. Hes bald, he is 20. He sent me his drivers licenses so its proven. I am not 100% attracted to him but if he had hair I know I would be. All my friends say she looks like a pedo-rapist ect. Im submissive. Im attracted to dominate people. I like being manipulated and convicted. Being pushy and convincing me makes me horny. He told me hes family is going to flordia for a week, (lives with mom, sister, dad) He has to work. He says were just going to watch a movie, maybe kiss but in all honesty. I will be disappointed if he not pushy on the sex. remember, love the manipulation. I know myself....We were originally suppose to go out to eat but the day I got my period, it was Christmas, went to my moms house for a week. So yeah.... Im going to call him and express my feelings, any proper way to do it? Also maybe im rebounding and being desperate btw. The last 2 guys just (bj and sex, 1 time encounter) was horrible. How do I let him down gently? or express my feelings.

If you have decided you want to tell someone who is a friend you love them and can't see them anymore because it's too painful, what would you say?

cause like I'm 17 and I'll be 18 in 7 months, and I feel like being born was a mistake cause I have thoughts in my head think that and telling me some things like "What makes me so special to be on this planet" and "why was I brought up in this world" stuff like that. and it makes me sad just feeling that way cause of my anxiety and insecurities that I try hard to hide them but it just won't go away inside of me, I know that I have good and very supportive parents witch I am grateful for but im starting to think with the thoughts in my head and mind that maybe that God and my parents made the mistake of me being born. I just don't know what to do... what do I need to do?

miren es rapido yo queria a una muchacha entonces ella me dijo que no que no me queria eso fue hace 1 año ayer me llego un mensaje de que si le pasaba whats pero no se que creer si es real o solo es una apuesta con sus amigas porque no es la primera vez que me hacen eso

Im scare to do a b job to my boyfriend because i have braces

Im scare to hurt my boyftiebd now because i got braisers what can i do ?

I know it sounds obvious. He wants sex and hasn't met someone else etc. But we've been broken up for 9 months and I've seen him 4 or 5 times. He wants to cuddle and hold my hand and talk about his day and bring up memories, but he's not a good boyfriend and he knows. he s 33 and used to being alone (no family around, & no proper friends). Why doesn't he look for someone else though? He feels secure because I understand him but why does he want to be all affectionate? He says things like "this is so nice" when he asks me to lie against him on the sofa. He won't talk about it when I try to message him about it. He's said before maybe he has a soft spot for me & he misses that we always got along. but is it just talk? I've told him no more, then he asks me out for a drink or says he's sorry if he's behaved like an asshole, but he wasn't sure what was going on with us. How can he not be sure, when he gave up the relationship because he's lazy & doesn't want to invest in a relationship. He wanted to go for a drink over Christmas. I've told him I can't do this. This time I told him again in a long message that he doesn't care really, because if I meet up with him, the next day we won't talk again & I feel he wants to be single, but have someone there, but I just want to move forward. All he replied was "have a great new year R__ x" He hasn't been online since.

I'm dating a girl I really like, her name is Lindsay Bice. Well, her family is very racist so I've had to keep quiet and we are secretive. Well, I'm tired of it and I've been unhappy with everything because I don't like being hidden. It's worst because it's because of the color of my skin! This is 2016 and this still happens, it just takes everything I have not to scream. What should I do?

I'm married as well, and I love my wife and 3 kids dearly. This female neighbor has this annoying habit of making sexual innuendos that fly over the wife's head. For example, she will say something like "you can come over my place tonight for dessert" in a seductive voice, and then give me a wink. Luckily the wife and my in-laws didn't catch that. My wife thinks she is innocent, and thinks I'm crazy. She and the in-laws don't believe me. :P What should I do? The neighbor will say things with a double meaning, and lick her lips, or wink afterwards. The wife and family are oblivious.

I was just making some kind of a fun joke and he just got mad and made it into an argument today, I really hate him. Plus he's a bossy b*tch. I'm planning on taking revenge on him one day for hurting me in the past and now.

