Family: Question: Okay my mom has high anger issues and yells at me for nothing and I need help.?

Question: Okay my mom has high anger issues and yells at me for nothing and I need help.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 02:04 PM PST

She is fat and always says we will go on diet and then never do, she can never do anything herself like I will be playing Xbox and she constantly calls me up to get her something when it's right next to her. Like the remote will drop next to her but then she would call me up to come upstairs and grab it for her. And if I get a B in a class or on a test she gets mad and grounds me. And i got something black marker looking material on my caches but have no clue how it got there and she just grounded me for it. and all my friends hate coming over because of her. She is very strict, I can't ever sleep over somewhere bc I always have to come home. And one time she stayed home and my dog gets fed at 6. And if I don't feed him at 6 or like 6:30 she gets mad. But one night I come home at midnight and she never fed he dog? It feels as if I have to help her with every single thing like she is 32 years old and isn't obese or anything but she is a solid 250 pounds. And she is making my life bad and i know I don't want to be like her when I grow up to be a father. She is very bipolar and if I prove her wrong she still gets mad and all the points she brings up she has nothing to back it up and it seems like she just wants to yell at me for something every day. So far it has been 82 days in a row she has yelled at me for something and it's not an over exaggeration. Someone please help and tell me what to do

Question: How would you handle family like this?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 02:02 PM PST

my family has been abusive to me for a long time. My brother is a jerk and so is his wife or in laws. I'm a single female..not married and they are married. When they come to my city they NEVER come to my house- its a controlled situation where they only come for like an hour if they do or less and try to leave. They came for 3 days- my brother and his wife. They stayed in a hotel- I went to dinner with them twice. The last day they came to my place- literally they came and only stayed for an hour- they left early and in a rush. The way they left was just really rude too- I was holding their baby and the wife just grabbed him from me and then left.. Also if she gives me the baby- she's constantly hovering over me- they gave the baby to an older male friend and let him take him back in a kitchen and play with him on his own. With me- im the aunt and they monitor me and treat me oddly. To me it's disgusting and shocking. I try to avoid them really but the way she wouldn't let me peacefully just hold the baby pissed me off....they let non family members take the baby in a back kitchen and play with it...they are jreks

Question: My aunt is nicer to her nieces and nephews than one of her two kids is this normal?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 01:11 PM PST

She disowned her daughter but is nice to the nephew whose a drug addict.

Question: Should I feel guilty that I've never met my grandfather's cousin Paul?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 01:10 PM PST

I've heard people talk about them and say how nice he is but I've never met him.

Question: My mother has a love-hate personality. How do I not let this affect me?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 01:09 PM PST

For example she loves two of her siblings and hates to other siblings and there's nothing in the middle. I get in trouble if I don't go with her to see the two good ones and I get in trouble if I do go see the bad ones. I'm instructed to love who she loves and hate her she hates. I'm a young adult now so I refuse to abide by that but how do I not let it affect me as it causes me anxiety?

Question: How do I get out of this situation with my family? (more details below)?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 01:09 PM PST

my family has just gone through something hard for us. there was 6 in our house and now 4. nobody worked except for me and my mom. my mom lost her job before everyone left & now I got two jobs to help out. but doing so it seems everything has fallen on my to do. so now I work 30-40 hours at both jobs. it s getting to where I pay the majority of the bills and have. o money left for anything really. all of my savings ($1500) is gone from before I got another job to help out. I feel like I m not accomplishing anything and busting my *** for my mom and siblings to lay down all day and mope around. I want and need to get out of this situation. I only did it to help but not to put my life on hold. what should I do?

Question: What makes teenagers like my sister and brother so selfish?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 12:36 PM PST

Question: Why do little girls find the need to scream all the time when they are playing?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 12:29 PM PST

Is it just lack of control on the part of the parents or is it a natural quirk within the girls

Question: In love with my first cousin.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 12:16 PM PST

I can t stop thinking about my first cousin.. We grew up together and were only 2 months apart (I m 21). As much as I remember, I would always go to her house on the weekends because my dad would always take me to her house to play since we got along and we would play around as kids. We stop talking to each other around the age of 8 since my mom and dad got divorced and she was part of my dad s side. My mom and I came to the states and left everything behind. I moved on and to a certain point I even forgot I had a cousin since it s been years since I ve spoken with my dad s side of the family.. Lots of things happed throughout the years (my mom passed away, I moved from multiple places) I only had about 2 serious relationships, but ended when they cheated on me. Recently I was browsing through Facebook and I bumped into my cousins profile. At first I couldn t even recognized her on how much she changed and how pretty she gotten. I send her a request and we started chatting, we started to face time and when I heard her voice and got a clear look at her face, I was hooked. As we started talking there was a connection between us... I made plans to go visit them soon. I know its wrongful conduct plus I know her mom (my aunt) would truly be disappointed if anything would happen between us. Idk if she likes me or not, maybe she s being really friendly or maybe not.. I just need some help in this matter..sorry for the long post

