Family: Question: How do I get my mom to let me sleep naked and play with my penis?How do I get my dad to sleep naked with me and chill at home with me naked?

Question: How do I get my mom to let me sleep naked and play with my penis?How do I get my dad to sleep naked with me and chill at home with me naked?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 02:34 PM PST

I have another question: "How do I get my mom to let me lay down in my bad naked without covers and with my door shut?" I am a 13 year old guy and I have a younger sister. I really hate sleeping with clothes on and slept naked 4 nights in a row but then my mom caught me. And I have been dying to sleep naked with my dad and to chill at home naked with him. I really love playing with my penis but the other day my mom caught me playing with it and she yelled at me to stop but I can't stop because I love doing it!!!!! So I need help to get her to let me!!!! Help me!!!!

Question: Im 17 and I really want a baby?!?!?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 02:17 PM PST

I don't want to sound mad or stupid but I just really want a baby. It's constantly on my mind and it gets me so down if I see someone with one. 2 years ago my cousin's daughter got took off him for legal reasons and she now lives with her mum and it's impossible to see her until she's 16. I used to look after her a lot from about 3 weeks old. I was pretty much her mum till the age of 1. But after that I could no longer see her and my cousin gave me her baby clothes which I still have now. Having them and also the fear of her not remembering me when she turns 16 may be causing this feeling. But also 3 months ago my friend had a baby and to be very honest I'm really jealous. We're very close friends but I don't like going round to see them because of the baby. I've been feeling like this for a good year now but I'm really not financially ready or in a stable relationship to have a baby yet (even though I could be a single mum) I just want to find a way of stopping this feeling or distracting myself when I'm thinking about it. Any help I'm grateful for, thanks x

Question: Do your FAMILY MEMBERS MOVE OFTEN or have trouble paying bills?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 02:12 PM PST

FAMILY- it seems many families change where they live, move to a new city state, or even country. the economy is bad and many dont like the integration, diversity, and forced assimilation. whites especially are fleeing big cities to escape minorities and all the diversity. WHEN FAMILIES MOVE, THERE IS BREAKDOWN and this indeed destroys families. but having to move rather avoiding crime, diversity, bad economy, social ills, homeless, or needing a nee environment happens all the time.

Question: Can a restraining or anything be done when your family doesn't want you to be involved with someone else?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 02:06 PM PST

What I mean by that, is if someone were to be romantically involved with someone else, but both family's doesn't want them to be with together, would they have any plausible cause to keep them apart? Even if they are both happy together, have never had any case of abuse nor rocky patches, And are both consenting, mid-20's adults. There was only one point when one of them had to step in when the other was in danger. That is, when a stranger was drunk and belligerent and tried to make advances on the other, they had to step in and stop it. But in the process the drunk got violent and sent the other to the hospital for a wound that they got. Would their family's use that against them, or is that unimportant?

Question: Why does my sister want me to dress a certain way before I go to a bar?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:55 PM PST

Hi just turned 21 and I love the way I dress. It's just for some reason my sister wants me to change my style for tonight. When I ask why they never give me a straight answer it's like "we'll she's just trying to change my style". But usually when I go out she never says anything about changing my style even when I go out to eat. It's just this particular night she's so concerned about changing my style to dress more Provaactive which is strange I mean all I'm doing is going to a bar that's it. Why is this like a code to get in or something. My sister means we'll but I wana know.

Question: My mom would not go with us to a party in my step-dad's family last night was this wrong of her read below?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:54 PM PST

She holds grudges over small things against her in-laws so was this wrong for not to go out with my stepdad really wanted her to go? We had a great time and she missed out but she only goes when she has two weddings or funerals. She thinks they don't like her with her actually perfectly nice to her sometimes divided been some gossip set a better but that's all families.

Question: My stepfather is an alcoholic. Is this his fault or is it a mental illness like bipolar?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:53 PM PST

We all drink some so did this just kind a happen like having a bad reaction to food or does alcoholic actually wake up and decide to become an alcoholic? This is the first time there has been an alcoholic and the family.

