Marriage & Divorce: Question: My wife is getting us in debt. What can I do? |
- Question: My wife is getting us in debt. What can I do?
- Question: What happens to your debt when you die?
- Question: Can your husband lock you out of your bedroom in AZ?
- Question: Is it safe to stay with my husband?
- Question: I kicked my husband out of our bedroom. Did I do the right thing?
- Question: Is it wrong not to let my husband see me naked?
- Question: Can you break up with your wife?
- Question: I sincerely love a girl but she says her parents have found her an Indian American bride?
- Question: Are there any websites like Yahoo Answers but specifically for marriage questions?
- Question: How can I calm my wife down ?
- Question: Turning your Electricity (Power) back on yourself?
- Question: How easy is it to remain a diehard football fan after you have kids?
- Question: I would like to set up my husband email on my iPad?
- Question: How is the private trouble of divorce connected to the public issue of divorce?
- Question: How do you complain to the post office for missing mail?
- Question: Why does my husband's anus smell like tuna?
- Question: Why do (some) married men complain about their wives to other women?
- Question: Ladies, do you still cook for your husbands even when they complain every time?
- Question: Why do women complain about their "baby daddy"?
- Question: I don't want to get married?
- Question: If my husband abandon his children and I and leave to different state what can I do?
- Question: Why don't women like sex?
- Question: I want to keep going forever on his privates even after his cliamax?
- Question: I think my husband is having an affair??
- Question: Why does my wife complain about EVERYTHING?
- Question: How often do you and your husband/wife go out on "dates"?
- Question: My husbands family are manipulating him into moving back to his home country?
- Question: Doctor told my wife to lose weight SHE ISN'T EVEN TRYING !!?
- Question: My new husband wont stop looking at other woman and its destroying me?
- Question: Why does everybody think porn is okay? meanwhile im SEX DEPRIVED because my husband is obsessed with porn!!!?
- Question: Getting served divorce papers but can't afford an attorney help!?
- Question: I can't afford a divorce lawyer but my husband can what do i do?
- Question: Gripped by throat during argument with husband. Thoughts?
- Question: 22 and married almost 2 years in desperate need of help?
- Question: Will love without trust?
- Question: Relationship issue?
- Question: Why don't I ever feel anything while having sex?
- Question: Please help?
- Question: Help!!!!!?
- Question: What to think/do when your husband says he doesnt need you?
- Question: Wife wants to go back to work but I don't want her to?
- Question: Gripped by throat during argument with husband! ?
- Question: My husband is suddenly unsure about having kids. I don't know what to do.?
- Question: Married 13 yrs, last time we had sex was August. ...it's now January. It's like this all the time. i was self gratification but stopped?
- Question: I "cat-fished" someone and I feel absolutely horrible about it? I know it was wrong and I was stupid and pathetic so no negative comments?
- Question: Can i kick my cheating wife out?
- Question: What can a Wife get in a divorce?
- Question: Is this considered as cheating - what do you think?
- Question: My boyfriend says that marriage is "just a piece of paper."?
