Friends: Question: Should I apologize or nah? |
- Question: Should I apologize or nah?
- Question: I hate myself for not being able to make a lot friends...is this justified?
- Question: Getting close to girls makes me feel vulnerable?
- Question: Can I use a college friend as a reference for a job?
- Question: What is the best way to sabotage someone? I am very sneaky.?
- Question: Is it strange that I don't have many friends?
- Question: Why everyone doesn't likes me(everyone hates me)?
- Question: How should I kick out roommate on lease?
- Question: I fear I don't look like my photos - what I do?
- Question: Is it normal to be so forgiving?
- Question: Trouble making friends??
- Question: Fun things to do when you have a friend over for the first time!?!?
- Question: Does she owe me money? How do I "cut her off" nicely?
- Question: I honestly dont wanna live life anymore im s tired. anybody wanna help me?
- Question: What does 'play for hypocrite' means?
- Question: Girls how attractive do you find both guys?
- Question: How do you invite someone to a party and make it clear it is "adults only" and not their kids?
- Question: How do I get these people to move out!!!!?
- Question: Think about your best friend?
- Question: Should I stop asking this friend to hangout with me?
- Question: I didn't invite my friends to a party?
- Question: How do I make friends in the adult life?
- Question: Do friends come to you or do you go looking for them?
- Question: I have a very close friend but my parents hate her, but i hate hiding our friendship? Help please xox?
- Question: I m so lonely.I never had friends.I m in my mid twenties and I ve experienced bulling,social isolation.I want to go out.Men make fun of me?
- Question: How to help my friend cope after his mother and sister got raped?
- Question: I receive emails daily saying "Polly you have more friends on Facebook than you realise" or "Polly you have one new friends request"?
- Question: Is she a true friend?
- Question: Should I still be friends with this slut?
- Question: I look and sound much younger than I really am?
- Question: All girls hate me, Why please ?
- Question: Is it a bad habit to go on my phone when I wake up in the middle of the night?
- Question: I think I got detention for no reason?
- Question: Why my best friend is such a b****?
- Question: Friendship probs... HELP!!?
- Question: Why am I jealous of my best friends hanging out with other people?
- Question: Poll: Do you have friends?
- Question: Can she complain about this?
- Question: Do yoy have who are good natured? they do things the right way?
- Question: Do you have friends that always change their minds?
- Question: All of my friends are ignoring me?
- Question: Vacation with small children I feel like I'm going to be in a library being told to keep it down the entire time how to handle?
- Question: I like my best friend. What should I do?
- Question: Why have these women unfollowed me on social media since meeting my wife?
- Question: What does it mean if a friend says "I see you as family" ?
- Question: 5 fun things to do fun for a sleepover?
- Question: Fun things to do at home with your friend...?
- Question: Should I try to convince my friends to meet in the middle?
- Question: I finally left the home?
- Question: My friend flaked on me very last minute, feelings hurt, what to do now?
- Question: I don't have any friends?
- Question: My friend overdosed in my house in order to get a reaction, how can I forgive her?
- Question: Should I let it go?
- Question: My teen daughter never gets invited anywhere?
- Question: Why did he bring me medicine?
- Question: Why doesn't my boyfriend invite me anywhere?
- Question: How come I don't fit in anywhere? Someone help me, please...?
- Question: Help, I'm getting social anxiety thinking about a school dance? (Read)?
- Question: One of the teachers pulled my aside and told me i need to stop holding hands and hugging my boyfriend, is it really that bad?
- Question: What did they mean?