I fell in love with a married man, he didn't tell me he was married and he just confessed after two months of dating. He told me a day after we had sex for the first time...but I must say,,, I am already in too deep in love since we had sex. is there something i can do to get over all of this?

So I started seeing this dentist a while ago, he was always kind, always complimenting me, but lately he's been stroking my hand, lightly touching my leg while we talk, once or twice he actually rested his hand on my breasts, I don't know if it was intentional. Mind you he's in his 30's or 40's and I'm in my 20's. So during our recent appointment he said that I have to make another appointment, but he will be alone during that time, he said I will do all the work and we could chat a little bit, if thats ok with you, then he gave a really wide smile and stared at me. I don't know if I'm overreacting or is he intentionally doing something here? He's always been very chatty, complimenting me, saying I'm very pretty, and he says a lot of jokes. I'm probably just over thinking it.

I been dating this guy we been together for 3 years. I love him and he says he loves me the thing is right when I think we are good and are happy he says don't want you no more. but if he don't want me why keep me on his fb page and all the photos of us and of me on his page. one mint he wants me the next he don't. he buys me stuff and we go out to eat and when I have the money to I buy him stuff he wants why is he doing this to me and to us he says I don't know how to clean the house but he don't clean much and I clamed it had it looking good and he bitching we threw stuff away he wanted. I feel like he is playing games with me and I let him because I love him. been with him for 3 years and I have loved every mint of it can some one tell me why he is doing this and what dose it really mean meaning dose he really love me or what is it. he wants me to move in with him and when I say yes then he pushes me away I have bought stuff for the house thinking I was going to move in and we both us it. I cook for him so I been buying dishes stuff like that. his family says they love me but want us married then I move in say it is wrong to move in when not married I get it don't think he dose his step dad is a patchier that is why he says that but says he loves us both. thanks for the help and info means a lot to me so dose he. I am hurting and upset and not eating cause of him I love him. I am almost 40 years old want some one to love me for me and be with me. I need help on what is going on? I mean I never been married but he has ones and she cheated on him. I don't want to be alone nor grow old alone nor die alone. thanks for the help need to know what you think is going on why is he doing this. also I buy stuff for in bed room he says he likes it. I know what I want I want to be married and have my own family he says he dose t day I know what I want he is the one that don't know what he wants I don't think at all. I really want him I love him and miss him I miserable with out him. and if he don't want me why dose he keep his stuff here stuff he already had befor he got with me he has clothes and other stuff here. that don't make no cents to me dose it you. I mean he says he wants to have a family to someday and says he thinks I be a good mom I think he be a good dad. I mean he says he wants to have a family to someday and says he thinks I be a good mom I think he be a good dad.

Been with someone for over 10 years, during this time he's still married keeps saying he's gonna get a divorce (never did, blamed financial reasons). You completely cut all ties with YOUR family to be with this person...His family hate you and welcome the ex who tried to kill him into their lives... oh,,, and hes 25years older than you. (2 kids came of this relationship with him..) Finally said enough was enough and kicked him out. He's living with his mom and brother. Problem is i'm missing him. Im not used to sleeping alone.

I was told the other day.. "you are special, with a kindred spirit.." what does that mean?

Recently my family moved into a new estate and we baked cookies for our neighbors to get to know them. It has only been 2 weeks and Sofia our 79 year old neighbor has been screaming at our children for nearly everything! Our children are teenagers and they like to play music after coming back from school. Yesterday she screamed at them for taking care of her cat who she abandoned and almost ran over with her car. She also gives us other complaints and suspects that we have been invading her privacy and stealing from her garden!! Me and my wife have tried, countless times to talk with her about it but she won't listen and insists that we go away and leave her alone. She even called the police on us for nothing and got charged for it. Help how should we deal with this angry neighbor? We can't take this nonsense anymore. Thanks in advance. Sofia has a son but he's never home and when he's home he is drunk and we try to keep him away from our children. Her son was in jail for vandalism and robberies.

or both?

