She found her first lover in thd gym which caused us to divorce after 9 years of marriage. We worked it out but everytime she leaves,it worries me that she's out dating someone else. She's attractive and her slew of admirers are in her facebook. I don't see any signs that she's cheating. All passwords are disclosed. She check up on me when she leaves... But I'm worried. It's been 5 years since we go remarried. Is itnormal to feel scared?

Bottom line is I like this guy. He is the quiet type and wouldn't readily approach me. We finally talked but I went on vacation for two weeks. I saw him again but he ignored me. I ignored him for three months but we talked again- but it is still the sane dead end. Should I just let it go? I'm exhausted already but I feel like I should just tell him how I really felt. Relationship always starts with friendship, right? It has been a year now. Is it even worth it? I still thinkabout him...

I met this guy on a dating site. He had been trying to ask me out for a week and I don't like to rush things, so I kept trying to put him off. He's a DJ and I searched his DJ name on Facebook, which brought up his personal Facebook as well. Through his Facebook, I found what turned out to be his wife's Facebook. They're not separated, they're still very much married. I screenshot several conversations between us, sent them to his wife on Facebook and explained to her the situation. He must have intercepted the message because next thing I know, he wrote me on Facebook from an alternative Facebook yelling at me for trying to tell his wife. Was I wrong for trying to let her know? It doesn't sound like she even found out, anyway. LOL! How am I a "crazy stalker" for looking up his DJ name? There's a lot of Catfish out there and if I hadn't looked him up, I never would've known he was married and I would've gotten played. No thank you.

Mydrunker husband beats me daily at nyt in front my little poor children.when he has druked i won t discuss any matter with him..but wantendly he will start abusing me n my parents n his parents too..he was uneducated but with love i married him..nw am suffering alot...nwadays he started beating my children tooo ...plz help me...how can save my children n my life...i have no one in my life..he kept me far away from my relatives....i has no parents n friends...plz go an idea plz😢

I'm 6 months pregnant and it's been really rough on me. (This is my first pregnancy). My husband has basically been bending over backwards to take care of me. I appreciate it of course, but he's been putting so much of his attention towards me, that he's not really taking the time to focus on himself and he's starting to get stressed. I've tried telling him to take a break and give himself some rest, but he keeps saying it's me before him. What can I do to just get him to take a break? Something I could do for him maybe, would be helpful. He needs to be taken care of too

My husband and I have been divorced for eight years. Since our divorce, we have both remarried and had more children. (I have a son with my current husband, and he has a daughter with his current wife.) My kids spent last Christmas with my ex, but he was nice and said I could drop by for a brief visit, so I could see them. When I arrived, I showered them with Christmas gifts when I arrived. Their half sister (who s five) got her feelings hurt and asked me where her present was. I told her (politely) that I didn t have a gift for her because she s not my child. She then cried to her parents. My ex and his wife then came and told me to leave and take the gifts with me (and leave them at my house). They said it was wrong that I bring gifts for my kids yet not get a gift for their daughter. Why should I give his little girl a gift? She s not my child. Who s right?

I made plans to meet my ex tomorrow night for coffee and now I kind of feel like backing out. I have a LONG history with this girl, we went out our senior year of high school and its was a really crazy time of doing stupid s**t and wilding out. We went to different colleges and after 3 months apart she broke up with me through a text (not a call or even a letter) and I think she was seeing someone else by then. We havent talked since the (2 years ago now). She started following me on Instagram a few months back and I followed her too. Out of the blue she texted me Friday and we've been talking since. Earlier today she invited to meet up at a restaurant we used to hang out at in high school tomorrow night before she heads back to school. I said yeah, but now I'm having second thoughts. I feel like its going to be awkward, and I dont know what to say to her. She seems nonchalant from our texts so I'm not sure what we'll talk about. Im really nervous, could I still cancel? What could I say?

how much would it cost to buy a Russian wife? preferably one with a nice rack and great ***. or Asian, i luv Asian chicks too.