| Question: Should I apologize or nah? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:24 PM PST ok so i pissed off two acquaintances in a very stupid way. Basically, i did something only close friends should joke about. One of em asked i apologize to both of them, but i only apologized to him. The other one, is a very distamt acquaintance who doesnt talk to me much irl. Hes really blunt , apathetic, inconsiderate and would prob say "ok" if i did apologize. I like really dont want to apologizd to him, but he seems kinda mad haha. |
| Question: I hate myself for not being able to make a lot friends...is this justified? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:23 PM PST I'm a 23 year old female about to turn 24 in a few days & as usual, I don't have people to spend my birthday with (except for family, but I'm getting sick of spending time with family rather than friends). I've been waiting & waiting & trying & trying to find the right group of friends since I started 20. So far, I've had far too many failed attempts at making female friends & failed friendships. Either females harshly snub me or they are just not interested in making friends with me. I only attract needy, annoying men for friends. I remember denying this one guy's IG follow request many times until I eventually blocked him. I wish I could see what I am doing wrong to repel other women & then hating me when I barely know them. I've tried everything, from changing the way I wear my hair, how I talk on the internet/real life, not posting angry/annoying things on the internet, developing new interests & hobbies, etc. I want to mold myself into what others would want in a friend because I'm unhappy with my lifestyle (all I do is work and go to online graduate school). It's to the point that I'll probably settle with making friends with those needy/annoying guys I find myself complaining about simply because I'm sick of spending my weekends alone & my phone always being dry. I feel so worthless for not having friends & having many haters. |
| Question: Getting close to girls makes me feel vulnerable? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:15 PM PST Whenever I get close to a girl (or anyone in general), I feel vulnerable, as if they're only getting to know me to make everything I told them public. I hate being the subject of people's conversations, I prefer to keep to myself. I barely tell my close friends anything about my personal life, and even less to any girls that I interact with. As a result, I never try to have any heavy conversation with anyone in case they turn the subject to me. Is there anything I can do to move past this? |
| Question: Can I use a college friend as a reference for a job? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:03 PM PST Having problems with my references as the last place I worked for went under investigation and I never kept personal contacts.. I have a friend from college who is an older person, would i be able to use her. I do have one already, but if i ever needed to? |
| Question: What is the best way to sabotage someone? I am very sneaky.? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:37 PM PST I know this sophomore, and he is a large, African American ~240lb male. I don't know his exact weight, I just know he's fat. Very very fat. Well I'm in this Boy Scout troop. Every year, my troop volunteers at the Fiesta Bowl parade in Arizona. Starting at 5:00am, we're outside on the street, putting garbage cans out. Then we are the ones taking the trash bags out when they're full, and putting new ones in. This goes on until 3:00pm. We volunteer for 10 hours. Anyway, out of all this, every scout in the troop(that goes), gets a free ski trip in Flagstaff. He has not volunteered ONCE, in the 6 or so years he's been in our troop, yet he goes on EVERY ski outing that has been offered for free. He doesn't go to the meetings, yet he goes when we have dutch oven cook offs, (even though he doesn't pay his fair share of the food). We live in Scottsdale, AZ, in the Phoenix Metropolis Area. The ski outing this year will be on the 20th of January to the 22nd of January. Next weekend. The day we actually ski is the 21st. The 20th and 22nd is traveling to and from there. How shall I sabotage him? We all sleep at this church when we get to the area of skiing, and the night before we leave. We are there two nights. The room we sleep in is about 900 square feet, a rounded rectangle shape. If you tell me I should not sabotage him because I am a scout, or for any other reason, I will not listen to you. Do not bother telling me about my morals. Thanks in advance. Do not tell me to "be the better man because it stoops to his level". I have made my decision. I have already stooped to his level, and if I do not get any answers on here, I will go to iFunny, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Reddit, or Tumblr, and I will seek answers there. If I do not get anything from there, I will browse the internet using the Search Engine Google and I will find an answer. If I do not find anything that way, I will make up my own way of sabotaging him. Either way, he will be sabotaged either the first, second, or third day of the trip. You are not able to convince me. Please give me an idea, or do not bother responding. |
| Question: Is it strange that I don't have many friends? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:31 PM PST I am a great guy and nice. I have a few friends, but they have known me for awhile so we are comfortable together. It takes too much time and energy to make friends and I'm much too solitary and shy. I'm too lazy to make friends and honestly I don't care. I like to keep to myself and keep the friends that I trust. There are too many people that have made assumptions about me for no reason and I'm f'in sick of it. Many people have left for a reason that is unknown and I'm like wtf. So would be ok to live a quiet life? How in the world would going to social outings actually help? Defend your answer. |
