Friends: Question: How can I help my friend feel better ? |
- Question: How can I help my friend feel better ?
- Question: Cancer girl bullying me?
- Question: One of my wifes friend moved close to us, we see her often, and at first she was quiet and wouldn't talk much,?
- Question: My friend keeps horning in.?
- Question: I don t know what to do?
- Question: Should I let my 12 year old hang out with her friend?
- Question: Should I break up with my best friend? How?
- Question: Is everyone experiencing the same type of bullying as me? Is this life?
- Question: How do I drift away from my friends?
- Question: What's a good gift to congratulate people?
- Question: How can I leave a friend's house when working on a school project?
- Question: How to get out of the friend zone?
- Question: My best friend and I have matching best friend necklaces but she never wears hers even though I always wear mine. should I be concerned?
- Question: Your opinion on a true friend?
- Question: I'm not sure if she's a friend anymore..?
- Question: SOS parrucchieri!!! Entrate pls?
- Question: I have a friend who may kill herself. what do i do?
- Question: Ideas for things to do with friends?
- Question: Is forced oral considered rape? Am I making a big deal out of this?
- Question: Does making friends in college take time?
- Question: Does anyone else find people with who are doing things just feed their egos exhausting? Do you find people with giant egos tiresome?
- Question: A lot of people are trying to take advantage of me?
- Question: Advice? I have this friend who is always so negative. We have talked every day for the past 2 years and I have always been there for her..?
- Question: Personal bullying stories?
- Question: I have a hard time being friends with black people because they have such low IQs. What can I do?
- Question: Should I apologize or just move on?
- Question: Friend issues please help immediately please?
- Question: What do I say if I don't want to hang out?
- Question: MY GOD was I wrong ??
- Question: Am I being to push?
- Question: My friend stole money from my other friend?
- Question: Is it better to have no friends or one bad friend?
- Question: Someone is stealing my best friend away from me...What do I do?
- Question: Am I considered an outcast in school if I am not apart of any cliques?
- Question: I miss my old house.?
- Question: My friend went through my phone without my permission, what does that mean about our friendship?
- Question: My friend misunderstood what I said and is now ignoring me?
- Question: How i stop being jealous of an old friend of mine whos become a famous youtuber?
- Question: Should I tell him the truth or does it not matter anymore?
- Question: My friend is sleeping over and she needs to wake up?
- Question: My mom knows everything I say on Instagram DM?
- Question: My Life is Horrible?
- Question: How should I tell my best friend I m moving away?
- Question: How does my mom know things I've said on messages?
- Question: Best Friend issues??
- Question: Am I expecting too much from the wrong people,?
- Question: Should i go to my dads friends house or stay with my dad?
- Question: I'm having a sleepover with a couple of friends tonight and I have no clue what we should do? Any Ideas?
- Question: As a guest at anothers home, do you wait for them to tell you to make yourself at home, or youll be comfortable without them saying it?
- Question: Got asked to hang out with this guy I don't really know but I can't make conversation?
- Question: How do you stop trying to become, and being sad because of the constant comparing, your friend?
- Question: I recently went to a family party with my parents where everyone was drinking except them. People already joke with me that I am going to be?
- Question: Are my friends manipulating me, or am I just being paranoid?
- Question: How to make friends?
- Question: How to deal with peer pressuring?
- Question: My friend is pushing me away?
- Question: Does a girl saying she has nice feet mean she has a foot fetish?
- Question: This student at my school has ADHD, and ppl won't stop making fun of her. She don't know how to stand up for herself, so I did.?
- Question: What do i say to the teacher about being bullied without feeling embarassed and upset?
