they always film their big boobs, stomach, butt, and legs and show them lumbering around, but never show their faces? Do they get these people's permission to be put on camera? What if someone recognizes them?

All my life I was different, it was extremely difficult for me to make friends and it's hard to explain why. I have a few friends as of now but they were the ones who approached me, not vice-versa. I guess I have some social skills but am garbage at using them, I hate eye contact, I don't have much to contribute to the conversation, and people tell me that my voice sounds "different". My parents keep saying that something is wrong with me and that I should be put in Special Ed classes because of this.. My friends think so too but they don't straight out say it but it's fairly obvious that they agree with my parents. Other than my poor social skills, I do well in school with A's and high B's but my worst nightmare is when a teacher tells us that we can pick our groups and I always have to ask him/her to pair me up with another group because I am too anxious to ask another student. I want to open up but just don't know how. I'm a girl and in 8th grade. I feel as though I will never make any new friends, high school is next year but I feel as though there is no hope. I wish I could be the popular girl who has 200 friends, life would actually be fun.

So there is this boy that I have a crush on. Let s call him apple. So apple teases me a lot about other guys. Saying how I like them as a joke and stuff. And this one time he touched my hand as I went to lockers. And I thought it was my friend but when i turned around it was him and I was confused and starstruck in the moment so I basically froze and he smiled at me. Lots of people ship me with him and stuff. Lot s of people are always like "Oh he is looking at you!" or "Omg you guys would be so cute together!" or "go talk to him!". Like I don t know if he likes me or not (i think he does but I am really confused). He sends these signals that leads me on to thinking he likes me but here s the thing. I have a best friend. And lot s of guys like her at my school and the main one supposedly is my crush apple. And he used to grab her butt and stuff like that saying she has a fat butt and flirts with her. My best friend tells me he doesn t like her at all and that he likes me and stuff, but I don t know if she is telling me the truth. I feel like she is telling me that so i wouldn t feel sad. She today told me that he kind of likes her but I found out recently from another friend that he likes her because of her butt (i think that s pretty messed up). She reassured me that he likes me but I really don't know. And also recently my friend joked around with apple and he said that he knew i use to like him and that he doesn't like me. People keep on coming up to me and some of his friends saying he likes me but also they joke around saying he fights with other guys over my best friend.

There's this black girl at my school who hangs out exclusively with other black students. In fact, I've never seen her hanging out with a white person-- male or female. She IS NOT racist. This DOES NOT mean she's racist. That's just her friend group. Nothing wrong. But still, I'm Asian... and she talks to me! I don't know why. I'm super super super super super quiet and shy at school. But she talks to me! Out of ALL the geeky/dorky/nerdy/weird kids at school, she only talks to me. When she has the chance, she'll wave and call my name out. And I wave back of course. I don't know why she does it. I'm one of the only Asians at my school. There's like only 2 others, and she doesn't talk to them. She makes an effort to talk to me. One day, I'll gain the courage to approach her first. I want to say hi to her first. But yeah, do you have any theories as to why she talks to me? There's nothing special about plain, ole' nerdy me. She hangs with the bad kids. And me. Why? When I'm talking about fantasy books or superheroes with the other "geeks," she comes up, yells at my friends to leave, and then ask me what's up. At gym, I just sit and read; I hate playing. She then comes up and personally offers for me to join in the sport she and her friends are playing. But I say no. Why is she so nice to me? I feel so special! She actually sees ME out of the other "weird" kids. Hehe what have I done to deserve this special treatment? I'm 14. She vaguely said, " cause you nice. you a sweetheart and cute. you ain't fake like them girls. you only focus on school. I care 'fa you. I like you for that." Whatever that means, Just today, as a matter of fact, she said hey to me again. I promise. I swear I'll talk to her whenever I get the chance to tomorrow. I promise; I want to return the favor. She's nice to me. Even my other "friends" don't care about me as much as she does. She's like six months younger than me but is also six inches taller than me! I'm so short. hehe. She's nice.

I can't start a conversation let alone keep one going. All I do in my life is wake up, go to school, go home, play on my computer, go to sleep and repeat. I don't get noticed by classmates because I'm very introverted and I don't know how to express myself. I can't work up the courage to make new friends or ask my friends to hang out on the weekends or something like that. I can't talk to my crush either, I'm worried whatever I say will come out as stupid and awkward to her.

