we we're really close once. We havent talked for a yr due to a fight, but met a month ago for coffee. She won't respond to my texts anymore. She said we could be the best ever once.. I sent her some long text making me look weak. Why can't she say it's done instead of ignoring me? How do I handle this? Is she playing hard to get? I feel like a needy ***** when she doesn't respond . The **** do I do? I just want be her friend again. It's not over til she says it's over... ignoring my texts doesn't count as ending it! I will annoy the **** out of her til she says it's over, that how far I am willing to go for this girl! She means a lot to me and I want to fix my mistake. How do I get her to remember how genius and special our friendship was. In all honesty, we were the closest

So my ex treated me like trash,was also a liar but we had some good times As well but they didn't last .It was a stressful emotional relationship.But my life got better after he left me.He left me in October ,completely cut me off..then the first week of November he came back to me apologizing,saying he knew what he did wrong and saying his life was in shambles and cannot live without me.. a week later after he texted me that he died .. he was only 36. It's not something I would cry about or anything . But lately sometimes I feel like he's in my apartment ?like he's watching me or I'll see something that will remind me of him and I'll be like "okay go away Aaron" or he'll just pop up in my thoughts randomly. Or I'll see his name somewhere or I'll see the number 11 a lot....Is that even possible for a ghost to do ? Lol if that even exists but the thought of that kinda scares me.. I have no reason to even think of him cuz it's all over so what is this I'm feeling ??

I am 21 and I am really bad at socializing with people. How can I meet more people and learn how to socialize?

I've been talking to my crush for some time now, and 2 days ago she ended up confessing and saying she likes me. We're juniors in hs. She's leaving for Aruba next week and won't be in school, and she'll be gone all next week. She's also slightly busier than I am. We've attempted to find days to go out somewhere but no joke one of us had something to do when the other didn't. Anyway, I have to decide if I should just ask her out like starting a relationship sometime before she leaves or wait until she's back and see if there is a time we can go out. Either way, there's a good chance we will be busy until the end of Feb. However I do not want to wait that long and don't want to make her wait that long. So, should I ask her before she leaves and take the chance now? Could it be too early? Or do I wait for her to get back from vacation and chance it then? If a date is not possible yet, I could still begin a relationship after talking a bit more now that we're that much closer.

We are both freshman. I had a huge crush on him in 6th grade before we were close, he knew that and politely rejected me. But I acted real desperate and I became very annoying to him. This year now that we're freshman in HS we became sooo close. However he has a crush on one of my new friends. She says she does not like him at all and wouldn't care if he had a gf (she doesn't know I like him.) but like she has a crush on someone else and I'm super close with her and she's made it clear that she doesn't like him (she knows he likes her, but he hasn't asked her out.) I feel like since he's know me for a while and since I used to like him he'll never like me the way I want him to. How do I make this happen. I make him laugh, I flirt with him like putting my arm on his shoulder while laughing, or I'll bring up old memories from middle school. What else can I do?

I downloaded omegle chat on my iPhone, I started typing to this guy and we went to private chat because he wanted to send me some pics, he sent me some pics of his penis and then I sent him two pics of my boobs in a bra, I took the pic of the camera app I DIDN'T get the pics from my library camera. he ended the chat, I found him again after a little and ask what happen, he said by accident and if he known you can find people by the username he would of found me. Now he kept asking to speak to me tomorrow or another time, I told him ok but really I have no plans to ever do this ever again! Now I'm scared this guy could find my location or find out who I am and track me????

I'm 12 turning 13 in May and I had a bf. He was rly nice, charming, and smart. He was different from any of the other obnoxious annoying boys at my school. A lot of girls had a rush on him and for some reason he liked me. (Ok not for some reason we had been texting all Summer until about 1 a.m. we talked about a lot of thing and we ending up falling in love) He made me really happy but I knew my mom would not approve of me having a bf at such a young age. We were dating for about 5 months. When she found out she made me break up with him and ever since I've been really sad. I haven't been as hungry and losing a lot of weight, I'm crying myself to sleep while watching Netflix at night, I don't want to hangout with friends after school anymore and my grades are slipping. I still love him and I feel I will only be able to be my normal self I get over him. Does anyone have ways to get over him faster?

