Sorry this is gonna be a long post... so me and my husband had a baby about 3 months ago, and I'm a stay at home mom while my husband works, anyways I spend a lot of time with our newest member so I know what she wants majority of the time (either held or a bottle) cause I'm home with her all d as y and up with her all night. Husband rarely takes care of her, we'll tonight he came with me to my league bowling, it was gonna be just me and the baby but he said that he would come and help with her. But then he leaves her with me sitting nearbye to go talk to some buddies at the other end of the bowling alley for almost the entire first two games, wich I was OK with at first but then got mad cause he said he would watch her while I bowl. If I had said anything he would've told me to have my teammates watch her whenever I got up from the table, but to me it's not their responsibility to watch our child. Well when he did watch her wich was maybe an hour if that she fussed and cried and he lost his temper with her. Then as we we're leaving he tells me that because of her he doesn't want another child. And he's known for a while that I've wanted 3 kids but I went down to two for him cause that's how many kids he originally wanted. Is it fair to me that he's being this way, or is he in the right?

What if your BF/Husband goes to them with his buddies.... issue? Or nah?

OK so me and my husband just had a baby about 3 months ago, so we are a bit tight on money ( with him being the only one working right now, and with me taking care of the baby per his demand.) Well yesterday night at my league bowling I borrowed $3.50 from a friend to get something to eat (I had been out all day at the hospital with my mom and had not eaten all day, cause like I said no money) and he starts berating me on borrowing money from said friend. Saying that we won t be able to pay her back etc... baisically making me feel bad fir borrowing the money, but I was literally starving by then. Well then tonight I was scrolling through hos messages and he was telling one of his buddies where he s been to eat for lunch this week...I wouldn t be as upset about this if we didn t have anything for him to take for lunch, but the fact that we do is upsetting.. so my question is did he have the right to berate me or do I have the right to be mad at him?

My husband and I have been married for almost a year and before that we dated for 2 years and we hardly ever fought when we dated. I mean we fought but it wasn't nearly as bad as it is now. We also didn't live together before we got married although we did spend a lot of time at each other's apartments but the difference between then and now was that when one of us got sick of the other one we just went home but now that's not an option and it's like everything he does is getting on my nerves. I really want it to work out but we are constantly fighting over nothing and I just don't get it or know what to do anymore? Is it just not working out or is this how marriage works?

My nephew Jonathan is four and likes to ask questions and well is always curious. Asks everyone what they are doing and why? He is cute! His Mother lectured him about being "so nosy" after what happen at his friend Timmy's house. Timmy is also the same age and they go to preschool together. Timmy's big sister Emma is eight and after she got home from school she got a spanking. He seen Emma with their Dad and she had her skirt off so he went to investigate. . She was flat across her Dad;s lap getting her panty spanked when he went in the room. Jonathan asked them what are you doing? Being that Emma got embarrassed once when Jonny seen her underpants and noticed they were nylon and different then his. I am sure that Emma felt embarrassed for a four year old to see her white panties while she was getting a spanking. Should his Mom get upset with him cause he is only curious?

Hi! My husband and I have been married for 8 years and have 3 kids, 8, 6, and 17 months. We both work full time and live a lifestyle that requires both of our incomes at this time. My husband is absolutely miserable at his job and is ready to leave. He has just over 7 years in at his job and will be fully vested in a pension plan at 10 years. I should mention that if he leaves before the 10 years, he looses the entire pension - which would be over $250,000. We have been on a plan that he would work at this job until he gets vested in his pension and then he could make a career change and I would fully support that move. We have been budgeting to prepare for this change in 3 years. My husband has been offered a job as a financial representative that is all based on sales. While I think he would do great at this job, I don't think it's time for the change right now. He will be giving up his nice salary (which we need) and starting at nothing. The company has told him to plan on not making much for the first few years in this new job. What do I do? Do I support the change in hopes that it makes him happy? Or do I insist we stay on our 3 year plan? Help!!

My mom is annoying me with her mental estate that's not stable and i mean shes bipolar and quite handful, i am 17 and i wish to go live with my father, he is financially stable and such apart from my mother , there is no file for custody or legal separation of them andthey are still married.

My husband gets soft while having sex but can masturbate with no problem to homemade sex videos of us. (But my face is never shown in said videos). I need honest answers from men. We had sex just last night. We are both 27 years old. This happens about 80% of the time we have sex. He has been going soft more frequently during sex but will masturbate fine.

I am posting this here because I am looking for mature answers. Long story short, I have been in college for few years, and every date I went on (5 of them) have been a total screw up. I have went on a date with five different women, and they all were one date, except one, which was 2 dates. And that's it. Now there is this new girl that likes me and I like her. How do I not ruin this up like the previous 5? Where should we hang out? I will definitely not take her to lunch, because I took the last 5 girls to lunch, and they were all awkward, and I think that's why they all didn't work out. I can't screw this up like all the previous ones. So can someone give me advice and tell me what my next steps should be? I really don't want this quote to define me, "doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results"

From their previous relationship.

So, I m trying to improve the sexual relatioship between my wife and me and I m just wondering if anyone has any advice. What works best for making your wife happy in the bed and what makes you happy? Basically, any input would be helpful. Not looking for too many details but just enough to make it work. Sorry, for the weird question guys but I m just hoping to gain a little insight.