| Question: Why everyone doesn't likes me(everyone hates me)? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:28 PM PST i'm a girl...ok so..my parents hates me they use to say that i'm an idiot,doesn't have talents,my voice sounds terrible and they compare me to my female cousin..now my friends do hate me like they're ignoring my messages to them,they always judge me,they always say that i'm jealous of their self and belongings(even i'm not jealous of them).in facebook my fb friends hates me too they don't like my best photos.my family members hates me they always tell that i'm a bad person,they also say that i will not reach my goals and they completely don't care about me..and last one they always meddling my wants it annoys me so much and everyone seems to be mean to me.. hmmm so why? what's wrong with me?.i'm not mean to them,i have nothing to do with them,i don't envy them.i don't mind their own doings in life and i care about them..so what's wrong with me? |
| Question: How should I kick out roommate on lease? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:24 PM PST I'm not sure if it's even possible but here's my story (sorry for the length): Three close friends (we're all college students) and I moved to an apartment together. All four of us have already renewed our leases for the next school year. Soon after renewing, two of my roommates and i noticed that the last roommate (LR) never did her chores. We all talked to her one on one, saying we could all help out if she ever needed help. Nothing improved so we set up an intervention and told her what we noticed. She then lied to us and said she did them. I was really surprised at the time because I had considered her my close friend. Flash forward to now a few more of these incidents have occurred again and again and today she left a dark puddle on the kitchen floor (and left it there for a whole day) and refused to clean it up. After I cleaned it up and asked her about it she said it was our fault for leaving dark drinks around. Yep. And another thing that she accused us of was never communicating with her, despite us going to her all the time to talk face-to-face. I'm starting to think she has selective hearing. Now when we call out to her she straight up ignores us. I've had it up to here with her and the three of us are tired of cleaning up after someone we considered a close friend to us. The apartment is in a very ideal location and I really don't want to leave. She's on the lease and she hasn't done anything illegal but is there anything I could do? |
| Question: I fear I don't look like my photos - what I do? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:21 PM PST I want to meet (face to face) a person who I have known for a long time but only online. This person has seen my photos and right now I regret I ever showed any. I don't photo shop but half of my photos turn out really terrible and worse than I really look like, and half way better than I really look like, so naturally the photos I use in social media or show anyone are way better looking than real me. This person thinks I'm beautiful, and I'm afraid he will feel disappointed when he sees my face. It's not a date so obviously it doesn't mean whole our relationship is ruined, but back in time I think we had sort of crush on each other so it could be embarrassing and awkward to him if it turned out I'm ugly in his opinion. I feel like it could make him feel deceived and hit our relationship really bad. To make matters worse he is absolutely gorgeous himself and seems to also know it and care about it - I wouldn't go as far as to call him superficial under any circumstance, but he does seem to have interest in how people look like to an extend. We are trying to reconnect because some stuff in our lives got between us little bit and we were quieter for a while, so I feel like we aren't that well off to start with. Seeing face to face could help us but I'm scared a lot. I don't have profile in social media with plenty of photos or anywhere I could add him to form his own opinions since people don't photograph me much. At this point of time directly posting pictures is out of the question because it's not natural thing to do, I'm not trying to flirt him. |
| Question: Is it normal to be so forgiving? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:13 PM PST So, I think I have "friendship issues" quite often. It usually happens that I make too much effort for a friendship that isn t going anywhere. Like, I want to make a good friend and expect so much from them and they always end up disappointing me. For example, I try to get them to hang out, they kind of agree and then at the last minute they bail out. The excuses usually are: they forgot about the family meeting, they have to study, they don t feel well... Then I usually get angry and sad and decide to let the "friendship" go (as it obviously isn t going anywhere) but always end up forgiving them and acting like nothing happened and like I am not bothered by it. Of course I actually am but I still see the potential and try to be good friends. I kind of realize it gets me nothing except disappointment and sadness but I can t help but forgive them. Help me, please |
| Question: Trouble making friends?? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:43 PM PST So I'm 13 and I moved to a new school a year ago. Ever since I moved, I've had trouble making guy friends. The only friends I have are girls. Whenever I'm walking around, guys always call me gay, even my own cousin calls me gay. I'm not gay at all, I just find it easier to be friends with girls. I have social anxiety and I almost never leave my house. Sometimes my cousin that calls me gay comes over my house and we hang out and that's about it. I always play my video games by myself and never with friends. I only have about 2 guy friends I can talk to but we're like associates. Whenever we're on break, I always go to the library and read because I'm nervous in groups and I'm an overall awkward person. Has anyone else had this problem? Can someone give me some tips on how to make more friends and stop being so awkward? Thanks |
| Question: Fun things to do when you have a friend over for the first time!?!? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:33 PM PST So I want to invite a new friend over for the first Time but I m really nervous that it will be boring or awkward. I would really appreciate ideas on what to do to make it enjoyable time! Thanks |