I have known this girl for about four months and we both have feelings for each other. She suggested we remain friends for now until she figures things out. She has been through a lot with her previous relationship and had a rough childhood due to which she suffers from anxiety and depression. At the time she also told me the main reason her relationships did not work out was because the guys she was with thought she was not putting any effort into the relationship. I told her I was okay with us staying friends and we both thought it would be better to start datimg once we were close to each other. So a couple of days back, i kind of had a nervous breakdown in the middle of my class during an exam. Most of my friends checked to make sure I was okay but instead of beimg supportive she instead said that at least hers didn't go as bad as mine probably did which was the last thing I wanted to hear. I have been there for her when she had a panic attack during class and stayed back to make sure she was alright. Even when she is in a bad mood I do my best to cheer her up and never say anything that would make her feel worse. The one time I needed a friend she was not there for me. I have kind of been ignoring her since that happened but a friend of mine suggested i was just overreacting and that I shoikd talk to her

Im asking because this one guy keeps insisting on it

So I have this friend I've known for a while now. We see each other alot but she's been acting weird. Doing things like taking pictures of me without my knowledge. And she's been doing this alot! I even asked her why she was taking pictures of me but she always says "I'm just joking with you" or "I love you". I also catch her randomly staring at me and basically watching everything I do which freaks me out. Why is this? Is she obsessed with me or am I thinking too much about this? Thanks! P.S. we're both girls. I'm not gay and she's not gay.

I am texting my ex girlfriend but we are fighting because what happened between us two in the past while we we're dating she said to that she shouldn't take dated me in the first place Because  I am a ugly dog   but we are both calling each other names I am angry because she called my other friend a slut whore I am telling my friend what she said about her she is not a slut she cute and she likes me How do I end this should I beat her my ex girlfriend 

So my dad is 34 and my stepmom is 26, I am 19 and a guy. My dad has made suggestive comments about how both of us "should have some fun with her together in the bedroom, know what I mean?" Which is really hot because my stepmom is sexy and I like the idea of a 2 guys 1 girl scenario. Also, I once went through my dad's phone because of a dare, and there was a lot of cuckold 2 guys 1 girl porn, as well as a bunch of photoshoped pictures of my stepmom that my dad had made that made it look like there were 2 of my dad having sex with her at once. There was also a video of his D*ck and a dildo in her vagina at the same time which is really hot. How do I go about this? Like I said he has already said we should bang her together, so it should be cool right?

there a girl in one of my classes i just switched school i get super nervous around her and end up seeming distant i do like her what should i do?

Seriously, I actually think most go on because they want to feel validated, anyone who says it is a numbers game and they all want "a man with a great personality" is talking total shite, they will straight up go for a modelesque type, without even caring what his interests are to begin with. They cannot be trusted. Yet they paradoxically "don't want hook-ups" which, surprise surprise, is the staple idea a tall, dark, man goes for. Internet dating is a total waste of time and should be written off completely.

First off, I know what personal space is. As an introverted guy I need a break from people too. And I know that hanging around with the same person to much can get tiring. Along with long text conversations. My question is, when certain girls say to guys they need personal space, and the guy respects that and leaves it to her to hit him up next time, he never hears from her again. A break from people is just a temporary stop, but you wanna talk to them again. I've noticed a lot of girls who say they want "space" usually never end up being heard from again. Another thing about other girls and "personal space" is, when they say they need it, and you give it to them, the guy won't hear from them for a while, and the girl will think "oh he's not into me. He hasn't text me a while." My question is, why do some girls tell you they just want some "space" and you never hear from them again when you leave the ball in their court?

My crush and best friend is incredibly artistic, and he draws beautifully and he's truly a wonderful artist. We're in the same art class, and we decided to enter the statewide art competition. I was selected, as well as our friends from the class, except for him. He wanted to go to college to study art, but now he doesn't even come to the art room during lunch to work with us. I worry about him, and I want to comfort him in some way, but he's never around besides class anymore. He's very strong and hides his feelings, but I know he's crushed. How do I help him?? Please help!

I'm an introverted weight lifter at 35 and never had a girlfriend in my life due to self esteem issues that rises when I was a young kid coming from people in general or parents teasing me. So in that regard I never ever really tried to get a girlfriend and just stayed to myself. Of course many girls I came into contact with who were flirty were just bullying me. Truth. I'm still into girls 18-20 something. She was about 24. So what. Like I said, still into girls like that. I was 31 at this time. I've seen this one girl in the gym when I first switched clubs. She is always training with her friend. They are eye candy for sure. Every guy in the gym would talk to her and she be surrounded by sharks lol. Noticed the one girl very innocently and maybe even got caught. Therefore, I usually keep my distance. One day I was stretching and she all giggly asked me if I left a water bottle by the machine. It was obvious it was hers. I just shook my head and continued to stretch. Moments later I went to get some water at the fountain and she was standing behind me waiting for her turn. I simply walked past her like she wasn't born. The next day I'm walking thinkinto the building and she walking to her car. I can feel a strange invisible sense of awkwardness. In the corner of my eye I could tell she looked annoyed. Why? been a few years and I stil see her in there time to time. She was sitting doing arm curls and I walk by to go to a station. In the corner of my eye I could see she made a sharp turn with her head in my direction. I just leave her alone. Besides she a college university girl. Above me. I'm a labor working person with an associate's degree and work in a warehouse lso my friends are good at getting girls. I always felt I should leaves women alone due to how I kinda been neglecte ..By them. So I even go out my way and avoid this girl and try not to make eye contact. My mom and her narcissism and nagging kinda screwed me up from day one. It's better to avoid me pretty much lol. oday I seen her in there and I don't know but somehow I get the feeling she was looking my way since there's no mirrors my direction. Could be in my head but the mystique is gone and I don't think I want to talk to this person. : Why if we are, playing the "looking" game? Lol

