Marriage & Divorce: Question: Did we have sexual tension? Guy A and B? Do they like me? |
- Question: Did we have sexual tension? Guy A and B? Do they like me?
- Question: Can long distance really work?
- Question: Have you and your husband or wife ever made it through a tv series together? Do you actually watch tv as a couple?
- Question: If I have blue eyes and my husband has sexy brown eyes! Our baby boy will have __________ eyes ?
- Question: Is marriage even worth it?
- Question: My husband says things then forgets he says them.?
- Question: My husband always annoys me but I might be pregnant again, what do I do?
- Question: Why are you not wanting sex Chief ?
- Question: Yeah, "immature"?
- Question: Feeling guilty....?
- Question: HELP! I need to get back to the future?
- Question: Do Asian women like Mexican Men?
- Question: How oh HOW do I get my ex-husband to leave me alone?!?
- Question: Do some married men feel slighted if you wont sleep with them?
- Question: If I marry my bf who is 32 will he cheat and wander eventually? (im the only woman he has slept with)?
- Question: My husband refinance a house with his mother. He wants a divorce. Can I force him to sell the home?
- Question: Guys would be cool with your girlfriend doing this?
- Question: Do you sleep at night with your husband?
- Question: Should I give this relationship another chance?
- Question: How would you react if you suggested a divorce and your husband/wife was cool with it?
- Question: URGENT !!how do i stop my husbands call of duty addiction?
- Question: Why do mothers use their kids as weapons in divorces?
- Question: Is my husband gay because I just caught him wearing my work outfit?
- Question: What has everyone's love life been like?
- Question: I'm sick and my wife is being really mean to me! How can I get her to be more sympathetic?
- Question: Should I keep my last name or take my fiancés?
- Question: Marriage help?
- Question: Separated from husband would like to move away with son to be with my family for support. Would be so grateful for advice?
- Question: How do I organize a threesome?
- Question: How do i tell my wife that she is getting fat?
- Question: How long will my husband keep bringing up my past?
- Question: I lied an told my new friend I was in a relationship all because I didn't want him to my house?
- Question: Is there no hope for our marriage?
- Question: If a husband has his hands between his wife's legs each time they are together or on her private, is he only with her bc she's sexy?
- Question: How do you stop childsupport. I no longer want it?
- Question: I need an state id for my wife?
- Question: My name is Taylor and my bf's last name is Taylor, so if we got married, (I don't want to, but if) would my name be Taylor Taylor?
- Question: I need advice from someone whose been cheated on?
- Question: I am no longer interested in sleeping with my husband of 2 years because he told me if I ever got pregnant he is going to need a DNA Test.?
- Question: My wife hates sex ?
- Question: Would you go on a trip if your boyfriend invited you at the last minute?
- Question: Once a mama's boy always a mama's boy?
- Question: Why when I mention marriage he mentions common law marriage?
- Question: Complicated marriage, advice please.?
- Question: Why does my husband pick fights?
- Question: What does it mean when your spouse says "I had no choice"?
- Question: My husband always seems to have bad breath...help!?
- Question: Why can't I get over my boring marriage proposal?
- Question: Why Doesn't My Husband Ever Surprise Me?
- Question: Welcome home surprise for my husband?
- Question: How can I sexually surprise my husband when he comes home?
- Question: I am deployed and want to surprise my wife when I come back home, any suggestion or ideas?
- Question: How to surprise husband for 5th anniversary?
- Question: Need ideas to surprise my wife.?
- Question: Found a condom wrapper in husbands pocket.Is he cheating?
