Family: Question: Could I know my miscarried siblings gender?

Question: Could I know my miscarried siblings gender?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:25 PM PST

I had a sibling who was miscarried several months in. Of course, he wasn t big enough to check his genitals, but is there a test we could have gotten to know? (I call him a boy because I feel like he was in my gut.)

Question: What would this family member count as to me?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:14 PM PST

hi, I am 16, a guy. I found one of my family members on Facebook. my grandma said that this person is her niece and she had a child. would her daughter count as my second cousin? please let me know, thank you. just in case I didn't explain it correctly, I found my grandmas niece on FB and she had a daughter.

Question: My mom hits my siblings?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:15 PM PST

So I was cleaning my room and then my brother and sister were playing (he is 5yrs old) and then they jumped on the couch and threw pillows everywhere they were jumping and making a mess. So my mom was telling them multiple times to stop. They wouldn't so she hit my brother like hard and he was crying now he has a bruise ...I don't know if this is correct she never hits my sister a lot only sometimes. So I got mad and told her that it's bad and she got mad at me and yelled at me so I just came to my room(while writing this) but is it bad? I don't know what to do anymore my mom has had these anger issues lately! Her moods swing for every little thing!! I am 13 years old and can't do much I mean I would call cps but I'm afraid of how bad it could get? :(

Question: I need help with a problem with my niece.?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:10 PM PST

I am a 20 year old guy. My niece Doris 15 (my sister's daughter) is in some AP classes at her school. These classes involve a lot of hard homework. Sometimes when she needs help with her home work, she comes to my condo and I help her with her homework. If it is late when we get done with the homework, she stays all night with me and I take her to school the next morning. I always cook her a good breakfast before she goes to school. When she eats breakfast with me she wears a loose fitting robe and nothing else. Everything is visible. I am OK with that as I am NO WAY NO HOW into incest. However I think it is not an appropriate way for her to dress. If she does this with her other friends such as a sleep over, there might be a problem. Should I tell her mother how she is dressing or is it none of my business if it does not cause me a problem. Mothers I would really like your advice.

Question: How do I get family to get along?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:07 PM PST

So an explosive argument between my mother and her brother (my Uncle) took place in the fall of 2015. Since then they haven't really talked except at their grandmothers funeral and they seemed all fine and dandy then. The fight was over land that my mom bought in the 90's and let my uncle use until he built his house. My mom still pays for the land and has since she bought it. The fight was childish and it just tore everyone apart for no good reason other than adult ego. Now my dad isn't too fond of my uncle and my Aunt isn't too fond of my dad. I think everyone is being asses but that's just me. I have two cousins that I was so close to and loved them more than life but don't get to see them ever. I finally did get to see them around Christmas and it was the happiest I have been for the past years but it only made me miss everything that we used to do as a family and makes depression a lot worse. I know that they can resolve this because they have fought before, I just would like to know what I could do. I am more depressed now than I have ever been after the whole fight happened. Thanks!

Question: My mom hit my little brother?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:58 PM PST

So I was cleaning my room and then my brother and sister were playing (he is 5yrs old) and then they jumped on the couch and threw pillows everywhere they were jumping and making a mess. So my mom was telling them multiple times to stop. They wouldn't so she hit my brother like hard and he was crying...I don't know if this is correct she never hits my sister a lot only sometimes. So I got mad and told her that it's bad and she got mad at me and yelled at me so I just came to my room(while writing this) but is it bad? I don't know what to do anymore my mom has had these anger issues lately! Her moods swing for every little thing!!

Question: Please help with a problem with my stepson.?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:41 PM PST

My stepson Mike is in the Boy Scouts. He really enjoys being in the Boy Scouts. He often tells his dad and me how much fun it is and how he likes the scout master. His dad is telling him he does not want him in the Scouts. The problem is the Scout Master is my former husband. I don't think this is fair to his son Mike. It is totally normal for scouts to like their Scout Master. I ask Mike if the Scout Master ever mentions me and he told me NO. Should I try to talk some sense into my husband that scouts are a good experience for HIS son or maybe tell Mike to NEVER mention his Scout Master to his dad. All advice would be greatly appreciated.