Hola, soy una chica de 16 años, el primer problema es que tengo mi autoestima muy baja y ya hable con mis padres pero a ellos no les importa, cuando les digo que me siento mal solo me dicen: ya, no empieces, eres bien latosa, como das lata. Ya ni porque les estoy pidiendo ayuda me hacen caso. Aveces me siento muygorda y quiero comer mas saludable y cuando hablo con ellos de eso solo me dicen que me voy a volver anoréxica, que no este dando lata.!Trato de hablar con ellos como puedo, les explico la razon por la que quiero comer saludable, les digo que porfa me entiendan, que me pongan atención, que cuando hable con ellos me escuchen pero solo me dicen que soy muy latosa. :( no tengo el apoyo de mis padres pero ni el de mis amigos porque son muy hipocritas, entonces ya no se que hacer ¿a quien le pido ayuda? Estoy pensando en volverme de esas personas solitarias, bueno acostumbrarme a estar sola y no necesitar de nadie para salir adelante, ni de mis padres. Osea, todo resolvermelo yo porque ni al psicólogo quieren llevarme que porque dicen que solo es la adolescencia, que todos nos sentimos así y que no tengo nada. Será que ellos tienen razón? Ustedes que opinan? Como fue su adolescencia? O como es? Se sentian igual que yo? Solos, tristes y que sus padres no los apoyan y no los entienden? Porfa, no respondan puras tonterías criticando, porque se que hay personas que hacen eso solo por responder

Hye.I'm a 26 years old virgin boy. I met a beautiful spiritual and physically older woman at a course 2 years ago. I took a course about cooking and the course has lasted 2 years, and from the first moment when i saw her i sayed in my mind "she is an angel and she is funny, but she has to be married". But after a few days i heard that she divorce because her husband was a brute beast. Now,she has 46 years old. She divorced 5 years ago, and since then she is single with no relationship in her life. She has a son 14 years old. The father of the son has the custody. We are still talking as ex-classmates on Facebook. When she posts new pictures with her, I tell her in a romantic way how young and how angelic she is, and that after time she hadn't changed at all,she remained as beautiful as ever. What advice can you give me. Should i tell her, in a private message, that i consider her more than a friend, and that that we should be alone together ?

Now, I know this may be none of my business but I would hate to just assume that she is lying if she really does have cancer. So there's a girl at my high school who has been known to lie a lot. Recently, as her boyfriend was about to break up with her, she started telling people she had cancer. However, I'm just not sure her facts add up.Two months ago, she was telling people (including her boyfriend and best friend) that she had six months to live. But when I asked her recently about what kind of cancer she had, she said she had Stage III lung cancer, reducing to stage II (well, she actually said "type" 3, but i'm assuming that could have just been a mistake), as well as heart tumors, and she had had liver cancer but it was now cured. she also said that she had forgotten something, and then said "sorry, chemo brain". When I asked when she had started chemo, she said that she was just going through some "pre-medication thing" but she wouldn't start chemo for another few months... she later also told me that her healthcare (which she apparently forgot the name of) told her it was "illegal" to tell anyone that she has cancer, because she's a minor ? which apparently means that her teachers and nurse don't know, but she still tells literally everyone else at school that she has cancer and uses it as an excuse for all of her awful behavior. according to her, she's going to be fine now, but she hasn't even had any chemo or surgery yet? what do you think?

I am responsible, don't get in trouble, and get good grades. I want to go to Coachella because I am a big fan of a lot of the performers and many of my friends are going. One of my friends invited me to stay with her and both of her parents, but her parents would not go into Coachella. My mom said I could go if my dad says yes, but he won't. Is there anything I can do to change his mind? My friends da has even offered to talk to my dad and fully explain the plans and also why he is letting his daughter go. Also I live in San Diego so Coachella is not too far from my home. I have been on the East Coast with friends before and without my parents.

