and then he abuses this to have fun. He will spend 5 to 30 minutes asking dozens of questions and make dozens of statement which are mostly stupid nonsense just to see me get rattled. He won't stop til I have a killer headache and have begged him a dozen times to please stop.

my husband is NEVER horny. Ever. Since before we got married he started having problems with ED. After the first year that problem somewhat resolved itself. Now, he can perform fine, but doesn't want to. I think he always has that fear in the back of his mind of disappointing me, so he just tries to stay away from it altogether. Well, it bothers me. It bothers me that he gives up and doesnt even try. We fight about it almost daily now because he makes me go a couple of MONTHS without intimacy. I've tried talking with him, offering counceling, etc and he refuses. Its become a major strain on our marriage. Lately, though, I've been much more persistent and like .. not really "forcing" him to have sex with me but rather, do whatever it takes to get him aroused even when he says he isn't in the mood. With enough foreplay, he gives in. I feel bad because it just dawned on me that in a way, this can be wrong for me to do. But, I am not raping him or anything like that. I am just ... being persuasive, if you will. What is your opinion?

Im married but me and my partner dont want any children. It is something we have decided since the beginning. I work in an elementary, I work with kindergarteners every day and have nothing against kids, i love them. I just dont want any of my own. My family and people around me keep asking me why am i not having kids and the reasons they give me to have them are quite selfish in my opinion. For example: Whos going to take care of you when you are old? It will bring joy to your life, to continue the bloodline. To strengthen the relationship. I would like for someone to give me an actual reason that isnt one of these. Why did you have children? Thank you so much!

I'm hoping she can't touch it after we divorce.

If the woman is not attracted to him and only wants him for money, will the attraction come later, or should he just not let her use him?

7 years later, my wife is much more sexually open and likes anal play. Unfortunately I get so excited when we are about to commence the act and I ejaculate prematurely. Any honest, sincere advice or solutions?

My husband and I did not have a great start. When dating it was fantastic but ever since I joined the military, everything went downhill. We are young. Yes we know we have our lives ahead of us but the love is so strong that we are willing to go through anything together. I'm getting out the military, and we are starting over. We didn't get married the way we wanted to because I had to go back to work that same day. But we was thinking about renewing our vows. Doing the wedding how we want it. Do you think it will be a good idea?

The new out breaks of measles. Weak mothering skills, no man around the house to stand tough against any disease. Single Moms need banishment.

when our divorce was finalized we agreed on a child support amount. My ex husband also agreed to pay half of the school tuition and half of the day care amount. He also agreed to pay half of the credit card bill and vacation club. He does give me the child support amount and half of daycare cost weekly but nothing else. What can I do? I am having to cover his half of the bills and my credit score is suffering because I can't always pay it on time.

I wanna cuddle with her, should I go for it? I wanna be her cuddle buddy :)

I went to this hairdresser she s very good. She books her appointments through texts. I ve text her asking for an appointment and she said that was her day off. I have a very busy work schedule so I had to wait a bit before trying to schedule my next appointment to try and schedule. No response so I texted her again no responce. I know shes also a mother and very busy. I m kinda frustrated. I asked her before I left if she was hard to book because I don t always have garenteed days off and donot get much notice and she said that was fine. I don t want to find some one new I m getting married soon and don t want a bad haircut.

Is that a good thing or bad thing?

I've been seeing this guy as a friend with benefits for 4 months.. We have been seeing each other for four months. He told me he likes me, that he cares about me but doesn't want a girlfriend. We slept together but we also text and talk on the phone. We hang out and go out sometimes. But I started seeing someone else and I've decided that it's getting to the point where I'm starting to really fall for this new guy and he feels the same way. He wants to be with me for all of me not just for sex. He's just really great. So anyway up until this point this "friend" was the longest relationship I've ever had. I think he'll be fine, even happy for me. I want to do this in the best possible way so which is more appropriate as a way to tell him I can't see him anymore.

My wife loves to shower together every night. Why ?

My husband started feeling sick last night, I thought he was just having allergies but he said he has sharp pains all over his body? And also a headache and I don t know how to help him

My wife was raised by very strict parents. She grew very ashamed of her body and with body image issues. It took her a lot of work and therapy to get her confidence back. She says she wants to raise our children in the complete opposite way that she had to endure with her parents, and wants me to do the same. I feel, however, that her newfound confidence is at odds with a lot of usual social customs. Not only she sleeps in the nude, but she likes to spend time in the nude at home. She rarely wears anything when the weather is warm. Is it OK if we are relaxed about nudity at home now that our first child is about to be born?

