I am 27 years old. Been married for 3 1/2 years and am seeking divorce. I have been an unemployed home maker to our 3 year old daughter during the entire marriage. Just wanting g to be prepared for all the legalities I have to prove and what my legal rights are. I am seeking joint custody and periodic alimony.

I married my ex in Mexico back in 2011 him amd American citizen I didn't file for a visa K what we did instead was that we married in Mexico then he file for me to get a green card which I did get for two years. It took a year for me to cross from Mexico to california. The problem is that we seperated within months nothing worked out. I moved to a different state. I moved on with my life but I recently decided to file for a divorce in Mexico. However I am worried amd confused if whether I have to proof my divorce to the state of California. We never married in the U.S. But because he filed docs to the USCIS thru immigration including the marriage certificate issued in Mexico. Will I show up married in the state of California? Do I need to do anything in the U.S. Regarding that to validate a divorce? Or will my foreign divorce do it? I guess I am confused of Idk If O even ahow as married in the U.S. ... I appreciate anyones help thx

if so how did u do it? and was it easy?

He lives with mistress who home-wreaked our family and our 5 yo son says they got married. I am curious to learn but what reason to give ex to ask without being intrusive? Do I need to Know if ex got married? Yes, we have a joint custody of 5 yo.

I got asked out by somebody who thinks I'm single (but I'm not). It kind of caught me off guard....I didn't mention my partner, and I said yes and we exchanged phone numbers. But now I feel bad. I'm not sure how to reply if they reach out to me.

My girlfriend told me we were both invited to her friend (I'll call her Sam) Sam's house for some kind of get together. According to Sam, she told my girlfriend that her husband verbally abuses her because he suffers with such horrible depression and things like that. Recently, my girlfriend called me on the phone because she wanted to know if Sam should divorce or separate from her husband. The problem is that Sam's husband does not want to get help or treatment for his depression and, Sam does not want to end her marriage with him. And another note, I'm not a big fan or parties or get togethers. I think they can be very awkward and, my girlfriend told me it was Sam's husband's idea to have this get together. I don't want to say no my girlfriend because I don't want to be "that guy" who wants to stay home all day. I just don't like going out sometimes, especially with other people with my girlfriend. It's uncomfortable and I don't like being around people I don't know, especially Sam's husband who I have sympathy for and yet, I don't feel good about going. Maybe he just needs people around to help him? I don't know. What should I do???

I just got home from taking my husband to work. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and came right back home and to be more comfortable I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home. It really was comfortable driving in my bare feet and not having shoes on.

Either stay in this wretched place and try to make money to compensate my deficit. Or Leave losing.

I'm 13, and my parents got divorced. I'm actully really excited (I'll say why later), but my older brother is so upset. I don't get it. The way I see it, there are many perks to having divorced parents: 1. No arguing parents. That means we can sleep better. 2. You get double the amount of presents for birthdays, Christmas etc. 3. Since my mom is moving to a town next to beach (we live in Florida, and she wanted to move back to that town, her hometown), it's like a vacation house we go to every three weeks. 4. Dad's already dating someone else, meaning he's out of the house more. That means more TV time for me. 5. It's so easy to get what I want now. For example, iif I ask my mom if I can go to a movie and she just says no, I'll tell her that dad said that. 6. If I'm in trouble, I can just call my other parent. And many more reasons. When there are so many good things,why is my brother so upset

http://s1074.photobucket.com/user/chvy9900cun/media/20160318_181235_zpsnggtl33x.jpg.html?o=0 in the above photo, I was at a beach party and I lifted this Brazillian girl up. And now my girlfriend is pissed. My gf is fat like me and im wondering if she is just mad because of her self esteem. But is this cheating?

We worked at the same company in different departments. Company was very segregated and no convo areas existed. Would pass her in hallways and when we saw each other we both seemed to slow down and just get lost in each others gaze and eyes. We just sort of felt each other. Would often feel she was near and look and there she was. Vice versa also. It was like magic. I was so happy that others began responding more positively to me also. I did not lust after her like I did with other attractive women. I felt a deep connection and cared for her like a family member. So intense I withdrew from my wife I was already in the process of separating from. Said I felt I knew her from a past life or something. Asked if I could be her friend. She threw a fit and the separation and week of blowout commenced. Started becoming manic at work. A terrible dingy, segregated, cramped, ill lit and smelly office began feeling like the best work space on earth. but I felt conflicted by people watching us that knew I was married. was conflicted by heaven at work and hell at home and my wife's threats to contact people. She did not believe me that I did not know her name or anything about her. This was true though. I never got her name. I fell behind at work during the busiest time of the year and lost contract. Now I am unemployed and divorcing. Depression still only lies with regret of not asking this girl for name and number. She is no where online. I need to find her and speak

What if she's never satisfied? Are we gonna do this all night? A man needs to sleep.