- Question: Why does my friend leave me and sell me out when **** hit the fan?
| Question: How can I help my friend feel better ? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:43 PM PST My friend wasn't feeling so well tonight. She had a headache when we got off work she was gonna take pills but she forgot about it. It made her stomach hurt she didn't even eat dinner. She was complaining her belly was hurting then she took her pills and laid down. She just work up she said she feels better now but her stomach is still hurting a little. How can I comfort her ? |
| Question: Cancer girl bullying me? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:24 PM PST A girl with cancer slapped me for laughing at a joke someone made. And the counselers did nothing about it. My friends dared me to do a bunch of noises and jokes and the cancer girl told me i was annoying and she told me to get over my heart transplant. I told myself she wasn't feeling well, but if she wasn't feeling well she should not go to camp. Her mother at the picnic told me that she had cancer all that and stood up for her daughter. That is like me slapping someone and then saying it was my heart transplant fault. Ever since she has ignored me and i apologized over and over and wont talk to me. Her friends got mad at me saying all i do is complain About life when i told them i am not going to camp because i didnt have fun for the past 2 years and because of bullying. She is having problems at school according to her mom's facebook and her boyfriend broke up with her. So what did i do? |
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| Question: My friend keeps horning in.? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:10 PM PST I have a great friend, but in a social situation if I'm exchanging any conversation with another person, she'll contradict what I'm saying or their conversation directed to me. I don't get it, as she has a zillion friends. I have only a handful if that, with no chance of making any when she's around. I'm not a complete idiot but back off and let her take over. What do you make of this? |
| Question: I don t know what to do? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 05:03 PM PST So for the last few years, I have been in my school s "popular" group. The problem is, I hang out with them a lot but whenever I want to invite them over the are "busy." Also, if I leave the group I don t know where I ll go because I really have no other friends outside of this group. I always seem to be their second choice for things like partnering up when someone else isn t around. And it s all cause they play soccer and I don t!! They also seem to think it s ok to push me around and be rude to me cause they know I won t stand up for myself. I am honestly crying right now cause I used to be excited for school and now all I want to do is curl up in a ball and cry. Their all some mean to people and it s so rude and upsetting and they think it s funny! And please don t say make new friends, because their is absolutely no way I can. It would be too awkward, cause a lot of people already know me for being popular and I don t want people treating me like I m "special." So please, what do I do??? Any help is good help. |
| Question: Should I let my 12 year old hang out with her friend? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:48 PM PST My 12 year old daughter started hanging out with a girl who isn't from her school and does not participate in her extracurricular activities. She's from a middle school that's an hour away from our neighborhood and they communicate on social media and talk on the phone a lot. My daughter doesn't have friends from her school and the teachers has concerns about her social skills because she fails to interact with her schoolmates. My daughter insisted once that it's nothing and that she just isn't interested in the same kind of hobbies that her schoolmates are. This girl also has trouble making friends at school and I think they're good friends. Should I be concerned that since there's no adult supervising them at all times like two kids would be at school or at home, this girl may get herself and my daughter in some kind of trouble? (Such as going somewhere together where they're not supposed to be without permission, inappropriate activities, breaking curfews). I haven't met this kid and I don't know what her parents are like and what she's interested in. |
| Question: Should I break up with my best friend? How? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:41 PM PST Okay, so we have been best friends for the past 2 years! And she lives in another country so we are basically in touch with each other only via social media (we never had any video calls) only via chatting or audio calling. And these days she is behaving very weird like she speaks to me VERY LESS like maybe once in 10 days. And even if I text her, she won't show any interest in chatting. Honestly, I feel like she just uses me to pass her time when she's bored. When I complimented on one of her pic, she didn't give any reply whereas she replied to the others who commented like hours after me. She even liked their comment but didn't even bother to like my one. (She did it on 2 pics). And i'm always the one to show public effection like postin& letging eberuome know she is besty. She never does those to me. And once I edited one of her pic & told her to post it on her profile & then she did it but deleted it after 10 mins!!! So, finally I think I should just end this because it's not like a normal beatdriends anyways since we are only in touch via texting. So, should I break up with her? And if so, then how do u think I should tell her? Plz answer |