Question: Family vs. Family?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:38 PM PST

My adult son went to help his uncle build a garage. He fell off a ladder and broke his arm that required surgery. They filed under their house insurance but he only got 1000. He still has 1500 in medical to pay. I want them to pay but they say they did their part by filing under their house insurance. We can t get any more from the insurance and I want them to pay. What do you think? Should I go after them to pay?

Question: My little brother hates me?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:35 PM PST

Okay, I want to start with the fact that I m 13, my brother is 5. We also have two other siblings (an older sister, and a younger sister). My brother has recently (the past year or two) just started to hate me. I am a lot less tolerant to his antics then my parents. He s basically spoiled. It irritates me, because at that age, I knew to respect people and could tell when I was being a bother. He hits, cries, screams and always gets what he wants. My parents are a lot less strict to him than me and it s awfully frustrating. He doesn t even get his water bottle by himself. So when I tell him to do something himself, he gets really mad. So now he hates me. He constantly tells me how much he hates me. He calls me fat, and an idiot. (Which for someone with anxiety and a past depression really actually hurts) He physically hurts me, which doesn t hurt too much because he s 5, but he legitimately hits me with all his strength. I don t know what to do, my parents just blow it off, telling me he s just five, but I feel like if they don t discipline he won t ever get better. I don t know what to do...

Question: Was I not being supportive of my brother?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:33 PM PST

My 16 year old brother Richard told me to call him by his new nickname "Big Dick". I told him I would have to get a tape measure and check that out before I could call him that. He said you are not a very supportive sister if you don't call me Big Dick. I told him I did not want to be spreading information that was not true. Was I not being supportive?

Question: Too over protective mom :/?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:22 PM PST

Yeah, I love my mum but she can get on my nerves. She doesn't let me set an alarm, I'm going to a strict school that requires me to wake up early for some activities. She screams at me when I set one, I go to sleep at 8:30pm and she wants me to wake up at 8am. My school starts around 8:15am. I can't do this. I'm 13 years old. My parents are divorced, I prefer spending time at my father's place. She won't let me make ramen noodles, she always has to do it :l and she always has to supervise me when using the microwave and other kitchen appliances. I'm so sick of it, her nose always in my business. When I do Skype calls with my friends, she screams at me. She always checks my phone when a name of a boy pops up as a notification. She always has to know my every move. Everything I eat. It's too much. She takes my phone away when I ask her to get out of my room. I have a sensitivity to chewing noises, and as the "best mom ever" she eats in my room. Knowing I'm sensitive to these kinds of noises. I tell her to leave me alone, even when I'm getting dressed. It's so annoying. She takes my mac and phone away when I tell her politely. I'm not even allowed to get a bra, even though I'm a B cup. It hurts me, physically. I can't even wear eyeliner, basic eyebrow makeup, or even buy makeup with my own money :l She tells me "If you get a job, the money is going into my account." I told her "No, I'm my own person. I worked hard for this money." I can't stand up for myself. Help.

Question: My aunt likes to get me and others to hate who she hates. What is accomplished by this?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:00 PM PST

She is my Mom's sister and my mother used to do the exact same thing (she is deceased). Right now it is the aunt's daughter-in-law she is hating on.

Question: My father has alcoholism and he doesn't write back when I reach out. How do I accept this?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:56 AM PST

It is like he doesn't love me

Question: If I m my Mom s son, what is my Mom s Step Mom s Daughter to me? Cousin?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:49 AM PST

Question: My uncle once had a vulgar temper when I was a kid. Now he has mellowed a lot and is 61. What makes one change like this?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:49 AM PST

This is my Mom's brother. He used to scream at his wife and kids. His wife he talked to like she was a dog. He has mellowed greatly and there has been no big changes in his life environment. He is till married miraculously. Only difference is his parents have died and his kids are older. Also his father-in-law has died (mother-in-law still alive but very ill I hear). So what makes one change like this? My mother had an uncle that was the same way and he'd be the uncle of this person. The man was a monster at 35 and now a sweet old man at 85.

