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So my childrens father is currently living with a women and her two kids after 3 months of dating however they have been together for a total of 6. Well I just found this out late last week after he stopped by to visit his kids. The following morning I woke up to him revealing that the names my kids were mentioning was his girlfriends kids. So I asked him when he took my kids without me knowing out of the state was the women with them...he said yes. And when I asked him when my daughter came back with a different hairstyle then what I sent her over to his house with did that women do my daughter s hair...he said yes. Also I was under the impression that he still was living/roommating with his cousin but apparently he moved out and is now living with this woman and her kids. Also he is not consistent on child support payments and thought it would be good idea to drop off second hand winter clothes from his girlfriends kids when he was returning some of their summer clothes to me rather then getting new ones or just giving me the money. Also he has bought a new car knowing Im a single parent mother of his children and i am trying to go to work and school all at the same time to make a better life for my kids...

I am an investment banker and work for 60-80 hours per week. I have a couple of time taking hobbies like playing the violin, traveling, photography, painting etc. I sometimes long for a girlfriend and a baby. Is it advisable to marry if you have very little time to spend for your wife?

I will be attending university next year and I intend to find my life partner/wife there. Is it wrong? I just don't know how. How to manage coursework and at the same time date and marry someone you fall for

My husband's ex-wife is using our home address and phone number as hers for credit cards. We have debit collectors calling all the time for her. She has had bills sent to our address addressed to her. Several months ago someone had called looking for her and the lady stated that our address and phone number was given to them by her. Friday we had another credit company call looking for her. I made it very clear that the next time that she did it I would press charges. she knows that my husband will not stand up to her. i contacted the police department and they said that they would call me back well they haven't I can't get a hold of the officer what should I do next?

I recently made a divorce prank by setting up fake divorce papers in our home and started fighting with her on our differences. She became so heartbroken and started crying a lot. I could not control her and she didn't believe me that it was a prank. She started saying that there is no reason for her to live anymore and that I don't even have any respect for the promises that I made. She went to her mom's house and hasn't turned back. What do I do

My work colleague brought her brother to a a company holiday party. I really liked him and during the party, we talked briefly about general stuff. After the party, he sent me a message on a social media site and said that it was lovely meeting me. Anyhow, I responded immediately. After a week of non-communication, I got in touch with him to say hello via message. He responded and told me a little bit about what he was doing recently. that was 3 days ago and we haven t talked. so...i always make myself online but he doesn t contact me. I m hoping for more conversation and potentially a date, but I don t know why he is so slow. Should I give him space and time to get in touch or should I take the first step. I keep checking messages every second, I am online even when I"m not supposed to. HELP I saw his picture and profile on a dating website, which obviously means he is single and looking. I can't ask my coworker because I am not close to her and it is awkward for me. I saw his picture and profile on a dating website, which obviously means he is single and looking. I can't ask my coworker because I am not close to her and it is awkward for me. I saw his picture and profile on a dating website, which obviously means he is single and looking. I can't ask my coworker because I am not close to her and it is awkward for me.

A few month ago I thought I was pregnant i was 8 days late but then I got my period and that was that, he said that he would be ok with having a child but now he has lost his job, and I'm the only one working. He has three daughters with is ex, and I think he is satisfied with that but I would really like to have my own child(btw I love my step kids they are amazing kids) how do I ask if we can start trying to have without causing him to have a heart attack or something?

I am graduating this may with my masters degree and a job with nytimes. He is still doing the same job he's been doing for the last 4 years, valet parking.

This question is regarding what a woman is to do if her husband dies. NOT vice versa

She has no idea that I can hear her say that or, "I'm going to kill 17 people in 2 years." I hear her say these things so quietly especially when she's sleeping. Is it like a nervous tick or something or what? It does not fit her personality at all.

I am 74 and my wife is 69. We celebrated our 52 wedding anniversary a month ago. We both agreed to a divorce. The woman is mean and angry. Any advice on this issue?? I am 74 and my wife is 69. We celebrated our 52 wedding anniversary a month ago. We both agreed to a divorce. The woman is mean and angry. Any advice on divorce?