| Question: Is everyone experiencing the same type of bullying as me? Is this life? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:40 PM PST When i was you this kid 3 years older than me was picking with me. I told him to stop and then he punch me in the mouth. My cousin, brothers were about to jump him and he came up with a story that i punched his little sister which was a big lie. His sister was at church. This jump im at im dealing with 2 coworkers who constantly pick, insult, nitpick, yell all at me. I snapped on them and yhen they reported me to the boss and made the biggest lie telling my boss and clients that i always got smart with them. Is this really life, what most people go through? I just started tbis job and no other job. Have treated me as badly as these coworkers. |
| Question: How do I drift away from my friends? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 04:28 PM PST So I used to really like hanging out with my friends but now I realized that they use and walk all over me so much. They only want to hangout if I can give them rides or if I can pay for stuff for them. I left my high school this year and I go to an independent study high school but I'm returning back to my old high school next year (senior year) to be ahead and graduate from it. I have two groups of main friends and I just don't want to be involved with them at all. They text me to hangout and I make excuses but I'm running out of them. What can I do to drift away from them and not hangout with them? |
| Question: What's a good gift to congratulate people? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 03:56 PM PST My friends in a team just won 9 HUGE awards so I wanna get each individual a small-medium gift to say congrats. Ideas please? |
| Question: How can I leave a friend's house when working on a school project? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 03:47 PM PST I'm at a friend's house right now to work on a project but I have really bad period cramps (my friend is a guy so I can't tell him) and can't think or move. We haven't gotten any work done and I feel really bad. I'm with my dad this week so I can't ask him to make an excuse for me if he comes to get me early (like saying my dog is really sick or we have a family thing). I have to stay for another couple hours but I feel like I'm about to cry because of my cramps and really can't. What is an excuse I could use to leave early? His mom isn't home so I can't ask her for medicine or anything to help. Please help me. I'm still going to do the project since it's in google docs and I can work from my house so I'm not just trying to get out of it. We're not very close friends so I can't just tell the truth. PLEASE HELP |
| Question: How to get out of the friend zone? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 03:43 PM PST My friend group is pretty big (maybe about 10 of us) and I went on a date with one of the guys in the group (I thought I'd give him a shot, but I told him afterwards that I only really saw him as a Friend. So nothing serious happened and I shut it down quickly. But I think I'm starting to get feelings for someone else in the group who I've always thought was cute? We get along great, but idk if anything can happen due to our other friend who most likely would be pissed if we decided to get together. I'm not sure what he thinks of me, but I'm pretty sure he's wary of our other friend. He's out mutal friend, but do u think it would be possible to go out with him without pissing the first guy off? |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 03:15 PM PST for her birthday, I got us these matching best friend heart necklaces but she never wears her's. she told me she loved it and she was so happy to reciemce it and we promised each other we would never take them off. I haven't taken mine off but when we hangout and FaceTime and when she posts pictures, she's never wearing her necklace, she's wearing a different one. am I overthinking this? |
| Question: Your opinion on a true friend? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 03:11 PM PST Just gathering opinions here. Do you think that someone who is a true friend to a specific person also a true friend to all his/her other friends? |
| Question: I'm not sure if she's a friend anymore..? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:59 PM PST okay, so i have this friend, i met her online and at first it was awsome cause we a lot in common, she intruduced me to some her friends who all of them are guys, and they really liked me. she had a very good guy friend, but they had a huge fight and stopped talking. but at the same time this guy friend and i had a good connection so we started talking, not a lot mind you, but she told me i'm a traitor just for talking to him. he didnt do anything wrong to me so i felt like it was wrong to be mean to him, and treated him like normal. and she drifted away from me, until one day she told me that she cant be friends with me because i was with someone who hurt her. i tried to explain that my friendship with him doesnt mean anything about her, that i'm still her friend but she treated me badly. now she says she doesnt want to let him ruin our friendship and it's worth while that she will be hurt because of me. but now i'm the one that is hurt from her. and i dont know if i want to be friends with her. what should i do? |
| Question: SOS parrucchieri!!! Entrate pls? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:42 PM PST Ho una cliente alla quale non si tingono i capelli bianchi... cioè, per meglio dire, si tingono ma non perfettamente. L'ho studiato a scuola ma non ricordo bene: se metto l'ossigeno a 10 volumi il colore riesce a tingere meglio i capelli oppure no? Ho provato anche a farlo stare più tempo con l'ossigeno a 20 volumi ma nulla. Che ne dite, provo con 10 volumi? |