| Question: My wife is getting us in debt. What can I do? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 10:06 PM PST My wife keeps getting loans, she has maxed out 3 credit cards, she filed bankruptcy once years ago because she had done this same thing. She has student loan debt, she has taken a title loan out on our only vehicle and has overdrawn her account by hundreds of dollars. Were literally in debt for 22,000 dollars. Guess how much is from me....knot a dime. We make decent money, she just has an addiction of some kind and she needs to shop, shop, shop and its going to cause us to lose everything. I'm honestly considering divorce even though I'll still be liable for the debt since we were married while it was created. Idk. What would you do? Were both 31 years old. I love her to death, but she's ruining our lives. We've argued and argued about this and she continues to do it. Everything I personally bought, I have made sure it was paid for in full. She gambles her money away and has began selling things on the internet to get some of her money back. Its a pretty crazy situation. |
| Question: What happens to your debt when you die? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 10:01 PM PST I assume that if you're married, all debts are inherited by your spouse when you die. But what if you aren't married? Do your children inherit your debt? If you're childless, what happens? Are certain debts treated differently, like mortgages as opposed to credit card balances? Thanks for reading my question! I'm looking forward to reading your stories and answers! :-) |
| Question: Can your husband lock you out of your bedroom in AZ? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 10:00 PM PST he has put a new lock on the door and I can't get in,all my things including work clothes are in there,what can I do about it? |
| Question: Is it safe to stay with my husband? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 09:52 PM PST Every 3 to 6 months, my husband gets very anxious. When I talk to him, he starts yelling in front of my 4 year old daughter. He repeats his sentences. He is suspicious to everyone. These days to Russians due to the news. He fights over anything till we have a big fight. It gets physical and he says its always my fault that I don't respect him. When I want to leave him, he gets really violent. After the physical fight, he calms down. He expresses how sorry he is and how he loves his family and doesn't want to lose us. I absolutely hate him and he knows it. I'm staying with him for sake of my daughter and going through process of divorce is very scary for me since I can't share my daughter with him and not see my daughter in days that he has her. That's THE ONLY REASON I AM LIVING WITH HIM. Please advise me! Can he get custody of my daughter? |
| Question: I kicked my husband out of our bedroom. Did I do the right thing? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 09:52 PM PST We have been together 12 years, married 5 of them. We have a 2 year old, and a 2 month old baby. We have been dealing with some serious issues in our marriage. Lack of trust, intimacy, and barely any communication. This has been going on for years. Last Spring I came to my husband with my concerns, and asked that we seek counseling or end our marriage. 6 months later he agreed to counseling. We have been in counseling since September, but have made no progress. My husband shows me no physical affection outside of a kiss on the cheek on rare occasions. We don't laugh, we talk the bare minimum. We don't trust each other, respect each other. I'm hurt by this, feel so sad about it. I have tried reaching out to him, over and over. I have been rejected so many times. I just can't stand it. We are basically roommates with 2 kids. So, the other day I asked my husband to move all his things into the spare bedroom. He seemed saddened by it, and asked why. I told him how I feel, and that it was pointless for us to even share the same room. I am so fed up with this existence. |
| Question: Is it wrong not to let my husband see me naked? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 09:40 PM PST I ask him to leave the room when I change; or, I go in the bathroom and lock the door. During sex, I wear a night gown or dress and just take my underwear off; he won't see me naked during sex either |
| Question: Can you break up with your wife? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 08:17 PM PST Like just walk away without divorce and stuff? |
| Question: I sincerely love a girl but she says her parents have found her an Indian American bride? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 08:07 PM PST Both of our parents are in strong opposition to our relationship. However, we feel very much in love and intend to get married. My girlfriend says that her parents have already made plans to get her married to an Indian American. I tried to reason with them but it was futile. My girlfriend says that we could elope if I am okay with it. I said that I love her a lot but I need to think about elopement. She said ok. What do I do right now? |
| Question: Are there any websites like Yahoo Answers but specifically for marriage questions? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 08:07 PM PST I have a serious question and I've asked it twice (in two different ways) All I get is people being asses. Are there any good marriage question sites? |
