I'm only 19, still in college and I'm majoring in psychology. I love school and I do want a career. However, sometimes I just have this really strong urge to find a guy, get married, have kids, and just stay home and cook, clean and take care of the kids while the guy goes to work. I know it's really weird, and I think most guys would find it to be very odd if I ever told them that, since women are encouraged of have careers and lives of their own now, at least in America. Is this normal?

Please no trolls or immature answers... I just broke up with my man and he is ignoring me :(

Each day that passes I feel more and more distant from my husband. There is no one else but I do not enjoy being around him. First of all, he blames me for everything, even if he drops something. He will say if you won't talking, I wouldn't have dropped it. Any type of physical intimacy is out, I do not have desire for him in that way. He refuses to work or do anything to help me with bills or things needed around house. He gets angry if I ask him to do anything. I asked him to scratch my back and he explodes. When he is around other people, he is wonderful, but at home, it is terrible. I am sinking into a deep depression. I am Christian and divorce is not an option unless he cheats, and I want him to cheat so bad so I can get out. Even with all of this, I am praying for a miracle and that our marriage will work out.

I hope someone is able to help me figure this out! Several years ago in 2005 I got married to a man in Charleston, South Carolina. We were only married for about 6 months and lived in Jacksonville, Florida most of that time. After we broke up I left Jacksonville, but he stayed there. He told me he took care of our annullment (he filed in Jacksonville), and he sent me the paperwork to fill out. I filled it out with a notrary and sent it back to him. He told me the annullment went through, and I have always taken his word for it, even though I have never seen anything in writing. My boyfriend proposed last week, and I realized that I would like to know definitively if this previous marriage was annulled. I don't believe my former husband would lie about this. He wanted to end our marriage just as much as I did. However, we are not in touch anymore and I have no way of asking him. How do I go about finding this information? Someone please help!

I'm not sure. I spend between 200-300 a week on clothes, shoes, etc. I think this is fairly normal, but my husband thinks I have a problem even though I make about $3000 a month at my job. He makes good money, and spends around $600 a month. I don't think this is a problem, I think it's normal. We also have a savings, so it's not like we aren't putting anything back.

I wanted to wait until marriage, but I have had sex with my ex....because I felt like we would marry. We planned to but I ended it bc of a situation he was in. Anyway I have moved on. My bf and I have an emotional,spiritual,and physical connection. We have had been intimate a few times and we love being close, but I felt guilt bc I stay with my traditional elderly parents and coming home to them after intimacy feels weird. Lol we are 26. I'm in the process of moving, but bc of this he doesn't like feeling guilty after intimacy. It's situational though. And he spoke to a married friend of his who scared him bc they hadn't had sex in 1 1/2 and he doesn't want us to be like that if or when we are married. So he feels doubt like we may not last. Where is middle ground with this? Bc we were fine before he talked to that married guy about us. We enjoy every aspect of one another so far.

I am finally leaving my abusive marriage. I have a 6 month old. I am living with family until I get my housing voucher. I will be on food stamps until I get my feet on the ground. I am thinking of changing my phone number as well. He loves our son but I cannot continue in this marriage.

my hubby and I were doing the dirty and when pulled it out of my butt, I had a pink socket of flesh hanging out. This just happened so I have not called any doctor yet mostly cause i am embarrassed and my husband says we can just push it back in...is that true? please get back soon, its drying up and very chapped

I know in my head I made the right decision but man my heart is hurting right now. I was 16 when I meet my ex . Had 2 boys and we split when they were 1 and 2. He got married had another kid..got in legal troubles and went to jail for 7 yrs. He never was apart of the boys lives until this past Nov. We decided to give it a go and right from the start I knew it was wrong ..he had become an acholic and drinks redbull/vodka. All day..he smokes which I hate,dips,extremely negative,hates the holidays and said he didn't want anymore ******* kids after I brought up I may want 1 more.. he is on porale till next year,owes $80,000 in back pay child support, doesn't own car. I seen him 5 times all of which he was drinking and just wanted to listen to depressing country songs and talk about his grandma passing . He works out of state for weeks at a time and I told him if this was going to work I have to hear from him..at first he went days without communicating .. after I threatened to end it he started texting 1 time a day.. mostly a goodmorning. .eventually he would call or text 1 time and 2 at the most. I wouldn't have been upset if I didn't see him log onto facebook throughout the entire day but claim he didn't have time. I tried to end it again due to lack of communication and he begged me not to give up on us. He went 36 hrs after that with nothing at all but logged onto to Facebook atleast 12 times. .he deleted his Facebook so I didn't know when he logged on anymore that night and So I finally ended it and he wanted to say I was throwing him away but I gave him a chance ..I expressed my needs and he didn't follow through. I tried to make him feel loved and special ..I bought him a custom yeti cup for Christmas even though he didn't give me or the kids anything, I gave him money for gas, took him out to eat and just payed his phone,sent him loving quotes and even sexy pics. I am a good woman and I get asked out daily. But I stayed single for 6 yrs just raising my boys..I didn't give any guy a chance and he was the first guy I have dated in 6 yrs...I stay in shape and I am one of the most caring dependable people I know.. everyone was in shock when I took him back... But I loved him and ignored all the guys and family because I wanted him and he just blew it like I was nothing :( how do I stay strong and not text or call him ??