I have an extremely stressful job and two small children. My hubby gave me a lot of grief for bringing my laptop home or working late etc. I slowed up and missed a promotion at work and even felt in danger for my job (others working longer getting stuff done faster). I make triple his salary and pay virtually all the bills. I try to spend time with him whenever I can, but even after we put the kids to bed he is on the computer looking at youtube or whatever. Maybe we go to movies once a month. I also get up everynight to take care of the baby. Have been doing that for 10 months while he sleeps.... Last night I had to work til 9PM to finish project and still took care of baby overnight. This morning he is acting frustrated and grumpy. Asking why didn't I put this or that away last night. I snapped saying I guess I forgot because I was tired. He starts yelling and telling me by the way if you work til 10PM you had better not expect other to help you with the kids in the morning - its a trade off and I (he) had to change the baby's clothes! He was pissed that while i was getting ready for work, i "let" him change the baby since I guess I got to have so much "fun" the night before working late. Alternatively - twice a week he plays Basketball from 7-10PM and i'm alone with the kids and don't react like this. He said thats because "its your job" you are their mother. They are our biological children and I spend way more time with them than he ever does..... I feel like I'm getting no moral support and I work hard at my job and at home..... We are in our late 30s and i'm getting depressed. I think - sorry you had to work late babe - would be nice. Instead he is bent out of shape that he had to watch the kids alone (oh --his parents visited til the kids went to sleep--so he had help).

My girlfriend told me an old guy friend who liked her in high school was coming over to her house to do some yard work and pick up some trash. I asked her if he was married and she said yes but turns out he's not. He's divorced and its very obvious on his facebook page he's single. I also recall her talking about him a long time ago going through his divorce. Why would she lie about this?

My boyfriends parents paid and booked a trip for him last month to go see some old friends out of state. He did not invite me initially(partially because he thought I would have to work and couldn't get the time off, also partially because at the time it was booked we hadn't been spending a lot of time together and we were off and on). He now said he wants me to go on the trip with him as I am off work (it is next week) however flights are a lot more expensive now and he didn't offer to help pay for the cost of my ticket. He also was wishy washy about inviting me before now. Should I go on the trip or just have him take it solo without me?

a girl i just met is married under a contract and wont tell me any details

I'm writing a book in which my characters marry, one poor, one rich. The rich one dies after having the poor one sign a prenup. My question is, if a prenup is signed, what happens to the money? The rich one has no family aside from the new spouse. Does this mean the spouse will get the money, or does the state take over the finances, because in order for me to continue the story, I need to know if she gets the money, or loses it all.

I spent 7 years with my ex and had 2 daughters age 4 and 6. We got recently divorced after her wish. I communicate with her on daily basis to check on the kids. Sometimes I ask her how she is doing and she replies. I once confessed that I still miss her and think about her and then she got annoyed of this talk. I need to know what kind of talk we can communicate other than the talk related to the kids. Is it ok to send her sms good night before I go to sleep? Is it ok to ask how her day went? The whole divorce thing came as a shock to me and till now I still convince myself that it is just a bad dream that I didn't wake from. Any advice? Note that my ex is already talking with someone so its clear that she moved really quickly.

I was in an abusive marriage. I ended up diagnosed with ptsd and severe anxiety. Relationships before that didn't go well but weren't that bad. But after my marriage and my verbally abusive, narcissistic mother in law, I hated the idea of getting close to people. I'm terrified of marriage because I'm afraid the same thing will happen. They play it off like they're great people, then when you're married and no one is around, they physically, mentally, and sexually abuse you. I am also not the most affectionate person, so I hate cuddling. I like being single because I can like the stuff I do and not have to worry about bothering others. You can go where you like, watch what movies you like and spend more time with you're dog. But, even though I'm 24, I getting nagged at by my mom and brother so much that people are supposed to be in relationships. That I'm overreacting. I think my mom just wants grandkids so bad, but I'm not really a kid person. Knowing her, she'll control how I dress them and raise them. But anyway, is it really that bad?

I've been wishy washy about marriage for a long time. I just don't know if it's something I really want. I am in love with my dream guy, and I do want to marry him someday, but I still don't know how I feel about marriage itself. Something about it just is so overwhelming, I can't even consider it. How can I decide if I want marriage or not? Are there like techniques? I'm 21, not 12. I am ready for marriage, though. You don't know me or my story. So shut the hell up. I don't want children, that's not the purpose of marriage anyways. Oh I'm so sorry... just noticed the typo. I meant I am 29. Stupid phone.