Question: My sister likes to gossip how do I avoid her gossiping about me?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:51 PM PST

She's one of the top five worst gossipers I've ever known.

Question: My mother pretends that she is nice and forgiving which is actually better in the inside how do I expose her?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:50 PM PST

Question: My parents want to come along on my senior trip?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:22 PM PST

I'm a high school senior and at the end of the year the entire graduating class will be going on a 2 week long tour all across Europe. So my parents are planning on getting tickets to come along with us. They just said that they're doing it for my 'safety', just in case something happens. OMG, by then I'll even be 18, and it's not like I'm going ALONE or anything, there are like hundreds of other students and lots of teachers and staff that will be supervising us. Also, no one, and I mean NO ONE, else's parents are coming along. Trust me, I even went around and interviewed everyone just to prove it to my parents, but they still won't listen. The reason I don't want them to come along isn't because I'm going to be doing anything 'bad' that I don't want them to know about or anything like that, it's just because as you can already tell, my parents are the extremely overprotective type. I know them very well and I know that they're just using use the excuse of my 'safety' to come along and watch my every move, boss me around, not let me do anything, and ruin all the fun. I'm tired of them treating me like a baby, I'm almost an adult, and they need to let me have some sense of independence. I just want to have a fun time with my friends and classmates before I graduate, and them being there just makes it really awkward, especially when no one else's parents are there too. So anyway, what do you guys think? Do you think they should come? If not, how can I convince them not to?

Question: My sister is abusive?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:19 PM PST

I'm 11 and my sister is almost 13.She beats me,smacks me and kicks me and has given me bruises,scratches and even whiplash.She has told me she wishes I'm dead.She has threatened to kill me and has pulled out knives.Whenever we have to be home alone I end up hiding in the bathroom.My parents don't think its THAT serious.They yell at her sometimes but thats it.She has called me a *****,idiot,dumb ect.She makes fun of my teeth that stick iut because of my severe overbite.She acts like there's nothing wrong with what she's doing.Please help me I don't know what shes gonna do next.She sometimes if our parents are around or she gets caught hurting me she makes it seem like she didn't doing anything and says sorry but the next day she'll be hitting me again.

Question: My sister is abusive?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:12 PM PST

Question: My sister is abusive and mean to me.She has threatened me with KNIVES!?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:07 PM PST

Question: What does it mean to be a kindred soul?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 01:04 PM PST

Someone had told me the other day "you are special, you are a kindred soul.."

Question: My family always provokes my anger?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 12:30 PM PST

I'm pretty sure I have anger issues as I get irritated and frustrated rather easily and it does not help when I'm around my family. Whenever I'm in my room, my dad sometimes comes in and moves all of my things as a joke to annoy me. It's funny at first but when I tell him to stop, he won't. It's even worse when my 11 year old idiot brother annoys me on purpose and as I try to stay calm and tell him to stop, he just annoys me more. My parents do nothing and say just ignore him, why are you letting him annoy you? Yes that may be true but if you have a bratty 11 year old boy following you and doing weird noises for the sole purpose of irritating you, then you would not be saying this. PLEASE READ THE PHOTO ASWELL.

Question: HELP! I NEED TO PREVENT A CRIME!! I DON'T KNOW WHERE ELSE TO GO!!?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 12:25 PM PST

I study criminal activity in school. I just recently learned about a term called Familicide. It's a type of murder or murder-suicide in which all or at least some of an entire family's lives are taken. In some cases all of the family members' lives are taken. I also watched a documentary that's main goal was to raise awareness of these tragedies and stop them from happening in Britian. I'm afraid I might have a killer in my family. Watching the show and studying the topic, I learned the warning signs of a Family killer. The thing is, my family member has been on the same path and according to my studies, he is escalating. He is already distant from his family and has cut everyone out of his life for no reason. He didn't even want the child that he does have and his financial state hasn't been good. I feel he abuses his daughter but she's too scared to talk about it. And now, months after things have been building up, my grandparents have scheduled a party with him, his family, and everyone he cut off. I don't know how he will react. I know there will be high tensions and lots fighting. I don't feel right about it I can't call the police because nothing has happened yet. I can't talk to him because there's a chance I'm right. I can't let him know I'm onto him. But I can't just sit back and do nothing because there is a chance he might kill people I love. I don't know what to do.