| Question: Does she owe me money? How do I "cut her off" nicely? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:31 PM PST Long story short, my friend owes me money. I would say she's one of my closest friends & last week we went out & she had been complaining the whole night that she wasn't sure she had enough money to go skating & when we ended up at the skating rink I paid for her because I was under the impression she had no money & she would pay me back. I pay for her all the time & she usually pays me back so I didn't see a problem. This time she won't because she believes since I offered to pay she doesn't owe me anything. I know she has money now, she just won't pay. All our friends have said if they were in her shoes they would pay me back. I texted her about the money because at first I thought she was kidding then she started giving me attitude & now I'm ignoring her. I don't want to fight with her especially because it isn't really a large sum of money she owes me, but it's the message she's sending. She's acting like she doesn't care which to me shows she doesn't care about me. I drove her everywhere before she got her license. She/her brother are on my Spotify plan. Sometimes I pay for her without asking for money in return, but she never does the same for me. I'm tired of her freeloading off me when she doesn't show the same kindness back. I don't want to linger on this & don't want to start school when it's so awkward, but every time I think about this I get so angry. At this point I've given up on the money but how do I get her & her brother off my Spotify without seeming bitter? |
| Question: I honestly dont wanna live life anymore im s tired. anybody wanna help me? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:31 PM PST |
| Question: What does 'play for hypocrite' means? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:30 PM PST My friends and I were fighting about a situation . She was accusing my other friend of playing her for a fool and using her and also that she play her for hypocrite. I was trying to figure out what does it actually mean or different meaning when one plays a person for hypocrite |
| Question: Girls how attractive do you find both guys? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:19 PM PST https://scontent-sjc2-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/12963446_10153796457119934_158534570505784720_n.jpg?oh=6b82b910d35222b23c1c36197f75cc39&oe=58B927F7 https://scontent-dft4-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t31.0-0/p526x296/16107516_2179765958915598_5583361443645469098_o.jpg?oh=5b4d1c518c7af0de00e6e6603cec9c16&oe=58D61047 |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:04 PM PST I want to invite some neighbors over to meet a new couple in the community for a casual wine & cheese type thing. My house is not that large and it is certainly not child safe (we do not have kids). I will be inviting them verbally since they are all neighbors....so what do I say to make it clear this party is for just the adults and not their kids too? I don't want to offend anyone, but we do not have the room for that many nor are we planning on serving kid friendly things. |
| Question: How do I get these people to move out!!!!? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 02:06 PM PST Ok so my boyfriend and I live in an apartment with his brother. They both have a friend who "needed a place to stay until they can find a place" so they let him, his gf, and their baby move in. What was suppose to be a couple months has turned into almost a year and a half. And in this year and a half I have never once seen them look for a place or talk about getting a place. They pay no rent. They have almost no bills (no car, daddy pays their phone bills) and up until a few months ago they were not chipping in for any bills. One of them refuses to get a job and the other makes over 40k. The baby is almost 3 and sleeps in the same bed as them (not good for the child at all). They have bought things like a mini fridge for the room, it's getting out of hand. To me, they are taking advantage of the kindness of my BF and his brother. Though my BF and his brother won't say anything (I don't think they see it as a huge issue and they like seeing there friend everyday) they need to move out and get there own place. There are too many people in this small apartment! How do I get them out?? The way things are going I am assuming they will be here until they realize that as the baby gets older she will need to be in her own bed and room but I am not even confident in that as I can see them having the baby go to one of their parents house while they get to ******* live for free. Help. |
| Question: Think about your best friend? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:51 PM PST It can be your wife, your father, maybe someone you grew up with. It's the person you can't wait to talk to at the end of the day. The person knows everything about you, who roots for you. Now imagine you discover your best friend has a secret. No, not a secret. A universe of secrets. Would you confront him? Would you stay silent? Either way, you know nothing will ever be the same again. |
| Question: Should I stop asking this friend to hangout with me? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:29 PM PST I have this friend who I have known for quite a while and always likes talking to me on the phone, though not at school for some reason. So, I decided to ask him to hangout with me to Zoomers, he seemed happy and wanted to come with me, but then refused since he has a job he goes to. I then invited him again to go some place, (actually I told him that I cancelled the plans to go with him, since I was fighting with my other friends, but he persisted to wanting to hangout with me). Now the day comes and now he says "he sick asf". What should I do?? It is a really important question as I am trying to find new friendships! |
| Question: I didn't invite my friends to a party? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:08 PM PST So I'm in high school and I usually go to parties with my whole "party crew" but my sister and her boyfriend asked me if I wanted to go to a party with them and I said yeah and we went to the party and my friends found out I was at the party and they're now mad at me because I didn't invite them. Honestly, I just didn't have the time to text all of them and tell them there's a party because it was last minute and I didn't even know the address (sister's boyfriend drove). Am I in the wrong here? What do I do to fix this? |
| Question: How do I make friends in the adult life? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:08 PM PST 20 F bored af |