Why is it that women seem to always blame the man when they cheat. People seem to accept this, yet there is nothing a woman can do that justifies a man cheating. I personally believe EVERYONE should be held accountable for their actions. I ask this because I heard some co-working talking about another co-worker who had cheated on her husband. The husband in their minds was to blame for her cheating. I asked the group of loose lipped trouble making women what if it was the man, would he be justified in cheating. They then totally changed the rules. "You can't make your husband cheat" I asked well how did he make her cheat? Because he wasn't fulfilling her needs. It was like talking to a couple brain dead monkeys. This logic goes far past those four morons, it seems it common. I don't get it.

In my country we have a serious problem of unemployment, plus a majority of jobs paid with the minimum wage or under it. I happened to study a niche major at the university (well paid in another countries and before the economical crisis) which now pays very low (110-330 euros a month for full-time, without taxes because they don't make contracts) and you get the job only if you're one of the best in the field. For the moment I am seeking for a job in many other fields; but nowadays all jobs are linked to the economy and IT fields; as if everybody should study only those. My fiancee told me "nobody is ever going to give you a penny", so I have to take a job, even though I don't like it and/or it is indecently low paid and exploiting. With his studies he gains 330-500 euros for a month in his hand, for an almost part-time program. So he's planned to never help me with any money, even though he has stayed in my house for eight years; instead he supports with money the two kids of his brother on a monthly base; those spoiled brats have a lot more than any kid would ever need, but their parents always spend all of their money in order to spoil them as much as possible.

If the husband is to monetarily provide her with all the comforts, then he has to work hard leaving him little time to spend with her. Women choose guys with money anyway and expect them to take them out for shopping, movies etc. How can guys provide money and attention at the same time unless he is born rich.

My ex and i went through a uncontested divorce. We have a separation agreement. In there in states that i get half of his TSP (his 401K) amount with added interest as of september 16th 2014. We have sent all the paperwork to TSP and unfortunately we need to word it differently. We need to state a specific amount. Do we now change the agreement by doing an addendum and filing that with the court so the judge can sign off? How does the addendum work? Do we just type up the change pertaining to that original paragraph? Thanks in advanve

about pursuing contempt charges and they told us since we live in OH and she now does that we need to move jurisdiction. My question is, does she have to agree to the motion to transfer and will the amount be the same or will OH lower it? pursuing contempt charges and they told us since we live in OH and she now does that we need to move jurisdiction. My question is, does she have to agree to the motion to transfer and will the amount be the same or will OH lower it?

This is going to be really long so I'm sorry. I dated my husband since 16 he's 9 years older then me. He cheated on me while we dated and did some pretty bad things. I forgave him but when I was 19 we called it off. We got back together after about a year in a half. He had changed was going to church we are LDS. We got married when I was 21 and have been for five years. I'm going to try and keep this short. He got sick and was in a wheelchaire for some time. So I've had to work and we had a baby girl who is almost going to be five. But since he couldn't work we had to live in my mom's basement. He has a sex and porn addiction that I have tried to help him with. While living at my mom's house he did look at porn and lie a lot about it. He would expose himself to my mom pretending he was unaware it was out. Fast forward two years when my daughter was two we moved in with his family. He created a fake Facebook account and contacted random girls but also my sister and a friend of mine. He sent the random girls pictures of his penis. Not my sister but did sext her. I decided to separate from him. But told him I wanted to fix it. He had to take his fake profile down and never get on it. He ends up cheating on me with a girl they didn't have sex just oral and tried anal. I also tested him which I know is wrong but I did it. And I had a friend text and flirt with him and he took the bate and texted her and sent pictures and asked for pictures back. And asked to even meet up. And all this time he had till gotten on his fake profile messaging girls. So I of course forgive him and tell him this is his last chance. He actually stopped. For a year everything was great. We just had a son in August and got our first house. He messes up again. He went by my mom's to pick up sometimes and exposes himself. He admits to me he has been looking at porn and on his way home he would exit and drive up a canyon to masturbate to it. He also went on Craigslist to message someone and sends pictures. I tell him I'm done if you lie or mess up again. So it's been three months since then. I go in our bedroom and he hurrys to put his phone down. I ask him what he's doing and he lies and I so no really. He lies one more time. And I'm like no what were you doing. He finally admits it. Now fast forward a couple days I'm visiting my mom and she says look at this funny text I got. It was sexual at all but I knew it was my husband messing with her. I confronted him and it took him a bit to admit but said he text my mom and my friend. Says it was only a joke. He used an app that will let you have multiple numbers. So now I feel like I'm at my wit's end and that he is never going to stop. It's obvious I love him or I would have left a long time ago. And I get so mad at myself cause I think k other women would have left long ago so why cant. And I feel so heartbroken cause all the chances and forgivenes I have give him seems like he doesn't care at all. We now have two kids together too and just moved into our first home. I just don't know what to do? Of course I'm thinking divorce but I don't know if I can . Or I think he has been trying hard to change. I should expect some mistakes along the way? I don't know. I know how ridiculous i am for have left him before. Love and trying to keep my family together is all the reason i can give Help!? Yes, I know how pathetic I am thank you all.

