Family: Question: Should I stop talking to my father?

Question: Should I stop talking to my father?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 02:07 PM PST

In November, me and mother left the house because we were tired of my dad. My parents have been married for 22 years and it has been hell for my mother. I'm 18 years old and almost all my life I would see my parents fight, hear my dad call my mom names, and also hear my dad threatening her. Because of all this, I've been a very quiet person. Now that we have left the house, me and my mom are staying in a shelter that is 4 hours away from where he is. He keeps sending me text messages even though my aunt told him to stop. An hour ago, he sent me a text message telling me that it would be better if he disappeared from this world, which makes it seem like he want to commit suicide, but don't believe him because he makes up so many things so we can feel bad for him. I am still mad at him and I don't want to answer his text messages or calls. I'm tired of his words and voice. I hated the way he treated my mother and me. He would tell me all the time that I should wear makeup because if I don't, I would look like a lesbian. Every time me and had a conversation, he would bring up my weight and always telling me to lose weight. He never made me feel better, and he would also call me stupid and lazy. I felt like he never gave me any love, so I did the same to him. Those are the reasons why I don't want to talk to him anymore. I can't even stand his side of the family, also. Throughout the years I felt like my cousins didn't even like me.

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Question: My former foster mother refuses to give back photos and letters that belong to me?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:45 PM PST

I'm 23 and I'm getting married this June and desperately trying to get back some photos and letters from her house. When I was 3 I was put in foster care for two years before being returned to my mother when I was 5. I was taken from my mother again when I was 8. I spent 6 years with this family. My mom used to send me monthly letters, and visisted bi monthly until I finally became a ward of the state at age 11. Anyway when I left this family house at age 14, my foster mother didn't send some of my stuff. When I was 18 and went to get my stuff she had moved. It took me until a month ago to find her. My fiance found her number. I called her and she told me she still had my letters, a photo of my mother and me during one of our last visits before her parental rights were terminated, and about a dozen photos of mine. She told me she wouldnt' give them to me. She then went on to read over the phone a few of the letters, so I know she still has them, or atleast some of them. Is there anything I can do? Or should I just accept that she is just being cruel?

Question: Why did my mom do this?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:42 PM PST

My mom lost her job and got behind on her mortgage payments and was in danger of losing her home of 30 years. Of all the people she could of asked for help, she asked my ex husband Bill. She really liked Bill when we were married and he really liked her. I guess that friendship did not stop with our friendly divorce like I thought it would. Bill immediately paid the back mortgage payments and also he paid 1 years mortgage payments in advance. He also used his business contacts to get her a new job. That is totally in character with Bill. As long as I have known him, if he finds out someone needs help, he helps them. Mom went from VERY DEPRESSED to VERY HAPPY in one day. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I and my siblings agree that mom should of asked us first for help but we all admit we could not have helped her like Bill did. We just do not have that kind of money. I told Bill we would somehow repay him. He told me he would not accept any repayment. He said mom was great to us when we were married and this was his repayment to her. Am I off base to think mom should of asked us first before going outside the family for help. Is it possible that it would be too embarrassing for mom to ask her family for help?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:40 PM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:37 PM PST

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Question: Since my mother lies about people she is mad at could this be something where her bitterness blinds her from reality so she doesn't know?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:35 PM PST

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Question: My mom is crazy, what should i do?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:28 PM PST

I'm a 17 years old girl and i have a dad who's not normal either but he's kinda okay and i have a mom who is totally crazy. She wasn't working for years because she always said she's ill but it was just an excuse and my dad had to work a lot more than a usually a man does just to make a good life for me and my sister. I always had the feeling that my mom hates me because she argued me for everything and she's truly not normal mentally...She gets crazy almost all the time and starts to shout and there were times when she attacked me and hit me and when i tried to protect myself she made me look like i'm the bad person in front of grandpa and others. She gets crazy mad about everything, even the smallest thing. For example today i found a huge spider on my wall and i asked her to take it off bc i'm afraid and she got crazy again and tried to hit me again all for just a simple question...Sometimes she even calls me names like ***** and whore and useless etc and its been going on since years she used to do this even when i was little. And after she calms down she acts like nothing happened, after a minute she acts like a normal mom like she wasn't even hitting me and calling me names a minute ago. And she never says sorry she always makes it look like she has a good reason for doing it but trust me i barely do anything stupid and even if i'd make the biggest mistake in life a mom should never hit her own child and call her names like that!! What should i do? ://:((