My husband cheated on me I had caught himonline with other men. If I stay, I would live a secure life financially. We get along great but it is routine, more like best friends/roommates,no passion and sex once a month. My ex recently came back into my life; being support, I see a potential for a life of happiness/passion but the lifestyle would be mediocre and I don't think he has a retirement started. We didnt work out before because of his beliefs but has since changed his black&white ways

My husband and I have been married for almost two weeks. We meet last year off Craigslist. I really wasn't the marriage type of person but he convinced me that marriage is the ideal relationship. A day or two ago I saw a text from a woman saying "I'll be your trap queen and I'll work hard for you baby." Turns out, this woman is being prostituted by my husband. He's basically a pimp. He sent her a response back saying "I will rock you, we will rock you hard." I ended up leaving him and reported him to police. He's in jail now.

I know it's none my business i was just wondering. swinging orgy parties probably been around since the 50's 60's and 70's although people in those days where ''old fashion type'' i guess people in those days experimented back when women couldn't have options and men dominated over them.

I don't understand for years she's expressed she does not agree with me watching porn and i stopped for years till one day i looked in her browsing history and she watches porn on a regular bases so when i asked her about it she denied it and came up with some lame excuse now i don't have a problem with her watching porn i told her thats a turn on why not watch it together some times SHE REFUSED and said she looked at porn that one time which was obviously a lie because over time her browsing history is either deleted or filled with porn lol i dont know what to think about this

Whenever she gets mad she'll go on this rant of things I don't do around the house. First here is what I do, I do laundry, dishes I cook us dinner everyday. I bring out trash I walk the dog i clean up after the cats. Whenever she gets mad she'll tell me I don't do dishes enough or laundry. She never takes fault for her own things, instead when she does something wrong and I tell her that's not cool you acted like that or said that she'll somehow turn it around on me and make me feel guilty. I have not once seen her take fault for her own actions in forever but yet she always wants to point out all the little things I do wrong. When I know I do a lot around the house but in her head I do not enough. It's frustrating and confusing how she can actually think this, then a day or 2 later she'll apologize for the way she acted then it starts all over again, i'm a terrible lazy person again until she has time to think about it again. It's a pattern and i'm not sure what to do, I already have really bad anxiety and she intensifies it x10

In a marriage there often becomes disagreements and arguments. During those heated mlnents one may talk to thief family about the disagreement between the wife:husband during this time a picture begins to get painted a picture that later can not be erased! One spouse refuses to talk to family about the issues knowing all too well what comes out of this by doing so! Months later after a spouse continues to tell his family problems with in the marriage it escalates to his parents kicking the wife out of the house and gives him an ultimate divorce her or you to will have to move! As he leads the wife to believe that he didn't marry her only to be divorced from her 2 years later she continued to live outside of the house spends the night with him and believes that they can salvage the marriage if they both work kn the issues at hand. She makes time for him for them to go fishing taking time off of work to do so! She has back issues takes a pain pill in the am hours after she gets off work asking the husband to stop by and wake her telling him where the key is. Knowing that the pain pill will knock her out. She awakes at 7pm and calls the husband who is fishing and never stopped by to wake her but instead went to his buddies picked him up and took him fishing! The wife feeling hurt that after she made the plans and took time off work to spend time with him feels he blew her off!! My question is if he tells the wife he loves her who is more important the wife or parents?

with other females on Social Media websites? Or do you trust your husband

Whenever she gets mad she'll go on this rant of things I don't do around the house. First here is what I do, I do laundry, dishes I cook us dinner everyday. I bring out trash I walk the dog i clean up after the cats. Whenever she gets mad she'll tell me I don't do dishes enough or laundry. She never takes fault for her own things, instead when she does something wrong and I tell her that's not cool you acted like that or said that she'll somehow turn it around on me and make me feel guilty. I have not once seen her take fault for her own actions in forever but yet she always wants to point out all the little things I do wrong. When I know I do a lot around the house but in her head I do not enough. It's frustrating and confusing how she can actually think this, then a day or 2 later she'll apologize for the way she acted then it starts all over again, i'm a terrible lazy person again until she has time to think about it again. It's a pattern and i'm not sure what to do, I already have really bad anxiety and she intensifies it x10.

Is it possible that one can marry their 2nd love and be in divorced; knowing that that the 1st breakup was because you messed up.

I'm going on second week but I really need it ASAP. I got married In this small office and cute room. We filled out the paper work, married and did the mini wedding which was about 40minutes. The lady told me that it will take 6-8 weeks to receive our certified marriage license and I was pretty shock of how long it may take because we really needed asap because my husband is in the military overseas and I wanted to get my ID, DEERS, tricare and move overseas with him(this long distance really sucks) how was everyone experience and how long did it take? Sorry I meant the "certified marriage certificate"

Hello everone im feeling really sad today. my husband always threatens me to leave me when kids are grown it happens everytime we fight or when we argue... but now im starting to think is something that he feels and something he has in mind since 2011 is been years since his been threaten me i honestly dont know what to do or say at this point it bothers me so much...

Two friends, one male and one female. Male is married, female is single. Female has feelings for male, but keeps them in check. Male either doesn't know female has feelings for him or he hides the fact that he knows. At what point does a friendship become an emotional affair?

We have been divorced for 3 years and have a son together .He recently started showing he cared about being in his sons life. I never took him to court nor spoke ill about him.He was even nice to me but now he is being spiteful out of nowhere .He is playing manipulative games and being disrespectful to me just like he used to be.What could trigger this when he was acting so nice a few weeks ago ?I let him take my son during the weekends and now he's acting differently .Im confused !

Will you let your husband go to work or prefer that he takes a day off to remain with you at home cuddling, kissing and having romantic time with each other:)

Good evening ladies and and gentlemen ....just came back from my air force school reunion......i am the only bachelor left from the 1992 batch but what i find so disgusting is that married male or females have a tendency to seek distraction ....what the hell is going on here with these assholes ???? If i had a wife i would bang her till eternity !!!!