Some of the guys at my job have been sexually harassing me and I've been trying to ignore it because the guys are well liked and fun around the office. I only started around 2 months ago and they've been there a long time so they're liked. They talk about me in a sexual way loud enough for me to hear but they don't actually say my name. I felt paranoid for a while but the way they stare at me has proven to me that it's me there talking about. They make it so obvious, but it's making my self esteem drop. I can't really figure out why, I normally do okay with compliments but the way they talk about me is just making me want to cover up or fade away. I'm hating going to work everyday and I'm starting to wear more layers to cover my body. Even their own boss seems to do it.

to be honest hes okay looking but ive done alot for her and find this kinda unfair what should i do she just says she doesnt feel comfortable :(

I'm thinking about making him. Don't you think it'll be funny?

He asked me this past weekend and was really interested if I'm seeing anyone else. He was really concerned lol. Thing is, I know he is still talking and seeing other women. Why is he asking me to be "his" if he doesn't actually want to be serious??

I've been dating my girl for 3 months and I leave for the marines in 5 months and she told me she doesn't think she can wait for me so she said she wants to break up before I leave for bootcamp. Should I wait the 5 months and see if she changes her mind? What can I do to make an impact on her decision ? I need help

I wasn t drunk. (I ll summarize) He was really horny and I wasn t but he still wanted to do it with me, He asked me to go with him into another room so we could be alone, I declined but he was pretty strong so he carried me anyways. I didn t say yes nor say no. He just did. During the "interaction" with the conclusion that I can t get out of this. I just told him countless times during the activity, that he should not take my virginity/ he shouldn t put it in. He asked me to give him a bj, i said I don t suck, so he agreed but then after a couple of mins he asked me again, and I did it.. I still didn t want him to take my virginity but he still tried. And it hurt when he did, I kept on telling him to stop because it hurt and that I didn t want him to get it, but he kept saying that he would stop after one more go..I wasn t able to push him off me hard enough when he inserted it..he did insert a lot of times..and he said the same thing everytime I tried to stop him from putting it in again. is it still rape? even if I gave him a ******** and I was somehow glad when he said that I did good..is it still rape? I gave him a ******* in hopes that it would be enough so he'll no longer have sex with me.. but I was wrong.. Idk, I'm confused. the ****** meant bj.

I have been trying to get my boyfriend to cuddle with me or give me some attention today but whatever I do I'm just not getting the attention I'm aiming for. I even came straight out and said I want your attention come give me a hug. What can I do to get him to come cuddle and bond with me. Even when I ask for a hug or kiss he complains that I'm nagging for a hug... Is asking for a hug really nagging? Can I have everyones opinion please

I've been on and off with my children's father for six years. More off than on. We finally decided to be with eachother and do this once and for all. Problem is I can't get over the hurtful things he's done, repeatedly cheating, lying, etc. he says he changed and yes he's better than before in a way. But how can I get over that? How can I move forward and let my family be happy? I want to be happy but he's let me down so many times. What do I do?

Does that means that if u ever get in a relationship with someone else that he or she won't marry you ? I had a guy who lost his fiancé due to a wreck 4 years ago he's always bringing her up an I get jealous he do talk about marrying me but I think he's just talking we been knowing each other for 6 months now

I'm in 10th grade and I want to kind of set up a friends with benefits kind of thing with this girl in two of my classes and like once a week we talk about smoking pot and drinking throwing parties and stuff and she seems chill about sex because she admits to ******* guys all the time so how would I set up something were we smoke hangout then maybe hookup.

He told me the other day he might like me, he texted me "do u still like me :(" when he heard I might not anymore, we talk allll the time, he hugs me, texts me first mostly, saves me seats, and he got really mad st his best friend and they were in a 24 hour fight because his best friend told me he didn t like me. Idek bc he can be a player but he doesn t talk to anyone as much as me. He knows I like him and I think he might like me, but he won t tell anyone. But y would he not deny it if he didn t. Why isn t he telling anyone if he does?