| Question: I have a friend who may kill herself. what do i do? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:32 PM PST she lives in a separate state now, but were still close. i dont have her address anymore because we both moved. i do have her phone number.. what should i do? shes attempted before. i really know her and know she needs some help. what should i do to help? |
| Question: Ideas for things to do with friends? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:23 PM PST Trying to make the most of the last week of winter break. Looking for some things to do that don't involve going to someones house or things that'll break the bank (ie ice skating, movies, mall, etc) Open to outdoor ideas as well. |
| Question: Is forced oral considered rape? Am I making a big deal out of this? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:17 PM PST I'm a fifteen year old girl. I'm from Milan. On new year's eve I drank a little too much, I was confused and I ended up with two of my friends on a bench. They were both high and they kept saying they wanted a *******. One of them then picked me up and carried me to a public restroom. I was too drunk to understand what was going on, and next thing I know is they were lying side by side beside the toilet with their penis out. I kept saying I didn't want to do anything, since I had never had any sexual experience. Then one of them pushed my head toward his penis while I kept saying "no, no, no, no" When my lips touched it, I kept my mouth shut, but eventually I opened it and mechanically did everything he told me to do, while the other touched me. He ejaculated in my mouth and told me to swallow. I did. And then he left. The other told me it was his turn and I told him I wanted to leave. He just begged me to make him ***. I didn't have anymore strength to protest and he pushed my head up and down without letting me catch a breath until he came too. Even though two weeks have passed since New Years I still think about it wondering if I'm just exaggerating the whole thing. I wasn't traumatized or hurt physically. I just feel very embarrassed because I made a fool of myself by sucking it very bad and I feel hurt by the lack of respect. I mean, these guys who are my age just see me as a sex machine to use and throw away after they're done. I haven't told any of my friends. On line two I wanted to say they wanted oral sex, yahoo just censors the colloquial word to say it |
| Question: Does making friends in college take time? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 02:03 PM PST I'm a freshman in my second semester of college. I'm not the kind of person that just makes friends with a zillion random people (first semester friends) so that I'm not alone; I like to take time with building friendships with others. I also don't feel a need to be with people every waking hour- I enjoy spending time by myself. I have made friends- I've been going to dinner with a group of people several times a week, I have a roommate for next year, and I talk to the people in my classes. Now that my new classes I've started, that means even more people to study and chat with. That's not the problem- the problem is that I feel like I'm taking way too long to develop deep friendships with others, while it seems everyone else around me has friends that you would think they'd have known for 10 years. |
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| Question: A lot of people are trying to take advantage of me? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:59 PM PST I took part in the BDSM community. Recently I was hospitalized because of a suicide attempt, severe depression, and drug use. One of my "friends" asked me to have sex or play with him when I told him I'm str seed out about not being able to do those things because I'm going to a mental health/sobriety facility. I've told him I wasn't interested before, but he CHOSE to stay in the friend zone, wish I made him leave before! Then I've made a post on a BDSM social media website displaying anger/frustration with life and not wanting to live. A couple random guys messaged me asking if I'd like to dominate them to get my anger out! IMBECILES! YOURE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO BDSM becuase of anger!!! Plus they were trying to take advantage of my mental health! Is it time to leave that community for good? |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:41 PM PST I always try to tell her things will be okay and what not. She can be fun sometimes but somehow it always ends back to her feeling bad about herself. Now, I reached a point where idk I dont feel like talking to her anymore.. She keeps messaging me asking if I am mad at her but I just don't feel like responding. I don't know what to do..? I've tried helping so much but she always wants so much attention that Idk if I should cut off the friendship. To add I am leaving the state for college in some months so maybe it would be better just to cut ties? |
| Question: Personal bullying stories? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:35 PM PST Preferably from a guy, what're some specific experience you've had with bullying? |