| Question: How can I calm my wife down ? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 07:54 PM PST Me and my wife just got married today we're on our honeymoon at Disney. Since we got here she hasn't stopped crying. She's 5 months pregnant with our daughter. She has a daughter from a previous relationship. I tried talking to her but she doesn't want to. Sure it's Friday The 13th but I don't think that has anything to do with it. We've been very lucky today we got married now she's on the honeymoon of her dreams. It was worth a 14hr drive down here. I thought she would be happy. Her daughter is 3 she doesn't like seeing her mom upset. How can I calm her down ? What's wrong with her ? |
| Question: Turning your Electricity (Power) back on yourself? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 07:43 PM PST Ok a friend of mine had her electricity disconnected so her husband went outside and turned it back on. She has been making payments now but I am worried she will get in trouble...am I just paranoid? Washington State |
| Question: How easy is it to remain a diehard football fan after you have kids? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 07:30 PM PST I'm a diehard college football fan (Fight On, Trojans!). I live in Sacramento, which is far from USC, so I only go to games about twice per year (sometimes this involves weekend travel), but I watch ALL the other games on TV. My wife is not a football fan at all. After we have kids, I know it will be hard to go to games, but I do hope to watch them on TV or track them on my phone if not. When I say watch them on TV, I don't mind multitasking, and on occasion, I don't mind tracking the game on my phone if I have to leave the house. What I won't do is tape the game for later use. That makes no sense. What's the point in watching a game when the outcome is known? That's just stupid. How easy is this to do? |
| Question: I would like to set up my husband email on my iPad? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 07:03 PM PST |
| Question: How is the private trouble of divorce connected to the public issue of divorce? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:53 PM PST |
| Question: How do you complain to the post office for missing mail? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:43 PM PST I have been missing mail on and off for months. It is usually bills and credit card statements. I didn't get a card that a friend sent, and my daughter didn't get something her friend sent. Sometimes we get mail that has the top flap peeled back a bit, like someone has looked into it. We have complained 3 times to our local post office. The manager there has been checking our box and several others in our complex. (she told my husband she has to check others) The last time we complained (yesterday) she asked my husband if he was sure that his wife (me) wasn't opening the mail! Once we didn't get our electric bill and she said, oh we have a bunch of those piled up here. (WHAT?) She is the top person at our post office. We want to go over her head. How do we complain to a higher authority in the post office? Is there a state office that can be reached? This needs to be investigated, especially since it is not just us... its a bunch of our neighbors too! Thanks! |
| Question: Why does my husband's anus smell like tuna? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:41 PM PST Whenever I smell my husband's anus it smells like tuna, it's been this way for two weeks now and I'm getting worried. Why do you think this is? |
| Question: Why do (some) married men complain about their wives to other women? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:40 PM PST Okay the fact that your wife is not sleeping with you is not my problem. What do they expect the other women to do about that? Shouldn't you complain to HER The fact she made you sleep on the couch is not my problem. |
| Question: Ladies, do you still cook for your husbands even when they complain every time? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:39 PM PST My husband must have it backwards that he must say something rude about dinner every time I cook! I'm ready to stop cooking for him, but I don't want him thinking I'm a lazy couch potato. He apparently already knows manners and refuses to take hints about when to use it, because his "mom" already taught him... Anyone else have a rude husband? |
| Question: Why do women complain about their "baby daddy"? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:35 PM PST I understand men should take responsibility but I see women all get together and rant about how awful their BD is and just go on and on blaming him for everything when in reality she CHOSE to lay down and have sex with him. When you have sex with anyone you automatically choosing the risk of them fathering a child you could have. I think these women should own up to their mistakes too and stop sleeping with men they have not discussed having a child wiith insteaf of making poor decisions then complaining when the men don't change or help with the child. It's just sad to see fatherless children when it could have been prevented in the first place. But why do they even spew their obnoxious business out to the public?... |
| Question: I don't want to get married? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:13 PM PST What's the point of getting married? |
| Question: If my husband abandon his children and I and leave to different state what can I do? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 05:45 PM PST |
| Question: Why don't women like sex? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 05:37 PM PST I read that 70-80 percent of women dislike sex and just do it to make their boyfriend or husband happy. Why is this? |