okay I need some help I don't know what to do at all, so about a month or two ago I accidently logged into my moms Facebook thinking it was my account not paying attention I went to the messages thinking it was my account then seen a message from someone I didn't recognize I then realized I was on my moms Facebook but I had seen bits of the message from this man that looked like he was talking dirty to her so I got upset and curious as to why some guy was talking to my mother like this ( I know its really none of my business but I just had to know ) anyways I decided to read it and seen she was talking with this guy flirting and having dirty conversations I am scared to confront her about this because I don't want her to be mad that I was reading her business but It ate at me for over a month now and I noticed she's been taking "better" care of herself working out buying younger clothes ( she's 53yrs old ) doing her hair wearing makeup more often so I got more snoopy about it because I wanted to make sure she wasn't just trying to get attention for the fun of it and I read her texts to see if she's really cheating and she's now texting and sending pictures to this man and he's sending ones back...that are not just of his face... he lives in los Vegas and we live in Omaha I know he lives in los Vegas because I seen it on his Facebook profile. I am torn in pieces I'm 19 years old and disgusted by what she's doing behind my dads back, my dad is a hard working man who gives her EVERYTHING so I don't understand why she would want to do this I am so mad and upset I almost hate her for this I feel terrible for my dad so my question is how do I confront her about this without it sounding like I was snooping through her business even though I was?

And we hugged and had a good night kiss. He asked me if we can set our Facebook statuses to in a relatuonship with each other. We have been talking online and on facetime for almost a year. He is leaving for the air force very soon and I think it is a good thing but I get kind of sad. Nobody seems to understand my feelings and I had my first kiss with him. How often should we text or talk before he leaves?

Im talkin marriage, family, everything

I really liked this guy and he seemed very into me, I am kind, down to earth, educated, hard working and very loyal. However, he completely rejected me. The girls he has pursued since have been a very wealthy trust fund girl from southern california who has thousands of instagram followers and who takes hundreds of photos of her lattes, toy dogs, the beach, and her yoga poses. She tries to come of as humble and worldly as if she is some kind of beautiful soul who is deep and mysterious and posts romantically tragic quotes while sitting in her malibu apartment. She also takes many photos of her bathtub with floating flower petals with quotes about how her life is hard and she needs to practice self care. He also has been interested in an incredibly wealthy trust fund girl who also posts hundreds of photos including her parents mansion, her purebred show dog, the beach, fashion shows, louis vuitton purses alongside other perfectly staged scenery of lattes next to croissants with perfect lighting and yoga poses where she has hair and makeup done perfectly etc. He kisses their asses as if they are some kind of goddesses and he treated me like I was beneath him. Why do some men like these kind of women? What is the appeal of women who live for attention, social media followers, perfection and extravagance?

So one of the "girls" on the mingle app I use messaged me and managed to get me to make 3 different payments on 3 different websites for a "verification process". I was very stupid in believing it was actually true. But I went through with it because I really thought it was legit NSA hook up. Now I'm just warning everyone else don't fall for this ****

I meet a guy named Jon at a rave and we hit it off. He lives about an hour away but still I go visit him and he comes visit me. He introduces me to his parents, his cousins and siblings and sets up a time for me and his mother to cook together. When alone, we would talk non-stop and kiss/cuddle from midnight to 6am. The chemistry is amazing and at one point tells me that he loves me and wants to marry me. He says things like communication is key and would hit me up non-stop on fb, snapchat and text messages. He would hit me up a lot so I would hit him up a lot too. During this time, he tells me a lot about himself and tell me has has depression and anxiety which didn't seem to affect us. This lasted for about 1 month. After a month, he stops texting me and barely hits me up on snapchat and it gets to the piont he stops hitting me up altogether. Now we were never in a relationship but after everything he did to suddenly to not hit me up I got mad and he wouldn't answer my phone calls or texts. I send him an angry text as to why he is ignoring me and still no response. Afterwards, I start to read about depression and anxiety and apparently it's normal to get ignored or to get pushed away and sending that angry text wasn't the best idea so I show up at his house and he says he isn't mad at me and we end up going to the movies. He invites his 2 best friends and they ask me questions and at 1 point I step away from them to get popcorn and even though I am standing at a distance, I can hear Jon saying nice things about me to his friends. At the end of the night, he kisses me goodnight and promises to come visit me the following week but when the day comes, he doesn't come or text me an explaination. He finally ends up hitting me up a week later saying we are "just friends." He texts m about 1 or 2 times a day saying "good morning" or " I hope you are having a good day" or he'll tell me what he's up to but nothing like before. I tried to be fine with it. I texted him like I would text any of my other guy friends and he seems to be fine with it. I've been breaking apart inside. 3 days ago, I sent him a long text asking him if he played me or if he ever really loved me or if he was just trying to have sex with me. I didn't mention the depression or anxiety but it might have a part in it. Also, I make a lot of money and he doesn't I wonder if the distance is too much for him but he won't say if it is My friends tell me to ignore him and move on but the thing is that we bought tickets with seats next to each other for a concert next month and I want to know if he's still going and mostly I just want him to tell me wtf happened. What should I do, he won't respond to my texts.