Question: I cannot stand my uncle?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 12:15 PM PST

I'm 18 and I have an uncle who I have literally despised since childhood. He has one toddler age son, who's super sweet and nice, but he's a complete a** hole. He would come at me for my teeth (before I got my braces off I had a gap between my front teeth) and call me a ugly rat, tell me I'm stupid, (all infont of my family, who never defended me) and after those incidents I would just lock myself in my room whenever he was over. I couldn't stand him and his cigarette stench. When I started locking myself in my room he would talk to people and say "watch what _____ is doing in her room. God knows what that idiot is up to" I hate him beyond belief. Recently, after I got my braces off and grew more into my features, he's taken to calling me a slut and saying now I wear makeup and dress "nice" for guys to like me. I just wish he'd leave me alone, he's even tried to visit me in my college dorm. My family defends him and says "he's your uncle respect him" I just wish he'd back off, i already went through enough bullsh*t from him and multiple other family members who were abusive

Question: Why isn't my life getting any better?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 12:01 PM PST

Don't worry, I am not that suicidal, I just feel like I am always the one getting beat up. My parents divorced when I was a kid and that time, it hit my brother really hard. In his teenage hood, he stopped talking to everyone in our family and been a huge jerk to me that I cannot sit with him and resolved it even though I tried many times for years. My dad left me in my freshman year of hs without any good reasons, he said I am worthless and disappeared. I turned to my uncle as a replacement as my dad, but before college, I told him I wanted to major in Architecture, but he disagreed and made me want to do computer science. I refused and he decided not to talk to me anymore and said I am worthless like my dad. My mom and I never agreed to almost anything, she almost kicked me out of the house when she thought I was gay. She built surveillance cameras around my house, including my room and would charge me 5 dollars for changing the heater. I am not sure my gf in college for a year is going to work out, I have dozens of gf before, but she's the highest score and I don't want to lose her, but I feel like I am losing her. Even though there are few of my friends and cousins have no problem with me and wanted to catch up with me, I couldn't bear it because I worry that I will lose them too. I became unmotivated and lonely. Drinking and smoking pots everynight just to get my mind off of what I lost. I always tell myself life is going to get better each time, but... no

Question: My mother steals money from me?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 11:53 AM PST

I'm 17 and recently got my first paycheck. I was so happy and excited! I planned on spending the money on getting my laptop fixed (which my mother threw across the room and it broke) because I'm gonna need it for college. But my mom went into my wallet while I was in the bathroom and took it. I was livid and asked why the hell are you taking the money??? She said "it's time you start paying me back you ungrateful little b*tch." I know it's partly my fault for not hiding my money better but this?? From my own mother? We've always had a toxic relationship but I didn't expect this. What should I do?

Question: What age should a child start using the stove?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 11:51 AM PST

My mom was getting sick of my little sister asking her to cook things over the stove, so she says she's just going to let her learn to cook on the stove for herself. She says she's not going to tell her how to do anything, but will supervise her. She's only 13 and I don't think it's very safe, even with adult supervision. She's caused multiple near-accidents with the microwave due to her getting distracted very easily. I know how annoying my sister can be, so should I just let my mom go with her plan or tell her she shouldn't?

Question: Black Father, White Stepdaughter : Custody?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 11:45 AM PST

Edit Update: I have a white stepdaughter from my wife of 6 years who has passed away. she is white, and the grandparents want to take her, thinking it is best. She wants to stay with me as she is 6 and has known me all her life. what do you think?is it ok if she stays with me? is the situation acceptable? please be honest, as i appreciate that more, and leave political correctness out of it. many thanks for your answers in advance as i know they come from a good place.

