My husband promises he will change. Pornography, gambling, lying... I caught him on a date with another woman several months ago. He's gone gambling several times since, looked at porn several times since. I have no hope he will not talk to other women again someday when he can't even stop the other things. He doesn't see anything wrong with gambling or pornography. He said today I am not a bad person and I am tired of you policing me then rubbed my back for a long time and acts like everything is fine. I never policed him until he went on a date with another woman and I caught him. He also said this is my life now having you monitor me. What about my life? I'm not perfect. I feel like there is no hope for me. I just get walked all over. I love him don't ask me why, I don't know. I can't even accidentally call him an idiot without him getting back at me by looking at porn and downloading gambling games on his phone. I'm not an idiot. I know I don't deserve this. Why is he so convinced I am the bad guy? He turned me this way. Why do I not want his problems out of my life when its causing me so much heartbreak? Yet I feel like I can't let him go. I love him more than he loves me, that I am sure. I am better off alone. Every man I have ever been with has an addiction of some kind. They act like I am so perfect because I am tall and pretty. Then they just tear me down. I am so unhappy right now I can't make anyone happy. What is wrong with me? Why do I torture myself.

My mother , who's 48 and divorced, seems to have a 'crush' on a neighbor.its not a crush but an obsessive delusion that has convinced her that this guy might want to actually be with. The thing is he's married but his wife has cheated him, but he's still with his current wife and hasn't shown any interest in my mother, he has even been hostile.I think my mom suffers from some pre-menopause mental condition that mixed with compulsive obsessive tendency have led her to act this way. What Soft way do I convince her that this can't be reality and that she should renounce? Cause she has even attacked a his wife once, because she blamed my mom for her family being destroyed( lie, she did it by herself no outside help) So???

Hey guys! So I absolutely love my boyfriend. He's fantastic in every way and I can see me spending my life with him. Except that he doesn't want to get married. We've been together about a year and a half now, living together for most of it and pretty much do everything a married couple does. We've even discussed kids and buying a house together, both of which he is ok with, with no coercion on my part. I know he's been engaged twice ( the first was killed by a drunk driver, sadly. The second cheated on him. He found out a few days after they were engaged and called it off). I understand his reservations due to past engagements, and am trying to find a way to get past it myself. I'm 25, he's 33, and I'm thinking this is about the time I want to settle down and start a family. That includes marriage. What are the legal perks to marriage vs living together? How did some of you ladies(or gents) get past your partner not wanting to tie the knot?

She acts tired when I ask for sex. She's always nagging me to shower too and I can't take it. She yells at me to take a shower and I start yelling at her back. It's winter and it's freezing outside. I shouldn't have to shower when it's cold out. That's for when it's warm and you actually sweat. What does she want me to do? Freeze to death? I don't think I'm being unreasonable. It's not like it's summer.

So my parents got divorce last year and told me I have to be whit him 3 times a day and whit my mom and now this year I decided I don t want to live whit him since I had a room at his house I moved my stuff back to my mom s The papers say he can t pay child support because they re sign already whit 3 day thing... I want money and even if I was living whit him he never had gave me money just payed my phone bill ECT Can I sue him or something he hasn t even provided money in me while I was living whit him I will rater make him pay me monthly than living whit him 3 times a week I m also 16... 17 in 4 days so i want him to pay for my child support before I m 18 cuz I know he s not gonna care and leave whit his ugly fat "wife" so now I want to take advantage of him for he can pay me

When I first met him and got butterflies around him, I had no idea he was married. I wasn't even sure I liked him because at first, we didn't really get along. However, like I said, I always got butterflies around him. Over time, my feelings for him became more and yes, I knew at this point that he was married. I am 26 and he's 25. I really like my job and can't imagine working anywhere else right now, although working around him gets to be difficult. I find myself getting angry with him over stupid things. For example, I worked on my birthday and he didn't wish me a "happy birthday" once while at work. He only wished it to me on Facebook, an hour after we had both left work. A few days ago, it was my coworker's birthday and he wished her a "happy birthday" in person. I am pretty sure he knows I dig him, so that was fairly irritating. Should I find a new job or should I just try to ignore my feelings and get the job done? He is very much in love with his wife. He talks about her all the time, she stops by, he posts lovey dovey crap about her on Facebook all the time, etc. Trust me, he's not going to cheat on her and I wouldn't want him to, anyway.