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| Question: Should I apologize or just move on? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:13 PM PST Where I work is "downsizing" and they told us our department is being eliminated. That means that 11 of us will be out of work. The company told us that there are other openings in the company that we can fill if we completed a training program and they found an employee that had VOLUNTEERED to give us this training. However the first day the instructor walked into the class I was filled with fear. The instructor was a guy I went to high school with many years ago and he had asked me for dates and I turned him down. I just knew he was going to humiliate me in the class. However during the classes he was SUPER NICE to me and every one else. He never said a word about me turning him down for dates. He was a great instructor and he gave me extra help when I needed it. It appeared that he did not remember me. Perhaps because I am now using my married name. I completed the class and got one of the new jobs which paid more than my last job. I have the strong urge to apologize to him for turning him down for dates especially since he was so nice to me in class. All of my friends say don't do it. Let the past be the past . It would just embarrass him. They tell me he probably does not remember me OR if he does remember me he is just too nice of a guy and he does not want to embarrass me. Should I just forget the past and get on with my life and possibly give him a nice gift. ADVICE PLEASE |
| Question: Friend issues please help immediately please? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:10 PM PST Okay so I have a friend in my life who constantly treats me like crap while he treats all his other friends so nicely okay so I last saw him yesterday and I was hanging out with him and my other friend and he was treating me really badly like when I sat next to him he moved to another chair and he wouldn't look at me when i talked to him I mean I've tried so many times to ask this guy "what is wrong" and he says everything is fine but he always seems mad at me and is always insulting me he never did this till a few months ago and I know I've never done anything to this friend of mine and honestly this whole situation is making me depressed and i really need some help with this situation. please help me |
| Question: What do I say if I don't want to hang out? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 01:07 PM PST I am a introvert a little and I have a friend who wants me to come over, however I don't want to and never talk with this person. I think he is good, nothing against him, but I really don't want to. How can I get out of this? I already denied their last invite the other day???? Should I make and excuse?? |
| Question: MY GOD was I wrong ?? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:57 PM PST A friend of mine got 57 years in prison. He won't come out til he's well into his 70's. I chose not to abandon him. I accept his calls, I write letters & I'm generous with money I send him. I've been in his corner since day one. I spoke on details of his trial & case on the phone & he told me not to bcz calls are recorded. I didn't know he meant dont talk about his case AT ALL, I thought he meant just that one issue I spoke on. The other day I spoke on his case again, about something else, & he got mad & didn't wanna talk to me. I said sorry, that I didn't know he meant dont talk about his case AT ALL, I didn't mean to make him mad or make things worse for him but he went on & on about it like he's scolding me. I said I won't ever speak on his case again - he should know by the way & amount of time I've been supportive that I didn't mean it, I think he should've just let it go & not get so mad & then hang up the phone. It's not like I caused him to get EXTRA TIME. Why'd he get so mad?? And how should I handle him the next time he calls me?? |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:56 PM PST im a guy , ive got a really close friend and we were texting all day and everyday last week. soo I noticed Friday and yesterday she was being distant, and giving me one word reply, so I asked her whats wrong. She said "Im spending time with family and trying to be away fron my phone as much as I can, ill message you during the week.".. so im not gonna bother messaging her today.......am I being pushy?? any advice plus she's been on Facebook alot today |
| Question: My friend stole money from my other friend? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:38 PM PST So I had a few people over the other night and the next day my one friend (girl) found out that my othe friend (boy) stole from her. The guy refuses to admit he did but we all know. We don't know what to do as it was a weeks worth of her earnings from work in her pocketbook. She wants to tell people at her school but she snuck out of her house to come over and she would end up getting in trouble with her parents. (We are 18 y/o in high school btw). Any advice is appreciated.please do not write anything like "she shouldn't be sneaking out" this is serous and involves a lot of money. |
| Question: Is it better to have no friends or one bad friend? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:30 PM PST This is for personal opinions to be commented. I'm personally a believer that none is better |
| Question: Someone is stealing my best friend away from me...What do I do? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:12 PM PST I am in a big group of friends theres like 10 of us and I was branching out a few months ago and pretty much brought a new person in our group. And she says everyone in our group has their best friend (which is true) but her and she's now trying to take mine! My best friend and I are always together and when she goes out with other people it bugs me (especially with the stealer) and I know I just have to get over that part but when it's this 1 person it absolutely drives me insane. But I talk to my best friend about it and how I feel and she keeps saying that we will always be best friends and that she is just being nice to her. It's reassuring at the time but later on I tend to believe she's lying. Like she'll go out of her way to go talk to her but she won't for me. The stealer on the other hand is always making sure people know they are together and that she won't leave her side when we are in a group hang out. Also she invites herself to pretty much everything!!! Like my best friends was gonna have just a few of us and she was talking about it to me and then she found out and goes "I'M COMING TOO!" and I mean I can't control everything but I really want to tell my best friend to not invite her because she's gonna steal her but I don't want to look like I need her by my side every second like the stealer but I want her by my side. I just need advice on how to act or respond to her stealing her. Also if they are hanging out is it a bad idea to ask if i could go along? |