Question: Somebody I know might of stolen money from me read below?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 11:29 AM PST

Im 23 year old and have autism I have brother who also has autism and sister Friday morning I had 25 dollars in my wallet a 20 doller bill and a 5 then when looked in my wallet my 20 doller bill was gone and and Thursday night my moms friend came over for a visit and she brought one of her kids her 14 year old daughter with and 1 of my family members said they saw her go into the back were are bed rooms were to get my cat and she was back there for awhile they said what should I do call her mom call the police or what any tips

Question: I have to go to my brothers graduation?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 11:12 AM PST

and i am scared to because his college is in Baltimore and im scared to visit places like that because im afraid i will get shot and my family will die or something how do i get over this anxiety

Question: I saw my brother smoking and he reeks of smoke?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:56 AM PST

I saw him smoking in my living room and one time i went dwnstairs and i sat next to him and i saw he was hiding something then he noticed he smelled like smoke

Question: How can I comfort my sister ?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:41 AM PST

My sister is really upset because she found out she can't have kids. She's had 3 miscarriages the doctor told her she can't have babies. She's not very happy right now. It's been her dream to be a mother since she was little. I told her she could adopt a baby but she doesn't feel like it right now she wants her own baby. She got mad at me when I told her that. She hasn't been sleeping very well this past week she's been up half the night sleeping half the day. She cries herself to sleep. I feel bad for her. I've tried everything to help her feel better but nothing is working. She wasn't feeling very good this morning. I'm just letting her sleep all day or whenever she feels like getting up. How can I comfort her ?

Question: What the hell is wrong with my Mother!?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:33 AM PST

I used to actually like Her but since I've gotten stuck living with(under) Her control no longer! She's terminally lazy, often tired, and nags my poor Father to death. On top of all this She picks fights with me over things I post on Facebook. She is also overweight like Her Mother and always "going to do a diet." Now that I'm basically stuck living with Her She likes to shove Her beliefs and ideas down my throat. Just like I am a teenager all over again. Mostly because I cannot currently drive or move away. Otherwise I would and She'd be lucky if I ever visited Her after being trapped in Hell(literally and figuratively) with Her for 4 years!

Question: Girls who drive would you have done this?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:23 AM PST

I just got home from taking my sister to her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

Question: My mother complained all through the holidays about her kids and kids-in-law being around. How do we get her away next year?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:21 AM PST

She seems not to enjoy us unless it is just one of us at a time and no in-laws or grandkids, just blood kids.

Question: My step-Dad says I am the most disgusting and pathetic person in the universe and my mother doesn't care he says this?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:12 AM PST

What do I do? I am 22 and don't live with them but would like to see and know my mother even if I don't see him. My mother will only see me if with him.

Question: Mother sends her son to the gym and buys him protein and all the food he needs.He is like a bodybuilder.She doesnt send her daughter .?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 10:06 AM PST

Maybe she wants her son to protect her from the crazy dangerous husband or is jealous of her daughter?

Question: My father is an alcoholic and my Mom says we have to threaten never to see him again until he gets help. Can I say no to doing this?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:55 AM PST

What do I do? Mom says she is leaving him if he doesn't get help and we all have to pledge to leave him also. I don't want to do that. My sisters agreed never to talk to him again but I am the hold out. Mom says I am an enabler for not disowning him if I don't but it strikes me as mean and just like I am punishing myself to get him. So what do I do? Am I wrong not to join in the "don't speak to him" movement? It is not like I buy him alcohol or cover up for him. What do I do?

Question: Hi I m 11 years old I m mature for my age and I m dating a 16 year old we met 6 months ago and he s wonderful but how do I tell my parents?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:52 AM PST

Question: I caught my parents having sex last night and they don't know (I saw it through the security camera at our house). Should I tell them?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:50 AM PST

I wondered what the noise was in their room so I turned it on but it was them having sex. I am 16 and feel really guilty, should I tell them? I saw my Dad's *** and the top of my mother but I could tell from the noises that it was sex they were doing. I didn't even know they still did this now that they are done having kids So should I tell them? Also this is a serious question, I am not a jokster or anything I just feel really bad I witnessed this.