| Question: I want to keep going forever on his privates even after his cliamax? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 05:06 PM PST but he pushes my head off him, I want to keep going and see what happens,what happens? |
| Question: I think my husband is having an affair?? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 04:51 PM PST He never talks to me anymore, except during our family dinners. I try to help things by making his favorite chicken for dinner, but now he gets so excited over it I'm scared. People have previously questioned me on his 'concerning' love for my chicken and now I'm getting messages online asking about my husbands relationship with the chicken? Do you think there could be something going on? Could he be having an affair with roasted chicken? |
| Question: Why does my wife complain about EVERYTHING? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 04:26 PM PST i am a retired u.s. army medic and a stay at home dad. i have 3 kids. 16 y.o. daughter, 11y.o. son, 7 y.o. son. i do all of the laundry and most of the the cooking. i seem to be "walking the line" for my wife. i don't drink, smoke, gamble, swear, abuse anyone, cheat on her or even look at porn. we've been married for almost 18 years and she complains all the time. "who used the last of the toilet paper and didn't replace the roll?" "why are there any clean towels in the downstairs bathroom?" "whose cup is this on the counter?" "who ate the last cracker and didn't throw away the wrapper?" stuff like that. i sometimes say "yes, dear" and fix whatever is wrong, but she still finds things to complain about. |
| Question: How often do you and your husband/wife go out on "dates"? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 03:54 PM PST I don't even know what to call it. Dates, going out just you two, to have fun or do things in general that you used to do when you first were together. How often and what do you do? My husband and I don't go out hardly at all and I brought this up to him. It's been since the beginning of November, we went for a walk one afternoon. Since then that's all. Been married 2 years and we are both 30. |
| Question: My husbands family are manipulating him into moving back to his home country? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 03:12 PM PST My husband is from Sweden. Or rather he is from Bosnia but he grew up in Sweden. I'm an Aussie and we both now live in Melbourne where we have lived for 2 years as a married couple. We met like 4 years ago on a backpacking trip in Southeast Asia. 6 months ago we went to visit his family. Since then he's been talking about going back home more and more often. It started with his dad having a back surgery. Then his mom from nowhere got depressed because she missed him, then his parents said that his little brother needs him and that he is getting involved with the wrong people. The last 6 months there has just been one problem after the other with them. And these are not poor people. His father is an engineer and has his own business. His mother is a manager and has like 40 people under her. So they're not starving. And I don't know what they mean when they that his brother is in trouble. His brother lives in central Stockholm in a studio apartment and goes to the best college in Sweden if not the whole of Scandinavia. These are upper middle class people. They have it better than my family. But being Bosnian family is very important and I guess they feel their family is not complete without their oldest son. But they are guilt tripping him. He's asked me a few times if we could move to Sweden. Before we went to visit 6 months ago we had it good. He had a great job, we were planning to buy a house but now everything stopped, because of them. What do I do? |
| Question: Doctor told my wife to lose weight SHE ISN'T EVEN TRYING !!? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 12:29 PM PST I mean i can't say that : "you have become fat" Or lose weight. what is the best way to motivate her should i start working out I MEAN I ALREADY WORK OUT INFACT I AM QUITE RIPPED is there any way to motivate her |
| Question: My new husband wont stop looking at other woman and its destroying me? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 11:38 AM PST I asked him not to do it and he never admits it. It got so bad when i saw him blankly staring at my moms *** for 20 seconds straight and then my friends *** at a party right in front of me. I love him and he loves me but its ruining the relationship I find this totally disrespectful we have talked about it a million times and when the fights get bad he finally admits it. After months of me complaining hes trying not to stare but why does it seem so difficult for a man to do? I am an attractive woman with a good figure we have sex all the time, i am not insecure but i cant get the image of him looking at my mom out of my mind it makes me sick to my stomach how does one forget about this and move on so it doesnt destroy our marrage? |
| Posted: 13 Jan 2017 10:59 AM PST I don't get it. Everybody on this site thinks porn is just fine. My husband wont have sex with me because he is to busy masturbating all the time even at work he does it in the bathroom omg! How does everyone think this is okay? How is this NOT an addiction? And even when we do rarely have sex, he tells me he is thinking about other girls so its a total turnoff. I don't understand why he is doing this to me. I think im pretty attractive. I'm blonde, blue eyes and i think i have a nice body. So why does he prefer porn? I've even offered role playing, going to lovers lane, dressing up and all kinds of things. I'm so confused. Why would he do this to me? |