| Question: Do friends come to you or do you go looking for them? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:02 PM PST Everytime, Im always known for being quiet but then when I try to join conversations Im shunned. "Who was talking to you? Were not cool like that." Its like what do I do? In my old school everytime I went up to say Hi to someone they gave me strange looks. I had to switch so many lunch tables. They would act like Im not even there no matter how hard I'll try to ask them questions. They'll just go off to the bathroom and leave me sitting there by myself. I just want genuine best friends. I know I sound desperate but like I dont know what to do anymore. I tried joining sports such as volleyball, soccer and even karate even though I suck at athletics. Theres not really much of any clubs to join. Its just that I feel like Im trying too hard to make friends. I thought it was something that was suppose to happen naturally. Please any advice? |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 12:11 PM PST I had a messy history with this girl, but we were friends for a long time. I thought she was talking bad about me, but they was talking about another girl with my name.. and when i thought they were talking about me I would cry when i was at home and my mum got worried and we talked and argued (both my parents).My parents started hating her. I started becoming good friends with her again that week. And i can't hide my best friend anymore, i want to have sleepovers, and all of that. But everytime they hear her name theres an argument about how she's a devil or something... |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 12:00 PM PST They say noone ***** her,women call me fat.Why???I m not an alien.In my college class there are a few women .I dont know what to do. |
| Question: How to help my friend cope after his mother and sister got raped? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 11:48 AM PST my friend just told me that his mother and sister got gang raped, it stopped me dead in my tracks. he looked liked he wanted to cry, i feel for him, because i can a similar experience. i got molested at age 8or 9. its not something to get off easily. but i overcame my past. but seeing him such a sweet young man, got thrown in such trepidation, im just dumbfouned and feeling hurt for him what can i do he lives walking distance from me |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 10:53 AM PST yet I don't and never have had a Facebook account. How do these people obtain our email addresses and what harm are they planning for us if we actually open up the emails? It is obvious that they are not doing this to enhance our day by sharing the joys of Facebook with us. They are lying by making it seem that they KNOW we have an account when they cannot possibly know that, as it is not true. Have any of you here ever opened such an email and found it harmful to your computer or has it asked you for personal details and you've responded thinking that it is genuine? Those who actually DO have an account might not realise that they are false emails. |
| Question: Is she a true friend? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 10:52 AM PST My friend complained about how my crush and I haven't seen each other lately we haven't seen each other for a very long time and he doesn't make an effort to see me. But when I try to make an effort to see my friend by asking her to hang out she didn't respond to my text message. My friend and I haven't seen each other since my birthday (my birthday is in June) and it's January now. I've tried asking her to hang out with me but she was busy that day. Can she complain about my crush and I haven't seen each other for a long time when I haven't seen my friend for 8 months? Can she complain about my crush not making an effort lately when she hasn't made an effort to hang out with me? Her and I only hang out once a year. When I ask her to hang out she doesn't respond, she doesn't feel like going out of the house (but I saw on Facebook she went to hang out with her other friend when I confront her about it she told me her friend dragged her out of the house), she's busy, says maybe but never gave me a yes or no after the maybe. Is she a real friend or she's pretending/fake friend? |
| Question: Should I still be friends with this slut? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 10:50 AM PST I have a friend in college who got sexually assaulted at a nightclub. She was sent to the hospital the other day right away and my parents are like, "come on, be a good friend". I don't wanna ruin my popularity as a 9th grader for being friends with someone who's that easy. Her parents are mortified and tired because of this. She hasn't even turned 20 yet and will still be 19 until next month. I don't know how to tell her that I'm just gonna drop her and I'm not visiting her in the hospital because kids will laugh at me at school. She's on the local news and our parents are good friends so it's hard to avoid her. We grew up with each other and she was always there for me but she's such an embarrassment now. |
| Question: I look and sound much younger than I really am? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 10:41 AM PST I recently turned 18 and realized I still look 12 or 13 and sound the same, too. I've known this for a while and it hit me two years ago when I was going to see a movie and my ticket cost less because they thought I was 12 or under. I'm a senior in high school and most people constantly mistake me for a freshman. I'm not short either, I'm 5'6. It's becoming more and more awkward because nobody believes I am 18 and no one has believed my age since I was around 15 or 16. Can anyone else relate to this? I can't pinpoint exactly what it is about me, it's just my whole face looks younger and I sound like a kid. |