Question: My aunt has emotionally disassociated with her adult daughter, is this necessary for the things her daughter did (listed below)?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:31 AM PST

She doesn't refuse to ever see her but she no longer cares about her. She also does not seek her out but if she happens to be in the town her daughter lives in she calls (sometimes daughter responds other times not). The daughter was adopted at age 6. Her crimes below 1. She lied a lot as a kid. 2. She has trust issues (likely from adoption) and so does not offer tons of love back to her parents or siblings 3. She gets moody during her period I am told. 4. In high school she was unmotivated but now she works 5-6 days a week. 5. Her mother was going after her and she said the F word at her mother (this was as an adult). 6. She didn't visit her grandmother who was in the hospital. 7. and she complains a lot. My mother aunt has not disowned her son who seems far worse and has a felony record and stole for drugs. So this is why I am wondering if it is necessary for the stuff the one aunt's daughter has done when the other is still involved in her son's life despite him having a felony. stealing for drugs, and threatening his mother was a knife at age 15. Obviously that son is a lot worse. So is this aunt okay to pretty much disown her daughter since the daughter is an adult? She has two other kids she is good to (a son and a daughter) also adopted but as babies.

Question: Why do my parents think that space doesn't exist and that the earth is 4000 years old?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:26 AM PST

They say that dinosaurs were fake and the bones are fake to make us question god and that space doesn't exist and that the sun is a god watching over us and that the moon is satans eye. I try to get them to read some science textbooks and they say that science is fake and throw them away.

Question: Is my mom emotionally abusive? If so what do I do?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:22 AM PST

So I m 19, and since my parents got a divorce when I was 12 my mom has been basically crazy. She of course talked bad about my dad forever, but she would never or me hang out with friends, or go anywhere without her. We would argue every night and she always would tell me how disrespectful I was just by telling her my feelings. She would go insane any time I had talked to my friends mom, or my pastor s wife. She makes me feel extremely guilty if I talk to someone other than her. If I had my phone with me i couldn t shut the door to my room. I m on the verge of going crazy I don t know what to do. She always talks about how no one loves her, and constantly asking if I still do.

Question: My mother tells me every secret there is about her siblings. Now I regret her telling me. How do I get her not to do this to others or me?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:13 AM PST

As a kid I didn't care but now as a young adult I see how wrong my mother was. It's things like her brother's sex life.

Question: I think I found my sister having lesbian sex with her friend. Should I call my parents who are out of town and get them home?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:12 AM PST

Can she be arrested? She is an adult as is the friend but it is still so gross. I caught them when I started walking in the room. She is 51 and the friend 47. Our parents are in Florida and in their 80's but would never condone such grotesque behavior.

Question: How do I act if my brother who is a loser passes away one day from the drugs he uses?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:10 AM PST

Is it okay to not feel particularly surprised or sad? He is a loser in are other then the drugs, I recognize addiction is an emotional illness so by no means do I judge him there. His anger and his treatment of women is why he is a loser.

Question: I'm afraid my 7 year old sister will one day kill her self. What do I do?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:54 AM PST

So my dad is verbaly abusive to me. He used to spank me alot when I was little (I'm 14 now). Now he spanks my sister way too much to the point of where she bruises. She told me she wants a new dad and she wants us to drive far away from him. I feel so bad becuase im only over here every other weekend and she told me last night that she doesn't deserve anything. She said she doesn't deserve a house or clothes or food and that she never does good things. She also said her brain tells her that and that our dad makes her feel that way. WTF DO I DO NOW?

Question: Should I move out?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:13 AM PST

I'm a 19-year-old female, and a sophomore in college.i currently live at home (NYC) so that i can care for my mother. she has numerous health issues and i do most everything, cleaning, food shopping, changing her wound wraps almost everything. She spends all of her time playing Facebook games in her room and when she does speak to me shes cursing at me telling me i do everything wrong or talking about my boyfriend, who spends about 3-5 hours about 5 days a week at my house. when hes here he helps me clean, and go to the store,and other things. For a while he even pushed her a mile to her doctor and back in her wheelchair and she still talks badly about him to his face. she calls him ugly, fat, stupid, and talks about how he doesn't have a job and she as for everything for him. He had his first job this summer, but it was only a summer job, he 's 18. so before that it was really hard for him to find a job, but hes finally found one now and she still talks **** about him. she also talks about m, so many mean and rude things that i cant even begin to write it all. im always getting cursed at and think that she has contributed to my depression, anxiety, and eating disorder.i am willing to do everything in my power to move out but i know my family will hate me forever because i left my disabled mom on her own, and she will hate me as well. worse im afraid she will die or get really hurt being alone and that will have to be on my conscience forever. what do you think i should do?