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:26 PM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:23 PM PST

My uncle and his wife been living with my grandma since my grandpa passed 3 years ago and over time my grandma gave my uncles wife her info and sometime she added her name to my grandma credit card account and the other day my grandma and my aunt found out my uncle wife max out 2 cards which came to 15k my aunt called the cops and they said since her name was on the account there's nothing they can do.... Is there anything my grandma can do I don't think it's right somebody can do that to a 82yr old woman and get off

Question: My mom found out I'm sexually active at 18, and I feel embarrassed. Anyone have similar experiences?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:14 PM PST

I'm 18. My mother and I never had the type of relationship where I told her much of my personal issues. I just didn't feel comfortable. I come from a slightly strict Asian household although my mother wasn't so much pressuring us with her beliefs. I am responsible person and have safe sex. I'm on birth control for hormonal reasons and my mom is aware of this. I am a worrier and I decided to take a pregnancy test which not surprisingly turned out negative. I stored it in my purse to discard of it for later since I was no way going to leave it for anyone to see. Later on, I go to the bathroom and come back into my room to see that my mom has looked through my purse and found the test. She looks through my things all the time so I'm not surprised. She started telling me about how my focus isn't where it should be, and so on (things I do not agree on). She starts to tell me about how irresponsible I am for doing such things and that I'm too young. Honestly, I feel embarrassed. Tons of teenagers are having sex at my age and I'm no different. I feel guilty, because she has high blood pressure and she said that she was VERY shocked. I feel a lot of things right now. It's like a secret I've been holding for so long has been exposed. I know she still thinks of me as this little girl, but honestly, I don't know. I'd love to hear stories on how your parents found out you were sexually active. If they were strict, how did you cope?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:06 PM PST

It's a long story: My dad had an affair. Many years ago. I wasn't very old, I don't remember very well however I do remember the fighting and the separation, etc. (I believe I was 4-5 years old). My parents however worked it out and got back together shortly after I turned 6. As I got older, I started worrying because I thought it was because of me, however my mom told me that she forgave him, because she still loved him and believed they could work through it. However things have not quite been the same. My dad got sick a few years back. And he got a depression. Ever since then my parents have not been loving towards each other. They don't sleep in the same bed, their sex-life is non-existent (kids know this stuff, trust me), they never go out, they haven't kissed as far as I have seen in a while. I am 19, living on my own, and this has only made it worse. I have tried getting in touch with my mother for 4 days now, she hasn't picked up. My dad just says that she is at a friends place. I am panicking. My mother has not returned my calls, my texts, my Facebook messages, I don't know what's going on. My dad denies anything being wrong but says that he hasn't talked to her either. - He sucks at lying. I know something is up. How do I handle this, I'm nervous and really want to talk to my mother... However I can't get in touch. What do I do?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 12:54 PM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 12:38 PM PST

Don't get me wrong, I love my daughter. But as a mother, I just want the best for her and I'm worried that she won't live her life like a normal woman. My daughter is turning 20 next month and she's studying to be a social worker at college. She's really quiet and she only has two really close friends. She doesn't like to party that much, and she'd rather stay at home and read a book. She loves to read, which is a very good thing, but she does it excessively and to the point where she doesn't interact much with other people. She is very passionate about charity and she loves to help people. She volunteers a few times a week at an animal shelter and a soup kitchen, and during her school breaks she goes on mission trips to third-world countries to help children. She's rather go on these mission trips than go on vacations, which I don't think is normal. I'm proud of her for being a kind person but I feel that sometimes she also needs to go on vacations to relax and see the world, but she claims that she wouldn't have fun on vacations and that she has more fun and feels more fulfilled going to Africa and helping kids. She also prefers to spend her money on charity and gifts for other people instead of using it for herself, like buying makeup and nice clothes. She told me that she doesn't want to buy makeup and stuff because she doesn't need it. I just want my daughter to be normal like other girls! I don't think this behavior is normal... help