| Question: Am I considered an outcast in school if I am not apart of any cliques? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 12:04 PM PST It's not that I don't have any friends, I do. But I am not friends with my friends friends. I just talk to them and that's it. I don't associate myself around other people and keep my circle as small as possible while my friends do have some other friends. |
| Question: I miss my old house.? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:42 AM PST I moved from the house I lived in for my whole life. I'm 12 and I just moved. I only have 1.friend now. I can't even see my bff anymore. She changed so much. I miss my home. She says she's coming for my bday but thats in a month and she's only coming for 2hrs. I see all the kids at my school and they all have their friends and they are so happy together. I don't know anyone except one person and I feel sad when I see all those kids with their best friends and I wish I could be have my group of friends back again. Any tips? Please no mean answers. Thanks guys ☆ |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:36 AM PST I left my phone on the table with my friends. When I came back I saw one of my best friends looking through my messages I asked what they were doing and they kinda just didn't answer. I know friends go through each other's phones as a joke and snapchat/message people as jokes but this wasn't like that. I changed my phone password cause that wasn't the first time they did that. |
| Question: My friend misunderstood what I said and is now ignoring me? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:35 AM PST My friend put me on a group chat with her, her bf, and another guy who likes me and she and her bf ship me with even though i've friend-zoned him 3 times. along with her, my other bff recently got into a relationship and they spend a good 60-70% of their free time with their bfs.my friend keeps messaging her bf on the group cat (really annoyingly-she sent IDK 10 times in a row) and saying stuff like"omg of course you would say that" whenever her bf said something. After saying "hey this is still a group chat" 3+ times, i privately message her and say "can you not".then i say stuff around the lines of "could you please message your bf privately instead of on the group chat?i know you and your boyfriend have something special (a polite lie) but I'm really lonely right now and i would appreciate it if you didn't rub your relationship in my face.i don't have anyone, so it would be really nice if you could flirt with him privately instead of on the group chat" At this point i think im being really reasonable but she says "i can't believe you are being so disrespectful to me and telling me not to have a boyfriend"??? that is not what i said AT ALL.i tell her this and she keeps talking down to me.fine. im bringing the hammer down. I tell her that I've been depressed for the past couple of months and its been rough especially since she and my other friend have been spending less time with me and she ignores it and continues to tell me im a bad friend. She said she didn't appreciate my tone which doesn't make sense because it was a message and i was using lowercase letters. Now she's ignoring me on social media and spamming my insta feed with pics of her other friends from camp and her boyfriend. I've been sick for almost a week now and she hasn't once asked how I am and she lost our snapchat streak. |
| Question: How i stop being jealous of an old friend of mine whos become a famous youtuber? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:30 AM PST |
| Question: Should I tell him the truth or does it not matter anymore? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:18 AM PST My friend met a guy on a dating site and when she arranged to meet up with him at a cafe and I went with her for support. When she saw him through the window she didn't like how he looked and thought he was too old and looked like a rapist and she was gonna stand him up. I thought he was hot so she told me to meet him and pretend to be her. She didnt tell him much about herself online because he pushed to meet to right away within like 5 minutes of talking. So I went in and we got along really well and he was really nice. I told him the name on the website was just a nickname and I told him my real name. We met up a few times after that and slept together. Should I tell him it wasn't really me on the site or does it not matter now? |
| Question: My friend is sleeping over and she needs to wake up? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:10 AM PST My friend was fighting with her family last night and called at like 2 in the morning to see if she could spend the night at my house. We're good friends so I said of yes. We fell asleep around 4 am and I woke up around 10. It's now late afternoon and she still hasn't woken up. I needed to go do stuff today but I can't just leave her at my house. How can I wake her up and get her to leave without being rude. She's a really heavy sleeper. |
| Question: My mom knows everything I say on Instagram DM? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:04 AM PST This is similar to my last question but, my mom always knows everything I say on Instagram dm. Like me and my friends will have an argument on there and she'll know about it. I did a prank the other day on my friends and she knew about the prank. I delete my messages and have my phone on me, so she can't be checking my phone. I've checked her phone and she doesn't have my Instagram account, and my friends don't message her telling her these things. Again, sounds stupid, but what are the other possibilities of how she knows these things? |
