Okay Ive been married to my husband for 4 years now and Tried to make a relationship with his sister..I used to text her..no response so i stoped when were around each other she doesnt try talking to me or try getting to know me..i used to try but stoped because she doesn't even seem to care..shes very religious and my husband and I believe in god but dont live life worshipping. Everyone is different, but I have a feeling thats why shes so weird with me because Im not as close to god as she is. Its just disappointing. My question is should I even try with her if she doesn't at all? Like I feel so turned off by her actions i dont even want to wish her a happy birthday because she wont even respond. Its just really hurtful. Another thing is that we asked her to be the godmother of our child and she doesnt even check on him or us. im just hurt by it and dont want to make it a big deal i just need some Advice if I should distance myself like she doesn't exist like she does with me.

Me and my husband have been married for about 6 years I never ever felt like he would have a wondering eye or look at other woman but since the past year ive noticed a big diffence in him so I thought I would go through his phone I know guys it bad that I did that but I had a gut feeling fast forward all his history is looking at other women on fb then a couple months later it's on other websites then I find on YouTube woman's breast, sex scences from movies I feel upset just typing this up there's no porn I don't know if he's hiding it well or it's just starting with his fetish keep in mind I have 3 kids with him I still take care of myself I always look njce home clean and kids clean what are your thoughts thank you

Long story short, my mom and i grew up always together, she never re-married. i got married and the day before my wedding she broke down and told me she was feeling empty and sad because i was leaving and that she had no other purpose in life. this terrifies me because i don't know to what extreme she can go. she says she sits down to eat and feels lonely because i am not there to eat with her...but here are some key elements to this story. my mom lives at an apartment and when i got married,i moved in with my husband in the same apartment complex. i ALWAYS go to her apartment to say good morning before i go to school or work and good night. obviously i sleep with my husband and she says at nights she feels alone and now that i don't live with her she does not find meaning to life. what should i do with my mom? i did talk to her and told her i feel like a bad daughter and will spend more time with her when i come back from work and school etc. this situation makes me stressed and it makes me feel sad like can't go on with my life. When she left her home, she did not have a mother that would cry and tell her all these types of things, she grew up away from her mom and my mom does acknowledge she should learn that this is life and how its supposed to be (the cycle of life such as your daughter getting married and forming a new life) please help!

last July after I got back from traveling for a job, I found out my wife had been flirting with one of her exes on facebook, they had been talking previously but she told me everything before that what they were saying, when I lost contact with her for the 2 weeks I was gone the first thing that she said on the message was that she was horny and fertile, and his response was don't tell me that! and she said oh yeah!. he than would also joke about coming over and having sex with her and one of her responses was I don't think he would like that. I came home after my 2 week trip and she was logged into facebook and I happened to see their messeges and waiting about a month or so to confront her about it and finally did she apologized and said she didn't mean it like that and that she was tired and thought she sent it to another person. long story short its been almost 7 months and I'm still hurt and don't trust her still is there anything I can do to get over this? I get really negative thoughts when I'm at work and my mind starts to wonder and I cant seem to forget about this, not to mention it still gets brought up once in awhile because my wife jokes about him and it irritates me

I been with my husband for 9yrs we have 3 children's. I got married young age I was only 18 soon after our first year everything seem to be ok but things then changed after having our first kid he changed completely with me through out the years I been with him there has been hardly happy memories most of them have been heartbreaker and tears and still to today is still the same the only reason I have continue by he's side is because I have hope to one day for him to change but I just don't know anymore what is it that I'm fighting for I'm so unhappy I'm going to turn 27 and I haven't done anything for me because I gave all my time for my kids and for him and nothing for myself I want to be happy again I don't know if I should continue with him or end my marriage already Ihave loved my husband so much so much that I left myself behind I fought hard to keep this family together but never once has he fought for us for our marriage this is hard for me but any advices will help thanks.

My fiancee and I have lived in our home for over a year now. Since then she really never put any effort into decorating. I enjoy coming home to nicely laid out home but instead we have bare walls and the pieces that are up are ones i put up! Any "decor" that is on the tables or shelves i organized. We recently discussed it and she said she doesn't have a knack for good decorating or knows what looks good and what doesn't. But doesn't like when i take it upon myself to decorate or make our house a home and look good.

My little brother Kevin is nine and his two friends in the court are making fun of him now cause he stuck up for his friend Faith. Faith is younger then the boys at eight. The boys say that Faith has fat lips and stuff about her being skinny. When in truth she is very very pretty. Kevin ignored them when they werecalling her names but this weekend they went to far saying she wears a diaper. They were jerks and climbed up so they could see her getting a spanking in her house over her Dad's lap with her dress lifted up. Again like the lips or skinny comments this is not true either of course. Faith wears basic white nylon briefs. My brother seen how Faith was that they seen when her Daddy spanked her panties so he told them to shut up. So my question is should my brother keep sticking up for little Faith eventho his friends think he is a sissy now? ­­

Is going to the strip club on a reguler basis considered cheating if you married? Handies and blowies fair game but no kissing or touching (hands at side).