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 12:24 PM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 12:05 PM PST

I hear her complain every day I try to avoid to be in the living room or kitchen if she's there because right when I walk in she will say something like I hate my job, she should be happy she even have one here I am miserable trying to get one she doesn't hear me complain very often I will be honest I do every now and then but not as much as her if she's not complaining about her job she will find something else to complain about.

Question: Is it okay if I don't want to talk to my father anymore?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 12:05 PM PST

In November, me and mother left the house because we were tired of my dad. My parents have been married for 22 years and it has been hell for my mother. I'm 18 years old and almost all my life I would see my parents fight, hear my dad call my mom names, and also hear my dad threatening her. Because of all this, I've been a very quiet person. Now that we have left the house, me and my mom are staying in a shelter that is 4 hours away from where he is. He keeps sending me text messages even though my aunt told him to stop. An hour ago, he sent me a text message telling me that it would be better if he disappeared from this world, which makes it seem like he want to commit suicide, but don't believe him because he makes up so many things so we can feel bad for him. I am still mad at him and I don't want to answer his text messages or calls. I'm tired of his words and voice. I hated the way he treated my mother and me. He would tell me all the time that I should wear makeup because if I don't, I would look like a lesbian. Every time me and had a conversation, he would bring up my weight and always telling me to lose weight. He never made me feel better, and he would also call me stupid and lazy. I felt like he never gave me any love, so I did the same to him. Those are the reasons why I don't want to talk to him anymore. I can't even stand his side of the family, also. Throughout the years I felt like my cousins didn't even like me.

Question: Is it OK what my mom is doing to my daughter?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 11:53 AM PST

I have 2 children in college and my daughter is in high school. As you can see, money is tight at my house because of college expenses. My daughter Lisa wants to be like all her high school friends and have nice clothes and other nice things. I just do not have the money to buy her all the things she wants. When I tell her I can not afford the things she wants, she will call my mom and ask her to go shopping with. When she finds something she wants, she will tell my mom and my mom will buy it for her. With what mom is buying her, she is living WAY above our means. She thinks she has the greatest grandma in the world. Please give me some advice on how I should feel about this. Mom can easily afford to buy her these things but should she? Is Lisa taking advantage of my mom? Mom did not buy me these nice things when I was Lisa's age. Parents and others, please give me your thoughts on this.

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 11:43 AM PST

My family is Polish but when my parents came to America they had me, and I understood Polish as a young child but now I can barely understand it. I love my grandparents but a year ago my grandpa died. My grandma was very in love with him and now she lives in a big house by herself. On Christmas when she saw me she just started to cry because she said I don't see her very often (she used to be with me everyday when I was young because my family and my grandparents shared a two family house, but my family moved an hour away.) Anyways, she and I tried to have a conversation but she speaks polish. It makes be really sad knowing she's depressed and living alone and I know she does not like being alone. I'm in college and recently quit my job to focus on school, but I want to learn Polish so I could at least call her or visit with her or maybe even live there. My school is conveniently in between where I live and where she lives. My mom speaks polish but she works to much to help me learn.