I've been going through a horrible time, I'm at a very low point in my life.. Ive lost 4 family members recently, along with my bestfriend who committed suicide weeks ago and my other friend who got killed in a car crash this weekend. My dear friend texted me checking on me as she knows the conditions I'm in. I told her how I don't want to be here anymore, how nothing feels worth it anymore.. She said "do I have to come kick your butt" Why did she say that? am I a bad person for feeling like this?

He's actually saying he likes or not? Thx.

I just got home from taking my best friend home. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for about 20 minutes I just drove in my bare feet and did not have shoes with me.

I like to give my friends hugs. It's just how I greet people. I also like to tell my friends that I love them, because I do and a lot of them I feel like doubt themselves too much. But..im worried that it's just annoying,clingy, and weird. I feel like thats how other people see me. I also feel like the "ugly awkward friend". I'm ugly. My skin isn't the best. I have acne on my face and neck. Im really short, I wear braces, I'm on the underweight side. I'm not as pretty or funny or interesting as any of my friends. Sometimes I wonder why there are even hanging out with me. When I try to be funny or cute it just doesn't work. They all describe me as the "sweet heart" the "sweet one" the "innocent one" (never had a boyfriend, ((had boys who wanted to be my boyfriend, but I just couldn't,,,)) I've never been kissed. Some people at school think I'm really weird. I've been bullied before, I've been depressed. I feel so lonely even with the people that I love, and I feel like they think I'm the most annoying person ever. Sometimes I think it's just my anxiety. But maybe its not. I've heard unflattering things about myself. I'm "weird, annoying, freak, stalker, ect ect a lot of rumors and BS". I don't hurt people. I genuinely care about people. But I feel like they think I'm a fake annoying *****. Nobody takes me seriously. I'm just "here". Sorry about ranting...I just can't explain this to anybody.

Was checking some photos of a guy, then i said that I like the pictures. He wrote back "Thank you ..I wish to say I like yours too". So I quickly replied - Don't bother! And that was it! From this can you say what he meant by his reply? Does this means he didn't like my photos? That is what I understood.

I'm 23 , I got this scholarship to study in a European country.I'm away from my family and friends and I'm not able to make any friends.Even back home my life sucks.I have no reason to live except for my mom, I know she will die if something happens to me.The pain is real, I'm tired, I want to go away

I m a 15 year old girl, a freshman in high school. She s a senior. We re only 2 years apart because she s 17 (she skipped a grade). I admire her because of her time management skills and goals for the future. She's also intelligent and beautiful. She has said that it s inspiring that I look up to her. She s also said I m her friend, but I m always the one who initiates conversations when we text, and we haven t ever hung out outside of school. I feel that she sees me more as a young girl whom she has to be a role model for rather than a friend. I still don t really know much about her because we barely talk, but I don t want to be pushy and annoying by always texting her. I ve noticed in the past few months that I ve developed a huge crush on her. It will never work out as I don't think she likes girls, but regardless she s going off to college and she just got a boyfriend. I was hoping that we could at least become friends, but even that seems like it s reaching at this point. This whole situation is making me feel really upset. Even if I decide that there's no point in trying to better the friendship, I can't get her out of my mind. What should I do?

My brother has a best friend and they are both boys. They have know each other for as long as I can remember. Definatley more than 7 or so years because I remember being friends when I was six and i'm thirteen now. I like shipping boys together and my brother knows that I want him and his friend in bed together. How do I make my ship sail? I have never gotten anyone together before and this is the first time I have wanted eople in real life together. I think he secretly likes the idea of them together even though neither of them are gay. I want no you can't do that answers because I can and will do it. Even if it takes me twenty years I will make this happen one way or another.

my name is Ryan and I began modeling, For a big fitness company and they are paying me alooot of money. and alot of people who were my friends are jealous, ive been getting rude messages. today I got beat up by two other guys today. Should I stop what im doing???

**I am a 14 year old girl** My cousin (16 y.o. Girl) has been calling me a whore often in the hallways at school. ~Few months ago we had a conflict that I personally feel I did nothing very wrong to her, but she feels that I screwed her over in some way~ I have no idea what I ever did to her to deserve this, I just know what she thinks I've done. It started with a very petty girl lying to her about me. Months ago I tried explaining the truth of the situation to her but she didn't ever believe me. I have gone to my mom about it and my mom has spoken to my cousin and my cousins father about it. My cousin denies ever saying anything to me, claiming she hasn't spoken to me in weeks or months. I have had her blocked on all social media since the initial conflict, but she will sometimes get on her boyfriend's social media or her friends' and call me a fake whore among other things. Is this considered bullying or am I overreacting and it isn't really bullying??