- Question: My wife wants to wear pants? How do i stop her? Disobeyed me?
| Question: Did we have sexual tension? Guy A and B? Do they like me? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:58 PM PST Guy A: We stared into eachother eyes during awkward silence no smile from him. Smile from me. He didn't blink though....I had to look away Guy B: He was staring at me so I said hi and he said hi back. No smile but kept staring...I had to look away |
| Question: Can long distance really work? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:28 PM PST My friends have been giving me mixed answers and its driving me crazy. I'm finally in my senior year and am heading off to College next fall. I feel really excited that all I have left is these few months and then I get to go off. Only my girlfriend is planning on going to a different school and is going to be about 1300 miles away. At the moment we both have our minds set on our particular schools and havent discussed what we're going to do when we leave. We've been going out for almost two years and shes was my first. I've asked a few friends about this and theyve all said that it could work, but most likely wont. That either I'll give up or she will. I didnt let it get to me at first but its all I've thought about over winter break until now. Could long distance work? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:14 PM PST If anyone has any recommendations let me know. We finally excited the dark ages and got netflix but he is into those outdoorsy mountain people shows (yes this is a thing) and I'm not... |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:14 PM PST My Husband has brown eyes and I have blue eyes what colour is Luke most likely to have ? |
| Question: Is marriage even worth it? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 07:09 PM PST |
| Question: My husband says things then forgets he says them.? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 06:54 PM PST My husband says things then forget them. Then he swears I'm making up what he said. He won't go to a doctor. Idk what to do. He does this a lot. |
| Question: My husband always annoys me but I might be pregnant again, what do I do? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 06:51 PM PST I'm 28 and my husband is 30. I'm biracial and he's white. He acts like a typical white man and annoys me all the time. We have 5 children the youngest is 6 months old. My husband works long hours and I appreciate him for that but he's so annoying. He leaves a mess wherever he is and makes stupid jokes. We have been together for several years now. I'm not in love with him and haven't been for a while now. It's just the same old every day he works I take care of the kids and cook. There's no excitement. I'm so bored of the marriage it's just the same old all the time. He always has to act in a silly way. I was 19 when I met him and still in college when I got pregnant. I never got to finish school or experience things I dreamed of and it's all his fault. He's selfish like all white men. I'm so tired of everything. The spark in the marriage is gone. I have missed my period and have been feeling a bit weird lately so I'm worried I might be pregnant again and that would be too much. What do I do? |
| Question: Why are you not wanting sex Chief ? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 06:51 PM PST |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 06:35 PM PST That's their latest label in an attempt to finally subdue me. People are not even looking at the circumstances on what happened. Part of the implicit agreement on me going after her was trust and loyalty. I thought she could be like that. I mean, she's hardly dated... But, I totally thought wrong of her. Well, to be fair, I've been coming to the conclusion that she is NOT what a lot of things she said she believed... Or thought of herself. I just couldn't admit it to myself. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 06:25 PM PST I have OCD/anxiety and was overthinking a situation today involving my in laws. I thought about it so much that ideas kept popping into my head; a lot of what ifs. I needed to vent and hear if I was being crazy or not,so I talked to a few of my coworkers. They don't know my in laws so I knew I'd get unbiased advice. I said some things about them that weren't nice. They were judgements I made and assumptions I drew based on all the things I was worrying about/ Things such as "what is his father has a learning disability....what if his uncle does...." etc. As the day went on, I realized I was overreacting and the things I was thinking were not in fact true; my mind had raced due to all my overthinking. I apologized to the people I spoke to & told them I was having a moment, I apologized if I gave a bad picture, but that wasn't my intent. I told them I love my in laws and had created a situation in my head that wasn't true. Now I feel really guilty. My in laws don't even know I was worried about something like this because there was no problem that brought it on. I was reading an article about something, I started thinking, and then I started to overthink and worry. because I overthought a worry I had. I feel like I should message my father in law and say I was worried about something, told a few friends, and I apologize. But, then again he doesn't know I had a problem to begin with! Do I apologize to him or take a few deep breaths, move on, and try to learn not to overthink? Basically I want to know....do I need to message my father in law (which I don't message him ever really) or do I just let this go. Am I overthinking this, too, now?! I am close to my in laws, but we don't talk about things like this. I don't text them regularly or call them or anything. We get along fine, and they are great, we just aren't ultra close. I feel like an awful person that I ever even had these thoughts!!!! |
