I was with a guy about two years ago no we weren't in a relationship but we had sexual chemistry ...he used to tell me all the time he wanted to have sex with me badly because I was a curvier girl well a "big girl" and I would tell him if you just wanted to have sex with a "big girl" there are tons in the world why don't you find another one because I'm not having sex with you just because of my size and his response would be "you're the only big girl I want or I don't want those plus size girls I want sex with you.." and I never knew why that was his response every time ..I wasn't even that big I was about 200-210 lbs and he used to tell me how he always wanted sex with a bigger girl ... and how sex with me was going to feel so good

Me and my mom's relationship has been a rocky road. I suffer with a mental health disorder called pure ocd. I often obsess over things people say. Often they are trivial and unimportant, but this time she really hurt me. I'm a junior in high school and just started a new semester. My mom repeatedly asked me who I would sit with after I told her I met this girl(il call her sally)who seemed nice and sat with her. I asked her why she kept questioning me and she said because she worries about me in school because she knows I'm depressed a lot and wanted to make sure I liked who I sat by cuz it's my favorite part of the day. The next day, I sat with a different girl that I liked better than sally because she was rlly weird honestly. I told my mom this. I also brought up how it was silly for her to say she wanted to make sure I liked who I ate with with when I told her originally I liked Sally. I said how I had nice options on my first day, some of my other friends were there too. She said, not really, considering you sat with someone else on ur second day. I was like, what? Why is she trying to prove to me that I basically had no good friends at my lunch when she knows how insecure I am?

So, I like big girls and not huge women who ride around in scooters and weigh 500 lbs lol. Not even necessarily just thick. I'm not giving up on skinny women. Like I don't like fat girls because I gave up on skinny women. I just have my preference is all. I don't get turned on by skinny women which sounds strange. Plus, I think that it is genetic because my dad met my mom when she was fat, and pretty much every guy on my dad's side of the family is either married to or loves fat women. My grandpa was even a player. He used to have like five fat girls at once. Even, distant cousins lol. I remember going to homecoming and this fat girl ended up grinding on me and it felt so good. I remember a skinny girl grinding on me too, and it didn't feel as good.

do you think this girl is attractive? my friends and i can t decide. what would you describe her as like cute hot pretty or beautiful? why?? https://m.flickr.com/#/photos/147218857@N03/31718545844/

I've been going through a horrible time, I'm at a very low point in my life.. Ive lost 4 family members recently, along with my bestfriend who committed suicide weeks ago and my other friend who got killed in a car crash this weekend. My dear friend texted me checking on me as she knows the conditions I'm in. I told her how I don't want to be here anymore, how nothing feels worth it anymore.. She said "do I have to come kick your butt" Why did she say that? am I a bad person for feeling like this?

I work with this guy, he's 22 but very mature for his age. You'd really think he is older. I'm 27 and I have a boyfriend who I've been with for 5 years now who I live with. However this guy I work with I've been beginning to have feelings for. We go to the same gym and he's in such great shape, he's insanely hot. He's a really nice guy too and I think I'm really crushing on him. He was really nice to me at first but ever since I've started getting closer to him, starting showing him my interest towards him, he's backed off. Now he literally pays me 0 mind. Only when it's work related. He use to chat with me but now he barely ever does anymore. It upsets me so much and I don't know why. Can anyone help me out? I haven't talked to him at all about this either. Is it because I'm with someone?

For starters, I am a really shy individual. I'm alright looking but a little big. I always want to walk up to a girl and talk to her but as I'm about to do it I back out because I don't want to be creep. Do girls even like that sort of thing. I always feel like I would be a bother or they would be uninterested.

I think I really like my bestfriend. I always think about her, i smile everytime i see her or think of her, I ride for her and will do anything and beat up anyone who disrespects her in any way, she always keeps me calm even when im mad, shes funny, warm, smart, mean but sweet, and many more things that will take hours to say. But she has a boyfriend even though its long distance they still make it work good... idk what I should do with these feelings wether to just hide them forever or go for it. And she is amazingly beautiful and really sexy but ive never thought of her in a sexual way, mostly cause she has a million great qualities that keeps you interested.