I'm 13 years old. I'm a demigirl and I'm hella gay. I have a girlfriend. I am absolutely and utterly in love with her, and I know she feels the same way. Before we got together, we were just friends. We were super close friends too. All of our other friends and my best friend ever all adore her too, as we are all in the same friends group. I just feel so happy and warm whenever I think about her. Could she be the one? Is this the real thing?

Whenever I try to say something that I think is funny, only a few people will laugh, but not a lot of people. I know that I can't get everyone to laugh, but I just want to get a majority of people to laugh. Whenever I do something silly to try to make someone laugh, supposedly I come off as being annoying and I don't really know why. I have been told that I have a loud personality as well. What I'm basically asking is, how can I be funny to make people laugh but also not being annoying or come off as mean?

Hi so recently a new girl moved into our class and became best friends with one of my closest friends my friend is the class gossip girl I on the opposite side am the more chill layer back person so the new girl is a self centered brat and I ve tried being nice to her but she would always just eye roll and tell me to **** of from my friend so anyways they and a few others were the "popular girls" which I guess I was as well but recently I just drifted off and I ve been hanging with the regular cool girls they treat me with more respect and make me feel better. so today a few of them found my private social media and wanted me to add them back which I really opposed but i just thought that I would reply with short messages and not start conversations but they keep texting me what s up everyday until I guess they catched on and now are always questioning me about why I won t hang with them anymore. I m really annoyed and just want to end everything peacefully but I know that everything u saw to them will just make them hate me and mock me any advice thanks in advance

There's a girl I used to be best friends with, but she was never really true to me. She constantly trash talked me, (3+ times, and lied about it) subtweeted me, made up lies about me, and was just overall a bad friend. The only reason I kept her was because I didn't have any other friends like that. So after a while, I just had enough and I stopped talking to her permanently and never told her anything. She hurt me very emotionally and made me feel like nothing and took advantage of me. So I DO NOT want anything to do with her and I DO NOT want to talk to her. She and her sister came into my workplace today and I obviously panicked. The thing about her is, all of the times I caught her being rude about me- she avoids the question and acts like nothing happened. Or she makes up some stupid excuse. So I just thought, I'm not gonna talk to her because there's nothing to talk about, and I went in the backroom and hid there until she left. I know, I should've handled it differently, but whenever I see her, all I think of is all of the times I've been a loyal friend just to get bitten in the end, and I didn't want to go back to that. She doesn't scare me, but she just makes me remember all of those sad times. Am I a coward for what I did?

I have a friend thats a girl and we been friends 3 years. but today we went to the mall and I bought her a purse for $500 and she's always wanted that purse..... But deep down she feels really upset and wants to return it because I spent $500 on one purse. she's never gotten something soo expensive soo she feels really frustrated. is it normal for her too feel this way??

So, my friend is going out to drink with his class and some other people. Since they are still underage, he asked me to go with them after school to buy them drinks. I asked what's in it for me and he said "2 bucks". I asked if he wouldn't invite me to stay for a drink and he said that it's their anniversary of something so the group is kinda the same. Since I wasn't there the first time, they wouldn't invite me now. I told him to buy themselves their drinks then. We live in a country where alcohol is regularly sold to minors so it's almost no problem for them to buy it; I have been buying since I was 15 and they are older than 15. So, I think of that as them using me just to be sure they wouldn't have to go to another shop in an unlikely case they don't sell them. Because I refused to be used, my friend is now playing insulted and angry at me. Does he have the right to be?

Whenever we are together, everything is always about her. She always complains about the things going on in her life, and I can never get a word in edgewise. If I say something, most of the time it seems 'stupid' and 'wrong' in her eyes, and she talks down to me and berates me like I'm a small child. She gets angry and she blows up at me over things I can't control. But, whenever I try to talk to her about the things she's doing that upset me, she twists it around to make me feel like I'm the one that's wrong for confronting her. And yet, she expects me to be available to hang out at the drop of a hat. It's as if she only keeps me around to have someone to push around. How can I end this toxic friendship without her twisting it on me?