| Question: All girls hate me, Why please ? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 10:18 AM PST I'm a girl and i'm 20 years old, Since i went to highschool, I've never had a close female friend, ever... Idk why, I'm nice to everyone, I compliment people (eventhough nobody compliments me), which is sad... I never talked about someone behind his back, i've never hurt/bullied a person in my life, but all girls i know hate me, from high school until now (i'm at uni right now), So i only have 1 year left to graduate and work, and I still have zero friend, I have some friends not really close friends though, they're all male friends, But what I really need is a girlfriend, cause you know there are things i can't say to boys and stuff... So i'm with boys all the time, Most of them want more than friendship... which makes me push them away as soon as they start showing more than friendship feelings... (i don't really want a relationship right now besides friendship), cause it's personal but they don't understand... anyways I'm a hardworking girl, I get good marks, and I consider myself a really intelligent person (i'm not being arrogant or anything), I don't wear the best clothes, i don't have a hollywood style, I'm just simple and natural, i don't wear makeup (only in special events), I'm like the nerdy type, I like videogames, books etc... I don't have a good body either, i'm tall, a little bit overweight yeah.. Boys tell me that i'm pretty all the time (idk if they really think I am or there's something else going on in their heads), And i'm a quiet shy person All girls hate me with no reason, And yes i know, the way they look at me, the way they talk behind my back, sometimes i even hear them talking about me and laughing but i don't say anything, i just walk away... I didn't do anything bad to them, never ever, sometimes there are girls that i don't even know hating on me, A lot of girls who I think are really prettier than me, rich etc... they are really pretty but they still hate me ? i just don't understand really i wish i could :( |
| Question: Is it a bad habit to go on my phone when I wake up in the middle of the night? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:49 AM PST I don't know why I just have an urge to, thinking I'd be able to fall back asleep at 3-4 AM. Then I end up not being able to fall back asleep |
| Question: I think I got detention for no reason? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:34 AM PST At the beginning of the year I decided to become friends with the new girl, we were friends for a couple of months and now she is mean to me and everytime I ll told the guidnece consular she told me to go back class or that she didn t believe me. Well I decided that I was gonna get proof so at the lunch table I put my phone in my lunch box and started recording and went to the bathroom. I got caught with my phone and the principal took it away. The next day the principal ask me why I had my phone out I told him that I was trying to get proof of *girls name* bullying me. He is giving an hour of detention on Tuesday. Do u think I m in the right or the wrong. (my mom is not mad at me so that s good) |
| Question: Why my best friend is such a b****? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:27 AM PST She just going to get mad and yell at me just because i bump it into a teacher |
| Question: Friendship probs... HELP!!? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:27 AM PST Ok so this is long but I'm going to start from the beginning: In kinder I met a friend I'm gonna use fake names so lets say her name was Sally. Next year when we were in 1st grade we met a friend let's say her name was Alex. So we 3 were friends. So I think in 4th grade I noticed Sally was telling secrets to Alex right infront of my face and I had no idea what they were saying. So I told Sally to stop and after I told her to she just said, " I'll only play with u sometimes ok" she exactly said that I remember exactly what she said. So then yea that happened So then one Wednesday I had an extra science class after school and I met another friend there let's say her name was melody. She was a grade below me but that doesn't bother me. So because she was in 3rd grade and I was in 4th we didn't have recess together. So it was me and Alex. This is where I kinda forget stuff.. So I think a year later (me, Alex, Sally 5th, melody 4th) Alex betrayed me for Sally which basically killed me. So I went to melody. One day Alex came back to me and left Sally and I was happy then she left me AGAIN then came back to me left me AGAIN AGAIN now I'm completely friends with melody. 2016. I'm in 6th with Alex (Sally left the school, probably because her parents think I'm being a poo even though somethings are on her NOT me), melody in 5th. Melody got a new friend let's say her name is Emma. I was fine with that. So I.... This is where I forget I have to continue in the comments Im out of room |
| Question: Why am I jealous of my best friends hanging out with other people? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:25 AM PST And how do I stop being jealous?? |
| Question: Poll: Do you have friends? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:19 AM PST |
| Question: Can she complain about this? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:14 AM PST My lady friend complained about how my crush and I haven't seen each other lately we haven't seen each other for a very long time and he doesn't make an effort to see me. But when I try to make an effort to see my friend by asking her to hang out she didn't respond to my text message. My friend and I haven't seen each other since my birthday (my birthday is in June) and it's January now. I've tried asking her to hang out with me but she was busy that day. Can she complain about my crush and I haven't seen each other for a long time when I haven't seen my friend for 8 months? Can she complain about my crush not making an effort lately when she hasn't made an effort to hang out with me? |
| Question: Do yoy have who are good natured? they do things the right way? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 09:02 AM PST |
| Question: Do you have friends that always change their minds? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 08:55 AM PST |
| Question: All of my friends are ignoring me? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 08:25 AM PST I'm a sophomore in high school and I do not have a lot of friends (like 7 or so), so keeping the friendships I have us important to me. I've been trying to get my friends together for some time to go to the movies or play video games or something like that. Every single one is ignoring my texts. This can't be a coincidence. How can I confront them on this without losing my friendship? |
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| Question: I like my best friend. What should I do? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 07:15 AM PST He's been my bff for a couple a years now. But I know him so well he's a little player. And the past couple of months hes been talking to me as if we were actually talking and doing cute stuff for me and telling me sweet things and all that stuff. The problem is is that he has a gf, but he denies it. I don't want to fall for my best friend. |