I really don't like using this word but for lack of a better word here goes. My Mom was married to someone before she met my Dad. They divorced right away. She later met My Dad who was the greatest to her. But still it wasn't good enough for her. She cheated on him at my Grandpa's funeral and blamed him for it. They got a divorce. She got together with the guy she used to cheat with and was ******* some other asshat at the same time. They got married. Great idea, eh? Now she's threatening to divorce Simon after a couple of months because of something retarded even though he and his son live with us. I'm sick of it. She's a spoiled ***** who goes clubbing all the damn time doing God knows what and I have to care for my 8 year old brother because we can't see our Dad. I'm 13 by the way. She brings home these weird men when Simon isn't home and I have to plug my brothers' ears. I'm literally ashamed of her and I don't mean to be harsh but when you're entire school is calling your Mother a prostitute (small town problems), it ******* sucks. Am I being ridiculous for thinking she should appreciate what she has and care for the children she decided to have? If not, is there anything I can do about it?

I'm married, but I want to get him a card. What would he think?

I feel so ashamed and embarrassed by my parents and it makes me hate myself that I have divorced parents. I am 18 and they divorced when I was 10.

I'm so confused. I've known this guy for almost 5 years. He was married during the first 2 years that I knew him, we were just friends who worked with each other. His wife divorced him in early 2014 due to irreconcilable differences. In the very beginning, he led me on by making it seem like I'd have a chance after the divorce was finalized and after he had some time to heal. Things were a little distant for several months. I actually went a whole 7.5 months without seeing him and then I started seeing him more between April 2015-December 2015. We grew pretty close as friends. He flirted hardcore with me whenever he could and even got to the point where he grabbed my butt while we were hugging goodbye one night. Things got intense that night, he was breathless and I swear we almost kissed, but got interrupted. A week later, he told me he had a girlfriend (they hadn't been together long, but were together when he grabbed my butt), only because she was seeing the messages herself and they got into a big argument over why I didn't know he had a girlfriend. He claimed he didn't like telling his private life and I told him I'm one person that should know he has a girlfriend. We stopped talking for 4 months when I saw him again and he told me that we don't know what the future holds and that things were just getting too friendly while he's in a relationship. In April, it will be a year since we've seen or talked to each other. I am pretty much over him. I will always love him, but I don't think of him every day or go to his page every day like I used to. A while back, when I was still hung up on him, I follow requested him on Instagram. It's still pending after months. Earlier this month, I decided to go to his page out of curiosity. He suddenly had an "Add Friend" option, which he hadn't had since December of 2015. I friend requested him, totally expecting him to deny me and/or block me. It's been weeks and it's still pending. Why hasn't he denied either request? I remember when I tried to add him while he was in the middle of his divorce, he had my friend request sitting there for a little over a month before he finally accepted, something about his wife not being friends with him on FB anymore so he finally allowed me to be friends with him on there. As far as I know, he's still with his girlfriend, but I'm not sure. I'm 26, he's 38. either request? I remember when I tried to add him while he was in the middle of his divorce, he had my friend request sitting there for a little over a month before he finally accepted, something about his wife not being friends with him on FB anymore so he finally allowed me to be friends with him on there. As far as I know, he's still with his girlfriend, but I'm not sure. I'm 26, he's 38.

I come across a lots of women who hat on each other back stabbing each other. It's sad and true or if they married they're afraid of losing their husband because of other women did you see this before???

Whenever my wife and I are in our car together,and I'm driving, she removes her shoes. Whether she's wearing boots, flats, sneakers, she always takes them off. The smelll is always horrible. I have asked her to put her shoes back on, but she refuses and complains how hot they get. Why does she do this?