The abuse started emotionally 2 years ago & progressed shortly after to physical My "partner" broke my nose after I yelled at him for calling me a c*nt & rite after he pulled over & grabbed a bunch of napkins from a gas station & threw them at me saying wipe your face you dumb bi*ch your getting blood on my car.he then taunted me the rest of the car ride saying "don't cry i thought you were tough"When we got back I was shaking so bad he dragged me into the house when he saw I couldn't walk to hide me from the neighbors.I just lied on the ground in shock.I just remember shaking non stop & not being able to move until my phone rang about 30 minn later & it was my dad I told him what happened he asked to talk to him & said what happened my "partner"lied & said I hit him & he was just trying to get me off of him & my dad said well you can't hit girls & asked to talk to me then said I don't know what you want me to do this is your problem.I called my mom & a few other relatives & they all said me that I couldn't stay with them & that they wouldn't call the cops if they were me because then I'd be in the street.After that I knew I had nobody & Believed I would be on the street if my own relatives said I would.Then a year later he broke it again when I yelled at him for calling me names & that time a neighbor called the police because he threw my phone & the police didn't arrest him they only took his statement & threatened to arrest me if I didn't shut up.

So I have this teacher and he's gay but I think I'm in love with him. I usually stay after everyday with him and his class is my favorite and whenever he talks I listen so well and I just look at him and just think about how amazing he is. I notice his flaws too but that doesn't matter to me. I can't make direct eye contact with him and whenever he comes up from behind me I get a weird tingle/chills thing. One time I was picking up papers and he came up from behind me and said hi and I got the chills and I struggled to say hi back. I think about him all the time and I think I'm in love with him? I know it'll never happen and I wouldn't want it to since he's gay and I'm not his type anyway but I just think im in love with him and i wanted to know for sure? I think it's either love or it's just he has a strong father instinct and I'm attracted to his personality. I don't think he's that attractive but he has a very attractive personality. I think I might just be in love with the way he treats me. My father isn't that great and my mom isn't either and they're never around to praise me when I accomplish something but I'll go to school and tell him and he'll be so proud. Especially when I get a high test grade in his class. He gets so excited it's so cute. I don't know though, am I in love or just in need of attention?

I was friends with this guy in high school and we really got along well. We joke a lot but I was in 10th grade when he was in 12th. Last time I saw him, it was about 6 years ago. I messaged him on Facebook a few months ago because I found him on there. He didn't respond until later because he is in the army. Now I think he is out but not sure. He recently messaged me on Christmas Eve and said he wanted to chat on the phone to catch up. He said he was surprised I was up so late because I realized I had messaged him really late. He is the nerdy type but he is nice. I just don't want to give him the impression I like him because he is a good friend. Also, he has asked me out before to dances in high school. He also talks to my other friend and I don't want her to feel bad if I'm talking to him. But he is my friend too because they have messaged too but he doesn't have feelings for her. She was starting to wonder if he liked her though and she has told me before. I don't know what to do, help?

My ex and I have shared custody of our daughters, we've had shared custody since we broke up in 2011. My ex and I have remained friends for the girls and we both get along with each other's new partners, in 2013 my ex proposed to his now fiancee and their getting married this summer. My ex and his fiancee invited me, my boyfriend along with the our daughters and my boyfriend's son to their wedding which we accepted. My ex's family is telling him that it's wrong to invite me since I'm the ex, but my ex and his fiancee are ignoring them. Why is it wrong? We're all friends.

What s wrong with me? I can t French kiss or kiss long at all. My kisses turn into quick pecks lol it s embarrassing but I dunno how

I ve been in a relationship with my current partner for 7 years. We had a daughter together three months ago. He wanted me to get an abortion as soon as I told him. He realized I wasn t going to do that. Moved in with me because he got kicked out then wants to get our daughters name tattooed on him. ( like that makes anything better). He took more than 9 months to get a job hasn t supported his daughter at all. I try to give him the benefit of the doubt now that he working. I m trying to be happy but everything is annoying to me. He comes home from work and goes straight outside to hang out with his friends barely spends time with his daughter only to make her laugh for two minutes and then go about his business. He s started doing other things I won t say on here. I m just not happy anymore no matter how hard I try to be. I want us to be together for our daughters sake. But I don t think it s going to work out. I see us breaking up in the next couple of months. If he doesn t try to work on this with me. And realize that I m unhappy.