I'm 31, female and an artist. I know an older married man who's like a mentor artistically. He's never been inappropriate towards me & often talks about his family. While I wouldn't help a man cheat, I wonder what the chances are that his wife would give him a pass if I expressed sexual interest.

I'm a 31 year old married female with 3 kids who moved back into parents home to save money to move out of nj. My parents continue to treat me as If I'm still a child and it's starting to affect my mental health. I've tried to talk to them but it doesn't really seem to get across to them. Any suggestions? Moving out is my ultimate final option as nj is so unaffordable

I have been married to my wife for a little over a year (we dated for 2 years before marrying). She has two children from her previous marriage (8 and 11) and is exhausted a lot of the time. She does not work and is a stay at home mom. I work a very physical job over 50 hours a week. It seems lately she has taken everything out on me. She gets angry at me for the littlest thing or disagreement and will yell at me and blow up. She will take up for her children when they are behaving poorly and get mad at me for saying something about their behavior to her later. I believe she is resentful that she does not get to leave the house each day and go to work. She is also resentful because she brought a lot of money problems into the marriage and debt and I did not. She takes everything out on me. The other night her son threw something at me and she got mad at me because I told him to pick it up and not do it again. How do I deal with this?

I get turned down more and more each year. I even tried a little evening southern comfort to see if a buzz would help before I pitched a move. NO! Knowing him, He will pitch a move in the next two days. But WHY is it always the same? I want to be the one to start things, at least every other time. Suggestions???

Hubby is out of a job. He got an offer for one in Columbia sc. (We are in atl) he's sick I went to check it out. Heck no I can't do it. I am literally having panic attacks. It might be fine for some but way too slow, more rural etc than what I care for. I would be bored to tears. What do we do? I know he needs something but I don't think wed be happy there. Honestly I not a fan of the south. I just cant stand the thought of moving even more deep South or rural. Again not knocking it is just not my cup of tea. I do not like excessive heat either. I can barely breathe. He has a couple other things in works but not sure of he will wait around for those.

So when I first starting saying my husband he told me that a women years ago said he was the father of her baby then like a month before she said it was her was that she was cheating on my husband with. I know the girl and have seen pictures of this boy which is now 10. He looks right like my husband and even my husband and his family think it is. My husband makes no attempt in finding out. He says he don't know him and knows a other guy. This has really been bothering me. Plus this boy has been in my daughter's classes since kindergarten. Do I have a right to ask my husband to find out.

I moved from Arizona to Wisconsin with my kids and left my spouse. He is in a behavioral health center/ substance abuse center. Can he force us back with no divorce filed and no custody in place?

Im 28 and im now married with 3 beautiful children.. My husband and i was high school sweethearts and now we r married with kids.. Before him and i was dating i was dating a guy and he was 28 i was 19 ..i was so in love crazy over this guy...my dad didnt approve of him and kept telling me.. I needed to marry this boy i went to school with just bc he liked him better... My dad never took the time to get to know this other guy i was crazy over and in love with.. Hes was such a great guy..believe it or not we r still friends and still keep contact time to time... Hes my fb friend..hes still single and now im married and upset bc i felt like my dad pushed me to marry this guy im married to now.. My dad passed away right beforei got married.. So i married this guy and now I'm unhappy.. I know me and the other guy had a future together he begged me to stay with him.. My husband works oht of town so i sometimes lay in bed at night crying over this guy..but i know i cant dewell on it.. Hes afraid to keep to much contact with me or see me now bc im married he said he feel guilty..how am i suppose to handle this?? I have kids and am married now..even tho im unhappy .. My husband knows im unhappy ..i just want to be with my ex so bad he calls me deairable beautiful.. And he said he tried to wim my heart8-9 years ago..and i refused bc my dad wanted to see me with the guy im with now.. I just dont know what to do?? Im still in love with him

