'm 19 and she's 60, we're very close friends.. like I had said, she's very concerned. She said I was like her own kid (she has no kids) and even threatens to drive all the way over here (my college) and whip my butt. Why is she so worried? And why would she just call my mom? She even gave me her address if I needed anything (when I am around her town) to go by whenever I needed to..

So for a good while maybe 2 or 3 semesters I assumed me and this girl a co-worker were somewhat friends. We had each other's contact information as well. I don't see her always but by the end of last semester at work because we work at school, she doesn't talk to me nor look at me if she happens to say hi. With another worker she smiles and is interested in talking to him. Around that time I asked a simple question in a text and she never replied, by the next day she seemed like she kinda knew.. but didn't bring it up, in other words she deleted my number. As a borderline personality i feel quite hurt, that maybe she doesn't like me anymore. What do I do? Did nothing wrong. Should I ignore her as well? Should I be positive to her just like I am with everyone else? Do i not care? How should I act towards her?

My bestfriend and I are extremely close, we talk about everything, we've been through it all with each other.. 7 years ago her boyfriend committed suicide, it was extremely hard on her. She's talked to me about it a lot, I'm going through the same thing now, except my friend committed suicide... I want to ask my bestfriend how she could handle the pain and moving on after his passing, just because I'm struggling with my friends suicide, but I'm afraid to ask her.. we always ask each other questions but would I be bad for asking her how she could handle it or how she stayed strong after his passing? I want to ask but like I said, I'm afraid. I don't want to ask a a bad time. I always send random messages asking for advice about things but this is different. Do you think she'd be mad for asking?

I am restoring a bike for myself, not for profit. It is from the 50's, it's a western flyer sonic. It has dented fenders and frame and tank (I'm sure I can just hammer them or use putty). I plan on repairing the bike to a gross white and red. It has some rust spots. Needs new white wall balloon tires, hoping I can find vintage headlight for it, needs pedals, needs racks on it and needs a new seat. Hopefully I can repair or replace everything with original parts. Just not sure what to do first or really how to. I guess mainly what to start on with the body. Remove the dents and rust first and remove the paint, should I just replace the fenders instead of trying to get dents out, I have no idea.

This dude in my class told me " I think you're nice" last class. I saw him yesterday and seemed like he was running around looking for me. He also told me " What's up? See you in class" What's going on? Are we together? Did he tell me he likes me? So why did he say see you in class? Thanks!

My roommate moved in 8 days ago. Me and my boyfriend let him move in because he needed a place and we don't really know him but he is only paying 400$ for his own room and bathroom which is great in utah especially on a golf course and where he has access to a pool and hot tub. I feel like me and my boyfriend have been nice, and I clean the house, except I have a full time job and I'm not great at keeping up with the dishes so I haven't done them in about a week I put them in the sink and they kind of have piled up and I understand anyone would be annoyed by that. My roommate went to use the sink and all the dishes were in the way and I could hear him kind of complaining and moving the dishes it almost sounded like a dish could break and I went down and seen that he had kind of scattered them all over both side of the bar and there was water and old food on their and he just left it all, it was right after I obviously cleaned the counter and I had to clean again. I felt like it was super disrespectful and like he done it cause he was mad. I know I need to do the dishes but was he disrespectful or was it my fault?

Okay so there's this boy I like and he knows I like him etc and we hang out quite often and when we hang out what usually happens is he puts on his story on snapchat saying "who's out" and he sends it to me and his streaks and if I'm free I will usually text him saying that I'm out but anyway if I'm not free I will just ignore his story because I'm not free so I can't go out. But isn't me seeing his story of "who's out" and me ignoring it show that I can't hang out? Because then he texted me saying "are you out? X" and idk I'm just confused because I'm obviously not because I ignored his snapchat. Does he just want to hang out with me really bad? What do you think? Thanks xxx

I was having trouble in my high school math class. My classmate Jim told me his mom was a engineer and she could help me understand my math problems. He said "come home and let her help you". At his house he introduced me to his mom. OH MY GOD. She was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life. Gorgeous face, figure to die for. She had on a sweater that showed her 36Gs (my guess). She was a great tutor. She really knew her math. However it took ALL of my will power to keep my mind on math and not to get a b0ner when she was tutoring me. That would have been a DISASTER and the most embarrassing thing EVER to happen to me and the end of my friendship with Jim. Lucky for me it did not happen. After tutoring me she gave me and Jim a piece of homemade pie and ice cream. Was she ever a nice person. If there ever was a trophy wife, she would be it. I told Jim he was very lucky to have such a beautiful mom. He said I never noticed his mom was beautiful. How do you think it is possible that a teenage guy like me would not know his mom is so beautiful?