Question: Me and my mom always argue.?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:12 AM PST

I'm so mad right now. All me and my mom do is argue. I have a sister and a brother. My mom always get on me and my sister the hardest then she does my brother. I'm 20 my sister is 21 and my brother is 24. When me and my sister does something it's a huge argument but when my brother does something it dosent matter. I feel like she treats me unfair. Then when you try to explain that to her she cuts me off and starts yelling. I just wanna cry so bad cause this isn't fair. It dosent matter that I'm a female I feel like you should get on all your kids THE SAME.

Question: How do I make my parents appreciate me?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:54 AM PST

My mom yells at me for everything I do, even if I try to help. I ve gotten so used to it that I ve began to become paranoid that if I do something wrong she ll yell at me. For example, whenever I do laundry i have to be extra cautious with her load cause if I hang something out to dry instead of laying it out to dry or putting it in the drying she ll yell at me. She makes me fell like complete ****, she s always saying that she can t deal with me and that she wants to send me away with my grandmother....but out of all my siblings im the one who helps out the most and she just yells at me and emotionally abuses me. Does she hate me? What am I doing wrong that makes me such a shitty daughter?

Question: I just found out my Granny died, what do I do?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:54 AM PST

She wasn't sick so I can't believe it but she was 92.

Question: What to do about my mentally unstable mom?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:47 AM PST

All along, my brother (18) & I (16) have known that my mom has internal problems that affect herself & others badly. My mom is always angry & irritable, looking to start a fight, depressed, & moody. She is constantly paranoid about my brother & I, thinking that we do bad things like drugs/alcohol behind her back (even tho we never have), cuz she thinks the world is a terrible place where things can always go wrong & that everyone is out to get her, & that it's not safe. That's why she's so overprotective & wants to shelter my brother & I from everything. Throughout my life, she's had random bursts of anger & would fight with my brother & I for no reason. She thinks she's always innocent, & that everyone else is the problem which is why she always blames my brother & I for her actions. She's so controlling & hard to deal with.

Question: My mother likes to wreck holidays by using us adult children as weapons against our father. How do I put a stop to this next year?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:34 AM PST

By next year I mean next Christmas and Thanksgiving. She schedules things to make it as difficult as possible for us to see our Dad and then gets our grandmother to throw a fit if we don't see our Mom. For our grandmother I always give in out of fear that our grandmother will reject me. Also our Dad tells us not to worry about it (he is a far better person). Next Christmas-Thanksgiving I want to share parents. Our parents our divorced and my Mom has used me and my siblings as a weapon against our Dad ever since. Our Dad hasn't been as good as he should about fighting back. As a kid she'd brainwashed me to think when he left her he left me. Now I am smarter then that and have guilt that I'd believed her. So what do I do at the end of this year when the holidays come to avoid this usual abuse from my Mom and manipulation from her Mom?

Question: My mom still treats me like a child?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:16 AM PST

I am so sick of living at home. I am 21 and my mom still treats me as if I were a child...I do not understand why..I go to college and take my studies seriously. Even my younger siblings who are in elemnentary school are treated differently than I am...they virtually have no rules. I do not understand my mom's problem. Just last night, she was threatening to go through my stuff because she could not find one of her items. At another point in time, she threatened to call the police because I did not want to open Christmas presents with the rest of thw family..I was going to do it the next day. Why do you think my younger siblings get away with more than I do? It makes no sense.

Question: My parents are trying to take away one my favorite hobbies, which is music!?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:12 AM PST

I listen to my headphones quite a bit, mostly at night when my family is just sitting around watching movies or doing nothing. My parents get mad at me for listening to my headphones even though I'm a responsible kid with straight A's in grade 10. They want my time with them to be severely limited and won't let me listen to them through the week even though it helps me calm down and de-stress afree school.. music is important to me,so very important to me. Idkk how to explain it, its there for me when no one has my back and it helps me focus and tune in to all my thoughts. How can I get them to see that they're not doing the right thing by taking away one of my absolute favorite things to do?