The argument started in the kitchen. I'll admit I am very pregnant and I get mad about stupid things sometimes. My husband said he would clean the kitchen after I cooked breakfast. When I saw him later sitting in the recliner watching TV and the sink still had dirty dishes I got mad. He came in there and I was fussing at him. He started getting loud and the kids started to notice. I hate for them to see us argue. I asked him to stop and he didn't he just got louder on purpose. I poked him in the chest and told him to back off. Then he said "do that again and I will throw this coffee in your face!" When he said that and was holding the coffee cup up as if he would do it I slapped him. Then that's when he got in my face and spit in my face. I've never had anyone spit in my face before but it was horrible. Was I wrong? What should I expect of him now? Should I try to make up with him? Should I demand an apology (I won't get one). Today I tried to talk with him about it and he demands that I apologize for slapping him. That's where he stands and there probably isn't any changing it. In the past he has called me "****" and "*****". I just feel so broken. I won't ask my friends or family about this because I want to preserve their image of him. That's why I ask here.

He used to be so young and full of life when it came to bedroom matters. Now he's a sloth. Should I leave him?

Over the past year or so, my wife has gotten noticeably heavy, and even moreso after the holidays. She is in her late 20s and is roughly 50 pounds heavier than when we were married just a few years ago. I have told her that she should consider dieting/exercise but she is not interested. I have come through it from all angles. I've said she lose weight for health reasons, for beauty reasons, and even financial reasons. She says she doesn't care and even gets angry at me suggesting she shed some pounds. The bottom line is, she does not resemble to woman I fell in love with and married. I am wondering if an extreme measure, such as an ultimatum regarding our marriage, would finally kick her into gear about losing weight and becoming attractive again. Any advice?

Do couples need to have joint accounts or can a marriage survive with separate accounts?

My husband has always suffered from a very sensitive stomach. In the past I have tried to strictly abide by a diet that benefits him as far as the food I serve at home. But then I ll find out that he s eating fast food during the day, he never ever packs a lunch for himself using the food I buy for him at the store. So I stopped worrying about his stomach because obviously he doesn t care. Lately it s been really bad for him. He is sick. He sent me a link with dietary suggestions and I just don t feel compelled to make any effort to help with it. I should add that I do all the grocery shopping and all the cooking at home (even though I am not a house wife). I work full time just like he does and despite telling him many times that I need him to pick up the slack because I am not a house wife, he never does and never appreciates what I do for the house. So, I knew that he would appreciate my efforts, I would absolutely do what I could to serve him tummy friendly foods at home. But he wouldn't appreciate it and he would just go and eat fast food away from home anyway. So Why bother?

****No excuses**** I made a horrible mistake and cheated on my husband last night with a single work colleague. We were both so drunk and didn't have proper sex but the fact is I tried to do it and I feel like absolute **** today .. my question is what should i do I'm going to tell my husband tonight because he deserves to know and I know it's going to end our marriage im so disgusted with myself I've even thought about suicide so I won't have to hurt him with the news i cheated please help.. i really love him with all my heart i dont know why I done this I let him down.. I can't see anyway back from this it's always going to be ther facing the colleague at work and I'm not in position to change jobs until later in the year.. how do i tell my husband I've done this?

I was cooking food for him, and when he came in with a big sad face saying that I thought it was hilarious I started laughing. And then I said, "well if it makes you happy thinking that then I'm not going to say anything." Why is he saying that?

Serious question btw!

We are a very young couple. We are both 24. We got married at 19 after being together for several years. Recently I made the terrible mistake of cheating on her. She found out and separated from me. At the moment she has not decided to divorce me but I am very worried she will. I have tried to contact her so that we can talk but she wants me to stay away from her for now and threatened to immediately file for divorce if I don't give her space. Clearly I ****** up. I take full responsibility. I do love my wife however I didn't love her enough to not cheat. I neglected to realize the bond that we are supposed to have. All I want is to get my wife back and show her that she can trust me. I know my words won't mean anything now but I think I can show her that it'll never happen again. I just don't really know where to begin. I'll do anything she wants. But she won't talk to me so I have nowhere to start