Ok so me and (let's call him K) have been together before and might go back when things are put to place and when we're ready to date.. One confusion I'm having is that he's not all that good looking he's more on the average side, and I have a connection with him but I've noticed that I don't find him very attractive, I'm not an all looks type of person. It's more of an emotional attraction than physical. I do have some physical attraction to him, (he's tall and skinny) and I love the soft look on his eyes I could look at his eyes all the time) He said to me I'm the most beautiful girl he's ever laid his eyes on and all that, he thinks I'm the one and I think so too. Anyway I don't think physical appearance is much of an issue, the only thing is that I caught myself checking out other guys while I was with him the other day and I kind of feel guilty, although we aren't dating but we might in the future. He really isn't my type but I really like him. Will this affect us in the future? He definitely is way more attracted to me than I am to him.. maybe there's no such thing as my dream guy although he says I'm his dream girl, oh ..help? I really wouldn't want to loose him or take him for granted.. Thanks all answers and opinions accepted :)

I like this girl at work, I think she likes me too we're both eighteen. Anyway we text like day and night. But how do I flirt with her over text? Like nothing serious just playfully. But I wanna show her I'm flirting and like her? We also FaceTime to if there is a way to do it over FaceTime.

Premarital Sex

Well I befriended this guy and we text, walk together in the halls, and say hi to each other when we walk past one another, but I m pretty sure he doesn t like me back and he might even be a player since he s always hanging with other girls. He s a nice guy but he s just too much and is playing too many mind games with me; I want to get over him but how can I since I see him in two of my classes everyday and he always ends up walking up to me to talk to me! I can t just ignore him, that s not the kind of person I am, and what if he wants to walk with me? I ve tried seeing him as a friend but I still seem to like him... idk what to do :(

Like the guy would be showing desperate signs but once he gets the girls attention he starts to ignore her

Theirs this boy who's always starring at me and he has a gf, when he's with his friends he always looks at me especially when he's not with his friends. What does this mean? I have never talked to him and he has never talked to me. Also he has a gf

Hello. So there is this girl at my school who I've know since 6th grade. About a month ago, she was being suicudial and telling me she was going to kill herself and that nobody likes her. Suicide is something I have experience with(my friend committed suicide last year) and I would never wish it on anyone so I said: I like you. I meant it in a friendly way, not dating way. Now she follows me around school, try's to kiss me, says she loves me, and wants to have sex. She is even spreading rumors that we have already done so. What's so confusing is that she admits she's had sex, has a boy friend, and got caught trying to have sex with a girl at school. She even has had sex before and I don't want to be dragged into her type of life, but I'm afraid she will commit suicide if I reject her. I don't even have interest in her, and have no interest in starting a relationship involving sex at my age. HELP!

So right now I am 16 years old in high school (11th grade). At my old school during the 6th grade I had this girlfriend. We only dated for like a month and a half. Then I ended the relationship. Now like 5 years later I found her twitter on the "who to follow thing" I followed her once but she didn't follow me back. She did re tweet a tweet of mine. Then I un-followed her. That happened a couple of months ago. But I was wonder if it would be weird if I followed her again and dm her to see how she is. Would this be weird and what should I say to start the conversation?

Four weeks ago my server at my local coffee shop was so cute. Joked around with me, and ended up giving me a free drink in addition to my order. Every Saturday since I go in and he gives me something for free but he always looks so shy. I want his number so bad. How can I get it without being like "hey can I get your number" lol. I'm so not forward like that

I am living in a two room apartment with a couple. They have the bedroom and I am in a living room/bedroom combo. When my boyfriend first started staying over my roommate expressed concerns that he was staying over too much. So I made an attempt to cut back. She originally said that one or two nights a week staying at his place and especially on weekends so the living room could be used would be best so we tried to do that. Since having the conversation we have spent more time in his dorm even though I have my own room. My roommate has again expressed concern that he is staying over too much. When he does stay over we stay mostly in my room and he is never there when I am there. I originally offered to pay more of the utilities but she said no. I am frustrated because she says he lives there when I do not feel like he does and there are often other guests who sleep on the couch which is part of my room that I do not say anything about. I have tried to compromise on my end but it does not seem to be enough. I understand that people have different views and she feels that because I am in the living room space that when we are there we are taking up the whole space when we are only occupying my side of the room. I have also offered to switch rooms since she would like more access to the living room which I have never said no to other then when I am going to bed. Am I wrong to think that I should be allowed to have who I want in my space as long as I am there?