Me and my wife just got married on Friday we're on our honeymoon at Disney World we haven't made love since we got married. I really want to do it but she has her 3 year old daughter here. She's sleeping but I'm worried we might wake her up and scare her. I really want to have it with her tonight. Would it be wrong to do it with a kid in the room ?

My wife says that I should. That he wouldn't mind. But I don't like that guy and he doesn't like me either. He thinks he's better than me.

So I swear to god this is not a troll question even if it sounds like it is I'm telling you, it's not. So last night two guys broke into our house and tied up me and my wife and left us there and what happened next my wife was able to hit 911 on her Iphone and the police sent two cops to come check the house two of them they were both female and we shouted for them to help us and they broke the door and entered one was about 26 year old black female and the other one looked like about a 39 year old white female and me and my wife are both 24 and white and the white policewoman untied my wife but the black policewoman untied me and kept smiling at me and trying to touch my bicep and arm and now my wife is treating me all awkwardly about what happened I don't know what to do because the policewoman was pretty attractive should I dump my wife

I am married, but my husband s association of people are not my cup of tea. They re not bad people, I just would not hang around people like them if I had to choose. I moved when we got married so I m in a new place, but I don t know how to meet individuals who I would feel comfortable hanging out with. I want some people who share the same interests as myself. When I was single, I always met new people and went out of town at least once a month (that s how I met my husnand). I had a good life outside of not having a companion. Now, I ve been stuck at home with my baby while my husband is at work for 12+hrs to support us, which I m grateful for, but I m tired of not being satisfied when it comes to friends. What are some ways I can get out being a mom and a wife?

My wife and I separated in Novemeber of 2016. I was the sole provider for the family all of 2016 even when we weren't living together. We are going through a divorce and she's living with her mom at the moment. I just found out today that a few days ago my wife told her mom to claim her and my step daughter on her taxes. She just stole $4500 from me and now I can't claim them when I do my taxes. What can I do?

I can't even begin to explain why I did this I don't know I was abused as a kid and my husband has never done anything to make me upset. And after a heated argument I said to him I wish I had never married him and I striked him in his face I instantly said sorry and he didn't say anything back He's been avoiding me, sleeping in a different room and hasn't said a word to me for days now and I just feel terrible. Can someone help me? Is a divorce imminent?

Help!!!Please help,I've been married for a 1 year & half yesterday my husband was having trouble figuring out the music tower blue tooth he bought for Christmas he got so made that he hit one of lamps off the table and broke it ! I'm upset with him and how much anger came out is this normal? Or did I over react? Thanks

What would you do? If your husband got a secret Po box to buy dirty under pants from women to sniff? Apparently on this website you can tell women to wear under pants a day and it's 20 or 30$ or 2 to 3 day 40 to 50$ and the price goes up the more days they wear them then they send them to you. I don't think it's cheating but it is highly disrespectful. And if you have to hide any from your wife you probably shouldn't be doing it.

I hate my husband. I loved him for the 6yrs we dated, the 3yrs we were married before kids. Then we had kids an he turned completely selfish. We had sick preemies, one requiring a lot of surgeries. In the middle of one bad week for that baby he was more focused on going to a motorcycle weekend with the guys. He up and left on the day of surgery telling me "you got this" He hates everything about our kids and gets mad at me when I have to work and he has to be with them. He even told one of the kids he was going to grow up to be an asshole and murderer (child has high functioning autism, couldn't hurt a fly though). Last night 2 of our kids had an argument and I asked my husband to go talk one chuild since he was mad at me but football was on and he refused. My latest issue is our tax return. I work 2 jobs, about 50hrs a week and its physically demanding on me. I'm contributing to taxes yet I get nothing back. It all goes into his account and I get nothing. He refuses a joint account. He switched tax lawyers and I don't know the name or phone to call him and tell him not to submit unless the money goes to both accounts. (I met the man once years ago when we switched and submitted electronics signature, never thought this would happen so I don't have any info and husband hides the info). I can't afford a divorce, can't afford to support 4 kids on my own, there's no apartments or low income housing where I live. The kids are in a top school district and I don't want to leave

At our NewYears Eve party I got pretty tipsy and when my husbands boss starting kissing me I did not resist but laughed it off. Later he found me in the pool house and did it again. This time it got carried away and, well let's just say I'm on the pill so I don't have to worry about that. He has not told my husband and has said nothing about it to me since. I'm conflicted. I've always been honest with my husband but don't want to tell him what happened. I'd like to know what others would do.

