I don't know why I have this impression but I've always thought that guys who work in finance are shallow, materialistic and that they change women like they change their clothes. So he"ll probably dump you after a few dates anyway. Only golddiggers date such guys and seriously I don't get the way they're thinking either.. begging for a meal or for some golden trinket

So my girlfriends mom acts flirty with me sometimes and I need to know if its weird or not. My girlfriend introduced me to her parents two months ago and it was really casual. But since then the times I've seen her she compliments me on just about every aspect of my appearance (in a playful manner) and touches me (like breaking the touch barrier, not dirty or anything). And my gf tells me she asks about me when they talk too. It doesnt really bother me (shes looks identical to my gf and is really kind) but is it strange? Her mom is in her late forties and has been married for 25 years, so obviously nothing is going to happen.

My husband and I have been together 4 years about to be married 3. Ever since I gained weight with our first child my husband has seemed uninterested in me. When we first got together just the site of me got him up now I can't seem to make him do that. I'm about average now weight wise (with small baby belly from having my child). I just want the physical relationship back. No nasty comments please.

Ugh I hate Facebook! It seems to cause so many problems with relationships! With that said I recently caught my husband talking to so many women on FB and sending nude pics and receiving nudes back...ugh! (He's a good looking guy who's fit) He was also caught on heavenly affairs and plenty of fish dating sites...he swears up and down he didn't sleep with any of them. The only proof I have of him meeting any of these women if from a selfie a woman sent to me on FB and told me she had slept with him like 50 times! But she's a little crazy cause I saw the texts she sent my husband on how she was sorry daughter wanted him back. He called the cops on her for harassing me and him. It seems like a bunch of bs tho! He's been doing this behind me back since as early as April 2016. I'm ready to call it quits with him! He keeps telling me, swearing on everyone's life he never slept with anyone! Just talking and meeting up, kissing. That's another thing one lady told me he went to her house down they just talked and made out. Another said he followed her from a gas station to her workplace to give her his number. When I go to question these bitches they get all crazy and tell me oh it wouldn't have worked between me and him anyways. Like wtf kind of nswer is that?! I'm at my wits end and need another persons opinion on this. I don't have anyone to talk to.

Just find your email again! Do you remember our talk on site? Contact me as soon as posible. I wold like to meet you again! found in spam mail from a dating site.

She says that I have leading man looks and that I could leave my career in finance behind if i wanted to and become a certified Hollywood star. Well, I am 6'2'' with dark tousled hair and olive skin. I have hooded bedroom eyes, substantial pillowy lips, and a masculine chin. I am not very robust as I am more of an ectomorph originally. However, I have built some muscle that suits me and is maintained through long sessions with my personal trainer. I now realize that doesn't make me a beta and that I could still slay with confidence. I mean look at Francisco Lachowski! Anyway, does it sound that I look like a leading man? Explain why or why not. Thanks!

my question is dumb. but I really want to know. I want to know why a man who many say is happily married would say to someone else all the terrible things about his wife. also she would post on fb funny little things they do together. This happened to me. he complained she always spent to much money, she gained to much weight, he didn't like mentioning her around me and if he did he seemed disgusted by it. Lately he comments on things she posts but to me its more like a friend post. People tell me that he will always be a cheating person. We haven't seen each other since Thanksgiving. he hasn't made any advances except when he told me he would see me around and where he liked to hang out. I haven't done anything. we did like each other but nothing happened so that's my question why would he

Not in a degrading way, if people stop to ask: madam, are you OK, er can say, yes, yes I am teaching my wife to be monogamous again. Nothing to see here folks, move along. :D

I am 22 and still single.

Hey guys so I just had a baby boy almost 3 months ago. I ve been married to my husband for 10 months. I m 20 and he s 21. In the beginning of the relationship we had a rough time because I didn t want to be with anyone it this point of my life; I had just graduated and got into the military. I ll admit when I first enlisted I didn t make very good choices. I lost my virginity and had 3 partners in the span of 3 months. The first one I thought I could start a relationship with but that obviously didn t work out.the other two were more of a rebound type of thing. Well every time my husband and I get into an argument, it can be about me sleeping till 9am. And it ll get to the point where he ll call me a slut because of my past. But this past time he went a little too far and called me a dirty slut and asked himself how could he have ever touched. He went so far as to ask me if I like big black ***** or if one time with him wasn t enough and I had to go back for a second round. My husband and I hadn t argued about getting a divorce like this. I really love him and I promise he s not like this all the time but right now i m really just staying with him because I won t be able to afford a place to stay on my own if I get custody of my son or not. And not to mention the costs of a divorce. I could really use some advice right now from bother a men and women prospective. Thank you guys.