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 9 months and we only have 4 good photos and maybe 2 or 3 other ones. whenever i jokingly try to take pictures of/with him when we're together he covers the camera. i can deal with that bc some people don't want offguard pictures of them online. but also, when his friends call him when we're together he tells me to be quiet and pretend i'm not there. there's a history of them making fun of him A LOT for us dating, they're really immature. but i just feel sad about it. he also never posts pictures with me online. he only has one instagram picture, but when i tell him he should post another one he doesn't want to. what's wrong?

They have a girlfriend and are older than me, are they just being nice?

I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years. Things started getting serious and she discussed wanting to get married and have kids with me. The problem is I've never wanted kids. I'm at the point where I only want to date someone I might end up marrying. She says she's always wanted to be a mom. I don't know how to cut off the relationship.

My life is pathetic, puberty made me ugly, my self confidence has hit rock bottom. Therapists are no help, i cant make friends even though everyone around me can. I cant accept myself and i want to die. I dont have social media therefore i am judged. My closest family and friends have backstabbed me multiple times. If i even have "friends" everyone can have good friendships and im left out. Does anyone know where i can talk to people similar to me? Its just hopeless, my future is bleak. Im regular on the outside but everyone uses me and treats me like trash. Its over, soon i wont have to suffer through the shithole they call "life" only the lucky ones enjoy life. The only people who have never been bad to me are my family. I feel even worse now that i cant return that love. I should have never exsisted. I am a error and i should be erased. I just want to die I am 15, i am a freshman in highschool. Back in 8th i thought life would be better in highschool but i was dead wrong. It just got worse. I really just want to die, i might soon. I hate my exsistence i am pathetic as a human being. Whats the point of even being alive.

I have a fliphone but this has never happened to me before ever before. *FRIEND lol

He broke up with me then deleted me off social media after a week or so, we havent talked in weeks, i didnt do anything that horrible for him to act this way. things didnt end on a good note though. it seems like hes moved on and happy with life, i try to do things with my life too but at the end of the day i feel empty and lonely and my heart just sinks.

Sooo okay.. I m about to get real personal. There s this kid I went to high school with. And we were never friends or anything but knew of each other. He was popular and hot, I was ugly and fat. He recently hit me up as I ve been looking good lately, and our chemistry was INCREDIBLE. Like literally we stayed up 4 hours on the phone talking, then when I went to visit him until 6am!!!He really wanted to have sex with me, but I said no because I wanna take it slow since I want him to be my boyfriend. Problem is, I get the feeling he doesn t want to date me because he s embarrassed of what his friends might think. Is it possible to change his mind? After that night he hasn t hit me up since and that was Wednesday :( starting to think all he wanted was sex but you d think he d at least wanna be friends. We cuddled and it was really nice. I literally can't stop thinking about him. Help pls someone

I am trying to start my journey of finding my potential soul mate and I just feel like the only way to do that in the time being is cold approaching women. I don't have many friends and I can't rely on them to hook me up with girls. So would it be weird if I go out alone to a mall which is 25 mins away for the sole purpose of approaching girls? Or is it normal that people do that occasionally to get good with women? I'm not looking to buy clothes or anything, I just want to put myself out there and meet new people while gaining confidence. I just feels weird to me going out alone just to meet women, I usually have a purpose to go out but I rather not spend another night isolated at my house all alone..

There's a guy I've liked for the past few months, but he has a girlfriend. We've gotten super close and I think he knows I like him. He decided to take a class with me and today was our first day. Since he hasn't taken that much classes in my community college(he goes to a private uni) he doesn't know the way around and asked me to meet him before class. In class we kept on talking and he kept on pulling my chair and making jokes. After class, he said he didn't know where to go and asked to drive him to his car. After walkig a little bit and finding out I parked far, he said he knew where we were and that he would drive me instead. So, he did. On our way to my car he mentioned a girl who kept on looking at him in class whenever he tried made jokes and tried to talk to me. He mentioned her looking "17" and that she's too young for him since he's 23. I'm 18 turning 19 so is that a sign from him saying I'm too young for him too?

Ok so I am in HS and I have always been close with the Assistant Principal but lately she has been kind of distant from me. We just came back from winter break and I thought her madness would fade away during it but she is still mad with me. The thing is I have no idea why she is mad. I have through all my actions lately and I can t think of anything that made her mad. Today I even gave her a new year s gift but she is still mad at me. I tried talking to her but she ignores me and pretends I do not extort. I honestly like her a lot and want to fix things but I do not know how.

I met this girl at camp and we decided to go hang out this weekend but neither of us wanted to call it a date because we hadn't really talked in a while. But how would I turn that into something where our relationship would turn into something more than just friends