My fiancée and I would like to get married but we don t want to have a wedding. We d like to just do paperwork and make our marriage official. We don t like to idea of having a ceremony and sharing our first kiss as a couple in front of other people. What are our options to get our marriage certificate? And, we live and will marry in Utah

I've been asked to be a bridesmaid for my sister in law at the beginning of July and I will have a 6-8 week old baby at the time. I'm not sure it's a good idea to be in the wedding with the responsibilities of breastfeeding a new baby but my inlaws did not like the idea of me attending as a guest instead of a bridesmaid. My hubby and 3 year old will also be in wedding as a groomsmen and ring bearer. Who's been a bridesmaid with a newborn? How did you know what size dress to order? What did you do with baby during ceremony and wedding party photos? Should I ask to bring a sitter? I love my inlaws dearly and want to do everything to support my sister in law on her special day!

My father will not be walking me down the aisle for various reasons, I'm not even sure if he will show up. I ve known and expected this for years but recently when I scheduled a time to try on dresses my mother came up with almost any and every excuse as to why she couldn't come. I gave her about 6 different days yo choose from and none of them worked for her apparently. When I asked when she could come she told me a Wednesday would be best. The bridal store is an hour and a half away and I work during the week so obviously this isn't going to work. She doesn't have a job but she volunteers a lot, but you would think with her first daughter getting married she would make it more of a priority/effort to come. Is it wrong to be frustrated with her? I gave her almost a months notice that I was going dress shopping and she still won't rearrange anything.