I didn't want a relationship but she didn't want to be fwb so I said ok you're my gf. I'm a girl btw. I just can't be held down. I cheated on her with another girl and two guys and she just found out recently. I feel really bad cause I got caught but it's really not my fault. I bought her stuff and said sorry and she has the nerve to be mad at ME!? I want her back cause she's really good with oral and does whatever I want but she is being so stupid and ridiculous. How can I win her back? We're both 18-20 y/o. I don't understand why she doesn't want to date other people then this would have never happened. I told her this. Dustin you're most likely a loser who can't get pussy so you slut shame others who can. @Respect Me: I treat my gf very well. I am always there to support her and I've bought her a lot of valuable stuff. She said I'm the best person she's ever loved, well before all this. It was just a slip up. I know I can get her back but how? @Respect Me: I treat my gf very well. I am always there to support her and I've bought her a lot of valuable stuff. She said I'm the best person she's ever loved, well before all this. It was just a slip up. I know I can get her back but how? @Luke why would you say that about my own gf and relationship? I know this may make me look bad but I am willing to sacrifice and stop seeing other ppl if that's what it takes. She's said no one has EVER treated her as well as I have, before this.

Its clear that these coworker don't respect me from the beginning when I started. it was constant yelling, nitpicking, making stuff up, trying to make me look stupid, making rumors. I did nothing wrong. I barely talk. I fanially stood up for myself, then they start telling people they only yell at me because I get a attitude toward them. I said , I get a attitude with them which they do to me, I make fun of them which they do to me. it was lie after lie after lie. I remember when they went a whole day talking trash about me. I even called them out and they just told me to stop lying. then they told my boss that im a liar and make excuses all of the time. something they do. I have already told the boss and he said he wish he knew what was going on. he's only down here a hour every other week. I told him but he also talked to them and they made up tons of lies about me. even some that contradicted themselves like saying I barely clean up or clean up too much. that I don't tell them anything if they bother me but I get a attitude with them? im tired of playing the finger pointing game. I worked here for 8 months. never missed a day or came in late. the last 2 months when I started defending myself is the time I have been thinking the most about getting a new job. these lies, being targeted with jokes, targeted with insults, its getting old. They even made up stories like my mom coming down and yelling at them. its like they are trying to cause a fight or something

Ok so everything I do my parents and brother say is copying, even if it isn't even remotely. I'll admit some are but for the most part it's complete bullshit. I'm just wondering about this one. Is it copying that i wear Tshirts of the college he goes to?

I work with a girl that I have been somewhat into. I'm bisexual and female. She has a little girl (I believe about 5) and has not yet married the father but they are together, and she calls him her man. Not interested in breaking them up. I'm not looking to come in and take over in caring for a family. She and I recently have gotten along really well. It seems that she wants to include me in her conversations and wants to be friends. Walking by, she's stopped me to join me in her conversation. Before we were really talking or getting along, she did randomly tell me that her daughter is obsessed with a girl on Youtube that has my name and she said that she thinks of me when her daughter goes on about her. Noted that she thought of me away from work, especially when we hardly knew each other. Today, when talking about gym goals, I said I wanted to have thick legs/butt and she straight out began saying with a couple glances that I already have a booty and acted like she might have liked it. And pointed out that I at least noticeably have breasts under my shirt when she and someone else were saying they had none. This is normal female conversation but she was smiling and acted like she'd already previously noted my physical attributes. We got along naturally at work today. I felt a little giddy that we were hitting it off. For a period, noticed her looking over at me. Does this just sound like a potentially great friendship? Or is there some harmless attraction? She was doing some of my sidework for me...said she didn't know why she was doing it - I said it was because she liked me. Guy put his arm around her, she told him to get off and moved to stand by me. I told him she's already got a man. And a few times, I've said something (perhaps funny or something she's agreed with) and she's hit me lightly on the arm. She was doing some of my sidework for me...said she didn't know why she was doing it - I said it was because she liked me. Guy put his arm around her, she told him to get off and moved to stand by me. I told him she's already got a man. And a few times, I've said something (perhaps funny or something she's agreed with) and she's hit me lightly on the arm. I don't plan on "putting on the moves".

I am a guy and my girl best friend is getting a boyfriend and i now feel like Obama on Trumps inauguration. Ugh.