Question: My brother crashed my car drunk last night and my parents made me bail him out. Can I say no to my parents?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:09 AM PST

I am 23 and my brother is 34 and a severe alcoholic. He was charged with DUI and driving with a suspended license. He will get jail time but it is a cycle and he will go back to drinking when he gets out. I know it is a disease and I feel for him but I get sick of giving him bail and my car is totaled now. My brother has three kids he never sees from three women so he is no role model but I recognize the alcoholism is a condition.

Question: Jelous of best friend?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:09 AM PST

Her life is perfect, she always gets all A's, she is one of the prettiest girls in our grade, and she has so much friends (I only have 3 because my social Anxiety is so bad) But the thing that makes me jelous the most is her family. Three nights ago it was her sweet sixteen and it was at this fancy place, and her mom got on the mic saying "my daughter is sweet and kind and selfless and very loving, and I love her more then anything" and that really stung me because my mom would never say that she hates me with a burning passion, and wishes death upon me, I would really love it if my mom told me she loved me just once. Then her dad got on the mic saying "I am a proud father of Stacy, and I love her so much, she is my angel, I always help her and tutor her in math and it makes me happy to do it" and that also stung my heart because my dad would never help me with my homework and instead of loving me he is crazy and beats me. Then Stacy ran up and hugged them and they hugged her and her sister came and joined the hug and while everyone was cheering I felt my heart break into a million pieces, I just wish I had a family that loved me I wish I can hugged them and joke with them and have fun but that will never happen. I know that I am brat, a terrible horrible brat that doesn't deserve anything. I should be happy for her, and I should be thankful that I have a family. This bothers me so much it makes me cry wvery night, what do I do? Thanks :)

Question: My mother is a very bitter person and I learned her great-aunt was. Could this have been genetic?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:08 AM PST

The great-aunt was apparently just as wicked in bitterness but more wicked then my Mom in that she was cold. Besides her bitterness my mother is nice. Sandy----The weird thing is my mother's Mom was not that way other then being critical of others outside family. Apparently my Mom's grandmother who died before I was born was this way though.

Question: How can I put up with my brother longer?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:07 AM PST

Ok this might be long but I can't stand living with my brother because he doesn't respect me but gets mad when I don't back I thought he was moving because of the Air Force this summer but it's not tell 2018 hopefully I'll be moving out before then but I I don't, I don't know how I'm going to put up with him unless I work at night he acts like we are tight around other people but we are no where near I always want to rip his head off because he's not nice to me I'd talk to him about it but he would just raise his voice at me and that doesn't help any.

Question: My Dad likes to make promises and then break them. How do I prevent being hurt by this?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:06 AM PST

Question: I am worried about my Grandma?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:04 AM PST

My grandma is in the hospital because she has the flu. She lives in Arizona but I live in Washington. My mom went down there this morning to see her in the hospital and I also miss my mom alot. I don't know what to do next. I cannot go down there because I have school.

Question: My brother is uninsured, should I let him drive my car?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:02 AM PST

My older brother and his family of wife and 2 kids just came over from Sacramento to live with our mom just about 5 months ago.

Question: Why are my parents always like this?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:00 AM PST

Why is it that whenever my parents do something that they both made their own decision without us, they still blame it on us. But when make a decision with them, they still blame us. So nonetheless, no matter what, we are still the fault of everything they do. Whats wrong with them ?

Question: Men fail at single parenting. Why?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:54 AM PST

My one-time husband is as good an example as any. The minute they become a single parent they decide that the responsibility is too much. Maybe you should have thought about before we made love. You knew just as much as I did that our relationship might fail. All the other men in my circle are the same way. We women cultivated, fed, birthed and protected our children from the very beginning. All you men did was fertilize and walk away. Or you proved to be horrible husbands and made US walk away. But we still thrive. Who needs a man when God gave all the power to women?