Is it his fault or is she just looking for some extra fun ? So far im seeing two married women but i feel im being used. They dont make time for me, its just when he is gone that they will be with me. Both women say that their husbands are evil morons but do nothing to get away from them. I told both ladies that im looking for a woman that can be mine..not just on and off when she got time for me. At that point they plead me saying howmuch i mean to them etc but at the end they got a life n kids..and i dont. Should i move on ? Advice ?

A few days ago I started watching a new series in Netflix. I had told my husband several times that I was interested in watching it when it came out. However, he always seemed very disinterested in it in fact his only interest was to criticize it. So when the series came out I watched on my own. ( The season only had like 8 episodes so I finished it in a couple of days). Anyways, Two days after the series my husband came home and turned it on and said he wanted to watch it with me. I told him that I has already watched it but I would love to watch again with him. When I told him I had already watched it he freaked out at me for watching it with out him. I mean he legitimately threw a temper tantrum and said that I don t care about him. I guess he had been waiting to watch it with me. I genuinely had no clue that he was interested in it. Just don t understand why he was so upset about it. I was more than happy to watch it again. I wouldn t have cared if he watched something with out me. I guess I just don t understand what the big deal is or why he is so sensitive about stuff like this. Is there anyone out there who can explain this to me?

I have been married for 7 years, we had small fights but nothing major. Three months ago my wife determined that she wanted divorce until she got it 2 weeks ago. Directly after divorce I found out that she already loves someone. She admitted that she met him after requesting divorce. I wish I can believe this but it is hard to believe her talk, after 7 years together it took her only few days to meet and love someone? I am still in shock of her decision, I am still having nightmares and sometimes dreams that we are back together. I want to move on but I just miss the details of my old life.

Im really curious. Is it true people fall in love, marry and live happily ever after or is it continous fights? Please tell lol

What does this mean? She feels like I just see her as practice to other females? I had no desire for them.

Wondered what she meant? Was I cheap to her? She said I was so cheap to you. She was from Girl's Gone Wild. She thought I was different. I restored her back in Love she thought I was different. She always thought I was different. Her type is she is the hungry type. She always thought I was different. She sometimes follows me with that hunger wondering why I am different. She has a seductive body and I am ugly. I am good speaker though. We are really close. What does it mean when a says You made me feel so cheap to you.

My son often texts or calls me saying his dad has been drinking and "sounds weird" and that he s making him uncomfortable at the least; at the worst he and his sister don t have food and have no way to get it for themselves since they are young. I want to call him out on it and make it stop, but I don t want my ex to take it out on our son. I don t want my son to be guilted by my ex for "ratting him out" even though he should be spending time with the kids, not drinking. How do I handle this situation without involving my son?

We love dateline. But when the crime is one spouse getting the other we have a hard time falling asleep next to each other. We usually move farther apart in the bed. Any help here?

My husband is in love with one of his best friends from high school. He told me he has feelings for her and don t trust himself around her. Then I found out they have been talking on fb and Snapchat and on a dating site. They even made plans for the future together and he told her the only reason he s with me is because of the baby we just had. And she said she don t mine being a step mother and he said he wants her to be a step mother to our son. After I confronted him about it he says I m with you right so shut up and get over it. I just can t help but think about it or wonder if one day he might pick up and leave me for this girl. Im so hurt about the whole situation because I m being faithful and true to him but he s not doing the same.

My husband is from Sweden. Or rather he is from Bosnia but he grew up in Sweden. I'm an Aussie and we both now live in Melbourne where we have lived for 2 years as a married couple. We met like 4 years ago on a backpacking trip in Southeast Asia. 6 months ago we went to visit his family. Since then he's been talking about going back home. It started with his dad having a back surgery. Then his mom from nowhere got depressed because she missed him, then his parents said that his little brother needs him and that he is getting involved with the wrong people. The last 6 months there has just been one problem after the other with them. And these are not poor people. His father is an engineer and has his own business. His mother is a manager and has like 40 people under her. So they're not starving. And I don't know what they mean when they that his brother is in trouble. His brother lives in central Stockholm in a studio apartment and goes to the best college in Sweden if not the whole of Scandinavia. They are upper middle class people. They have it better than my family. But being Bosnian family is very important and I guess they feel their family is not complete without their oldest son. But they are guilt tripping him. He's wanted to discuss a few times about moving to Sweden. Before we went to visit 6 months ago we had it good. He was happy with his job, we were planning to buy a house but now everything stopped, because of them. What do I do?