I just posted a picture on snapchat and one of my guyfriends just sent me a message and said, "okay, I see you grinding."

she hangout in my room and kisses me to greet. ok maybe she likes me but she's only 11 like maddie. my 13 yo girlfriend thinks she's bad https://scstylecaster.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/screen-shot-2015-04-02-at-1-31-52-pm.png yes that's maddie. can 11 yo girl be bad?

This girl I apparently like sits next to me in class. I have trouble talking to her, because we just have like 2-3 minutes before class to talk. During class we're busy taking notes, and after class I have to rush to my next class. So I've just talked to her about general class stuff, that's all. What are some tips I can do to raise my chances? Like what specific things to talk about and all?

The problem is that sometimes when we argue, my girlfriend tends to get overwhelmed quickly and gets very emotional. She has told me before that she tries not to get like that, but every time a big argument arises (not very often) she wants to leave the house. When she tries to storm out, I get angry at the situation (not her) and anxious because I worry about her safety if she were to walk out in the middle of the night (I'm very protective of her). She gets irrational and nothing I tell her will change her mind, I even told her to take her phone with her at least but she is too busy crying and heading for the door. Last night, I had to get physical with her so that she wouldn't leave. I am not happy about that, but it's the only way to get her to realize she's not being rational and even then she would still try to fight me. I did not hit her, and never abused her, I just grabbed her to stop her from leaving. I feel terrible because the next morning while she was asleep, I noticed her arm and wrist had a small bruise. I would appreciate some advise on how to better handle this situation when they come up. We have talked about her behavior on cooler days, but once the fight emerges, it's like everything goes out the window. P.S. Other than this occasional fighting, we love and care for each other and we have been together for 3 years. We have never disrespected each other by calling names or anything.

So I met this girl in my college anatomy class, and we've gotten pretty close. We've literally been texting every day for the past 2-3 months, and I think she's really sweet and nice. She asked me to go see this scary movie with her next week, since none of her friends want to watch a scary movie. I happily agreed, because I'd love to hang out with her. Also, she said I was her favorite person yesterday. She's always asking me "what time are you coming to school", so I come early so we can talk and hang out. I think she's a really cool girl, just don't know if she likes me like that.

This guy and I were picking with each other. He said he was good at everything. Well tonight he lost his basketball game so I walked up to him he hugged me tight and the neck for what seemed like forever. So I whispered in his ear "when you find what you are good at, let me know" he stepped back with a huge smile on his face. His face was blood red. He tried to hold my hand when he was doing this and he said "girl you aren't right" then he left laughing. What did he think I meant?

Can you please tell me what you think?

this guy i like said he wants to date me but doesnt wanna be in a relationship but whenever my friends are talking baout me getting a boyfriend he makes gestures to him but like its his doing. So i think he needs to make up my mind but I dont know how to comfront him

Me and this guy are seniors in high school and he s never seemed to take interest in me until a few days ago when I posted a picture of me and my dance best friend doing splits on Snap Chat. He admitted it to me that he thought it was hot and he asked me to start a streak with him. We be been snapping every night and all he can seem to talk about are my long, nice legs and all of the bad things he wants to do to me (in VERY explicit detail). The strange thing about him is that he never has talked to me in person, and he s tried to make himself a few times but chickened out and resorted to staring at me instead. He s this really popular guy who sleeps around a lot and flirts with a lot of girls in person, but I feel like he s kind of scared to talk to me in person. Any ideas on why this may be?

I m pretty sure she doesn t know my name, either. I think approaching her now when school is almost over would be the wrong move. What can I do to introduce myself? We also had an event today, and ofcourse, she sat right behind me. So what did I do? I didn't say anything. Please help.

I got to know a new friend. She said she will sleep with anyone once they have a professional job and lots of money. She has dated a string of ugly men from internet friends and says she targets the ugliest of them as they are desperate and willing to pay more money for her. She says she makes men pay for everything all the time. She says she can sleep with any ugly man, she doesn't ever have feelings and just thinks about their wallets and what they can do for her financially. She dropped out of high school and works in a shop and can't even write correctly in English. Why do you think she is like this?