Question: How to get my parents to let me go to a concert?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:21 AM PST

I really want to go to the Twenty One Pilots concert in Idaho on the 8th of February, but my parents keep telling me no. This band means so much to me and it's the only thing keeping me alive. I've already offered to pay for whatever is necessary, and I've been doing extra chores and tasks. The only reason they keep saying no is my dad doesn't want to take days off of work this early in the new year. What can I do? (I live in Utah and the concert is in Idaho, btw)

Question: Why does my dad hate me?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:20 AM PST

My dad is an EX military guy, we have days where we get along but, i dont talk to my dad that much. My dad used to abuse me. just recently he stopped. but whenever i talk to my dad, his attitude towards me is sour. ill ask him for help, all he does is argue. we dont get along. when i get home i dont talk to him or my step mom. im in 10th grade, every one of my friends and even my boyfriends family, dislikes my parents (step mom and dad) i have no idea what to do. should i just stick it out for another 2 years or should i do something about it. the way im treated every day just weighs on my shoulders, it hurts. im not super defyant. i always ask and wait for an answer if i want to go places.my life has gotten a lot better, i dont yell or argue with my parents. and i dont always have bad days with my parents. but for some reason i just cant talk to my dad or even sit in the same room as him. :(

Question: My dad favors my oldest sister and my other sister even thinks so too.?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:11 AM PST

My oldest sister, I'll call os, has mental issues. She has anxiety and depression. Now here's the problem, my other sister has depression, anxiety, and ADD. He doesn't calm down or do anything when my other sister has a breakdown, but when Is has a breakdown,he does anything to make her happy. As had a breakdown and I wanted to know if something was hers, and my dad SCREAMED at me to leave her alone. My other sister agrees with me that he isn't strict with her and her needs to be. My oldest sister has made me hate being home. I'd rather be at school than get yelled at by her of my dad. Os even said really passive-agressive stuff to me and I'd just really rude to me. I stay locked in my room most of the time to avoid them

Question: I think my Dad has a fetish for feces????

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:07 AM PST

Ok, first of all, before I begin, let me just say I HATE my Dad and just wish he would die honestly. Thank GOD I am moving away from him soon within the next week, and I'll never contact him ever again. I really dont care what happens to him, and could care less about his worthless life. However, im starting to suspect that he has a fetish for feces. It literally sounds like he gains sexual pleasure while taking shits. And he's loud and proud about it, in case you are wondering how I know he has a fetish. My question is basically, what should I do? Should I just leave now?

Question: Is my sister a bully?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:51 AM PST

At school, my sister Lauren hates this girl called Emma. Here a few things I've witnessed: -One time at lunch, me, my sister and a couple of friends were sitting down in the canteen. Over at the adjacent table, Emma was listening in in our conversation and while we were talking, she said "yeah I agree". Lauren turned around and shouted at her, "Shut the hell up Emma. No one cares what you think. Now go back to your friends... oh wait, YOU DON'T ANY BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES YOU!" -When Emma was eyeing her crush, Lauren came up to her and said, "He's way out of your league, just like everyone else. Who would wanna date a ginger pr*ck like you?" -In science class once, Emma had a really bad cold and she accidentally sneezed over Lauren's work. Emma was really angry, so angry with her that she attempted to beat her up because of it. Is my sister a bully, or does she have anger issues? I also forgot to mention that Lauren and Emma were best friends in primary school, but something happened in Year 7 that caused Lauren to absolutely hate her guts.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:49 AM PST

My mom is Making me feel like I'm raising my brother. My brother is a year and a few months old and I'm 17. After my mom had him I started working, along with doing chores, homework and going to school 5 days a week but whenever I'm home I'm always having to watch him rather it's why she's smoking or while shesitting on the computer scrolling through Facebook. Don't get me wrong I love them both but I feel like I'm the mom in the house. She never does anything and if you talk to her about it she uses my brother as an excuse. I just really wish I could have a life again since all I'm ever able to do is take care of my brother, work and do school related things. Please help

Question: Is my mom ok looking..she feels plain?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:41 AM PST

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Question: As a mother, I'm disappointed my son isn't getting any girls. What can I do ?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:15 AM PST

Question: What should I do??