Why would the boys embarrass their sister about this? My son Matt is 9 and his sister Nicole is 7. Yesterday Nicole was playing with her dolls in just a shirt and her underpants and getting a spanking which the boys kept teasing her about how it appeared. Now it would not be embarrassing for Nicole to be lying across Daddy's lap with her skirt off. It was meant to be done in private but the boys did regretedly see. They tease her about wiggling her white panty during which very much embarrassed her. I grounded the boys but why would they talk about this? Is this harmful or typical that they act this way with my daughter?

I'm 17, turning 18 in May, and I'm not allowed to do a lot of things. My curfew to come home is 10, I can't have my boyfriend of one year in my living room past 10:30 (that's all we can hang out, I ASKED if we could hang out in my room with my door open and she grounded me for a week), monitors all of my social media and has all my passwords, and a lot more other stuff. What's been bothering me more recently is all of my friends and their boyfriends, including mine, are renting a house upstate (2 hours away) for after prom. It's going to be our last fun weekend together before we all split up and go to college. My mom isn't letting me go because my boyfriend's going to be there. He's my best friend before he's my boyfriend, and I just want to hang out with all of my friends for the last time in a while. She gave me a solid no and threatened to ground me if I ask again, but I've followed all rules for so long and I never had space to express myself or grow, and this is the one thing that I'm asking for- and I can't do it. I am upset. My heart is broken. I just feel rejected and left out of everything. How do I get over this feeling?

Hi, As you can see from the title, I'm 15 and want a baby, and oh I'm a boy, which I understand isn't that normal for someone my age. My dad left when I was 5, and I've always wanted to be the dad that he wasn't. I've been feeling like this for a long time now, I'd love a girl, I've even picked a name. I know what everyone will think, you're immature etc. But although I'm 15 I have an old soul, I've always been really mature for my age ever since I was younger. I know I'm ready for that responsibility.

He was 15 at the time, and my crush My mom asked where my Dad was, he somehow knew but then after he spoke, he looked into my eyes anxiously. He told me he couldn't recognize me because he knows so many girls, and he looked at me expectantly. He had the same look after he told me he took girls on dates to the place where we met. And the same look each time he mentioned a friend of his-this same girl became his girlfriend a year later-and when I said nothing, he said that he wished I went to his school We were debating nurture vs nature LGBT and he said, "But if that were true, then I'd be gay, and I'm straight" and looked at me nervously, and when I just stared, he looked disappointed and then calmly explained his point but used his friends as examples. He said he was going to come bother me at work but he was staring defiantly at his dad while saying it. He told me that if a girl likes a guy she should just ask him out and he locked eyes with me He looked anxious at me when I saw him touch a male stranger's shoulder and look into his eyes after bumping into him When I asked if the youth pastor was like an uncle to him, he nodded reluctantly but looked into my eyes like it wasn't true and he had more to say

I'm 18 in high school. I think that I should be paying for all the food I eat but my mom hates the idea, but I think it will force me to be more independent, find a part time job. etc. I feel like I've always been enabled by her to be a slob. Every day I go to school, then come home and stay in my room all night. My life at my hometown sucks because of this awful habit. Also, I plan just stay after school and avoid going home until late. I just want to stay away from home and have a life outside. Get more friends and go to prom unlike last year. I think this will teach me to rely on myself more.

Ok, so I have been thinking about starting a music group for awhile now. There's this one girl at my school who seems to have a really good singing voice. I am also pretty musically talented, as I am a great pianist and I'm an outSTANDING drummer (Not to brag). Anyways, I would really like to collaborate with this girl and start a music group with her. Is there anyway I could possibly ask her if she would like to collaborate with me without it sounding weird?

I mean come on even if she or he hurt you, uploading a video to the internet that will be there forever is too rough, why would some people even think about doing that, that's terrible, no matter what she or he did that's never going to be as bad as this!

I hear the woman crying at night and I can't sleep. Should I file a noise complaint?