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My husband and I recently purchased a house (yay) after living in an apartment the past few years and for some reason it has sent my M-I-L into a rage, constantly bother my husband and I about when we're going to have kids. I've told her, I don't want them at this time, nor in the foreseeable future. I want to go back to school, get my career on track and just focus on me and my husband for a while - doesn't hurt to have education or career experience backing you either. This was her career basically (not knocking it at all, everyone defines success differently), but now she's 53, lives in low income housing, won't get a job & never went back to work after her children weren't small anymore, and blames the world for everything wrong with her life. I do NOT want this for myself, and the idea of cleaning noses and diapers isn't my cup of tea. She called my husband today WHILE HE WAS AT WORK just to ask him when we were going to give her grand babies. He said he didn't want any children and he said that she said (and I quote), "Hmmph...You two are so selfish! If you don't give me grandbabies I know Jason won't (her other son). You and Nyleta need to get to it and work on having some babies." She has become so pushy about it latelh. I don't know how much longer I can't take it before I snap. I'm for sure not putting my life on hold and making that big of a life decision after just turning 24 years old only to give her what she wants. Doesn't SHE seem to be the selfish one?

I married my wife when I was 22. She was 20. She's the only woman I've ever been with. When I see my friends and all the fun they're having, I'm kinda jealous. I feel like I'm an old man now. With kids and all their problems.

Is marrying rich worth it? Does it make you feel guilty or act fake to please your spouse who has the upper hand, or does it enable you more opportunities and power than if you had married someone your equal? Should you marry a partner who is pretty equal to you in terms of education and employment, or someone who has a trust fund or comes from a family with money, but inherits more power than you since you come from a more middle-class background? Personal experiences and stories welcome.

I have my son a UTMA and a 529 plan. One account is for retirement and one account is for education. Both earn interest. I want to continue transferring money into these accounts; About $5000 per year extra. The funds will not be used for martial reasons. It will be solely for my son. If I were to get a divorce, would the court consider that marital property? I don't think so and I also think that even if I were to be a joint owner on the account, the funds are a gift to my son and only my son and cannot be considered marital property. If anything I'd want keep control of his account. My wife didn't support the idea but she's not against it so I feel as if it's my thing for my son and should have nothing to do with my spouse.

My fiance and I have been in a relationship for three years. This last year has been really rocky. He was in an accident and ending up getting 30,000$ from a lawsuit. Instead of saving the money or at least just putting a few thousands in savings he uses half of it on a down payment two seated corvette after we had just had a baby 5 months prior. That car put us in a world of trouble. After getting it.. We've almost been evicted from our place three times. Last month he lost his job so I've been paying for everything and all of the bills since. He's been faithful and a good man up until this point. Should I still give the marriage a chance?

How can I tell how many quarters of work history ex has? Do my over 10 years of work credit while we were married count towards her credits?

My wife and I are disabled with bipolar disorder and have collected social security for 14 or more years. Because I made a lot of money in my working career, I make a pretty decent disability check and was able to buy a house 7 years ago. Well my house is a newer 4 bedroom house and its just my wife and I, so we thought to earn a little Vegas and Road Trip money we should rent a room out. Even though I'm only 40, I have been telling people I'm retired and that I used to work in IT. I don't tell them I have a diagnosis. My diagnosis hasn't been in issue in many many years and is well controlled with medication and a stress free life. My wife has also been well controlled and stable for 6 years. Am I wrong not to disclose that my source of income is social security disability? Is it wrong to say I'm retired? Is it wrong not to disclose that we are technically mentally ill, though you wouldn't ever know it?

So my husband and I have been together for 5 years now. He tells me anything and everything that goes on around his job, including a couple of things about a girl who was recently hired. She's been there for about 3 months now but since the moment she met my husband, she wont leave him alone. She knows hes married, with 2 kids and he has made it clear he wants nothing more than being friends but nothing is stopping her. My husband sometimes works late shift, where he doesnt get off until sround 10 pm. This girl gets off like at 8, waits for him, and begs for a ride. Says no one can take her home. She will message him all the time, ask for favors, has even asked for money although of course my husband said no. Everyone actually just pitys her, her mother had apparently kicked her out so she was living with her now ex boyfriend. Says she has no family and her siblings apparently hate her. I plan on confronting her, no yelling, hitting, etc. just a civilized conversation but ive never been in a situation like this. What do I say to her? According to my husband and several other friends at my husbands job, all she does is talk about my man. How great he is, and nice when in reality my husband and I were just feeling sorry for her. We understand life can be hard sometimes but sje began to take advantage and assumes im an idiot who wont stand up for myself. So. Back to my question. What is needed to be said, like a real woman, to scare this girl away?