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:14 AM PST

I'm a 20 year old male and I'm paralysed from my waist and down... I was disabled since I was born, so I'm used to the way of my life... I need special services... I've been home schooled and now I'm studying with online courses (I'm studying visual arts)... I need someone to take to bathroom and wash me... I need someone to take me to toilet... I neet someone to dress me up... I need a physiotherapist to help me do the exercises, I must do everyday... I need so many things to stay alive, so my parents are paying for a nurse to come over here and to take care of me, most of the day... I know him since I was 10...She's now a 30 year old woman and she's very beautiful and affectionate... Since the first time I saw her, I felt love for her, but I'm still shy to tell her how I feel... Do you think she would accept such a useless person like me? Look, I'm shut in the house because my parents are too protective and I CANNOT COMPLAIN, because if I do, they won't listen...I'm a disabled person and I don't have any friends, so I can't move out and live a better life without my parents...I've nowhere to go...And yes...My upper body is fine, but I can't bend...I'll fall down if I sit on the wheelchair without my special belt, so I certainly need someone to take me to the toilet and my person have never tried to teach how take care of myself..

Question: Has my dad forgotten all the abuse he's committed? What are the chances he has a mental illness?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 06:47 AM PST

Here's a bit of context on the type/level of abuse: https://gyazo.com/996b80bbf39029aad45e8a9e9bd6ba8a I've begun to question whether my dad has forgotten all of the sh*t he's put us through because of multiple cases. - I've suffered mentally + I'm a teenager (hormones and mood swings exist) + I have a grudge against him so I always look rather upset. He then tries to cheer me up by asking all cheerfully, "you've had a happy life, haven't you?", "aren't you glad to be raised in a happy family?" - He also knows I'm suicidal so that makes it 10x worse - These two kids are both 2 years old. The boy was trying to do something with the ipad they were playing with, and the girl was trying to pull it away from him, so he hit her in the face. Anyway, my dad was telling us about it, like he was criticising the boy's parents, suspecting abuse was happening in their household, which is "where the child learned it from". This p*ssed me off. - He asks why I speak so rudely to him or hit him (for saying perverted sh*t or jokingly hitting us), "after [he] raised [us] so nicely". I will admit, I thank him for raising me, but knowing that he forced my mother to study medicine thus barely spending time with us is something I will never forgive. There was another point but I forgot it. I honestly do believe he's forgotten all the abuse he's put us through. My mother suspects he might have something like bipolar disorder. Is this possible?

Question: Are my first cousins counted as close blood related family ?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 06:35 AM PST

Question: I need help being comfortable in MY OWN HOUSE, especially around grown men.?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 06:02 AM PST

I've lived with both my grandpas from both side of my family, along with my little brother and parents, and IM JUST SO DONE. I can't do anything around my grandpas. I can't wear shorts in the summer, I can't not wear a bra under a tshirt, I can't pick up something I dropped BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS STARE. I'm 13 years old and no they both don't live with my family, my family has lived with each of them and I currently live with my moms dad and mom. My grandparents. A lot of things has happened with both grandpas that I can't explain because this doesn't let me type too much. I don't know how to be comfortable around grown men. I hate the fact that I have to limit myself to where I go around the house, and what I wear around these perverted men (my grandpas). If I want to go to the living room to do my homework, I say oh wait I can't he's there. There's not one day, ONE DAY, that goes by that I don't think about this and it bothers me so much. It's just a mental thing I've accumulated over the years and it sucks. Please help. Thank you.

Question: How should I spy on my sister in the shower just using a phone camera?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:44 AM PST

Question: I feel overwhelmed with expectations. How do I keep myself from going insane?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:43 AM PST

So my boyfriend wants me to make a **** ton of money so I can come see him on the other side of the world. All within about a year and I really have to get moving. It stresses me out that I have to keep talking to him all day or he thinks I'm, "cheating" or doing something else stupid. How am I supposed to make money when I also have to be giving you attention all the time. My family thinks I'm a piece of ****. They literally have destroyed me as a human being and I have had drug problems and alcohol problems because of that. I literally can't do a god damn thing without them being suspicious that I'm doing drugs. I have absolutely no privacy at all. All the pressure was too much to be perfect and I flipped out yesterday and went on a horrible drug binge and ruined all the progress that I have been making. I just constantly feel like I'm not good enough. All the while this is happening I have to hide my sexuality as well as other secrets that destroy me more and more everyday. It's hard to make any progress personally when all these outside things are bugging me. What the hell do I need to do? I should also note that I am the youngest of a family of screw ups so it's all riding on my shoulders at this point. I have to be successful and I'm already starting to get treatment like people are losing hope and not liking me anymore. I swear everything is about money and greed. I just want some emotional help and all they want is money.