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 11:24 AM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 11:06 AM PST

my "friends" are bullying me, my mom abusing me, my mom telling me I cant talk to anyone about my problems, my siblings manipulating me, my teachers bullying me, my dad left me, my weight gaining, and my mom is just terrible. like shes abusive but I cant even call the police cus she took all the hones in our family out and sealed my windows. and at school she says no and all my friends and everyone hates me at school. at school nobody even smiles at me and my mom Is jealous of me and my success just cos she got a bitter divorce she wants to screw up my life by making me fat and dumb and ****. im only allowed to wear long clothes to hide abuse marks. HELP HELP HELP ME ASAP PPLSSSSS

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 11:00 AM PST

think that spanking children is wrong and hurtful and abusive but it wouldn't be abuse. They would be disciplining me how I wanted. Isn't that what all the anti-spanking people say, that the child should be able to have a say about how the household is run and how they are disciplined. Well do they still believe that if the child wants to be spanked or thrashed? Or is it only when the child does not want to be spanked so they can take away them from their parents. I am their son. My parents should at least listen to me and consider spanking me. I know spanking will be painful and that I will probably regret asking for it when it actually happens but I think timeouts and grounding are unsatisfying and I still feel guilty afterwards. I think thrashing would bring me and my parents closer together. I know this sounds weird but it is my honest opinion.

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 10:52 AM PST

Money again?And she yells?She never gives me much money and she says how do you spend it?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 10:33 AM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 10:30 AM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 10:29 AM PST

I'm 14 & I'm speaking with a guy. Just now this happened: so I'm on the phone to the guy I'm speaking to & my mum gets home, comes up the stairs & shouts at me because she thinks I'm talking to a boy even though I said I was speaking to my best friend. she then thinks I'm having sex, she found a note in my room that said 'safe sex' but it's for PSE in school. she didn't believe me & continued to shout at me. she's so suspicious of me & now is pissed with me & im pissed off too. & also, she thinks I know nothing, she's trying to 'protect' me from things, such as sex etc. she even questioned on why I had to learn about circumcision in school. she's so against everything & thinks I don't need to know anything. She's always been so suspicious of me. She always thinks I'm having sex etc. Also, she went through my things in my room. What can I do?

Question: My mom tells me that my dad doesn't love me how do I know if she's right?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 10:27 AM PST

She's divorced from him so I don't know when she's just saying it because she's mad and ugly and when it's real. My dad has a drinking problem, he's an alcoholic, so my mom says that he does not love me and is incapable of loving anybody. She reminds me of this every time I try to reach out to him as it makes her mad I would reach out to someone that used to name call her when drunk before they divorced. How do I know if my mom is right or if she's just saying this out of anger?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 10:01 AM PST

My family is leaving out of town for the weekend, what should I do? Well, the header is pretty self-explanatory. I am 19 years old, and my family is leaving out of town to Florida. I originally had a ticket, but I was told that I would not be able to travel because I was supposed to get surgery on 23 January. However, my surgery has been postponed, give me no choice but to stay behind since plane tickets have rocketed up. I ll have the entire house to myself and car, and I ll be home alone for two nights and three days. Any suggestions?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 09:51 AM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 09:48 AM PST

My mother only wants to see her husband and three kids. I am an adult now so might want to go see aunts and cousins also for like an hour and then go out to my parents farm an hour away. So how can I do this in a way that doesn't cause a fight with Mom? This past year I felt really bad to only get to see my parents and two siblings when all the cousins were gathering elsewhere. My mother has deep seated bitterness towards her siblings over little personality clashes so refuses to do holidays with them. It causes me to miss out as I like them all a lot. Any thoughts?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 08:56 AM PST

So, today when my dad was driving me to his house, while we were on the street a woman knocked on our window. I don't know did she cross the street too early or was my dad driving too fast so thats why she knocked or something but when my dad heard that he got out of the car and started running after her. I said ''No dad stop'' but he got out anyway. I don't know did he yell, cuss her out or hit her but he left me alone in the car in the middle of the street because a woman knocked on the window and that doesn't seem how a mentally stable person would react (I suppose he was afraid of the car getting damaged ) The cars behind our started beeping and I felt really embarresed. My parents are divorced , even though my mom never actually talked about this with me I know it was definitely because of domestic violence. My first memory ever is my dad and my mom arguing and him hitting her and my mom wanting to call the police so on. Also my sister has mental health issues, so I thought maybe he does too so it's his genetics? Anyway when we got home , at lunch I guess my dad told my step mom what happened and they started arguing. At the end he realized he was wrong , but only after my step mom explaining him. She called me to tell her what happened and asked me did he hit her, he claims he didnt but I don't know. As I'm writing this they're still arguing .Sorry for the long post but does it sound like he has anger issues? He gets mad for small things like that.