Yesterday when I got home from work I found my husband sitting in his normal spot on the love seat. He was on his laptop like he normally is. Every now and then he'd pick up his phone then go back to typing something on his laptop. At one point I wanted to sit beside him so I moved his bag that was next to him and he all of a sudden closed off of a screen he was on. I thought that was strange so I got mad and asked him about it. He said that what he was working on he didn't want me to see. He feels that even in a marriage couples should have some privacy from each other. I don't think it was porn but it just bothered me to know that he's hiding something from me. Today I get home and again he's in his normal spot doing his usual thing. Every now and then he'll start typing then he'll stop. I got out the iron and ironing board and began getting my clothes together for work tomorrow and I asked him what was so secretive that he didn't want me to see. His response to me was, "well, considering that it's a secret why would I tell you?" It's bothering me that he won't tell me. No, I do not think that couples should have secrets from each other. How do you have a successful marriage if there's a wedge between you? Am I wrong to think that there should be no secrets in a marriage? Are couples even entitled to some privacy?

these people are already divorced and he moved out these people are already divorced and he moved out

My husband always puts me down everything I do is rubbish or pointless he tells me this every single day from my driving to my hoovering apparently I am rubbish at everything and that is his own words. It's impossible to have a conversation with him as he doesn't want to know he will happily reduce me to tears every day. I am suffering from depression now, I am pretty sure its down to the constant bashing of my self esteem, he tells me I'm crazy and there's something wrong with me but the truth is I believe everything he says I am a worthless piece of **** and I feel so depressed at the way he treats me that if it wasn't for my son I would happily fall off the face of the planet. I've tried tirelessly to talk to him asking him to stop yelling abuse at me when hes mad and to reframe from putting me down for everything and I mean everything he just dismisses me. maybe every few weeks I'll get 3 minutes on sex but it's only to stop me mentioning it and there's no other affection at any other time. He doesn't find me attractive I don't wear make up because he always makes a comment asking why I am dressing up so to avoid any confrontation I seem to live in jeans and wellies pasty plain face. The truth is he will always find away to put me down he likes me being miserable and insecure and he loves nothing more than to see me cry I honestly don't think there's anything I can do he won't entertain a conversation he thinks he's a great guy.

I want sex 3 times a day but I'm ok with every day. My husband wants it every 3 days and I F*CKING WANT TO KILL MYSELF! He has an extremely low libido and is not normal like me. I have had problems with him... he was too prude and it took a month after marriage before he could be comfortable banging. If I don't get enough sex I will force him using a rope or the help of my friends to make him do it.

I do it, but for some reason he has stopped. It s starting to feel hurtful.

A few years ago my ex husband and I began sleeping in separate rooms and one day i went into his room. I saw a picture of me upside down and in front of it, a glass of water, a french bread loaf with pins in it, pennies, and corn nuggets. Do you know what he was trying to do to me? Thank you!

So she can take kids on play-date or go to the gym. I have finally told her no. She acts pissy and seems to have no appreciation that I am the sole breadwinner. Is it normal for a wife to see how far she can push her husbands kindness or is she acting entitled and selfish?

My husband and I were together 6 years. We have a 2 year old son. He left me because I was insecure from previous cheating and I relied on him a lot because I lived hours from family to be with him. He never included me in things and in the past treated me quite bad but would tell me it was my fault and after time I began to believe it. Since he left me saying I was nothing but the mother of his child he turns up to collect our son and acts like it's fine. I tried to take the high Road and be civil despite it killing me inside and because I thought he was seeing somebody and I was panicking about a new woman being in my sons life I lied and said I was dating so it was ok to tell me. He said he wasn't but today has told me since I said I was dating he is seeing a friend of his sisters who has a daughter, is gorgeous, lovely figure, huge breasts and pretty much everything I am not. I feel like it was all my fault and when I spoke to him he said leaving me was easy. I'm completely crushed and miss him so much I am completely alone here but stay because of my job. Is he gone for good or is there still hope and how can somebody be fine after breaking up with you straight away? I'm so lost without him but can't move on seeing him 3 times a week.