Question: How do I tell my parents I wanna move in with my boyfriends family?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 12:14 PM PST

Hi guys, I am 19 years old and I am a freshman in college. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and we have always talked about moving in w/eachother and this year we want to make that a reality. His parents have told me that they are completely fine with me living with them. They say this because my parents are very overprotective. They will not let me stay for a longer period of time at school because they thing "Im getting into trouble". I have never done anything to make them think that I am untrustworthy. My parents are very skeptical about everything I do and I never have done anything bad. I am VERY honest with them all the time and let them know what is happening. As it goes for moving in I think that this would be beneficial for me because at my bf house his parents are more understanding about how long homework takes and how busy school can get. I don't think it would only be beneficial for my relationship but also for my own well being. At home I am very much under stress under my parents reign. As for financially, I pay for my own car insurance, I own my own car, I pay for my own health insurance and my own phone bill. I believe that I have taken maturity in these financial aspects. Please let me know how I can let them know that I want to move in with my boyfriend. Also, I understand that the reason they won't want me to move in is that they will be worried that I will get pregnant and quite school but I am actively on birth control and do not want a baby.

Question: Should i move to my grandma's houses u til i go to college ?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 12:05 PM PST

Alright so my stepdad has a quick temper he gets very mad quickly and ever since i was in 7th grade he treated me like pure **** he always says he trys to make me a responsible person but he always is mean to me like if something in the house breaks the first person he blames it on is me and he calls me a liar so he basically accuses me over stuff i dont do. I tell my mom but my mom always says hes the one thats right. Or if something is not done his way he will get mad and go in my room and throw my tv off the stand. I have other siblings he doesnt treat them this way only me. My other brothers have cars and my dad said when im 16 hes not getting me **** cause he was like im so dumb. Its not like im doing anything bad or wrong he just acts this way towards me. My mom isnt any good cause all she says is he is right and he does everything right. When im 16 my uncle is buying my car. Should i move to my grandma house ? Theres a extra room no body lives in and my grandma said if i have to live with her thats fine but its just that im not sure if i want to leave. I think if i leave it will be the best way to get my life together. Its just that i cant live with my mom and dad anymore its too stressing. So im asking what do you guys think. Should i move or stay and why ?

Question: Should I take my brother to this Sporting event even though I don't think he deserves it. Help please!?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 11:47 AM PST

So I am 18 and he is 14 (if it matters). Anyways I bought tickets for this sporting event today and I am not sure if I should take my bro or not. I don't think he deserves it. He treats me like **** and never appreciates what I buy him. He always wanted to go to this event but I am having second thoughts about it and instead take another person. But I am afraid that if I don't take him, he would hate me or destroy my things or do something else. But if I take him, he probably would obviously treat me the same after anyways. What should I do about this? I don't think he deserves it but I also don't want him hate me more for this.

Question: Can you join the military if you've been to a mental institution?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 11:44 AM PST

Long story short, when I was 13, I lived with my dad's girlfriend that he found off of craigslist. This didn't go so well as I one day yelled at this pos in the car b/c she was talking very rude to me. She threatened to call the cops, and I grabbed the phone from her while she was driving, and gave it back to her telling her not to call the cops. Of course she called them, and I ended up going to the hospital where they said that I was both "homicidal" and "suicidal." There's was also a scratch on her that I must have left when I tried to grab the phone. Previously, there was also an incident when I was 13 where I went to the hospital for 2 days because I threw my computer at my dad, but didn't hit him, since I found out he was moving the same woman into the house.

Question: Why were my grandparents more like siblings?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 11:38 AM PST

They had more a brother & sister relationship attitude than like a married couple. I never saw them kissing each other or holding hands in public they were never affectionate in public nobody ever saw them being intimate even my mom who's their daughter said she never saw them close together like a couple they were more like brother and sister but they still loved each other, never fighted and were never divorced they stayed married till their death. You never had that feeling that they were a couple they were more like siblings but you could see they loved each other just not affectionate. Why is that actually?