So me this guy "dates" for a good 3 months. We went on a couple of dates and but didn't make anything official. So then one day he comes to my house and tells me he still has feelings for his ex and doesn't want to hurt me so he ended it. They are now dating. It's been a solid month and a half and he has cut complete contact with me. He told me numerous times that our friendship meant a lot to him and we'd still be friends. IM COMPLETELY over him and I'm talking to other guys but he still won't talk to me and every time he sees me he looks away and ignores me!!! Why!!!

So I met a guy, loved him, but found out he was cheating on me with a girl that he was engaged to for 5 years. I've only fallen in love twice so it's very rare for me. I felt so betrayed, but he said really does love me and that he didn't want to marry the other girl but his family expected him to marry someone in his church he went along with it. I believe him because he hardly ever even saw his fiance. His church is like a cult to me because if he gets kicked out he loses all contact with his family members. Then shortly after I found out he was cheating on me, his mom died and I wanted to just to be there for him and support him because I am still in love. Although he prolonged his wedding for 5 years, after his moms death his family was rushing him into marriage. Now on my birthday, he'll be off with his new wife on a honeymoon. And he's Filipino and moving to the Philippines... the one country that doesn't allow divorce. I feel like I was stabbed in the heart, knife was twisted, and a touch of salt in the wound. I know I need to move on but it's hard when you're still in love with someone. How to move on from heartbreak? How did you? (Kind of a crazy story, but that's exactly how it happened)

My girlfriend has been wanting me to kiss her, but I am scared of messing up. I want to kiss her, but I always have a feeling of nervousness.

There s this one girl in one of my classes that I really have a crush on. The problem is thought is that she thinks nothing of me, or atleast I think she does. We haven t talked at all, In fact I don t even know her name.but I do know that she has a pretty cool personality and is cute. I m 15 and a freshmen and I think it s time for me to start dating. I mainly want a gf to escape my troubles at home, since I don t really have a good relationship with my parents. I think having a gf would brighten me up a lot. So here s the deal: I m pretty unpopular...don t really have that many friends. She s not TOO popular but obviously has more friends than me. I want to know when I should ask her out. I think I m pretty confident to walk up to her and straight up just ask her out, but of course I would like a way to make her notice me before so it s not like I m just some random person in her life. How do I even igniciate a conversation with her? Or should I just ask her out. Idk what to do but I do know that I probably have the balls to ask her out. Oh also if you think I m too young to be dating feel free to talk me out of it, I might be rushing a bit too soon. Sorry if I misspelled anything or if this whole thing just doesn t make sense, I m writing this in a hurry.

Do you like a girl that cracks a lot of sex jokes and is open to the whole sex talk and doesn't mind wearing a crop top and short shorts or flashing her **** in a crowd or concert Or A girl that is modest and wears modest clothing-she doesn't yell out or make "that's what she said" jokes and such-kinda shy-at a concert would definitely not be a renal and flash her **** and wears a one piece bathing suit

We are both 15 and I literally can't even last 30 seconds from sex and I can see she is disappointed even though she tries not to show it. Even is she accidentally brushes against me I can bust in my pants. When she gives me head or hj, I have to close my ******* eyes because if I don't, I will see how ******* sexy she looks with my erection in her mouth and just bust immediately. I ******* hate myself and I'm stating to think I should tell her to find another guy who can please her in bed

https://s29.postimg.org/mots7i04n/this.jpg 10 points if you guess my bra size right!

I had a date with a guy Monday night that seemed to go well. It lasted a few hours, we went to more places planned, we seemed to get along. I certainly wanted to see him again. At the end of the date, he gave me a hug and said "We should go to [place we d talked about]." That s it. Haven t heard from him since. Should I worry/move on?

