My fiance comes directly home from work changes and puts her engagement ring in her holder. She says that sometimes it bothers her finger when her finger swells and i can understand she doesnt want to sleep with it, but lately we have been in kind of a rut. We are working through it and maybe I am just worrying about this little thing too much. But when we were first engaged she would wear the ring when she got home until she went to bed. Now it seems like it is something that is just part of her outfit for the day.

My fiancée and I decided to be abstinent until marriage for personal/religious reasons. My fiancée is a really caring, selfless individual. Sometimes to the point where she wants to "fix" things she can't. Her parents have always had a dysfunctional, abusive marriage. Her father recently overdosed on prescription drugs and had a failed suicide attempt that wound him in the psych ward (my fiancée has been through the same situation as a child and teenager). My fiancée, who is usually emotional, hardly reacted and "shut down" since this happened. She had a few visits with her dad and has been monitoring his care. She also works full time and is in grad school (at night). The small amount of time we see each other, she has not felt like talking about her dad. Recently I made dinner for my fiancée and she barely talked. Then afterwards she tried to initiate sex and started getting undressed. I stopped her and said we may both regret this. She's also not on birth control right now and we don't want children soon. My fiancée started crying and left, telling me she needs some space. I know she is immensely stressed and it's ok if she wants to reconsider abstinence, but was I wrong to stop her in the moment? I don't think she wants sex as much as she wants a distraction.

I have high social anxiety, my boyfriend and i were speaking of our wedding which i believe is going to be december. Anyway, he asked if i wanted one. I honestly do, and he says he doesn't mind if i'd prefer a courthouse wedding. I used to tell my family i wanted one of these but they called me cheap and trashy. I was only about 7. So what do you think?

The love of my life and I have known each other for 10yrs, and we split up awhile back due to the fact he has PTSD and needed to get help. I told him I d still be here for him after he got the help he needed. Unfortunately circumstances changed I met someone from wor we ve known each other for a little over a year now but have only been together for 8 months now. We got engaged and I love him but not the same as the other guy. I have a 2yr old to think about and don t want to hurt her in the process of my decisions. The love of my life has gotten a lot better and has since started talking to me again leaving me lost and confused about what I should do. Especially since I have my 2 year old and I already have my wedding decorations and my dress. My fiancé knows about him to and has since asked me to choose who I want. Help please.