Question: Do I owe my mother in law a nice dinner?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 11:12 AM PST

My wife and I were at her mother's (Judy) house. Her mother had lost a lot of weight and had bought a new wardrobe. She wanted to try it on for me and tell her how she looked in it. After she had shown me several outfits, she ask me how she looked. I told her the truth. She looked great and had a great figure now. She wanted to know if she could find guys that would want to date her. Again I told her the truth. She would have NO trouble finding guys that would want to date a beautiful woman with a great figure. She said "I have not dated in over 10 years". "Do guys still want sex on the first date"? I did not want to answer that with my wife setting at my side. Luckily, or so I thought my wife said "Mom, just because Bill (me) and I had sex on the first date, that does not make it right". You should not have sex on the first date, the second date, or even on the third date". OH MY GOD. What is my wife doing, trying to get me in big trouble? Her mom had a way to put the whole conversation in prospective. She said "If I had had a date with your husband, I would have had sex on the first date with him also. He is a great looking guy. I thought I had better get out of there or I was going to be in big trouble with someone, so I left. Was what I did the right thing to do to keep out of trouble. I think I owe Judy nice dinner don't I?

Question: I just found out my best friend was molested by his father as a baby, should I tell him?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:55 AM PST

This is so disturbing I can't even fathom. I was on my best friend's dad's computer when I looked through their documents to find his (bf) AP Lit assignment. Then I saw a file that said "baby pics" I though "aww I wanna see his baby pics. But when I clicked...I saw...oh gosh I saw pics of his dad sticking his d ick in his mouth as a BABY!! I haven't been able to look at them the same way. I abruptly left and now I'm contemplating calling the cops and telling him. Is it my place to tell him? Does he deserve to know? I'm crying as I'm typing this...

Question: Is this emotional abuse?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:26 AM PST

recently i've been having issues with my mom. i found out she'd been manipulating and lying to me in order to make me hate my dad's girlfriend, and i wanted to know if these other things she does are signs of emotional abuse: - threatening abandonment, saying she never wants to see me again when i've upset her - tells me i'm "too sensitive" about certain things/makes me feel like i can't be upset about anything because others have it worse - invades my privacy - she doesn't give me real explanations, just that i have to listen to her "because she said" - she gets very upset when i try to voice my opinion - says i don't respect her when i don't even do anything wrong (ex: i had a bad day the other day and she got really mad because i wasn't "behaving", even though i explicitly told her i wasn't feeling well) - uses my things to manipulate me - goes to extremes (i said i hated school a couple times and she said if i didn't shut up she'd pull me out) - doesn't accept criticism, she always has to be right - hypocritical she had a rough childhood, and she's beaten her husband before. she's very proud of that for some reason, and lets me know she'd be happy to smack me if i get out of line again. i've told people about the things she does and most of the time they just tell me to deal with it or that she loves me, she just "has a weird way of showing it". it's been going on for a really long time and i'm not sure of what to do.

Question: My mom won't let me go places by myself. What should I do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:26 AM PST

So, I'm 17 years old and I've recently been experiencing issues with my mother. I've been living with my father for the past two years, but he died from a massive heart attack 3 weeks ago so I'm back to living with my mom, who always wants to restrict me and wants me to shut my mouth, unlike my dad, who would like me bike/walk anywhere as long as I got permission from him. She legit watches me like a hawk, and I'm used to being free and being able to be at places unattended, so this really bothers me to the point to where I've confronted my mom multiple times about it, but she refuses to listen to anything I have to say, no matter how logical and understanding I try to be to her point of view. And it's like, I can't stress to my mom enough that i'm 17 and i need to go places by myself(whether it be during the day or during the night). I'm about to become an adult on June 22, 2017 and if I don't get to experience this stuff before I become an adult, then I'm gonna have no idea what to do the day I become 18. My dad let me go places by myself. My dad knew that I need my freedom, and now he's dead and she won't even agree with both him and me that i need to be by myself. She acts like i'm a baby and she latches onto me wherever I go. She barely gives me any space and whenever I try to walk somewhere by myself, so follows me. Should I wait this out until the day I become 18 and move out, or what can I do to knock some sense into her and finally let me have the freedom I need?

Question: Are my parents being inappropriate?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:26 AM PST

I know they're married but my parents will be all over each other in front of me and my siblings and even my friends. Yesterday my friends and I were watching a movie in the living room because that room had the DVD player; and my dad came in and sat with us a bit after he grabbed a soda. So, my mom comes in and straddles my dad sitting on him and groping him etc. I was like "My friends are here" she said, "So don't look" My dad will put his hands up my mom's skirt in front of me. They make out on each other on the couch like they're about to have sex with me and my siblings there. If my little sister says eww or something they don't stop. I get they're married and I'm not saying they can't show affection but isn't that stuff private? My mom says since they're married they can have each other when they want and at least they're not fighting in front of us. I even think my dad was fingering her once on the couch but they had a blanket covering it. I'm not trolling. Are they wrong or am I ? It's not like we can always remove ourselves from the situation because my parents gave us do homework at the kitchen table then do stuff on the couch or near us