My boyfriend is a nice guy he's thoughtful and based on what he does and says he loves me. But i just dont feel the same way anymore, i feel he is not clever his conversations are mostly dull. But i dont know what to tell him. I cant say the reasons that seems harsh to say Help

Marriage isn't even in my near future, but I'm vastly anxious about it if it's mentioned even in every day conversation. I begin to have panic attacks (shaking legs, clammy cold hands, crying, and fast heart beat.) I've gotten good at controlling them, and it's to the point where I can keep it together in public without anyone knowing I'm freaking out on the inside. I am clueless why I'm so anxious about it. My parents have an ok marriage (not the greatest, but who does these days?) My parents never got divorced, they still live together. I have no reason to be anxious about marriage. I don't have a traumatic past or horrible realtionship patterns. I seriously don't even have the slightest idea of why I'm so anxious about marriage. I'm not young, either, well to some of you older folks I might be. Maybe it's fate trying to tell me I'm not right for marriage? Who knows? Anyone else have any guesses to what it could be? It's not interfering with my relationships or anything, mainly because I don't date for the purpose of marriage (I make that clear.) I date just to date. I still want to know why I'm so anxious about marriage, though? I'm 25, like I said I'm not young, but I might be considered young to some. Adolescents ends at 17, not 21. Just an FYI. 21 is considered a mature adult where I live. I'm not afraid of adulthood, I am an adult. I have my own place and a steady job. I have the adult life as it is now, so why would I be afraid of responsibility? I have fallen in love, many times. I haven't been hurt in the past, all of my relationships have ended because I personally cut them off. Never mind, I should have known random strangers on the internet who don't know me wouldn't have the answer. Thanks anyways. I guess fate speaks again. I'm just not right for marriage. I just have to learn to be ok with that.

do you prefer to have the lifestyle of being a stay home mom, to cook and clean or play the role of working a job, and divide the child, home responsibilities evenly

I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. I'm 20 and he's 23. We moved in together a few months ago and since then, I've come to realize how he *really is*. Firstly, he is addicted to video games. On weekends, he's on from the moment he wakes up (usually 7am) to 11pm. On week days, he's on from when he gets home from work at 3pm to 10pm. He is so addicted to his games, that he takes his headset with him to the bathroom, and we rarely eat dinner together (he usually grabs his plate and sits back down at his computer). Basically the only time he gets off his game is if he has to work, if he wants sex or if he's tired. I do all the cooking and cleaning, and I have to beg him to do simple things like load the dishwasher or change *his* cats litterbox. He has very poor hygiene, often going a week+ without showering. He refuses to wear condoms when we have sex, so you can imagine how much it stinks - and sometimes even stings. He's given me several UTIs. On other hygiene related notes, he itches his head hard as if he has lice, he has alot of dandruff, his bellybutton often has lint sitting in it, his chest is full of blackheads, ingrown hairs and up close it really stinks. He also fools around like an immature child, for example, when he showers, he will walk out of the bathroom naked, walk to the room I'm in, pose until I look, laugh then run back to the bathroom. I'm just really sick of it.

I can t stop thinking about my first cousin.. We grew up together and were only 2 months apart (I m 21). As much as I remember, I would always go to her house on the weekends because my dad would always take me to her house to play since we got along and we would play around as kids. We stop talking to each other around the age of 8 since my mom and dad got divorced and she was part of my dad s side. My mom and I came to the states and left everything behind. I moved on and to a certain point I even forgot I had a cousin since it s been years since I ve spoken with my dad s side of the family.. Lots of things happed throughout the years (my mom passed away, I moved from multiple places) I only had about 2 serious relationships, but ended when they cheated on me. Recently I was browsing through Facebook and I bumped into my cousins profile. At first I couldn t even recognized her on how much she changed and how pretty she gotten. I send her a request and we started chatting, we started to face time and when I heard her voice and got a clear look at her face, I was hooked. As we started talking there was a connection between us... I made plans to go visit them soon. I know its wrongful conduct plus I know her mom (my aunt) would truly be disappointed if anything would happen between us. Idk if she likes me or not, maybe she s being really friendly or maybe not.. I just need some help in this matter..sorry for the long post

Im a single divorced dating and have been dating my gf for over a year now. She is great and is great with my son who also loves her however it has been very hard to spend time with her lately because she works and has been sick. She got into a car wreck and was injured and also had the flu and on my day off without my kids instead of going to see her I went shopping with my parents and then went to a rally with some friends. Was this wrong of me to not go an spend time with her instead?

I have just broke up with a long term bf and have been talking/flirting with a guy online/phone for 1 month. He has been been wanting to meet up with me and hints around about it a lot. I finally got some time to meet him at his place last night. He texted mebin the morning and even sent me a 😘. Late afternoon rolls around and I ask him if he was still going to be around. He replied, "I will be in and out". I was like Um....ok. Then he goes, "My new apt. Is trashed and it wouldnt be right to being you here. Truthfully. And honestly, you arent completely done with your previous relationship". (Mind you, i NEVER talk about that relationahip ever) Then he asked me TWICE if I was mad?? WTH? Is this an anxiety thing? Why was he so adament to meet me, then all of a sudden----NOPE!!! He is 34, and still single. Any clue, anyone? Thank you

My 4 year old walked in while I was pleasuring my wife as we were having sex. I wouldn't be worried about saying anything; but, she started crying and she's mad at me because she thought I was hurting mommy. I don't want to say we were wrestling or playing because I don't want her trying to "play" with her friends. Suggestions.