I support my wife and she bust her butt at work. Recently she said to me its crazy that me and you make close to the same money with your degree. She has a bachelors and I have a masters. Ever since then I felt threatened as I only make a tiny bit more than her. Having a family I want us to do the best we can. However since that comment I now feel competitive. I don't want to feel this way. Thoughts?

Hi all. Thank you in advance for taking the time to give me your input. So here go's. My husband is 28 and has been working full time for 6 years at a job he hates. He is in sales and always does really well and makes a good living to support our family of four. Every time there's an open management position he apples and gets passed up. He's convinced it's because the managers choose their "buddies" to fill positions. For as long as I've been with my husband his dream is to become a science teacher. He has currently been in collage part time pursuing his degree. He goes to school two times a weeks and takes two classes and has 4.0 grade point average. When he's home his noes is always in his books. He always says at that rate it will take him years to finish collage. He always says" I wish I could just quit my job And go to school full time" Well now that there is another management position open at his job he's thinking of quitting his job if he gets turned down. He asked his mother if our family of four can move into her 3 bedroom house. My crazy mother in law practically said yes. His "plan" is for our family to live off my work salary. Which is only 25,000 a year. I would be working full time. Without having to pay rent our monthly expenses are about 1700. I bring home a little less then that and told him money would be extremely tight. He suggested we get "financial assistance" for food and stuff. Right when he told me his idea I just wanted to cry and crawl into a hole. We have two little girls one is 2 and a half and my other one is 2 weeks old. I feel like we're pretty content financially right now and I am very happy where we are in life. He on the other hand says I a being selfish because ( I am perfectly happy with things the way there are now and would absolutely live my left exactly the way it is today) he said he has this dream and is not happy going to work everyday just to bring home a paycheck. So we probably would be able to swing it financially he would try and get financial aid for collage and we would be living rent free. I don't want to hold him back from doing this, should I just stand by him and make this move? Or should I fight for him to find a better option. I don't know what to do. If we do this his mother is going to drive me nuts. She's always trying to micromanage how I care for my kids. They live is a mess of a house and I am a neat freak. We will be cramped into two very small rooms. Am I being a baby about all this?

They are currently in a trial separation says November but spend the holidays together for the kids. He is not a bad person but he does have a bad temper however he's never physically laid his hands on her.

When we first married she was not like this at all. We went out, we stayed in, either way we had fun. Now, all she ever does 24/7 is sit on the couch looking at her Facebook "feed" constantly. She has no suggestions, no input, and doesn't care about anything. Her favorite phrases are "it doesn't matter", "whatever you think", and "I don't feel like it". She won't help around the house, or give any dinner suggestions. When we first married she was not like this. She was interesting, spontaneous, helpful, and just fun to be around. We used to go to the movies, try new things we'd never done, play video games together, try to learn how to cook things at home, work on projects around the house, and actually have interesting conversations. Now all she does is sit there look at Facebook and brushes off everything with "I dunno", "whatever you think", and "I'm tired". I am not the one who changed, it is her. I don't know whether to blame Facebook or what. When we first married, Facebook wasn't yet a big thing and she didn't have a phone that she could bury her face into 24/7. I think Facebook is so damn boring, I don't see how people look at it so much. I never use it, it just makes you into a mindless drone as it tells you what to read or watch. If there is something I want to know about, I'll go look it up. I don't know what to do, things have gotten so dull at home. I know all marriage get stale, but this is beyond what I was expecting to settle for. What can I do?