Question: Should my mother in law stop saying this about me?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:23 AM PST

My wife's mother Joyce (my mother in law) is young, in her early 40s. She has a great sense of humor. She is also an avid golfer. I was at a party at her house recently and people were talking to her about her love of golf. Someone ask her who her favorite golf partner was. She said "Bob (me) because I get to play with his balls". Everyone had a good laugh. Someone said "Is it OK with Bob that you play with his balls". She said he doesn't care if he is not using them and I really get a thrill when his balls go in the hole. Everyone got an even bigger laugh at her comment. Should I clue her in that people are taking what she is saying the wrong way or does she know what she is saying and just being funny?

Question: What are the differences between brotherhood and sisterhood?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:17 AM PST

So I'm brother and I know that the relationship between me and my brother is very strong. I would take a bullet for him and I'm sure he would do the same for me. We have no secrets, he'll do anything (within reason) for me but most importantly, he is my best friend. But we don't really talk about our personal feelings that much. However, To me this is brotherhood, the relationship between brothers. Is the relationship of sisterhood different? Are there any similarities or differences between the two genders when it comes to sibling relationships?

Question: Should we kick our daughter?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:13 AM PST

Our 23 year old daughter has lived with us since May 2016. She does not pay rent or contribute anything to the house. She works full time, but she comes home and eats all the food and trashes her room. She is always harassing her younger sister and does not listen to any of the rules my husband and I enforce. We are thinking of asking her to leave but are afraid she will not talk to us again. What should we do? sorry, it should say should we kick our daughter out?

Question: What would you do if your 12 year old threw a public tantrum?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:09 AM PST

I am already humiliated so please no trolling. I have a 12 year old who just embarrassed me in a store. She has never done this before. I needed 2 things, and she wanted a coloring book, way below her age. I told her we are "only here for things we need" today and she froze in the aisle glaring at me. I told her "lets go" and she started crying, saying she needs new "hobbies" and all I make her do is "homework". I told her she can do sports this year and she cried/yelled "I HATE SPORTS, ALL OF THEM, I want this coloring book!". I told her lets talk at home, and lets go. She froze in the aisle. She didn't follow me and I kept walking. I went to checkout where I could still see her frozen and angry. When I checked out, I went back and she wouldn't look at me. She stomped to the car angry and slammed the door. When we got home, she stomped to her room and slammed THAT door. So, I quietly went in her room, unplugged her TV and she started crying profusely. I told her "Now you have something to really cry about". Shouldn't she apologize? What kind of 12 year old throws a tantrum like this? (she has never done this).

Question: Girls who can drive would you have done this?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 10:06 AM PST

I just got home from taking my sister to her friends house. Since it was nice out and I did not go in anyplace I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes. I hate wearing shoes and I did not need shoes to drive my car for 30 minutes since I did not go in anyplace.

Question: Which rooms should my sons sleep in?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 09:59 AM PST

So both my sons are supposed to be visiting soon. My oldest one and his girlfriend have been together for years, and I'm used to them coming and staying. He and his brother stay in one room while she stays in the other. I only have the two spare rooms. But now, for the first time, my younger son is bringing his new boyfriend (of about a year) home. We have plenty of beds, that's not an issue, but it seems like an unfair double standard if I have the 3 men stay in one room, while my other son's girlfriend is in the next. I'm thinking it might just be easier to let the kids stay in their rooms with their partners, but then I feel bad for making my older son sleep in a separate room from his girlfriend all these years. What do you think? Thank you so much. I feel guilty whenever my oldest son points out that I tend to have eased up on rules with my younger son, but I'm just trying the best I can. I'm a single mother with hardly any extended family, so it's not like I have people to call up and chat about this.

Question: Are we related?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 09:40 AM PST

My moms brother (my uncle) got married with a women who already had 2 children my moms sister (my aunt) says that me and those 2 kids are "step cousins" is that true?

Question: My sister asked my parents for stuff and never gives in return but they always give to her. Does this make her a selfish person?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 09:40 AM PST

She is age 26

Question: What do I do? My mother won't let me be an adult. She make me feel bad for trying to have a life.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 09:22 AM PST

I am a 21 year old girl. She has always controlled my life. She does not want me to wear makeup. She wants me to dress like a 15 year old. She do not like when I put my hand on my hip :/ She does not want me to be girly. She wont let me date or have any friends, including female friends. She treat me like a child. She hates when I go over my friends house. She starts saying I will get pregnant and get into some trouble. She got really mad at me because I was on the phone with a guy. She expects me to be at home if I am not at school or work. She let my siblings stay out all night, but I have to be home before 10 if I am not with them. I dont understand why she do this to me. I am not a bad person. I am very mature for my age. I also dont drink or smoke. She make me feel bad for trying to have a life. I just recently turned 21. I just recently turned 21.