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 08:55 AM PST

My father abandoned me as a kid and so I trust no one. My mother was a drug addict but reconciled with me before she died.

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 08:19 AM PST

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 07:51 AM PST

They have been having problems ever since my stepmom had a stillborn last April. My uncle would be devastated if he knows she's cheating on him. What do I do?

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 07:19 AM PST

They've also never spoken the words I love you to me. The closest I came anyone came to hugging me was when my dad pulled me away from my birthday cake so he could have some in my uncle could have some. I've never been abused or anything like that so it's not that I have a bad home it's just I've never been given any affection from my parents even though they feed me cloth me, give me a good education at a private school etc. My two siblings have never been hugged either or told that they are loved. Like on Christmas as kids my parents would not open gifts with us rather they go back to bed while we opened our gifts. So why might this be and how do I find love? neither set a grandparents were like this as our grandparents always hugged us so I don't think my parents were unloved unless their parents were different when they're a little.

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Posted: 27 Jan 2017 06:07 AM PST

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Question: I have a chance to move but dont know if i should.?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 05:57 AM PST

well my girlfriend came up about 1 year ago she is 21 i am 18 but anyway we have had our bumps and stuff well she has to go back to texas for good or at least untill her moms stable and she asked me to stay well im still in school but i know i can transfer to a differnt school but thats beside the pint here i want to move with her because i love her but i dont know if i have the heart to leave my mom and my dogs friends and family well i dont have much family just mom and gmas and gpas but still idk what to do because i dont want to lose her shes all i got close to me right now my mom guilt trips me into not going but i just dont know!

Question: Should I move or stay?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 05:39 AM PST

I'm currently shopping for a home. My girlfriend and I eventually will move in together one day sometime after I purchase my home. However, we live approximately 80 miles apart and have a child together. I can find an affordable home with land here where I live now, but I'm wanting to find a home where she lives if it meets the criteria, E.g. land, bedrooms, price. She's unwilling to relocate where I am now if I find a more affordable home here. She claims she wouldn't be happy here. She has seven kids total, one of which is mine. I also have a child by someone here (where i currently reside) as well. What to do?

Question: I'm depressed, I don't feel like I belong anywhere?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 04:09 AM PST

My dad's never home. Mum is the only one who struggles to support my two brothers and I. My older brother is in university, he flunked last year. Problem with my mum is when she's under pressure, she takes it out on whoever is around and that's always me. She screams at the top of her lungs and makes me sound like a horrible daughter even though I try my best to keep the house in order, I cook, clean and take care of my little brother. But when she's angry, I'm the one at fault, I'm lazy and pathetic and I do nothing. Now the neighbors stare hatefully at me because 'I'm giving my mother a hard time'. 2015, she even beat me with an iron rod and kind of injured my wrists, I couldn't write in school for about 2 weeks. I was just thinking if my mother died, I wouldn't get along well living with my dad and his relatives because I always feel out of place. If my father died, living with my mother and her relatives would be hard on me because they do not like me. They prefer my brothers. If I die maybe that would be okay.

Question: What would you do if this happened to you?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 02:30 AM PST

For some reason, I've been struggling these past weeks/months.. thinking about things that has happened to me in the past and wanting to have courage to speak up and defend myself but just thinking about the consequences and splitting up my family if I let the truth come out here's my story: When I was 5/6 me and another brother aged 7 used to go visit another brother who at that time was 17 I believe basically we would go to "play Nintendo" but that wasn't all.. he would leave my brother playing by himself and take me to his room and then just have sex with me.. remember I was a kid I didn't know what sex was and I guess I believed it was just a game.. this lasted for weeks and I never said anything to my parents because he told me not to say anything. He moved out of the country after and I then saw him 5 years later but never had the balls to say anything. I guess that since a month ago I started feeling bad about myself because I hear other family members saying how much a shtty life they've had just for small things and they really don't know what other people have gone through. And I really want to tell them what happened but as I mentioned it would break my mum's heart.