My mother-in-law keeps my husband informed on his ex-wife life in front of me and our kids. He has told her to stop but she keeps doing it. They had no kids -weren't even married a year.

What do I do? My family ignores e, and says they are doing it for my well being

I moved out a month ago today, married for 6 years during those years I found out she cheat it on me once and in another occasion she exchanged inappropriate pictures with a guy while she was gone in a business trip, any ways I do know I have to stop perusing someone or something that is faithful and happy one month then once things in the marriage get bore or flat, first thing she does is reach to her exes for validation or just for her to make her feel better. She is 36 years old and I really will like to know why she behaves like that? It is like it doesn't matter what I do it will never ever be enough and sooner or later she will contacting other guys for attention. I am done with her and I am very sorry I wasted 7 years of my life. My question any one can give me an educated answer or reason why a 36 years old woman act like this?

I have been dealing with anxiety and depression ever since i joined the military. I've been married for 2 years and been with my husband for almost 4 years. Many time i get into my bubble where i question everything. I question if im worthy of being with my husband. If he really loves me, if im good enough at my job. I cant even communicate with people because of it. I over analyze everything. I have went to doctors in the past to get help and I also made progress. My deal is my husband doesnt get it. And that puts a stressful situation on me. Everytime I try to explain to him exactly how it feels, and whats going on, he gets very passive and says things like "Well dont think like that" or "That is stupid". Its getting to the point to where i cant talk to him about anything, then the anxiety and depression takes over and I start to push him away. I dont know what to do from here, I do love my husband and my marriage. Any tips or anything?

Husband was kicked out on June 2016. Wife moves out of rental May 2017. Husband was never offered a final walk through or told about repairs needed to rental house. Wife claims she paid 1,100.00 in repairs and wants reimbursement but will not provide proof to Husband. What should he do?

I found out my husband has been sending his mom money regularly. He wasn't exactly hiding it, but it wasn't discussed with me and we've been having issues where I haven't received gifts and had to get a second job to help cover the bills. Even though I work, my parents are fairly well off and I suppose he and his mom know this. During an argument, he once mentioned his mom telling him not to buy me gifts as if she was giving him good advice. I don't have a problem with helping parents, but it seems expected and what he said made me think he was brought up to use his wife to benefit himself and his family, rather than creating a family with me and supporting us. I'm starting to feel some resentment for her/him now. Am I lacking some understanding of family dynamics, or is this a big red flag?

His love of hanging out with the boys and drinking all night almost every night, along with my Mom trying to firmly but gently tell me she saw him picking up another woman. (he said he was giving his friends gf a ride home...)

Example 1: Last year he decided he wanted a Harley, He had own them before but had to sell his last one off in the recession. I was supportive, we both saved and bought an Harley Davidson Superglide Custom. We plan to go to Sturgis next year...He told me yesterday, That he doesn't have fun on the bike...That it's just a mode of transportation...because he has to pay taxes on it.He says he only does bike trips for me. Example 2: He will volunteer to stop at the store on his way home..Then will yell at me because he had to stop at the store...But I am 3rd shift schedule, and he doesn't want me to go to the store at night, and he takes the car during the day.. Example 3: He will ask me where I want to go out to eat. I will make a few suggestions..He will get mad and claim I knew he didn't want that...But when I tell him to just pick, he says I can never make up my mind. Example 4: We used to go to Haunted houses. (Weird thing I like) Which just happens to fall around my birthday. He will go, and be a complete jerk the entire time, to me and my friends, Snapping at me, saying they are stupid, complains about the line, complains about the cold, or the cost and how they're not scary. Fine...He doesn't have to love everything I do. Simple solution would be, He does his own thing, or stays home and I will go with my friends.

I'm a married man. In the begining years of our marriage, I sometimes used to see or watch p_0_rn contents but soon I stopped doing so because I decided to fix my relation with my wife. We tried ways to improve our sexual affairs and we succeeded. I knew that I had a gorgeous and sexy wife and she was all there for me with love and real passion. 4 or 5 years passed & I never felt that I might need extra p_0_rny things and I did not repeat my bad behaviour, again. Last night, I was googling about some recent news about Asia and Google suggested an Asian Girl site amongst search results. I don't really know why but I did click on that. Not to mention it contains some n_u_de or half-n_u_de images, my wife knew about that and we had all these arguments. She's so sensitive about these things and she shouted, cried and became so sad & upset. I'm not a cheating man. I do love her and I cannot see her crying so sad. After an hour of complimenting & talking to her, she told me that she forgave me and we should forget and leave it behind. She told so but I know her. I know that I have broken her heart and she is so sad inside. I feel so bad and bitter inside because of that & I cannot forgive myself. What should I do to help both of us getting rid of this?!