Question: My grandad is killing my dad?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 09:16 AM PST

So I live at home with my mum, dad and my grandma (my dad's mum). So for a few years now my grandma has been driving him crazy! He's been more stressed now than he ever has been. She's an evil woman! She always goes picking for a fight and says comments that upsets my dad. She doesn't even like me. Probably because I'm the spitting image of my dad (physically and mentally). As I'm only 17 I can't do much about it. I'm not sure what to do. I feel like my dad is going to die soon because of the stress and pressure she gives him. I'm worried about him, any advice?

Question: How to deal with living below an alcoholic?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 09:04 AM PST

I puked so hard many times- to the point where I aggravated my hernia- my upstairs neighbor and I share a hallway, and it reaks of alcoholic breathe and smoke- hes a loud drunk and I cant afford to move right now-

Question: My brother assaulted me, should I go to Judge Judy?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 08:40 AM PST

Here's what happened: I was living at my parents' house at the time. I was asleep in my room when my brother bursts in and wakes me up, punches me in the arm, and tells me to never get in his car again (it was unlocked and earlier that night I took some work-out DVDs out of it that I was borrowing from my sister. He had been keeping these from me for weeks) He then punches me in the arm again and leaves. I go back to sleep, when he bursts in again yelling at me to give him the DVDs. In his agitated state I wanted nothing to do with him, so I told him to leave. He wouldn't leave, and punched me in the arm again, and continued to do so as he repeatedly asked me for the DVDs. I told him that I wasn't giving them to him and for him to leave. He kept punching me in the arm, and then I started to get up to leave when he spit in my face, and that's when I fought back. We brawled for a little bit before my little brother got between us. After he finally left, I noticed my finger was messed up. Turns out it was badly broken and needed surgery. The surgery and physical therapy cost $$$ and put me through a lot of agony. My finger is still messed up. I'm over 18 and so is my OLDER brother

Question: Got kicked out at 18?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 08:18 AM PST

Yesterday was my birthday, Today i got kicked out and there's no way to fix it. I have no money saved up, still looking for a job and have my license but no car. I have nowhere to go what can I do

Question: Im 12 and my mom always goes to work at 8 and comes back 6. My dad doesnt feed me cause they divorced. I have to go through 10 hours no food?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 08:05 AM PST

Im scared to go to kitched cause of my dad. I am shy and even though my mom is rich like hell she doesnt give me money. My dad is leaving soon. My mom gets like almost 250 bucks each day and she doesnt leave me money!!!! THE REAL QUESTION IS SHOULD I STEAL FROM THE STORE FOR FOOD AND DRINKS???? But i sometimes drink from my moms swimming pool. Is it bad? Ofcourse it is! HELP ME!!!!

Question: My parents are not disciplining my sister and she's growing up an annoying and useless brat. What do I do?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:41 AM PST

My sister is constantly asking me to play with her and often, I say yes because I feel bad. When I tell her I don't want to play she throws a tantrum and says I don't love her and starts hitting me or pushing me. I tell my mom but she yells at me to go to my room and comforts my sister. My sister is constantly talking back to my mom and she is EXTREMELY disrespectful towards her. My mom stays quiet so I tell my sister to respect her in a calm, teaching way, and she literally SCREAMS saying I'm being rude to her. My mom, once again, tells me to shut up but doesn't say anything to my sister. So my sister messes up her words and sentence structure a log but when I, again, calmly, respectfuly, in a teaching manner, correct her when she messes up, she SCREAMS saying I am, yet again, being rude to her. My mom tells me to be quiet and let her handle it but she'll say the sentence to my sister correctly and my sister says it wrong again and my mom ignores it. Ok, now, we have a small puppy and my sister is constantly hitting her and annoying her and my puppy, naturally, bites her but my sister keeps going and the puppy growls and complains and I tell my sister to stop and she throws a tantrum. I tell my mom what she was doing with the dog, and my mom tells me the dog would walk away from my sister if she had a problem with it even though SHE DOES AND MY SISTER CHASES THE DOG.