Question: My mom is raping me. What should I do?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 02:09 AM PST

My uncle got killed in Afghanistan and after that my mom got depressed, because she had an affair with him. She had sexual desires and I had to help. I just couldn't say no. Even if I didn't want to, I felt like I had to. Please become her boyfriend so I can escape.

Question: What's wrong with my psychotic family I'm guessing religion or bad politics?

Posted: 27 Jan 2017 01:35 AM PST

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Question: How to deal with mother's conditional love?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 10:39 PM PST

I'm over 20 years old and I've told my mom that I don't want to wear hijab anymore. She told me that she's ashamed of me for saying that and she needs to pressure me more. She also said that she would disown me if I did and then said she hated me. And that I'm a horrible daughter. I was shocked because i spent all my life trying to protect her. I never raised my voice to her nor insulted her since i was a kid and always forgiven her. I always listened to her when she complains and loved her unconditionally. I'm known to be a good person never hurt anyone the only reason she see's me as a horrible person because my beliefs do not match hers. I broke down in shock when she said those things about me then i sensed her feeling guilty and she said "i dont hate you but i will if you take off your hijab" i can't like her the same anymore. And i don't know how to deal with her.

Question: Getting closure on mother's death?

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My mother died of cancer in 2005 when I was almost 7. I have basically tucked my feelings about it away for the most part. How do I get closure on her death? My biggest regret is that I wasn't there when she died.

Question: I feel bad when my parents buy me expensive things?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 09:42 PM PST

Hello, I am 16 years old. I feel bad when my parents buy me expensive things. During winter break, my mom bought me a 400 dollars Calvin Klein jacket, which i didn't ask her to buy. I only asked her to buy a peacoat worth like 20-30 dollars. I did not expect her to buy something this expensive. I then asked her to exchange it for a 200 dollar Ralph Lauren coat. My mom bought me a 1400 dollar macbook and now she's buying me a 400 dollar Iphone 6. I feel like I don't deserve it because I yell a lot and I can go crazy sometimes. I don't get bad grades, and I always try my best in school. I yell because I am either stressed, depressed, or really angry. I yelled at my mom because she got herself a new Iphone while I was stuck with my cracked iphone 5. All i can say is that I am thankful, but I am guilty. I give my mom a hard and she still buys me these things, and I am grateful, despite how I act. I hope to buy them really nice things after I get a really good job in college.

Question: I want to get married..BUT?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 09:41 PM PST

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile. We are both Christian and i've always wanted to get married pretty young. I guess my problem is, i'm terrified of what his family and mine will say about this? Since we are Christian we can't move intogether, have sex, and create our lives without being married. I'm an adult and can make my own decisions but I also want our families approval..Im not sure what to do..

Question: Why is it so hard to leave my family?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 09:28 PM PST

I don't get along with my family. It's stresses me out to the point where I think moving out on my own will benefit me more. Im 23 and I think it's time to get my own place anyways. I don't have much education past an associate degree. And I'm currently looking for a better job. But the thought of leaving the house just drains me. Living out on my own feels scary. I rather just stay in this miserable 😭 house and stay in my room( and avoid conflict). I'm so comfortable here. I have my own room, computer and TV. And pay no RENT! I fear that if I don't do something about this soon. I will just stay here until I'm 30 lol How do I motivate myself to grow up and leave?

Question: In Mexico does the Father of the Bride really take the daughter's virginity the night before her wedding?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 09:21 PM PST

Question: What perhaps happens if u have a kid with ur sibling or very close relative?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 09:20 PM PST

I mean what happens to a kid?

Question: Is it okay that i dont agree with people most of the time?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:50 PM PST

So hello guys I got put into a group today in my AP US class. The teach gave us an article and ask to see if it a good article. I dont feel connected with my group so after they answer to the teacher, i raise my hand and explain my own point of view. I was wrong about my point of view and i feel like an idiot What can i do?