| Question: HELP! I need to get back to the future? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 06:02 PM PST I accidentally turned on the time circuits in my friend's delorean! I didn't realize this, but I have traveled to the year 1955! I know, Heavy, right? Anyway, Doc had this stupid *** plan to have the delorean get struck by lightning or some dumb **** like that. Any other ideas on how I could get back? Also, my mom (as a teen, I'm in 1955 remember) has been trying to **** me. Also my dad's a little *****. Now I'm being eraced from time because my ***** *** dad won't take my mom out. How can I fix time, and get back to the future? |
| Question: Do Asian women like Mexican Men? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:59 PM PST What do I have to do to have a beautiful Asian woman? |
| Question: How oh HOW do I get my ex-husband to leave me alone?!? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:57 PM PST Sooo.... I m in the midst of divorce. I ve supported my husband for YEARS and now he s homeless and needs money every other day. It s ridiculous! He s an alcoholic and hasn t held a job for years, I can t keep helping him. One day he s nice, the next he insults me all day. I could care less what he says, I m over his opinion of me, but today--- he threatened to kill himself, texted his sister, best friend and mom telling them he s going to kill himself so of course they all call me. He wanted to see our kids before he did it to say goodbye and I told him HELL NO you re not going to traumatize my kids because you re too big of a baby to grow the F up and get a job like a normal person. He s not handicapped, he s not stupid, he CAN work, he just cant hold down a job. I m sooo frustrated. Short of changing my number how do I get rid of him? I ve very blatantly told him to leave me alone, I ve called the cops, i ve blocked his number (but I still get the voice mails). please help me! |
| Question: Do some married men feel slighted if you wont sleep with them? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:50 PM PST For starters I'd NEVER sleep with a person who is married or committed. I am younger female that works in an office with a lot of higher ups. A guy from a new dept. was transferred over and Id say he is in his late 40s. When he first started in my dept. he would just stare at me. (like sexually) and I'd complete ignore him. He's fairly wealthy, and in a high position but not my supervisor. The thing is that he is subtly rude towards me. For exp, he will say good bye to everyone upon leaving but ignore me. He gets very very angry if anyone *male or female shows me attention* When people come by my desk he finds a way to butt into every single conversation. Just last wk tech srvcs was fixing my computer and talking to me and he interrupted saying when they were finished to come by his office bc he needed some help, then he came back and was like never mind. When clientele come to the office and I do my normal spiel he will walk by knowing I've done my part and go behind me asking them if they can be helped. He did not start this behavior until he moved into the office and when he would give me amorous looks I'd ignore. Do married men really get that hurt about being rejected? He is good looking, but I would never have an affair. |
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| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:09 PM PST we own a home together. As we were married and I didn't want him to refinance her home with his name on it, can I force his name off so I can get what is owed? we have been married 28 years. I was always a homemaker. What do I do? |
| Question: Guys would be cool with your girlfriend doing this? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:09 PM PST Would you be cool with your girlfriend going out of state and staying with a single straight male friend of hers? |
| Question: Do you sleep at night with your husband? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:01 PM PST I wanna sleep with my husband but I can t because he can t go to bed at night. He can t stop watching TV or using his computer. He usually goes to bed at 4am-6am. I have to wake up at 6am. We ve talked about this so many times and he said he will change but it s been more than 3 years. I don t know why he can t go to bed at night. It s not hard at all. We have kids. He is sleeping when our kids leave to school. |