Question: How do I tell my older sister I want to be her little sister not her babybrother?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:48 AM PST

I'm 14 and as long as I can remember she's called me baby bro but it feels like she's just stabbing me through my heart with daggers and I'm scared that she won't accept me if I tell her I want to be a girl I'm trying to come out to my family but I want to tell my bigger sister first

Question: I want to live in a rural area so bad? I'm really jealous?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:34 AM PST

My cousin lives in the country in this rural small town. She has four horses and all of these other animals. She knows everyone when she goes to the grocery store and all they do is talk about how well she does showing her animals. At her house she has about six neighbors-spaced out by acres of land. You can actually see the stars at her house, and she spends her time riding her horses, exploring the fields, showing, and doing fun family things. Me, on the other hand, lives in NYC. My parents are normally too busy working to do anything "family". I go to the mall and that kind of stuff but I still feel so bored. All you can hear is sirens and shouts and cars. I just want to live in the country so bad I cry at night. I would love to have a horse and spend my summers showing instead of partying. I listen to cowboy music now when my friends aren't around and just think of how amazing that life would be. I'm a teenage girl. Does anyone else feel this way? Any similar stories? What did you do?

Question: My mom always goes out?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:33 AM PST

My mom goes out all the time, an average 2 times a week. She goes partying with her friends or to dinner with her sad excuse of a man. She takes advantage of the fact that I'm a babysitter and can take care of my younger brother. No matter how much I beg her not to go she just ignores me. I know she needs time out and stress free but it feels like she's always gone. Talking to her doesn't work, I feel lost. My mom's boyfriend is okay. I do dislike him but it's fine. It's just the fact that she doesn't check with me first and automatically assumes my nights are free for babysitting that makes me upset.

Question: Can you find someone if you have thier ss number?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:05 AM PST

I have my long lost cousin ss number I would never steal her identity or do anything illegal with it

Question: If father rapes daughter and he acts normal how does mother see the kid?Foes she hate her and envy her?Call her average and fat?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 09:05 AM PST

Question: Can a 12 year old(F) touches be sexually loaded like adults or is it innocent?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:53 AM PST

My GF [F24] sister[F12] likes to spend a lot of time with us, she always liked me and said I[M26] am like older brother (I am dating my GF for year and I knew her sister for same time), but recently, I noticed she likes to touch and cuddle me more than normal, but it is still the innocent kind of touch from children, like touching arm or shoulder. I kind of feel like she uses me as her "safe guy" to discover her waking sexuality. Should I do something or I see problem where there is none? I do not want to have "that talk" with her that it is inappropriate if there is no reason for it. I do not want to make her feel uncomfortable, and I still think she is a kid. Do not want to bring my GF into it yet either, because it may be nothing, but at the same time I feel like I walk on rotten ice.

Question: My parents take my money?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:53 AM PST

I'm 17 been working for almost 6 months now, my parents usually ask me for money and i don't got a problem with it, I got around 1200 in my wallet. Today I check and I only had 500 I asked my mom and dad if they seen or borrowed some but they denied it, before that I let them borrow 300 dollars but they still haven't paid me back. All they told me is to hide my wallet somewhere safer but when I come back from work I always find them looking thru my room for it. Any help

Question: My parents are racist!?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:47 AM PST

as a vegan crossfitter who is pan sexual and muslim. my parents and siblings call me a fag. also when my dad cooks dinner he makes steaks and then rips grass from the ground and puts it on my plate while everyone in my family laughs. my dad told my little brother dont be like ur older brother and also as an aspiring rap artist/vape lord they do not support me in my goals. I asked my dad to hand out my mixtape "save the polar bears" he laughed in my face and then made my little brother listen to it when he was in time out.