I'm crying now OK so I'm 13 my grandad abandoned me then I went to his cause my mom was in hospital and he was always whispering dirty things in my ear but one day my step nan was out and I wanted at cup of tea he said go up stairs and play on my iPad so I did and he never gave me the tea when he went upstairs he raped my I stream but he had a knife and said he would kill me and well then I found out I was pregnant as I had all the systems but now my Mom is out of hospital and the other day I miscarriages lots of blood and well I'm I'll I need help not the police maybe just one of u to penpal me u can penpal me on chezza.victoria@yahoo.com

I swear i dont get why i should share my bestfriend with a girl who ended a friendship with me because she was "tired of arguing". Lol we only argued twice. First because you were mean, second because you were being a *****. Like she eleminated me and be friendly with my bestfriend. Like how can she end a friendship so freakin easily and still have the other friend. Its not fair. I hate seeing her with my bestfriend. Shes like soo. She may look nice but she just pushes you because of commitment issues. How to deal with this? Is she right to do so?

I was texting a friend and we were joking about different classmates (e.g. one of them is too into their looks) and i found a video of a fat person jumping into a pool and then there is a tsunami and i told them to guess who it is (we have a very fat prrson in class) and it got back to her. I haven't been in school for a week because i have been ill but i am going tommorow what do i do???

Lately, I have been really depressed and have shut everyone out. I just find myself unable to talk to anyone. As a result, I have pissed off one of my best friends and I think I hurt her. I think she has also been ignoring me and I feel terrible now. Please help, I have no idea what to do. I forgot to mention, she really tried to help me feel better but it didn't really work.

This guy and I at my job are both really close to one another, we tell each other everything, and we go so close about a year ago, that we call each other cousins. There's this girl who works with us who used to like him (think she still does) and has been nothing but bitter since him and I got closer. he told me on the phone about her venting to him about something petty. This girl and I used to be best friends until she starting mistreating me, she said she had a bone to pick with him, and I "oh girl, I heard about that." She immediately got defensive and said 'how'd you know, he told you?,, how could he?" but we're close, and friends tell each other everything. She said she was going to talk to him about him telling me heir business. I think it was blown out of proportion, and wasn't all that serious as she made it out to be. I was scared because I didn't want him to think I threw him under the bus when I didn't mean to. Him and I messaged each other and he said that he knows my intentions and said I wasn't in the wrong, is he just saying that? or WAS I wrong?

Basically recently i've been feeling tension/ not that close with my best friend since 6th grade );. I told her some feelings by text and then we sort of had a tiny fight about the whole thing. I told her maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore then later on she says lets "just be friends" because when we are close friends we fight a lot. This feels so weird. what should i do. i'm sad because we really had a lot in common and we have had big fights before but i feel like we wont heal from this one.

Hai! So sorry to waste your time, but I d like to meet other people. Not just any people, but isolated, shy people. It s not for a creepy reason, pinky promise, but moreever someone who WON T betray me. Just a single person. I get very possessive over people, and I usually devote myself to protecting a person close to me. I m kind to others, no worries. I want to find someone like me. Other people cause mayhem. Just two people, good friends, we can put complete trust in each other. I really don t like big groups of people to talk every single day. I like being in big groups, and I m pretty good with that, but I ve never had a close friend that I could trust. People are horrible, but if it s just two people getting along.. .. How do I find them? XD

She has consistently said that she was too busy to go filming with us and she hasn t really done much work in general, behind the camera. However, she will be salty with us if we kick her out, and she IS the FOUNDER of our group... help please?