| Question: Getting served divorce papers but can't afford an attorney help!? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 10:49 AM PST Hi guys, okay here's my deal. My spouse and I have been seperated for 2years now and about 4 months ago he filed for divorce. The only problem is he has a lawyer and I can't afford a lawyer at this time. I have custody of the children so I want to make sure that everthing is secure with them for there future. He refuses to settle matters out of court or with a mediator (as far as I know he doesn't any assets to benefit from) and we no longer own a home (he foreclosed on the home to move out) Right now i'm avoiding getting served, but I would like to know if it's possible that the court would give me a court appointed attonery or If i'm just screwed....p.s. I make just enough not to quality for pro bono work...go figure...thanks |
| Question: I can't afford a divorce lawyer but my husband can what do i do? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 10:45 AM PST My husband and I want to get a divorce. We have 3 young children together. My husband has a good friend that is a lawyer and he is willing to let my husband make payments for the divorce. I am currently in college and up to this point have been a stay at home mom, so I have no money to hire a lawyer. My husbands lawyer has stated that the fees he charges are not just for him, that he plays golf with most of the judges in our county and a lot of his fees go to them. Obviously the guy pays them off. What can I do if I can't afford a lawyer? Im only worried about the child support because my husband doesn't want custody just visitations. |
| Question: Gripped by throat during argument with husband. Thoughts? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 09:24 AM PST My husband and I had an argument the other night about something personal that I'd rather not share. In our 10 years together we have never had a fight like this, he is always caring, protective and loving towards me but to others he can be a little intimidating, seeing him so upset with me was a shock. We have no children yet. I am from Russia and I threatened him that I was leaving him to go back home. I admit that I made the argument worse because when he took my passport from me I threw a glass at him, missing him, and told him I only married him out of fear. He gripped me by the throat, putting me to the wall and screamed as he punched the wall beside me, when I told him to hit me he just grunted and walked away. He insisted we talk about everything which we did and managed to clear the air that night and we had make up sex. He has never put his hands on me before and I admit I caused it to escalate but he reaction scared him. What are your thoughts on this, did he have a valid reason to react as such? Thanks guys. |
| Question: 22 and married almost 2 years in desperate need of help? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 08:32 AM PST I've been with my husband for 5 years 2 of them being in marriage and I'm so scared we can't get over this rough patch. He is always so crabby and lazy he works a full time job but so do I between the 2 I have plus 2 kids and he comes home and plops on he couch without lifting a finger! Our personalities have seemed to be clashing lately a lot and he has even brought up having a break. Doesn't sound too bad to me maybe a relief but it's against my beliefs in what should happen in a marriage. The thought of him leaving doesn't scare me as much as it use to and I think that is to why I'm so worried about his. Anybody out here get over a really tough patch in their marriage but still made it work have any advice!? |
| Question: Will love without trust? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 08:30 AM PST ive been married for 20 yrs..we had a very harmonious relationship for 8 yrs until a third party (other woman) came in between us, fortunately, it did not last long..but since then, i cant put back the broken pieces together as much as i wanted too...i lost the trust and respect that is needed in any relationship..maybe its due to numerous arguments that were all hanged up and remained unresolved...frankly speaking, we always argued even the most simple things like tv channel which in the end will result to a fight..we never talk about our problem and just keep them hanging..but i can feel that there is still love between us and i still care for him! in fairness to him, he is doing his best to make up for his shortcomings but still for me its not enough.. |
| Posted: 13 Jan 2017 08:04 AM PST Long post but hopefully I can get answers. Me and my wife have been married since 2013 and had our child 2014. Our issue right now is she feels like I don't love her and only sees us as roommates because that's how we act. What she means by that is because we don't show affection anymore and it's my fault (which it is.) The reason why, ever since having our child my priorities seemed to focus on her more because she's my baby. To make this work we also have to work completely different schedules. I work 6-3 and she works 330-1130. By doing that we always have someone watching her. Where it gets tricky is this. My wife and daughter are on the same schedule. They wake up somewhere from 1-2 in the afternoon and both can be awake til 2-4 in the morning (mind you I wake up at 5am) now because of this I am always drained..I sleep 3-4 hours a night and honestly it catches up to me. She is upset because I don't hold her, I don't always go up and kiss her and our sex life is a mess! We have sex all but twice a month it seems and she thinks it's because I find her unattractive while it's not that at all, it's because I'm tired and she thinks it's an excuse. Yes I need to show her more I love her and appreciate her I know..she's always asking and I always put it off.what can I do? What can I tell her right now? Apologize and what's something else to say? I do love her but she's starting to not love me I feel. |