Question: Should I just up and leave my state and move me and my 1 year old to North Carolina, to pursue a better life?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:32 AM PST

Hello Yahoo, I'm a 21 year old Mother. I live in a town with little to no opportunities. I haven't worked in almost a year. There's a college here, but it doesn't have the major I would love to take up. I'm really considering using my 900 dollar tax return to move me and my son 4 hours away to Charlotte, NC. I have to aunts up there, but haven't talked to them about staying with them. I really don't want to live with other people since I have a child now(you know how that could be), but I'm sure they wouldn't mind until I get on my feet. I have almost a year of CSR experience in call center banking. Hopefully a job won't be a problem to me up there, and I want to go to school to become a dental assistant. Should I leave ? I'm scared I will make a huge mistake moving there. A job and shelter is my biggest Concern. I'm sure my aunt &cousins wouldn't mind, but my pride is strong

Question: Hello, so my mother is in a big situation. My 7 year old nephew has lived with us his whole life. My sister left him here while she moved...?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:28 AM PST

Hello, so my mother is in a big situation. My 7 year old nephew has lived with us his whole life. My sister left him here while she moved away with her boyfriend 2 hours away and that was 7 years ago. She asked my mother if she could see him randomly one day and now she said that he s not coming back here. After 7 years of her not caring about him and him having a life here with my family and going to school here and everything she is just trying to rip him out of his life. Again this is my sister and she has 3 kids. My other sister raised one of her other kids at a different location. Can you help me?

Question: Family Politics?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:26 AM PST

I had a family dinner last night and during the dinner, my aunt was being very persistent on having her son-in-law and daughter sit as close to my grandfather as possible. Now according to our tradition, we sit according to "ranks" from the eldest to the youngest. My uncle and me were supposed to be on a higher "ranking" compared to my aunt s daughter and son-in-law but despite knowing this and after ignoring a request directly from my grandfather to sit us both on the same table, she insisted on sitting me and my uncle on another table to make room for them. In the end, both my aunt s daughter and son-in-law did not sit with them but together with my and my uncle on another table. My parents were not too happy about it but did raise the issue as they do not wish to spoil the occation and my grandpa s mood. At the same time, my grand uncle is a very money minded person, after knowing that one of the relative present was very rich, he kept babbling on and on and praising him with all kind of things despite only meeting him once a year and not knowing much about him. By doing this, he had held back the entire party by preventing all of us to leave therefore dragging the dinner way longer then expected. What do you think I can or should/should not do in this situation, regarding both my aunt and granduncle?

Question: Is my fathers constant touching me normal? Since I don't like being touched?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:17 AM PST

My father would always joke around and me being a serious person wouldn't enjoy his company that much. We usually only meet on weekends and even if he do. He will sometimes slap my butt or try to kiss my cheeks or forehead. On his bday I didn't want to kiss him so he instead kissed me in my cheeks and forehead but he bit my cheeks lightly. Whenever I complain my father would just ignore and my other would scold me. He also likes to try to cuddle with me or show physical love in public which I hate. He would always say I'm beautiful then my try to hug or kiss me in which I run away from. All I know for sure is that I hate his physical touch since I'm to one to enjoy being touched.

Question: My cousin wants money from me do I give it to?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:07 AM PST

Question: I have a narcissistic relative how do I act when they demand I give them praise?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 07:04 AM PST

She loves her daughter but she has hatred for her son who does not worship and praise her. How do I act around this person whenshe demands that I praise them? She does good deeds but she always demands praise for them. She does them in order to get praised not out of Goodwill.

Question: Is this even possible my sister forgot how to speak?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 06:59 AM PST

My sister is 18 and has never had a problem in her life with speaking but recently my sister kept complain she was forgetting how to speak. My family found it hard to believe she was because she seemed fine but then she started having repetitive seizures 5 in total now she is in hospital.

Question: My crazed and evil sister is visiting my parents house today. How do I act when I see this evil woman?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 06:58 AM PST

I know it's important to try to forgive but this woman is pure evil.

Question: Should i seek help and go into foster care or wait it out?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 06:39 AM PST

i am 16 going on 17 in may. my parents never have really gotten along. especially my father. he will get very angry easily and he recently almost passed in a car crash so hes fits have only gotten worse since hes having trouble remembering small things. I am now a junior but since freshman year he has told me things like I am his property, he owns me, shut the f'''' up i dont care what you have to say. you are a sl'''t you are a h'''ker you are a h'ffer you are a h'ssy i should kill you, i should break your neck. these are only things that come straight off my mind from memory. i am not really home during the week because i take ap classes and part of an arts program and i have a job so i stay at my uncles which is not as bad as home. when i am forced to come home over the weekend i have to clean what mess they left over the week which includes the garbage not taken out all week over the house, moldy dishes with rotten milk/food over 2 sinks of dishes and what is supposed to be my siblings jobs of the dining room trashed. or i get screamed at while my brother sits on games in the living room that is filthy. should i save up for the next year and 5 months or seek help now. im scared ill lose my arts diploma and not finish school. if i save my money until next year i should have atleast 5,000. thank you in advance.