I work with a bunch of high profile men that are good looking, rich, in shape, smart, and powerful and all of them are single. And then I look at my Facebook friends who dropped out of high school or work at mcdonalds or are drug dealers and all of them are married with kids or have a new woman they are having sex with every week.

I am still an A cup while pregnant and he talks about this girl his age who has a D cup and how gorgeous she is right in front of me. I have a small butt too and wish that I was a busty girl. Why does my husband do this? We got married while I was 10 weeks along. I have blonde hair and blhe eyes and so does he. Why does my husband do this? We got married after dating for 3 months.

His importance are nurturing and providing for his children, right? @anonymous: you're not even married.

My husband thinks it is ok to hang out with his brother's fiance and talk with her all day because "she is family". He acts like I am ridiculous for asking him to not speak to her unnecessarily and that they have no business hanging out. I don't care if they are friendly with each other and get along, I just don't think they need to be besties and hang out all day. Am I wrong and just being jealous? He is telling me I'm out of line and she is family so it's like "hanging out with his sister". His brother has only been with her for a year so it's not like we have known her forever or anything. It's really bothering me and we are fighting over it.

Lately he has been calling a number and I've asked him who it is and has told me it's a girl but says he only talks to her for business reasons. Long story short.. He has cheated on me once and I forgave him because we have 2 kids together. But I don't know it's very hard to trust someone after they have had an affair! I actually got her number and am planning to call her to find out who she is but don't know exactly how to start a conversation to get her name what should I ask her so I could find out who she is please help no rude comments 🙂

Hi! I live in New York and on our marriage certificate my husband's full middle name is listed while only my middle initial is listed. Will this create any conflict with matters in the future? Thank you!

What does it mean when a man is caught having a affair but still continues along with it and even went to marriage counseling but stopped counseling due to wife losing job? u think he loves this other woman? you think there is divorce in the future? She took him back once but will she continue to take him back again?

We ve been married for almost a year now and she still buys him deoderants, shower gel, boxer shorts and so on.. it kinda got to the point where I m OVERLY tired about it. It s not just that, she pushes EVERYTHING on us such as her old appliances- like a vacuum that doesn t work so good and a blender that s not working properly- she dumps kitchen utensils that I don t need at our apartment and i don t want it. She also bought us a couch without my approval and it s hard as a rock. I don t know what to do. I like her and I see how she s trying to help but in a way it s forceful and I want it to stop. My husband and I are in our middle 20 s and I would like for us to rely on each other not his mom always being there. I feel like I have no say in what can go in our apartment yet alone feeling like I m taking care of my husband, such as me buying deodorants and his cologne, not his freaking mom. We also lived with her for almost 8 months and even then she would try to clean and reorganize our room and I didn t like that. My husband told her to stop and she got upset and threw a tantrum. What do I do?? I don t want to push her away but I refuse to have her still taking care of my husband when not needed and deciding what our apartment needs plus buying us junk food when not asked for.

My friend is in a bad situation and I'd like to help but don't know how. My friend wants to leave her husband because he is emotionally abusive and won't keep a job but they have been together since she was 16. He never let her get a license, a job, or anything other than a GED. She needs to leave but has no resources to do so. . She is living in a trailer with no electricity or running water and he doesn't care that they do without.. I live in a one person camper with my husband and can't afford to let her move in without hurting myself financially and quite frankly we couldn't all fit. Anyway. With no income, no way to drive (she does have a car but no license) she is literally stuck with him. Women's shelters won't take her because she doesn't have kids and he doesn't hit her. Are there any programs that could help her get a license and a job or help her in anyway?

ever since she started breast feeding iv become hooked on her milk it all happened one day when i by accident took a slug of the bottles in the fridge thinking it was normal milk and i LOVED IT i find myself craving it yerning it stealing it from the fridge it TASTES so good help i might have to milk her in her sleep if this gets any more out of control and that would break the marriage HELP ME