Okay, so if you look at my previous question ( you don't have to0 I asked how to ask a guy to Sadies. Well I did and he said YES!! But now I have to sit in front of him everyday in lunch and just sit there. One of his friends is beside me and his other one beside him. Everyone knows that we are going together now but he is EXTREMELY shy and doesn't say much to anyone.He usually answers questions with a head shake. But I need ways to start a conversation with him without it being totally awkward because i want to get to know him before i go to the dance with him. What are some good conversation starters that will lead to a enjoyable and comfortable convo? Should I just wait till after school and go to his locker and talk to him? I just really want it to work out and I am also extremely shy. I really need help on this ASAP!!!! Thanks!!

This new guy started at my job a few weeks ago. He is a very attractive man he is 25 and I am 40. I paid him no mind really because I don't look for hook ups at the job. However, out the blue, approached me one day when things were slow and started making conversation. We hit it off well, come to find out he serves in the military, I am a veteran myself and that sort of made a connection on my part. We had lunch together a couple times. I sorta grew fond of him. However some days he is all flirty trying to get all in my personal space and teasing me about the clothes I wear to work. I work in a warehouse. I am the only female who wears a bandana and he constantly speaks about how I am trying to make a fashion statement. I don't know if he is being flirty or mean. He also bumps into me on purpose. Some days he is cold as ice can go all day without speaking to me. I don't bother him and leave him be when he's like this. Then the following day he is all on me again flirting. He can go no longer that a whole day without conversating with me. He told me that he likes older woman and that he was looking for a cougar. I got real offended because in all honesty I am not looking for a younger guy. Hell, he approached me. I don't understand the games he is playing. He left a few days ago to go out of state for a week for the military and he told me. I did not know what to say he got upset when I did not respond back fast enough about his departure, I didn't know what to say.

Me and my first love recently rekindled back in November. We re at the point where we tell each other "I love you", we have sleepovers all the time, cuddle and play and laugh all night long, always text when we re not together. We ve come close to kissing but either I turn away out of shyness or he turns away. His best friend said he talks about me all the time and is still in love with me. His mom told me last night he hasn t been seeing girls since we ve been "together" & that he doesn t want to get hurt again or lead me on if he isn t sure what to do but if he makes a commitment it ll be for the long run. I m not sure what to do or what this means. He shows me off at any given chance but why won t he just make that move!

I need girlfirend

I saw this guy at an auto repair place and asked a lady that worked there if he's single. It turned out his family owned the place and that was his mother. When I told her I found him attractive she encouraged me to talk to him but I was too nervous and decided to give her my number to give to him instead. It's been over a full day and he hasn't texted or call. I know I should've talked to him but it's too late. How long should I wait and If he doesn't call would it be bad to call the place and ask him out directly?

I always told myself I'd never date a pot smoker. Sorry. I just don't like it. I feel like it's unnecessary and there are other ways to unwind. Medical reasons are different. But the way I see it, smoking ANYTHING is bad for your lungs. If you sit in front of a fire and breathe in the smoke, it's likely there will be side effects. Anyway, before we started dating he stopped for a long time. And said he was done. Then he started again while we were dating. And what really really bothered me is that he did it with his ex girlfriend. Behind my back. And told my best friend before telling me. I found out from my friend. I just think it's dumb. Why out a job at risk for a drug. I have never told him he can't do it. Ever. I've never told me he can't do anything. Hell he can cheat on me if he wants to. I'd break up with him, but I'm not restraining him or telling him what he can or can't do. He got on my case today for not liking him doing it. But it's not like I tell him he can't. And I don't punish him if he does. Unless it's behind my back. Is this normal to feel this way? Please no harsh comments. Looking for intelligent ones. No trolls.

Me wants to what you girls wear.

It's supposed to be exhilarating when you kiss your woman, but I feel nothing at all. The sex is good, but her lips aren't sweet and I feel sort of... bored when we kiss... What can I do about this?

I want to see a sense of humour and a little bit of good looks.