| Question: Why don't I ever feel anything while having sex? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 07:53 AM PST I've slept with many beautiful women. And I've deeply cared for some of them, even to the point where I'd say I loved them, but I never feel any "love". I've ever understood romance or intimacy. To me sex is fun and feels great but it's meaningless and more like an accomplishment. My wife recently said our sex looks like rage? |
| Posted: 13 Jan 2017 07:03 AM PST Got custody of my 3 yr old daughter in june due to drug related issues with her mother. Her mother has only seen her a handful of times since. She is not asking, blows off court dates, etc. Recently she has come out with this story about how dcyf was mistaken because the person who reported her (her therapist) had mixed up the files of her and another pt. She claims she has been drug free the whole time and never once failed a drug test. Basically, my question is if she chooses to fight for custody (i have sole custody, her mother only has supervised visits at my discretion) how likely will it be that she gets her back? She also has another child (not mine) who is now a ward of the state and going to a group home because she refuses to sign over rights so her family member can adopt him. She claims shes "trying" for her kids and has already filed for a new court date for visitation (she said this months ago) but yet there is no record, and she refuses to show me any proof.. i'm just nervous. She is terribly mentally unstable and kept my daughter from me the whole time she had custody. My daughter is now extremely attatched to me (probably because i wasnt allowrd to be there) and i dont want it going back to how it was..... |
| Posted: 13 Jan 2017 06:32 AM PST i have been windowed 2cea nd divorced 6 y do people wan to leeevae mee. I was boren in american tye homeof the fre and yet im not fre of thsi pisron. plshelp me. I need a wiffr who wont leave me or di. do i not am loevd becasuse of my robot arm CUZ IF THATS HECKIN IT IM MD A BECUASE U DONT knOW mE |
| Question: What to think/do when your husband says he doesnt need you? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 04:54 AM PST At least not emotionally. We had been fighting, we sat down and talk what bothered me is tha he sees me being upset and he doesnt care, or if im sad. Just before we fought he was looking sad and upset about some other thing and I inmmediately tried to cheer him up. And I did. And he tells me yesterday that he doesnt need me to make him feel better. FYI I know he loves me. Im not sure if romantically anymore. Im sure he is not cheating. How to react to that? I mean if im married i would think my husband would need my support as I need his. Thoughts? Thanks. |
| Question: Wife wants to go back to work but I don't want her to? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 03:28 AM PST I work as a mechanic. I make decent money, about $47k. My wife before she had our son used to work 7a.m to 5 p.m Mon-Friday. She makes $15 an hour and hates that job. She doesn't like her co-workers and it's very dull work with little respect. With commute she had to get up at 5:30, get home at 5:30. Which I guess is not the worst thing in the world, lots of people do it but it's hard to do if you have to come home and care for a newborn. At first she told me she wanted to stay home for the first year or two. When he starts walking and talking more and is basically bigger and a little more independent, she would either work there or work somewhere else. The good thing about her job was the great medical insurance it gave her. She didn't have to pay for any prenatal care or hospital fees (c-section) so we're not struggling with that. I got two weeks off work when our son was born. Our son is only 5 weeks old and so small. I can see how much he loves my wife and how good she is at taking care of him and how happy they are. Yes, she seems tired but probably the happiest I've ever seen her. The reason she mentioned going back to work is because she says I'm working too much to compensate. I have been working 10 hour days and part time every other weekend. I don't mind doing that, I want to do that and make sure my family's good and taken care of. But she's been feeling really upset, like oh I never see you, you hardly get to spend time with the baby. That'll make me feel like less of a man if my woman has to go to work instead of taking care of our baby to pick up slack for me. I don't want her doing that. |
| Question: Gripped by throat during argument with husband! ? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 02:06 AM PST My husband and I had an argument the other night about something personal that I'd rather not share. In our 10 years together we have never had a fight like this, he is always caring, protective and loving towards me but to others he can be a little intimidating, seeing him so upset with me was a shock. We have no children yet. I am from Russia and I threatened him that I was leaving him to go back home. I admit that I made the argument worse because when he took my passport from me I threw a glass at him, missing him, and told him I only married him out of fear. He gripped me by the throat, putting me to the wall and screamed as he punched the wall beside me, when I told him to hit me he just grunted and walked away. He insisted we talk about everything which we did and managed to clear the air that night and we had make up sex. He has never put his hands on me before and I admit I caused it to escalate but he reaction scared him. What are your thoughts on this, did he have a valid reason to react as such? Thanks guys. |