I used to chat on a small forum website. This place had rules that made me feel safe and happy there. You weren't allowed to pressure others into telling you something, you weren't allowed to insult others...it was like a haven. Well, that all changed when we moved to an app that was like a forum and a chat room fused together. Sure, I like the instant replies, but there are no rules, the moderator doesn't do much, and the people there before we came just aren't as nice. I like this, but it makes me feel stressed and uncomfortable. I wish I could say I wanted to move back to the forums, but I know we wouldn't....not to mention I'd kind of miss this new app we're using. I don't know whether I'm happy with it or not. I've already told them my first name on the new app, but none of them said anything about it, except for one guy who thought it might not be real thought it might be a nickname. Still, I don know who saw it and what they thought of it. Even though it's just my first name, it still makes me stressed every time I think of it.(I later learned that the guy who thought my name was fake was known for being aggressive to people he didn't know well sometimes and was autistic.) So I've come to yahoo answers to look for advice(and possibly comfort from that advice) and ideas for what move to make next.

C'è un ragazzo a cui ho fatto capire tramite segnali che mi piace e lui in qualche modo ha ricambiato ma una cosa è cambiata... le nostre conversazioni! Sono diventate più distaccate, quasi fredde e prima erano molto fluide e parlavamo senza intoppi. Ieri gli ho scritto (ma prima si faceva sentire anche lui, ma comunque la conversazione cadeva perché era troppo meccanica) e si è come mostrato felice, gli faceva piacere che io gli abbia scritto.. ma la conversazione dopo un po' scema di brutto e non so come andare avanti.. Poi per una settimana non si è manco fatto sentire.. alcuni amici mi dicono che non l'abbia fatto perché voleva vedere se io cedevo oppure voleva vedere quanto fossi interessata, ma a me qualcosa continua a dirmi che non è poi chissà che interessato (allora cosa mi fai capire il contrario, penso). Poi è da 2 settimane che è ritornato dalle vacanze e ancora non mi ha chiesto di vederci, boh. Devo mollare tutto?

I just started 8th grade today. Last year I really only had one or two friends, but at the end of the year and over the summer I reached out to more people and got myself into a big friend group. I literally have no classes with any of my friends and I'm devastated. To make things worse, I met two girls who were new to the school, we clicked pretty well, and I have no classes with them either. During lunch, I arrived a little bit late due to locker troubles, and there were no seats. Two of my friends were sitting at a table with boys because they had no choice, and other friends were scattered. I was able to pull over chairs for me and the two new girls but it was a very tight squeeze. i went to speak to a teacher about it but she told me to figure it out and sit down. Also, a lot of the people in my classes are people I really don't like or people who don't like me. (There's a lot of them, I'm really unpopular and a loser) Thanks if you read all this, and what should I do?

Basically we had plans to go to this concert for 2 weeks. He bought the tickets and I told him Id buy them both for us. everything was fine, up until the very day before the concert he tells me hes " leaving state " and cant go. Im stuck now with two tickets I cant do anything with. He probably expects me to buy both, but he bailed on me. Do I have the right to be ticked? Should I pay? Advice please about friends.

My coworker and I joke around a lot since we both have a very crude and dry sense of humor. I had said something and he responded with "blow me" and I just played along and said sure but I was very sarcastic and joking around. But the whole night he kept bringing it up saying "so about that *******" and as we were leaving he asked about it again. He made it sound like he was joking but I m not to sure, but I am an oblivious person so... He s asked "sexual" questions before too. Like what I m into, if I have any fetishes what are they, my "go-to" porn, etc. it doesn t make me uncomfortable in any way since I m an open person, but it feels like he s been hinting more and more about certain things. He s always been very nice to me and we get along great. Lately he s been complimenting me a lot and helping me with work when I don t even need help. im not exactly sure why he does it lol

(If you saw my last question, this is one of those friends.) We're internet friends and we play video games together and stuff. Whenever he has to go, I feel myself getting annoyed and I start crying. I have too many bad experiences with losing friends, and I wonder if it's connected to that. Maybe it's something emotional. I don't know. But I hate doing it because I've noticed that I get more passive-aggressive each time, I feel like he knows but doesn't say anything, and it just makes me feel stupid.

My older sister let me on here to ask as she didnt want to explain how magic works to me. I wish I could ride on a balloon (to see a cloud up close) I wish I could get one of those cool birthday cards like one of those my friend made for me so I could give it to my sister. I wish Sharkbait, my goldfish would come back to life I wish I had a dragon that flew faster than the concord and breathed fire as hot as the sun I wish I had a tiger I wish I had 100 ponies I wish I had the worlds fastest car I wish I could master all forms of dance I wish I had a moon rock I wish I had a boatload of cookies I wish I had a seashell adorned jewelry box (they're expensive on etsy and I want it as a gift for my sisters birthday) I wish I could go to Iowa (I want to see a farm) I wish I had the finest dresses in all the world I wish the school cafeteria food was better How could I make these wishes come true? I need to know how to make each come true by really soon?