| Question: Should I give this relationship another chance? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 04:59 PM PST My son's farther and I have an 8 year old son. 1) We both were dishonest in the beginning. 2) He did not believe the pregnancy was his child, I was seeing an ex boyfriend. 3) I married someone which failed. 4) After a DNA test my son's father vowed to never let his son down again. He was involved at that time. 5) We casually got involved but I was casually involved with someone else to. 7) Since my son's birth I have had 10 - 12 failed relationships and I'm currently in a relationship. My son's father wants to do what's best for our son: get married, raise our son together, and financially support everything, he wants me to focus on school and make our house a home. I can select the house. Lately I have been asking him for financial help, I can't depend on my job or my current boyfriend. I live with my parents, my boyfriend lives with his mother and sisters, he has 2 children that I know of. I do not TRUST my son's father, in the past he threatened me through text (nothing physical) because I have not done anything to add his name to our son's birth certificate. He has never followed up. In the past women contacted me saying they are the mother of his children. I have no proof. He believes it's his ex girlfriend. On January 1, 2017, he apologized for everything that has been wrong and holds himself responsible for his actions. I asked him for financial help again 2 days ago, he supported me knowing I have a boyfriend. What shall I, or would you do? |
| Question: How would you react if you suggested a divorce and your husband/wife was cool with it? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 03:44 PM PST Husband: I want a divorce Wife: Okay, cool. |
| Question: URGENT !!how do i stop my husbands call of duty addiction? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 03:44 PM PST My husband plays from the time he gets up till he goes to work , on weekends its from the time he gets up till 6 am the next morning ... then he sleeps till 4 pm and is on the game again .... constantly if he isnt at work or asleep he is on the game ! He ignores me and his 2 young children. If he dosent slow doen with the game I will divorce him ... AND DONT SAY BREAK THE GAME !!! DONE DID IT TWICE!! |
| Question: Why do mothers use their kids as weapons in divorces? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 03:20 PM PST Mine did this in 1993 when she divorced through when I became old enough to get away from her. I hear many other mothers do the same, |
| Question: Is my husband gay because I just caught him wearing my work outfit? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 03:07 PM PST I am an exotic dancer an stripper and I have a bunch of bikinis and other exotic dancing outfits and high heels for work. I came home last night at 2am from work and caught my husband wearing one of bikinis and my 7 inch platforms along with a wig and makeup. I don't own a wig so he must have bought it himself. I got mad and started yelling and asking him if he was gay and he said he wasn't. I told him that I am getting a divorce and he got on his knees and begged me not to. I didn't listen to him and just got in the car and went to my sister's house and spent the night there. He is now blowing up my phone calling constantly and leaving voicemails asking me to come home. I don't want to because I think that he is gay. He says he dresses up in my outfits because he admires and think that I am sexy. Is he really serious ? Is he gay from what it sounds like ? |
| Question: What has everyone's love life been like? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 02:17 PM PST I got married at the age of 18, the date was October 15, 1995 and 21 years later we are still happily married and have our Son Julian who was born February 2nd, 1999. I believe that your marriage reflects a lot about who you are as a person. Someone who has been married and divorced 3-4 different times seems off to me. Anyways, tell me your story. |
| Question: I'm sick and my wife is being really mean to me! How can I get her to be more sympathetic? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 01:44 PM PST I have had a cold since this weekend, and my wife isn't the slightest bit sympathetic! Here I am, suffering awful, and she acts like it's no big deal. She just has left me piled up under blankets in the bedroom and gone off like I don't need her. She can take care of our kids, but she won't even sit with me to keep me company, even though she knows I feel lousy. She says that she and the kids also had colds, but I don't think that can be true, because they just went on like it was nothing, except for some minor sniffles. At the very least they can't have had it as bad as me; she took my temperature and it said 99.1°, nearly 100!! Here I am, burning up with fever, and I'm getting ignored. I told her how I was having chills, and she told me to get up and put on some pants, just so uncaring, like, "put on some pants, don't bother me." I feel totally unloved right now. Yesterday she brought me a bowl of chicken soup for lunch and I said I wanted sausage and beer, but she just said, "A person at death's door like you is MUCH too sick for that"; I know she was just being mean. She didn't even try to fluff my pillows