Question: How could I have a whore family?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 06:24 AM PST

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Question: My parents just divorced and I'll be spending one week with my mom, then one week with my dad, etc. What should I do about my stuff?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 06:14 AM PST

Should I put half at my dads and half at my moms? Or should I bring them back and forth? Is there any other options? what about other things?

Question: My children refuse to work or drive a car?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 05:58 AM PST

They are 17 and 18. I took them out of school in 8th grade, I was going to homeschool them but never did. They have never done any high school grades. They refuse to get a job because we live in the south and the closest jobs are 15 miles away in the city they refuse to walk 15 miles to a job and 15 miles back home. They have no money or bikes. I have never gotten them a learners permit, a license or a car. I have not gotten them driving lessons or taught them how to drive. We do not have public transportation where we live in the south. I am 53 my parents got me driving lessons at 17 and 18 but I refuse to do the same for my kids. I also refuse and do not want to drive them to get a job. Why are they so messed up?

Question: My daughter is breastfeeding in front of her nephew should she put her other breast away or leave it out?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 05:10 AM PST

Question: My 17 year old son resorts to violence and hits and hurts my 14 and 18 year old daughters every time they argue?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 04:17 AM PST

He is quite well built and much stronger than they are. I've done everything I can think of to make him stop but I don't know what to do. I've told him time and time again that he can not hit women, or anyone for that matter but he doesn't really listen. I am afraid that when he's older and has a girlfriend he will hit them too if I don't try stop it now. It doesn't happen often because my kids don't really fight much, but still, I'm worried. What can I do?

Question: When I was 14 I asked my 5 year old sister to kiss me.?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 03:03 AM PST

I then proceeded to ask her to touch me. She did once but usually I just humped her leg. I don t condone any of this behavior. I honestly just want to die. I have told my parents and my sister and they are disgusted with me as I deserve. I honestly want to kill myself. I cannot believe I did this when I myself was abused by my aunt when I was eleven. I want to die so much. I can t believe that I did this.

Question: I do not want to harm, the thought of doing anything scares me, I really think my aunt is doing something on me since she's back in town...?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 02:31 AM PST

So about a month or two ago for the first time in my life I woke up with a negative thought to harm my sister, I told my mom and then that negative thought went to my mom. It went away this horrible thought but now I'm kinda getting it back. The thing is I don't want to do anything, I feel that someone is doing black magic or some **** on me because I was told two years ago that my aunt was wishing bad or bad luck to my family and at that time my family was going through a lot and I even got into a episode where I felt disconnected from everyone and everything without any reason. That time my mom call a man from our church, he prayed and then that's when my aunts name pop up on my house phone ( that time she didn't call for about a year or two), also the vibs in the room was dark and felt uncomfortable. My uncle was told years ago that my aunts son was throwing wishing bad on my uncle. I never in my whole 16 years got something like this, I would never want to harm I can't even harm a bug. To think about getting a knife to do harm is far from me. Me and my mom do get the same negativity (not to harm) but for other stuff, like sometimes we get it at the same time and it's scary. I do deal with pts but I know for sure it isn't that because dealing with pts all I want is the people I love the most around me not gone. Once when me and my mom were sleeping we got the same image of people dress in black in our house with the same voices. I also had people do voodoo on me years ago

Question: Can someone help me? Mother and father problems....?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 02:30 AM PST

They've been together for nearly 25 years but as of recent ever since we've gotten a house together, (my brother, 16, my sister, 3, and I, 21, they've been arguing a lot and my father would sometimes get drunk at home and start saying things about my mom and all his opinions on life. I can easily tell that he's going through a lot of pain when he speaks as he's drunk and he's really hurt, he claims he's mistreated by my mom and that's somewhat understandable. The way my mother speaks to him sometimes is really hard to listen to because she usually insults the poor guy, I feel bad for both of them and honeslty I don't know what to do. All I know is that I can see how they are and my dad is hurt, and so is my mom. Does anyone know what I can do? We just got this house last year and without them together we won't have nearly enough to pay our mortgage (let alone hydro and electricity) anyone have any suggestions?