My husband and I are from Vancouver. We came to the United States, specifically Chicago, Illinois for my husband's job. However, both my husband and I are very homesick and want to move back to Vancouver so we can be close with our other families. Our three kids who are 16, 14, and 11 are not so open to the idea. In fact they hare it because they really like it in Chicago and would desperately miss their friends and they did grow up here. We are confused on what to do, because while we both miss home very much, we also know that we can't just uproot our kids. What do you think we should do?

My girlfriend told me we were both invited to her friend (I'll call her Sam) Sam's house for some kind of get together. According to Sam, she told my girlfriend that her husband verbally abuses her because he suffers with depression and things like that. Recently, my girlfriend called me on the phone because she wanted to know if Sam should divorce or separate from her husband. The problem is that Sam's husband does not want to get help or treatment for his depression and, Sam does not want to end her marriage with him. And another note, I'm not a big fan or parties or get togethers. I think they can be very awkward and, my girlfriend told me it was Sam's husband's idea to have this get together. I don't want to say no to my girlfriend because I don't want to be "that guy" who wants to do nothing. I just don't like going out sometimes, especially with other guys I don't know around my girlfriend, especially at someone else's place, I get jealous. It's uncomfortable and I don't like being around people I don't know, especially Sam's husband who I have sympathy for and yet, I don't feel good about going. Maybe he just needs people around to help him? I don't know. What should I do???

They won't touch or hug you because you are ill with the flu. The refuse to help you to the toilet or while you are on the toilet. They will not even touch you because they are afraid of getting sick themselves. They tell you to stay in one room so you will not spread the virus. They complain about going to the store having to get you something to help you feel better and they take more money then they need to get those supplies. How would you feel if your significant other acted this way when you were sick? They refuse to see you or be around you until you are fully recovered.

I work in Healthcare, taking care of sick patients. My husband recently had been sick. Very much so to the point of exhaustion. I worked the night prior, having 24 patients by myself until midnight. I have to check vitals every 4. My job literally rolled from one duty into the other. Of those 24, 8 were complete total care. Meaning they can't do anything for themselves. So, I have to change their soiled diapers and reposotion them. I got help at after midnight. Even then call lights didn't stop and the load was still very heavy. I went to sleep and woke up. He wanted me to do his hair, I said no I was exhausted. He was disappointed because he felt it was a slap in the face to how tired he was from being sick. Which, I understand. He says I don't see how. I was just looking from my perspective. I see his perspective. All. Night. Long. At work. 3 days 36 hours a week at night. 12 hours. It seems he doesn't understand mine. I take of sick people more than just him. I was exhausted. I also deal with racist, ungrateful, confused, misogynistic, and lazy patients and people...I told him I would do his hair tonight. He doesn't want Me to anymore. He did ask more than once. I didn't expect to be exhausted. Yes, there is a difference between sick exhausted....and me. Mentally, phsycially and emotionally exhausted....Am I being insensitive?

My daughter plays the sims 4 and she makes her sims have baby's and stuff, now last night me and my wife were in the bathroom and our daughter comes running and rubbing my wife's tummy and saying "mommy a pregnant" or "mommy has a baby in her tummy" (playing around) my wife says "what, are you crazy?" Also I believe she said stop. Afterwards I was in my bedroom and our kids were playing and my daughter ran back saying the same thing really loud, I heard my wife say a mouth full back to them, when I ask my kids they said she only laugh and that was it. In my mind I'm thinking she said to them "maybe one day" or something. By the looks of it she seems pretty done with having kids and is always making jokes to our oldest daughter about having kids soon. My point I'm trying to ask is does it sound she or seem she would of said to them maybe one mommy will have another baby or is it just my head trying to make me go crazy and she probably didn't say anything? What does it seem like?

Some dirt got behind my iphone 6s case and scratched my iphone smh. This has to be at least tied with that time Lois tricked Peter to go on that marriage counselling trip

21 years of this . Can't work outside the home. Can't visit family. Have no friends etc... 2 children together . Good provider but that's it . Stayed for my children because it's not about my happiness wants or needs anymore it's all about them! Just feel like I'm wasting away ..don't wanna lose myself What would you do?!

My husband and I have been married for 4 months we've been living together for 2. Ever since I moved with him he always wants to go out and get drunk. Sometimes he tells me that he's going to take me out but ends up "forgetting" so he ends up going out with his friends. Whenever I did go out with him and his friends he would get angry drunk with me so he would start yelling at me in front of everyone. He also says he's always with me. I only see him when he gets off work we have dinner and he goes to sleep right after. What should I do?

Just curious... My husband threatened to physically harm me and my family. I know he's crazy should I report these threats and is it illegal to threaten to drive to someone's house and harm them even if they don't do it