up or feel my forehead, or anything! She just went out of the room, dragging our four-year-old along, off to see what one of the other kids was crying about. Last night she really made me mad! She was in the bathroom, scrubbing the shower, when I came in to take a leak. She looked at me for a minute and said, "Do you need me to hold your weiner to aim it, or have you recovered from your horrible illness enough so you can manage it on your own?" At first I thought she was wanting to get frisky, but then it dawned on me she was making fun of me! Why is she being so darned mean? She says that if I am well enough to lay in bed messing with the laptop I'm really not sick. She says she and the kids only had minor colds and now they are gone, that the only thing I have is "man flu", and there isn't any cure for that. Maybe the kids recovered because she showed a little caring for them! How can I get her to act like a proper wife towards me? |
| Question: Should I keep my last name or take my fiancés? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:45 PM PST My fiancés last name is very common (smith) and my last name, not so much (wildfox). I also want our children to have my last name rather than his. He doesn't really have any family ties to it. His dad is adopted and kept his biological father's last name, but they do not have any ties to them. What is your opinion on this? |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:24 PM PST Me and my boyfriend have been together for quite a while now and I really want to get married and he says he does too but not yet. I was really young when we got together and I cheated on him a couple times which I fully regret and I have grown and matured since then but each time he took me back and the last time he said would be the very last time he took me back and also has if I could be faithful for a year he would marry me and it's been more than a year and he is always telling me how he wants to be together for the rest of our lives but he doesn't want to get married or even engaged anytime soon but has me wear an engagement ring he gets upset if I dont and he calls me his wife and tells me he's my husband and I fully understand why he doesn't want to get married yet but he said after a year of me being faithful which I have for more than a year he would and he has me wear the ring and the things he says makes me feel so led on and I'm not sure what to do about it if i say anything he gets upset and says i did it to myself which I did but i still don't know what to do please no rude responses |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:19 PM PST My husband & I broke up recently after he left me for somebody else. For past 6 years hes been emotionally abusive throughout.Would lie about being abroad, cheated many times &was not very hands on with our 2 year old at the start at all, ive always done all the sleepless nights.But he is great father to our son now hes older.I have no family here,feel so alone & was made to believe everything he did was my fault so I'd always apologise & stay. My family are 3 hours away & I visit them regularly. My ex has our son Tues,Thurs & Sun unless go home then hes ok with having him a bit later.this weekend after I confessed I had been finding things hard & needed to see family,he text me on Sat to say if I'm not home by a certain time he will call the police. I have wanted to go home for long time & plucked courage to ask for approval and said its very important that he maintains good relationship with son but that I have no support of friends or family & i am incredibly lonely.I suggested that if he wanted to sort it properly we could do mediation to ease his mind that I won't mess him around with visitation which I'd never do & said that because I'd be working 5 days a week I would be grateful if we did every other weekend so we both had quality time. He refused mediation & said he's going to solicitor to get every weekend.I feel so trapped here but if I go I'm petrified I'll never see my son he is my world am I being very unreasonable & will a judge give him every weekend? |
| Question: How do I organize a threesome? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 11:52 AM PST I am truly in love with my husband and secure in our relationship. If there is anyone in the world I am going to try something with it is going to be him. I want to explore more things in the bedroom and really think it would be fun to add the right woman. He of course is interested and so the search has began. Where do we look? How do we get started? |
| Question: How do i tell my wife that she is getting fat? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 11:25 AM PST I know i'm going to get some scathing responses responses for that, but its truly becomming a health problem. Neither of us are in the best shape, so we both agreed to start working out two set days a week after the new year. So far she has not joined me for a single workout (im letting my stubborness work in my favor for a change and i go any way.) She says shed tired or she doesnt feel like it. Thing is, shes becoming obese and im concerened about her health. Her mom weighed over 300 lb when she died young and im worried the same thing will happen to her. And then theres my shallow side. I find it hard to become arroused by her in her current physical condition. Im not saying im going to stray (i never will) but I want us to be sexy for each other. How can i get through to her? |