Question: Help! My parents say they are going to Homeschool me and block the world off until Trump is out?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 01:08 AM PST

I am 13 and my parents want to close me off from the world. I feel like Rapunzel! They say I can't talk to anyone, just stay in house, and they are going to block my computer access soon. My parents said the world is dangerous and I should stay inside until Trump presidency is over. Omg its going to take forever, especially if it last for 8 years. So I will miss prom and my friends. What should I do? Okay lets update this question, I meant to say I feel like the black Rapunzel whose parents just cut off everything, I was going to go to movies this Sunday, but I can't go now. So I need helpful real answers from adults who understands parents, so I can talk to my parents. Thanks! Okay lets update this question, I meant to say I feel like the black Rapunzel whose parents just cut off everything, I was going to go to movies this Sunday, but I can't go now. So I need helpful real answers from adults who understands parents, so I can talk to my parents. Thanks!

Question: Do oldest children have a sense of entitlement?

Posted: 29 Jan 2017 12:31 AM PST

examples - entitled to admission to a prestigious school like UC Berkeley - entitled to nicer things than younger siblings, for example, a brand new mustang while the younger kids get a used accord - bigger allowances etc about the car one, entitled, regardless of driving record

Question: I m 14 and my parent and especially my brother always put me down and make rude remarks and critisize me about everything?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 11:56 PM PST

Every time they critisize me it makes me feel more and more depressed and anxious around my friends then waiting for them to critisize me. They also won t let me grow up I get no independence to do anything with my friends or on my own. I used to be a tom boy but I ve changed since then and I started wearing shorter tops and skinny jeans but my mum made me throw out a few pairs saying they were to skinny and stopped me from getting short tops. It really makes me depressed because I can t be myself around everyone I dress according to my mum and everything I say sounds wrong. I am a gymnast and I was doing some practice and my brother keeps saying how crap I am and that I am showing off, I keep telling my mum that my brother is bulking me but she never listened and then my brother said that I was being a bully and I got grounded and banned from tonnes of things. My mum also tells everyone I am a sugar queen and makes it seem like I am fat. It s not an age issue between me and my brother We are twins

Question: Should my daughter visit her sister in prison?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 11:33 PM PST

her older sister who is 21 is in prison for one year for helping her boyfriend commit certain crimes . I wonder If I should take my other daughter who is 16, to visit her (she said she wants to visit), but I am not sure I want her to be in that kind of environment. I also hear it is a hassle to get in and you don't even get much time to even speak. Also seeing her sister in jail might be a bad image or influence. If I do take her what should I say to her beforehand to prepare her?

Question: How can I help my mom?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 11:32 PM PST

She wants to be an author, but she never has the time to write anything. I help her with the laundry and watching my baby brother, but she still doesn't have enough time. How can I really help her?

Question: Why do my sister wanna be a slut?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 11:21 PM PST

I don't know what's gotten into my sister. I think it's very disgusting sorry. Now she's acting like a slut and i'm very sorry to say this. She's like a year older than me, she's 16 and already thinking about becoming a pornstar when she turns 18. Why would you want different guys using your body as a toy? I seen what they do to girls in porn. I mean, I don't have anything against porn it's just that, I don't want my sister participating in it. I'm really shocked that she would think about it because, she's cute, quiet, and innocent. She doesn't look like the type that would do something like that. If she doesn't change her mind about it i'm telling our mom. Don't you think she's making a terrible decision?

Question: What can I do for my daughters sweet Sixteen?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 10:01 PM PST

She doesn t want a really formal party because she finds those to be very boring. She wants to have enough guests but not a lot she said maybe 100. She likes to have fun. She also likes the idea of multiple events. Something to do around 5:00 would be nice. We re open to any ideas even if they re the opposite of what we want

Question: My dad ALWAYS uses our bathroom (my sister and i but he has a bathroom (for him and my mom) and he always leaves a smell -_- WHAT THE ****?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 09:58 PM PST

He does it even if nobody's in their bathroom !! Like wtf i can't enter there any more without smelling his **** everytime -_____-

Question: Why does my little sister hate me so much?

Posted: 28 Jan 2017 09:36 PM PST

So my sister, why is a little over 2 years younger then me, hates me. Not just normal sister hate, but a buring hate. She yells at me sometimes when I just ask her what is wrong. She used to get bullied, my mom tells me, but she won't open up to me about it, ever, and she is homeschooled now. Sometimes, she is nice, and happy. She tells me she loves me. But then, the next minute, she is yelling at me and saying that she hates me. I have a twin sister, and my little sister be her even gets mad at her! It is like she just hates me so much. She tells me I point out her every flaw when I ask her why she is mad. Then fives me the silent treatment when I ask her what she means. This has been going on for a few years. I told my mom, but she just thinks that I am over exaggerating. Is this a normal relationship with siblings? What can I do?