His brothers wife came to me asking that her husband which is my bf older brother for 500 dollars I asked her why he needed the money and she said his sister in Mexico needed the money but my bf does not know and I don't know if I should tell him or not I don't want him to feel humiliated you know

I remembered the amazing night of Prom before I graduated high school. The venue was so nice and it was amazing. What really made most of the night was my beautiful date. She looked so beautiful that night. When she came into my house for pre-Prom pictures, I was astonished by how beautiful she was and hugged her. When we got to the venue and took pictures, I would put my arm around her and bring her close to me. I do not know why, but I got a really hard erection when being near her that night. Through other girls I have been with, I never have gotten one before. My date just happened to give me a hard one that night. What could this mean? Am I in love or just amazed of how beautiful she was? Why is it her in particular that gives hard erections, but not other girls? What does this mean?

So this guy and I have only been seeing each other for a month. We are both 20 years old. He recently came out of a relationship, so I was perfectly content taking things slow with him. But that also meant that we weren't going to be sleeping with each other until and IF he was ready to commit (just a personal rule of mine). Well, anyways, we were just hanging out last night, when one of my shirt's buttons came undone. I laughed and said, "When your boobs are too big to fit properly in any shirts." To which he replied, "You should really consider getting a breast reduction." He claimed it was a joke, but it really didn't feel like a joke. Maybe I'm sensitive, but his "joke" sort of hurt my feelings (I'm a massive baby, I know). I voiced this to him and he got angry, told me I had a terrible sense of humor, and left. I tried calling him today to find that I have been blocked. I checked social media, and sure enough, blocked, blocked, blocked. What happened? Why did he end things so abruptly after such a minor blip?

So I like a guy in my class, but there's one problem. I am being taken out of the last unit of that class, as this coming week will be my last week in that class. As if that isn't bad enough, the guy I like is in the year above me so I probably won't have another chance to talk to him after this week. I want to try to find a at to talk to him before the week is over, and possibly get his # or something like that, but I am terrible with this kind of stuff. Does anybody have an idea for what I could say. I haven't really talked to him before so idk what to say. Also, if it helps at all, one of his good friends sits at my table in that hour. Thanks for the advice:)

I'm a 20 year old female. Because I know someone is going to claim I am "ugly" or "fat," I can affirm that I am actually very attractive and that my body is on the fit, but curvier side. I rent my own apartment near school. I volunteer with autistic children and work in the hospital. I am studying Biology and intend on applying to medical schools next year. I am very busy, but as the chaos settled over my holiday break, I really took notice of how darn single I am. I started to think it was because I have been so busy, but most of my Pre-Med (and even Med) school friends are in serious relationships, engaged, and even married. They have found love, even through all of the hectic times. I have been told that I am intimidating to approach (partially thanks to my apparent resting b*tch face), but people always say that they end up being pleasantly surprised by how kind I actually am. I feel hopeless because I don't even seem to be attracting any men, let alone men that I am attracted to. Why am I not attracting men? How do I fix this?

I was sitting in a café near my home today - giving a class - I'm a language teacher and this man came to talk to me asking for classes. Well, turns out he's an extremely gentlemanly widower. I gave him a one hour class and he told me his life story. I'm 54, single for a few years, look in my early 40s and slim and quite shy, though I still get asked out a lot (I guess I'm lucky). Well, I've just been trying to get over a disappointing experience dating a man of my own age for a couple of months. Now, I find myself drawn to this 77 year old and I'm shocked! He's in great shape, slim as I like them, looks no more than 70. He's asked for another class and as he was leaving he looked at me and complimented what I was wearing. He was also very complimentary of the people form my country - I'm European. Well, do you think he has romantic notions? Would this be nuts to try out? I mean could it even work with a guy of this age?

So yesterday I went on a date with this guy and after we finished lunch we walked and sat on this cement type thing in sort of a private area. We started making out. And when we pulled away I layed my head down on his shoulder and put my arms around him and then I looked down and he was casually moving his arm over to his crotch and didn t move it. I think I know what happened but maybe it was me just being stupid and assuming.

instead of just seeing her for the day he wants nothing to do with her during the day (play, feed, help with anything) I do all that but at night he says he wants to put her to bed. he spoons with her and if I go in the bedroom he tells me to leave and he'll be in our room later, when I bring up why he doesn't play with her during the day and why I'm not allowed near the room at night he says because "i try to wake her up" and gets defensive. what should I do? none of this seems innocent.