| Question: How long will my husband keep bringing up my past? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 11:25 AM PST I had an affair over 2 months ago--and yet my husband will continue harp on it, little jabs here and there an I'm sick of it ! Does he want me to go back to him? because I will, it was amazing but I felt guilty--when will my husband stop talking about it and become a real man? @Rebecca--I know right? you're 100% correct. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 11:09 AM PST Now it's been 6 months he keeps asking me to move with him an his parents 😩 Then when he got a lil good job telling me he's tired of waiting an I need to pick who I wanna be with 😏 I asked him if he really wanna be with me he said yea with the expression like yes I do but j don't wanna wait ! How can I kno if he's serious an not trying to play me to leave my boyfriend which I don't have !? |
| Question: Is there no hope for our marriage? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 10:46 AM PST Husband and I have been together 4 years and married two of them. I always felt self concious-dont like a lot about myself. When my husband and i first got together we both wanted to present our best selves. Because I liked him so much and didn't want to lose him, I made sure to be intimate with him quite often. Naturally I have always been a person who can go without for a long time. Now that my husband and I have been together for a while, my more natural desire to be intimate has been revealed to my husband and he doesn't like it. He has the opposite level of need for sexual intimacy. this has caused much strife in our relationship and my husband mentioned he did not want children with me unless we had much more frequent sex, we decided to go to counseling. Counseling has been going well. I was diagnosed with Body Dysmorphic Disorder. Our therapist is working with me on a more positive self image. I have been working hard to open my mind and be positive about sex and my body image. This led to more frequent sex.however, now my husband still isn't happy and thinks I'm forcing it (I'm not). He said he feels "jipped" on a wife because he thought I was someone that I am not. He has a bleak outlook on my recovery because I still won't be the spontaneous wife he wanted. I feel so hurt. So lost. I want to be with this man for the rest of my life but I'm afraid that he will not want to continue this journey to recovery with me or support me emotionally. Any advice would help. |
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| Question: How do you stop childsupport. I no longer want it? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 09:17 AM PST How do you stop childsupport, I no longer want it. I am not on assistance and well off. Minnesota Please do not reply if you cannot answer the question. I am not looking for life advice or opinions. I am just asking directions on how to stop it. |
| Question: I need an state id for my wife? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 09:17 AM PST |
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| Question: I need advice from someone whose been cheated on? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:35 AM PST So my friend just found out her husband has been cheating on her. she asked me to come over and help her deal and i really want to be there for her, she's the one i'd go to if this happened to me. The problem i'm having is that i have no idea how to comfort her. I want to be there for her in every way possible. i'm just afraid to say the wrong thing but i dont know what the right thing to say is either. MY QUESTION: Since you've been cheated on, 1. how did u get through it? 2. what can i do to comfort her? 3. what are things i should avoid saying? thanks for your help -Autumn |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:27 AM PST I do not need to go through the pains of childbirth only to be demoralised by it. We have never had any issues with infidelity in our marriage, this came up as he recently stumbled upon the Maury show. The only reason I got married in the first place was to have children. He led me to believe that he too wanted children. My question is , should I tell him I will no longer be sleeping with him, so he should find someone else? Or how does a faithful wife get out of such a shameful predicament? I still want children but apparently not with him. |
| Posted: 11 Jan 2017 08:06 AM PST Me and my wife have been married for a few weeks. We both love each other very much but she doesn't like sex. We only did it once on our wedding night we haven't done it since. She's not afraid of it she just doesn't like it. When I try to do it she always tells me to stop. She just wants to cuddle all the time. Why does she hate it ? Is this normal ? |
