So we sent out rsvp aug 26 for out oct 28th wedding with a deadline of oct 10th. Most of the people that were invited were church family but out of the 50 rsvp we sent we have only got 5 back. When should we expect to see more?

We are getting married in Vegas. The plan was an informal ceremony at a cheesy chapel by Elvis followed by dinner at a restaurant and club hopping in downtown freemont. We rented an airbnb with 6 beds and gave out beds on a fist come confirmation.(all guest are flying in) we have a lot more guest than we anticipated. We are at 30 ppl at the moment. What is the etiquette on alcohol at dinner? Is it tacky to ask for guest to purchase their own alcohol? Also the bar hopping idea came about when I thought we only had a party of 12. So now I m second guessing the bar hopping idea .

I'm engaged right now and trying to plan our wedding. It was fun and exciting at first. I paid a wedding planner and arranged the venue, tables and chairs, and many other things were in the works. I was planning on having it at my mom's house. It's on the river and has a gorgeous view. He said my mom was taking over the wedding. He didn't want a wedding there so I tried to think of other places that could work. It seems like every idea I had he wouldn't disagree with or would argue against it. I don't think he knows how hard it is to plan a wedding. He wasn't helping or coming up with any ideas while I was basically doing all the work. He was right though, my mother was a little too involved. But that's her personality and I have a choice whether to let her be involved or not. It's actually created some animosity between them. He thinks she is trying to take over the wedding and she thinks he's controlling and should let me do things more my way. Things are better now and they both have calm down but planning the wedding is still difficult. He doesn't seem to understand how special a wedding is to a bride. Little girls basically prepare for it their whole lives. Wedding details are an afterthought for most guys. They haven't been dreaming about it forever like women do. Is a wedding really about the bride? Should him being more involved with planning than most grooms bother me? If so how do I get him to actually help and not just belittle everything I'm trying to do?

I bought a wedding dress and my fiance ruined the experience. The first thing I said to him when I came home was "I just bought my wedding dress and I got a really good price!!!". The first thing he said to me was "You got ripped off!". I didn t want our wedding to break the bank, however I also wanted a beautiful dress. The place I went to buys out stores who have gone out of business. In turn they have dresses at exceptional low prices. It took hours trying on dresses wirh a friends of mine. I was very excited and tried to explain this to him but before I could finish even one sentence he cut me off with "You got ripped off!" I would say a couple words and again "You got ripped off!" Again and again I would try to finish a sentence and "You got ripped off!" Almost jokingly. He wouldn t listen to even one word of it and acted like it was no big deal. Yes most wedding dresses are rip offs. It s well known people take advantage of how much someone is willing to spend on their special day. All you have to do is mention wedding and venues, catering, decor, ect. practically double in price. But it is a special day for most girls and people take it very seriously. What he said and did ruined the experience for me. He doesn t think he did anything wrong and I can t convince him of what he did. He doesn t understand wedding dresses and how a wedding is about the bride. Can you be mad at someone for being naive?? Should I just try to let it go???