| Question: Why have these women unfollowed me on social media since meeting my wife? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 06:23 AM PST So, 2 years ago I met my wife. I had dated a bit here and there but for the most part was just friends with these women and it was purely friendship. Even a girl who is a best friend to a good friend of mine! She has had a boyfriend and everything, we were always very friendly to each other since we have my mutual friend. She even got me a small gift for my bday. So, 4 women have unfollowed me since I met my wife. Including someone I was never pursuing and is actually a good friend of a good friend and like disappeared. What gives? My wife and I married a year after being together and that's when it really began to start. I have the followers app so it shows who unfollows me like on Instagram. |
| Question: What does it mean if a friend says "I see you as family" ? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 06:08 AM PST Please don't think i'm stupid. I just sometimes have trouble understanding what people mean. I have a friend that's quite important to me, but i've always been confused whether she cares about me and see's me in the same way that I do. I've always felt that i'm nothing to her and i'm possibly just , a friend she could easily replace and forget. The other day she said "I've always seen you as family" and that i'm like a little sister to her. Does it mean im important to her? |
| Question: 5 fun things to do fun for a sleepover? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:59 AM PST Could you list 5 really fun and punk things to do fun for a sleepover with 2 creepy boys lol jk and 2 girls. we are in early teen years. Please nothing dumb something punk and fun that is not breaking the law. Nothing stupiud or common something we will love |
| Question: Fun things to do at home with your friend...? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:54 AM PST Its the nightime, and me and my friend are bored, and we want to do something insane and fun! any ideas? thankss |
| Question: Should I try to convince my friends to meet in the middle? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 05:14 AM PST So two of my friends and I had planned to meet up today. I originally thought that we were going to meet in the middle, but my friend said that wasn't the plan and we're meeting at her house. The thing is, not only do I not have a car, but one friend lives in the middle, and the other friend lives further away from me. I just realized that the total commute time from 1. my place to a train station close to the middle friends' place + 2. time for him to pick me + 3. time for us to travel down to her place, without traffic, takes 3 hours one way. In addition, it's going to snow today. So wouldn't it make sense for us to meet in the middle? I want to ask them that because it's not fair to me nor my friend who has to drive in the snow. But I'm afraid that the third friend would get mad because supposedly she's making lunch and dinner for us, and wants to show off her new house. |
| Question: I finally left the home? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 04:01 AM PST As i mentioned my problem 3 weeks ago about my mom turning into porn star i could not take it so I left the home and ended my relation with her, did i di the right thing?? |
| Question: My friend flaked on me very last minute, feelings hurt, what to do now? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:33 AM PST I have a friend thats a girl, we have been friends for about 6 months through work. We have a great time at work together, lots of laughs and girl talk. We have hung out a few times before, but i noticed she almost always invites her other friends that i dont know over as well. Anyway! She invited me to her house yesterday, she said she was going to make some dinner for her friend and me, and we could have some wine and girl time. All was good, i told her what time id be there, and see u soon! Well...when i get there, she says she wishes i wouldve called before heading over because her and her other friend made different plans and were heading out of town shortly. I was confused because we had been making plans for this evening all week.Why did i drive all the way to your house for u to just tell me we arent doing anything we had planned? And actually, im not a part of the other plans altogether. I had a glass of wine with them, tried to joke around and make all talk but felt awkward and that i wasnt wanted there the whole time. I left shortly after. I feel dissapointed and that maybe im just not the type of girlfriend she wants to hangout with. I thought we were friends but im not sure now...the way i feel is really crappy:( What should i do from here? Thanks! |
| Question: I don't have any friends? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 03:04 AM PST In 8th grade I pretty much lost my social life after changing school. I had one close friend in 9th grade but that's it. I do have some few friends through internet but other than that I only have about 2 who I can hang out with and it's rare we do. I've suffered from anorexia nervosa which also contributed to me staying home from school a lot. But now that I've started school again I still haven't made a single friend. So I spend the weekends alone with my family just waiting for something to do. I'm shy but i can at least hold conversations with other people, but those convos just never evolve into friendships. I don't know what I should really do? I just feel so isolated and lonely. |
| Question: My friend overdosed in my house in order to get a reaction, how can I forgive her? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 02:59 AM PST EDIT: she did it to get a reaction from my mum |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:23 AM PST We went out last week and at the end of the night we decided to go skating. One friend (Stacy) was complaining the whole night that she probably didn't have enough money. I offered to pay for her because I was under the impression she didnt have money. I didn't say anything about paying me back though because my friends and I do this all the time so I thought she knew. Today, I reminded her about the skating, but she said she didn't have to pay me back because I offered to pay. I got advice from friends and they said they would pay me back if they were her. Usually I don't care, but since last year when I met her I have paid for her numerous times and sometimes don't even ask to be paid back which has amounted to at least $70 (not including what she owes me now). I texted her later but she started giving me attitude and now I'm ignoring her. I get that she thought she didn't owe me anything but now she knows I expect to get paid back and she's being rude. Also had she paid for herself that night she would've lost the same amount of money if she pays me back now so I really don't see the problem here. She's acting like she doesn't care which basically means she doesn't care about me because she knows I'm mad about this and isn't even trying to make amends and acting as if I did something wrong. I don't want to lose her as a friend so I don't want to make her more mad by bringing it up, but this is really bugging me. Do you think I should forget it or have any other solutions? |