| Question: My Life is Horrible? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:04 AM PST Don't tell me that everyone has problems and we have to deal with them. You're not me, and you don't get a say in how I feel. My parents are always yelling at me over nothing. My dad has anger management issues. I'm very unpopular at school. I'm being bullied by someone who I thought was my "best friend", and that's really taking a toll on me. I'm not good at anything. I feel like I'm so worthless all the time. Not even my friends care. They're always ditching me for others. I'm constantly being left out. The teachers make it a point to make fun of me every time I'm in class. I also have another huge issue that I don't really want to talk about on the Internet, but that issue is really taking a toll on me. Like REALLY. I just don't know what to do anymore. Should I even try anymore? The worst thing is I have to keep trying. I want to. But it's just so tiring because I never get the results I want anyways. Idk. Anyone else feel this way |
| Question: How should I tell my best friend I m moving away? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 11:02 AM PST I found out that it s likely I m going to be moving to another state by September.. and my friend is the only person here I m going to really miss, and they re really special to me. So I don t know how I should bring this up to them. it s a big deal too, because I probably wouldn t see them for years at a time after that point, and we ve been close got over four years now. It s not quite written in stone yet, but I don t want to wait too late, in case it does happen. Should I just wait until I m absolutely sure? : I |
| Question: How does my mom know things I've said on messages? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:57 AM PST My mom always knows What I've said on messages when I haven't even told her and it's really annoying me. Like for Instance, me and my friends will have an argument and my mom will know about it when I have said NOTHING about it and I've deleted all conversations with my friends. She also knows when me and my friends are planning to do things and she knows where I'm going. I delete all my messages and everything and don't speak to my mom about it. I know this sounds like a stupid question, but HOW does my mom know all this??? |
| Question: Best Friend issues?? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:54 AM PST Well ok so basically my best friend was dating this girl and like they broke up and my best friend was pretty hurt after a few weeks they broke up,my best friend's ex started dating another dude. i was there to comfort my best friend (we just became best friends over the summer, met in april) but then the thing was we both started developing feelings for each other. we would always flirt and kiss, but then a few weeks after my best friends ex broke up with her boyfriend. so my best friends ex started talking to my best friend again and then guess what? they kissed and the old feelings returned. so basically I had to find out from both of their friends that they got back together and it hurt a lot. so my best friend and i had a talk, basically told me that she still has feelings for me, but things are so stressful now. especially since i would always see them at school, social media, it hurts so bad. my best friend and i have been fighting a hell lot more and i dont know what to do |
| Question: Am I expecting too much from the wrong people,? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:52 AM PST I notice I tend to become very unhappy and frustrated when the people I accept as "friends" don't give me what I want in a friendship. I try not to become upset, but I can't help it and I end the friendship. I don't want to be around them. I'll smile and say hi if I have to see them, but I don't want to be friends. It has happened twice, and now my in-laws are involved. I moved to another state where my husband is from, but his folks haven't provided me with the support and love I need. They give love, but it's different. Theyre not compassionate or nurturing. Plus they're making it seem like I have to change to be like them (which I don't admire them to want to be like them). I don't want to be around them. I don't hate them, but I want to be around different people now. Am I expecting too much from these people? Should I moove on to find new friends and continue to ditch friendships if they aren't satisfying? |
| Question: Should i go to my dads friends house or stay with my dad? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:52 AM PST Ok so i moved to a new place, and the place really really sucks and its terrible. so my dad says i should go back to our old place to his friends house or pastor's house. If i would pick, i would be in friends house cause im more comfortable (which means i go back to my really good old school) my dad will come by every 1 or 2 times a month to see me, and we'll call everyday. but i dont wanna stay here at my new place that i really dont like, but should i stay with the other persons house while being awkward. im going nuts AHHH The people agree with me staying |
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| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:40 AM PST I intentionally did not add punctuation to some parts of the question because of Yahoo's bug of not letting me post it. |