My bf was engaged to his ex and dated her for 3 years. She wasnt nice to him, belittled him alot, was controlling and tried to cut him off from his hobbies and refused sex all the time. She apparently was pissed he called off the wedding, he said she had a dominant personality and thought he would never stand up to her...she even threatened to sue him after he didnt want to reschedule their wedding. Their pre marital counselor told him their rel was not healthy and asked him if he really wanted to marry her. I believe he is not exaggerating as she acted this way towards his family and friends and everyone has told me he seems so much happier with me. I put up a profile pic of him and I about a year after he called off their wedding on Facebook, and so did he. Do you think its likely she has found me on Facebook and has looked at my pictures? Im asking as I may change my privacy settings and feel with her personality she prob has, but my family says Im being dramatic.

My husband has a porn addiction and he knows I have 0 tolerance for that, since my 1st husband also did and cheated on me with a female he is now married to. My current husband has been lying to my face and to the counselor for 6 years about his little problem and a woman sent me a video clip of him making explicit videos for her and he tried to lie about that as well. He told me what I am a selfish coward if I choose to divorce him and break up the parents of our children. I cannot trust him and do not love him anymore, but he keeps trying to guilt me into staying. What can I do?

This weekend at a friends small gathering with three couples, we are drinking and having a good time when one of the women got up and her husband gently slapped her on her butt. She turned and smiled, while one of the other women said oh spanking baby. She said well I get spanked all the time. Her husband smiled and said yeah I put it over my knee. We all laughed, but it led to a discussion about couples and sexy play. So to my surprise, one husband indicated he thought spanking has no place in a marriage. The other wife and husband said they didn't have any problem with it. It was split 4-2. It got me wondering what others think or feel. So asking married couples, do you think it is OK and would/are doing it in your marriage? Or is this, as the husband said, has no place in a relationship?

I'm not divorced, but I'm headed there for sure because my husband is crazy. I don't mean to sound silly, but there's something wrong with him. Just yesterday he screamed at me when I told him I went looking for jobs at the mall. I'm a SAHM and we're always broke. When we got together I had the money and invested everything into our relationship. Now he the sole earner, but he doesn't make enough. And now he has custody of his kid who is approved for SSI and he thinks my little gig at the mall is going to mess up his check. I doubt I'll make much, just enough to cover daycare for our two kids and give me a little xtra spending money. We literally have NOTHING at the end of the month. So he yelled and cussed me out in front of our children, said I was stupid and sabotaging and didn't know how to play my position. He talks this way all the time and it's exhausting plus I think it'll harm our kids when they get a little older. So I want a divorce, but I need to get my life together first. I fear I won't be able to find love ever now that I'm in my 30s with two children. I know people do it, but I'm just feeling very depressed and helpless. I really want true love in my life. I don't want to die never experiencing intimacy with someone I can love who also loves me. I just want to know how people make it happen. What do I have to do to better myself to attract a good man who will be good to a woman and her children? Obviously, I don't plan to start dating NOW or anytime soon. Just to be clear.

Ok. Hang on to your ****. Because it's about to get crazy. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years to get pregnant. We found out recently that the problem is he virtually has no sperm due to diabetes. Well, this guy I've know since before I got married has been trying to sleep with me for like 2 years. And mind you he is absolutely f*ckin GORGEOUS. Lol. But I said no, since I'm married. (he is too) So ANYWAY. I somehow convinced my husband to let me sleep with this guy until I get pregnant. (I know I know. ****** crazy. I don't know how or why he agreed. Lmao) The other guy now thinks I just want to **** him because I'm tired of my marriage, (which he is super stoked about). But in reality, it's just to have his baby. (which when I get pregnant he can choose to be in its life or not. We don't care either way) So now I can't stop thinking of this dude. I had some hardcore feelings for him before. My life's a mess. I need help. (IVF is not an option. Insuarance doesn't cover it not do we have $1000s to drop. Plus I only want his baby now. And we live comfortably btw) I don't even know what my question is anymore.

My husband cheated on me with a friend in 2013 and she looks totally opposite of me. I have always felt really horrible about myself since then. She has blonde hair, I am brunette, she has big breasts, I am average size, she has a long hair, I have short, she has blue eyes, I have brown, she wears glasses, I do not, she has big lips, mine are average/small. Since the affair I cannot stop comparing myself. Everyone who has seen her has told me I am much better looking but obviously my husband didn't think so. I feel inferior. Even though he left her immediately and begged for me back, I keep telling myself I am ugly, not his type, worthless and useless. How do I get past this?