Okay so soon I m gonna meet them and I m really F*@#ING EXCITED. The thing is, normally I don t know what to say, so if I meet my idols who I listen to almost every day, I ll have no clue what to say. What would you say/ what would you say that I should say? I want to thank them for everything essentially, and kinda be memorable for them (I know it sounds stupid). Help me with my first world problems! :)

Why did he put my hand in his pants. Also why did he put his hand in my pants

Me and my girlfriend are 15. I'm turning 16 in a week. We have been together for 2 years and we have been close friends since forever. I love her and she loves me. She just makes me really horny nowadays. The other day we were cuddling and watching a movie at her house and she started rubbing her *** against my dick and I got really hard. She turned around, gave me the cutest smile ever, and said "one more year babe" (we agreed no sex until 16). And then started rubbing my hard one and making out. It was soooo hot and I just needed her so bad. when I got home, I was still hard and had to get rid of it by wanking. I went back to her house the next day and she stared rubbing her pussy(through her jeans) against it and it felt so good and I was almost begging her to skip the year and do something quick. She smiled at me, grabbed my hand and pulled me upstars to her room, layed me back, and I fealt a chemical reaction as she took off my pants and started sucking me off. After about 20 seconds, I came and she swallowed it all. Now I get hard whenever I think of her and wanking doesn't cover it! I NEED HER!!! I haven't felt this way about her, or anyone, ever and I don't think this is normal and it's driving me crazy. Help???

I told her I wish I could relive the last 2 years without her. I even left skid marks on her sheets. She's like the plague, she won't quit me.

We are both 16 and are planning on having sex tomarrow night so I want to make it really sexy for her because she is always so sexy for me. I was thinking of maybe going out for a nice dinner first and coming home and playing some music and after we are done maybe watch a movie and then go to sleep with her and cuddle her all night, but I mean idk what music i should play or what kind of movie we should watch. Im never good with specifics like that. Im really paranoid about this because I want to give her a really nice night with me that she will always remember ;)

Ok so basically i asked my girlfriend, to the movies.. she lives super close to me and we havent met up in person but we have been talking for like 2 months and stuff.. what should i talk to her about when we go? Im bringing my friend Ian and she is bringing her friend so it isn't as awkward, but what do i do? what do i say? should i make a move????? She is 14 im 15 and yea haha..

I have been talking to a particular guy for almost 2 months. He's nice and sweet, we give each other advice, and talk about our day. It usually takes a day most of the time to reply back to each other since he lives in a different country. He flirts, and teases me a lot!! :) We do it often (tease and flirt) but he called me his girl and I asked him if I really am his girl (like you really mean it!?… I've never had a boyfriend so I didn't want to get all happy if he didn't mean it ) and he said forever. I thought that is implying we are now serious or ya know … a couple. I was not completely sure so like 4 days ago, I asked him what am I to him I ( what is my relationship to him ya know ) haven't gotten a reply yet :( Does that mean something bad or … could he just be a busy man Plz help! Thx :) <3

OK so I like this girl in my class. She seems to like me, but I mean I like her more than friends and wondering what she thinks. She seems to like being around me, but she gets really quiet. Like twice this week she has sat down next to me, but then gotten really quiet. If I ask her about herself sometimes she will barely speak and just nod. If I talk about class though she gets talkative. She also seems comfortable touching me. Like today she put her arm on my shoulder and leaned against me. She always makes some physical contact with me every day. I would think she likes me, but the thing is there is another guy in the class who obviously likes her and they are always talking and seem to have conversations a lot more easily with him. Around me she clams up. She also seems to be around him a lot more so I get jealous.

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and i dont want to hear about *** and boobs.

Im sorry this is going to be pretty long but I'd appreciate it if I got some advice. I met this guy on the Internet almost a year ago and we've talked everyday ever since then and we've gotten closer and closer and now we video chat and talk on the phone everyday. I know how he looks and he knows how i look. And i also developed a crush on him. I know, crazy! Hes so sweet and nice and hes actually there for me. But I screwed up big time. When he first started talking to me i dont normally like to give out my actual name and age so on our first conversation he asked me for my age and I wasn't comfortable enough to actually tell him so I told him I was 17. And he's 18. But im actually 16. I screwed up big time and I didn't think we'd talk anymore but we continued and I couldn't stopped he was the only one that gave good advice when I needed it. I just dont know how to tell him that I lied about my age. I feel constantly guilty. And I'd hate if i broke his trust. I just done know what to say. I cant ask my friends or family because i know they'd judge me. And I know having Internet boyfriends will possibly be dangerous but he's going to be traveling around soon after he finishes high school and he wants to meet me. Before we plan anything i want to tell him. But i dont know how or where to start. I know i sound crazy but an advice to put me back in my place will be good. Thank you for reading this lonnnnnngg question. Much appreciated. -kady.

At best they might seem to be your friend but they want nothing from you except help or money for things like food or something. Or if you are talking someone they might make excuses like they have a boyfriend and they are seen with a new guy the next day and don't even care about lying. They will take up your energy and hope but never want sex with you or anything like that. Total hoes. They could completely racist and pretend to treat people equally. If I am a guy, should there really be a law that I have to respect every little thing they do? Why can't I beat some of those hoes with a metal pole and teach them they can't treat me that way?