Question: My older brother touched me inappropriately?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:46 PM PST

I'm 15 and my brother is 19. Yesterday was both my parents day off so we spent the day with family & we went to go have brunch. When we got home, I went to my room & my brother went in his. I was laying down on my bed when my brother comes in and just jumps on my bed. This isn't unusual as he always does this, it's just how he is. Anyways, he began to fall asleep so I turned off the light so he would be more comfortable & laid next to him but at a distance. I was still on my phone & after a few minutes he started cuddling with me, again I didn't think much of it because this is just how he is & I thought he was sleeping. I decided to turn off my phone & try to sleep too when he started moving his hand up and down my side (I was laying on my back) I didn't think much of it again but then his hand went inside my shirt and he placed his hand on my bra, he didn't squeeze my boob or anything, his hand just laid there. Then he went back to moving his hand up and down my side on my bare skin. I'm assuming he thought I was sleeping so that's why. He heard footsteps and knew my mom came home so as soon as my mom opened the door he slid his hand out quickly. Idk what to do. He's never done anything like this before & I wouldn't ever think he would. It's so awkward just looking or talking to him I don't even think he knows that I was awake. I'm freaking out. I don't wanna tell my family because we're really close and my dad might kick my brother out. Plus it would ruin the family.

Question: My 13 year daughter came in my room while I am breastfeeding should I unlatch and cover up or keep nursing while helping her with homework?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:42 PM PST

Question: My parents has been separted for almost a year and I "caught" them having sex?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:18 PM PST

So I told my dad I would be sleeping over at my friends house. Unfortunately, turns out my friend's parents didn't want me (and other friends) to sleep over, so I got a lift back home (too long to explain). I arrive home and I notice my mom's car in the driveway (btw, it was like 11pm). I keep thinking they are f*cking but I tell myself it's probably not the case, or at least I hope. I get into the house and take a peek in the hallway, my dad's bedroom door is closed and some calming music is playing. And I heard "muffled" noises you expect people having sex are making. Idk what to do, I just feel disgusted.

Question: Siblings repeatedly ignore me when I come home from college? Im so hurt.?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:06 PM PST

I was so excited to come home for thanksgiving, it had been a few months since i last saw my family, im a college freshman. I have to take the train and bus to get home which takes about 6 hours. Unfortunately I spent that entire break crying. None of my siblings (19 years old and 14 years old) bothered to ask me anything or greet me when I came home (nor did they say bye when I left again). This continued each time I came home. And I've noticed that only my Dad really cares about how I've been doing and hes sad when i have to leave again. But my other family members hurt me so much. I think this is because I missed them more than they missed me. And if they were ever coming home for college break, I would definitely pay attention to them and ask them how theyre doing. I would even make a cake and a sign saying welcome back. lol I dont expect my siblings to do that but I just wanted to tell them how much has happened. On thanksgiving we ate in silence then everyone left the table early. This is not normal for my family!! That night, I told my 14 year old sister how upset i was and she called me petty and selfish. And when my brother called me an asshole when I jokingly said to my mom "he's weird" I yelled and said f*** this ( i was making the thanksgiving cake) and stormed off. I felt so embarrassed by my actions. It was so weird because before i left, we would all be close.Theyre in their own bubbles which is understandable but wtf we are a family! Please help me.

Question: My sister might be masturbating?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:04 PM PST

She is 28. I know its none of my business but im really curious to know. She usually doesen't even take a minute in the bathroom but today she took like 10 mins in there. Could she be masturbating? She isn't sick or anything but she did mention she is on her period. Do girls get horny on their period?

Question: How do I get my Mom to stop insulting my loved ones to me and others?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 08:01 PM PST

Question: My brother just got a job at age 23 that pays 164k a year. Would you be jealous?

Posted: 26 Jan 2017 07:51 PM PST

My brother was recruited by linkedin as lead developer. He hasn't even graduated college yet. At my job I make 32k a year at 21. Would you be jealous if your sibling got payed this much so young? I mean 20-25 is still a kid...