| Question: Would you go on a trip if your boyfriend invited you at the last minute? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 07:53 AM PST He's had this trip planned for weeks and his parents bought it for him. He invites you to go the week before when flight prices have gone up significantly and he never offers to help pay your way, its on you. It is a trip to visit friends out of state. Would you go? |
| Question: Once a mama's boy always a mama's boy? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 07:46 AM PST I am divorced from my mama's boy ex husband. He was so enmeshed with her that he was still living at home when we got married and wouldn't move in with me- I was blindsided. Knew there'd be problems but nobody anticipated this. His mother is healthy and married. He now lives right next door to her. I still feel angry and wonder if even in his future relationships if he will still always put her first? He had a girlfriend for 2 years who put on FB how amazing his family is and all over his mom. Now he's with a new girl. I have wanted to ask this question for a while. I feel embarrassed that I even have given it thought. I feel like I'm not supposed to wonder this. The truth is I want to hear he'll never change. I'd rather my efforts at the time were pointless, not to help him change for someone else. This is something I have to get over. Thanks all, I had buried him in the back of my mind and wasn't really angry at him at first, more angry at his mom after the divorce. But ever since being with now the right person, I started to compare how horrible things used to be like holidays or decision making, etc to how it is for me now. It got me thinking and I started feeling anger. I don't miss him but wonder if I'm facing part of the healing process that I tucked away. It feels actually a bit better talking about it, so thank you. |
| Question: Why when I mention marriage he mentions common law marriage? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 07:09 AM PST |
| Question: Complicated marriage, advice please.? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:56 AM PST So my wife of 6 years and I are separated. She has made it clear that she doesn't want our relationship to involve marriage. Yet she often acts to the contrary in a way I'd expect if she wanted to stay married and be 'close'. However when I reciprocate (sp?) she pulls away and reaffirms her position of not wanting that kind of relationship. She no longer speaks of divorce though recently she has come to me looking for a sexual relationship, and we've slept in the same bed twice in two weeks (something we haven't done in 3 years, even a year before separating). She's also expressed a desire to have a baby (lol), but not with me yet when we have sex she wants me to finish inside. I'm not exactly sure how to act around her, I love her and want to start over with our marriage. I'm having trouble establishing just what exactly it is she expects from me. To put it into words she acts as though we are in a serious relationship right up until I do and then she gets pissed off about it. In case it matters, we're white middle class 30 year olds. She doesn't to my knowledge have any other guy in her life, and doesn't appear interested in being involved with another guy. (Women on the other hand..) We both work, she's a former truck driver going to school for a bachelors , I'm starting probably next semester. To sum up, she acts like she wants to be with me, we have (unprotected) sex, sleep together, buy each other **** but vocally declares she doesn't want to be with me. |
| Question: Why does my husband pick fights? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 05:54 AM PST He knows that when he says negative things about MY kids it s a trigger for me. He knows how to say things that push my buttons. So if he pushes and I don t respond he pushes the next button. If I don t respond he pushes again. If I ask why he is trying to pick a fight he says "I m just trying to talk to you." but it s the same things everytime. My son says something about his father. My daughter was mouthy. He playingly teases my daughter she nails him back too, he gets his feelings hurt and she is the bad guy. He nit picks everything they do. |
| Question: What does it mean when your spouse says "I had no choice"? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 04:37 AM PST |
| Question: My husband always seems to have bad breath...help!? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 03:29 AM PST My husband's bad breath is putting a damper on our sex life. He has always slept with his mouth open because he can't breath and he doesn't floss either. I have always enjoyed kissing with past partners but I don't with my husband. When I tell him he becomes annoyed and thinks I'm picking on him. Even during sex I can't concentrate because he tries to kiss me and I turn away or the smell is just all that I focus on instead of trying to enjoy the sex. Any suggestions as to what I should do? I have suggested him seeing a doctor for his breathing for the past 4 years and he says he will but the 4 years have come and gone and no doctor visit. |