Question: How should I spy on my sister in the shower?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:43 AM PST

Question: I want to fûck my sister?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:32 AM PST

I just want to lick her títs and eat her out but mostly how should I spy on her when she's in the shower or just naked

Question: Anyone think this is even ok?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:22 AM PST

My fiancée and I have been together for over 4 years now. We invited her brother (Who lives apprx. 340 miles away) to the New Years Eve party Few days ago, we drove just over 2.200 miles back and forth (attending my Uncle s funeral) My mother was going to watch out for our three cats, but we found out a couple of days ago that she d let our cats unattended and that she d been taking a flight to visit my brother-in-law (My fiancées brother, right?) Now we have discovered that they have fallen in love after they met once... I feel that a relationship between my mother and my brother-in-law is disgusting. As I told my mom when I found out; "The only thing missing now is a banjo and to live in a trailer park." Is my opinion about this "correct"?

Question: Help? What do I do?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:59 AM PST

This morning my sister text me and told me her mother inlaw showed her messages between my sisters step daughter and her bf on her phone. The daughter said that it would be so easy to get rid of a certain person here at home because that person is depressed. And my dad has guns we could make it look like a suicide he says yeah we could . My sister didn t tell her husband because she didn t want him to worry. Like seriously. She hates my sister because she tries discipline her. She ssys she just wants to ruin her life.This boy been a bad influence since they started dating. He s 18 and she s 17. I really think this kid has issues. Both have issues. She lives with her dad for the past 6 months because she gotten in trouble at school with her mom. They been going thru hell with this girl. I told my sister she needs to tell him but she stopped responding back. She told me not to tell him. My husband himself wants to snatch this kid up and kick his ***. But we know he can t do that. What do I do? If I tell my brother in law myself I think he wouldn t believe me and it might cause trouble between us. I took a snapshot of the message just in case. I m so worried now . But my sister says guns are all locked up and keys hidden. It s hard for me. My sister texts or calls me and tells me about everything and when I try to help or give advice she gets upset and doesn t talk to me for a few days. She says she s not scared. What do I do?

Question: Living with my parents is dangerous and I want a way out?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:24 AM PST

I'm 21 and I'm living with my parents. I work but I'm paying for college so I can't afford to live alone or with a roommate. My dad's been physically and verbally abusing me since I was a kid. He's cheated on my mom and my mom knows about it but they r still living together like everything is fine . he's angry all the time and he never stops humiliating me. He is jealous of my look, grades and everything. I was a straight A student in high school but that was never enough for him. And he never stops, he always finds sth to hurt me and he doesn't even let me be outside of the house after 10 p.m. I've tried living with relatives but my dad went crazy and I had to go back. I've never saved any money bc my pocket money was scarce(even though they aren't poor) and now all of my earning is spent on education and other things . I'm depressed and my das tries to isolate me and I'm worried I'm gonna fail some courses I know it seems impossible but does anyone have a suggestion? I'm a guy btw

Question: Is this inappropriate for my mom to do?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:19 AM PST

A few days ago, my mom saw me naked by accident when I was coming out of the shower. We decided to move past it and never to talk about it again. But last night, I came home from the gym to find my mom and her girlfriends having drinks and chatting. I'm guessing they didn't hear me come in because I heard my mom saying that my junk had gotten "bigger and darker" than when she'd last seen it. Her friends were laughing hysterically and when I went in, they all started acting super weird and awkward. I haven't talked to my mom yet, and I feel like I never will because of how she embarrassed me in front of her friends. Should I bring it up to her or just ignore her?

Question: What happens if I fall in love with a 2nd or 3rd cousin I have only met once or twice and then see at a reunion or funeral?

Posted: 15 Jan 2017 03:35 AM PST

Obviously 1st cousins are family and I wouldn't fall in love other then family love. But more distant family that are more just relatives we've only met two or three times. Like my grandmother wanted me to ask a 2nd cousin on the other side of the family out on a date after I met her at a funeral. I'd only met her twice. This was years ago but I was thinking had I fallen in love with her would it be immoral as we'd be 3rd cousins (her grandmother and my grandfather were 1st cousins) What happens in this case?