Question: I'm 26 and my parents are 70. I'm so sad a day depressed because I know that they don't have much time left here on earth. I feel cheated?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:45 AM PST

Why did they have me so late in life? I feel so cheated knowing that one day I'll have to live life without them.

Question: My Dad just revealed to me I am not his. I am shocked and distraught. Does this mean he doesn't love me as much as my siblings?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:30 AM PST

He shared this as I am not in his will. He says he will tell my brothers to reach out if I am ever in need but my brothers are the rightful heirs. I am the oldest in a family of all sons and I am 26. My mother apparently broke off with my Dad for a time and then they got back together. She had me with a guy who took off after I was born and when she saw him 16 years later and he asked about me she told him she'd miscarried the baby. As a result he doesn't even know I exist. I also don't know do I contact the real Dad? My mother died last year which is why my Dad is doing his will. I'm in disbelief and crying like a girl. It's not about the money in Dad's will but about the fact that he doesn't think of me as his son and this real Dad is out there somewhere thinking I am dead. I always wondered why my Dad coached my siblings sports and only came to one or two of my games. He also traveled with my siblings alone on each one's birthday and my birthday my grandparents would take me (never my Dad).

Question: It's this normal for a mother?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:30 AM PST

Tasheka is 36 years old she has a 16 year old daughter named Rachel. Tasheka has a boyfriend that she's madly in love with. Her boyfriend tried to have sex with Rachel 4 times after she screamed no stop. Rachel gets the boyfriend arrested and tells Tasheka what happened. Tasheka glares and says your too ugly to be raped. Then she bails him out and continues to date him. The man doesn't touch Rachel anymore, and he's quite nervous around her. But Tasheka is still happily dating him. Normal or not?

Question: Why do my parents lecture me about how to be socially when I am 42?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:27 AM PST

As a kid I had a hard time socially but as an adult I am fine everyone else says (so it is not just me saying I am fine). My parents give social education lectures to me when I visit them. I see them about once a month. My mother enjoys me when it is just my parents and I or my siblings also but when we are in public I embarrass her. It makes it awkward at the holidays. As a kid I was ADHD as can be and did have a hard time socially and needed reminders and time outs. Now I am 42 and that is just not the case anymore. So why do my parents still feel I interact with others like I did when age 10 when no one else seems to feel I am like this (I have asked to make sure)? Should I get mad at my parents as my Dad is only doing it out of protectiveness and my mother is somewhat out of embarrassment but other times out of protectiveness.

Question: My Dad likes to insult me and my Mom when he is drunk but not my two brothers. Why us women and not the two men?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:22 AM PST

I am 26 and my Mom and I left on Christmas this year because my Dad was drunk and insulting us Christmas Eve. Whereas my two brothers he is nice to. So my Mom and I left and the two brothers and their wives stuck around. So why is it that we are insulted when the men are not? I am 26 and female. My mother says her Dad (*also an alcoholic) was the same way but he and my Dad only knew each other once my parents married.

Question: Do I have to go to my dad's house?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:14 AM PST

I really rather not go into details. I'm a 15 year old girl and I live in Indiana. I don't want to live with my crazy, verbally abusive father anymore. He has anger issues that I cannot deal with anymore. Do I have rights? Am I forced to go there anymore?

Question: What does it mean when someone calls you a kindred soul ?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:08 AM PST

Someone told me "you are special, you are a kindred soul"

Question: Was I a good father?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:07 AM PST

These are some of the things I have done for my children. My son and daughter are 17 and 18. When they were 5 and 6, I stopped celebrating their birthdays When they were 7 and 8 I told them Santa was fake and stopped buying them presents. I started home schooling them at 7 and 8. When they were 9 and 10 I told them they were too old to go to summer camp. When they were 10 and 11, I told them they were too old for skateboarding, too old for toys and too old to play video games. I gave away all of their things. When they were 11 and 12 I stopped driving them places they stayed home 24/7. When they were 12 and 13 they started getting depressed. I punished them for that, as that is a sign of weakness and I told them they're not kids or babies and to get over themselves or I would put them our. At 15 and 16 I refused to teach them to drive since 15 and 16 to now, they both refuse to walk 15 miles to public transportation in the city to get jobs.