My own ONLY friends 3rd wheel me...like after school they go to taco bell and McDonald's a lot and don't tell me....like I'm pretty sure I'm not boring..and I love to have fun. They both sit next to each other during class and laugh when I don't have anywhere to sit😭 and they don't like to include me conversations like wow..and I don't know how to make new friends😭 I'm a 10th grader and my old friends have different class than me..WHAT DO I DO

Me and my 3 best friends have always been inseparable but one day they started asking distant. When I asked them what I did they all ganged up on me and told me for hours how I'm am the worlds worst friend. I have spent so much money and time trying to be a good friend. We haven't spoke since the fight, but they have been doing super mean things to me and basically harassing me. I don't know what to do (there is no proof of them harassing me)

I'm a guy and there's this girl in my college class who I've never talked to but want to become closer with. I also want someone to study calc with. I sit next to her in class but don't really see her any other time. I'm not sure about asking to hang because it's college, so it's quite busy. That's why I want to ask her if she could be my study buddy so that it's kinda like hanging but we're doing our calc homework. Just how can I ask her?

I moved far away this year and left all my friends i had for years now and had all the way from kindergarten. Everyine in my new school seems to be friends with each other or have already made their friend group, but i know nobody. i want to make friends, but i don t know how

My guy friend and I were just hanging out having a good day at the beach until we went to find a place to sit so we could smoke and then once we sat down I asked him like where's my stuff to smoke, and he told me he didn't really feel like smoking cause there was kids and people could still see us and said that it was kind of illegal to smoke on the beach and I snapped at him and said well so is doing drugs and then I noticed his tone changed after that. he became all silence and I asked him like what's wrong and he said nothing and I let it slide and then I asked him again and he just straight up said you're just mean and unconsidered and that moment I was so upset and hurt and wanted to cry I asked him like why and he went just things you say and I told him that I was trying to make a valid point and while driving back he kept on asking if I was okay or if i sad and how he didn't mean it and that I was the nicest person he's ever met that's why he likes me and said things like don't let people like him bring me down and that he was sorry he snapped and that he didn't mean to say in it a mean why and how he was just thinking about the good times we had then asked if we could still go to a park. pretty much from there we haven't gotten along and his friend told me that he must of been really upset or hurt to ignore me/avoid me and after that I realized how sad he sounded so I don't know if I should still apology because we haven't talked in like weeks...

I just started 8th grade today. Last year I really only had one or two friends, but at the end of the year and over the summer I reached out to more people and got myself into a big friend group. I literally have no classes with any of my friends and I'm devastated. To make things worse, I met two girls who were new to the school, we clicked pretty well, and I have no classes with them either. During lunch, I arrived a little bit late due to locker troubles, and there were no seats. Two of my friends were sitting at a table with boys because they had no choice, and other friends were scattered. I was able to pull over chairs for me and the two new girls but it was a very tight squeeze. i went to speak to a teacher about it but she told me to figure it out and sit down. Also, a lot of the people in my classes are people I really don't like or people who don't like me. (There's a lot of them, I'm really unpopular and a loser) Thanks if you read all this, and what should I do?

im 20 in two months. all my life I am shy, in school I never had friends I have never gone out with girlfriends. I'm a girl and working warehouse full of guys and few girls that gossip a lot. my only 2 close friends I made senior year moved far. my 2 close guy friends at work quit a long time ago. I see a psychologist & have tried many activities to make friends & its like I'm at the wrong place. I went a few days to my fashion design class I was gunna start at a comunity college & didn't feel excitement. many said they just want to learn to sew & thats it, no passions, goals, nothing. I attended a program and 3 classes ar fidm few years ago and loved it. but it was too much money & not good grades. I enjoy youtube and taking pics for my Instagram page. since was born I had selective mutism and loved art and creativity. it fuels my mind. I plan to quit soon and get a new job. feel lost and not myself, I like talkingalot but feel trapped and iv been rejected All my life , the girls have met are all bad people and to me, my only close friend is a guy that iv kissed many times, we like each other but we r super emotionaly close & he's special to me. I live with my mom, my brother is married and his bestfriend is his wife, my cousin doesn't like me and we have gotten in a fight cuz she has jealousy. she has many friends and is super sociable. I feel happier outside of school and need a new job to get a fresh start like a small salon but I dont feel happy with this school