| Question: Why can't I get over my boring marriage proposal? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 01:23 AM PST I live in Hawaii and me and now hubby do a lot of stuff together at the beach, hiking etc. I knew he was going to propose but was caught off guard when he proposed in our shabby living room, NAKED, 30 mins before I boarded a plane to visit my dying dog in my home state for 10 days. The diamond is exquisite, he is a great catch, but I find myself feeling so bitter about the proposal. I throw it in his face almost every time we get in a fight. I know it hurts him, but I can't seem to get over how disappointed I am. I wanted my fairy tale proposal!! There were so many opportunities to make it wonderful, why did he do it that way?!! Tried to suggest he should attempt a redo, but he thinks that it's stupid. |
| Question: Why Doesn't My Husband Ever Surprise Me? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:54 AM PST I don't know why my husband of 4 years never surprises me. I am talking about no flowers, no everyday gifts, letters, notes. Even every holiday including Valentine's Day and all weekends. He never Plans anything. Why does he do this and how can I get him to start? |
| Question: Welcome home surprise for my husband? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:52 AM PST So i haven't seen my husband for a month now due to work he will be coming back in two weeks and i wanted to do something sexy for him any ideas .. i don't want to do the usual welcome home suprise of candle, and wating for him him bed with a sexy gown thing i've done that too many times any fresh sexy idea that will make him remember it for a long time? his just coming for the weekend and will head back out again so i def want him to miss it when his gone ; ) |
| Question: How can I sexually surprise my husband when he comes home? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:47 AM PST I'd like to surprise him nicely. ;) Any suggestions? |
| Question: I am deployed and want to surprise my wife when I come back home, any suggestion or ideas? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:44 AM PST I would perfer a woman's opinion, but if the males have good ideas then feel free to add your opinion. |
| Question: How to surprise husband for 5th anniversary? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:42 AM PST Me and my husband have been together since we were in high school (were 25 now), and we have been married for 4 years. We have a little girl who is 16 months old, and so for our anniversary, I want to do something special, like a carriage ride that they have down in SLC, Utah or something romantic, but my husband does the bills, and so if I try to put money aside, he will notice that some money is missing, and so I want it to be a surprise and so can anyone help me out with some ideas for what we can do for one night so my little girl only has to be babysat for a few hour's....I love her very much and always miss her when she is being babysat. Our anniversary is on June 17th. |
| Question: Need ideas to surprise my wife.? Posted: 11 Jan 2017 12:36 AM PST Only using common household items.... I've done the posted notes with little clues, but want something different this time. Please don't tell me to clean, or make dinner, or something like that. I need something that she'll talk about not for that day, but hopefully for the rest of the week! |
| Question: Found a condom wrapper in husbands pocket.Is he cheating? Posted: 10 Jan 2017 11:45 PM PST My hubby and I have been together for almost 9 years. We have two sons, 6 and 18mths. We have a very active sex life,usually daily.I'm pretty sure he is happy with me sexually as he always acts horny around me and is attracted to me (I am a lingerie model,slim young and attractive). My worry is that today, when I was doing the laundry today I found half an empty condom wrapper in his pants pocket. I questioned him about it and he simply said that he was cleaning around the bed in our room,found it and must have put it in his pocket. I am on the pill and we havent used condoms in over 3 years...in saying that I did happen to look under the bed and found two more old (I checked the expiry dates) condoms wrappers that we had obviously used years ago (I know I should clean under the bed more often lol). The wrapper I found didn't have an expiry date as it was only half of one.. Just seems weird because this man can never even pick up his dinner plate or do any housework unless asked to. I really can't see him bothering to clean under the bed. What do you think? Should I believe him and consider myself paranoid? Or do you think he may have cheated? |
| Question: My wife wants to wear pants? How do i stop her? Disobeyed me? Posted: 10 Jan 2017 10:37 PM PST Recently my wife started asking me to start wearing pants.I ofcourse said no,because pants arent really for women.Skirts and dresses are.So next day,i see her wear pants.I was so pissed.She did it without my allowance.I would have never allow her that!How could she disobey me like that.I locked her in a room until she changes into a dress.And she did ofcourse.But now,she started asking again.What do i need to do to make her stop asking me because i will NEVER allow her that.Thats just not womens clothes.I want my wife feminine.And dont tell me about some bul sh i t equality because women and man are not equal.She is my wife after all. |
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