So god lord help me I'm 17 going to be 18 in less then 4 months and my mother has serious issues shes treats me like a 9 year old and tries every way possible to ruin my life she literally makes random issues to make my life even worse. Today after school I was getting graded to set up for the rally ( I TELL her what Im doing) she comes at 3.05 LINGERING around the school and tries following me around making up lies telling me she has an appointment then she calls me up telling me I have to LEAVE for no GODDAM REASON. SHE HAD NO FRICKEN APPOINTMENT. anyways if thats not worse enough there was this guy who she saw passing me and I gave him the peace sign he was a senoir when I was a freshman, were chill. Then as me and her are leaving she asked the kid what time it was. Then started screaming at him for no FRICKEN reason asking him if he was my old best friend ex. THEN STARTS SCREAMING AT HIM STAY AWAY FROM MY DAUGHTER LIKE A MANIAC infront of everyone. When he has NOTHING to do with me like NOTHING then she accuses me telling me hes some pedo who was looking at me weird when he was only 19!!!! and I barely know him now he does know my ex bestfriend thats her best guy friend. Now I have him on some social media so Im saying how Im trying to tell him how sorry I was for what happened then shes starts screaming at me telling me not to message him!!!!! LIKE WHAT THE HELL. Now he thinks that my ex bestfriend told my mom something about him to her. So she comes up to me with her friends and starts SCREAMING AT ME telling me that I did something wrong when him and her have been friends since for ever, and he blocked her on everything. Now knowing this girl I know shes not a good person and shes gonna talk bad about me EVERYONE and start so many issues. My mom caused issues for me for LITERALLY NOOOOOOO REASON!!! with random people now I dont know what the hell to do sometimes I honestly wonder if something is seriously wrong with her. Then she accuses me about lying about EVERYTHING when I do nothing bad. Im literally out the point where im so stressed out I can't stop shaking my neck hurts and my back. Its like shes out to destroy my life and the last 4 months of high school for me. I don't even know what to do she has no clue all the issues I have going on then she tries to stalk me at school and causes RANDOM ISSUES WITH PEOPLE LITERALLY RANDOM PEOPLE. then she gets mad when I call her psycho. It dosen't matter how much I try to talk to her and tell her Im not lying and stop ruining my youth she dosen't care I honestly wonder sometime. Now tomorrow Im gonna face hell I don't wanna go Im to the point of disliking her so much I don't even want her at my graduation, or anywhere around me, shes has legit ruined my life.

A close friend of mine passed away a few years ago after battling with cancer, he was 9. His 18th birthday is in a few days and I feel like I should do something for it, celebrate it maybe. Is that wrong? I was so young when he passed away The older I get the harder his birthday gets- I'm 18, and he's still 9 to me. I've lived as long with him as I have without him and that's so weird to me..

Ok so my two friends (say their names are kaylee and emma) have been my really close / best friends for a while. but now i feel like they're mad or annoyed with me for whatever reason. I've done nothing to them, this morning we were all talking and it was fine but then at lunch they started being mean and walking really fast away from me talking and laughigg with each other. I'm not sure if they did this to get away from me but they both naturally walk a little bit faster than me. and then at the lunch tables i was talking to them and my other friends Mia and kiersten and suddenly kaylee and emma just get up to leave, so i asked kaylee where they were going and she said "somewhere without you haha". she sounded like she was joking around but it lowkey hurt my feelings. then at the end of the school day i was talking with them and nothing much happened except emma seemed a little annoyed with me. i just glanced at her and she gave me a bitchy look and asked "what?" in a rude way and i gave her a bitchy look back talked to mia who was next to me. when we were leaving we were all talking for a few minutes and that's it. but i asked emma if she wanted to go to starbucks after school tmr and she said "nope i don't want to". and i said hey to kaylee on snapchat and she left me on opened. Do you think their mad at me? both leave ppl on opened a lot of the time but it's just adding to my problem and i don't wanna lose them as friends. i'm in 8th grade btw

I don't really have alot of friends. I just don't f*ck with nobody. I Don't go out alot. Fake people is what it is. I used to be left on seen alot and I just don't care anymore. I only have 4 true friends and friends from a different state. I learned alot and changed.

My friend J and I have had a bit of a silent falling out. I say silent because we didn t get into an explosive fight or anything. She just suddenly started acting bitchy towards me with no explanation. I then started to realize that over the years, while there have been some really bright moments, she has been a pretty crappy friend. For instance, she once told me that she didn t like my best friend C, who she has never met, because of something C said to me (putting a mister before a sister). I ve reached the point that I am just ready to end my friendship with J because I don t need her crap in my life. Problem is, we work in the same office so I see her Monday through Friday. And we have a mutual best work friend, A. A either doesn t know that anything is wrong or senses the tension and hopes it will blow over. I ve never had to "break up" with a friend before, and the fact that we have a mutual friend makes this even harder. Do we just go on ignoring each other in the office until we drift apart or one of us leaves the job? I m worried that distancing myself from J will also mean distancing from A. What should I do? Also, you should know that I hate confrontation.

