How many women have a wedding band they wear with their engagment ring and how many don't have a "wedding band"? Do you think it is necessary to have a band or it doesn't matter either way? -I'm having a hard time deciding if i want a band with my engagment ring or just my engagment ring for both(engagement & wedding ring).. any feed back with what some of your opinions would be appreciated. P.S. Sorry if my question is hard to understand.. I'm not sure what exactly the rings I'm talking about are generally called. Thanks in advance.

Will i be forced to make one ? I'm afraid to tell her no, but I have severe anxiety to the point where I will have a panic attack about this : ( I hate public speaking .. I failed speech because of my anxiety ! Will it be okay if I don't ?

Please read before commenting. I'm the bride and I have known my best friend for 6 years and suddenly she has became unreliable. She was my maid of honour but I asked her to step down as a bridesmaid as she was deciding who was day guests and night guests for my wedding and saying nasty things about some guests. She accepted to being a bridesmaid with my other close friend and my sister in law. I have recently just lost two close family members and my brother has fell ill since then too which she knows about. She agreed to go to a venue with me to pay the deposit as my groom working abroad at the moment however she didn't turn up. She hasn't responded to my texts (but has read them) and has hung up the phone when I have called. She has ignored me since I asked her if she was still ok to visit the venue with me and that was two weeks ago. I feel really let down and want to ask someone else to take her bridesmaid position. I feel in such a bad place at the moment. I have asked if everything is ok at home with her but still no response but she has been out partying at the weekends. I don't know what to do. Just looking for suggestions. Thanks