| Question: Got asked to hang out with this guy I don't really know but I can't make conversation? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 10:23 AM PST I spend a lot of time at home because I'm just unable to talk to people. It's not that I'm shy or anything, there's just nothing in my head when I try to talk to someone. People think I am boring and dull because of this and walk the other way when I attempt to make conversation. I never hang out with people because of this. However, today I got asked to hang out by someone (who probably sent a mass-message to a bunch of people), and I'm pretty sure that he's going to think I'm boring or uninterested if I do meet up with him because I have nothing to say. Are there any tips that I can use to fix this problem? I've searched endlessly on the internet for a solution or helpful tips to no avail. |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:47 AM PST I'm a dude in a new-ish school and over the past few months I've met a friend named James. I think he is super cool and he sits with us at lunch. I've been talking to him more lately and he gets me weed when I need it which is cool. But I can't stop thinking about him. I'm bi but I don't like him in that way? But I constantly compare everything I do to him; "James wouldn't play this game.", "James wouldn't be worried about school." "James doesn't eat like this." etc. I understand that some of it could be me wanting to live healthier and be more mature, but what does that have to do with me feeling depressed almost when I think about him? I know this one is kinda dumb but I'm out of ideas on how to deal with it. Could this also have something to do with a lack of motivation and not being sure how to react? Any answer is helpful. |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 09:33 AM PST their designated driver when we are older. I don't want to be the same boring person my parents are (but not drunk all the time either), but everyone keeps putting me in that position. How can I change to make myself be more fun? |
| Question: Are my friends manipulating me, or am I just being paranoid? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:51 AM PST Hello, first off, please pardon my english; it's my fourth language. Anyway, I have known these friends for like a year and half. They have been so nice to me. They would invite me to come along with them to hang out every weekend, but sometimes I'm not comfortable , because I feel like it's my responsibility to do something they want me to do. I am a funny guy, and that's what makes them being entertained by. They would ask me to talk to a random girls and get their numbers. I feel like I am a fool. They just laugh and I pretend to laugh, too, but deep inside I am not in my self. What's the best cure for this? and if possible to stay away from them, I will, but I need a step by step to approach it slowly. |
| Question: How to make friends? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:29 AM PST How to make friends to get rid of loneliness and bore. |
| Question: How to deal with peer pressuring? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 08:19 AM PST So some of my school mates want to peer pressure me to smoke weed, drink alcohol. I don't want to be hated by everyone so does anybody know how could I politely F**k them off? |
| Question: My friend is pushing me away? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:55 AM PST im a 22 year old dude and I have a close friend Cindy, we met 3 years ago. and everything used to be perfect. But for a few months she has been angry and dealing with depression. sometimes I feel like I have to walk on eggshells when I text her. Cause she has been getting angry easily, she tells me "Im running on a thin line with her and she will cut me out of her life. I mean we have amazing conversations, and she has always been there for me. but other days she gets mad Soo easily....she did kick ne out of her life once for 2 months. and is giving me one more chance!!!!! honestly she's kinda pushing me away!! any advice |
| Question: Does a girl saying she has nice feet mean she has a foot fetish? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:43 AM PST She told everyone that if you have ugly feet, don't show them. She then said she has nice feet so it's fine that she shows hers. A guy was also taking pictures of her feet by zooming in on the camera and she didn't really get mad; she just told that she can see him taking the pictures. |
| Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:26 AM PST And when I did I just got into trouble just for helping her out. Why? I was very calm about it when I asked the other students to stop. My friend (with ADHD) and I walked away. But the students making fun followed us. The staff and faculty didn't do ANYTHING. And when I did I just got into trouble just for helping her out. Why? I was very calm about it when I asked the other students to stop. My friend (with ADHD) and I walked away. But the students making fun followed us. The staff and faculty didn't do ANYTHING. I asked the staff to help. They didn't do a thing |
| Question: What do i say to the teacher about being bullied without feeling embarassed and upset? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:15 AM PST I am embarrassed about being bullied and idk what to say to the teacher without Making it sound like a big deal |
| Question: Why does my friend leave me and sell me out when **** hit the fan? Posted: 15 Jan 2017 07:03 AM PST Recently we got into problem with other group at school. Thing got escalated then everyone start selling out each other (Basically being a rat) and everyone leave me and start throwing all the blame to me. I am the one who protect all of them by not giving out anything even though I didn't do ****. What should I do, I mean I am loyal to them but there are no where near loyal to me. |
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