My 11 year old daughter told me that she met a high school girl with famous parents and she invited her to hang out. I've never had any problems with age differences as long as they remain friends and get along well. My daughter was at her 14 year old brother's basketball game against one of those fancy private high schools nearby and they started talking. It's just that this kid grew up so much differently than the rest of the typical 11 & 14 year old girls and her parents are always on the media and in reality shows. She's in 6th grade and this girl is in 9th grade. I only know about this girl and her family based on what I've read on the media and on TV but I've never met them in person before. In fact, I had no clue they even lived in our neighborhood. They just plan on hanging out after school sometimes and talk on phone conversations. My other concern is that this child might try to get my daughter exposed to plastic surgery and all those nasty things she might hear from her parents and family friends because that's what the media is all about. I know most 11 year olds nowadays are already exposed enough with their social media accounts and such but I don't want my daughter coming home one day and announcing that she wants plastic surgery on her face or start dating multiple guys at once.

(im a 16 year old male) Sorta long story. So I used to be friends with this guy named John. We went to school together and were best friends for grade 3 and 4. Then I moved to a different province in grade 5. We used to play a lot of games online together over skype. We still play together a few times a year for short periods at a time. My problem is that he doesn't use skype anymore, he uses Discord (basically a chatroom, voice chat only.) He has a bunch of friends that he is always in Discord with, and im pretty sure he just assumes i'd join it if I wanted to play, but I have severe social anxiety, or at least im a wimp when it comes to social situations. My life is basically a mess of anxiety and minor depression. I do school online, and I literally have no real life friends. He is basically all I have as a friend, but he doesn't know that I don't actually go to school and that i have no friends :(. The problem with discord is that when someone joins the chat everyone in the chat is notified and it tells them who joined. Also all his friends don't like me at all which I learned without them knowing...(spent a good night crying) I went on vacation and had bad internet for a while(about a month- two) so I havent played with him in a while and I feel like he doesn't like me or would prefer to play with his friends right now. I know you'd probably say "just join the chat" but i really cant bring myself to do it, even though I know its the only way. Its really hard forme

So these kids in class were talking about Asians and small eyes. I looked at them(I'm Asian) because I was curious, NOT because I was offended. I WAS NOT offended, let me just repeat that. Anyway, one of them was like well, she's Asian. And the main girl who was talking said to me, "What? You Asian? Really? Dang, on God, I thought you was Mexican!" So, is this a compliment or not? And she said, "Well, yo' eyes big fo' an Asian. I had no idea, on God. Sorry." Ehh, I wasn't offended or anything. It's okay.

Hey. . . Gionna get right to the point here. I am a 17 year old male, and my best friend is also a male who is 12 years old and before YALL BASH ON ME! HERE. WE HAVE A LOT OF IN COMMON. We even stayed with one another on seperate nights on different occasions too. Video Games. Basketball. Fun stuff like that y'know, and I'm even on GREAT terms with his mom who adores and even loves me as a mentor and a role model but for some reason. My mom doesn't like him. ..? She hasn't admitted to it but whenever I try to stay with him or he stays with me nowadays she would come up with some absurd excuse so we can't hang out or stay with one another ad that pisses me off but I try to keep my cool tho. TRY to anyway. Oh, and his name is Cory. He's obviously White and I am the opposite. African American but we are SO COOL WITH ONE ANOTHER AND HIS MOM TOO! He's very mature for his age to, and he's only TWELVE! And we've been best friends since September, 2016! Not much time I know but WE HAVE A LOT IN COMMON! What should I do about my mom? It's obvious she doesn't want to hear what I have to say. 😒

This happened like 2 weekends ago. He was at a party, I was there too but I wasn't really hanging out with him. Anyway, I saw him and this fat girl sitting on the couch at one part, just talking and stuff, and I thought, oh that's a little weird, cause they were like looking at each other and sitting really close. Then like I walked away, and I didn't really see him again the rest of the time. Then about 4 hours later (it was a really long party this was at like 3am) I saw him walk inside, he was really drunk the whole time. And this was after he had sex with the fat girl. He told me he got laid, and I was like "Oh no.... what have you done" and anyway, the fat girl told some people, and now the words out, and he wants to kill himself. This has been super depressing for him it basically ruined his reputation, and also she was pretty gross, when you see her sober, it's like yuuuuck. Idk how much she weights exactly, prolly somewhere between 190-200. And her face isn't that great either. What should I do? I really care about my friend and he's starting to worry me. Do you think I should like tell his parents or my parents cause he was talking about killing himself, but like seriously he said it not like jokingly.

there was someone who I was friends on facebook and when I asked them "hey Camille can I ask you anything?" and unfriended me and blocked me why?