Made a great friend at. Social gathering and we were going ho meeting again somewhere she sent me a friend request minutes later with a long message how great it was meeting me and that we should meet once she is back from a short trip I too replied with the same fervour but also mentioned that I have toddler twins so going out depends totally on their naps or whether the dad is around to take care. She didn't reply after my message or followed up sonce 2 weeks. Did I give too much information or was it rude to tell her that I can step out of home only when all is in place at home? She doesn't have kids. Did I sound too busy? I really thought we could be great friends but Delong low thinking what did I do wrong? Did I write something wrong?

I m okay with riding my bus but this is a different bus and most people have their "unassigned assigned seats" you could say. My anxiety is pretty bad when it comes to this because my main problem is where will I sit. I have no friends who ride the bus. Especially in mornings (it s actually more packed in mornings than you d think) I m up at night thinking about this and i m just a mess. Any advice would be appreciated! I also go to a pretty..."ghetto" school and most people are stand-offish and rude. I m a pretty small girl so it s worrying to me. It s not like the first couple days of school where you can make friends.. it s in the middle-end where these friendships have already been made. I usually hate to sit in the front of the bus so i m aiming for the middle but even the middle is quite scary to me. When "my" seat got taken on my bus I just sat somewhere else but how will they react!! I ve ridden this bus before and everyone was upset people had stole there seats and were getting mad at us. (Not me in particular mostly people in the back who "took" their seats). Luckily I was friends with someone so I could sit with them. But we aren t close friends anymore so I don t know if I can! Also what if they don t come to school!! Where would I sit?? As I said before i m just a big ol mess :(. This was more of a vent than a question.. sorry! Also I apologize for how hard it is to read and my excessive use of quotation marks. I'm trying to punctuate it but at the same time rushing because my thoughts are getting scrambled.

I have a friend I met back in college and we were really good friends. Until now, I know I can count on her and she can count on me. But lately, I don't feel like just spending a lot of time with her like I used to. We do go to the same grad school and I know someday she'll be my colleague. Maybe I changed? Or she changed and I just can't deal with it? The question is, is it horrible of me to just cut her off my life? Not really ignore her ALL my life but more like dettaching.