Question: Should I comment?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 08:01 AM PST

My brother posted asking for prayer request for me for my sickness, he didn't tell me... a lot of people commented "prayers" should I say thank you?

Question: My sister is disgusting!?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 07:55 AM PST

i love my older sister but she is gross! she takes hour long showers but still has really bad B.O. Her room smells like wet laundry and it stinks up the whole hallway. when she come out of the bathroom it smells sooo foul that my stomach turns. she eats her food and leaves trash all over the floor. she eats her food in the bathroom and leaves food on the floor. she uses the bathroom and never flushes the toilet and i am tired of telling her to flush. she forgets to put on deodorant. she always sits with her legs all open and i know she has to smell her own odor. her hair stinks. she doesn't wash her clothes so she reuse her dirty clothes and it makes her room stink. she never cleans up behind herself, there is literally a trail of trash and odor that follows her. there is old molded food in her room. she has ants. i don't even like to be around her in public or at home because i don't want people to think that it's me that stinks when it's actually her. i don't want to tell her this because: 1) i think she already knows but just doesn't care 2) i don't want to hurt her feelings. PLEASE HELP!

Question: How do I get my desire to do work?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 07:50 AM PST

Let me explain. When I was little I used to want to do a lot of chores in my house. Laundry, fishing, dishes, trash, cleaning rooms, cleaning walls, etc. I always had desires for those things but my parents always refused. And I wasn't allowed outside the house much besides school and erands to places like the pharmacy with my parents. I couldn't even play in the snow as a child, or go play with other kids. Now I'm 15, and I don't have the desire to do anything, and I don't know why. My grandmother always calls me lazy and nothing good (to be fair she had her chance when I was young). But how do I get my desire to do chores and work back and why did it go away.

Question: What is my nationality my mom is white and my dad is Mexican, what am I?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 07:28 AM PST

I mean RACE not nationality

Question: I'm tired of being mad at my boyfriend and I'm conflicted with what to do, I am too attached to just let him go. Help?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 07:21 AM PST

Don't just say "break up" that is a last solution. I am an 18 year old girl, who has been travelling all her life. I live on my own in a foreign country and study forensic science on my 1st year. My boyfriend through 2 years also lives here. he however does not have an education but works as a bartender on weekends. He is 21 and lives with his parents, which I believe to be the root of my concern. He is extremely childish. His parents still control his bank account, and he is extremely depended on them. His parents also decides how often he is allowed to stay at my place, claiming that he has duties at home and as long as he live at home, he has to spend time with his family. However it's excessive. I see him maybe 2 times a week. The man is an adult. He has complained about this many times. I have before presented the option of him moving in with me, in order for him to regain the control of his life. However he does not wish to go against them. I know that it is because his parents does not like me being a foreigner. However his fear of telling them no, is extremely tiresome. I don't like the control they have on both of us. He has not met my parents yet, because every time I invited him to to the country they live in, his parents told him no. This naturally leaves me to often be mad and angry at him for not having a little more backbone. What do we do in this situation guys? I am at loss. Oh about his parents; They don't like me being a foreigner however are not racist. They once expressed their concern that his relationship with me would be expensive, due to him having to visit me when I move again. I jokingly said that it wouldn't have to be, he would always be welcome to move with me. I think they were 1 word away from kicking me out of their house. It is not changing him xD He is an adult, with some very strict parents. All I'm offering is a life where he can do what he wants. If he really is not willing to do so I will leave, however I won't give up without a fight. He just does whatever they want him to. It's makes me uncomfortable and humiliates him.