When we all know that s not true! There are many ugly, below average, mediocre looking (which most women are) in reaitonships! Perfect tens rarely exist (on both genders)... so why do so many people make it seem like you have to be beautofulllll to get them to commit when many fugly, overweight, nasty looking women are in relationships!? Lol

Is it inappropriate if out of nowhere I start caressing my wife down below and go down on her without her saying anything ?

who to love. To love him wad beautiful, but try to unlove andforget him is very painful, how can i get over him and move on? Feel like wont, cant fall in love again as loved him so much

My husband I have been married for a year now and I have children from a previous relationship. Normally I don't have them on the weekends so I work a double shift at my hotel. They were able to be with my babysitter for the morning shift and I could not take off for the 2nd shift 3-10 so he had to pick them up from the sitter and watch them. My mother was already coming up to take them for the night for a sleepover since I also work tomorrow. My husband picks them up and tried to call my phone but I can't answer my personal phone at the front desk which I've told him so he knows to call the hotel if he needs to speak with me. I answer the phone and he's like there are no wipes and I say ok I guess the babysitter forgot to put them in the bag so either go to the babysitters house down the street or go buy some more. He's like yea ok well I tried calling you and you didn't answer maybe you should look at your phone when someone else has your kids. Like are we not supposed to be a team and have a real partnership? He is also on call for towing but it's like even if they aren't your kids marrying me was saying yes to being that support for me and them? Right?

Should I divorce her? Because this isn't even a marriage anymore. I don't want to cheat because that'd be shallow.

Married June, 2016, I have a daughter that was from a previous relationship & was not legally adopted by my husband (no father on birth certificate either). We work full time and I go to school full time. We aren't sure which kind of filing to do in order to get the best results. I've done some research but I'm not having a lot of luck understanding all of it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

He brought me home a rose 🌹 And then he gave me a hug and a kiss :) What should I do for him back?

I work construction, i work 5am-7pm five to six days a week to try and support my family im out in the cold and out in the heat everyday. It starts taking a toll on me when i come home and all she does is watch tv our house is always a wreck, i never have clean clothes, dishes are never washed. So i come home and clean and do laundry and do everything thats needs done at home. We have a 13 month old son and she claims its to hard just to take care of him let alone clean the house. She doeant work so she is home all day and doesnt do nothing but watch tv. How should i handle this i love her to death but i cant be the one holding up our lives and our marriage.

He texts me about his accomplishments or if something bad happened in his day. I DONT CARE. We are separated bc of his abuse and telling me he didnt want to be married to me. We have a 7mnth old together and a lease so we have to communicate but other things i ignore but im ready to say who cares

I'm not Latina nor do I know every Latina to say this is something everyone of them does,but I've noticed in the area I live in,that a lot of Latinas try to flirt with my husband and get his attention even if they're with their own husband/boyfriend(and no I'm not one of those paranoid jealous types my husband has noticed this too)I wondered if it was common amongst Latinas or is it just because I'm not Hispanic decent and my husband is so maybe it bothers them?My husband is not extremely gorgeous or anything nor do any non Latina/Hispanic women do this.So I really don't understand it.

giving head .

Can t you have sex with tens of people (over exaggerating here) and have another s-e-x with your wife when you marry her? You can even lie to your wife its your first time anyway. Why is this "losing virginity" important? I don t get it. Why does that word even exist...

How can I learn from them so I don't end up like that now that I am in my 20's? I am afraid of dating because it always ends in heartbreak and both my parents have been divorced multiple times with all being ugly divorces. Right now my Mom is with a guy she left her husband for last August. My Dad is in his fourth marriage but his wife says he is cheating (I have no opinion). Any ideas? I am 23 and male.

You ask them to go to the store to get you a couple of things and to take some money out of your purse/wallet for those items. The person you are seeing agrees however they take 40 dollars more than they need and also get themselves a bunch of stuff at the store for their house without asking your permission and they also never offer to give you your change back. Is this rude behavior or normal? Also they never give you money to go to the store to get them stuff.

Last straw. He went behind & accused me of not caring & money issues. He wants a separate bank account & is letting his mom meddle her opinions in our marriage. I went to the auto show with him & his family. I hurt my foot at work so it's hard for me to walk. He walked with his mom the whole time. I was walking behind them trying to keep up it was humiliating. I'm scared to call family & friends in front of him. We have a puppy which he yells at & threw her into the dresser when he got mad. He humiliates me in front of people than laugh like it's a joke. Our vacation he made jokes about me that weren't funny that hurt my fellow even when I asked him to srop. I'm a diabetic he constantly goes through money withdrawal our bank account yet wants a separate account. He lies about money, will spend a $800 in a week. I'm not perfect I nag, was in better shape when got married, emotional wreck, put more time in my appearance & a diabetic plus depressed. I will admit my medicine makes me gain weight. The putting makeup on is tiring waking up early. It's hard to get out of bed when your sad. I do go to work. He constantly throws in my face how he makes more money & hours than me l. I cook all our meals everyday, clean, pay bills which hadn't been a problem until now. He starts arguing with me over anything. He curses at me then ignores me, silent treatments, I cry every night. He goes in the other room because he says it's annoys him. He doesn't spend time with me or the puppy.