I was watching some of my friends play basketball, this guy I like played after my friends. He asked me to stay after their game and cheer him on? Why would he do that??

I'm a very unattractive guy and I barely have friends. Is it weird that I go to a club solo to practice hitting on girls?If so, where are some places I can practice hitting on girls? I know this sounds desperate, but one of my biggest regrets is not asking out girls in high school so I don't know how girls would respond if I asked them out. Its annoying because not ever asking girls out left me always wondering I tried dating websites, but girls seem to be picky about looks on those sites. So, where can I go and practice hitting on girls in person?

Today I went to the parts department at the Ram dealership and when I got to the cashier's counter a girl behind the counter was looking at me. Then she told her co-worker that she had to go to the bathroom. Then she walked in front of me and was looking at me. Then she went to some drink area to the left of me and it looked ike she was looking at me. Then I guess she went to the bathroom. When I left she was at the drink area again and I walked past her and I noticed that she was looking at me but I didn't look at her. We never said anything to eachother. I thought she was kind of cute. I feel like I should have said something to her and that I missed an opportunity. I feel like going back there and talking to her. Should I? I kind of feel like a dick for not looking at her when I left. I am not good at reading girls.

So my friends brother is cute. I have a crush on him..I made out with a guy at w party and I saw him leave...the next party we had, he was really drunk and tried to kiss me...I walked away..he came back from the marines , he was really rude to me when I saw him? He tried to kiss me again..I pretended like I didn notice and moved away...I then asked him to go out for coffee and he said no...what should I do? Move on?

I like Italians at the moment!! Warning is subjected to change xD

I crossed paths with a guy at work and he said "oh are you getting your steps in?" And I said "oh yeah, I've been all over the building today' and he said "don't stop! Go Go go! Keep it up." And made little running motions.  I don't know if he was trying to be playful or if he didn't want me to stop walking and have a conversation with him.   I over analyze everything.  I am 5 foot 4, 117 pounds, with long blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm only 23 and he's 40.

1st this guy always hugs me around the neck. Always, and it last for a while but tonight was different. We hugged for what seems like forever. Then when we let go, he was blushing, smiling real big and then he tried to hold my hand....does he like me more than a friend? is this flirting?

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So he's a pretty insecure guy. Understandably so because he has been betrayed, and has seen friends and family get betrayed in the past, so he does have trust issues. Also some commitment issues. We're young--both 18. I've said and done some dumb **** in the past that hasn't helped his insecurity. I said a couple weeks ago, "I don't care if I don't look good because it's mostly girls who work there" (while he and I were talking about how I have to wear a hat for work and I don't look good in hats; I definitely worded that the wrong way though). Then today we have an English class together, and some guy tried to talk to me, I avoided him, but another guy kept looking at me and I looked at him a few times (no eye contact). I do look at people, I notice everyone. I'll stare at anyone who looks mysterious or weird or ANYTHING. I do admit that at my old job, I did look at this guy who worked there I would check him out I guess. But I stopped and I don't even work there anymore. All I know is my boyfriend is important to me, but he's so insecure that he thinks an open relationship would be good. I don't want either of us seeing other people. Looking at someone isn't wrong, it's human nature. But it's human nature to know right from wrong and how to control yourself. I love and respect my boyfriend; i don't know what to do. He also thinks it's silly to be so committed at our age, and he thinks young love it like pointless. :/ I just feel so stupid for looking at this guy in class. the guy stared at me first and he sat in front so i definitely see in my peripheral vision. I kept looking because the guy was being weird looking at me and I don't feel comfortable with 2 guys in the class hitting on me or just staring at me. He also thinks it's silly to be so committed at our age, and he thinks young love it like pointless. :/ I just feel so stupid for looking at this guy in class. the guy stared at me first and he sat in front so i definitely see in my peripheral vision. I kept looking because the guy was being weird looking at me and I don't feel comfortable with 2 guys in the class hitting on me or just staring at me. I don't like the thought of an open relationship with my boyfriend. He thinks it could be best so he can control his jealousy/insecurity in himself. Are there any other ways we can work on his insecurity that doesn't involve this open relationship??? I can't imagine him with another girl, and I would never want another guy.