| Question: My husband is suddenly unsure about having kids. I don't know what to do.? Posted: 13 Jan 2017 01:24 AM PST |
| Posted: 12 Jan 2017 11:35 PM PST I wish I could find someone to cheat with and feel loved with or just return to self gratification l |
| Posted: 12 Jan 2017 11:18 PM PST I met a guy on a chat because I was bored I thought get on the chat for conversation-no attentions of dating or talking off line. I met a guy who connected with me we converted about our goals & life- conversation was actually great but in the back of my mind I it would only stay on the line. But he sent me his number, i figured I would call for conversation -never thinking I would meet him nor talk after that day. I called him and we talked then he asked for a picture because I knew we wasn't doin to talk after that day because hes a distance truck driver and I didn't truth/ feel comfortable sending a stranger a real picture of myself i sent a picture/video of someone else. Never would I think him and I would talk almost everyday to where him and I have develop feelings. I've tried cutting him off but he pulled me back He constantly says how he likes me for me and not what I look like. He says he loves my personality and goals of life. I have fallen for him and I didn't with any other guys he is beyond great.I feel like such crap for doing this!! He's such a sweetheart. I want to come clean, it's been almost a month and I really like him. Everything I told him was true and him constantly saying that he loves my personality makes me want to come clean! I feel like he's kind of figured it out. He's always saying looks don't matter and he loves my personality. What do I do?! How do I come clean? Please don't judge me! I didn't mean to fall for him. Thanks! I am not self-conscious nor hate myself I just didn't expect anything with this guy and I was considering my safety. |
| Question: Can i kick my cheating wife out? Posted: 12 Jan 2017 11:05 PM PST WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 14 YEARS MY WIFE IS HAVING AMID LIFE CRISID SHES JUST TURNED 40 AND HAS FALLEN FOR A PERSONAL TRAINER WHO HAS JUST SEPARATED FROM HIS WIFE SO HE HIS CHASING HER AS HE HAS EVERYTHING TO GAIN WE HAVE 3 CHILDREN 5,9.11 HE HAS 4 KIDS. I MIGHT HAVE LET MY LEVEL OF AFFECTION SLIP BUT I AM IN LOVE WITH MY WIFE,AND AM DEVESTATED BY ALL OF THIS.ALL MY WIFES FRIENDS AGREE THAT THIS NEW RELATIONSHIP WILL NOT LAST BUT IT IS DEFENITLY HEADING THAT WAY WE TRIED SOME COUNCILLING BUT SHE DIDNT HELP THAT MUCH I THINK MY WIFE IS CAUGHT UP IN THE EXCITEMENT OF THIS NEW ROMANCE.SHE IS GOING AWAY 4 3 DAYS TOMORROW WITH 6 GIRLFRIENDS ,I WANT TO CHANGE THE LOCKS,REPORT THE CAR STOLEN ,ANYTHING TO MAKE HER FACE REALITY AS I AM STILL PAYING FOR EVERYTHING WHAT CAN/SHOULD I DO HAS ANYONE DONE THAT,HOW DID IT WORK OUT PLEASE HELP |
| Question: What can a Wife get in a divorce? Posted: 12 Jan 2017 09:54 PM PST Husband is a heavy traveler, owns the home, makes 6 figures, lives with girlfriend. |
| Question: Is this considered as cheating - what do you think? Posted: 12 Jan 2017 09:45 PM PST Here is the story... I was travelling to various cities / countries, in one the stops, i met with my ex boss who i had a very good relationship with, I went for few drinks with him, more than i could handle, her later suggested that we go to a gentlemen club where we had few more drinks, i got very drunk that night, i didnt remember anything since we went to the gentlemen club. in the morning i woke up to find a lady sleeping next to me. I had no recollection of what happened so i called my ex-boss and asked him what happened, he said that i got too drunk and the club guys asked us to leave the place, i told my ex boss that i will walk back to the hotel (around 3 kms) which is insane given i was too drunk, he doesnt know anything about the lady. i dont remember anything from that night, i told my wife the whole story. my wife is extremely mad at me and is asking for divorce, i think this is an accident, dont get me wrong, i still take full responsibility and blame for it, but i think it is not cheating as i didnt intend to do so, i havent done it before and didnt want to do it. my wife thinks this is cheating and i must have had all intentions of doing it just because i drank more than i can handle. what do you think? |
| Question: My boyfriend says that marriage is "just a piece of paper."? Posted: 12 Jan 2017 08:56 PM PST My boyfriend is the one who usually brings up the subject, calls me his "wifey" and talks about kids; sometimes we'll make jokes of it too.. But I take marriage seriously, he on the other hand, says it's "just a piece of paper" and that he doesn't need that symbol to show how much he loves me. But, he also says that he does want to get married to me someday, he just doesn't take marriage as serious as I do. I get offended when he makes that "paper" statement. Am i over reacting? Would anybody else feel alarmed or offended if their significant other said this to them? |
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