I'm a teetotaler. It's my personal choice, it has nothing to do with religion. My birthday is in June, but I'm trying to plan ahead. I want a nice way to remember by birthday without the alcohol. I am on a tight budget as well. I was planning on going on vacation with some friends, but things came up financially and it fell through. I don't want to just go out to eat, I want to go do something and have fun. I want to make my 21st special. Any ideas?

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I'm a 15 y.o. girl. I recently, at my request, moved to Mississippi to live with my dad and stepmom because my biological mom has drug problems and has been a very inconsistent mom (to say the least). I love her, but my dad and stepmom have always been there for me. and I needed stability. Before I made the decision to move here, my dad and stepmom warned me that they still believed in spanking as a last resort even at my age. I was kind of shocked, but really wanted to move in here, and (since I rarely get in any trouble) wasn't all that concerned. This morning I got in big trouble for something that I, in all fairness, deserved to be in trouble for. But I was still flabbergasted when dad had my stepmom take me out back and bust my behind. She didn't leave any bruises or "hurt" me or anything like that, but she did light me up something good and the pain was/is very intense. I'm just kind of shocked. I know that they love me, I'm NOT looking to turn them in or get them in any trouble (regardless of the answer to this question), but this is so far from my cultural norms that I have to ask, are they even legally allowed to do this? Is it fair at all? I just never really saw this happening at my age, and it all went down so suddenly.... Is this legal? Common? Fair? Typical? I lied about where I was going, and yes it is a 2nd offense (I got grounded the 1st time), and lying is their #1 rule (understandably). I'm usually very honest but I was really stupid this time. The lie was about where Id been. I said I went to a friends house but I really went to a different friend's house to swim alone. I had permission from the friend to use the pool, but I knew my stepmom wouldn't let me swim alone esp in winter, so I went by myself and made up a cover

The first couple years we were together I admit that I put her through a lot, but once our son was born I know I needed to change. She ended up leaving back to her parents hours a couple hours away before our son was born, and once he was born I wasnt there. I tried my hardest to get there but had no way of getting there, some months go by and I end up finally coming up, I decided to leave everything behind, family, friends and etc to be with my new family. Years go by and theyve slowly gotten worse. Im working for over 3 years (only one making income) and Im trying to do my part in the relationship, spend time w her and our son, make sure we're living right, and being the only one working for 3 years ended up getting stressful. I start to help her try to find a job but she would get mad, she ended up spending almost everyday with her friend next door and we ended up arguing a lot due to that. More time passes by and her mom tells us that we can move into her 2nd house and pay her rent, so we leave our place to find out the house needed A LOT of work done on it. In the 8 months I was in her parents place me and her didnt have sex, kiss, not even hug and she stopped completely being around me. I was alone, angry, irritated and depressed. I left a month ago and Im still trying to deal with all this. This is my first break up Ive gone through. Me and her were together for a lil.more than 6 years.

My hubby and me been married only 4 months and its been basically sexless. I know he has ED, but it like he doesn't even try anymore. I asked him the other night when will we have it again (Sex) and he says soon. Not sure what's going through his mind.??

I been going threw my own hell lately and i know an easy way out. (OD). I know what I see and been threw these last few weeks/months. God and I know. But the Damian that thinks and analyzes everything says NO. Damian is not here today. Been up for about day and half searching waiting.. A little bit of liquor courage will help me go threw with it. What if in wrong about everything and she is waiting for me like I see in the emails or blogs. But what if that's him? Do I leave my mess for Jo to clean up? Do I leave my dad? Jessica? My sister is been there for me so much. Can I do that to her? But my hell on earth is too much. God? I know I just found you You been there while I been walking in my shoes. I understand if you don't walk with me on this one. I'm not scared of death ..I'm scared because if I'm wrong. But I can't anymore. The mind games the guns the fighting for what? I.....I can't play this anymore. I know what's real and I emotionally I can't. Forgive me Damian..

We worked at the same company in different departments. Company was very segregated and no convo areas existed. Would pass her in hallways and when we saw each other we both seemed to slow down and just get lost in each others gaze and eyes. We just sort of felt each other. Would often feel she was near and look and there she was. Vice versa also. It was like magic. I was so happy that others began responding more positively to me also. I did not lust after her like I did with other attractive women. I felt a deep connection and cared for her like a family member. So intense I withdrew from my wife I was already in the process of separating from. Said I felt I knew her from a past life or something. Asked if I could be her friend. She threw a fit and the separation and week of blowout commenced. Started becoming manic at work. A terrible dingy, segregated, cramped, ill lit and smelly office began feeling like the best work space on earth. but I felt conflicted by people watching us that knew I was married. was conflicted by heaven at work and hell at home and my wife's threats to contact people. She did not believe me that I did not know her name or anything about her. This was true though. I never got her name. I fell behind at work during the busiest time of the year and lost contract. Now I am unemployed and divorcing. Depression still only lies with regret of not asking this girl for name and number. She is no where online. I need to find her and speak

I've lost 4 family members in a terrible car accident weeks ago, I've been overwhelmed and I am a teen guy. My friend is always checking one me and this was just one of those unbearable days.. , I was telling him how stressed I was and how terrified and worried I've been. He's been so helpful and supportive these past few weeks but today He just put "stop" why? Do you think I'm annoying to my friend now and that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore?

So my boyfriend apparently found out that our ex friend turned bully somehow got his job back at their supermarket job (was fired now somehow got rehired) Anyways, i really dont want my boyfriend working with him and my boyfriend agreed, he brought it up first. This ex friend lies, bullies everyone and even my boyfriends coworkers dislike him . My boyfriend can transfer locations and he even got a job as a school safety agent so badically once training classes start apparently classes are 7am to 4pm every day except saturday and sunday and he gets paid $15 an hour for them. Should he transfer locations? I really dont want him working with this guy and neither does he. We talked about that possibility of him coming back. Either way he has to cut his days because if the training classes

I have a lot of anger issues. I usually release this out in boxing. So, I'm in middle school and that's where most annoying kids get even more annoying! I am very aproahchable but when you literally start to annoy me I snap. So, because of my anger issues and the fact that my friend likes to play the most annoying jokes ever like ignoring me for a reason she won't tell me and does a lot of other things that can annoy me i've been snapping a lot on her. Of course this causes our friendship to go in a down spiral. This never happens with my other friends and it makes me look like a bad guy for only snapping at her. I don't want to stop ebing best friends but she makes things a lot more diffucult for me to push my anger to the side and try to like ya' know release it? I guess. WHAT'S A GIRL SUPPOSED TO DO!!!!!!