I am an investment banker with a heavy work life. I spend almost 60-70 hours per week and have a wide range of hobbies like playing the violin, photography etc. My wife thinks that I am never there for her when she needs me. I understand that but I earn a lot and can possibly provide a comfortable life for her and the baby (when we have one). I've told her that but she says that she feels very lonely and that I am always busy. Almost all jobs in the banking industry or IT will eat your time and if it does not, you will probably end up getting a bare minimum in salary. She says that she loves me but wants a divorce. I told her not to take such a decision and she says that she wants to spend more time with me. We've been married for a year now

My husband and I were discussing something last night and I got mad over something, can't remember what it was, but I made the point to him that he never took the time to get to know me. I told him that he doesn't even know my favorite color. His reply was that after 15 years of being together if this is what you want to get mad about, your favorite color, then you have bigger issues. I typically wear every color and I guess I don't have one predominate color in my closet but I find it strange that he didn't know some of the little things about me. I googled an article and it gave a list of things to ask how well your know your mate (moreso a husband to a wife). 1. Her clothes size. 2. Her bra size. 3. Her natural hair color. 4. Her eye color. 5. Her date of birth. 6. Her shoe size. 7. Her favorite perfume. 8. Her job title. 9. Her best friend's name. 10. Her favorite food. Can your man answer these questions about you? Again, my husband feels that he has no concern to know her bra, shoe, or clothing size. He says that I wear multiple perfumes and they all smell the same to him. I just think that he's not taken the time to get to know me but he feels that after 15 years of being together who cares about these things really? Am I wrong? How well do you know your spouse / mate?

happened to me and I pretended I dont know the guy and luckily he didn't say anything. if you are a guy would you like to know or not?

I'm 29 she is 30 and we love each other so much but recently I have a girl best friend we used To date in school and she sent a text to my phone saying last night was great just to **** with me problem is my wife saw it and she thinks I cheated I would never cheat on her how can I prove that I didn't

I'm 28 and he is 30 and I love him so much we also have 1 child wich is 4 and we love her so much. But last week I took our daughter to see my sister for a few days that lives pretty far from us and we do this once every two months and we have a good time but this time when I got back my husband was at work I went up stairs to change and I find g string panties in our bed I only wear lace panties and the top part of a condom packet now I barley eat I asked him who these belonged two and he said me and he got nervous when I said it i know they don't belong to me how can I prove it I also feel like I want to die at the moment why would he do it I give him enough sex he said himself so why I adore him why can't that be enough

The bachelor followed the advice, saying that 'anything is better than suicide', and sought out a compatible Christian lady who happened to be a colleague sitting nearby. She agreed to marry him on condition that he sincerely 'make an effort' to respect her lifestyle and that he try to reach out to God to guide him to faith. That was six years ago. They now have two lovely children. The thing is, he is still an atheist, and she is still a staunch Christian. "I did make a sincere effort" he stated, "but it just didn't take root. I just don't believe in it (Christianity), but I love my wife and children, and am very happy with my life today." "He's a good man despite his atheism!" interjected his attractive wife. "I guess it's not for us to dictate someone else's faith",she added wisely. We leave this 'happy' couple now, and return to the nagging philosophical and theological questions that develop from this story. Question 1. Has the atheist, in real terms, 'been saved'? Remember, he was on the verge of extreme self harm, now he's alive and happy. Isn't that being 'saved' in some respect? Question 2. Has the Christian sister failed God? Didn't she set out with good intent? Was it her fault her husband did not grow in faith? Question 3.They have two children, and the father agrees they be raised as Christians. Isn't it a good result in that where once there was one christian, and now there are three? With the possibility that through some small miracle, there might be 4?