Question: How do I go about moving out?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 07:09 AM PST

So I'm living with my older brother, his wife, and their daughter who will soon be a year old. I have tried keeping a job but I feel like I'm not ready for adulthood yet, considering I didn't even have a week to chill after graduation last year. I'm constantly woken up because they're loud and the baby keeps crying and screaming (as babies do) even though I ask them to be quiet when I sleep. I have a weird sleep schedule for my job where I go to bed around 7 AM and wake up at 1-3 PM. My brother and his wife also don't really have a healthy relationship. His wife basically ignores the daughter, nearly forcing him to be the only actual parent in the house. I moved out of my moms house to help them, not to become the second parent. They also are both really passive aggressive, never talking about their problems except for when the other one can't hold in their anger anymore and they have a fight/argument. The wife also doesn't do anything except play on her computer and textremely all day. She has a part time job but it's at walmart and she uses the excuse that she "works all damn day and wants to relax" every time she's asked to do something that isn't one of those two things she does. She's also been using the excuse "The baby is loud and I get scared" every time my brother needs to go to the bathroom or eat or take a shower. I have the rest of the ask in a screenshot since I guess there's a character limit.

Question: My family is not supportive at all.?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 07:03 AM PST

I have no one to keep me company. I thought maybe I could get a pet. I asked my mom if I could get a hamster, she said "Don't ever ask for a pet again" She then turned to my dad and said "oh yeah i forgot to tell you, today our daughter (me) was completely crazy. She was just impossible to handle" She said this coz I got mad at my little brother for throwing his coat on a puddle of melted ice cream and kicking it around. I told him to stop. My mom saw and told me to stop abusing my younger brother. My mom then talked about how I had anger issues. I got back to topic by asking my dad for a pet. He just said no. Thats it. I said "maybe if I got a pet to keep me company I would be in a better mood and be nicer maybe I wouldn't be as sad" That's the first time I told my parents I was sad. Instead of saying something supportive, they both LAUGHED loudly. My dad then said "HAHAHA SHUT UP!" He told me to shut up when I said I was sad. I hid behind the kitchen counter. Surprisingly, I began crying. Something I never do. My brother saw me crying, I tried to hide. When he saw, he backed away. He went to my parents and said LOL SHE'S CRYING My parents laughed again and said "HAHA SHUT UP IDOT! COME HERE!" So I washed my face in the kitchen sink and walked over to them, I was so embarrassed. My dad said "don't ever do anything as stupid as that again." This is everyday of my life. I just want to go to boarding school but they wont support me on that either even though we can afford it.

Question: Whatever I do and my parents dont like it they tell me I redicule myself.When I compain to my aunt they say I m crazy.Why?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 06:52 AM PST

Question: Dads New Girlfriend - Too Soon After Moms Passing?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 06:32 AM PST

Dads New Girlfriend?? My mom passed away in November of last year, 2016. A month after my moms passing my father already has this new woman in his life and I think its the most disrespectful act possible, if ever there is a 'too soon' stage, its now. My parents have been together for 30 years, my dad hasn't been unfaithful but he is quite scummy, doesn't know where to draw the line with flirtation, even in front of my mom, but I never thought he'd move on so quickly, he hasn't even put a headstone on my mothers grave yet. I'm 18 years old, my mother was the most important aspect of my life. This is insulting and disgusting of him to do this. He has the new woman in our house every day or he's at her house with her and her 2 young kids, also for days on end, leaving my partner to provide food for me, seeing as he leaves nothing and disappears rarely with letting me know he's even leaving. My father and I have had numerous conversations about this and it all falls on deaf ears. I'm heartsore over the situation and feel betrayed and thrown aside as unimportant. What do I do about this situation

Question: My mother said to end relationship with married man, but my dad?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 06:27 AM PST

my dad said as long as I am happy then to keep on seeing him. who is right? I'm having an affair with my dad, he's my step dad but we have sex at hotels near house.Mom doesn't appreciate him like I do, he told me right in front of Mom to keep on seeing him.

Question: How do I get my alcoholic Dad to stop blaming my Mom and I for his problems?

Posted: 07 Jan 2017 06:24 AM PST

He doesn't blame my two brothers but my Mom and I he does. I am a 26 year old woman