| Question: My teen daughter never gets invited anywhere? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:16 AM PST My daughter just started high school. We've had this problem since junior high. Every time there is an event such as a game, tournament, movies, party, she never gets invited. Then she finds out her closest friends went and feels hurt. Tomorrow is the homecoming dance, for weeks, I told her to start making plans as to what friends she was going with. Well, she didn't, as usual. So she started calling last night to find someone. She called her best friend of 7 years, and she told my daughter she was going with some other friends. My daughter asked her if she could go with them, and the girl said "Um, I don't know, maybe you should ask so and so" My daughter hung up the phone and started crying. She has a lot of friends, but no one ever calls her. When she was in middle school, I always tried to get her to go to the movies, call people, go to the park, invite someone over, she never would. When someone would finally call, she wouldn't go. I think they just got tired of asking her. She told me last night that she just needed to face it, that she just doesn't fit in with anyone. Yesterday was the HC parade, and she was calling to find someone to hang out with since she didn't want to stand with her parents, then found out they had all met in a certain spot and no one told her. These kids are very friendly to her, always hang out with her in church, and at school. But I don't understand why no one contacts her OUT of school? Any advice? |
| Question: Why did he bring me medicine? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:15 AM PST I have been sick for three days already. I have a cold and it's terrible. My friend/coworker asked when I was going to return to get lunch and I told him that next week I should feel better. He surprised me tonight by bringing me some medicine, homemade soup, orange juice, and some cookies. I thought that was the sweetest thing someone has ever done for me. I smiled at him and he began treating me. He made me rest on the bed while he prepared to give me some medicine. He tucked me in and made me feel special. He lives 25 miles away from me. So why would he drive down to see me and make me feel better? |
| Question: Why doesn't my boyfriend invite me anywhere? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:09 AM PST I've been with him for 3 years and 2 months, to be exact. and He never invites me anywhere.. His sister got married some months ago and he didn't invite me. I let it go though.. Then, when he's at my house, he gets texts from -onlygodknowswho- inviting him to parties and to the movies. He's always telling me, "Oh, my friend is inviting me to the movies." He never invites me. I feel unwanted sometimes.. Truth is, I don't know any of his friends :( Or he texts me, all of a sudden, that he's at a party.. He had a party once at his house and never invited me! I felt like crap that day he told me.. I invite him to go everywhere with my family and friends and he always goes! But he never invites me anywhere with his friends or family.. I've only seen his family a very few times in these 3 years.. Is that wrong? Why does he not invite me anywhere? I mean I really want to get to know his friends and bond with his family.. Am i just asking for too much? Please help! :( |
| Question: How come I don't fit in anywhere? Someone help me, please...? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:07 AM PST I'm 16 and the quiet, smart member of my group. I don't act stupid all the time and I sometimes don't get all their rude jokes. Even if I do, they're not funny. I feel like I'm so boring, because all I seem to is stand there while they talk, and whenever I try to I can't get a word in edge ways. It doesn't feel nice especially when this boy who hangs around with us asks me why I'm there and he tells that I'm boring and to go away. Well maybe I think running around and being immature is boring. We're going to college next year, so why can't people grow up?! Just because I do my homework and coursework to a good level and I'm interested in things such as French or History or music and I don't like sitting in a field getting pissed every Friday night... That's just school. I can't have a deep conversation with anyone I know there. Even my 'best friends'... And then there's Cadets, all they do is joke around there as well and don't take me seriously when I'm put in charge. I don't fit in there, or at school. I want to find somewhere I do fit in, and it's not those places. Someone help me? |
| Question: Help, I'm getting social anxiety thinking about a school dance? (Read)? Posted: 14 Jan 2017 01:05 AM PST Well, I made a new friend suprisingly a few weeks ago. She asked me if I wanted to go to a school dance with her because she didn't want to go alone. I said yes, but I'm getting anxiety thinking about it now because last time I went to a school dance, it was so embarrassing. I can't dance like at all lol, and my friend kept teasing me about it. Like I said, it's a DANCE but I can't dance at all lol. Should I still go? |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 12:53 AM PST why is it any of their business anyway? im so annoyed and one of my friends from that class told me the teacher was yelling at hem saying that you should never do that at school. help. please. |
| Posted: 14 Jan 2017 12:48 AM PST They said "so then the PA or whatever the set guy he carries him into the set and puts him back on his mark which is like honestly even that like felt kind of weird he's a child actor there must be rule against doing that kind of crazy ****" |
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